I was told that happens to older men but never got an explanation from a doctor's perspective. Thanks, Dr. Malik.
@bigwill7733 Жыл бұрын
I thank you for making videos like this. As men, it is uncomfortable to open up about issues we are having. That's the reason why I subscribe to your channel
@FanficWriter-gd8xd Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I'm a woman, but I love the way she puts forth male issues as they should be. There are some other channels I came across that only make men a lot more insecure.
@mha236810 ай бұрын
It is VERY bothersome and depressing for men and almost half the pleasure of orgasm is lost . And that's the truth ! It may not be dangerous, but it IS deleterious the the quality of life for men
@CaptainKseadog1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Doc for all the great information. You are clear, precise, and humorous on a sensitive topic. I found out through my own research that Flowmax for enlarged prostrate urination causes retrograde ejaculation. You are my favorite Urologist. You rock!❤😊
@Jay_Taylormua2 ай бұрын
Same here just recently at 43 I thought something was wrong with me. What did u do? Did you stop taking it everyday and just take it as needed? How soon were you back to normal after discarding the meds
@Velo1010 Жыл бұрын
I’m 50 years now. Mine just drips out. Used to squirt like a Super Soaker. Damn prostate!!
@wildman318 Жыл бұрын
I enjoy listening to Dr.Rena Malik talk about her medical knowledge …. I have the same issue, which causes me to not be able to have a proper relationship with a women.
@meteor1237 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Rena always give great information!
@chrisryba6190 Жыл бұрын
Your channel is so informative. Thank you. I have a request: would you please do some content about what happens when a man's prostate is removed? Three friends of mine have had the procedure done in the last few years and it's pretty scary. Thank you!
@therealmrsmall Жыл бұрын
Used to "hit the headboard" in my late teens, 20s, and early 30s...now being in my mid 50s...I can relate to this video 🤷♂️
@darnitthelma4247 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jeffro7475 Жыл бұрын
On no 😮😮😮
@therealmrsmall Жыл бұрын
@JimAllen-Persona great...more stuff to look forward to 🤦♂️
@jerrypeay584 Жыл бұрын
😅😅😊
@tjtv7260 Жыл бұрын
I’m not looking forward to that I don’t wanna deal with that at 50
@deptofcarstereorepair Жыл бұрын
from my own experience with retrograde ejaculation, sometimes there's a "phantom limb" sort of situation where you expect stuff to be there but it isn't
@billmorrison3993Ай бұрын
Dr. Malik, Thank you for these videos, and for your efforts to educate men everywhere about their bodies and functions. I am an Independent Duty Hospital Corpsman on Submarines, and I follow your videos as part of my intensive professional education. It's interesting that since we have started including women in our crews out PD has greatly increased in Gynecological medicine but still lacks a male counterpart. Thank you for your videos and all that you do!
@jamiematthews4173 Жыл бұрын
❤ Nice work Doctor Rena!! Wasn't even aware of this. Thanks!!
@davidscott8400 Жыл бұрын
Learning something new every day
@SteveP-vm1uc Жыл бұрын
I take medicine for prostate issues and have this same problem.. Only, now and then, depending on how intense things get, I do still ejaculate outside, though not nearly as much as I did before the meds.. I love these videos and love your channel. Wish you were in the area as I'd be very happy to have you taking care of my wife..
@stuarthalsted3624 Жыл бұрын
Hi Doctor Malik. I had HOLEP procedure 6 months ago and have recovered nicely, able to pee like an 18 year old after years of struggling with severely enlarged prostate symptoms. The operation has left me with retrograde ejaculation but orgasms are now more intense though take a while to happen. As I'm 62 and not wanting children I'm more than happy with the results.
@deeorr64032 ай бұрын
Question, how long did it take to get ur ejaculation back? I'm two months out from turp surgery and nothing😢
@stuarthalsted36242 ай бұрын
It has never fully returned although precum is produced. Usually just comes out when I pee afterwards.
