Women Who Are Easy and Too Available

[@merlottime1794]

Take it from a former nice girl, she’s 100% right. I had to change my entire way of thinking because nice girls really do finish last. Now I’m a savage

[@BROOKLYNGALL]

Merlot Time How are things now!?! I’m in transition with my thinking lol

[@Ladykhalifakhalif]

@@BROOKLYNGALL same here because I'm tried of been a good human being 😏😏😏🙄

[@AsiyaIammuah]

Lmaoooo I’m transitioning myself..fuck these niggas

[@candacequalls3599]

@@AsiyaIammuah 💯

[@MsClathia77]

Facts sis!!! Facts!

[@QueenQueenly]

I been too nice for too long, I wasted 20 years. The bad girls get the best lifestyle, the good kind soft women get abused

[@tiabroughton2136]

Queen Queenly girl sameeeee. I’m 23 and I’ve been the nice girl literally my whole life. Sheras channel has opened my eyes so wide. Now I’m wide awake. No more nice girl 🙄

[@tiabroughton2136]

Denise Theuri hopefully this is our wake up call. It’s a hard transition but everyday I’m working on it more and my confidence is going way up! Good luck girl ❤️❤️

[@Melanie-le6mw]

Tia Broughton that’s awesome!!!

[@justme8841]

Well i don't know if you are a believer but a godly man would love a nice lovely woman

[@vanda3393]

Queenly Queenly exactly it sad but. True i now Hou it's feels

[@Virtygo22]

Omg, Shera. I always told girls that your man won't even think about cheating when he's too busy worrying about what you're doing. Trust me, it works. If he's busy chasing after you, he dosent have time to chase after someone else

[@elverdaderocanserbero]

The idea is not caring about them too much

[@Desertvibes234]

👏🏼👏🏼

[@bowalker7114]

😂😂😂😂😂 Don't listen to this BS. Geezus, this why yall ain't gettin nowhere.

[@marcycat]

@@bowalker7114 You must be dusty or broke right now.

[@bowalker7114]

@@marcycat not in the least but I bet you got a fupa

[@DJSpeaks]

"You're afraid to play because you fear losing"- Shera

[@piskuljkopisljkuljkovic5294]

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[@L4W89]

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[@jayoneokc]

Facts

[@lc-il6wr]

I don't have time to play games that's why I'm not playing. And shera is a ghetto nig she doesn't care if he cheats farts and wants to come back to U!

[@anuragthecoach]

Totally I agree with your points. As per my opinion, people should starve for your presence, we should play hard to get.

[@averycrich]

Until you get old

[@averycrich]

@Belle Noire go put some paint on your face

[@averycrich]

@Belle Noire you like that response huh? well it's more that one can from to answer your plight why would I swear at a helpless little woman/female that no one really likes😏✋

[@firesign4297]

Don't Play Hard.to get...Be Hard to get😊

[@HabitualLover]

@Darth Ur the truth is men don't value anything else about women. Not that women don't have anything else. There's the world in us, but men like you choose to cheapen us down to a 5 year window in our life, then try to throw all the rest away. That's your bad. What you're saying isn't truth, it's just easy to hurl. Easy to implement. Like racism. It's easy to say all the black people are bad- easy to spot. Easy to say all the women over 23 are bad. Easy to spot. Same thing.

[@Madamnlebijoux]

I was the nice ride or die chick and I just wasted my time. not nice no more lol

[@user-mw6wp6ce4p]

trying to move aeay from this. So mixed signals...

[@immonica8734]

Adeline Dorsainvil Amen!

[@MyJubilation]

Adeline Dorsainvil I did a complete U turn! Now, he won't stop calling.

[@kisabarbie2826]

Glad you leveled up you are beautiful

[@Glass088]

Adeline Dorsainvil I prefer nice women.....stuck up is such a turn off...why play games???

