Working Out How To Date | First Dates

[@icyghosts2440]

He was really trying, feel so bad for him

[@melissahadjis1235]

Alex Porter awwwww ikr? He’s soooo cute n sweet 😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️

[@jwwr8408]

I’ll probably be in the same place as him in 20 years

[@joelbizzell1386]

@@jwwr8408 Hang in there, man. It took me quite a long time to find love too. But I did. And I am nowhere near as genuinely kind as this fellow.

[@kayleighseverino5970]

😂😂

[@Be1smaht]

No shes trying she asked questions

[@damolive7015]

Her friends are telling her that there are good looking guys out there for her. She never gave him a chance.HE is in same league as her.

[@synthesizerpatel7405]

Damo live I’d say given his personality and her apparent lack thereof, he’s several leagues higher than her.

[@akebengtsson1223]

Synthesizer Patel he’s probably talking appearance only

[@suando_r]

His better

[@fabulousdolphin4221]

women dont have leagues apparently

[@elyastoohey6621]

How dare you say that about this queen. She deserves the man of her dreams. This is why you are incel sweetie

[@nicolafigini784]

I love how Fred and Merlin are always kind to the diners, and never patronising. They always seem really genuine.

[@bealong8718]

they are the kinds of guys you would want at anything important, so encouraging and kind.

[@Revelian1982]

They get paid to be nice. Chances are they were cracking jokes off-camera.

[@realist8888]

Shut up!!!

[@zacatkinson3926]

@@Revelian1982 Maybe not

[@laurenmassey73]

Even if you’re not interested romantically the least you can do is engage in conversation and have a nice meal. No wonder she hasn’t had a relationship

[@TheDrunkCook111]

Lauren Massey well said lauren

[@Jim_Bag]

She couldn’t get her mind off the meal

[@RP-dy5mu]

What the hell are you talking about? She clearly was trying really hard to continue the conversation, as was he. Just sometimes it's hard for people to make it happen, especially when they are nervous, which these two clearly were.

[@everythinggaming7938]

@@RP-dy5mu agreed

[@Achilles94627]

A lot of people are just terrible conversationalists.

[@oscarking4891]

I'm nervous just watching this

[@edenelizabeth3569]

Oscar King same ahahhaha

[@edenelizabeth3569]

Can feel my face going red

[@dani238159]

😂feel the vibes through the screen

[@amberarlette]

saaame omg

[@R0n1n760]

You're comment is so real and relatable lol! I thought it was just me.

[@ifweseekay]

I mean come on! She should've tried a little bit more. He was really trying and didn't really get anything to work with :/

[@c_m1142]

ur kinda cute whens our date??

[@bebopanda4622]

SMOOOTH

[@christophernodds]

Nah they just didn't know what to say, creating shit small talk.

[@Katerina77823]

John Sampson she could’ve at least been more friendly

[@birajsharma9618]

she was prolly hoping for a Hemsworth to show up.

[@greygoose4x46]

The sad part is he seems like a good guy and she thinks she can do better than him but that’s not the reality /

[@Pathrissia]

I like his personality. Honestly. The girl was just rude and stuck up.

[@ellarose3336]

man of the woods why are we still watching this lmao it’s two years old

[@jitr0619]

@@ellarose3336 I’m here just about to be 2021 in 2 hours

[@Be1smaht]

A 2min. Edited clip told you that

[@thod2987]

I have worked with this guy before, really nice bloke actually. I hope he finds someone in the future

[@z-rex6068]

T Hod Really? Cool

[@thod2987]

@@z-rex6068 yeah was doing work experience where he works, or at least did work

[@BarriosGroupie]

This show does a good job in realistically matching up people looks-wise.

[@BarriosGroupie]

@@shadowStunterr I'd say it's more to do with both having a "distinctive" rather than classically "beautiful/handsome" look.

