Yoga Guru - Hansaji | How to deal with people who irritate you!

[@rsaini4315]

For outsiders we can adjust, but in family it is not so possible, to tolerate , sometimes becomes tough... Like mother in laws.....

[@jayarajjayaraj3694]

Omg the answer is good super hansaji

[@SajidSajid-xm1zk]

Kindly watch BK shivani. ..definitely it answers all your questions. .

[@sheetala7230]

Add husband as well...

[@reenasingh-id9zh]

What you do for peace and lower your anxiety

[@Sj-qs8vv]

Exactly

[@rejiammu5291]

I am working with such a negative, irritated people. Really this post is useful Madam. Thank you for your support

[@jennifergopinath]

It’s very easy to say for a lecture, but the reality is hell of a challenge emotionally esp.

[@priyankachoudhary8385]

True

[@kishlaykumarthakur3590]

Cause you are irritate with your mind

[@kripaharris237]

My guru tells anger a d bad thoughts about people are like glass in our minds they only hurt us .Now when I think negative thoughts about people I imagine a shard of glass in my mind and remove it and the thought

[@rohinir5059]

We should practise living with those people by just making small small baby steps definitely can reach such high elevated state and control our emotions.

[@v.neelima4685]

Absolutely we r facing alot from our irritating neighbours since 15yrs.

[@Motherearth99447]

Irritating people knows how to do worst , definitely our reaction makes them strong .but control our reaction is difficult so overcome on our weak nature makes us winner .. I m trying because world is full of without 💓

[@payelghosh493]

Thank you for yor wish

[@bittookumar4001]

You are right, we got to change our self and our reaction.

[@hemalishah9361]

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[@nandinipiplani6145]

Hansaji ,its very difficult to ignore irritating immediate family members .Their behavior definitely affects .

[@theyogainstituteofficial]

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[@rkots2962]

Glad I've found you after 35 years being an empty vessel. Why these teachings are not taught in schools to make a better life? Things could've changed positively.. Regrets for that last 35 years of my lifeless time I'd lost.

[@akanshabhat7447]

It's true it would be good if taught in school, good idea..... People will not fail in their life. After school, college etc.

[@tulipbrook1264]

Living is an art, its a mix of technique and own ideas. One needs to use both in the best way possible. Managing ppl is definitely an art. It's learnt by practicing daily.

[@mousumide3215]

Ppl means?

[@SSSsLife]

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[@afiakhan3116]

This attitude takes precious years.we can not transform over night

[@yoginiomdeshmukh2001]

Pearls of wisdom by such a motherly and experienced yogi

[@faithimportance3667]

Very well said!!!

[@nsbhater]

Just what I needed, Hansaji😘 Thanks for the 7 day course at the Yoga Institute. It was lovely meeting yr kind soul.

[@bagobudhcad2806]

Yes she's upsalutely amazing lady bless her

[@ruchimalhotra2799]

What about those family members who are living with you and creating problems Taunting humiliating and harassing non stop.... At some point it's better to get away from them instead of dealing with them

[@MoonLight-lb4hf]

Ruchi Malhotra True, and then meditate to recharge yourself..

[@RU-gq8vz]

I go thru the same thing , to be honest no outsiders cud irritate or hurt coz we jus dont consider them but what about ppl at home ..!? It's really tough to deal !

[@Alone-gs2yw]

stay away from there talk very less

[@dee-pa-54]

Same

[@nalinyvelayutham438]

same

[@ree1998]

I needed this. I can't stand to see my sister. My mom lives with me and husband. My needy sister always comes over uninvited, stays overnight brings her loud kid, and never cleans up behind herself. So irritating

[@poplipal5124]

You are amazing maa....your speech helps me a lot in every ground. Thank you very much.Lots of love...

