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[@haydenmachonisse4031]

" I used to be married and once a year I supported him going to wore house in Nevada “ that’s some wild shit to admit in front of cameras

[@L00ww]

@@awesomeyeahroxs no its not, if shes just not into sex but they still love each other then she is great to give him this opportunity

[@why12983476why]

"used to be married" Gee I wonder why lol.

[@purpleplanet888]

@@L00ww ur prolly a guy and dont care that a wife gets disrespected like that tf

[@johannesg8959]

@@L00ww To cheat?

[@anaray1634]

its not wild , actually youd be surprised how many couples practise that

[@foxman482]

I stand with the person that said "It's hard to pay for consent" that's the biggest reason I wouldn't pay for sex. It would make me feel so bad and awkward and disgusting paying somebody to do something that deep down they don't want to do. It's a job and people don't always want to work but they need the money. Since that situation is a possibility, I would never pay for sex. Now online shit, where nobody loses, that's different

[@lilitulee]

Well there's the huge implications of the p industry and sex trafficking etc. Unless you mean like paying a person for their self run only fans account. But porn industry has its own set of issues if consent is the main concern

[@foxman482]

When I said online I meant only fans type stuff, I didn't think about Porn Industry which is a big concern for real

[@BonShula]

What if they consent and love their job?

[@planetvnus]

Oh, people definitely have things to lose when it comes to online sex work. Sometimes they’re coerced into doing the scenes, or they’re naive and young so they don’t know what they’re getting into. People can get rlly traumatised from doing porn, so I guess the only way it’s fine is if you pay towards someone’s onlyfans.

[@planetvnus]

@@foxman482damn I should’ve read your comment before writing out mine about the porn industry lmaoo so sorry

[@dotslashdotslahsdotslash]

The "Give me a good book." and "They can pay me to go shopping though." were my favorite responses. 🙈

[@femafull]

Same

[@charlies2160]

pov asexual

[@annie.hi.]

@@charlies2160 I think they meant a sexual book like a smutty romance

[@DA-js7xz]

Written sex is still paying for it!

[@DA-js7xz]

​@@charlies2160 uh no, she meant an erotic novel..those things sell like hot cakes with old white women.

[@Asia-wj3ph]

At first I was like “No way THIS many people they interviewed would pay for it!” And then they brought in all the people who wouldn’t and made more sense 😂

[@kyliehenderson7718]

@@oz_peter bruh

[@Alexis-eo1rs]

Oh yeah, in these Keep It 100 videos they always have a bunch of different answers from people!

[@danzwku]

yeah they should've shuffled it

[@anteerat]

@@danzwku i don't think its a bad thing to group answers together. there were more yeses at the end too.

[@Alexis-eo1rs]

@@danzwku they usually format the videos this way.

[@oligotide7257]

I was the person that said "it's hard to pay for consent". To expand upon my thoughts, I think it's well within the realm of possibility that someone could sell sex and consent. I don't believe there is any shame in being a sex worker, and if you enjoy it more power to you! I think that it differs from a regular job however, in that I believe that having sex that isn't inherently for ourselves can be damaging to our self-worth (key word being can). I have had sex for reasons other than sex itself (example: preserving a relationship), and it really shook me when I realized how much I truly compromised for someone else, that I in turn would never ask from them. It was simply damaging in a way that words can't describe for me, hence why I believe that enthusiastic consent needs to be the standard, and that money can't guarantee that. I think our sexuality should be something to celebrate, but I feel often times that prostitution and pornography takes advantage of that.

[@kellygreengables3936]

Thank you for expounding on this! This is a tough but important conversation that has a lot of layers to it. It's important to look at it from multiple angles and perspectives. Much appreciated for sharing yours!

[@sola_a]

Thank you for explaining. But I do think you need to recognize that everyone's relationship with sex is different and you shouldn't force your relationship as the standard for everyone else.

[@oligotide7257]

@sola4437 I'm not trying to force it but rather have us reflect upon it. I don't really like the idea of restricting things; if someone wants to do porn or prostitution for their pursuit of happiness I don't entirely think they should be restricted from that. But there are too many former pornstars and prostitutes that have told their stories on how sex work has harmed them, and I think we should be reflecting upon what legalization means for the common good. To that I don't really have an answer.

[@anitaremenarova6662]

@@oligotide7257 Legalizing it is an objective good, makes it safer for everyone.

[@painunending4610]

What if you can't get enthusiastic consent though? That's pretty rare. Some people just want sex but can't find a willing partner otherwise (which is hard for many people). Should those people just not have sex?

[@xneongrande]

The woman (correct me if I’m wrong!) who said, “I can be my own best friend”, I love her.