[@dhruvapatel304]

Very true! I was the nicest woman, gave everything i could for the man. Did right by him, was super loyal, and didn't care if he was broke. That bit me in the ass and he left me for a chick that didn't do anything for him and cheated on him. Now I think about only ME. I only think about my happiness, my money, and never commit or have sex until i'm fully ready. NEVER NEVER give more than he gives! Men trample and discard good selfless women.

[@zaezae1055]

Right

[@elverdaderocanserbero]

I was the one who said i like you first and i was always rejected

[@Sunny-we7uv]

@@elverdaderocanserbero What? Lmao

[@YPM498]

That happened to me too

[@olgachafeeva7615]

@Jeffrey Stern you fuckers were always selfish. We're just catching up to y'all. 🖕

[@slynn360]

More women should learn this! I learned this as a teenager and it's eye opening. I'd be with a guy for months no sex nothing, said he doesn't want me. Bye then, a couple of weeks later he's crawling back, writing poetry, dates etc. Sometimes i'd be mad like the colder i was the better they treated me, meanwhile when i was good i was treated like shit. Men love it when you're fickle and a bit crazy.

[@nadineh4767]

No matter what anyone says men love crazy women! They don’t like the nice ones for some reason so always stay mean 😂👍

[@babyc.3015]

Writing poetry cuz they missed pussy LMAOOOOO some men be pathetic afff

[@WaterChild1]

I agree

[@badbeachindustry1615]

You can still have sex but if you're abit of a bitch and not available/detach they enjoy it. Saying from personal experience all of my exes miss me still. And TECHNICALLY i still put out.

[@lenathegawdxd766]

@@Glitter504where you find them

[@triplemoongoddesschannel]

This must be why everyone chases you down when you're unavailable and in a relationship lol

[@ShannDiior]

kittyfangs961 omg right 😭

[@jasminew2567]

kittyfangs961 lol exactly

[@raymcdonald6306]

kittyfangs961 I

[@raymcdonald6306]

Jasmine Kennyetta

[@raymcdonald6306]

Rooh A

[@tiffanyobinyan7339]

Absolutely ppl don’t value anything that easy to obtain it’s just human nature

[@Melly16yr10]

Makes sense

[@kyleneverson3016]

Am a man and she's real, i don't want a woman chasing me pull back and let us do the work. Remember everyone knows that nothing of value is easily gained, it's the truth.

[@babyc.3015]

😍😍🙏

[@goddessglow6996]

😊

[@Afaded_Rose]

Thank u for ur honesty 🐈‍⬛

[@jayjay1443]

I literally tell a guy that I'm busy when they try to invite me over sometimes just so I don't make myself too available to them. I don't even text them a lot anymore. If I don't receive a text from them first, I'm not texting. I used to be the type to message A LOT, pursue them, buy them gifts, and be the nice, good girl in the beginning, but I've fallen ALL THE WAY BACK, and now I'm being chased.

[@chewbacca2680]

you are so right. I once had a guy that was my potential boyfriend at that time. We were going on dates, chatting, talking on the phone, etc. I really liked him, but I was so shy and self-conscious that I acted very cold with him and never really opened my heart for him. And once he asked me to date him I said that it will not work out, it left him broken. It's been 3 years, he still texts me from time to time trying to connect with me, trying to find a way into my life. Why? Because I challenged him. Funny thing, it wasn't my intention, it was a result of my shyness, but it turned into an experience he still can't forget.

[@raveneye9777]

True. But if the man does not love you, nothing will help. NOTHING.

[@thelovely961]

Raven Eye But you'll still have your dignity.. and you'll still be on his mind as different

[@ladyslick121]

A nice FAT check after the divorce will help....lol bye!

[@TheQueenishere91]

Flowerrose121 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@elverdaderocanserbero]

It is not love they weirdly do but atteaction so be the prettiest version of you

[@ninawestlake5005]

That's why you shouldn't love him either. Be strategic. Drop the love foolishness

[@piciulnostru575]

I played The game and I lost. But I feel damn proud about myself. I felt so hard for this Guy, but kept my boundaries, my standards and I guess he was not The Right person for me in the end.

