Women Were Groomed To Like Men

[@purevenus6359]

They are not the prince charmings we were brought up believing. Not in looks, not in personality, nor in hygiene and not in character either.

[@shakararolle836]

Throw thee entire gender away at this point

[@kantik2118]

Louder please. Did you notice how nasty their real characters are? And how dirty they are? They don't even bother to clean themselves for women 😐🤢

[@admar6934]

@purevenus6359 if you believe in prince charming than you need to wake up and face reality and stop comparing real life with Disney characters

[@suselperez2409]

In adulthood it changes to ‘God has a plan for me’ instead of ‘I have a plan for my life’.

[@Theimmure]

@@admar6934It’s almost like you can’t read

[@Singleuntilmarried]

I have noticed moms who favor sons over daughters are also the biggest pick mes. Always need that male validation

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

They are the Gate keepers of patriarchy and up holding male propaganda. Just like Aunt Lydia from the HandMaid's Tale

[@jrmetmoi]

Oh of course they are

[@88QueenOfHearts]

Mine is 😒

[@makumaku1616]

@@88QueenOfHearts mine too

[@kki2694]

Facts on facts. They be doing it when you be young moreover, but now you know why 😂

[@Ms_Introvert_4_Life]

Many many more women are going to get a wake up call... Especially the ones running around here hollering I've been happily married for such and such years, etc etc.

[@Whoisthatns]

😂😂😂

[@the8thchurch461]

Those women need to listen to REDPILL content to know what these ignorant people think of them. They are not worth it

[@Chloebushwa]

Men are groomed to like men

[@sammich-lp2qm]

Girl, all of their husbands are in other women’s DMs The only reason they haven’t been caught is because the women don’t feel the need to look. They know if they look, they’re going to find something.

[@religion-free]

YEHP

[@Blgenx]

🪄The spell is BROKEN 🪄 I am the Fairytale 💃🏼💯👑🌺🦋🛁🧚🏻💅🏻💼👛 4B !All love sisters 💚🩵💙💜 Princess Charming 👸🏻👸🏼👸🏽👸🏾

[@yudollia]

Princess charming!!! Love it.

[@sammich-lp2qm]

Yep! They don’t deserve most of us!

[@OceanisInfinite]

Exactly!!! More women need to wake up.

[@mesayingthings7063]

i feel emotionally and sexually homeless as a straight woman. my heart and body wants men that either don't exist or never existed. reality is mourning. for all the light we give, what is there given back.

[@Blgenx]

Unfortunately usually absolutely nothing is given back and more is taken than ur soul can afford to lose. Please pour ur time, energy and intentions into ur self. It’s not selfish, it’s finding true Peace ☮️ and what makes you happy. Safe travels sister 🌺🦋

[@nothereyetlost]

Sweetie, the qualities which you seek are in women.

[@ClaireGreen-wd2gm]

I understand that feeling. I never even had a dad around. Real world men are more like clowns and monsters than the heros from books and movies that colored my ideas as a child of what men should be. Now days I stay safe and stay away from the real life men and just have made my peace with the fact that the good man is only in a fantasy fiction book like a mythical creature. 😅

[@Wewereneveryoung]

"Don't wake up a woman in love. Let her dream, so that she does not weep when she returns to her bitter reality" - Mark Twain

[@Blgenx]

@@Wewereneveryoung Excellent, thank you.

[@fantasia19]

🎉🎉🎉🎉 BOOM! The truth and as a woman I am HERE for this !!!! With men forcing women into submission it shows they know this already 🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

[@janellecupid1869]

I think women need to greave the love on tv that would never be and they would finally get over it.

[@angelface333]

THIS 🙌🏾✨

[@ClaireGreen-wd2gm]

Im sad for that lady telling her ex cheating and leaving story. She sounds like such a sweet person. Youd never catch me letting a mistress talk down to me on the phone. I hope when this lady gets past some of her grief she will realize shes grieving a man who never even existed. Her husband was never who she thought he was and shes gonna be better without him

[@StefanTaf]

so true

[@5und43]

It sounds like he landed a narcissist, though. He's gonna go crawling back once it turns on him and he's the subject of all that mocking and vitriol that had been previously directed at his wife and children. 😂

[@redgoddess]

This!!! The mistress will get the same guy who f'd with the wife and she will probably experience the same disrespect from the next mistress.

