Why I don't Talk About Sex A lot

many of you ask about sex and pleasure, here is why I do not really get into it.

[@Kstixx1]

“Your choices shape your lifestyle” A feminine lady that was raised right in a 2 parent home with gender roles is not going to be hyper-sexual and started having sex at 12/13. She’s going to be practicing instruments, sports, dance, pampering with mom, going on summer vacations, having chaperoned parties, maybe sneak kissing their boyfriend in the movie theater. When it is time for her to start dating she’s going to have a discussion with her parents and warned about protection and offered birth control I didn’t get this growing up but I moved to an environment where I noticed the difference. P.S. any millionaire I’ve been involved with or dated has never asked me “if I can squirt”... but a dusty has.

[@HealthWithHilary]

Kstixx1 lol 👏🏽

[@TheFactsofLife237]

Kstixx1 Dusties all speak the same b.s.!

[@indyavonnnemesis1806]

I

[@fadi0965]

😂 u right

[@SR77736]

LMAO true. Duties always ask inappropriate questions while they try to take you to Applebees smh.

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

Yep the whole video is on point. Because I’m not easy men stick around. They may be upset because you didn’t give it up they may ghost you but they ALWAYS call to see if one day you will come to your senses and change your mind. Nope I haven’t lol In my experience men who are always talking about sex usually don’t have anything else to offer you and oftentimes your still getting the short end of the stick LITERALLY.

[@williamwharton7504]

LOL, I must agree!

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

OutThere2017 AMEN. I try to tell some of my friends this and they don’t listen and when they see me getting more they are salty. I tell them keep your legs closed. One of them finally listened and now she has a dude furniture shopping for her home that he does not live at and she still hasn’t given up the goods. Holding out works. I know it has for me.

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

c s the fact that you don’t know how to spell tells me that you meet the description of someone who is impoverished or uneducated which means that YOU would actually be more likely than me to have an std or to have passed an std to a woman.

[@catchaliar1317]

What rich man supposed to stick around with yall wonderful treatment? SheRaSeven1 need to make a video about trapping em with a baby. No 2018 man will tolerate you otherwise

[@user-nq8nl4wh9w]

Catcha Liar like how would you know what a rich does and does not want when ye is not him lol

[@leeslyrose]

You’re right! All sexual energy is is too much energy in your sacral chakra. Breathe, meditate, or do yoga and suck up that energy to the next chakra and so on! It’s called sexual transmutation; don’t get stuck in the lower 3 chakras

[@cherieg2143]

Accurate.

[@0l0l00l0]

Where did u learn this knowledge? I wanna learn morw

[@Chillalot]

Yes!! Wait until he has proven he cares about you...if you wait you keep your heart and emotions in check.

[@marko514]

qwertyou123456 Elaborate please

[@maraka8106]

Amen

[@SincerelyTaliaxo]

Yup

[@leeslyrose]

Marko sex should be the last thing on your mind. As Michaela pink said: how much has he invested on you (time, energy and money) for you to EVEN CONSIDER sleeping with a guy.

[@southernladymlm70]

I total agree with you I got so much from men not giving in.

[@angel33333333]

can u give me some examples

[@starx8775]

They will come back. Watch her spirituality/witchcraft videos. Research the real knowledge. Men were built from women.

[@helena3631]

my theme song no romance without finance

[@fatoudiop2880]

i have always believe that i was ugly and no matter what i could never look good but by watching your channel i realise i was just lazy and lately i have make it a priority to make sure that i look good no matter what and the benefits are incredible not only i have more self esteem but i feel so much more sexy around men and a lot of them are so kind to me now by opening the door asking my number or even offering places shera you are changing lives outhere keep going you are my internet mother i will always support you

[@DeliciousBeautii1]

The truth of the matter is, not every one is pretty. With some people, it doesn't matter what they do they will still never be pretty. It is not a bad thing, but you have to do other things to make you stand out. In my case, a lot of men say that I am a 10 in the looks department. The average girl is not a 10 or even an 8 to a man, but guess what, it is actually ok. Some people believe that you need to be an 8 to a 10 to get a good man with money. That is really not the case. I don't know if you're actually pretty or not, but I just wanted to mention that.