[@harperalways7213]

her voice was so nice too!! I hope my voice ages like that

[@karlhans6678]

female Mark Hamill

[@stickshiftsteph9968]

Nah I need to feel some type of emotion to want to get down with a person and can definitely take care of the physical needs myself.

[@23brock]

I feel like it's different for males versus females

[@S_J_banana]

Same here

[@gabelopez8196]

I thinks it’s still emotional just less disciplined and maybe less gratifying in the long run. Who am I to judge though? I like monogamy but I underperform when it comes to diet. it’s really hard to dedicate oneself and maintain a principled approach to everything, especially when the smaller waves of dopamine are easier to maintain and can help facilitate my other endeavors. I DO want to get better though, so I wonder if there’s anything existing in the polyamorous mind that might want to obtain something more solid and streamlined.

[@knowvilleknows1075]

There are so many men who are just bad at sex, I think a lot of women would be willing to pay for GOOD sex, but are embarrassed to admit it

[@theonlythingihavetosayis9333]

Hard truth but most guys could care less about the emotion in it. They just want to do it. Either friends with benefits or one night. That's where men and women tend to be different

[@Lucaestheticc]

“If I was rich enough” 😂😂😂 0:33

[@Aaron-kj8dv]

If you're rich then you don't pay for the sex, you pay them to leave you alone after the sex

[@DA-js7xz]

​@@oz_peter those are thousands of dollars. A sex worker is much cheaper.

[@FF-cn3lf]

"If i was rich enough, i would sexually exploit and degrade women with lower social standing and financial struggles" haha yes, how funny.

[@obvsobvs8369]

so gross

[@chelsmeister]

@@DA-js7xz They're not if you want a good one lol. You heard people talking -- $100s of dollars an encounter... That would add up quickly if you're paying like once a week or something

[@pupucek]

"Penises are not cute why would i pay for that ?" 😂😂😂

[@sergiodelrioreyes7655]

I can tell she hasn't been with a lot of attractive men

[@pupucek]

@@sergiodelrioreyes7655 wtf a guy being attractive or not has nothing to do with how cute his D is gonna be. Penises are NOT cute with all due respect 😂

[@sergiodelrioreyes7655]

@@pupucek for me attractive is an umbrella term, and having a nice looking dick definitely makes someone more attractive. And of course some dicks are better looking than others, just watch a couple porn videos and see

[@loadingoito6061]

@@sergiodelrioreyes7655 You do know that penises are not like faces right? Penises generally look the same and only have variety when it comes to colour, size, whether the foreskin is removed or not and finally, lesser variation in shape. So most penises look similar and the man being attractive doesn't actually make his penis special or visually appealing.

[@jacopo_2165]

If she doesn’t like penis then she should go for woman for fuck sake

[@WithAngelWings]

Why was the interviewer basically trying to talk them into saying yes

[@wildoatling]

"It's hard to pay for consent" damn...

[@crashnebula7]

Imagine paying for s3x and saying it was "mid."

[@itsppi]

right 😭

[@jamiecourtney730]

He did it for the experience, at least he’s real about it

[@morijin5568]

why not?

[@Anne-zt2dz]

@@morijin5568 Because sex work means people only do the work if they get paid for it. This is not real consent because they don’t actually want to do these things but are forced to somehow because of the need or manipulation of money. It is extremely unethical and sexist to erase a woman’s bodily autonomy with your financial dominance and with the horrible circumstances these women are in most of the time it is rape.

[@anonymousaccount8855]

post nut clarity hits hard

[@jessica3285]

2:40 Bro's hair is magnificent

[@divanotfamous]

Bros majestic

[@lvmln7843]

i can't with all these "we all pay in some way or another"... man, this transactional approach to relationships sucks!

[@lunabibiane]

its so gross! literally the reason why i hate going on dates with men where they pay for something, even if its just ice cream or a coffee. i always feel immediate pressure from them and that they expect to have sex with me at some point. like that is their only mission, they dont want to get to know me or spend time with me. and they get so pissed off when i dont want a second date.

[@yaeli_i_guess]

yeah that's such a weird capitalistic view on human relationships lol... maybe it's because they're americans

[@at_oussama]

@@lunabibiane girl, what kind of men are you dating, you got me concerned

[@scotthearts9634]

@@lunabibiane who treatin' you like this girl😭😭😩, everyone deserves better im same as well comin' from a guy the goal ain't sex, i like you, i find you interestin/attractive i want to get know you and what your all about. Sex is the least for at least till i put a ring on finger or a couple of years after into relationship... just a genuine romantic relationship thats how i feel about it.

[@weidchar1646]

​@@lunabibianethen stop online dating. Start a relationship with someone you're already friends with. Simple.

[@pashasalih730]

Sister is preaching the truht "Eggs are 15 bucks" damn straight they are lets get that bag besti

[@valxem]

“Now give me a good book” 💀💀I’m dying

[@DA-js7xz]

Erotic novels are huge sellers for older white ladies.