[@EuphemiaWisdom]

Yes, this is true. Once you see it, you can't unsee it. Movies, TV, and media is tailored to paint a picture of men as better than they are; while also degrading women. So, many movies portray the woman as being uptight, and difficult while portraying the man as boyish, laid back and fun all this while he is actually irresponsible and selfish. I am glad that women are waking up to the mind control and raising standards. Unfortunately it seems that men prefer the illusion and want to be seen as being heroic with integrity without actually having integrity or words and actions that are heroic.

[@ak-47intelligence75]

This is exactly why many dark secrets these men have been hiding in the back burner for decades are being revealed one by one nowadays. It's all a game of smokes and mirrors. Nothing is real.

[@martaleszkiewicz5115]

Underrated comment

[@genevieveaniko6492]

They fell for the media portrayal of themselves as well. I constantly run into males who legitimately believe that they are inherently good people.. Even when their actions and character proves otherwise. They suffer from cognitive dissonance.

[@the8thchurch461]

Movies, TV and media painting a picture of men as better than they are while degrading women? Include religion in there as well

[@EuphemiaWisdom]

@@genevieveaniko6492 💯

[@nothereyetlost]

Ladies please send this far and wide.

[@RedDeadReverie]

I knew I was attracted to girls since I was 6, but I felt like I was a freak for having those feelings. Being taught that heterosexual relationships were the default and “normal” screwed me up.

[@olikah4667]

Same!!

[@AyAReI00]

Throw in that religious mother than tell you that you will burn in hell for beinf gay 😅 .... Yeah i finally accepted im bi 😂 ... Women are so nice

[@h8h215]

@@RedDeadReverie it is the default and normal, how did you react when you understood s3x and how babies were born? That must of been equally difficult.

[@RedDeadReverie]

@@h8h215 I wasn’t able to accept my sexuality until after high school but my family can’t know still. Between homophobia and pressure to fulfill a woman’s “role” in life, it was very difficult and sad.

[@catcat9582]

Elderly women are always proud when they find out my younger sister rejects men left and right. They all say good they aren't worth a dime All the ladies men of our generation want us to be more like. 🤨😬

[@h8h215]

@@catcat9582 im more interested later on down the road when she does accept someone then he screws her around then leaves, wonder what the elderly will say then.

[@trulykey8106]

They will say, "We told you they weren't worth a dime. Why you didn't listen?" Duhh

[@h8h215]

@@trulykey8106 you all fall prey to your needs 😏 this is a win for men, because we are no longer your retirement plan we dont have to put up with all the nagging that comes with you all, life is bliss and s3x is plenty.

[@toscadonna]

I watched an old movie from 1946 yesterday called, “Till The End of Time” where 4 guys come home from WWII with problems. It was such gaslighting. These guys started acting up, but they eventually “changed” and became good men. That just doesn’t happen in real life. The male experiences one setback, and they give up. They start abooosing the women around them and ride the women through life like a mule.

[@SM-ws5ub]

That's why they want younger women because they know other men are responsible for ruining 'older' women.

[@angelface333]

it’s sick.

[@Cateyes767]

Yep

[@religion-free]

YEP. that's why she's considered "ran through" it's BY OTHER MEN! USED, by other men! "mileage" put on by OTHER MEN wake up!

[@h8h215]

​@@religion-freeaccepted by the woman, men will have s3x with women regardless of body count but they are unworthy of commitment as they because worse partners. Oxytocin released from women after s3x with different partners is less and less meaning pair bonding becomes inceasing difficult for women.

[@OSHINISSPICY]

Aye check this out I just looked up some facts about lionesses and it also says “Male lions have also been known to get aggressive and kill lionesses for refusing to mate.” Interesting..

[@nephtalie5889]

Oh my gosh. I just research this and it’s true😮

[@h8h215]

@@OSHINISSPICY interesting, let me try this a different way, if the females leave the males are the females more safe or less safe?

[@aysyaw6038]

I believe I heard that male dolphins stalk a grape female dolphins...I think sharks or orcas do to. My mind was blown because I thought dolphins were gentle creatures. There was literally just a story that came out about how the male angler fish latches and darn near melts into to the female angler fish when he finds one. Their body's and insides literally become one overtime. Soo weird, it's wild out here.

[@dantayhylton9938]

Everytime i was dating a guy i try to 😅 find the best thing about him. But from experience i have never found men attractive, and my friends would always say something is wrong with me because I dont date 🙃 or see what i was winning when i was in a relationship with them. I even thought something was wrong with me until 😂 i watch these videos and realize that im not alone.