[@fatoudiop2880]

yeah so true

[@kirsten1007]

That is very cool

[@indigoGoddess7]

I am glad you know your worth and PUHLEEZE dont ever let me see a comment like this from you again regarding the negative thoughts about your looks, personality and self esteem.

[@shaleenaabron2520]

At 37, I kept a 27-year-old on a string for about a year. Got dates to the theater, elaborately planned dates and bills paid.

[@bananewane1402]

You kind of suck

[@October3074]

@@bananewane1402 word on the street is so does your mother.

[@kirakeynow]

very good girl 💕 proud of you! yes younger men adore older ones i see it every time

[@georgec8210]

October 3074 Word on the street is so is your daddy.

[@mingsmakeup3854]

How did you go about it to make it so? And do you live somewhere where it's common that a couple waits that long? Kindly Ming 🙈

[@myishaj7436]

I totally agree.. Being sexually aggressive is masculine...never chase the D...get a boy toy for that if u need it.

[@kirsten1007]

I agree

[@Nokss_20]

Having a boy toy is masculine dear 😂

[@helena3631]

I like money and a good time not sex..I have had only one sexual partner and Iam 34 lol ....lol it takes a lot to turn me on

[@watchyamouth22]

@@Nokss_20 lol how is self pleasure masculine

[@xoxosisihere]

@@watchyamouth22 a boy toy isn’t self pleasure. 😂

[@BlkMagickGaia3]

So true ! I'm in several Facebook groups and so many women share detailed info on what they do and how they do it with any and everyone that will listen/read. They're the EXACT same women that ask, "Why aren't men taking women on 'real' dates?" And if you don't share the same detailed info to the masses, they resent you and say, "All the judgmental goody two shoes in here..." I can have conversations that can make Satan blush, but not everyone has EARNED the right to know that info. I'm a Private Island access type woman, not a Public Housing access type of 'female". Feminine mystique draws MASCULINE men.

[@rebeccaanne8546]

If he's chasing it.. it's valuable !

[@kimberlyboyd5150]

I get hit on by famous men a lot. They want the validation. I dont want to be another notch.

[@michellehendrix7135]

🤥

[@kirsten1007]

So true that womanizers are seeking validation

[@enchantingnaturals866]

Yep womaniser usually have low self esteem and are seeking validation. Fact

[@sincity5268]

what famous men

[@tajthegreatone9326]

Damn I feel like I gotta change my whole ENTIRE life watching your videos. Shid its gotta be better than what I've been doing!

[@Aquariuswonder86]

Taj The Great One Exactly. I feel the same way too

[@zoemcguire8742]

How has it been going?

[@a_la_drinah]

Right

[@Buttercreadandy]

Same

[@shenaelegrand1413]

“Y’all ain’t special. Every woman is doing the most!” 🔥🔥

[@urbanlegend9233]

So right! People with their lives in order ain't got time to do all that.

[@SoggyDew]

Most sexual energy women have anyways is romaticism and emotional and story based. I realized it when I turned 25 and at 27 I realized I never really cared about sex much. I just needed to be protected and loved

[@inasyal6311]

You're so right :-) successful people are not into sex that much xxx

[@iki12737]

That's not true at all, they have professional mistress and party's....

[@55monk28]

Lmaooo billionaires are literally top pedophiles. They get so bored of getting everything they want handed to them, they resort to pedophilia and beastiality and all kinds of disgusting things just for that dopamine boost. Theyre also the top hostess of orgy parties like said, so that’s definitely false..

