WOULD YOU LIE TO SAVE YOUR FAMILY?? Moral Dilemma ShowDown

[@bumploveug]

You’re going to need a Newmans snack and drink AND a pen and paper for this episode! Settle down and let’s dig in! Talk to us in the comments and tag a friend who will enjoy this episode as much as we did. Did you have the same answers as us? We cannot wait to hear from you! Video credits: Production: Garage Group Set: Golden Tulip Kampala Outfits: Fashion Episode Shoes: Shoe Puzzle Hair: Zuri Luxury If you found this video informative, please like it, share with someone who needs to watch it and hit that subscribe button for more videos like this one. Follow us on: Instagram instagram.com/bumploveug Facebook facebook.com/BumpLove Twitter twitter.com/bumploveug?t=kR7O... #HappyFriday #NewEpisode #BumpLove

[@kobusingyejoan7484]

U know the day u will understand the gratitude of knowing is that day when u get to know nga some one close to u already knew and kept quiet,it hurts like hell

[@vee3581]

Rachel is such a lady and it shows in her responses with this exercise..Eloquent and classy

[@millennialaunty]

Pumla's dress is giving royalty, class! ❤

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Ahem! Thank you. Blessings received. I'm also tired of this commoner life 😅

[@KoKazTreatzKomanaKatangaTetteh]

Very true . I like how she’s evolved and is now open to exploring colors 😊

[@KoKazTreatzKomanaKatangaTetteh]

@@pumlanabachwa8668 😂😂😂 we the commoners will also try to be like you this year

[@muheirwehope9934]

huge royalty vibes am telling you

[@swabrahM]

Bump love we want a live red carpet event ... With live audience... Tell Mr mulondo to organize

[@akambasisamercy6158]

The excitement would be too much The show may not end

[@roynakalule8214]

In addition to live event, we also contribute...oba that's what you meant with a live event? This can be say once in a quarter and we the audience vote/choose the topic the one with highest vote/suggestion is discussed that day. I wouldn't mind even if it doesn't end....😂

[@ninsiimakeloykugonza1160]

Yes. We want live show for women and it will be more fan.

[@lilliankatusiime8299]

I totally agree to this 💃💃💃we can fly in to Uganda

[@kanisakisakyewanyama459]

tokyogera my dear nyinza okufiilawo🤣🤣🤣🤣🥰🥰🥰

[@ninsiimakeloykugonza1160]

I love you Manuel because you are yourself. You are not manipulated. You have wisdom.

[@Xyz3827-j3u]

The first question really hit home. Right now, if it wasn't for a friend to my mom , she would be HIV positive. Her husband then had started cheating on her with someone who had just lost her man to the disease and as soon as her friend saw them starting to flutter, she immediately told my mom a who ran for her life and as i talk now her ex-husband is very ill.

[@NakiwalaRose]

caught up on this late. Here you go ladies and thanks for the show! 1 A; its better to tell them, friendships are built on trust. They can always look back to the moment with resentment or gratitude 2 A; being an accomplice can cost me my job. Only if they’re my friend can I be able to listen to them. 3 D: I would plead the fifth. In the same situation, I would do exactly what the man did, so let the chips fall where they may! 4 A; Let the child live!

[@asmasu]

So on the question of petty cash, this one I have been a victim. I was once in charge of petty cash, mind you some of it was in dollars. One day 100 dollars went missing, ohhhh my God! I was so scared, I panicked and immediately went to the bank withdrew my own cash, converted it to dollars and replaced it. After two weeks, 200 dollars went missing again. Guys!!!!!! I was like want is happening here. I am the one in charge of the safe, who took this money? This time around I collected myself and went to my boss and said, " the petty cash is short by 200 dollars" Guess what her response was? "Sorry Maria, I actually picked it and forgot to tell you." 😂😂😂😂😂 ohhhhhh my! I felt sooooooo bad about the 100dollars I had previously replaced quietly. So for me, I report.

[@doreenbayoa3829]

So sorry about that dear it hurts

[@kansiimemarion5938]

Angie on the first question is the goat

[@Elizabeth111t3]

I agree with Angie on the first one. I once asked my mom this question about reporting spouses. She said if everyone decided to report what they've seen no marriage will stand😂😂😂 That was funny

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Your mom is a smart woman 😅😅😅

[@vee3581]

I agree with Angie on this one too..