[@mariabrown6926]

I agree, most men are in fact ugly 😂

[@kantik2118]

Same here. That's why I've always picked the most charismatic ones. At least you'll have beautiful kids 'cause there's nothing else you can get from them 🥴😅

[@dantayhylton9938]

@@kantik2118 loool 😆

[@xletragedyx]

​@kantik2118 lmao. I divorced my ex husband because even though we would have made beautiful babies, I knew I couldn't trust him with them unsupervised. Man was a whole idiot. A big, handsome dummy 😅

[@the8thchurch461]

You are not alone e dearest. Stay safe.

[@hmmmbrilee]

I think a better word for it is "conditioned," and yes I agree.

[@kassd4169]

Oh gosh, I feel bad for the lady who got cheated on. she did not deserve that. 😥

[@CultureCritic17]

it's just servitude

[@idreadFell365]

Lots of anime has male power fantasy, this contributes to the glorification of men. Little girls (not in all cases of course but) watching media that mostly comprises of women being helpless and in need of protection from a men subconsciously induces learned helplessness in gals. “If that’s the norm then I guess I’ll just fill that role.” some anime fans idealized version of a woman is a stereotypical woman seen in from anime. On the other end of the spectrum, gals in anime are depicted to be unreasonable as hell and too emotional to make the right call. How women are portrayed in anime is internalized in both genders whether they realized or not.

[@KurosakiLuvar01]

These are the only men I like; Video games and anime nighas. I date them in my head. 😂😂💖💖💖 Kiryu Kazuma is the perfect man and if they ain’t him I don’t want himmmm 🗣️🗣️🗣️💖💖💖💯

[@idreadFell365]

@@KurosakiLuvar01 だめだね 💀

[@IrisDel-qo8xi]

That's why I love Hayao Miyazaki's works . There are strong ,brave and wise female characters in his movies.

[@h8h215]

@@IrisDel-qo8xi so you all want to become men? Why do you think men should date you if he is attracted to feminine women? Why do you ladies hate femininity so much?

[@JuniperGal-ek2pu]

Not to mention shonen treating every one of its female characters like sex objects while the male characters are empowered and treated like 3D characters. This is very bad programming for boys and young men.

[@hardcandy71287]

10:29 i wish she could see that he is with that awful woman because he is an awful man. he found someone who matches his energy. she should be thankful this it's over. she'll heal in time.

[@PrincessPowerranger]

Why do they sell Ken dolls? I understand when its a gift set where there is a Barbie and Ken, but why are we teaching little girls to even in their playtime have to consider marriage?

[@NicholsKT]

As a doll collector, many of us enjoy Ken/male dolls because in our dollyverses, they are idealized versions of males.

[@h8h215]

@@NicholsKT which would also be true when you look at barbie right?Do you think the idealized version of barbie is to be masculine or feminine?

[@h8h215]

@@PrincessPowerranger because it is normal and required for men and women to get along and procreate.

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

When my daughter was into Barbie, we never got her a Ken doll and she wasn’t interested. A couple family members got her a few over the years and they were always left in the toy box. 😂😂

[@oliviagore7067]

It's so true. That was such a stumbing block when I was figuring out who I am. Like wait a minute.. I dont even care for them like that😂 I realized that if I were with a man, he would end me.

[@nothereyetlost]

Yeah I know. I never bought into the brainwash and it really seemed and I’ve never been traumatized. I thought I was weird. I tried having see several times, I hated it and I NEVER let them finish 😂 bc I was like if I’m not enjoying YOU won’t enjoy.

[@sibria]

it's just physicality i like the most with them but i really dgaf about them like that either.

[@the8thchurch461]

My interest in men NEVER existed because of my father. Through no fault of his own he couldn't provide for us because of the trauma he suffered from the war. I just never got it, the fascination with the XX.

[@bfns2353]

​@@sibriathis is exactly how most men feel about women secretly. Just wanna use women for sex and they can't stand anything else about women

[@h8h215]

@@sibria i think its the same with men today, they will have s3x with women but not so much the commitment, i think men and women are less compatible as partners in these modern times, we simply dont like each other enough.

[@TM-nb9zf]

I feel so bad when women don't understand that years with a man means absolutely nothing when they want to cheat. I've had men DM me that were in 15 to 20 year marriages. I'm always tempted to tell their poor wives. But I don't wanna be the cause of a bad reaction

[@luxbeauty4952]

You should tell them and let them make the decision

[@catcat9582]

She could get hurt by a pickme

[@catcat9582]

The man could hurt her

[@tuinfarto608]

I bet the wives wouldn't leave if you did tell them

[@the8thchurch461]

I have had a man I shared a house with, wink at me a whole year after living with him and his girlfriend.