[@dominic667]

@@shadowStunterr based

[@melsar7923]

Shadow Stunter I’m not sure if this was a joke or not but my jaw dropped 😭😭😂

[@MillySpringle]

Shadow Stunter there’s no ‘autistic’ look

[@lostfootage1999]

@@BarriosGroupie nah. theres scientific evidence as to what features are more attractive than others. these people, based on that proven evidence, are in the bottom percentages.

[@ittybittyboat9017]

Feel bad for the guy, he seems like a nice bloke

[@slaythedevils5102]

Over for him

[@eastlamb9949]

He played the 'i managed to knit a doctor who scarf' card too soon.

[@vehxy]

Ricky Tomlin fucking lol

[@redlightmax]

+Ricky Tomlin 2:19 He should've worn the Doctor Who scarf, it would've been something to talk about.

[@mitzymoomoo6658]

Imo I think that's pretty cool!

[@david3767]

Hell yeah he's got skills

[@pistypondue1611]

That would have swept me off my feet

[@Bella-qu5pf]

She needs to get off her high horse shes not much of a catch with a personality like that. He could do SOOOO much better

[@baylorakins7306]

you also gotta think, theres several guys that are willing to tap that which she might find 'attractive' but the guys themselves are just looking for a easy lay until they find something worth a value to keep around

[@B6kmd]

Or with a face like that. She's rough looking let's be honest.

[@Senuasmr]

Feel like he was trying just a little bit more than her.

[@lindzay5359]

"Yeah, yeah, awesome, cool, right so wha...erm, yeah, erm yeah so eeerrh blorlbllbrlo so ermm, uuummmm" what exactly was he trying?

[@Senuasmr]

to make an effort? As opposed to dead silence, a conversation takes the interaction of 2 people.

[@synthesizerpatel7405]

Lin Dzay to be fair that’s pretty much what most people do if the person they’re talking to is just completely shut off and giving off awkward vibes, like this lady was. It’s a hell of a lot easier to make conversation if your date’s engaging, vibrant and chatty. This guy probably isn’t the world’s greatest conversationalist but she was giving him nothing. He can do better.

[@jojobee42]

Yeah he was actually trying to ask questions.. she just gave a short answer to every question, and that's it. (So uncomfortable)

[@chloe01010]

As soon as she shook his hand she pulled a face like "ew" how rude is that?

[@AlishaNic]

I dont think she was being rude. She obviously isnt well with social cues and probably keeps to herself most of the time. She may have never even been kissed before. So someone coming into her personal space like that is understandably going to get initially pushed away because of how uncomfortable she is with the situation.

[@mamarylinlove3094]

chloe 121 he's so nervous he was probably sweating like hell

[@iFayt9034]

Kissing on the cheek is a normal greeting in Europe. I do it all the time, I don't think that's why

[@AlishaNic]

Jonathan Xavier Your experience with social anxiety is not identical to someone else's. So you can't say 100 percent that she does not have it. She is obviously missing the ability to determine normal social cues. It could be autism. I don't know

[@Wookieeoo]

Jonathan Xavier Mate I've never had a kiss on the cheek at 19

[@potatopatata4833]

He is way out of her league! Seems like a lovely guy whilst she had -10 personality

[@starman900]

I think a guy like him needed someone with more self confidence and self esteem. It was like two negative ions creating nothing

[@laaa210]

@John Sampson that's a lie

[@peppermintpearl]

They look like siblings tho

[@z06dave]

Delia why? they look nothing alike. Do you mean because they are both overweight?

[@meia7174]

Omggg I’m dead they really do 😂😂😂😂😂

[@wdp4wdm3a]

Nope.

[@melissahadjis1235]

Caitlyn lol too true

[@Jigpikchu]

they really do!

[@alarailun5376]

They were both so nervous. I think he'd be more suited to someone who is smart and geeky like him. Then he could relax and talk about shared interests. He's not going to be able to have a conversation with a not very bright woman with nothing to say. She'd suit someone equally awkward but a bit dim.