[@kunihirahope6694]

I agree with Angie too

[@carolynekirabo4811]

I agree with Angie too

[@kanisakisakyewanyama459]

can my dad marry your mom please..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that lady gave u a perfect answer

[@Jeywaridi]

Hey Bump love. You guys are a breath of fresh air. Could you please consider putting subtitles for sentences you speak in your dialect. With love from Kenya

[@missfabidia]

I second this. Watching from Senegal :)

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We apologize for losing you sometimes. We intentionally refrain from speaking our local dialect on this show just for the love of our international audience. And the few times we do, it's never full sentences. Just a word or max three...and this is because some of these words are just usually difficult to accurately translate to English because the true meaning is watered down or lost. Other times it's just force of habit. Hehe

[@nombulelonhongo8307]

That would give me a chance to learn their language, because I love it to bits.

[@kap849]

​@@nombulelonhongo8307 same here 😂.

[@Uglatte]

excatly @@nombulelonhongo8307, they should take it as an opportunity to learn the languange. i love that people from pther countries are enjoying the show...i loove it!

[@sunshinelivie8741]

Manuella and reporting 😂😂😂😂😂 I have worked with the bank before to understand that there are no friends when it comes to money. I would report the petty cash guy even before I am asked because if tables were turned he wouldn't have any mercy on me 😊

[@collecttoolbox]

banage guys Newmans are so nice for real....no jokes.

[@Atk263]

Qn:1 - I would mind my business Ps: Angie I love your vulnerability and maturity. You have a good head on your shoulders girl. ❤

[@Hemma1.0]

I like how Racheal brought out her point on the first question too much depth👏🏾👏🏾❤

[@isabellamirembe1112]

Angie about not telling you are so right. People will always hate the one who brings the lugambo

[@Carolinepearl]

How u all defend ur answers is just amazing

[@Hemma1.0]

Yes we enjoyed Thanks for the beautiful episode

[@kulabd8629]

From a financial perspective, the moral issue with petty cash has to be reported because such people who have the audacity to steal from businesses/ organizations, they start with small amounts and then before you know it, it’s 40 million like Angie said. If it happens once, I can give grace and ask you to replace it, but if it happens again, you have to report it otherwise if it all comes down, you also go down for nothing. It’s not worth it.

[@acomodiana4938]

The only problem with this episode is that it ends 😢😢....brilliant

[@amandlakarungi]

For the second question- lack of financial accountability is one of the biggest reasons our country has no medicine in hospitals, the roads are repaired in patches of mud and hospitals in Lubowa are built for decades. People also forget that the business owner has invested so much in a business and our general attitude is it is not my business. Even if it is for a 'legitimate' purpose- there are usually systems for that i.e. fundraisers and bank or office loans rather than cheating someone who has employed you. If the business was to fail or the employer was unable to pay their loans, neither of the employees would help. They would move on to the next employer. This happens both in a domestic workplace and organisations.

[@ginaxs7975]

Thank you! Sad to see so many are unphased with coworkers stealing.

[@mabanjafridah2272]

I go with Angie’s opinion of coming clean when asked about the cash..Thinking about yourself first in such scenarios.

[@elizabethahabwe4746]

The punching part has killed me😂😂😂

[@CharlotteMuhwezi-m2e]

i enjoyed the show. Also, learnt a lot about myself through the choice of answers I made

[@amanyirevastah.le.2021]

It's late I know but what could I do without The Bump Love ladies. I love you all Pumla, Angie, Manuela, Racheal and Rosettee 🥰

[@Natasha.959]

Good evening lovely Ladies, thank you so much for the show and always keeping us entertained, this has been really amazing as usual , kindly do an episode on how well you know each other, where one person asks the qn, and another answers. Would be really fun knowing who gets most answers right. Stay blessed

[@NOM2090]

The last one got me laughing😂. Thanks for the show ladies Pumla you're such a talented host and also keep doing such royalty dresses .

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Margaret 🙏🏾

[@carolynekirabo4811]

Yes you are. Incorporate some mainstream media may be on economics on radio or TV. A 2hrs on weekend would do, except if preparation is so hectic You are so talented my dia

[@alindadoreen6889]

I agree with Angie,I won't coz being friends with someone doesn't mean you putting in alot of emotions to that level but rather letting them live their lives

[@kefeezamarion269]

I love how Angie speaks 😊

[@mirriamngombe9586]

So composed❤❤

[@arinaitwesheila2877]

She's such a sweet soul

[@siitavictoria2539]

Office scenario A- without a doubt. In work scenarios, there's no room to explain. If you lie once, you may have to lie forever. So I'm definitely telling.