[@FindYourFree]

definitely had to be grooming because their endearing qualities are in the floor. I loved her, wish we could see her Tiktok name

[@tamiausten873]

They always say women are attracted to what they hear, meanwhile men typically have nothing interesting to say 😂😂. And they say men are drawn by what they see as if we women are blind. When I used to watch corn, I was drawn to videos with women on the thumbnail because women look better in general. I tried looking for men that matched the women in over all beauty but they are scarce. Anyway, I'm happy to be sober from my previous addiction, it's tiring to watch that stuff when I actually don't w@nk at all

[@Witchywoodwoman]

This is what I also realized some years ago. Although I think, it's also that everyone is being groomed to seek "serious relationships" and for women this grooming comes most of the time with fairy tale glitter. There are some men I like as friends, but even that is very rare. But the idea of someone living with me 24/7? No thanks! I can just encourage everyone to learn about matriarchy, what it actually means, not just some weird fantasy or projection of men. I also think that women are grommed to see men as better as themselves in everything, to look up to them, to forgive them all the time (even the most horrible things), to be understanding with men, praise them for the tiniest success and so on, while it's almost the opposite when it comes to how everyone is groomed to treat women. At least most of the time in most places of the world. For some reason I got rid of that and it was never that strong, but it seems that this irritates people. I mean, men are just people, women are just people, all human beings are just people. 🤷‍♀

[@Chloebushwa]

Maybe men are groomed after nature ( SHOWS). Women are not what they are said to Be. They cause more stress destroy the minds of children. The male is eaten and he's the parasite the gives all his energy and he's the parasite. What about wolves what about bumblebees the males guards the nest . And honey bees and ants when they run out sperm they just die.

[@GoldenDIY]

Oh my gosh this is so true! My friends are women, I prefer talking with them, and I like doing things women do. I've never been serious friends with men. Movies and romantic songs groomed me to like them. BUT, I did/do find a lot of them looked physically cute and attractive. I'm very independent so I didn't need them to do things for me. My liking of them is mostly superficial and I was groomed to like them.

[@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830]

Absolutely we are. Once i learned about male nature from Princella it all made sense and i cant unsee it.

[@h8h215]

@@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830 well this might be useful if women start learning our nature, at least then you want go into a relationship with high / unrealistic epectations.

[@angelicarcturianmessagesan2830]

@@h8h215 I personally dont date men at all anymore. No thanks im good. 👍

[@Nativecurls]

Girl same, Princella opened my eyes and confirmed what I had thought since my teens

[@h8h215]

@@Nativecurls rollo tomassi opened my eys to female nature, guess were all dissapointed.

[@Nativecurls]

@@h8h215 Ah! we're indeed

[@sibria]

We definitely were brainwashed to believe we're supposed to find that prince charming who most of the time doesn't even exist. Curse those movies and songs.

[@tamiausten873]

That's why I like Shrek so much. The orge changes for the woman he wants (maybe it's not the best he can do but he's one male character that adjusted to accommodate another person instead of the onus being on Fiona). And we see the villains have a life, not just stains that need to be stamped out. Also, the princess isn't just a perfect skinny girl, she has her "flaws" . We also see what Disney doesn't show, the "forever after", how the in-laws react, external and internal issues threatening to ruin the relationship and the baby issues.

[@olikah4667]

But there’s no equivalent for young boys when it comes to Disney films.

[@sibria]

@@tamiausten873 that may be the only example of the man changing for the woman.

[@sibria]

@@olikah4667 exactly, it’s all targeted towards little girls and it’s bs

[@sibria]

@@olikah4667 exactly, it’s targeted towards little girls and it’s bs

[@amy-avnas]

I don't think we're "groomed" to like men as women. I think we are taught what somebody decided is the "Idealized version" of what a man is suppose to be and also what an "Idealized version" of what a woman is supposed to be.

[@Chloebushwa]

So her explamples of nature comes from Media witch she says is to groom women

[@h8h215]

@@amy-avnas and these idealized versions have worked for thousads of years, ever since feminism came about women wanted out of being idealized but still want to hold men to that idealized version.

[@lain5858]

​@@h8h215 Do you mean everything was perfect when woman were slaves?