[@piciulnostru575]

Games may not work, but The Game that is played between men and women is very real, and if you don't play it, you're going to get played. When I said I played the game, I mean, I knew what I wanted, I kept my standards, I wanted all or nothing, I tested if he is a keeper or a bad man for me, from the very start. And I said that I lost but actually I won. I just "lost" weeded out a bad man for me, that being a good thing, even though hurtful cause I really liked the guy from many points of view and aspects

[@piciulnostru575]

Aric Mettle you seem not to get it for real

[@wowso4]

Irene Irene you get it well done! 😌👏🏽👏🏽

[@firesign4297]

👏👏👏🙇‍♀️

[@princesspai1975]

@@sweetblack1216 stfu black mammy

[@TheAmna_Penguin]

Men can chase you for 10 years too, just in case someone’s wondering how much longer men can chase. They chase till they die. A dusty guy still chases me after 10 years

[@babyc.3015]

THIS MADE ME LOL

[@badbeachindustry1615]

They don't quit HAHAH

[@pettypattytheprincess3784]

Rebuke the dusty lol

[@Madison-i3h]

Make him pay

[@ceceliacoehins1413]

Ashera, your mom did a wonderful job of raising you to be the bomb diggity!!!!! She is the BEST!!!!!!

[@stephe.8818]

Cecelia Coehins you know that's right!

[@suesandford5483]

I never call, or text first.

[@bxndo5ive]

At all it isn’t a woman’s place

[@AZULAPRO]

I already knew this through experience but i wish more ladies knew about this and taught this at a younger age. it would def save women alot of heartache.

[@stephe.8818]

@Aric Mettle go get an easy woman and get out our comment section. Bye now, dusty✌

[@SincerelyChelle]

Omg i think i was the easy girl! *gasps* Holy shit! such an eye-opener! Glad I grew up from those days!

[@CherrellMishelle]

sam 7 Wow! Calm down! Breathe...

[@myshow799]

im mean as hell because i don't want to live in poverty in the other BS that most females put up with I ain't doing it

[@bxndo5ive]

I swear this is me. I rather be alone than settle. A lot of these men have no problem with being content with having nothing in life.

[@Yessi-with-a-Y]

Aric Mettle she does not encourage women to go around sleeping with anyone. She’s actually married Lol! Men are providers by nature! Its even in the Bible! So yea if I’m going to do 50/50 I cannot respect you as a man. We both work.. I’m not your roommate 🧐👑

[@capricornman89]

chrismom No man or woman should settle for anyone. That term takes on a negative connotation.

[@patrickr2546]

Yesenia Rivera saying by every women who can’t do for her self what she expect a man to do for her. In the era of tinder and the Dm Good luck Chica 🤣

[@justme8841]

Well if you don't wanna put up with things you don't like you are not mean, you are alright

[@shawnlove4502]

Former nice girl here, it has gotten me nothing but taken for granted. Now that im alittle meaner, a challenge, they won't leave me alone. Lol and these are the same men who took me for granted. They buy me things, try to see me just to TALK, just to be near me..... this is valid information.

[@lc-il6wr]

Men have no taste in buying things! I'm not listening to u all!

[@char2723]

Just to “talk” huh? I wouldn’t bother 😂

[@shawnlove4502]

@char2723 Exactly, now you see. Lol I always question, why do you wanna talk? Because it's nothing more than that. But I won't stop them from doing things for me lol

[@BeautifulDreamerK]

I hope KZbin is around decades from now bc I want to show your videos to my kids. This is the kind of education that I feel is important. There’s a lot of academically smart people yet they’re stupid in common sense like this, no matter how many experiences they go through. I wanna train my girls young. Thank you!

[@char2723]

Too bad this stuff isn’t taught in schools.

[@toscadonna]

This is so true. The men I want nothing to do with, like the married guy who's been texting me for more than a year since I told him to go to hell because he was married, keeps calling and texting even though I will not answer. The man I was so in love with, who pretended to love me too, just disappeared and stopped speaking to me. I hate playing games, and not being my usual easy going self, but there is no choice unless you want to be alone forever.