[@lunabibiane]

i feel like its weird to bring celebrities who have insane amounts of money & power & security into this conversation. they do not have any pressure to participate, when most sex workers depend on the money or are human trafficked. yes, that hypothetical example sounds acceptable, but its so far from the power dynamics in reality that it cannot inform an attitude towards actually "buying sex" irl because that always includes accepting the risk that youre actually raping someone (which i think is never okay).

[@shoelacedonkey]

They mentioned the celebs not because they are a posibility but to use them as an example where someone might change their ideas about paying for sex. Most people would probably say 'no' to the initial question but changing the parameters might change the results :)

[@FF-cn3lf]

Finally a sane comment in here, agee 100%

[@MomoMensch]

@@shoelacedonkey i get your point, but I think it is very problematic that they tried to question the people who said no but did not question the ones saying yes. I think @lunabibiane has such a good point about power dynamics and i think it is very concerning that we choose to suddenly see all sex work as empowering and "just work" when the vast majority of prostitutes don't have power over their situation and therefore end up having really bad experiences (that you would definitely not have in a "normal job"). don't get me wrong, i do think, there is sex work that may not harm the sex worker more than a different job (ig only fans or some parts of the porn industry that mind the working conditions for the actors) but 99% are prostitutes because of poverty and that's not empowering. (i don't mean to rant on you, i just needed an outlet for my thoughts on the video

[@kellygreengables3936]

@Luna you raise some really good points. But I think there is a lot of nuance ones to modern sex work that people are overlooking. But consent and safety are the most important thing for the worker and person paying.

[@crimsonlockewood1238]

​@@FF-cn3lf Hard to believe that we still live in a reality where this is considered acceptable. Human sex trafficking is so large because there simply is not enough willing supply. The sex (rape) industry is built on the exploitation of people, primarily women. Pregnancy, STDs, physical and sexual violence, and the PTSD rate amoung prostitutes is high and most wish to leave the industry. I could care less if stopping some western white girl from selling pictures of her cooter for degenerates will prevent some single mother being pushed into being raped daily just to feed her kids. There are plenty of safer, actual jobs for all women to partake in. Sickening that these are the modern women who are leading the feminist movement into becoming an advocate for pimps. Braindead... 🙄

[@talaarezoumand8546]

I like these recent videos where there’s more dialogue

[@FF-cn3lf]

Wow, empathy is dead. It's heart breaking to see how normalized it is to see women as a service. You can't buy consent. You are using your money to exploit and dehumanize a person who is more than likely there because they are in a financial struggle. Same goes for pornography. And the end of the video proves that it's precisely a matter of survival in our broken economy. But i guess it is easier to not "care what other people do" like this one girl said, sure

[@kellygreengables3936]

So my question is, if people do want to pay for sex should they not pay sex workers? Isn't sex work transactional? Also, I think that girl was trying to say that she doesn't want to negatively judge people who pay for sex and/or do sex work as a job. Not that it doesn't matter if people are struggling and therefore need to do sex work to survive.

[@FF-cn3lf]

And my answer is this: sex is not a necessity. You can't survive without food or water, but you can survive without sex. So, the people who pay for sex do it not because they NEED to but because they WANT to. And they dont do it because of the goodness of their heart. If you truly want to help someone you wouldn't give them money on the condition they have sex with you. This is not consent. These people willfully take advantage of someone less fortunate than them. And the girl's comment is just the definition of willful ignorance: if i close my eyes, i'll stop seeing how wrong society is.

[@Andre-hm5vo]

Basically both genders from now on should just be celibate, distant and seek self fulfilment towards extinction. Sex amongst humans is a overrated glorified exercise that creates more problems then it doesn't, in which also contributes to the ultimate birth of evil? The human!

[@9395gb]

​@@kellygreengables3936no one is entitled to sex.

[@sharkmun]

We are all paying for sex regardless if it is directly or indirectly. Don't try to FOOL yourself by saying NO.

[@yam2050]

I have to be emotionally invested to have sex, paying for sex is not my thing. So my body count is only 1 at 30...🤣 I am sure it'll stay there for a long time.

[@joshuaadams6565]

I will never judge someone who’s a sex worker but I’ll always judge the person paying them. There is no way you’d really know why someone is a sex worker, for the majority it’s out of desperation to survive. In my head it’s just taking advantage of someone in a desperate situation, it’s not consensual.

[@OnizenArt]

what? thats like saying you wont judge a homeless person for soliciting out of desperation, but you'll judge the person that gives them money that will help them out of that desperation. that logic makes no sense. if you wont judge the sex worker, then you shouldnt judge the customer of the sex worker either. its not sex work if no ones buying.