[@h8h215]

@@lain5858 men were slaves too, we are slaves to each other, reason why society is collapsing is because people are choosing to opt in to independent, individualistic mindsets. If you want to talk about the morality of any situation we can do that, but all we would end up with is idividualism / hedonism because anything a person does by force is ultimately immoral however we need immoral behavior like disciplining children to build a functioning society. Women talk about wanting a god fearing man, religion in itself holds alot of immoral teachings and principles yet these things are necessary to keep people in check, as long as our immoral actions can be justified in relation to a functioning society there is no problem, for example killing someone in self defence if you life is in danger, its immoral to kill but we can justify the action that society has accepted.

[@Emptytopfloor]

The zig is NOT up in any manner. There are more pickmes and there will be more pickmes. The zig shall continue. 🙄

[@afrikanjamaicangrl2077]

@@Emptytopfloor you tell no lies

[@misspriss2482]

Good. Dusties can move on to them and leave the rest of us alone. 😂😂

[@dantayhylton9938]

Exactly and that's why we suffer 😪 😔 so hard because we tell them what's up and they hate us ,yes! Us for helping them.

[@RapistsDeserveTheGuillotine]

Not trying to be rude, but did you mean jig?

[@Whoisthatns]

It’s jig what are you saying

[@saharkhalili5303]

Her ex husband was a wimp deep down and wanted a psycho woman to expend all her energy to control him. Gross

[@luxbeauty4952]

I don’t understand the story of this one

[@jrmetmoi]

Did he want a dominatrix without having to spend the money on one?

[@dominikamestrovic7663]

​@@jrmetmoi😂

[@Egg_Apron]

​@@jrmetmoi you have no idea how many men put their hidden k1nks on women.

[@angelface333]

literally 😭

[@PrincessPowerranger]

The second womans story broke me, where is her emotional justice. She was excited to love him, but his momentary flaw (actually his true nature) came through. Her God sees her tears and her ancestors will take care of him, wipe those tears sweetheart and teach your daughter to DECENTER MEN

[@thesovereignwoman]

Love u girl!!!! Keep up the great work!!❤

[@Singleuntilmarried]

@@thesovereignwoman I love seeing you support other women too on here ❤️❤️❤️

[@MariaDavids]

Thank you so much!! Queen

[@ineedhoez]

I say this with all the love in the world... women need to toughen up. Our codependency issues are destroying us. If you want a man, get a man that does exactly what you want, whenever, at all times. If it's not about you, walk. Become the narcissist. Become the taker. If he doesn't meet your needs, discard him. We gotta be hard core gangsters about ensuring that our needs are met. I can empathize what what these women are experiencing but it's difficult because I don't tolerate this bs. If my husband had his side chick call me, I'd tell her congratulations and then block both of them

[@user-br3ty9rt1m]

I totally believe this personally. I had very few crushes growing up, and once I saw their real personalities, those feelings quickly changed. Now that I know the truth, I have no interest in any of them at all. My focus is on myself and my community of other women.

[@osmosisjones4912]

Queen ants&Bees die when they run. Out of Sperm male lions don't hunt because their giving all their zinc potassium glucose hormones to the lionesses

[@bizzyg5751]

That's why my sister's mentor, a man, tells people, female and male, to create the world they want, don't just live in other people's worlds. You literally do not have to be smarter than everybody else, you just have to outsmart 85% percent of people and the rest follows. Passively create the world you want. That's what Walt Disney did, and look at the world he had even a short time after his death. Hitler took the aggressive path, and how did that turn out (overall, not bad for him for way too long). Men *and women* (pick mes) are out there creating the world they want, and it isn't a world that is in favor for the majority of girls and women.

[@digimonalvatrax2738]

They also instill in young girls everything she must learn to do for her husband another man. It's SO CREEPY

[@بشیرنعمانی]

Well this programming doesn't just effect girls. It effect boys too. like one of my dudes after just he started dating said: my girl is kinda gross she poops .😳 Of course she poops everybody poops. wtf bro 😂😂😂

[@osmosisjones4912]

How come looking at pets and Even at the zoo Even on safari I see females animals rubbing on the males that of don't wanna 🤬 while this video says its exposing media propaganda .by using examples from media

[@shans1986]

For the Woman in blue. If his cirrent misttress is that cruel to you now,, she"ll' be that cruel and more to him oneday. Right now_ he's in it for the wild ride but it will end. Don't take him back. Instead,l go on, living your best life! Guaranteed, Ive seen it haopen over and over again.