[@chandrakalavenkatesh9911]

Usually sad people tries to irritate when they come across peaceful and happy people

[@JankIshan1619]

The most irritating people are managers in corporates who behave arrogantly and think they are owner of the office. Whereas they dont understand that how karma will punish them. Ur videos always motivate us. Thank you mam 🙏☺

[@yasminkhan4807]

Its not just managers in corporates. Speaking from my personal experiences, its an asian attitude. The minute an asian is in a higher post than you, or has more wealth than you they behave arrogantly with you. Perfect example is the home minister of UK ( who is asian) people working under her have openly said she behaves badly with them..

[@radhikaarora7825]

Thank u hansaji....reality which needs to be followed in today's world n this is the only way to deal with it.....thanks once again for spreading positivity👍🏻👍🏻

[@SindhuBuddhavarapu]

Beautiful message. Though very difficult to follow when you are living with such a person under the same roof.

[@albi4547]

I was going through some stuff where somebody was irritating me to nerves.. this video just popped up at right time. Thanks.

[@akanshabhat7447]

We missed this knowledge in our school college days, people would not fail in their life...... Like divorce etc, it would be good if taught in schools. Thanks Hansaji your really a goddess saraswati ,gods gift for people.

[@g.dinakaranpaul1890]

Thank you amma, you need for all depressed kids of ur including me, thanks amma, very useful

[@washabledior]

Ama so hotedk

[@nitichadha6988]

I also hv no goal now I realise at 56 I hv so much grudges n my daughter too I m trying to release n get good energy strength thank u mam great my inner child positive n my daughter n other connected too.

[@bagobudhcad2806]

Dr hansaji i love you my dear You are amezing teacher, I've learnt a lot of you thank you.

[@anamalaypechy7280]

Thank you madam for the good advice.

[@cupoffinance]

Wonderful. I like that solution to offer food that needs extra chewing :) So humorous. You nailed it.

[@st-rw7pv]

What HansaJi has advocated should be followed, most of the time! However, there is a time when ignoring/adjusting reaches a limit and action should be taken against such tamsic actions (like when Mahabharatahad to be fought). Remember the morale giving story - a snake was asked not to bite, but it should at least hiss!!

[@ivstaumer6945]

The most important thing I want to watch right now is this. My husband's aunt, who recently arrived in Sri Lanka from Norway, truly irritates me. We currently reside in her home as a result of several circumstances. She is currently acting in a terribly toxic way toward me because I get to live with her. She frequently says unpleasant things and never expresses regret for doing so. She introduces me as her servant and claims I was joking when her family members visit. She performed this action repeatedly. and I don't think its a joke anymore. When I talk to someone in the house, she bothers me and constantly asks me to sweep the house, make her tea, and wash her dishes. She let me down in front of guests while complimenting her son's girlfriend (a Norwegian woman). When a guest compliments my hair, she pulls up images of her son's girlfriend on her phone and tells everyone to look at "her hair is wonderful." and she is always appreciative of her sons gf wealth and her skin's brightness. I am Sri Lankan, so of course my skin is brown. She is a Norwegian, therefore of course she must have fair skin. Her role is to let me down. This might not seem like much to some people. but, this hurts me. However, when my husband got home, she is acting incredibly kind to me, and I was unsure of how to deal with it. however now I have some plans for how to handle her because of this video. I'm grateful Madam for this!

[@rupi3020]

Just what I wanted to be reminded of. Thank you . Namaste

[@meidasken3508]

Thank you so much for this great speech on happiness and how to live it is much appreciated namaskarum

[@De-tw7by]

If we get irritated that indicate we have high ego within us. Meditate and minimise our ego so any external irritation will not affect us ❤️.

[@shashikala5045]

True...I'm meditating for last 10 years and I'm very cool now.

[@seesurnraj176]

You mean will not affect us.

[@imho99s89]

Not true.. often behaving nice with bad people encourages them to do more. They think the nice person is weaker and cannot take a stand. That is how bullying in relationships work

[@disi5395]

yes have experienced this

[@chetnasuralia4533]

Hansa ji, you're simply awesome

[@richachowdhary760]

Madam you are very sweet and the way you explained are very nice thanku

[@Dannyjournal]

Thank you for your advice,, I was loosing my patience on boys who were irritating me, after watching your video I feel strong,

[@deepaksonawane562]

What a beautiful message. Really ..very nice. .How to manage variety of people? ...I learned today .Also my father told me always face them don't ignore.