@Samson-qs8oy Жыл бұрын
I just turned 58 and this information is critical to know at my age. Luckily, everything is functional but its important to understand the medical aspect of getting old . I ised to be a big fun of sex and the city and i will look this one up. Thanks Dr for sharing this info
@MrGuitar1458 Жыл бұрын
Great topic! ❤😊
@kapilmuneshwar1779 Жыл бұрын
Love you dear rena mam, nice topic
@lesliemarshall376410 ай бұрын
I had this while taking a BPH medication (Rapaflo) which was actually withdrawn because of this side effect. It took a while after stopping taking it, but things got back to normal.
@MatthewLincoln-i4p8 күн бұрын
Great information
@RayzGarage Жыл бұрын
How about a video on chronic epididymitis inflammation and pain over the top of the testi when touched or bumped.... help!!!
@sayitainttone88 Жыл бұрын
Not too sure but I think that's why issue is. Every couple of months the nuggent makers give me excruciating pain, sometimes to the point that I have to lay down on my stomach for a couple hours. Then it just goes away. I'm only 35
@utubeagainalready Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. Retrograde Ejaculation is what I must have. I have type 2 diabetes and take meds for it. You say and I hear that this is not dangerous and nothing to worry about but,, to me, the semen moment is part of the great feeling that comes with orgasm. So I'm not happy about this. ☹
@LyfeofLeelee Жыл бұрын
Have you found anything that helps?
@Mediumexe Жыл бұрын
thank u so much rena i hope u do more reactions like this and give your thoughts :)
@MrCox2121 Жыл бұрын
Suffered from this after having an ALIF/PLIF surgery.
@vernexport9 күн бұрын
Used to stick to the ceiling....now it just rolls out (barely...).....
@Jay_Taylormua2 ай бұрын
Omg I'm so glad I found this video...
@1951Roy Жыл бұрын
I can relate at 70, I'm on meds. Thanks for sharing
@jrod1382 Жыл бұрын
It's like a steel trap down there...Lmfaoo that got me weak😂😂😂😂
@ppellet4738 Жыл бұрын
Hilarious video!!!!!
@MrFredlthomasiii Жыл бұрын
So I assume retrograde ejaculate doesn't hurt should ever experience this as I age. I just turned 54 yesterday, so far I am functioning normally. I have a lot to learn to continue a healthy lifestyle. Thanks for keeping us informed and entertained with your amazing topics!!!!😂 Have a wonderful weekend Doc!!!!!❤❤
@ppellet4738 Жыл бұрын
However, it was very informative!!
@darrylknight2675 Жыл бұрын
i started doing Kegel exercises about 4 months ago hoping they would help my enlarged prostate and urine flow. I think they sort of have helped a bit as I seem to be able to empty my bladder fully most times. I do the exercises in bed, while driving and just sitting at the computer. No big deal.
@ZootyZoFo Жыл бұрын
I had a spinal cage put in at L5-S1 and they tore the nerve that controls the valve that directs semen to the outside and it was shooting into my bladder. 9 months later the nerve had regenerated enough to where some was coming out but not in the vellums it was before.
@lyfandeth Жыл бұрын
Well, doc, the problem is finding a urologist who is simply competent and up to date. The tv episode, unfortunately, probably is an accurate reflection of the profession overall.
@LostHorizons03 ай бұрын
My urologist is great it’s my gastroenterologists that are always idiots I can’t find a good one
@ItsjustChris95 Жыл бұрын
Could you please use inches rather than centimeters . Thank you
@jimhilliker2450 Жыл бұрын
Very interesting. I am 68 and have retrograde ejaculation. I also have E D. I had radiation treatment for prostate cancer four years ago. I can't get an erection but I still have a strong orgasm when I masturbate, which feels fantastic. It still feels like I'm going to ejaculate but I don't. Anyway, my E.D. is probably due to my other medical issues or meds I take for type 2 diabetes, high blood pressure, etc. I lost my wife in 2015. If I find a sex partner again I will try Viagra and see if that will help me get hard. Thanks Doc for your wonderful videos here.
