Wonder Bread: Atomic Clapback

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[@nathanspencer9696]

Why is it that whenever Sunn offers a hug i get genuinely emotional? Love this dude.

[@k.c1126]

Same :o)

[@hilzbilz09]

Same. You can tell he's genuine about it, it's not just a signature move. He truly appreciates his followers and wants to provide comfort, not just knowledge and information.

[@TheKrispyfort]

Because it's sincerely offered maybe

[@mommyofkittens4809]

It feels genuine. I’m not much of a hugger, but I feel the tears well up when he offers that virtual hug.

[@balkiswalker3734]

Sunn, your voice is intoxicating, your humility is sobering, and the way you intelligently express yourself with such grace is so very admirable. Continue to inspire us to evolve.

[@alqualonde2998]

As a person who never had pbj sandwiches in my whole life, ( they are not a thing in Southern Turkey), Iadmit that video probably didnt raise the same feelings as it did to many people and you. But i can understand the feeling of loss and grief and how food can let us remember simpler times. It is hard cheese on buttered flatbread for me. Typical breakfast my late grandmother used to make. Now it holds a special place in my hearth. I learned how to make flat bread because of this feeling.

[@ladyraven3418]

That sounds delicious. Certain foods, which I now make, remind me of my own Grandmother. Food and nostalgia often go hand-in-hand.

[@timlewis232]

Class personified 💪🏿👍🏿 #WeOutchea

[@psychedelicpegasus7587]

That part about not putting a fresh wound on social media is an incredibly important lesson. You just keep dropping these nuggets of concentrated wisdom throughout each of your videos. ❤

[@celondelon351]

This video is the definition of grace and dignity x

[@RevShifty]

I have no idea what set this all off, as I regrettably haven't been around for a bit. But I just have to commend you on your ability to never stop educating in every fashion, to unquestionably provide some of the best clap back anythings anywhere, and to have a real heart of gold pumping its way through every single bit of it. You're a real one of a kind. They broke all the molds with you, and I'm never not incredibly thankful for stumbling across your channel one day all those months ago. I hope all continues to be well with you, and I personally look forward to every lesson learned. Even if they make me look at myself with a side eye at first. You're just wonderful through and through, and I wanted to take a brief moment and make sure I told you that. For whatever it's worth.

[@nioka3436]

Respect, nicely done Sunn 👏🏾👏🏾😉

[@Lyricalcandy1982]

As much as I enjoy your clapback videos .... and boy do I enjoy your clapbacks .... I admire your ability to show grace! And although I'm not one that needed to apologize .... I'll take that hug! :)

[@JackBarlowStudios]

“And y’all know how I feel about ‘collateral damage.’” The side-shade is sending me! 😂

[@clearlieme]

I am autistic, and I had wanted to comment on your PB&J video but didn't. When I am feeling empathy, my instinctive way of expressing that empathy is to share something similar that I've experienced. However, I'm aware that neurotypical people may interpret that as attempting to divert attention to myself. Usually I'll do it anyway, because the way I express myself is just as valid as that of neurotypicals. But I will sensor myself if I believe there is a higher risk of upsetting someone - for example, because they are actively grieving. So thank you for this post Sunn, for recognising your neurodiverse followers and making me feel welcome. Thank you for the safe space. Here's my empathy story to you: I have PTSD, and a few years ago I started doing a thing called Family Systems Therapy (or Parts work). It felt a bit silly and woo-woo but I'll try anything once. Well, a few weeks in and I started recovering childhood memories. Good childhood memories. And the first ones to come back were food. I was suddenly getting cravings for meals I'd forgotten even existed (my mum used to make a dish she called "hedgehogs", where she cooked rice-y meatballs in tomato soup). So I started cooking all these meals for myself and, like you said, I don't know whether I was feeding my inner child or if they were feeding me. The feeling of eating those meals was one of the strangest, nicest, most melancholy but joyful feelings I've ever experienced. Thank you for reminding me of it. I need to go make some orange juice icey-poles.

[@gchicklet]

Blessed are the merciful, blessed are the peace makers. Mad respect.

[@jrfour2408]

To quote; 'Any fool can draw a sword. It takes a wise one to keep it in the scabbard.'

