Tractor Stuck In Mud - How To Get Unstuck

[@fatdriver]

I read a quote years ago that goes, "A man, like metal, once he loses his temper loses his worth." I try to remember that quote when I get mad. Great videos!!!!

[@deanpeanuts5112]

How

[@olegkibalko7131]

You may or may not see my comment, but Cody I wanted to say I appreciate the effort you put into your videos especially the honesty of the message at the end. keep fighting the good fight and don't let the negative comments discourage you from continuing to sharing your life and faith.

[@johnrtrucker]

Oleg Kibalko my opinion is the same here too although I'm not the most religious person but my job is nothing but stress most times surely today trying to get home after 4 weeks on the road and this breakdown cost me one extra day sometimes I even can say my job IS stress but if you let the stress work on you you can end up hurting someone emotionally or physically and keeping a calm head is hard at times but nothing ever happens without it's specific reasons but I hate that I love all the stress to make deliveries on time the stress can either break a man or strengthen a man it's all about which side of that you feed determines the ultimate outcome

[@alexanderfenes]

You and your family are a inspiration to all young adults out here. thank you for you and your wifes wisdom. blessings from Norway

[@ryanellis2603]

Thank you Cody. I struggle with impatience as a father. You have created a fine channel that every man should watch. Please don't be discouraged by the naysayers. They are not worth your time. Good job Buddy. I'm impressed.

[@jdenning79]

Thanks for the word. It is nice to hear these things.

[@deanpeanuts5112]

Yeah happy to hear god told him not to beat his wife

[@jackkant2697]

Cody, thanks for your closing words. I get easily frustrated when I'm tired or things don't go as planned and get grumpy. My wife is a real gem as is Mrs. W. She is a tough cookie and will work with me on any project. She isn't afraid to get dirty, but also washes up real nice to go out on the town. To top things off she has M.S. We've been together for 56 years, she is my hero. PTL, for bringing us together. I see so many things in your family that reflect our life. I always pray for the wisdom to restore calm in my spirt. what you had to say today will help me Thanks again.

[@carp614]

I confess I have been failing at this same thing with my family day after day. Again & again I have taken my frustrations out on them when my pace is too slow. you have shown how to deal with this better than I ever have. Thank you for being a light for me today.

[@joeleonetti8976]

Cody, well said about the "be still." It resonated with me. I having a tough stressful weekend as big deadline at work and have had to work every day straight for the past three weeks. I was taking a break and my wife asked me to come outside with the family. I really didn't want to and was grouchy. In fact, had to pause this video to do so. Rather than be grumpy, I gave into the situation and had a beautiful 10 minutes with the family that honestly I won't ever forget. It was a beautiful moment. Be still makes a lot of sense to me right now. Keep up the good work.

[@grahamnichols2635]

You really spoke to me in this video, Cody. I really struggle with that same issue more often than I'd like to admit. Thank you for the advice on how to deal with it more gracefully. Don't let the negative comments shake you, just pray for them and keep on doing what you do. You're an inspiration to me and to many others. God bless you and your family.

[@beaverrick9789]

I struggle also, Im glad Cody brings this message to light.

[@nerdepreacher7787]

I struggle with this as well, and always feel guilty for not being more patient or understanding. I feel ashamed as well after unreasonably lashing out due to what was in my head vs the reality of what is reasonable to accomplish. Being still and waiting for God or for that matter other people has never been something I have been good at, but it is clear that God through Cody is telling not only myself but a lot of others to work on it, struggle with it but ultimately conquer it as anything is possible with God beside us. Thank you all for your honesty and openness, maybe together we will all become better at being still.

[@deanpeanuts5112]

I’m happy god told you not to beat your wife

[@jassonmathews1333]

Thank you for the words. Yesterday I found myself in a similar situation and I didn't treat my wife and kids with the respect and patience they deserve. After hearing your testimony, I immediately apologize to them for the way I acted. I'm grateful for you, your family, and your relationship with God. You at least had a positive impact on one life today. May God continue to bless you and yours.