[@Honeyiroseupfromthedead]

"Never give ut off free,idc if its a lavish dates, vacations" "If they are serious,they gonna like for who u are "

[@AnumIAM]

I love the fact that your videos are not so short. You really take the time to talk to us and answer our various questions. You are like the sister or aunty we all wish we had. You are God sent Shera. God bless you. #UchangedMyLife

[@ninah5938]

I am locking myself up for a year and watching all your videos! ❤

[@ShanyShannon]

I said the same for myself as well! Some of my friends I told this they asked me, "Are you sure?" Or "You're not into dating right now? You don't want a man?" No! I need to build myself up & wise up before oh re getting together with a guy again. 😊

[@NRD137]

FACTS!!!😂❤

[@perfectwisdom3303]

Shera you are a goddess sent from heaven for us women! Thank you so much.

[@CamilleJenny]

Great point! It is what it is about sex, and I agree it’s not beneficial, that’s not what’s important

[@sky-car-abc123]

This is truly one of your landmark videos Shera. No one makes sense on this subject the way you do.

[@walkingsunshine6568]

Ladies, if you have a high sex drive, get yourself a Magic Wand. I received one as a gift a few weeks ago, and it is truly "magical."😁😊

[@jdjdjdjcndkskxcjcjdjdjcjf9246]

Walking Sunshine That’s kind of sad that you don’t want to do it with another human

[@katrina1694]

@@jdjdjdjcndkskxcjcjdjdjcjf9246 lol what's the point in casual MEANINGLESS sex?

[@maiffi8183]

@@katrina1694 Obviously it means something if you have to get a fake dick, instead of a real one and are you "slut shaming" as these feminists like to say :D:D ?

[@jrmetmoi]

Maiffi shut up you idiot

[@katrina1694]

@@maiffi8183 I don't have a issue with having sex with your MAN or WOMAN is cool. But casual MEANINGLESS sex is a No no for ME. TAKE IT HOW YOU WANT TO.

[@le55511]

I love all of your videos, but this one resonates with me so well. I wish I knew this when I was in my 20s. I could've saved myself from falling short.

[@hopeful9160]

It’s 2022, who the hell still trying to please a man in bed,get the bag like Shera says

[@bananewane1402]

Also. You don't "give" sex. You *have* sex. Sex is a symbiosis.

[@carmensmith2457]

This is one of your best videos. Everyone wants to be a Samantha from SITC. Many women are not made for that. Samantha wasn't looking for marriage or a Suga daddy.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

That series was originally based on gay men in the city 🤣

[@angelofthemosthigh7292]

You're doing right...ppl who talk about sex too much are sick minded

[@TheMorganVEVO]

I said this exact same thing to a woman on IG and she got mad. Lol. Most women aren't ready for this yet.

[@rayanaaa123]

What did you say to her exactly? Xx

[@bebop54]

the longer videos create a different atmosphere.... like visiting with a great friend .. this makes your vid's VERY special & original .... perhaps the 'complainers want you to be like the 'staus quo'....lol

[@catchaliar1317]

bebop54 atmosphere of child neglect

[@josephineblom]

Shera don't play she tells it like it is!

[@jem752]

You should talk more about this in particular, this is sadly not heard of enough!

[@mindset_olympics2]

Glad you kept it short i love the short n sweet ones gives me a boost everyday to keep focus on creating the life I want. Thank you

[@LeilaniAlua]

Yes!!!!! Why everything got to lead to sex -_- Thank you!!! SheRa.

[@LeilaniAlua]

V Varrin some women not all.

[@LeilaniAlua]

c s Some women not all.

[@julieotieno5800]

preach hunny!