[@alexengland-shinemercy]

As a ND member of your following, I have no real grasp of what this video was about (suspecting contextually implicit stuff I'm ki da blind to) BUT Sunn you said you took us into consideration so as not to knock us out by friendly fire and I just want you to know you're appreciated for that. I don't have to know what strife I missed to be glad of someone steering around it for me

[@GudetamaSit]

Love you Sunn. I'm here for the tricky conversations and warm hugs just as much as the clapbacks.

[@lb8012]

You’re amazing Sunn!!! Always teaching without ceasing. TY professor🍎🥇

[@ayates6333]

Sunn gives similar energy to my grandpa. I feel loved and nourished after each video. 😊

[@danabryant6138]

And with that said, Imma go make me some grits, with BUTTER, and fish sticks. #WEOUTCHEA✌️

[@MishasMama]

I've been thinking about making grits all day. Grits with salmon patties. Breakfast for dinner. Enjoy

[@savvivixen8490]

That sounds like it HITS

[@danabryant6138]

@@savvivixen8490 AND DID😜

[@danabryant6138]

@@MishasMama DO IT!

[@jonniehickson5599]

I had grits, meatloaf, eggs and cold coffee this morning!

[@sidforcier3398]

When I was a kid I didn't get PB&J sandwiches with premium ingredients. Wonder Bread, Jiff (or Peter Pan), and Smucker's Grape Jelly is the recipe for MY inner child's PB&J.

[@fullmooneve1651]

Every video I watch of yours, I want to stand up and clap. Huge respect 👏👏❤️ and yes, free Palestine 🇵🇸

[@Spaghettiisyummy]

Thanks from a family of neurodivergent people who adore you! Hugs always!

[@lisaharmon5619]

I don't have a clue at what happened, but sending love and hugs! If we stick together, we'll make it!

[@ApolloandMuse]

As someone who’s neurodivergent, the care you’re showing to people like me means so much. That said, this is your space and you deserve to feel and be safe. I know I can’t speak for everyone, but just personally I would rather feel obliterated for a few days and learn what I did wrong than for your peace to be compromised on your space. You do so much work for this community already, it isn’t fair that your space isn’t safe for you.

[@wastedinspiration]

Couldn't agree more.

[@alosialee]

This a thousand times. I'm also neurodivergent and I've been clapped in Sunn's space before for something I said because I hadnt fully understood how it made me complicit. It's hard to face. It hurts when you place it into an aspect of your own potential traumas and wtf moments and realize that had someone said the same to you about that thing, how angry and upset it would make you. And it makes you feel shameful for how you couldn't see that before. But it also allows you to reflect, and tuck away for future encounters so you know better and how to be better next time. And that, is valuable. ❤

[@marcilynn2943]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@kylas1902]

The fact that you want to be corrected is exactly why he didnt go hard and end up hitting you. Just keep tje same mindset. If my guess is correct, like neurotypical people you will make another mistake and Sunn will there to clap back. At least you have the desire tonlesrn amd grow unlike most people.

[@bemde]

Thank you so much for also thinking of neurodivergent folks! What you are doing is highly appreciated, and as much as I love a good clapback, I love that you resolved this the way you did

[@CCL83]

Im a foodie, and I never understood the food snobbery of other so-called foodies. Real foodies know that sometimes food isn't about the highest quality ingredients prepared with the finest techniques. Sometimes, foods feed your soul. And if the nostalgia of a wonder bread pb&j is what you needed in that moment, you were feeding your soul, and that is a beautiful thing.

[@j_b2397]

You're a better man than I. I wish there were more men like you out there. Men who understand the concept of kindness, grace, and forgiveness. Three qualities that are much lacking in the world these days.

[@bitterbaldguy]

I would seriously love to sit and have a conversation with you. About comics, about skating, about anything. You're an incredible voice in this world.

[@April-dt8pp]

How does anyone even have anything negative to say to YOU?!? You seem like one of the kindest souls ever to grace the earth. And kindness is def not weakness. Your videos always make me smile. You're one of the faces I'm always glad to see pop up in my subs even when my mood isn't quite in line with my blessings. Thank you for being who you are. If you have haters, they have to be very ignorant and just not good humans. ❤

[@TouchofShunshine]

🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 I agree with you. Some people are unable to make acceptable social judgments since they are neurodivergent.