[@synthesizerpatel7405]

Eaf Lun Exactly. I like First Dates but they make this mistake fairly often - confuse nerdy and awkward with dim and socially inept. There’s a lot more to him than there is to her. They’re both very shy but scratch the surface and there’s probably a cool, funny guy in there somewhere. I get the feeling even if she was totally relaxed she’d still be sat there giving one word answers with the same gormless expression.

[@huzza01]

Synthesizer Patel spot on, couldn't have said it better

[@hcnfnhff4499]

We have no idea whether or not she's dim. I hate when people assume that if you don't say much or get nervous or you're socially awkward that you must be unintelligent. We just sit here and judge whether or not someone is "dim" from a three minute clip. Maybe she's just scared fuckless because she's meeting a new person with cameras pointing at her. Maybe she just froze. I used be like this not because I'm a moron but because I didn't have anything to say and I had social anxiety. I'm totally inept socially and don't get along with people naturally but I do well academically and am very social and energetic when I am comfortable with someone. Any first meeting for me would go down exactly like this.

[@robbiecale3327]

Hcnfn Hff she's a nursery nurse and he's a science technician at a college. She's dim.

[@saladbattery]

Robbie Cale you’re the dim one, if you think that someone’s career choice automatically determines how intelligent they are. Intelligence is far more complicated than one aspect of your life. I’m not saying she’s smart, but you really cannot judge someone’s entire mental competence by a one minute clip of them being nervous on a date. Come on...

[@danwilson48]

He was a really nice guy and trying his best. She isn’t exactly the best looking woman out there so she should probably stop acting like she is too good for him.

[@petergorm]

He just dodged a bullet. Horrible woman.

[@lordgaben3093]

Her ego is so high.

[@IamINERT]

Guy was cool

[@slaythedevils5102]

It's over for him he is incel

[@ladylionXOX]

This was SO hard to watch, he was trying his best to maintain the conversation.

[@ricssousa5964]

Braces, contacts, lose weight. And you're getting much better than her. She in the other hand, clearly doesn't seem to care much because she's convinced she can find a good looking guy who gives her a chance. Not gonna happen.

[@pringleman882]

Not to mention a better haircut. He can easily do a lot with it.

[@dolanddrumpf6344]

I'm saying what everyone is thinking. Stacey has got NOTHING to be stuck up about.

[@ladistar]

LOL your name and pfp 😂😂😂

[@Enoch_Owl]

What are you insinuating? That she would only ever be hot if she was trapped in a house fire? How dare you! Wicked wicked man.😆

[@sarah-hx5ds]

she’s very picky and has extremely high expectations for someone who doesn’t exactly have a lot to bring to the table either.

[@BurgerPwner]

i feel bad for him, he really tried but it's hard trying to talk to wall...

[@lunalove9395]

oh bless he seems sweet. i hope he found someone that was super into science and all the nerdy things he likes!

[@CuddleSeason]

He is the type of guy that girls would be saying at: "Oh, he's so nice and sweet." and ends up all alone anyway.

[@TakuCovers1]

UOG050 brutal hahaha

[@G0ldwaves]

Cos looks matter duh

[@juliebella8996]

It takes more than that to be boyfriend material. You’re supposed to be a nice and sweet person by default lol. Doesn’t make someone extra special if they’re nice

[@Bionicleforever]

Julie Bella thats pretty much all a girl has to offer though. In are society men have to do way more to impress a women and a women has to do to impress a man. These double standards are quite apparent.

[@cynicalpenguin]

@@Bionicleforever Complaining about it isnt gonna get you laid

[@Orf]

This was edited to make them look even more awkward than they really are. Just FYI

[@JamesCraigWhoop]

True

[@attackonpieck2789]

Dave Z 😂

[@countFtw.]

@Dave Z You say whaaaaat?