[@MS-sr6mj]

​@@OnizenArt That's not charity. It's rape.

[@LarryWater]

You pay for sex either way.

[@vegimsalihu9536]

@@OnizenArt that definitely isn't the same - and yes, you are a piece of sh!t for buying sex.

[@OnizenArt]

@vegimsalihu9536 it is though, based on his logic. And that's your opinion. Most men pay for sex, whether it's directly or indirectly through dates or gifts etc. Money is still leaving your bank account.

[@amyred9652]

Personally I wouldn’t - I think it would hurt my ego a little. Not to sound judgmental and I am far from religious, but I think it devalues and disrespects a human connection, one of the simplest yet deeper meanings and enjoyment. It belittles and demeans it to greed and categorises it along with other commodities in this world like objects - it makes me question what is the price of humanity, what will be left? We already live in such a sexualised world and it’s already making us more and more shallow and inhumane . I believe sex is something that shouldn’t be commodified, not only is it stripping of a part of human identity there is a blurry line of consent. If money equates to consent is that really consent, like how you would serve a customer for money but would you serve them because you enjoyed it or because you had to put food on your plate and pay your rent? It is only beneficial to a small amount - most of the sex industry is blood money and not ethical in the slightest, but for the privileged 5 or 10% that find it liberating ( in the west especially ) I’m sure it’s great. So in short individually and as a choice I wouldn’t care or judge, as a whole the answer would be a strong no.

[@rokhayas]

0:48 mood

[@derrickscott9469]

Why not? People have always been paying for sex in one way or another throughout all of human history. Sex is a basic human need. Why should paying for sex be more taboo than any the other myriad of services people buy for their well being? And prohibition creates more problems than it solves.

[@derrickscott9469]

@@purple7259 Sex is a need for survival as a species, even if I myself won't die from blue balls.

[@hineraable]

I would never pay someone for sex, if you HAVE to pay someone for sex, chances are that person doesn't actually want to have sex with you, you'll be just coercing them with money, and what do we called coerced sex?

[@LarryWater]

With enough money, you can convince anybody to do anything.

[@hineraable]

​@@LarryWaterMore like coerce anybody to do anything.

[@LarryWater]

@@hineraable Dating is paying for sex with time and money.

[@hineraable]

​@@LarryWaterDating is completely different, for starters because dating isn't just about sex, if you see dating as a means to an end (sex) that's a you problem. Dating is something that you do with someone that likes you back, there's also a back and forth between both parties, they're both supposed to give each other company, love, compassion, and sometimes even money (by giving gifts to each other or the like). On top of that it's not like you have an obligation to pay for anything, there's plenty of couples who split bills or whatever. If you don't want to pay for a date, you can literally just not do it, no one is forcing you, so to say that dating is comparable with buying sex is completely stupid. When you pay for sex, you're just coercing someone who doesn't like you nor know you, to have sex with you, you're exploiting poverty, you're financing sex trafficking, because although sex workers who genuinely choose what they do exist, a pimp isn't going to tell you who is who "Jennifer is a sex trafficked 15 year old, but Samantha is an adult and actually wants to be here" it's a conversation that it's never going to happen. With dating sex is supposed to be consensual, you don't have an obligation to give money to your date, the fact that you think you do just seems like you're unable to not see sex as a transaction.

[@alexbayer2365]

Sorry, but it’s a soy opinion for me, no offense.

[@gracesaldana6295]

And that’s why you’re divorced 😂

[@SportGuyDMV]

They asking people if they'd commit a crime😂😂😂

[@kesetokaiba]

Recognized Ruby in the thumbnail, but stayed for the other opinions lol

[@JelenaW]

4:37 preach

[@ninas4968]

“I can be my own best friend “ 😅❤ that lady is a legend

[@Huckleberry-lunger]

I paid for it to lose my virginity. Was sick of being the shy self conscious person not able to score my looks match. I don't regret it. Something happened in me giving me confidence. The next year I got my first girlfriend. That was 18 years ago now and we are happily married with a couple of kids.

[@roxy4325]

Well dang okay then...we see you fam

[@WaywardVector]

Thinking that you couldn’t have done it without the initial fuck is not good for your mental. Also how would it make you confident? Confidence in making poor economical decisions? Working out or working on yourself mentally is how you build confidence. Don’t follow this guy, such a waste of money. I pray your children do better.

[@Huckleberry-lunger]

What's with the judgement dude. Especially since you don't know me. It is my opinion that it is alright to pay for sex. It has its benefits. I shared my experience and you try to cancel me and make it personal. If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.

[@roxy4325]

@@Huckleberry-lunger wait, am I missing something? Was a comment removed? Cause there's no way your response is to me lol

[@Huckleberry-lunger]

Nah. Wasn't to you Roxy. The comment must have not passed the censor test by the other person

[@obiwan-]

My turn: I would give a kidney for Pedro Pascal.