[@grae1152]

Shera: I don't talk about sex on my channel because it's not the Focus!!!😏😏 This woman is a queen!!!👑❤️💆

[@Chelsealove316]

I’m 26. Sex feels GREAT but ladies hold off on it for as long as possible if he’s willing to wait especially

[@DrGoddessMonaSexTherapistBMsc]

I have to coach these ladies everyday on holding off on SEX til you get a ring 💍 and the ladies that listen to my coaching are getting married and houses and having whatever they want but I teach them their worth and then they get it cause most women are not taught this from their mom and dad 🤷🏽‍♀️ make them chase you to the Alter 💍💍💍💍👰🏾

[@maraka8106]

I would like to have a one on one with you

[@cherieg2143]

Yassss please 👌

[@Nofretari]

I like your shorter videos.

[@kayyoung9242]

Nofretari me2 ...st8 2 the point...period 🙂

[@juliejuju7419]

Nofretari Me too! Straight forward and to the point

[@lionsimba723]

Me too

[@Sasha.999]

One of your best videos for women to get over never ending validation cycles.

[@AdrienneStarr]

"No I just threw up and I have diarrhea" lmao!!

[@maritzag4502]

Does kanye know who he married??😂

[@torilotus2264]

Classic Shera! I'm in a mood and enjoying this video all the way in 2020! 😭

[@thealkemychannel4758]

"You are... my starship, come take me up tonight and don't be late and don't you come too sooon".

[@xeniastephenson8076]

Lol I told this guy that helping me with school that we will have sex after covid is over we not sure when that is lol.

[@babyc.3015]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@deedeemoore6096]

SheRASeven1 I love how she always speaks the truth keep these videos coming !!!

[@SA-nt9kl]

Omg shera the diarrhea and throw up excuse had me cracking up 😂 you’re something else lol

[@DrGoddessMonaSexTherapistBMsc]

You can send them to A Sexologist like me lol for questions and these loose women need to hold off on SEX and make him wait anyway until you married then know what to do when you get married lol

[@juliejuju7419]

Love you SheRa! Thanks for keeping your videos short and to the point.

[@thecenterofmybeing1502]

I Don't think we're supposed to even be doing that all year long...isn't there a mating season for us too. Goshhh!

[@thecaprikid1329]

StudyfortheMostHigh 😂😂 ok!

[@marij5589]

I really love this concept, it makes sense! Maybe a cycle similar to our menstrual cycles?

[@angelofthemosthigh7292]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yea we need a mating season too

[@Sasha.999]

Your best video . Every mother and father should let their daughters listen to it.

[@katrina1694]

I literally haven't had sex since March of THIS year and my mind is so clear.🤷🏾‍♀️😊😊😊😊I see all the bullshit I didn't see when I was having sex a lot, and being a pickmiesha. So glad I stumbled upon your videos, true mom I never had. (Not saying you're old) lol

[@victorias5272]

Tee Love I hit 3 years this month. My mind is so clear I'm seeing through walls 😂

[@cherieg2143]

"..get a creative outlet.."🎯

[@Kclark495]

Oh my god girl you got me in stitches at 1:44! 'Go figure it out'

[@TheMetuneter]

Surly what you miss on this level you'll see on the next , once we put the books , sciences and traditional things down what we thought we thought was real was far from the truth . Peace an love to everyone great show as always Sister

[@treasurerose6732]

One of the most helpful videos! Packed full of good points! ❤

[@WeCanTravel321]

I love how she breaks everything down.

[@day8214]

By the time I want to chase my wife I be too tired of chasing my legacy. Good video SheRa.

[@MarieAmicalola]

#message Your hair is very pretty today.

[@IamKarryanne]

Week 2 😂😂 ..yeah it's no need to talk about it. I used to be sex crazed 🙊..

[@cranberrysoda9051]

I really enjoyed your long videos 😢 I will miss them.

[@f3042]

Did she say she isn't doing long vids anymore? Lol

[@khloe38]

Is she not doing long videos anymore?

[@deezoliviabish2]

right!! this shit is too short !! smh

[@nishamack586]

cranberry soda me too! I clean my house. Run errands, go to the gym. Do everything while streaming her vids!