[@LunarGlowMedia]

A seemingly NT man purposefully taking time to consider things from an ND perspective is such a heart warming and hope filling thing to see. We're so used to being "wrong" because of our neurodivergence that having our perspective considered and our differences respected is amazing. We don't need to be coddled as if something that we said was OK just because we're ND, but the grace to understand that the offense wasn't meant and to explain why it was offensive without accusing us of being intentionally awful means everything. I can't stay up on all of your content, so I have NO idea what the whole thing was about, but you're a real one Sunn.

[@FuzzyTeddy83]

I love you with my whole heart Sunn.

[@meelcewicz-sz8mz]

Always a classy response. Peace BTW, two slices of crispy bacon take it to another level.

[@arlyfarmer7467]

Grace and space, nicely done.

[@0TTERROCK]

I think it’s your quality of knowing exactly how to use your voice and being confident in how you speak that drew me to these videos. You say what you need to say, and when you don’t say something, that is also a way of using your voice. I’m thankful that I found your channel. Always helps me to check my own biases and re-center myself.

[@the1truejoe178]

You are like an online guardian, giving us all guidance through the toughest times this century.

[@KatByte4U]

Thank you for always providing good food for thought. Blessings! 🥪

[@miimosa679]

❤❤❤

[@RabbitsRi]

The message from the first video, "Everything is not okay, and that's alright" is something that I've needed help with for a long time. And I'm glad Sunn is doing this work.

[@IAmTheoracle007]

Although I have really got to get you on some of my audible books, it's disheartening to believe that people don't even take a moment to think before they speak or write. Literally, people are going through life not paying attention to anything about anyone else. May the Elder rest in peace and in power until you see each other again. Thank you for being who you are!

[@OZARKMOON1960]

Your post with the pb&j sandwich just made me smile. Some of our memories are brought back with smells and tastes. I will never see or smell bittersweet chocolate cooking bars without remembering the time my dad and I made fudge with that instead of semi-sweet. I was all of 8 or 9 and we had just started making dishes together. We laughed about that for decades and it was still the best fudge we made together, even if it was a bit tart. I love that you share and educate and make me think deep thoughts while not feeling bad about myself. Thank you for making that memory come to mind.

[@gloriahines5756]

⭐ 💕

[@ladyraven3418]

THIS is why you remain so classy and thoughtful. I appreciate you being considerate of people that mean well, but don't always come off right. (My fellow ND peeps, that is.)

[@nubiaptah6719]

Peanut Butter and Jelly Sandwiches takes me back to my childhood and my GrandMoma's hugs. So thank you for giving me the moment and hug! 🦋

[@kt864]

I may be just a buffalo!...And I still thank you for recognizing nuerodiverse folks and for continuing to share your words and energy ❤

[@marcilynn2943]

As someone who is neurodivergent and frequently misunderstood, thank you for your understanding and for educating the neurotypical people in your community. I appreciate your channel so much! 🫶

[@Arkylie]

This exactly. I've spent a lifetime realizing that a boundary exists only after I've crossed it, only after people are mad at me for not following their expected behavior patterns, and a lifetime being horrified that I've hurt people unintentionally with not much ability to stop it from happening in the future (because of how diverse and vague the circumstances turn out to be). Much appreciate the people who are taking steps to include those of us who are socially handicapped (in the sense of horse riding or golf). Also I think wonder bread is like eating paste, but why should my food preferences get turned into some sort of slam against people who don't share them? Especially when I can readily see that it'd fit a nostalgia profile: simple, cheap food that a person from a low-income family would associate with some level of comfort. Much like how I enjoy boxed mac & cheese and used to get annoyed with my mom adding real cheese to try to make it healthier. Or how homemade potato salad has such a specific taste and texture profile in my head that I cannot stomach any sort of store-bought potato salad or any "fancy" stuff added to it (stick with dill pickles and cheddar cheese!). Let people enjoy the things they enjoy, sheesh.

[@kt864]

❤❤❤

[@Stevekixs]

Me too.

[@armas_ectos]

Sunn, you are a man of wisdom and yes, grace. Bless your inner fire.