[@hudamohamed368]

No u wouldn’t but great idea still😂

[@obiwan-]

@@hudamohamed368 You underestimate my willingness...

[@millysmiles10]

LMAOOO THÉ TIMOTHÉE CHALAMET ONE GIRL ME TOO😭😭 1:25

[@BangBTS]

"No, I wouldn't. Shawn Mendez you say....?" Gt er', hahahah

[@sahelleyens]

3:24 lol, kinda strange friend's support hahahah

[@iristanja8260]

Lol I loved the "eggs are $15" comment

[@kellawiki]

The person @3:22 is my spirit animal. My icon. 🤩

[@g_plnc]

I thought @Cut was trolling for a sec because I could have sworn that was Johnny Sins at 5:14 🤣

[@kingmack2011]

The 1st girl was so damn beautiful

[@oceanwonders]

Wow, guy at 5:09 is otherworldly beautiful. So striking. You got socials? Please share!

[@divanotfamous]

MAN PLEASE PLEASE PLEASEEE TELL ME WHEN YOU FIND HIS SOCIALS 🥹🥹

[@crystalclear6660]

I’m completely fine with people who are sex workers. But I don’t think I could either do any or pay for any. First and foremost, it’s probably men that would be interested in being clients. And I’m not into men. Not even nonsexual fetish type work where you don’t need to touch the person. Don’t want some dude going and getting say sexual satisfaction based off of a foot photo or something for pay either. And I wouldn’t pay anyone else, because like one woman said,”I’m my own best friend.” If I wanted sex with another person, there’s gonna be a relationship.

[@joserogan7794]

Was there a toxic waste spill in Seattle? Why do these people look so strange?

[@coolbreeze5683]

Sex isn't that important... don't believe the hype.

[@4lugan]

Yes. It’s safer than marriage most of times

[@joserogan7794]

Clowncore @4:13

[@eoo-j9n]

Damnnnnn this is way more sexual talk than I expected lol

[@Ardante11]

If you’ve paid a person’s rent, bills, etc you’ve indirectly paid for it.

[@ChaceBonanno]

All sex is commerce. If you don’t know that, you’re just being billed indirectly.

[@tashibalampkin8555]

1:33 Gurl, I agree.

[@Rbx174]

Quavion is so cute

[@milicamorgan1]

Damn there’s some haters up under this video!! What is the obsession with humbling people who are confident in themselves. If the girl at :30 feels like she looks good and doesn’t need to pay for sex good for her! Jeez

[@yokiryuchan7655]

She's a five at best, just saying.

[@meganaxeliar]

It isn’t consent. Plain and simple.

[@papamama3196]

I love that cut asked non wild ppl for a change

[@justinbatkinson]

😂😂😂😂...women don't have to pay for sex

[@pure9856]

Ikr? So dumb to ask a woman

[@therealbigboss101]

Right, these are not most women, don't pay for sex

[@victorious3d964]

I would try it if it’s not expensive 🤷‍♀️

[@jordanvanlee5076]

girl Shawn Mendez would def charge a GIRL! lmao...

[@MarioKstgr]

So I guess that woman at 3:05 is now a permanent appearance in every cut video 😂

[@alex506d]

I don't like her very much honestly.

[@ohmytego]

I noticed that too 🤣

[@lesliemwangi]

winston duke was so real

[@Sasha-pt1ng]

No it’s not okay to pay someone for sex wtf

[@tedcrilly46]

01:55 ... am I looking at Jack White through a fish bowl?

[@zaksharman]

You should be free to do what you want with your body as you please.

[@PowerOfAIandMotivation]

Interesting episode

[@leatherhitman7401]

You want people back to work faster? Employment would be at an all-time HIGH if this was legal. Healthcare and regular checkups every six months for working men & women. Blows off steem, helps mentally, contributes to society and builds experience for partners beginning and searchin'.

[@9395gb]

No it wouldnt. It would increase trafficking especially child sex traffickig, rape, drug use and crime. Rhode Island tried this once it was an utter failure.

