What Acts are Not Permitted During Intimacy? | Ask Shaykh YQ #96

[@aasifapeer9569]

Masha'Allah, you are one of the finest scholars that we have in this day and age....

[@piqueny8872]

Intimacy is suppose to be full of love compassion and happiness, yet the world has made it so difficult and caused so many hardships. Some beautiful turned ugly by force

[@MohamedShou]

A very beneficial video, we should not be embarrassed with these subjects especially when the act is halal and also brings pleasure and happiness to our spouses.

[@filsanhussein9507]

True I agree 100 percent if we are doing it in a halal way that will not anger allah

[@widadsyed9865]

SubhanAllah may Allah bless you . It's understandable how difficult it might be to talk about such intimate and sensitive topic. May Allah be pleased with you

[@fullmoonlight5664]

You are such a blessing. May Allah bless you. Thank you for being explizit and clear. BarakaAllahu feek.

[@RB-fr1tg]

JazakAllahu khayran Shaykh 😎

[@ahmedshifaz54]

I think it's also important to put extreme cases into the context of this discussion. Eg. use of najis in sexual activities, use of self-harm or harming the partner even with a mutual agreement or other filthy fetishes that crosses the boundaries of human decency. By using common sense one should be able to conclude that Islam does define additional boundaries on what can be permitted or not. This is in addition to the two special cases (anal and menstrual) that the sheikh mentioned. Allah knows best, and may Allah guide us to the straight path.

[@amiramz7869]

true but i think those things are included in what the sheikh mentioned that everything is possible unless another shariah rule would be broken so obviously since self-harm and intentional use of najis aren't allowed, those things aren't allowed in the context of intimacy as well so i think the sheikh alluded to this point with out beung explicit and I think we can appreciate why he didn't want to go into details and he just gave the blanket ruling and Allah knows best

[@halam899live8]

Great video today keep it up your doing amazing job

[@LisaN]

I think these are difficult and rather shy topics to discuss openly, but this scholar discusses topics very straightforward with no beating around the bush so that there is no misunderstandings. The internet video chat though shouldn't be trusted. There are so many ways for others and hackers to access connections. I would think that that sort of thing should fall under the category of videotaping and picture taking. It's just too dangerous to be exposed online in any way.

[@urusakhan8424]

One of the best video ever about intimacy between couples.. ❤

[@MakeMoneyOnline101Tips]

Very informative video thank you for sharing

[@CharlesCharles-ve4lr]

Good. I called my sisters yesterday and told her not to watch she is 14 16 and 17yrs, since. I adviced them not to watch. I can watch but I respect my mum. What she told me long years ago. I didnt watch this video at all. Sheik. You are so generous and good heart. I always wish you the best. Allah bless you.

[@Abdullah34610]

You know your family better than I, but I would think you have made a mistake. If they know about intercourse, and they are at an age when they may have questions about it (I would think any teen over 13 would have questions), I would say it is important to open the conversation. At least for them to understand the basics. As for you, what is wrong with getting a second source of information from a reputable source? What if your mother made a mistake? Or you misunderstood her? Whenever I hear someone say "my parents did/said this", it reminds me of the jahil Meccans refusing Islam because it went against what their fathers did. Making this topic this taboo is causing more problems than it's fixing.

[@danoneall4013]

It is Halal for you to listen and learn.

[@yasminea7149]

I think in this day and age, it is good for your sisters to watch this video because once they start talking to men or get married, some men will ask for the strangest things of them and they may not know that they can refuse, etc. Men nowadays watch so much porn, they ask for crazy things of women, especially young innocent ones.

[@cam0987]

@@yasminea7149 i totally agree

[@Mid_copper23]

I think your sister is at age of marriage islamicly so she should know about intercourses in the islamic way because if she doesn't then she will hear about it from out sources such us schools and sex Ed classes in schools so she should already know what is permissible in her own religion so that when she takes those classes which are required she would know when they crossing the line that should not be crossed. There is no shyness in learning intercourses because its a human need and desires.

[@mokhammadaref3095]

Thank you for great work sir. Ma Sha Allah

[@ajaratulampinley2028]

Allah bless you. Very informative

[@Nafshadow]

Al hamde li Allah. الحمد لله

[@tariqsalymaziz456]

I love you shaikh

[@abdullahsiddiqui9198]

Sheikh how can I ask questions from u?

[@fatimasambou1628]

How can I ask a private question

[@omarboland7448]

Dr. I have a question is it permissible for a Imam to attend things that go against Islam so they can feel excepted in circles other than Islam.

[@mujtabaalam5907]

Probably not. There are ways to be accepted outside of the Muslim community which don't necessitate participating in haraam

[@Moecarrim12]

Is it permissible to look and see?

[@balibhai420]

Look and see what exactly?