[@accidentsafe]

Same

[@mysticapexdeitygg4377]

USE YOUR SEXUAL ENERGY FOR SOMETHING ELSE OTHER THAN THE SEXUAL ACT🤨😌

[@TheSolsticeShop]

The fake throw up and diarrhea thing is hilarious. Lol

[@IndigoWisdom1]

Some women are into sex because they “seek validation”, and some of us are simply SCORPIOS and couldn’t give a f*ck about validation. Lol ❤️❤️❤️ I love your channel too and especially when you stay On Topic and hate when people try to ask so many questions off your focus of expertise. I also agree about the time availability issue.

[@enchantingnaturals866]

It's not about Scorpio it's about the feminine body..all the getting dirty favors men more

[@xScarlingx]

I been holding out all this time& my boyfriend pays for everything, he does anything I ask.... brb - I need a wax 😂 it ornnnn 😋💃🏿

[@afroditesis4738]

Do you plan on waiting until marriage?

[@yolandaalmonte1771]

Your a smart lady that’s why 🙌🏽💯🌺

[@urScorpioLady]

Have side guy or friend with benefits if you are into sex lol so your main guy doesn’t get suffocated

[@nursecoco3718]

Love your video as always Ashera. You have a pretty glow btw💖

[@lakeshamarsters3922]

I drnt listen to your live but my answer to your title is because we try to avoid that at all cost. Lol hate giving up my Boody 😂😂😂😂

[@954dreamer1]

Should we wait for them to bring up the topic of relationship? Or should we ask them after a certain point? Nowadays I really don’t know if I’m in a relationship with someone, the guys don’t bring it up

[@caressaclark1042]

determined90 Just my two cents: When he starts introducing you as his girlfriend, you are in a relationship.

[@jessio4312]

Dont listen to the @determind90 . Shes all about sleepin around. No you have to find a way to have that conversation in a sweet way. Yeah introduce you while he introduce the other chick too one different day lol

[@sukhniyaa]

You should make it clear from the beginning that you're only interested in long term dating, and he should make his intentions very clear within three months. If he doesn't, back off, start being absent.

[@nattyrocberry]

You should do a podcast

[@angel33333333]

how do keep Simone interested for a year without sex can someone tell me teach me?! men get bored and leave if they don't get sex after like 5 dates .. I was always told as a virgin that men hate inexperienced woman because they're going to be clingy and felt guilty of my virginity

[@f3042]

Shame on Slim Thug. You know he's giving some woman some $ 😂😂😂

[@itsme_nv1]

I live for your videos. finally finished binge watching them 😍😍😍😍

[@thatsdelishmukbangbish2292]

Hey girl ...can you do a video on sugar daddy dating ...step by step like meeting,dating ,keeping their interest ,making then crave you ,then introducing the gifts /allowance , before sex after sex ,keeping their attention after they’ve had the cookie .I’m in the early stages of sugar daddy dating your videos are so helpful .Love allll the way from the U.K. xxx luh ya girl

[@EngageinEnglish]

You are amazing! Just..so wise xx

[@TruePathLiving]

I think when you have sex with someone depends. I met my boyfriend 10 months ago, we hooked up the same night and he just never left. Literally. We are together every single day

[@kittyearsheadbands8810]

He probably can’t support himself and you’re easy sex

[@cherieg2143]

Good for you. I personally believe in the holding out though.

[@prettyface192]

Lol they may be some things this woman won't say but a stable man who has options don't settle for easy prey I've talk to guys an see how they responded men like these are usually users an have nothing to offer!

[@mendingwall3823]

Put the disclaimer *results not typical *

[@pinkandsavageofficial]

There are many men in their 50s, and above who cheat with professional service providers because they’re not getting intimacy at home, let’s not forget about that

[@charlita25]

“False sense of validation “ 💯

[@puffchickpam1]

Just say no to obligatory sex !!😂

[@LeilaniAlua]

You are right!!!