[@MyJubilation]

tosca donna, it's time for a change, I changed! Now, he won't stop calling... I'm not going to pickup, he knows where I live! aHaa aHaa!

[@firesign4297]

BLOCK!

[@theSpiritofTamzin]

@Aric Mettle YOU'RE nothing special...

[@lulalula7120]

Same

[@SMITH3100]

I’ve been nice and it gets you broken hearted

[@lyndsieannette957]

At first I thought you were shallow and soulless. Now I watch all your videos and realize you are brilliant. I've been leveling up on a personal level for about 4 years now. The romantic dimension of my life is what is left to figure out. I've felt confused about finding what i want in a relationship for years. Your channel is a HUGE help. Thank you.

[@olgachafeeva7615]

What exactly is "deep" and "soulful"? Being a doormat? Letting a man abuse you? Lol

[@olgachafeeva7615]

@Jeffrey Stern 🖕🖕🖕😁😁😁 you know where the lotion is. Have fun in there 🖕😁

[@olgachafeeva7615]

@Jeffrey Stern not very familiar with female anatomy, are ya? Thought not. 🙄

[@babyc.3015]

Changing my mindset about men has been the hardest thing, my looks and personality I can change up LOL

[@Apalacapreme]

I agree

[@carlynyc]

lol act bipolar they love it

[@saif9amar417]

carlynyc ...Act Bipolar and they run away ..save that can be saved.

[@carlynyc]

anytime I've been too nice to men they don't appreciate it. when I act like a boss aka bitch they respect me more. fake people will run away from anything that can't handle..

[@Woke365]

carlynyc you act like a bitch

[@Glass088]

carlynyc You must attract guys with multiple baby mamas...wrong mindset

[@QueenJeneeneX]

Not acting lol

[@wonderwoman7969]

Absolute truth :) flip the script. Former doormat, coming out of a 13 year marriage that left me nearly homeless and health issues and high stress... Listen to her it works a charm

[@dbsk06]

Congrats babe 💋💋💋

[@ladyred1850]

Yes easy stupid girls finish last and get used up in the process! My friend moved a guy in her house off the internet with no job okay, he came in her life with no job so she'll be taking care of him forever! She also has a 12 year old daughter, she is so desperate.

[@jrmetmoi]

That's crazy. Paging Dr Lowenstein.

[@princesspai1975]

She a dumb mammy And child abuser Putting her child in danger They should take her kids away

[@TheQueenishere91]

Thick brix 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@elverdaderocanserbero]

Tell her about these videos

[@kaygee2277]

Thick brix you can level up without putting another woman down. Women don’t choose to have low self esteem or a lack of self worth. Compassion. We’re all learning.

[@TaliAlexandra]

When a man ask you what you bring to the table, I want every enlightened woman to be able to lay down her crutches , look a man dead in the eye, and say with conviction, "I am the fucking table!"- G.L. Lambert

[@missmaomi28]

jazzy jeff yesssssss!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@ShinySilverBunny]

No honey, I am the entire 5 course meal plus the restaurant! Now pay up! 🤣

[@Ananya_otherside]

Or tell looking him in his eyes, there's no table for me to bring anything , you dusty!!😂

[@khiac7949]

everything you talk about is 100% true. been in this situation too many times being too nice just don't work

[@desi.shaunice]

I’m 21 and I’ve been the nice girl for too damn long ...I’m in savage mode now after watching these Hypergamy videos

[@honey-gs9lh]

How is it going

[@dodo-e4x]

Same. Haha but I'm 20. Time to level up!

[@mwhitehead2759]

I agree with everything you said I was the nice girl and wasted my time for 17 years now I'm 35 single never married with no kids😔 they say nice guys finish last so do women.

[@hentbust4204]

Sweetheart, remember that everyone’s life is different. God purposely chose this time to give you this video now because soon you WILL find your husband. Remmeber taraji p henson didn’t land her first lead role until age 31... iknow Thats a totally different situation, but it still falls into the point that some people get what they want later in life. Also, remember that a lot of people your age are divorced! God saved u from that first failed marriage baby! Saved u from a bigger heart ache💜 much love to u

[@thehealthyheaux]

Focus on good digging & you’ll feel better. You don’t have time to cry if you’re shopping w/a man’s credit card.