[@madhavkajale6396]

Hello Hansaji..we watched you on dd national when we were teen agers...and now we have decided to follow your guidance when we are in our 50s..you are a great teacher...thnkikng you for your guidance...

[@rinkimukherjee563]

Thank you so much wise lady .. i love the way you talk and love your suggestion 😊

[@monikakrall3922]

Holding space and following ones joy is the way.......if someone is annoying, that means you two are not a match......those who like people can manage them, for them for eg. animals can be irritating...but those who prefer animals, those best to hold space with people....for many doing their hobby, being in nature and with animals is more joy then socialisi g......the way is to minimise what you don't like and maximise what you like, I believe..😊

[@tejask6034]

Watching this everyday from now onwards...

[@lifesymphony2024]

i don't wish to give any importance to them by responding to them. Some people think by controling someone, they can win them. That will never happen in my case.

[@piyushmanitbhopal5186]

So cute your idea sharmeela

[@venomousmajor107]

Same I have fucking relative who always ruin when I meet him whenever I see him I get irritated and frustrating

[@zuzainabusmani7]

Gratitude t u hansaji,may u continue t do good work and may Almighty increase ur life span

[@hj8yf]

Theoretically very soothing....let me try practically....

[@papiyaparvin5712]

What a guidance.... Thank you so much... Your guidance is really very helpful.. Thank you🙏

[@Swati_1112]

Unless you have made your self mentally strong through meditation it's very difficult to behave that way. One thing that helps me every time i get angry ..is to find a corner and start bringing my focus on my breath and do deep breathing exercises.

[@shankarik1126]

Nice talk mam.i will try to apply this.really ur talk made me good so surely i will not get irritation

[@musicallife83]

Krishna ji aapko hamesha khush rakhe

[@ilianadiaz8039]

Thank you very much, for reminding me what I had forgotten.

[@subhojitbose7719]

Thank you madam... Finally I understand what to do .. Thank you very much for this lesson.. May God bless you madam 👩

[@nitichadha6988]

All varieties r there yess less chance clear v know how to manage n enjoy life so true wah

[@nyayoangugadi4882]

Thankyou so much 🙏 MA

[@aishwaryabhogavkar]

Very mind touching❤

[@anthonynoronha7636]

Mam, you are a wise and graceful woman. Your talks in this video touched my heart. From now onwards, I will apply your traits when it comes to irritating people around me including relatives. Thank you for sharing. Anthony from Santacruz, Mumbai, India.

[@kripaharris237]

Good luck ...be kind to yourself

[@MITRAKS111]

Good teachings 🙏

[@vandanarao8235]

So true,and pleasing!

[@visasiva1546]

Thanks for your ideas mam .ur speech is very inspiring

[@learnwithmee9964]

Such a graceful lady. I had seen her video clips popping every nw n then. But never bothered to watch wat she has to say. But recently got to watch one of her video and since then there has nt been a day, which does nt start with her videos. Just love to watch her and follow her🙏🙏stay blessed ma'am. And keep guiding us

[@shrur3527]

Thanks for the valuable information mam......

[@vishnuvinay7539]

I just realised majority have the same question 'what if its your own family?'. Yeh, i am looking for the same answer.

[@vaishalimalwade2929]

Lv u nanimaa❤...whnever m out of my tract...got disturb, deprressed ur words always helped me....u r truely a beautiful soul...lv u so so much💕😘

[@theyogainstituteofficial]

stay connected to selves.. best wishes

[@chandraprakash471]

Really nice....

[@deepapande9604]

Kitne saral tarike samjaya

[@shanthiktilakaratne7944]

Thank you Mam.But some are irritating people for lending love.Several times I told them not to do. They are doing.They are get fun from that.