[@mirtabreve3693]

If you apply Jesus example in your life you will be a Muslim.

[@thepinupvanlifer9298]

Not true

[@Sohaib_A_Y]

@@thepinupvanlifer9298 It is true. Basically Jesus (peace be upon him) said to worship one single God who is the Owner, Creator, Maker, Sustainer, of absolutely everything single thing and not associate anything with God. He never said or claimed divinity. Never did he(Jesus) said to worship him or his mother Mary(peace be upon her). Jesus spoke miraculously when he was just a new born that there will be a Messenger by the name Ahmed who will come after him and to follow him. We as Muslims follow and believe the very same basic teachings of Prophet Jesus (peace be upon him) by following what he said and further by following the teachings of our beloved, and final, Prophet and Messenger of God, Muhammad. So as Muslim we follow and love Jesus(peace be upon) more than the Christians themselves.

[@hayyay1952]

What does that even mean? Except for the fact that Jesus (Isa) was a messenger of Allah and was sent as a guidance to the childeren of Israel with the Gospel. So he was a muslim yes Muslim means someone who submits his will to Allah (God)

[@zackhere968]

Yeshua PBUH (Isa in Arabic accent) he was a Muslim.

[@hayyay1952]

ZACK HERE Bro Yeshua is Joshua not Isa as. Isa (as) in aramaic is Eeshu, Jesus in english

[@simpellux4437]

Ya shyke did you just said Toys ¿

[@balibhai420]

Yes

[@hylianlegends]

If the lecture is too much for you to handle, I'd advise you go to another video

[@ijustwannacommentnotmyreal9814]

Sorry but isn't it crazy how a religion wants to control which orifices are used by a couple for their intercourse? And which positions are used?

[@balibhai420]

Not at all

[@islami658]

It’s cleaner and moral

[@ijustwannacommentnotmyreal9814]

@@islami658 cleaner makes sense. Moral?

[@hylianlegends]

Not crazy at all. Sorry you feel that way.

[@Slanovich]

Why did you even watch this video if you don't believe in it? It's not crazy because every society/culture/religion has its own sexual norms and boundaries. Even secularism/modernism, despite its rejection of everything, has its own restrictions.

[@gsb433]

Did he really say, "ROLE PLAYING".

[@Kamrankhan23333]

What's that about ? 😕 😕

[@khaledneanea1830]

I have a question Sheikh Yasir Qahdi. Is it permissible for a man who has multiple wives to engage in sexual intercourse with them at a time. Is that halal is my question.

[@ANSILKHANLR]

Its Haram. Only one wife at a time. Then Purification is Must before Approaching next. As per ur Question , think about the situation. Two woman seeing each others body . Its totally Haram.

[@yusufnasiru1709]

Ansil Khan khaled did not intend having intercourse with two or more wives while they are both naked in the same room.

[@ANSILKHANLR]

@@yusufnasiru1709 How do u know that Bro ? Even in different Rooms or Wives are Blind, it is Haram to Approach another wife for intimacy after intimacy with one wife Without Purification. And in case of multiple wives, each night is fixed for each wives. So generally its not possible in one night. And very important thing is Husband must seek permission of wife to go from bed after intimacy. Its Wife's Right to be in bed with Husband. In Islam Both husband and wife Have Rights and responsibilities on each other and on family.

[@ANSILKHANLR]

@@bashscrazy Brackets don't give rulings. Here is the explanation of visit in one night. More explanation is there in link. Narrated Hisham b. 'Urwah: On the authority of his father that 'Aishah said: O my nephew, the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) did not prefer one of us to the other in respect of his division of the time of his staying with us. It was very rare that he did not visit us any day (i.e. he visited all of us every day). He would come near each of his wives without having intercourse with her until he reached the one who had her day and passed his night with her. When Saudah daughter of Zam'ah became old and feared that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) would divorce her, she said: Messenger of Allah, I give to 'Aishah the day you visit me. The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) accepted it from her. She said: We think that Allah, the Exalted, revealed about this or similar matter the Qur'anic verse: "If a wife fears cruelty or desertion on her husband's part...." [4:128] Hasan Sahih (Al-Albani) Sunan Abi Dawud 2135 www.letmeturnthetables.com/2008/08/prophet-muhammad-visiting-all-his-wives.html?m=1

[@bashscrazy]

​ @ANSIL KHAN @@saliminadampha5309 My bad ikhwani. I deleted my comment. JazaakumAllahu khayra

[@rashpalsingh1029]

Why only indirect in quran? So that means it is not forbidden.

[@boygenius538_8]

That’s not what that means at all

[@yeshuahamashiachlionofjuda3110]

Who is Jesus please study from the quran and find and compare with other prophet please

[@niloufarkyani4166]

What about spit roasting ?

[@balibhai420]

Wth is that?