[@jecintamwangi3945]

You still young You can always change it

[@ms.a806]

Hent Bust I needed to read your encouraging words. I’m mid 30s too a wish I had this info many years ago.

[@Melly16yr10]

A man and kids aren't always what their cracked up to be. There is so much to life then just relationships. All the best to you. Last bit of advice take them off a pedestal, you'll feel better.

[@pamelaclary7079]

I've been available for this man every day for four years and I can really tell that he's tired of me. I recently called him and he told me that he forgot to turn his phone off. He's showing me alot of signs that he does not want to be bothered by me.

[@MrsGambino]

Just went through this he is bored and yes someone else has his attention he put you on the shelf so simply back off stop being available act uninterested ghost his ass that's the only way to reset the cycle if he wants you he will start the chase and comply if not keep it MOVING we not saving these niggas you the PRIZE

[@LinLinLin11]

@@linswins4292 good job. Go enjoy yourself

[@laradara7175]

Glo up and move on x

[@lc-il6wr]

Everyday for four years. U R A parasite

[@DarkAries76]

This is my first time coming across you. Common sense advice to me now that I'm a bit older. Just wish I knew all of this in my 20's, would've saved me some time and effort.

[@gingerandbfdi]

Man who you telling but better late than never

[@jamillecollins364]

BlaqueViolet you are so right about that..that is the real truth and nothing but the truth.

[@athnuh]

now that she blew up on tiktok, it got me thinking about my past relationships. those that i was mean with, we ended up officially being together, but those that i was nice to (since i thought maybe i was a bit too much during my relationships so i have to be nice etc etc) took me for granted and now i think, wow i degraded because my past relationships made me feel like i was 'too much' when really they were the ones who couldn't keep up.

[@VintageAfro91]

Your videos give me life. Nothing like letting a man chase you. Best feeling ever 😌

[@MsTolatola]

I wish i knew you when i was in my twenties. You are amazing.

[@eshjane]

Don't return his text for 24 hours. Disappear Friday until Monday morning. Don't return his calls either.

[@Ellyestelle]

Jeffrey Stern we don’t care

[@orubek355]

That's too much. What is that?

[@mssummerrose1]

it's not so much that there are "types" of women, the "easy" women most often never were told the rules to dealing with a man... I didn't have a father nor brother nor uncle nor grandfather, I didn't know anything about how to deal with a man, now I'm learning and yes it works, so which "type" of woman am I ?

[@mary-amablankson6387]

mssummerrose1 I had the very same problem especially since I grew up without any men around me to observe.

[@green6200]

mssummerrose1 same here what kinda women am I? I'm 21 I don't know the game at all

[@msmon6523]

I had a uncle grandfather but they molested me. And I keep running into mean with there characteristics. There not molesters ,but the have there ways .

[@AM-yf1fv]

Truth!! Your preaching to the Choir!! Men love a Woman that makes them level up and use them for their clout..My Ex went dum over a ruff foot man looking Lady all because she treated him bad and the more she treated him bad the more he tried to get her. I had no problem allowing him to be a Man Im crazy myself and know what I want, but I treated him with respect and he walked all over me ..Thanks for sharing!

[@datingdiaries1681]

Ruff foot man looking lady took me outttt looooil

[@materialgirly]

this is so true! i used to be a people pleaser and i understand that its not the way to go to get what i want especially when i get older and get into real dating

[@angelamwatts]