[@TomWylie]

Lol "You know there are attachments for the tractor if you want to dig holes, right?" :D Thanks Cody for your honesty and for taking time at the end to share of the struggle and how God spoke to your heart in the midst of it. I don't think there are many men alive who don't at least feel like getting frustrated in the middle of challenges like that, and we all need to reminder to be still and trust God for the strength we need to not only get through the situation, but to do it in a loving way to those who are helping us. I've been there many a time myself and truly appreciate this reminder. :) God bless!

[@AlphaChimpEnergy]

Cody, I'm always impressed with your ability to self assess and bring it back to the Lord and use it to teach others.. I needed to hear/see this.

[@jamesprigioni]

Quality like usual. I love seeing the family work together, and thanks for your honesty Cody

[@charlesmcknight6792]

Cody, i have been watching your videos for a while now and when you first started doing your rants I would usually skip them even though I'm a Christian as well. I just didn't want to hear the negativity, but I absolutely loved your reflection at the end of this video. It was like a quick devotional. Loved it!! Keep up the amazing work you and your family are doing and know that there are way more people on here that love this kind of content than the ones who dont!

[@rj44319]

Its hard to keep the anger inside. It takes a man to admit he still haves it. And a real man to handle it properly. Bravo Mr. W, those are the times it really tests us.

[@seangill7985]

Well done and well said Cody! I've been there many times myself! It can take a lot to recognize and resist losing your patience when you're up against a stressful situation, whether actual or perceived. It's especially important when working with family; they are undoubtedly doing the same for you and each other. Having worked with machinery, tools, equipment, cars/trucks and mechanical items my whole life...I know what it's like to be completely in synch with a complex machine and its full operation, to know its limits and potential dangers, to anticipate and/or react in a split second to recover, maintain, and progress safely if things begin to go sideways. When you see yourself simultaneously running every position that the team is working, it's easy to become frustrated when someone reacts differently than you would have. Self expectations and personal goals can play havoc with one's patience. You are 100% correct; at the end of the day it does not really matter how much you've accomplished together, if nobody wants to help tomorrow.

[@stinkoadam]

Your end-words choked me up. I'm guilty of this. Constantly tested by my family and pushed to my breaking point. Thank you so much for your constant reminders. I almost feel like you're talking directly to me in your end-words, and they come at the most appropriate times in my life. -Adam

[@jacobzimmerman9092]

No matter what others might say, I am thankful for those words at the end. That was just what I needed to hear, I have been asking God to help me with patience lately and I have seen him speak to me through a few KZbin videos today.

[@jeffc6832]

Thank you for the excellent message and reminders Cody. The fact that a negative comment on it has risen to the top hurts my heart, but I pray for those people and hope that maybe someday one of them will hear the word of God through your videos. Keep doing what you are doing, don't let the negativity discourage you from sharing your experiences and how the word of God speaks to you through the joys and struggles of your life. Someday you are going to share something that might just change someone's outlook and help them to open their heart to the love of Christ.

[@DarrelCarson]

I love these videos where you allow yourself to be vulnerable and share how your faith gets you through. This has helped me and my family. Thanks. Darrel

[@ColeTrain17]

Hey Wranglerstar family, just wanted to let you know how much of an inspiration you are and how much my family loves your videos. Ignore the folks who keep putting you down for sharing your beliefs and please keeping making these great videos. You said it best, they just can't stand hearing the truth!!!

[@thecrazysieskids4698]

Cody! Man the end card killed me. I have felt with the same issue this weekend and sadly I did not handle it with patience. This is just what I needed to hear. Thank you for sharing how God works in your life. It is always encouraging to see how you and your family deal with struggles when they come along.

[@420Homestead]

Cody I went through a similar situation this past weekend where I lashed out at my wife and my parents for a mistake I had made. Thanks for ending the video the way you did. I needed it. After doing what I did this weekend I said the serenity prayer and promptly apologized for what I had done. "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things i can, and wisdom to know the difference."

[@gearheadted5110]

Very cool working in the woods with hand tools, power tools and equipment. Also, I appreciate your self reflection and candor. I, like so many men, have struggled with inappropriate expressions of anger/frustration. You are wise in seeking God for help and clarity. You, and your family, have my respect and admiration. God bless you all.

[@Mitazad]

I'm not religious, but I can still appreciate what Cody is saying. The negativity in the comments really says a lot about some of you.