[@monamy690]

Yes! In nature males are subordinate to the females, including and not limited to horses and bears.

[@Chloebushwa]

When accustomed to millions of years of privilege thousands of year of equity feel like oppression

[@h8h215]

Tell that to a lion.

[@monamy690]

@@h8h215 female lions run the pride...

[@osmosisjones4912]

​@@monamy690 the male is the battery

[@Jessica-go6cy]

Some say that grooming can reproduce heteronormative gender roles and heterosexual appeal, which is informed by a heteronormative imperative. This is especially true in Japanese conceptions of normative masculinity. However, scholars of masculinity in Japan have also called for a better understanding of how women co-construct and reinforce norms and ideals of masculinities.

[@Chloebushwa]

Men also groomed to like women

[@chattingwithjojo]

I test rather I actually like a man by wrapping up his personality traits as if he were a woman. I ask myself "if this were a woman, would I be friends with them" (my friendship standards are high lol) the answer is usually no lol

[@StefanTaf]

✨4b✨

[@olikah4667]

It’s 5b now. The 5th b is for not speaking to men 😂 I love my S.Korean feminists ❤🎉

[@talkingtochapri]

I have a fantasy in my head as well, but I am aware it not reality 🤭😂

[@TheDivineblessin]

That ex husband will soon come back begging then she will have the opportunity to reject him that’s KARMA 🙏🏽 hope she will heal from this pain😢

[@Chloebushwa]

So karma of what hasn't happened yet accept in your own imagination. Seems her existing pain is Karma

[@purplelove3666]

No such thing as karma

[@nebbbship]

All facts

[@بشیرنعمانی]

To be honest they really __ed up everyone. They give little girls the prince charming fantasy and give little boys innocent princess fantasy. Thankfully i grew up watching sherk 😂😂😂.

[@purplelove3666]

No they give the boys bob the builder,and muscled heroes , which they will never become lol for example,superman

[@بشیرنعمانی]

@@purplelove3666 all I'm trying to say is both genders from childhood were told that world is just nice and fine place which every grown adult knows it isn't. And it makes sense to because why would you tell 10 year old about genocide or rape or whatever __ed up sh_t that happens in the world. So of course they get brian washed i mean unless they're from Palestine which I'm really from.

[@purplelove3666]

@@بشیرنعمانی what you wrote did not make any sense

[@بشیرنعمانی]

@@purplelove3666 can you expand upon that because your beginning to lose me.

[@sammich-lp2qm]

I hear so many men talking about they’re gonna withhold secs and marriage and this that and the third, but there are stars and only fans making millions of dollars in a year. Their salary is covered by men of all statuses.

[@h8h215]

Withhold s3x? Really? Commitment sure but s3x, absolutly not there are way too many desperate women out there offering themselves up freely for me to decline.

[@sammich-lp2qm]

I guess I should have been more clear, Maria. One only fans 18 y/o made 50 million in one year! Does that not bother anyone else? Can ppl understand the magnitude of that number and what it entails? That mean many men that probably have children and women tied to them yet, they take money out of the home for ExS workers! Wake the eff up ladies!

[@nikicarrie4071]

Yes

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

9:15 there is no way that man would’ve gotten out of my sight without a mark on him. That phone would’ve been smashed across that face so fast. I just can’t even. I such a wish a motgerfucker would type person no man would try me in that way. Now they have tried in other ways and got me good. But never again! I finally separated from my abuser and life hasn’t been better. I am living my absolute best life in my mid 40s. It’s better than in my 20s. I’ve got my two kids, my amazing house and peace! So much peace. I hope my ex finds someone soon and leave me alone. It sounds like her husband had no respect for her at all. He was using her as she seems like a doormat. That she is crying about this because she’s still hurt and not seething because he’s a a sack of garbage and not at all the man she thought shows how tender hearted she is. He wanted a “bad bitch” and only used the good wife for what she could provide for him. Her ex and his new woman are both terrible people and they deserve each other. In time this lady will heal and find her own peace and she will know a life better than she ever imagined.

[@galaxyqueen8835]

I regret ever watching, liking songs and movies about love when I was younger. I teach my daughter to not take love songs too seriously.

[@h8h215]

Nice, break your daughters dreams just because you dont know how to get along with men 👏 this is why single mothers are the worst, you produce hateful children.