[@urScorpioLady]

Is it just my phone 📱 or are you also having problem with the video ? It’s cutting out

[@cattycrystal5071]

I agree that is so right lady💄💅👠

[@leesway]

I thought gold digging trophy women use sex and company as their currency. Why else would a man be dropping so much money?

[@leesway]

@I'mNoTsCaRy Kim thanks

[@maxeva568]

Please goddess do a video about step parents turning our dads or mums to hating their own kids.

[@katrina1694]

Wow, my step mom played a big part in how my dad treated me. 😒☹️She made him stop letting me go to the skating rink, and told him to stop spoiling me as well.

[@lunajuliete6260]

Please baby girl !!!!!!! Make a video about weight loss spells focus please

[@maxeva568]

Luna Juliete oh yea shera should do that

[@brittanyjohnson2399]

If a man can buy you like items on a shelf he will not value you because you have a price tag. Showing mild intelligence, concern and interest in him that he will appreciate. Have your own money so that you can spoil yourself so that he has to be creative to get you. This video is how human trafficking starts if misused. But sex doesn't matter to a man cause its so accessible anywhere! Men need to know they can trust you to confide in you.

[@mzv-2740]

I totally agree! great video ♥️

[@mikdogg69]

I always use my back...i have back problems..lol...no nookie for you....

[@ericabassi7728]

Queen SheRaSeven1 serving up some hot truth

[@Lanainvestor]

I'm on your side!!! u are so smart!

[@blurose9648]

You are awesome! Thank you for sharing. I truly enjoy your videos.

[@SwanTheQueen]

Can you please make a video about how to handle the sex talk with a potential sugar daddy? I met a very rich guy and took me for dinner everything was great but he was really straight forward about sex like he cant wait to be in bed with me and asking me private questions about what i like. I was totally unprepared so i just answered him, i dont know if i did a mistake. Can you make a video so i can address better next time and be prepared? I will really appreciate 🌹💕

[@mickkeyking]

I know this comment was long ago but no Swan. That man is looking for an escort not sugar.

[@Sugarbaby4l]

@@mickkeykingexactly

[@leshandragrootboom]

Yup

[@caressaclark1042]

I am in my 30s, and I have had a high sex-drive ever since my first self-induced orgasm at 8 yrs old. My love for sex has nothing to do with validation. It simply feels amazing. I love masculinity and the beauty of the male body. I get off on getting my partner off. I do agree that it is best not to have sex "for free"... though I don't always follow that rule.

[@indyavonnnemesis1806]

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[@caressaclark1042]

Indy'a Vonn Nemesis IJKLMNOP...

[@susurrers]

You guys are ridiculous. I work with children and they ARE sexual by nature just like every other human being. Sometimes it is just discovered by accident. and it is MORE THAN normal to masturbate at 8 as puberty starts anywhere from 6-9 nowadays. Go do research. I have a whole degree on associated topics.

[@caressaclark1042]

OutThere2017 Yes, that is correct😈

[@caressaclark1042]

JASMIN NIMSAJ No, there is something wrong with you for judging a normal 8 year old. Please read a college-level human development textbook.

[@hypeeeractive4002]

This woman is brilliant!!

[@princessyos6780]

Sex does not keep a man 📌

[@jeffadom9332]

Sex is the highest form of spirituality

[@corsicanlulu]

so porn stars and prostitutes are the most spiritual then?

[@iamsofia3782]

@@corsicanlulu lmao well said

[@lionsimba723]

Ahh 😬 does this include rape?

[@haitiangal1361]

corsican lulu I genuinely laughed out loud😂😂😂😂😂

[@honeymoonavenue97]

1:40 that’s not true. A lot of women have higher sex drive.

[@honeybadgernasty]

Beautiful cat! 😻

[@noelruth]

Really helpful 🙏🏾 ❤

[@Fitmynded4life]

Here for this healthy movement ❤❤❤