[@richardschmidt5313]

u have described me to a tea Cody. I am so goal oriented that I alienate my family from wanting to help with future jobs. It's time to smell the roses and and listen to God's word.

[@StuartInTX]

So glad I watched through the stuck tractor to get to the commentary. The commentary was the best part of the video and certainly something I needed to hear. I have a lot of respect for the family relationships and leadership you show in your video and really appreciate your commentary on yourself at the end. God bless you.

[@dewestmusic243]

Your honesty in the content of your videos is most refreshing. As a father that deals with the same desires to see productivity in the days work, and tries to teach good work ethic to my four sons, I fail along the way at showing the love that they need even more. Thank you for taking time to share the best of ethics. The family will be a better team for it! I watch your videos for the working content, but even more for the character that you express. You are a good example of Christian values.

[@Jordy40Growing]

Cody, thank you so much for bringing god back into your videos. your explanation of the lesson learned is spot on also shows how a person can lead a crew and dealing with bumps and not having your crew hate working for you

[@chiefof]

I especially appreciated your comments at the end of this great video. Also got a kick out of Jack's offcamera comments during the 'filming'- he is already wise beyond his years and able to participate in the work being done. Mrs Ws is, as always, a beautiful and competent partner.

[@jarod725]

You probably know this, but if you have the bucket on the loader next time, you can use it to walk the tractor out backwards by rotating it fully down, shove it into the ground, then rotate up to shove the tractor back a few feet at a time. Of course no bucket this time around so kudos on doing a great job working together to get it out! Also, I always enjoy the small bits of testimony you add at the end of many of your videos. Sometimes it's encouraging, other time sobering and/or convicting. No doubt you fail in many ways like the rest of us, but you are certainly an encouragement to your brothers in Christ who seek to lead our own families as God intends and calls us to do. Keep it up, Cody!

[@morrow.m]

So appreciate your honesty. I know your struggle. It's so often the ones we love most we treat the most deplorably.

[@deanpeanuts5112]

That’s you not me

[@kickeruser]

Great message at the end. I realize now I suffer from the same inadequacy of patience and I also feel the same shame in the end. We just bought an old house and this message taught me to put that impatience away and enjoy the labors of work with my family. Thank you for your messages Mr. Wranglerstar. I know its difficult to put our shortcomings out in public. You're inspiring.

[@SJWolf-yf8sy]

Cody your a dang good man!!! You and your family work super hard on your Homestead to make the property and cultivate the land the way you guys want it to look. Thank You for all the time you take to share about GOD and what you have learned in the Bible.

[@dalemonzelowsky2880]

Cody in your comment at the end of the video, it really hit home for me. For what you said I saw myself too. I've always loved your video's and watch as your young family gets through life. My children have all grown up and moved out into their own lives. I wish I could've have been as introspective as you are.

[@heavysnow8616]

Cody, you are so correct. Many times, in my frustration, anger, I have lashed out at my loved ones. After reviewing my behavior I felt so ashamed. Is hurting others proper behavior because we are upset? Absolutely not! I now remove myself from the situation and take a minute. A quick prayer for patience works wonders and nobody is left upset by a stinging comment. It’s amazing if we take the time to review our behavior and pray for strength and thanksgiving. Great job! God Bless my friend.

[@jacquerefregier9043]

Thank you Cody, for the thoughts. The insight. I have this problem... quick to temper and impatience. It is time to learn to pause and reflect on my own faults and issues, rather than placing blame and judgement on those I love. Time to stop hurting them... and myself! We will all be so much happier for it! Thank you, peace be with you and yours.

[@mcdsdaddy]

Cody, thank you for your words in the ending commentary. I too struggle daily with my impatience with my family. I continually pray to God for His forgiveness and guidance to be a better husband and father. Thank you once again as this really touched me.

[@nfp212]

That's quite a powerful message. I guess it's not easy showing our failures and letting pride get in the way. I'm sorry I wasn't able to make it out to Seven Springs last year to meet you but perhaps one day... I want you to know how much this channel has affected me in such a positive and introspective way. Keep up the great work, loving the forestry content!