[@TheRisingIcarus]

I love how kind the host and bartender always seem Edit: also he is so nice, I really hope he finds someone soon

[@brookexx5896]

Update hes head of maths at my school

[@fallenivy6729]

Same we must go to the same one 😭😭

[@vSpiikey]

Honestly, the guy did well to stay positive and keep trying to ask question. If I was getting that sort of body language when talking to a woman, I would literally stop trying altogether within

[@fozzt]

She also did try, it's just not in this clip

[@RadagonTheRed]

Aw bless him. He seems like such a lovely guy. I felt so bad for him because he was so nervous. If I was his mate I would try to big up his confidence and let him know that science is something to be cherished and the passion for it even more so. He is clearly highly intelligent!

[@tl6988]

Everyone wants a dime when you're pushing a nickel. Her profile probably says she likes Athletic men 6'0 and taller!

[@chickflickone]

The only way I'd have swiped right on that profile if she offered to pay me handsomely.

[@ashleyk8406]

John Sampson Her name is Stacie lol

[@ladistar]

@@chickflickone damn hahahahahaha savage

[@bradw8279]

That was so painful to watch 🙈🙈

[@billlevins7460]

These two people are just way too similar and that is why this does not work. This date needed an aggressor and neither one of them could seem to take the lead. If you really look closely at this guy he has potential but he needed a woman with a sense of humor.

[@kaleidojess]

One thing that I always do that helps me stop being nervous is to first realize that they’re human like me, and start from there. No matter who they are. As soon as you realize they have their own story and both of you are just people, the nerves tend to go away. You can’t really mess it up.

[@Fiilis1]

Exactly though when you really in to someone and even looks "perfect" for you, it's damn overwhelming feeling in your mind.

[@juanita2397]

"Snap" "Oh, ok" "Yeah.."

[@Travis-guy-247]

>Never dated anyone. >Goes on E4’s First Dates. Well if that’s not throwing yourself in the deep end of the snake pit, I don’t know what is...

[@beelzeboss9631]

Brave man, have to give him credit for that

[@dextermorgan9505]

Fortune favours the bold

[@beelzeboss9631]

@@D-FENS33 fair point, but still ballsy nonetheless

[@D-FENS33]

Beelzeboss my bad that was for OP aha

[@D-FENS33]

Travis Johnson he’s gone 30, probably tried a lot of routes to get dates and seen this as another option

[@StrangeQuark-kp6kb]

He's a sweetheart, she was rude and obnoxious, I completely understand why she's single and it has nothing to do with her appearance... Hope he finds some nice gal

[@Cheeseboardv]

Thank goodness the video ended. I was on the brink of death from cringe.

[@fightermma]

Honestly she really needs to look at herself. She isn't pretty and she is overweight. She shouldn't be expecting a handsome man trying to pursue her for anything long term. Yes it's not all about looks but for most people it is and for women it's either looks or money. Not many women would date an unattractive unemployed man. It's super rare a woman chooses a guy solely on his character alone.

[@hithere5768]

Shade On A Cool Day but if you don't find the person attractive then what's the point?

[@mrsturner8532]

Some peoples looks can change as you know more about them.A person who is very attractive can seem less appealing if their personality or manners are lacking. The same goes for someone who is first perceived unattractive they can become more attractive with great confidence and kindness.

[@Moonshinexmoonshine]

Beauty is all about perspective, someone will find him attractive AND like his personality

[@molly6398]

i did think she was rude but commenting on her weight is even worse.

[@poo2003]

Shade On A Cool Day for guys its mostly just looks lol guys don't wanna date below them if it could be helped. Guys say they aren't shallow but yee. Most are. It's rare to see a guy date a girl for her personality solely

[@raquelflorence235]

Aww I hope he finds someone as smart as himself so they can talk and share the same interests because that would be super nice

[@anthonydurance2601]

Ah dam I was rooting for him ☹️

[@calebcoelho9574]

He was so nice what a trooper bro, kept the convo going, really positive, down to earth, not pushy

[@Emily-xl2cr]

can't help but imagine what wonders would occur if this guy invested in mewing/braces, a gym pass, some good posture training, contacts and a new skin care reigime. he actually has a lot to work with

[@katemartin1308]

He is so sweet! She may appear to be acting rude but maybe she was just nervous? Can’t be easy going on a date number one, then one being filmed as well. Shyness can often be mistaken for rudeness. Wishing them both well

[@ricssousa5964]

She was pretty uninterested and rude about it. Even went Ugh when he was clearly nervous thinking about another question to ask her.