@tcb5141 Жыл бұрын
My suggestion, start using a pump, any pump, pump 3/4 times a week for 15 minutes 5 minutes at a time.
@k9under Жыл бұрын
@@tcb5141 Pumps is a no no if you a diabetes.
@BillAngler Жыл бұрын
Higher dose fish oil supplementation helps some people with ED.
@engineeredtruths8935 Жыл бұрын
Fish oil is not good for diabetics. @@BillAngler
@justinjarrett58684 ай бұрын
My Urologist recently diagnosed me with retrograde ejaculation and advised me to take Sudafed tablets 3 times a day
@Eastsidenucca3 ай бұрын
I'm 47 turning 48 next month and have been experiencing this on and off for a few years. It's bad now it's clear and barely comes out like the muscles aren't strong enough to push it out....only good thing is I have 5 kids under the age of 15 and don't need no more children lol
@danmcclenny90675 күн бұрын
My retrograde ejaculation started after a month of radiation for cancer. That was two years ago and it has not resolved.
@sfktube2 ай бұрын
Got the TURP. Not actually ejaculating is SO depressing for men. It is kund of like a suffocation. I, personally, have to find a silver lining. So far, I have not found it.
@deeorr64032 ай бұрын
Agree. I'm going thru same after turp two months ago.
@SweepTheLeg2023 Жыл бұрын
❤❤ It is a GIFT!
@HighCountryRambler Жыл бұрын
I had that issue and could feel it squirting inside my body. Long ago tried Sildenafil and my gosh, I thought I might have to join the pipe fitters union. And the big 'O's were again projectile squirting. Then it all came crashing to a end when my wife had a stroke, all dressed up and nowhere to go, so to speak.
@joshuabrande2417Ай бұрын
Rena, would you say a few words about vasectomies, BPH, Retrograde ejaculations and the joy that's being missed/ Thank you.
@thetriggerman954 Жыл бұрын
What's good on here is that it's a movie 😂 people fly in movies too.🤨
@williamr1429 Жыл бұрын
do more like this ❤
@71Habu Жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Malik, thank you for addressing this issue. I had a TURP a little over three years ago and I had nothing but problems ever since. One of my biggest concerns was retrograde ejaculation that started after I started dealing with BPH. After starting medication for this, I started having the retrograde. Nothing I have tried since then has helped. I do take medication for high blood pressure, diabetes as well as BPH. If I stop the medication for BPH will I start having normal sexual function such as regular ejaculation. I cannot seem to get answers from my local doctors and my urologist just left for greener pastures.
@uvp5000 Жыл бұрын
I'd like to hear some anonymized stories from you or your close colleagues on patient care and working as a Urologist. I'd be interested in hearing the human feelings and reactions side to being a practicing medical doctor. Yes, I agree that the doctor in the show was not demonstrating good attentiveness or empathy. I'd expect that kind of reaction between colleagues.
@targetguy777 Жыл бұрын
I had rezum prostate surgery and ended up with retrograde ejaculation and now trying sudafed and gluco gel sometimes there is a little coming out so who knows.
@joshtaylor45837 ай бұрын
It feels like contractions hitting a brick wall. It's uncomfortable. My urologist says there is no medication for it. I also have a pinch sensation in my left vas deferens under my hernia scar area at the start of orgasm. That is uncomfortable too. I've read that it is a side effect of hernia operations. --------------
@markcoopersmith22806 күн бұрын
Wow. I had hernial surgery 20 years ago and I've been having those pains for the past month. I had 2 ultrasounds on Sunday and they found nothing.
@dont6441 Жыл бұрын
I need to rent that movie
@richardpauly1635 Жыл бұрын
You mean stream or on youtube
@Hafezakhtatr Жыл бұрын
i like your video
@justinjarrett58684 ай бұрын
I need to do kegel exercises for retrograde ejaculation 3 times a day. Plus take sudafed tablets 3 times a day.