[@soundsnvisions]

Excellent perspective at the end. I own my own small business and my 17 yr old son helps out. As you were narrating, I couldn't help but think of the MANY times I was short with him on the job site. I WAS that guy who was the "angry tyrant". If I recorded my day, I know I would be ashamed many times. Thanks for the transparency in your life, and using this video to allow me to see MY wrongdoing. Keep up the great work!!

[@grega207]

Great video ive spent many days getting tractors unstuck, how we struggle with patience, your message was right on, we as men must learn to control our tempers. God bless !

[@flittlefield]

I love these lessons at the end. God Bless you and your family. By the grace of God, you are a good man.

[@GrandpaD78]

Thank you for all that you and your family do to make other's lives better.

[@StoneysWorkshop]

thanks for the honesty, i have to work on this as well

[@chapmanpreferred1382]

The closing statements were used for good in my heart, thank you for sharing.

[@johnrenterprises2604]

Spot on Cody on the commentary. Advice is helpful at times and it is wise to consider it. But often much of it is not helpful. You listen because every now and then a golden nugget comes along that just shines on your situation. The golden nugget advice you gave goes for your working crew as well as for family. The best crews are the ones who are not afraid to communicate with each other while disciplining themselves to focus on making what they say helpful instead of distracting. Its a fine line sometimes and it is important to remember it is never good to cause your friends and family to lose face. The work will still be there tomorrow but you have to cherish each other every day. When the team clicks "on" "together" the work will get done with amazing results. If folks will listen you often give that "golden nugget" advice at the end of many of your videos. I really enjoy them, so thank you.

[@RamSkirata]

the amount of work that goes into one of these videos is beyond what most people would believe. Thank you, Cody !

[@ladyduce00]

EXCELLENT Commentary, Thank YOU WranglerStar's

[@mjmcomputers]

I always appreciate your honesty. Your authenticity is what draws me to your videos.

[@snugbreezy4523]

Awwww!! HeartRacer is so cute and precious!!!! I absolutely adore her!!💟💗💝

[@ericweaver9696]

Love it. The end comments are a blessing...encouraging to my soul. Thank you.

[@bjwillis43]

Love your closing thoughts... please know that you are not alone in your feelings.

[@daveepperson885]

Great end card, these words are so valid as we try to get more and more done every day. As leaders and teachers of our family we must take a step back and do what is right. Good job.

[@StickyBit7777]

great lesson, Cody. I often struggle with frustration in the face of setbacks which delay my plans. Weekend before last my kids asked to borrow my small tractor to clear some trees which had died. I decided to jump in the big tractor and help. Of course, I was the one to get the big tractor stuck. Then we proceeded to get the small one stuck trying to pull the first one out. We used the truck on the small one and shovels to clear the belly of the big one. (Yes, I had it that stuck.) It took hours from everyone's schedules and I had no one to blame but myself. Fortunately, we all saw humor in it, and everyone was able to roll with it. Lessons all around. Plus we all got a chance to play in the mud.

[@crazyredneckfromny3730]

next time lift the front end up and you will get out

[@rogerd.miller1095]

I always appreciate your honesty. The way that I attempt to deal with those same types of frustrations is a mantra from Depak Chopra, "this moment is exactly as it is supposed to be." I would like to say that I am successful at recognizing it more often than I actually am.

[@M6T7Y]

Enjoyed the last segment of the Video. I find myself doing the same thing at times and have gotten better over the last couple of years. We all fall short every day. Even though I know exactly what you are talking about, it helps to be reminded of the typical everyday flaws that we are sometimes not aware of at the time. Thanks...

[@johngordon9889]

Nice video Cody. Watching you work with MrsW trying to get the tractor out brought back lots of memories. Not that I have many tractors stuck in my life; but the times I have worked with my wife while working through an issue. Expectations and the goal would take over and I would move from husband and father and turn into a dictator with no patience. You did well. I'm just figuring this out and getting better at it now...33 years into being married. Take care and stay safe.

[@matthewgarrison644]

As always Cody, thank you for your honesty and vulnerability. In a day and age when most people would blame others for our troubles. God speed and bless you and your family.

[@hobbyman3608]

Every video is a blessing, thank you for wisdom and perspective. Always humbling.