[@hildahnakamya2824]

more than a worth thanks ladies

[@turyatungamartha1010]

Now that I’m wiser, I’m with Angie on question one

[@victoriananyonga1147]

Manuella😂😂😂😂😂😂”I really report you (in the high school ascent”)😂😂😂😂😂

[@asiimwenoreen]

Welcome back lovely ladies , there's something about ua sweet voices❤, Racheal mukazi washemera dia in that outfit

[@zaneleshongwe6133]

The last question 😂😂😂

[@Avellino256]

Reminds of my former workplace...COVID response momey...guy was making fake accountabilities and our field supervisor called him and talked to him man to man...told him to be wiser or else next time he will report...he left him off the hook with 4m...but good he listened and he never did it again

[@christinenakazzi280]

Before I start watching your all giving naye Pumla that dress is giivvviiinnnnnng😊😊.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Aaaaaawwww thank you ❤

[@NamaraAsante]

Buh Pumla, that last one...and the way she keeps mentioning "punch a small child "😂😂 Killed me.😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Small small punch 😂😂😂

[@rahiimanajjingo8956]

Wow 😲 what a way to start our day🤗🌝... Am glad to be here always 💃💃 ...been wondering how I can send in a question anonymously ofcouse 🤦

[@kendir7881]

I know someone whose hubby said he went for burial but phone was off for days and she couldn't reach him. A few days later her friends are out at lunch and they see him with a chic. So they call her for lunch and don't say why. She walked into the place, saw him and froze. Someone who was supposed to be in the village. He saw her, looked away and kept talking to the lady he was with. She sat with her friends for a while and then left. He starts calling her later to apologise and gives stories but it was too late

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️ Oh Lawd!

[@Hemma1.0]

I love when y’all are here ❤️😌 meanwhile Manuela started being absent when people were down in comments saying she never miss😂😂😂😂

[@NakazibweAbigail]

I just love seeing these beautiful women and their ideas said differently 😊

[@MarimmargraceSkylyn]

This episode omg its so challenging 😂😂😂but educative

[@monicamutani8145]

This year mapema ndio best! Can't wait to dig into this conversation

[@nabiryeasia9091]

It's like forever waiting for bump love to come, what a wonderful topic on Friday ❤❤❤

[@nakityoroseddumba]

The Petty cash thing 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌, I have held company petty cash for 2 different companies, Company 1 i worked in petty cash for 8 years, but the colleagues dont bring balance and give fake accountability, Company 2- have been doing it for 4 years- but i end up paying for shortages caused by incompetent people.😢

[@caroldamulira6258]

Rachel oozes wisdom banange❤

[@justinerhodanambatya8577]

Thank you ladies for this episode too...... 1. I would make sure the spouse sees me but wouldn't tell. 2. I wouldn't snitch on a workmate but I'd talk to them and allow them time to come clean 3. I would wait to be questioned before I say anything......first of all, I'd be ao mad at the gist for hiking the prices and not allowing for emergencies & desperate times. 4. I'd definitely punch a child coz my punch wont break even a single bone in their body...... OTHERWISE, TUSABA YO AN EPISODE OF "MEN TAKE OVER" ESP. IN REGARDS TO CONFLICT RESOLUTION IN RELATIONSHIPS SO AS TO UNDERSTAND THE MALE MIND. MWEBALE NNYO 😊

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for playing with us 😊

[@drcissyatwine]

That was a fun episode... please can you consider a menopause episode... there's not alot of ugandans talking about it online and yet it's an inevitable and normal transition of life..Angie spoke about it just a bit.. thank you 😊

[@anonnona6433]

100% Infact the same way girls are prepared for menstruation ( which is still a struggle for many) is the same way women should be prepared for menopause. ( I have never heard any woman say she had this conversation with their mother or aunt) So yep. It is a good conversation to have.

[@CeciliaMwebaza]

Finally hereeeeee🎉🎉🎉🎉nze I throw hints and ask leading questions. But it depends on the way the relationship is moving at the time.

[@evelynbabirye-qg5zs]

Learning alot from bump love❤

[@AgenongaJoy-so9ks]

Pumla , Manuela, Angie ❤️❤️ you make my Fridays 😁😁

[@Hemma1.0]

I’d take the money,give it back to the man and clear evidence ✅😂😂😂

[@Uglatte]

looool.........

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

This is a new twist 😅

[@princessimeldah806]

Greetings all bump lovers a week without yo episode is like death warning letter but finally here we are,pumla nkulamusizaako nyoooo with all the gorgeous ladies on set

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

❤❤❤

[@NadiaBirungi-wo7rt]

I am with Angie on this one. If I was askt 10yrs ago, the answer would definitely be different. I had to learn with age mbu somethings are better left unsaid especially when it comes to relationships.