[@alphahill2586]

I don't think I could pay for sex. I don't think my mental health could survive that intact. However, if I had the money, I would seriously consider paying someone to cuddle up with me and watch a movie

[@aria4959]

you know u watch too much cut when you recognise most of the people in the video

[@pavelcaers8211]

0:30 keep the ego down a bit

[@cringegod5415]

Yeah, waýyyy down

[@MaryeEditz]

fr she think she all that😂

[@Crustybumbig]

Bro she’s like a 2 or 3 at best (is it just me or does make up make women look uglier

[@idiot1117]

now lets see your face

[@alexhdravs3105]

Yall ain't got the brain capacity to read sarcasm💀

[@beefy45]

Like million dollar man said “everyone has a price”

[@sarahwilliams4092]

Why not? Idk whether I would or not but if a person wants to have sex (they aren't pressured, they don't feel they have no other choice etc...) for money. And the other is willing to pay for it and not treat them badly I don't see how it's a problem or anyone else's business. All interactions in life are already transactions the only difference is this is actual cash. For me personally I prefer an emotional connection but if others can/are willing/enjoy it then do you and them 😉

[@Anne-zt2dz]

Sex work means they only do the work if they get paid for it. Meaning they don’t really want to but are forced to somehow because of the need or manipulation of money. There is nothing respectable about erasing someone’s bodily autonomy with your financial dominance.

[@lunabibiane]

the situation youve described is not the case for 99% of sex workers. when going to a sex worker you cant really ensure that they are doing it because they truly want to, so essentially youd always have to accept the high risk of actually raping that person. thats why i think id prefer if we didnt try to normalize it, because most of the time its actually really horrible and the few people who feel "empowered" doing it dont make up for all the suffering imo

[@Anne-zt2dz]

@@lunabibiane Exactly. Prostitution is rape and also porn is proven to make consumers more and more sexually violent and disrespectful women (ask Ted Bundy). Ethical porn does not exist, because it profits of the deeply patriarchal and ultimately pedophilic and human trafficking systems that want to keep women vulnerable in society to exploit them. Stop normalizing this!

[@sarahwilliams4092]

The reason people are able to get away with treating them horribly is because it's illegal and kept in the shadows. But that is an entirely different discussion that I'm not getting into here. Suffice to say whether it be sex work, or cursing or drugs hiding it away and not "normalizing it" doesn't make it actually go away it keeps bad people able to exploit people. Humans are being sold in this country more than any other. shutting your eyes doesn't make it go away. That being said what a person CHOOSES to do with their body isn't yours or anyone else's business as long as they aren't hurting anyone. I wonder where you're getting your statistics on sex work and or if you're even familiar with it before you judge it. When you say "they" don't want to. Who exactly are you referring to? Friends of yours? People you know? Or a biased "morality" based news story? Also this particular video isn't even talking about sex work as a whole its just saying would you pay for it. How is a friend saying hey I'll buy you a pizza and beer if you do me a favor because it's been a while any different than hey i'll give you 50 bucks if you do me a favor.....

[@DarthUchiha91]

@sarahwilliams4092 I couldn't agree more.

[@marvelouschaos]

so many people saying no.. I totally would, but like the first few people, I'm cheap and dont have money to spare. But it would feel great to have a night with a super hot guy I could never have irl. Being paid? Even better.

[@treelonmusk5723]

WHERE DO THEY EVEN FIND THESE PEOPLE OMFG

[@coolgirlskylar]

I’ll never understand how sex can mean nothing to some people, no judgement just crazy.

[@shoelacedonkey]

You mean asexual people? Because even the people that have 'meaningless sex' find meaning in it... just not the romantic sort.

[@coolgirlskylar]

@@shoelacedonkey bruh Idfk nor do I care you either care about sex or don’t. There’s no need to label it

[@LarryWater]

Those people are asexual

[@firstlast8258]

Crazy is as crazy does

[@yanar722]

Yay Ruby’s back!

[@CuznLuvn69]

1,000,000 times no. I hate onlyfans culture it's ruining dating

[@prenkstaOG]

6:34 bro waiting for Will Smith!

[@afrancis7475]

Yes. I have payed for sex multiple times, but we also just chilled, kissed, talked, cuddled etc. and I always tell her that she should let me know if there's anything that she does not want to do. When I had an emotional breakdown, she comforted me. She says that I'm her favourite client 😊

[@ck-bo7sb]

Yeah becauses shes getting paid to tell you that. 🙄

[@parafraceren]

@@ck-bo7sb shut up

[@evolutiontail5697]

At least there's a bit of humanity to your transaction

[@katut3388]

the figure 8 shirt

[@rohaan.]

Wtf is 3:01 ? What's wrong with him to dress and be like that? That's not human.

[@purple7259]

I'd pay but I wouldn't want sex, I'd want a hug or something

[@djtoxicdhg]

I refuse to balive these people actually egzist

[@PurpleSanz]

We ALL pay for sex, one way or another. At least a prostitute is honest about the actual price right from the start. Think about it.

[@87enoughBULL]

I mean, I respect a woman who is incapable of being bought for sex. Her value is worth way more than what money can buy.

[@DMMA0726]

Naturally this doesn't at all feature people with visible disabilities -- sex work has historically provided valuable service to the community. Look, do or don't. It's your life. So long as everyone consents. Sex work is work, trafficking is NOT sex work, for some it's casual pleasure, for some it's therapeutic. Regardless, live your life, drink water, mind your business, and talk to a good sex positive therapist if you want to know more.