[@ashleyysaks63]

This is such an eye opener...thank you so much

[@AnishaDaniels]

Thank You! Life is interesting indeed!

[@akshamuthalia9572]

🙏 thanks for your wisdom

[@youcantoopagelk]

Wow.....what a meaningful message . Thank you. Sanjaya from 🇱🇰

[@jayavenkatesh7395]

Good information mam

[@piyarana4726]

Thank u mam for everything 😍

[@nahidanayaz9561]

Well said Hansaji..love to u hear u always

[@jackdearden9451]

you're a lovely lady.

[@drishyakumari3388]

Tq ma'am 🙏

[@217rushikeshkale6]

Yeah it's really a good perspective it's help in our daily life's very well

[@zuhrahmudassir8064]

Very good answers 👍.Thank you for sharing such a video. May god 🙏 bless you.

[@vasanthar4533]

So ultimately mam.. Its concluded that if am a person who is very calm.. Or my sanskaar is alwaz to be calm, i should never that loose, try n be calm in any situations no matter whats happening around, act maturely... Very tough mam... God save us!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@koehean9043]

Thank you Dr Hansaji

[@devsrivastava9633]

Great thought maam ,very valuable information

[@falguniwaghela4208]

Superb solution. Madam

[@amdsheik]

Excellent mam your are doing great job mAm .

[@shivas458]

I get irriated when my husband supports his mother and his family even though they do wrong. If I didn't do wrong, he find something else to label me . Atleast he can be genuine even if he doesn't give support like what he gives to them. 😞😓. Problem is love marriage. I can't openly talk to parents and no way out. It's hurting. Constant emotional blackmail. 😢 a problem is solved once we discuss and try to understand. When they don't even come forward to that. It keeps repeating and it's irritating. I fight and they get hold on to that and kill me. I almost cry and let things out. I always dreamed of good emotional bond. 😢

[@anujaparanjape4495]

What if a family member comes in your way all the time even if you fulfill all their needs even after that they come in between and dont allow you to think anything else other than their comforts.Eventually what is said I had attained but I drained me in sense I became less aimful just maintain peace within and in family.

[@snehadutta5317]

Thank you so much mam you helped me today i had an issue with neighbor Aunty whenever i saw her it feels like puking on her face its because she talks so irrelevant things which is really not required because she doesn't have anything to do rather inspecting what others doing in their own life.its very difficult for me to stay at my week off..

[@sunithaumesh4260]

Really very nice information and ur speech and taughts r r inspiration mam tq

[@sumarajeshshet1952]

Whatever you said is exactly correct ma'am.....but sometimes we cannot follow as we get angry soon....

[@amrapalikamble9059]

Thanks for this video..😊 it was much needed

[@kanchanaks3531]

Love your vedios. Thank you mam.

[@rashmi-py9ng]

Love the way she speaks

[@ashokbhatia5178]

Very Motivational ma'am 🙏 Thank you

[@rekhasethi4443]

Thank you so much Maa🙏🏻

[@lolitaiqbal3135]

so amazing techniques

[@gauriprabhulkar2463]

Thank you Mam...I really needed such advice.

[@shibuthottingal9662]

Really useful, thank you so much ❤️

[@dronamrajuchandarshi9758]

Thank you ma'am

[@dunputhsujeebun2575]

Thank you madam. I'm grateful to you.

[@kavithasajeev8983]

Thanks mam... Nice speech.. 🌹

[@harleyp7977]

Truth! Well said 🙏

[@beawesome5090]

Awesome !!!!!!!! you rocked

[@skumarikannangara7397]

Hansi ji Danyawad hei

[@sudhaambekar1086]

Really helping ....

[@priyankasharma-rk4lx]

Very motivating

[@paraspereira6263]

Love your words madam. THANK u so much .

[@srishtinarang3744]

Thank you soo much maam

[@Lifeunfilteredwithrasmi]

Namskar mam .. really u r a very inspiring and create person..i m very lucky to found u in my life..at right time..