[@kimmycookie3]

Lmao this is kinda ... idk... dumb 😂😂 There are plenty of animals that mate for life just as there are plenty of other species who they reproduce and move on. However I'm pretty sure wolves, elephants, or any other species that stay together are aren't here. watching Disney movies Side note that poor women who was cheated on broke my heart

[@veganbutterfly3652]

How can i find the first lady's channel if she has one?

[@XXXXXXXX-v3k]

Whats the name of the video in regards to that second lady?

[@apinkheel]

What's the tik tok handle of the first lady that was talking she was preachin truth 🤔

[@Whoisthatns]

This is soOoOoOo true

[@angelface333]

11:14 yup :/ this always how it is.

[@redgoddess]

"Parasitic"....indeed

[@osmosisjones4912]

Male lions don't hunt because they give all their zinc and potassium and glucose and sodium to the lionesses and Queen ants and bees when they run out of sperm just die . And spiders the guy gets eaten and he's the 🪱

[@بشیرنعمانی]

By decentering you mean not to be obsessed with the idea of prince charming or no just ignore men like they don't even exist?

[@purplelove3666]

It means,not making men the main character, in their life, not giving too much importance to their existence

[@angelface333]

2:15 😭🎯💖✨

[@XxFrostGrimmxXBINC]

Soooo what are we supposed to like in terms for relationship/partner wise? 👀 cause ion like 😻 😂

[@h8h215]

Idealize the type of man you want, check to see if they exist if so also check what it is these men want in a woman then become that woman.

[@XxFrostGrimmxXBINC]

@h8h215 I usually just see what qualities I like in men and embody certain of those qualities that women can also have. The men women want (we also have to be realistic about what it is we want) do exist, women need to stop telling themselves that they don't or they'll never find what they're looking for. I watch these videos for insights to keep an eye out for more red flags I haven't encountered before, but seeing women now just completely shut down and try to get other women to do the same is a little sad. We were created to balance each other out, to compliment the different properties in one another, but over the course of years, everything has gotten muddled. Women are the rule makers, the home creators, the peace makers. Men are supposed to be protectors, the enforcers of the rules women make. Patriarchy has destroyed that, but the scales will be balanced again. I just dont like that these videos are basically telling women to either be single or turn lesbian

[@h8h215]

​​@@XxFrostGrimmxXBINCyou see what qualities you like in men then take those qualities and use them yourself? How can you balance out the male female dynamic if you are trying to become a man at the same time? Like i said, it is encumbered on you to yes see what qualities you want in your man but see what it is he values in you, does your ideal man want a woman who is trying to be a man herself? If i say i like women who wear skirts therefore i am going to wear skirts and hope it attracts women who wear skirts, do you see the problem here? You are denying the differences between men and women while saying we should balance each other out.

[@XxFrostGrimmxXBINC]

@h8h215 😂😂 youre missing my point, sweet heart. Women and men can have the same TRAITS personality wise. Are you a kind person? Are you caring? Are you nurturing? Are you a mother figure?(Mother figures look for men who are Father figures) Are you family oriented? Are you humble? Are you confident? Are you emotionally intelligent? Then it goes off into certain aspects of life too. Are you financially stable? Do you have your own car your own place to lay your head down? Can YOU provide for yourself? You want a man who makes 6 figures, but do YOU make 6 figures? Embody those qualities that you want first before trying to seek it out in someone else. Can you cook?Can you clean? Do you know how to wash clothes? How do you expect someone to help you around the house if you do even help yourself? Do you love yourself? Do you know your self-worth? How do you expect a man to love you if you don't know HOW you want to be loved? You want someone to pamper you, but do you pamper yourself? You expect a man to treat you like a queen but do you act like one? Do you take yourself out to fancy restaurants? How do you expect a man to drop 300-400$ on a date if you don't even give YOURSELF this type of treatment? Women have become to entitled to things without even looking within first. Are you educated? Are you street/book smart? How do you expect a man to be these things if you are not these things? Ask yourself am I worthy to have these things. If you are then you embody these things FIRST before you expect a man to come put you back together. You do not go into a relationship expecting someone to treat you right if you can't even treat yourself right first. Partners ADD to what you have already built, and you ADD to what the man has built not expect him to build you up or vise versa. Do you get what I'm saying? Write down the TRAITS you want a man to have and look at those and see if you can match SOME of those traits that a woman can also have. You want a man to be a protector, but what would he be protecting if you are not a woman worthy of being protected? Men protect what they cherish. Men respect women who respect themselves. Once you learn to treat yourself the way you want to be treated. The men you want will come to you that will treat you that way. There are a lot of good men out there but women want these fuck boys/bad boys. They have the "Oh I can fix him. He will change" mentality when it comes to men instead of "how can we help each other? How can we grow together?" A queen will find a king suitable to help rule over her queendom.