[@TryingtoTellYou]

They used to hang prostitutes. That's how "valuable" the job is.

[@idontknow-ms8mc]

Agree. & I had never considered this from the perspective of people with visible disabilities until I saw the movie "Come as you are" a few years ago. It was a good movie too.

[@lihirabinovich8550]

As a former sex worker, the amount of people that are okay with the idea is so depressing and truly breaks my heart.

[@aztro.99]

but sex work is “empowering” thoooo lmao

[@LarryWater]

Dating is a form of prostitution.

[@pixelander]

Why? I mean your promoting the idea just by being a sw

[@Chukaeats]

Always kept it 💯.. 🙏

[@carolraydan9849]

Honestly I would. There are certain sexual liberation acts that would honestly open your mind to things. I think if you’re scared of the judgement then do it with a sex worker bcz let’s be real they’ve done it too many times to care, but you haven’t. So if you find yourself being interested in something but can’t find someone compatible to do it with you, just find someone who offers this service. (But I wouldn’t pay regularly I just mean as a one time thing to further explore yourself as a person and what you like)

[@melodyh2881]

Oftentimes when people can’t find someone who will cater to their interests, it may be extreme or out of the norm. It’s very common for sex traffickers to abuse women and force them into these services for more money from niche acts. Sometimes people offering this service is the result of being coerced or having no options. Many survivors have spoken about how these scenarios have led to r*pe, sexual assault, or consenting to something they don’t want to do. Sometimes “exploring yourself” is just putting someone else at stake and people need to understand that more if they try to pay for consent.

[@carolraydan9849]

@@melodyh2881 I mean ya, let me rephrase I meant “exploring yourself” in a consensual and safe environment for both participants!

[@planetvnus]

@@carolraydan9849this is the second time someone has had to make a follow up comment explaining what they actually meant and I find it quite interesting, but also sad that nothing is perfect and that there’s a downside to basically all types of sex work.

[@carolraydan9849]

@@planetvnus I’m so sure there is. However I respect the work, with all its unseen beauty, and ugliness.

[@sekgo1265]

@@melodyh2881 "Oftentimes when people can’t find someone who will cater to their interests, it may be extreme or out of the norm." Sometimes yes, this is the case, especially in countries where these extremes are heavily stigmatized... But it could also just be a general symptom of a society, where we've started letting companies run our social lives and dating lives alike, and as such can find absolutely no one to do anything with at all? The average age of when people have sex for the first time is going up drastically over the past 10 years, but the stigma surrounding never having had sex is still very much there - especially for men (who, let's be honest, are more often the ones to pay for sex than women). I know a few people that visited sex workers for their first times, who had an entirely different outlook on life afterwards. They gained so much more confidence in themselves after having experienced it. Granted, this is in a country where sex work is legal and actually a well paid job, often earning similar salaries as middle management positions, so here they don't just "scrape by".

[@Bulldogs117]

There are some really attractive people in this video. Don’t go that low ;)

[@OnizenArt]

honestly i dont see anything wrong with it. everyones got needs and average men cant get it as easily as women can, hence why sex work is so big. i can see how sometimes it might be nice to just make a purely transactional deal, get what you need and go about your day, without having to go through all the courtship bs of going on dates, having small talk , and getting to know multiple people. Sometimes you just wanna fvck lol. Either way as a man, you paying for it anyway... wether its through dates or directly, its still costing you money, the ladder just doesnt cost you as much time ;)

[@elisaantonelli8910]

We should not be paying for consent, in order to be having sex. Some of the found as a easy solution doing it if they did nor have money, but reality it is really disgusting. You can see it on the chanel of Soft White Underbelly.

[@Galaxybutterfly88]

I would be fine with being celibate the rest of my life if I had too pay

[@BrianBTeman-in2rc]

Your life would have been very boring imo

[@BookNerdQueen]

This one was crazy

[@ProbablyNot18]

Ask the same to rich people

[@AlexandraMirovic]

You should have asked everyone if they knew that it is illegal to pay for sex. Many people don´t know that it´s legal to sell sex but not to buy and they could have learned something very important.

[@weidchar1646]

That would very much depend on where you live. In the U.S I am pretty sure prostitution is legal in Nevada and maybe a few other states.

[@AlexandraMirovic]

@@weidchar1646 Well yes but in the US it´s only legal in some counties in Nevada, everywhere else it´s illegal.

[@weidchar1646]

@@AlexandraMirovic going back your first point, I am pretty sure most people know prostitution is illegal. The fucked up thing tho is that a lot of politicians and celebrity figures still pay for sex and thus do not provide a good role model for obeying the law.