[@UncleverCarapace]

I'm not on social media so let me first offer my condolences. Second, you have handled this with so much grace and dignity, and you freely extend the same to your audience. Finally, thank you for everything you do. You truly have created an incredible space where we can all state our minds without being assumed to be speaking in bad faith. We can all learn from each other in safety and understanding. That's because of you. So thank you.

[@n.anderson5938]

Thanks! You’re a blessing! 😇

[@andreadaniel8792]

I love the wisdom you possess and the grace you come with. Thank you.

[@Lambeh]

Wisdom is knowing when to burn bridges and when to build them. You're a very wise man.

[@moonhoneymami]

Its the emotional discipline for me

[@prunejuice9032]

I'm actually crying a little now I respect and appreciate you so much ❤

[@patriciabronk1786]

Love this! You are a gentleman! Thank you for being you. 🤟🏻❤️✌🏻

[@patricescott-yanez8006]

your voice is soothing to hear it feels warm and nurturing.

[@nihilistgirl6938]

I'm glad you're doing somewhat okay! Please be sure to prioritize your safety and well-being! I'm sorry you received those comments.

[@jmslade7]

💜❤️💛🖤💚💜

[@TocYounger]

I didn't see the video you're referencing, but your level of integrity is always admirable. Thanks for that, and I'm so sorry for any loss you may be facing.

[@seajelly2421]

What talent, to for so much beautiful messaging into only two minutes. Incredible.

[@pjaypender1009]

I didn't read the comments. Someone took issue with your PB&J?! Looked pretty perfect to me. I haven't seen Wonder Bread in ages. Haven't been able to find it around here. Hugs back.

[@ladylilac4363]

Thank you for your grace. I honestly feel it's an honor to be learning from you. ❤

[@ineliseriveraperez]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@lesliehunsinger7644]

❤❤❤ nothing but love 🤗

[@teresaabrown8077]

That was 😎. Some people. Are Not Worth The Air They Breathe. The Bible says😊 Mercy and Grace❤. Stay Safe and 💪. I'm impressed with your Spirit. GOD BLESS U 🙏. To many Knuckle Head's on Social Media😂😂. ✌ ❤

[@dkys2457]

Grace, so gracefully presented. Peace to you🙏

[@Lazy_Fish_Keeper]

Sunn, thank you. I'll go peruse the merch for more ways to pay my thank you forward. Hopefully, one day, everyone will be as dedicated to preventing lateral trauma as you.

[@redaleta]

Sending hugs right back to you.

[@breakingboardrooms1778]

I appreciate you big time, professor.

[@rosemaryjohnson2322]

GRACE❤❤❤❤❤

[@marshmello3455]

Like Sunn, a PB&J is nostalgic food for me. Sometimes, when I need to hug my inner child, I'll make one for myself. We never had Wonder Bread as kids, so I wouldn't include that as my nostalgia. I also would have used grape jelly instead of strawberry. Because that's how we did it when I was young. But that's *me* not Sunn. Honestly, for such a simple sandwich, there could have been several changes to the PB&J Sunn made that would have produced a product more matched to my childhood. That doesn't make Sunn wrong or bad or whatever those people's points were supposed to be. He made comfort food to comfort himself, not a bunch of internet randos. I really appreciated that video and it made me want to run out and grab some ingredients to make myself a sandwich.

[@wastedinspiration]

I recently put my foot in it, so far be it for me to critique anyone else's insensitivity. But this is another example of what I should have remembered last time, Sunn has consistently shown grace and empathy to people who deserve it. Also, wait, we can deleted a comment Like, I know we can, but I thought of it like trying to hide a mistake, at least after someone interacted with it... it makes perfect sense, if it's hurtful and doesn't add to the conversation, but I didn't even think of it.

[@cmjre2]

even with the wonderbread i still love you dude!!! you are a superstar...

[@BtheProfBowens]

Get it off… not necessary to put it out. Well played as usual my friend. ✌🏾✊🏾🖖🏾🇺🇸.

[@Lindamorena]

Me too hun

[@lbr88x30]

I'm sorry for your loss.