[@MistyEE21]

The Ostrict lot😂😂. We wish you all the best 😂😂

[@kefeezamarion269]

Love you guys Indeed yr a breath of fresh air ❤

[@NalongoPeeKay]

I am With Manuela on the money issue. The fact that the Boss has asked me makes me an accomplice so I would come straight and tell the truth straight up no mincing words, no cover up.

[@thechristianperspective]

🤣eeeeh nga you guys aint joking anyways i find Manuella and Tacheal play fair people. However we are always not wanted in society because people think we aint loyal....i dont wanna sin with nobody.

[@MariaNM826]

I had such an experience when I was on campus. I actually told my roomie immediately I got back to my hall. They went through the emotions

[@extremeinteriors]

Question 2 I would never compromise. Amazima gazala emirembe. Omuntu omubbi abba mubbi. These statements nti bulimuntu alya kumulimu. Guys in the society they have made stealing normal. I would say the truth. Thats ma stand

[@aaronwakanga8541]

Nze me am at work but still watching the show why not😂 it's bump love❤

[@karene_B]

Road to 100k subscribers 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@nasasiraunity3971]

I am so sorry I wouldn't tell my friend but I would make sure that I mention my friend on that table, like hey say hello to your wife and the kids I'm coming to visit her next weekend.Then I leave the two of you to enjoy yourselves in peace😂😂😂😂

[@angiebaks2859]

Regarding telling if they see your spouse… it doesn’t matter if they don’t tell you, they will be gossiping somewhere else and chances are lots of people will know and you are there clueless.. so I think telling you is the right thing. Lose a friendship then was never meant to be. If you are really a friend telling is the right way.

[@nankyahadijjah6959]

In the 2nd scenario I say no, I once took bullets for coworkers who in the end turned against me and the business collapsed. one used to borrow medicine worth 900k promising to pay it back in 2 months but he didn't stop 2 years then after he started backbiting me that I am lazy and can't handle such a business, the pharmacy was in deficit, the second one didn't want to work, she would come up with excuses and I carried her knapsack but the ending results were so awful, so people please don't be a people pleaser, you won't gain anything good.

[@akaijapromise399]

Hello Bump love this month is cancer of the cervix awareness month. I hope you have something in store for us before the month ends.

[@nrussell9303]

I would do anything to defend my loved ones against anything mandatory esp in past few 3 years that would intentionally cause harm

[@Pro-misiee]

First of all, ladies you look so so smart, about today's episode, woow it's a woow, it's so amazing, so educative, moral dilemmas lean so much to ethics where it's either good or bad. I love this. ❤ Let's move. Let's do another one like this because these scenarios are so real, real life stories and experiences. Thanks for always sharing. Lots of love. As we wait for another episode next Friday patiently 😁💃💃💃🙏

[@nabatanzijoanitah2904]

I’m saying nothing no matter what situation 😭 it’s a wicked world anything can be used against you 🙌🏻 and for the child ooh sorry poor child 😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@thesubmissivewife01]

Hey ladies thank you for the amazing work you do ...u don't have idea of how you lighten up my day whenever a newe episode is released...I do love y'all ❤

[@flowerpotmadrine88]

Hello ladies. Thanks for the show. My answers were B B D B

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thanks for participating love

[@cherotichdamali6672]

For Qn 1, I must submit that ignorance is bliss 😂

[@rytahkarema5488]

I told a close friend about it ,we are not close any more 😅just friends...

[@Juicebar996]

Angie you spoke my mind😂😂😂. Someone told me...at first i thought she did me good, but i ended up hating her

[@Hemma1.0]

😂😂work cut me out so I’m back to complete the episode ✅ still on 2: I’m with Angie😂👏🏾 I’ve seen nothing infact I’m blind in my left eye😂😂 yes yes I’d sleep like a child✅😂😂

[@MulungiTalent]

❤❤❤I agree with Angie and Rachel but I also add prayers

[@JMJM-i7s]

Friday is here❤❤❤❤

[@nsiimireevelyne8423]

Loved this dilemma .,.....

[@justinenansimbe3341]

Pumla dear u rocked. Looked so amazing in that dress

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

Thank you Justine

[@sunshineheaven1802]

Ladies ladies, awesome game. I have laughed at punching the child. However, the fear of being thrown in jail vs saving a life; I will save a life. The truth will set me free. I think a train and ambulance are the locomotives we knock. Gosh, justice seems like a myth in today's society. I would wish for people to save my life too whether they caused it or not. Question 1; I will tell my friend the information in a good way with respect too. I like to empower people and they do what they will with it, I have played my part. My belief system and value system at the moment encourage honesty. I would want my friends to tell me if they saw the same, respectfully. Also, the friends I have are intentionally made now. I do not have any I can not trust. I also have no tolerance for cheating at my age. The younger me would have taken it. Question 2; This happened to me when I had just started working, I kept quiet and got into trouble, I paid for the extra expenses using my salary. I was trying not to snitch. Today, I would face them up and tell them to bring it/correct it. Being young and naive is so taxing! Honesty is the only policy. Question 3; Life and death, I wait for the wife to receive the medication and I say my peace when called upon, I would mention he left money and I would also tell on the heavily charged drug. Question 4; I would punch a child so lightly. I really do not want to be hospitalized.