[@AlexandraMirovic]

@@weidchar1646 For sure, but it still surprises me that some people like in this video say that they could potentially pay for sex and that they don´t see anything wrong about that

[@weidchar1646]

@@AlexandraMirovic I doubt in their minds that when they say that, they're thinking of paying to have sex with an exploited lady. Although that tends to be the case world wide, there is a growing trend of independent escorts who govern themselves in the way that onlyfans girls do, perhaps with even more anonymity. This is to say that the counter argument that all escorts/prostitutes are trafficked/coerced is not true. Less so in the U.S.

[@l.s.11]

"I support my friends that are sex workers by like umm purchasing some of their like content when it goes on sale" 😂💀

[@hampus3699]

Lmaooo

[@scotthearts9634]

Now, me and you know she probably enjoyin' the content 😉😉

[@mariom3454]

Is it me or does she look like michael cera

[@l.s.11]

Big thank you to people that keep liking my comment and reminding me of this wonderful statement. :3

[@hippiegyal_adri]

Jaw on the floor.

[@luisenriquedelapena1046]

I believe someone said they wouldn't mind being a sugar baby. That would make an interesting video for 100. Would you be either a sugar baby or sugar daddy/momma? Here's another suggestion: Would you like to have a friend with benefits?

[@DarthUchiha91]

Interesting question. As someone who would and have payed for sex, I'm not sure if I would be willing to be a sugar daddy or even a baby.

[@obvsobvs8369]

half of ppl don't know the full reality of being a sugar baby tho so it won't be that interesting

[@YungSeti]

Nah, I want to genuinely like/be liked by my partners. That's like paying for a friend imo.

[@PrinterJamOnToast]

People who pay for sex don't care about that, it's just a way to meet their physical needs without having to commit to a relationship.

[@YungSeti]

@@PrinterJamOnToast I'm sure, I'm just saying why I couldn't do it. If i just need the physical need met there's easier ways to go about it imo

[@marinam6035]

​@@PrinterJamOnToast it's not a need, you know? it's a desire. I think it's important we name things correctly

[@DA-js7xz]

That's fucking terrible logic. You must be young 😂

[@seri4837]

​@@PrinterJamOnToastsex isn't a need lmao

[@notaxolord9432]

Are we going to talk about the women who said that she let her husband go to a “whorehouse” once a year?

[@max2721]

no i don't think we will

[@aribucks4189]

love to hear her talk about it lol. how was she rationalizing it to herself while they where still together ?

[@ughmina]

@@max2721 LMAO

[@katiesalvadore7306]

My jaw dropped when she said that! Like what in the world?!?

[@kellygreengables3936]

I mean, we don't know what they were struggling with in their marriage. Some people will try anything to keep a partner. Now, I feel like a better solution could have been some kind of open relationship but that's another conversation.

[@aviisraw]

“I think it’s hard to pay for consent”🤯

[@Amelia-V]

You should read radfem books if that sentiment peaked your interest.

[@edithputhy4948]

@@Amelia-V you don't have to be radfem to be against prostitution

[@GodModeChris]

Smh

[@blacklyfe5543]

What does that mean

[@TheNewAkil]

@@blacklyfe5543 it means that paying for the consent of someone’s body is basically unethical. To pay someone to give up their body is not true consent. It’s paid consent with a condition. Unethical, kinda fucked up.

[@barborasamkova6993]

“Now give me a good book” Praise👌

[@DA-js7xz]

Erotic novels are so 1980s

[@aubreyplazasuncle]

“i think it’s hard to pay for consent” that girl articulated my thoughts so perfectly. it even extends to free porn… these are real ass people, not stunt actors.

[@notlxrd2]

Even in normal relationships men basically pay for consent so idk what's your point

[@oligotide7257]

@notlxrd2 Listen, man, I agree with the concept that all relationships are in some way inherently transactional. But this is really dismissive of the other values a partner can hold outside of sex. Why have a romantic partner if not for their other qualities? If you want casual sex there are other people out there that also want casual sex, and you don't need to manipulate them into it.

[@notlxrd2]

@@oligotide7257 that's not the point, in order for a man to be "accepted" by a woman he has to meet some requirements that usually are based on his belongings

[@oligotide7257]

@notlxrd2 The point is you said "even in normal relationships men basically pay for [sexual] consent." If you're having a casual sexual relationship, that standard does not exist. The "transaction" in the casual relationship is enjoyable sex for both parties. The "transaction" in a serious romantic relationship is not money/financial stability for sex, but is something more intrinsic, with sex being a byproduct. Therefore, the barrier to sex/consent is not a financial one.

[@notlxrd2]

@@oligotide7257 If the man doesn't have the(required) amount of money or assets he can't even get in that casual relationship in the first place, so the consent that you're talking about is out of the conversation