[@maisie3309]

Hi Sunn, sorry about your loss, I understand that you are still going through the profound grieving process of losing a loved one. It's a pity that you aren't allowed to just grieve like everyone else. However you're navigating and handling the negative remarks of certain individuals, with such grace and humility, even though you'd really like to nuke them into the stratosphere. You are such a wonderful, knowledgeable, well spoken individual and educator, eagerly passing on knowledge to whomever wants to learn around the globe. Keep on teaching those of us, who want to learn. And again, I'm sorry about your loss. ❤

[@kandyedwards1376]

1 of Chucktowns finest, you know what I mean. Keep being great!!!!

[@AetherTiger8]

very kind teacher, always look forward to your lessons 👍

[@tameikarease2389]

your amazing… hugs back to you bro…just saw the pb&j video earlier and it was very touching and resonated with me

[@witchyvicar]

**Waits patiently for the **#foodie** white bread clapback video** :)

[@Dumpsterfiregrace]

💜✌️💜

[@sunflowerlady2057]

@00:36🤣🤣😭😭😭 ooh I love that so much❤

[@WhatIsSanity]

Sometimes when I'm responding to people I wonder if I'm really responding in a positive manner or just adding fuel to a fire that'll burn everybody. Sometimes the answer is, yeah, I'm simply failing to rise above and I delete my words before posting. Other times I look at what I already posted and go well shit, that was dumb. When people get a reaction out of us we can be at our worst or best in responding, sometimes both or even neither. Best we can do is be mindful of our behaviour and strive to be our best selves, as you did again today, Sunn. Thanks for the hug 🤗

[@CandyPossum]

❤

[@robinbryant7748]

What'd I miss? I need the title of the video. Your content is both appetizer and dessert in my life🎉❤🎉

[@WarJackalGaming]

Thank you for being you!

[@ericapelz260]

You're a good man, Sunn.

[@BruceOnder]

Wonder Bread will get you through some things...

[@onthespectrumpod]

Thank you Sunn. I was thinking the same exact thing. I'm often afraid of misreading the room, the situation, or getting too fixated on something and missing the point of what someone is saying. I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings or make them feel like I'm diminishing them. I recently posted a video about some of the challenges when looking for a job as a Neurodivergent person, and I might have to clap back on a few comments myself.

[@mcclurge]

ML&R, I had a PB & J sandwich today 👍🏾

[@Fig_Faerie]

🧚❤

[@julienunnally8040]

First off, I absolutely love that you recognize us neurodivergent types who (I'm speaking for me) have a hard time articulating the right words the first go-round. And I understood the nostalgia of having something from your childhood; in your case a (very well assembled) peanut butter and jelly. I didn't fully get everything from the first video, but now it makes sense. Possibly Wonder bread was it! No substitution. Lol Otherwise the sandwich just isn't the same. This is a little off track, but this is how I feel about my Duke's mayonnaise. There's just not anything else. For whomever you lost, I feel sadness for you. I hope your heart will heal. One more hug...ok, now I can make it through the rest of my day. I hope you can too. Love you, Sunn

[@jodyhall8731]

Much love

[@mickeyoshea2035]

Ayo that nicety line took me back to Michelé! ✌🏾

[@queenmini372]

👍🏾👍🏾

[@msteach3082]

I may have missed the context of this video, so forgive me. At this point in my life, I don’t buy Wonderbread. However, some of my best childhood memories involve Wonderbread. Bologna sandwiches, PB&J, hot links with mustard and the ultimate garden picked tomato sandwich with mayo and black pepper. ❤❤❤ Edit: I forgot I was commenting on a linguists channel. We picked the tomatoes, not the whole sandwich. 😂😂😂

[@brianzirkle1641]

I was about to post something along these lines. I grew up in a lower working class family in a rural area. The only bread we could get/afford was wonder bread. I don't buy it now, either, but it certainly evokes some nostalgia.

[@pronounsinmybio]

Best wishes for you, sir.

[@BetterMe981]

Now that was a sweet-ass post. 💐

[@lilyflower5576]

Im glad You are doing okay ❤

[@octaviasanders8696]

When I see, wonder bread and makes me miss my grandma😢 so I did completely avoid the point apologies for this….. I grew up on it and it’s not sold here and had a moment of nostalgia 😮….I did miss the post of your elder and I apologize for my selfishness… no forgiveness necessary and I appreciate your kindness in not letting off friendly fire

[@GINYH]

✌🏾❤️