@Hafezakhtatr Жыл бұрын
you good doctor i like
@pocopico7409 Жыл бұрын
Only 54 comments since this went up? Apparently people just don’t know what to say! Haha…this has to be one of the strangest videos I’ve ever watched on KZbin.
@cedarwaxwing3509 Жыл бұрын
You mentioned diabetes in connection with retrograde or weak ejaculation. What is the relationship? In other words, what about diabetes can cause this?
@michaelpalmer1580 Жыл бұрын
Uncontrolled or poorly controlled Diabetes Damages the small blood vessels supplying the nerves 'down there'. It's called diabetic neuropathy.
@cedarwaxwing3509 Жыл бұрын
@@michaelpalmer1580 Thank you.
@Zeeeokay4 ай бұрын
Did u get ok @@cedarwaxwing3509
@glorioflegends679810 ай бұрын
At 17 age it can serious should I concert to doctor
@jayantuser994210 ай бұрын
Solved or not??
@robertmitchell3880 Жыл бұрын
Is it possible to have a torn urethra.
@Hafezakhtatr Жыл бұрын
hey Rena malik you good dactar
@LostHorizons03 ай бұрын
I’m on flowmax due to prostate inflammation from ibs and I get this :(
@rsgabrys---- Жыл бұрын
---------------- thanks4sharing.....writers had cystoscopy information ---deadpan N bedpan ------- lines
@sorryfortheinconvenience3 ай бұрын
I had to have TURP surgery due to an enlarged prostate. No Peter North anymore but my pee flow could put out a house fire and the orgasm sensation is electric. Thankfully, I am still able to generate a lot of self lube with foreplay.
@deeorr64032 ай бұрын
Do you have retrograde ejaculation? I had turp 2 months ago and nothing 😢
@sorryfortheinconvenience2 ай бұрын
@@deeorr6403 Unfortunately, depending on the skill of your doctor working in very tight spaces, an overall percentage of men having this surgery come out with permanent retrograde ejaculation. My surgeon was upfront about the high risk of having permanent RTG with me.
@jasonthompson2434 Жыл бұрын
Can I be your test subject for strengthening the floor?
@jimwise40297 ай бұрын
I started out with a dribble and now nothing and my urologist told me not to worry about it. If I knew where you were located I would come and see if you could figure out what is wrong with me I am A71-year-old male and this problem really exists and bothers me
@rickg882 Жыл бұрын
Would more frequent ejaculation help open the tube/plumbing? I had bladder surgery a few yrs ago and have retrograde.
@Nic-og7qg4 ай бұрын
Same, removal of a little bladder cancer now stuck with this, did you have any luck with your research?
@rickg8824 ай бұрын
@@Nic-og7qg Still working it.
@longredroad4249 Жыл бұрын
if you have a TURP (as she said) you will have this every time it is very disappointing!
@mikepruett17452 ай бұрын
after surgery why dont they fix the tube in the prostate to fix this
@josesoto6793 Жыл бұрын
What if you're retrograding but during the ejaculation phase you feel pain above the waist line during ejaculation?
@javedjutt660 Жыл бұрын
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@nickgiles7568 Жыл бұрын
It is a shame that this topic is treated with such flippancy- using a comedy show to get a few laughs at a medical issue and Dr Malik's attitude does not help.I had to have greenlight laser surgery on my prostate when I was only 47 years old.I am now 67 and have not had sex for virtually 20 years. My then partner left me because of the effect on my mental health and consequent lack of desire for her I am now condemned to a sex less life for the rest of my days. To say that this condition "will not kill you and you should live with it" is poor. I am from the UK but the same attitude persists in the UK as it does in the US I believe- the surgeons see this as a quick way to make money ( I had my procedure done privately) and the fact that I would suffer from retrograde ejaculation was mentioned as a passing afterthought. I make no apologies for being frank on this issue- I used to enjoy ejaculating over my partners bottom and breasts and yes she was happy to swallow my ejaculate at times- it made for a fulfilling sex life as neither of us wanted children. The impact on my mental health and that of others who suffer with this condition is just not recognised. It is a shame that medical research could not come up with a mechanical device to shut off the bladder neck so that semen could be discharged in the natural way.