I have been watching your videos and I sit here and laugh at all of the dumb stuff I did in my youth. I am single by choice because I just kicked a man to the curb because I was not happy. Anyway, I have seen a lot of videos where both men and women say that it is okay for a woman to ask a man out on a date. HELL NO IT ISN'T!!!! Ladies, asking a man out on a date tells the man that you're available and that you have nothing else going on. I had one player pestering me to go out with him. He thought that he could sweet talk me with his broke ass. I had casually mentioned to him that I was planning a trip to Europe and right away he says "oooh oooh take me." Take you? I consider that an insult. He may have conned other women into paying his way with his good looks and his sweet talk but this woman was not budging. He tried to tell me "oh I miss you." You miss me? How could you miss me, I just met you! Needless to say, I have smartened up. I am not cooking for any more men. That was my biggest downfall. I am an excellent cook and baker and I love to feed people. It's the Italian culture in me which was my downfall for real! I've attracted so many cheap ass mooch men it wasn't even funny. Those days are gone for good! If a man wants to date me he is going to have to treat me like a gentleman and buy me dinner and court me. Ladies, never settle and don't invite any man to your home and cook for him until he PROVES to you that you are the one. Also don't give him what's in between your legs until he PROVES to you he's worthy of you. Same goes for BJ's. In other words, keep your door, mouth and legs closed until he PROVES to you that he loves you. Don't be stupid like me. I am 52 years old and I learned too late. I am not unhappy though. I have a fabulous career, a new car and am debt free. If a man comes along, fine, if he doesn't I can take care of myself. Love and respect yourselves ladies and don't allow a man to crap on you. The lady making this video is 1000 percent correct. Thank you dear!

[@basicinfo2022]

Yes. Keep EVERYTHING closed until they earned commitment with you, proven to meet your standards and can provide for you.

[@patriciamay2690]

You are absolutely right Shera7, my mom use to tell me the same things you are telling everyone. Mom was smart like you!

[@ShantiForever]

Girl, when is your book coming out? Your advice is priceless! 💖

[@tyrawaree8696]

Yes it is

[@kishapereice]

Its Shanti yessss & it works !!!

[@firesign4297]

👏👏👏

[@jamillecollins364]

I don't have time for mind games ..we are going to want each other mutually or not and nothing else blocking all that..and if it is real..there no mind games and playing ..life is too short for all of that bull ..If a man is serious about a woman ...nothing is going to stop him.

[@SheRaSeven1]

too bad that is not how the real world works !

[@xw6475]

@@SheRaSeven1 Sadly, isn't it?

[@xw6475]

Jamille, I used to think this way too girl. I feel you, but No. No, not anymore. Not after being a good woman and got disappointed again and again. I am the prize and that's the decision.

[@bxndo5ive]

You have a lot to learn about the nature of men. This woman just ran it down and from experience I can you it’s true. Men like a CHASE. You not wanting to deal with it won’t change their nature.

[@white2925]

You will learn the hard way Jamille. I used to think as you when I was 18 and naif and stupid and ignorant...... The intra genders dynamics SheRa talks about are real and they set the Game. And if you don't play it by knowing the rules, you will get played. I was played once and it was tough to raise again, fortunately I did not have any children. This channel is spilling knowledge and info about The Game, you are not obligated to believe it... But..... Observe and be aware of the world we are living in!!!!

[@viviennecoley8825]

It's true. I have listened to audiobooks and the Heroes always fall and marry the ones who gives them a headache at the initial stage.

[@tammymilda2169]

My god you've changed your persona over the years. Great to see a woman who practices what she preaches

[@shanteel8493]

So true! I used to be so sweet and shy not anymore it’s a new me with boundaries being that way taught me.

[@dbsk06]

She is 100% right. So girls relax - the entire concept of a rebound is a testament of her point. I broke up with my ex (he invested a whole lot) and he ended up with an easy rebound which freaked me out. He came back as soon as he realized he didn’t even like her. By then I didn’t even want him anymore but men always want the one who is hard to get even if it seems like he has “moved on”

[@GeaNorway]

You say it like it is! And dont charge for it. I will gladly buy your book SheraSeven!

[@carolthomas107]

You are giving right on good advice! Everything that is TRUE and I couldn't have said it better!!!!