[@gloriaclare8]

My Pumla ..ur number one muwagizi is here

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

😘😘😘

[@agenofavour1866]

'I go report you'😂😂😂 in Angie's voice😂😂,

[@enihpesoyramhumbleservant8203]

Hi bumplove i have really loved this show thank you all

[@doreenmuhumure6636]

Being a lawyer, I would advise him to go and remove the money he has left coz it can be used as evidence against him,unless there's cameras that can be played to show that I was there, I really would want him to be protected. Plus, considering his condition,I know he would need that money. Also I wouldn't want him to be reported coz he also needs to see his wife heal. Getting into court process with a possibility of being imprisoned might robe him of his complete joy which is to see his wife heal. So....me it's either D or E. E. Means I do more to protect him.

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

You are the lawyer we need on our team 😊

[@zaburahzaburahh1784]

Thank u ladies for this

[@NyandengAGarang]

Moral dilemmas are awesome. We did them on weekly basis for one of my courses during my undergrad. They are very stimulating. Thanks ladies for this episode🥰

[@bagumajulietkengonzi1908]

May I know the course and university

[@NyandengAGarang]

@@bagumajulietkengonzi1908 Ethics and professionalism (under forensic science) and at the University of Toronto, Canada.

[@namubirujoan2015]

Im behind Angie 110% for question 1, and I would give the same reasons

[@BrendaAtuhaire]

Same here. Am team stay in my lane.

[@vee3581]

Too right...same here

[@KoKazTreatzKomanaKatangaTetteh]

1. I would tell whether I’m close to the person or not and I’d also rather be told. Ignorance is bliss yes but when your health might be compromised then it’s better to know. I regret not telling a friend that her man was trying to ask me out some years ago. When she later broke up with the guy, I let her know what happened and that I didn’t say anything because I didn’t want to ruin their relationship. She told me he was a horrible person and me telling her to about what he did could have helped her leave. I never want to have that happen to someone else. Also, it’s more painful to know that your friend knew something that could potentially hurt you and didn’t say anything. But I’ll also respect my friends who say they don’t want to be told by doing as they wish. 2. It depends on my relationship with the coworker. If the coworker has been horrible to me, I’m telling. But if the coworker is a good person, then I’m not telling. 3. I’m not saying anything about the theft and I’d find a way to give the man back the money because the money being there will also raise questions. 4. I’m punching the kid 😂

[@pumlanabachwa8668]

We're punching the kid 😂😂😂

[@doreenmuhumure6636]

If the dying wife is my mother I'm afraid I might be the thief. LOL 😂.

[@who_me4321]

In a heart beat😂😂. Now let me listen

[@justinenansimbe3341]

It's was fun to really fun. Scenario 1, I wouldn't report no matter what.

[@nsiimentabridget3518]

Today, this early. We (I) love you, bump love ❤️

[@jackynambatya]

For the husband trying to save his wife..i think am blind"nze siyina kyenalabye"omutunzi we ddagala.yeyetaaga okusibwa..10×higher..😢😢

[@daphinsleem3054]

😂😂😂Mazima

[@MistyEE21]

I shall run my mouth. I won't be held accountable for someone's theft.

[@christinenakazzi280]

I choose scenario A, I can't stay with the guilt of knowing something like that and keeping it from a friend, but it depends on what type of friendship we have.

[@paulinemutumba9157]

As for the work issue. I wouldn't lie for nobody...

[@deborahkalunginsubuga1448]

DISCUSION ASIDE, RACHEL IS BEAUTIFUL

[@florencenamujju9450]

All beautiful 😊

[@primahkyambadde6436]

As for reporting the guy who 'stole' medicine for his wife!!! Why are we reporting anyone? Justice=the wife getting the medicine she needs!!Reporting is trying to save my conscience!! My conscience will be saved by the wife getting better....

[@mirembegracejuliet1387]

Naye Manuela seems she likes reporting reporting hahahahaha....

[@stellakiguli4539]

Thank u Angie I agree with u