@AbdullahAl-mamun-kt8ou Жыл бұрын
love u
@robertschoolfield1869 Жыл бұрын
I’ve had this for years. One Urologist said im just getting old and valves not working. Another said talk to a therapist. It’s not in my head. Sometimes she can do it by hand. What kind of doctor can address this
@NaushadJumma2 ай бұрын
Hi Dr Rena Malik After turp surgery in 2021 I have retrograde ejeculation is there anything possible to reverse
@NaushadJumma2 ай бұрын
I am waiting for your reply please reply to my question
@marais888 Жыл бұрын
I was talking with an friend who has had his prostate removed after I asked if you can have sex after prostate removal and he told me that a dry ejaculation happens. Could you speak to this issue, I'm not quite understanding/
@glenarruda590 Жыл бұрын
I would like you to do one about why I can't get anyone pregnant and my ejaculation does not go backwards it goes forward but I can't get any women pregnant
@darnitthelma4247 Жыл бұрын
Jeeeeez you sound a right catch 😮 so I presume you never use protection but sleep around? Nice.
@mslice09 Жыл бұрын
Check for swimmers ( sperm count )..try herbs, Cialis, etc...there are still medical procedures ( outside the body)...things you can do to create a baby..there are crazy stories of couples that try for years with no success,then out of no-where bingo...they swear it was a good night , Chinese food, etc.😮
@monkpool6 ай бұрын
I fuckin hate that feeling
@timothylynch89369 ай бұрын
What should I do if ive developed retrograde ejaculation after a surgery and i wasn't told about this issue. Im also only 33 years old and wanted kids. I had a l5 fusion surgery btw
@Zeeeokay4 ай бұрын
Did it get ok?
@timothylynch89364 ай бұрын
@ZeeshanMemon-dk4fr no I've also drastically lost more and more interest in sex even though my drive use to be really high
@Zeeeokay4 ай бұрын
@@timothylynch8936 iam 23 years old, and due to silodosin medicine it happened to me
@davec9244 Жыл бұрын
Cheesy show, not yours the other one! thank you
@ernestolopez61506 ай бұрын
I had a surgery , and a piece of my intestine was removed . After this surgery . Every time i ejaculate nothing comes out now.. so question is , is there anything that I can do or have done so that I may ejaculate with semen coming out?
@expressoevangelism8021 сағат бұрын
As a urologist, are you taking the piss?
@kennyray1573 Жыл бұрын
Wow I have a fluid like inflammation leaking from my anus with a sent……what is it
@MadamLolz Жыл бұрын
Go get tested for prostate cancer and sti
@younghan3573 Жыл бұрын
Charlette had her eyes closed, probably because she got hit in the eye once!!
@RobertClaus-ev3ct10 ай бұрын
I thought it was pretty funny
@PhilipJ-nw2fk7 ай бұрын
Just watching how I blasted all over the "place" in less than a month was shocking, I used what I talked about the other day, and although it actually took about 5 weeks for my volume to double, I just go'ogled Jan Venstaker's Shooting Ropes and her reaction has been priceless!
@madvillainy6845 Жыл бұрын
Who wrote that joke? In fact, that movie/show was an entire L.
Actually,..women don't like that ..they consider it sexual harassment...to be considered a sex object.,..there are other compliments you can use , .like beautiful, intelligent..even though we're thinking something else .. it's kinda like just blurting out awkward things ..that are just obvious.
@cedarwaxwing3509 Жыл бұрын
@@mslice09 I suspect he’s been watching too many vids on how to be an alpha male and is convinced that “real women” want to hear 💩 like that. An alpha in his mother’s basement no doubt who would never have the courage to say that to her face.
@beezo1029 Жыл бұрын
Is there anything I can take to give me a quarter inch more girth??? I'm 7""" all day... But I could or want to be thicker .. please help me...