[@e11ionore79]

Its true. My ex told me that he loved so much i was not that easy you get and he conquered me. But the other side of it - once he conquered, he lost interest. I

[@majestyk8654]

Exactly, they will lose interest when they get you which is why I don't encourage these mind games. I want a man who is genuinely interested in who I am as a human and not because of mind games.

[@SleepingHarmony]

So we have to play mind games just to keep him it’s to much work.😩

[@QueenJeneeneX]

Gangsta IN Heels all of lifes a game

[@SleepingHarmony]

Queen Jeneene that’s true

[@SleepingHarmony]

Daisies and Lillies yep my whole mind set has changed now Since making this comment. I have totally detached my feelings from a man 😈good girl gone bad , and it works wonders 😁 thanks to Shera.

[@hentbust4204]

I am Ebony lotus Im glad u realized how easy it is love. Very simple: love ur self & put ur needs first.

[@nimanixo]

It’s really not lmao

[@hawonuurmahdi8657]

I,m doormat and too available 🙄 too nice i also end up hurt broke Thnks shereseven 🙏

[@jamiecee4960]

Men do LOVE CHALLENGES. Too Easy, Too Nice, Too Gullible. Women do want Men to Treat you right, Love you for who you are. And don't take advantage.. They go for the ones they can't get.

[@natnel617]

Spitting facts 💯 I love how you keep shit real, Sheraseven1. Not going to lie, I've found myself trying to be the 'type' I think they WANT me to be. That got me no where. In fact, the majority of the time I ended up getting and feeling used. Siince I hit late 30's, and started watching channels like yourself, I have come to realise the power of a Woman.

[@nondumchunu7837]

Just stopped this video and composed a song called"exactly" girl. U r soo right. Im not married yet but damn if u give too much too easily and too soon. Ive learned the hard way. It backfires

[@jesslopes7066]

That's true! I wish I could just show my feelings when I'm interested but people are mean...

[@strandedinanisland457]

Yes I'm the nice girl, easy girl. Or so I used to be. Men always get to talk to me about their wounds, whining. Got my heart broken and trampled on. Even girls treated me like shit. Always disrespect and see what they can get away with.

[@kweenkoco5211]

Same I ain’t going for that trash 🎯💯

[@thesandrabebe7478]

Yup but the buck stops here.

[@Geminidreamweaver]

This is great advise, however to me it sounds like too much work thats why I'm single and loving it

[@MyJubilation]

Luchy Tee I have to agree it's not worth it, if they are not interested I'm done! Peace!

[@Melly16yr10]

Same here

[@maismadi6189]

My life has changed after having you in my life ur husband must be lucky

[@bellagrace3109]

I love your work. I have been subbed to Ashera Star Goddess for years and you are gold xo. You are the best relationship coach hands down. Mindful Attraction is also dope but marketed to girls, not women lol

[@JayEP86]

Too much of a challenge in an unrealistic type of way can be a down fall and leave yourself wide open

[@preciousmndaweni5157]

Followed this advice with my boyfriend, I'm now on an allowance, she's so right

[@divad6363]

Great video, I've been watching this channel for over a year now, you never fail to disappoint

[@childrentoys4701]

This is REAL truth :D Real humans like real CHALLENGES! Blessed be love

[@ShayLamere]

Timestamping for my notes! Thank you Shera!

[@ShayLamere]

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[@katiewilliams9381]

Love your videos honestly so true his happened to me.. Was the nice girl boring and predictable..saw him driving past me with another woman in his car..was not a challenge enough. Great video thank you x

[@saraserendipitously]

Watching this in 2023 and you are helping me so much thank you Shera

[@Quadcast88]

I literally spit up my water seeing you in this look. I’m like who is that? Lol. Oh that’s right Shera must prove her point.

[@lydiagraham6863]

You are so correct...men like the chase....and the battle....give them a challenge...

[@thelovely961]

You've got game!!