[@GUITARTIME2024]

She was mortified that the producers thought he was on her level.

[@Jay-figarland]

@@GUITARTIME2024she is on his level

[@fozzt]

​@@Jay-figarland no shes not. They literally had nothing in common. He could do something about his teeth but didnt.

[@digitai36]

this dude IS. A. Legend! He needs his own show all together...

[@rivaevans4054]

Lmfao 😂😂.... the girl was so me on my first date with my bf , and it didn't help that he was really shy too. We couldn't even look at each other ,luckily we were able to break the ice though. One thing I've learned is that wine really helps you get out of your comfort zone Lol

[@ham-np8uj]

Riva Evans lmao it's a bit harder when both me and my bf don't drink 😂 plus I can't give eye contact to new people I meet and I feel I have a resting bitch face so that puts people off lmao

[@opaatje123456789]

Want to drink a wine with me sometime soon?

[@redlightmax]

0:44 "You're like the guys that are off CSI?" Ian should've used that.

[@ggk944]

The way he smiled when she came in!! Shame she was so closed... he looks like a guy you can have a genuinely interesting conversation with, I hope he has found love now!!

[@Molinfelx]

God bless this man

[@stillnessintime]

2:44 When your family leaves you at the table with the one awkward uncle that you don't know very well

[@tonyjohnson7917]

He is SO SWEET! Bless his heart and soul

[@c0r412]

Damn, he is so cute and she is so disrespectful -.-

[@christopherpeery7436]

He's actually a really nice guy!

[@melodybreach4343]

Her body language was like i could do so much better than him. Why am i stuck here ?

[@Sbubsisbis]

lol! This was so awkward, he ran out of word. He was just like "er uh er yeah uh" I feel bad for him a bit because he was trying but how funny.

[@faisalmahmood753]

she wasn't worth it.

[@alishax3399]

He jumped right of his chair 😂

[@mrcydonia]

He should move to America. His accent would go a long way toward getting a date.

[@vegangainzhue4548]

Yeah, JUST move to America. 4Head

[@jed123e]

@@vegangainzhue4548 He just needs to shower bro.

[@jed123e]

Yeah, he should also just get a haircut bro.

[@baylorakins7306]

@@jed123e what he needs is to lose weight and build muscle. Maybe get contacts and braces.

[@jed123e]

@@baylorakins7306 Yeah just hit the gym bro.

[@Miss_Leigh96]

Oh snap! ... ...oh okay, right" .... Yea" Ahahahahahaha what shits that!? Baha 😂😂

[@rodrigocardoso14]

Him-"you're looking good!" Her-"ok"

[@ianlaccohee7180]

That was a tough gig for him. I feel bad for the bloke. He did his best. Keep plugging away mate, you’ll find her soon.

[@antwto8784]

Poor guy was really trying his best. She could have been polite enough to humour him

[@leongibbons6142]

Her - 8 years this year Him- SNAP! Her - Oh right ok So awkward 😂😂👍🏼😂

[@steffenfrost995]

poor guy, what hard work!

[@BigBoy-ht1xd]

I would never have a go at this guy...He has more nerve and confidence then many blokes out there ...

[@264aub]

He knit a doctor who scarf, he’s a winner in my book

[@ladistar]

These two belong on The Undateables LOL

[@smillpupstick4323]

What’s a shame is that both these people could benefit greatly from losing weight.

[@Debby-tj3bz]

OMG Ian you lad! He is the best Lab Tech ever!!!! Wouldn't have passed my science course if it wasn't for the help of this man.

[@673497]

Don't understand why people call her rude and other things. She's just nervous as his looks are probably making her feel uncomfortable. Besides,she may have not expected to be paired up with a man of such appearance.