[@XxFrostGrimmxXBINC]

​@h8h215 no sweetheart you missed my point. (I made a comment to this but I think it disappeared so if this is a repeat then ignore it) what I'm saying is that you embody what you want from a man. MEANING are you emotionally intelligent? Are you stable mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally? Are you financially stable because how can you expect to grow generational wealth if you both aren't already in yalls bag. You are coming together to enhance one another. You take things off each other's plates. Support one another, but you need to be able to do this for yourself FIRST before bringing someone else into your life. Do you respect yourself? If not, how do you expect a man/woman to respect you? Do you love yourself? If not, how do you expect a man/woman to love you if you don't even know HOW you want to be loved on. Are you looking for someone who is family oriented? Are you even a family oriented person? Do you like kids etc etc. A mother figure looks for father figures. Do you catch my drift? I'm not saying become a man or become a woman. If you dress a certain way you'd want your man or woman to match your esthetic. If you dress academic style you'd want your partner to either be similar or exactly the same. Are you healthy? If not how do you expect your man or woman to be the same? Can you teach me something new? Can I teach YOU something new. This is what I'm meaning. Hopefully this is better fleshed out for you to understand what I'm meaning.

[@olikah4667]

10:38 😢

[@angelawilliams5153]

There are good guys out there. Some of these videos are a little harsh on all men and I think that’s a bit unfair. But I absolutely agree that we are groomed to men and groomed to think that we’re supposed to go and find a happy relationship and live happily ever after…

[@LeighWinterrs]

You are a grown woman. Men don’t need you to shield and speak for them. These videos are “harsh” to you but what’s happening in the world to women and children is far more harsh. You’re listening to a handful of women share their truth but you’re worrying about socially protecting adult males.

[@kimberlyh.1090]

Just say #NotAllMen and get straight to the point.

[@IrisDel-qo8xi]

Girl,just read the book WHAT MEN DON'T WANT WOMEN TO KNOW by Smith and Doe Men explain men's nature in that book.Stop with this not all men bs and get real. I doubt you can finish the book tho it's really harsh .

[@sibria]

@@IrisDel-qo8xi adding to my book list to buy I’ve been trying to find the title, thanks 😊

[@purplelove3666]

Do you know what's unfair? Having 72 men (SA) you with the permission of your husband,that's what's unfair,don't make me give you a list

[@nenajay3174]

I am a woman who likes men. There is a difference between buying into a fantasy, happily ever after, fairytale type relationship with a man and looking to build a future with an equally yoked man who you realize is human. Listen with ALL human beings there will be ups and downs, good days and bad ones. Honeymoon phases and rough patches. Some men do wrong. Some women do wrong. It’s a HUMAN thing. It occurs in homosexual relationships, family relationships, friendships and work relationships. Wake up.

[@nemotheo1629]

You missed the point

[@Kontroversial84]

Glad to see someone in here with some sense. If girls were groomed to like men, then boys were groomed to like women. Does that mean we're all naturally homosexual? Some of these women are taking this idea of decentering men too far.

[@aylanae4797]

Why engage when the mindset is clearly not ready to take in the message. The point flew accross your head

[@Kontroversial84]

Looks like YT deleted my comment. Anyway, I'm glad to see someone in here with some sense. If all women were groomed to like men, then why do lesbians exist? This is ridiculous.

[@nenajay3174]

@@nemotheo1629 What is the point, in your opinion?

[@martaleszkiewicz5115]

My thing is, the women I'm attracted to bring out the masculine energy in me, and at the end of the day, I want someone to take care of me, which I know a woman I'd be attracted to never would.

[@AntoinetteMarie530]

If she took care of you, you'd despise her later on.

[@martaleszkiewicz5115]

@@AntoinetteMarie530 Not despise, but I feel like it wouldn't be fair to expect from a woman to care for me like a man would/should, so usually I feel like I have to take one for the team and be the one to do it for her, which pushes me in my masculine.

[@purplelove3666]

So you need someone to bring out masculine energy from you and you also want to be treated like an infant?

[@chocolateserenity]

10:40 Damn I just want to give her a big hug.🤎

[@aprilwashington3150]

The Man and the other woman will get their karma.