[@ajtaylor560]

s Some excellent lessons for everyone who has never been seriously stuck! You are right the need to get another load is really unimportant! Both Mrs Wrangerstar and Jack learned the amazing " stuck" lessons which last a lifetime!!

[@davidsling3]

Thank you for the honesty and the reminder at the end

[@stephenschaefer1343]

It is so hard for us males to admit failure that we often tend to take our frustrations out on the people closest to us. God givs us many ways to deal with these trials, but it is our choice as to which one we chose to employ. Maybe it is age that allows us to remember our previous choices and the consequences they carried. Today I choose the calmer path as I have learned that I am not the one in control. There is a power greater than me that I tend to turn to now when things go bad around me. Me getting out of the way allows His power to take over and achieve the better out come. Keep the videos real Cody, many of us appreciate the personal reflection as it validates and instructs us in our lives.

[@lukep6017]

Those are honest words, thanks for sharing the good and the bad. Excellent VIDEO.

[@zebrapetey9746]

Wranglerstars, I appreciate your honesty in these vlogs. thank you...

[@jonleuth3092]

Fits right in with the Slough of Despair video, which taught me patience. Good job, especially the ending. Unfortunately, I sometimes tend to respond the same way with my family but I press forward to the mark.

[@BriantWoodworks]

Boy, he sure is picking up the lessons you've given him. Fun to watch him grow in strength and in knowledge.

[@Lennil]

Cody I love your honesty about your own struggles as a man of faith you make a great man to look up too. Thank you for your honesty and faith.

[@johnprouty4644]

Hey Cody, helpful tip is that with a single pulley your just simply redirecting the force, to double as you mentioned, you'd have needed 2 pulleys. Not condescending, or anything of that nature, but just trying to help you out in the future. I'm sure your already aware of this and just mis-spoke, but none the less just passing on some info to help out later! Keep it up, can't wait to see the big things I'm sure you've got planned for the summer!

[@wheeler7973]

Amazing Message and Video!! One of the hardest things I've had to learn is patience with my loved ones. Far too often we/I become short with them not taking into account that they don't know many if the things that are second nature to me.

[@MrReddok]

Thanks for the bit on patience Cody. I will have to say I truly admire you and your family! I have always thought, how does he do it? How does he have so much patience? It is something I struggle with too! This really hit home and resonates with me, seeing someone you truly admire be so human with the same faults. It is humbling, and touches my heart. I think the humanity you show is what makes this channel one of the best I watch. Thanks for all your hard work and dedication.

[@ceadeses]

She tore you up ! Who drove it down there in the first place.I wrote this right after you got it out and before your explanation. You are a class act!

[@robwhite2282]

Cody, thank you for your humble words at the end. I too have struggled with frustration and anger.

[@snoxpro]

I too struggle with a lack of patience and I'm really thankful your willing to talk about it openly and give advice towards it, before I started watching your videos I was miserable to work around, the slightest thing would set me off and I knew that wasn't the person I wanted to be but I didn't know how to change it. You said it best in this video though, is it worth ruining everyone's day and straining your relationship with loved ones over an extra load of woodchips?? Absolutely not.. My strategy has completely changed since watching your videos, if things aren't going the way id like, its my fault. I need to stop and better explain the goals to whoever im working with and with that extra communication projects go sooo much smoother. Thank you so much for bringing this to light, it truly did make all the difference and who knows, may have even saved my relationship down the road...thanks again love the channel!

[@barneythedog977]

Thank you for the righteous words. It truly helped me be a better Dad this week!

[@SierraScout2]

Well said Cody. Patience with the Family can sometimes be a challenge. I'll try to keep this close for those situations.

[@taurinenrgy]

I love how you choose to don't edit out the part where you were getting losing your patience. It goes to demonstrate that you are just as human as we are. I know what it feels to be there, and at the end of every day even when things don't go our way we have to just relax, don't try to blame the people around us for the things that didn't work out, enjoy, laugh at it and make the best of it. Good luck.

[@joelhardcastle6175]

Keep sharing your heart Cody, I love your little devotionals

[@dandutcher5380]

Good words at the end. I can relate to what you were feeling Cody. Thank you for the reminder. God is shaping His children into the image of His Son. Tests like these help us know how we are doing and that we are in need of His grace, forgiveness and strength to overcome. I am praying for you all. Thank you.