[@CurtisCameron]

She’s hardly a looker herself.

[@jungsang6324]

She dont care about him, he is a good positive person she is rude

[@Rapmonds]

Man "Oh snap!" Sasquatch "okay" :D died ;D

[@bestgameplay831]

I think it's cute how he said you looking good and she just said okay

[@ingrogies1]

Every guy who has ever tried to chat up a girl has gone through the exact same experience at some stage. Every girl has gone through the same scenario. The reason everyone feels awkward is because we all relate to it.

[@leongeyer9340]

his smalltalk is on another level :D But man hes trying and he deserves respect for that

[@Arcticninja123]

Guy has to actually try while girl sits there

[@callumtait6663]

Ikr

[@lifes2short701]

2:51 me getting my salad and sauces at subway

[@lovemecom3832]

They seem awkward towards each other but actually I find them really cute together and I think they still have a lot of time to get know each other very well.

[@brandona7526]

They look like brother and sister...

[@slaythedevils5102]

Both fugly tbh

[@SkizVids]

Man my guy really tried hard to carry this conversation, it’s obvious he is just a legit nice guy, hope he finds love somewhere

[@vitocorleone1462]

"I managed to knit a Doctor Who scarf once" eh?!

[@andreajasyl477]

Her conversations are so dry, he’s actually not bad at making conversations she is 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@NinjaOutfitInTheWash]

‘You’re looking good!’ ‘Ok.’ Lol. She’s more awkward than him in my opinion. He seems sweet.

[@alansayer1832]

I'm hiding behind my pillow so painful but watching the full show when he just agreess with everything is real painful .

[@kevinabdula1971]

Oh God! This is so adorable to watch! I wish i was that dude to be his wing man at least

[@lolheytherejimmy]

neither of them have dated before and are socially awkward in different ways at nearly 30 years old. idk why ppl are putting it all on her. it's a good first experience for both of them to learn and start to understand the dating world. it's a huge milestone for both of them to have even made it on a first date.

[@idarasmussen2724]

He seems like such a sweetheart!

[@cityhawk]

With more reps, fine tuning, and bits of dating advice, he could do a lot better and be more at ease. Before the date, he can try some breathing exercises to help him calm his nerves. Have some questions before hand just in case the conversation stalls. Don’t be hesitant in doing some follow up questions. If there isn’t any chemistry at the beginning, don’t be pressured to build it up. If it isn’t there, it isn’t there. We’re not going to click with everyone we meet, so it’s not necessarily an indictment on you. Keep in mind that she’s probably nervous as well, so try to make her laugh or smile to get her to feel more comfortable with the situation. Most importantly, just remember to have a good time. You’re there to try to make a connection. The fact that you’re trying to put yourself out there speaks volumes.

[@cbeautifulworld11]

That was painful. He tried, he was a gentleman. She was not kind.

[@ams.6323]

As she walks in and sees him you can actually see the disappointment on her face

[@megaKstudios]

Guy just seems like a nice dude... he’s a nerdy guy and needs to find himself a nerdy girl. Not sure what was up with that chick

[@tomfoolery342]

Even though I appear confident, talkative, and easygoing on the outside, this is me on the inside. Keep trying kid!!!

[@MrFuggleGuggle]

He’s probably got a ‘Pringles Can’ in his shorts.

[@hadgh2666]

2:42 😂😂😂😂 nahh at least he was trying, the woman didn’t offer anything

[@annajames9682]

HES ADORABLE

[@slaythedevils5102]

🥂 go help him

[@suzannescorner199]

I do think he's cute and agreeable and deserves someone who sees that in him. But people are lashing out at her for not liking him : It seems like our society expects of women to ALWAYS want a man who wants her even if he's not her type.

[@fairydust950]

Science nerds are AWESOME, what a lovely man. Her loss dude.

[@xoxordealokay96]

He deserves the best kindness goes a long way ❤️