[@AlpheaMariae]

Girl you speak the truth!! I am subscribing 👍👍

[@MaritzaMendoza1018]

i wish i knew this 7 years ago :( now he is married to someone else 😢 i didnt know any better back then but now i hold my guard up because of all the information im getting from your videos

[@candyzamarripa6071]

Yes girl never be the first to call or text😘😘

[@DJSpeaks]

you look adorable in this video! And yes on point as always

[@carlynewoodrow8494]

I was once told I was "too nice" by my Leo male friend (I'm pisces)..I was so offended because he really has no clue how many times I was called princess and ruthless b*tch by my exs lol I'm real go with the flow so long as I wouldve liked it anyway but I guess to him, a fire sign, it looked like weakness. It pissed me off when he said that though and I stopped hanging with him. Lol sounds like he likes unnecessary drama.

[@pelosuelto70]

Leo males - from experience - don't know what the fuck they want. They say one thing, they do another... and they like bitchy, controlling women who will give them a challenge. I got one who hits me up still, and I've been ignoring him for 2 weeks now.

[@brittneydavis1306]

Is true is true. I have a story to tell n ur absolutely correct. It's all games and they feel threatened when you upgrade to better .

[@UmuhozaDivine-e5q]

Thank you "Shera "it is very true!

[@bluediamond4895]

I was that nice available girl and I got dumped. Nice girls finished last.

[@babyc.3015]

I was raised one and now thank God I've learned. If I continued on keeping like this I would've married a dusty for sure. And I'm only 24

[@char2723]

Fo realllll 💀

[@bushraejaz9409]

This woman is my favourite

[@sensibilities1]

You should make a video about ways to stay interesting & a challenge to your boyfriend

[@alina9924]

Jeffrey Stern dusty 💀

[@janessasade2777]

Another great positive message from you! Keep it up!!

[@kt7629]

I agree. This guy couldn't stop flirting with me for 5 months straight. I must be something lmao.

[@justme8841]

Well ya have your boundaries. If your boundaries change, tell!

[@Edelwiess1066]

Subscribed like my life depends on it. I'm picking up what you're puttin down.

[@takotako3750]

I'm happy that I came across you💜 you speak absolute truth and to the point thank you 🎆

[@ogbarbie7025]

I love you!! So glad I found your channel girl you’re a gift💟

[@jhenefagin7396]

Exactly. Thank you Shera

[@shakeelaakins1651]

Love your videos. Cleaned my alter just because of them. Do a video about being a challenge INSIDE the relationship. Already have it, Whats the title??

[@AlpheaMariae]

loved this!! Could you do a video about how to challenge the man? You are the best love you!!

[@hairfanatic87]

You are soo smart

[@naitjj1]

BE KIND NOT NICEE, they will take advantage of you

[@Thula_Impala96]

Binging on your videos in 2021. Taking notes 📝

[@SindeliaisSin]

So how do I change that ? Do I just stop everything, I have found myself being too available and believe me I'm fine af and never have been here I'm like wtf?!

[@EstherAnnanannanss]

I Agree 100% :)

[@mrrandom8050]

Nothing wrong with initiating sometimes ladies... Men want to feel wanted sometimes too but don't make it a habit though! I do agree constantly improve yourself and have some mystery... ♡♡

[@tinasnow2006]

ConcealedCarry 92 agreed. I initiate like once a week in a very subtle and nice way. He texts and calls back immediately 😂🤣🤣🤣

[@kaylam835]

I’d compliment him here and there but I’m not initiating anything.

[@kaylam835]

MilantheBarbie Exactly

[@phi-losiphy2038]

Shut up!

[@vickykale3304]

Wish I knew this earlier in my life...now I'm almost 37

[@olgachafeeva2828]

Go for a wealthy 67 year old

[@olgachafeeva7615]

@Jeffrey Stern Jesus, you're on every video... Shouldn't you be at work? 🙄

[@alina9924]

Olga Chafeeva he’s unemployed dusty mad at the world😂

[@olgachafeeva7615]

@@alina9924 I'll say 🤣

[@Naturallynatural3]

Its all about the games! 😄

[@capricornman89]

Aric Mettle Real fucking talk💯💯💯 Everyone who wish to play “games” will look stupid when they hit the jackpot.