[@luukie0000]

I'll tell you a little secret. God doesn't excist :)

[@Random_Bern]

Whether God exists or not, I find it delightful to see that some religious teachings are being used to make lives better, rather than tear them down. And the advice to "Be still in the face of adversity" is very good advice indeed - not only will you avoid lashing out and hurting those closest to you, but you will usually see a better path around your troubles. That's good advice, whether you believe in God or not.

[@fl8melogistics841]

You really need an imaginary man to tell you not to act like a angry jerk in front of your family?

[@weekendwarrior9171]

The very essence of believing in something greater then you is humbling, unlike your comment.

[@glenkelley6048]

Hey Cody, you should have left those CHAINS on the tractor! Also, the loader bucket will often help you get unstuck!

[@mattg8787]

i would think that the CHAINS would do the same as the knobs in the tires

[@brandonbeckemeyer1579]

Ya if he would of of had a regular bucket that would of helped him but I don't know how well the frost bite would work for that

[@ghenry85]

I've pried myself out with a bale grapple on the loader. I don't see why the frost bite wouldn't work like a charm. Scratch the paint, that's all. I think Cody would be better served with Ag tires, instead of Industrial.

[@thomasrichuno]

Thanks for your words of wisdom. Bless your family

[@rusdom]

Good word at the end! Thanks for your honesty and willingness to share openly with all of us. Its a blessing to many people I'm sure - I know it is to me. 👍

[@rkstewart9585]

You keep doing you Mr Cody. Even a heathen can appreciate the message of peace

[@JerkRice]

Good words of wisdom at the end. Thanks for sharing.

[@albundy8139]

Cody I love your helpful scripture and quotes at the end it helps me get through the day. Keep up the great work and God bless you and yours.

[@bigdave8504]

I know exactly what you mean at the end of a hard days work. It is like it takes a tremendous force for you to be patient, kind, and understanding. I have gotten short with my loved ones over this very issue and it doesn't make anything better. Keep strong and the good deeds you do with your family will out weight the negatives.

[@williamtimmons8791]

Good video and good message. We men need to remember that message during and after a tough day. Good job Cody.

[@normandesrosiers3737]

Thank you Cody for the kind words that you say we all should listen God bless you and your family my friend

[@bobchapman8024]

I love these videos with you and your family working together. You hit me hard with some of these messages and biblical views at the end. It makes me take a long hard look at my actions and words towards others. I love it, and what a blessing it is that you are able to share them. God Bless.

[@ramusrodgers8476]

I struggle with no patience every day. Anger comes over to fast. Thank you Cody!

[@3Godfree]

Wow Cody... Thank you for that word at the end, your timing was amazing. God bless you for reminding me. Indeed "be still, and know that I am God",

[@johnvyle]

In these trying times your advice points to a way that we should all aspire to. Keep walking the path Cody.

[@tempist]

I love your ending of your videos! They have so many valuable life lessons, even though I am only 20 and in college I still find them useful.

[@kevinwaycaster]

I know this video is “old” but the message still rings true (and yes i saw your explanation about the history of the phrase!). Same struggles here. Thanks for reminding us men that our anger and frustration can/should not be directed at our families. I’ve failed at this many times and reaped the consequences. Only a REAL man can put his shortcomings on video for the world to see and learn from. We should all be so diligent in our struggle.

[@userunavailable3095]

Amen, Cody, and well said. I so appreciate how you use your channel to propagate the Gospel, and to continually point the world to the God whom you serve.

[@jonoj7666]

Wow that last bit really struck home for me. Thank You for sharing!

[@jpcoppock]

Thank you for sharing your heart at the end of the videos. It's amazing how often it's exactly what I needed to hear.

[@mattgrubbs]

Thank you for sharing the truth of Gods word and your shortcomings to always meet it. It's makes this channel way more than just you showing your skills, which God has obviously blessed you with. Keep going!!

[@rickmaudlin2160]

Thanks for your encouragement to be in the Word... AND to be patient.

[@c2lewis]

Good comments at the end of the video. May be something i need to do when i get frustrated with my family doing home projects.

[@oswaltedmund6257]

what a great message. I fail at this many times. Hearing it in you humble words makes it so real.