you did not waste your life. everything will fall into place.

#findingpurpose #itsnevertoolate #dontgiveuponyourself #intentionalliving #peptalk
Sometimes things need to fall apart in order to fall into place.
Sometimes things need to go left so that they to go right again.
Sometimes you need to get lost to find your way back home.
And there are times when a step backwards is necessary to take a bigger leap forward.
This is a little reminder for myself and for anyone who feels like they've wasted their life.

[@tatjanasittig9265]

I know people who started or hat to start new even at the age of 50 or later. And they were successeful. May be not the way they dreamed to be at 18. And it were different mountains they had to climb that the ones they had imaginend at their 20-th. But they managed to get out of the low. It is so Importen to reopen after a phase of sadness, perhaps to rethiink some things, perhaps to say goodbye to those "friends" who want to hinder you new beginning with negative plattudes and move on. Because as you rightly say: "you yourself are your life". And overcomming the difficulties of a new beginning brings new strength and self-confidence at any age. "Because life never ends".❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

This is beautiful 🥹 and so true… Danke Mama ❤️🌈🙏

[@humbleviewpoint]

Hello “Bobbie”. I’m sure you have a high level of confidence in Nastja. After all, you opened up your feelings to her. I thought of a couple of different ways to reinforce the points she makes and then I realized that I can’t write it any better and I definitely can’t say it out loud any better than she does in this video. What I can do though, is tell you that there are hundreds of us who know that what she shared is true. Please believe you are incredibly valuable without having to live up to expectations. Take a deep breath and be you. One day at a time. You may need to hear this repeatedly and we will be happy to say it over and over. The day will come though, when you will be saying these words to someone else. BTW, Nastja, we teach best what we most need to reinforce in our own hearts. Beautiful Video!

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

I took a screenshot of your comment and send it to her ❤️ you know that I was really inspired by the last conversation that we had… the one when you told me about the analogy with the donkey? It has flowed into this video 🌊 hope we will pick up where we left off soon… appreciate you so much 🥹💎🙏 your words and thoughts are so precious to me 💖

[@Kunstmann_Film]

Look there was a situation when her friends and she went to a hospital and there was a young woman who was crying intensely with her right hand in bandages. And Bobby said: Can I sit with you or should I just leave you alone? The girl said: Sit with me! Bobby said: Then I will. The wall won- Bobby said - The wall always wins- You should not fight the wall- The girl smiled at her and then they talked for another 20 minutes and Bobby told her she was precious because she WAS and after that Bobby went for a cigarette with her friends and asked them: Was this invasive? And her friends said: I do not know what you did there but before what you did that young woman was a true mess and now she is smiling and seems calm so it can't have been wrong. That really lifted Bobby up a little who was in bad situation herself... So she is doing it all the time already but it does not make her feel better about anything unfortunately ...

[@Alouna444]

Yes beautifull ,time is on your side big Kiss to all,thank you for this message ,even when you getting older I am 58 and the life is always like this up and down it is the purpose of the life to keep the faith ,anyway whats happen,big love to all and light😊

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Beautiful words Alouna… 💞🌸💖 yes… keeping the faith in what we call love.. that’s also where I find purpose… and embracing the rhythm, the ebbs and flows, ups and downs of “life”… thank you once again for an inspiring comment 🙏 lots of hugs to you 🤗✨🕊️

[@tatjanasittig9265]

❤

[@ManifestingHotStuff]

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[@chickentomatosoup]

Wow. I somehow randomly stumbled upon this video; did not expect to cry. I normally don’t comment but felt so compelled to. I also have recently went through a breakup from a long term relationship with someone that I thought I would build a life with. After hoping and wanting that security for such a long time, the loss and rejection has brought me to doubt my values, my background, my worth- essentially who I am as a person. I felt like such a failure and so behind peers that all seem to have been settling down with their respective partners, buying homes and having kids. Sometimes things need to fall apart in order to fall into place… This brought me such comfort. This will all create an inner strength within me. I will see the light. I am right where I’m supposed to be to overcome these struggles. Thank you so much for sharing this. I hope you’re doing okay as well. Wishing the best for you.

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

… your comment means a lot to me… thank you so much for taking the time to share your thoughts and parts story with me 🙏 I can relate so much to what you wrote. I’m on a separation process after 16 years (with a toddler involved) and all my close family is really sick right now. Having this connection through this platform gives me really so much comfort and strength… knowing that my thoughts and efforts in creating this video could provide some comfort for you is just so validating and moving… I‘m sending you lots of strength in these challenging times. Please know that you are not a failure, but a survivor 💪 and you are not alone… the storm will make our roots dig deeper. We will stand strong 🌈 sending you a warm hug 🫂 ❤️

[@user-xh5fm5yt4f]

Society is the one that told us that life should have purpose and meaning. While believing this lie, we began searching for this purpose and meaning. When we stop believing this lie, only then will our personal lives as individuals begin. Life is just living it without thinking about purpose or meaning. Then small foolishnesses (from society's point of view) will be a real consolation

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

I have to say that for me it was important to redefine the meaning of “purpose”. In my opinion it shouldn’t be something that is dictated from outside, but rather something that arises from the present moment and through connection with yourself and others. Everyone has their own story and is in their own timeline and I believe finding compassion towards oneself and towards others is the “purpose” or “meaning” of it all. But after all it’s only words.. and I get where you’re coming from :) 🌱

[@user-xh5fm5yt4f]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby Spring has its language, and autumn has its own. I wish you eternal spring 🌺

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@user-xh5fm5yt4f thank you 🌱🍃💞

[@vip_izza]

Wow you talked directly to my mind Nat. No one did it before. I don't know when will I feel and understand the value of this life and the meaning/ purpose of this life. I fear that I'll be too late when i figure out that. We should face this fate and the burden we all have to face. Healing a physical wound is so easier when comparing to an internal wound. And you were a good doctor to me Nat ❤. Thank you ! You taught me that there are so many good people in this world ☺️. Take care !

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

You actually came to mind quite often as I was writing that Izza. And I will keep telling you that you are not alone. What you write about our soul wounds is so true. They often need much more time and care to fully heal than our physical wounds. That's why it's so important that we seek help if we can't manage on our own. I hope my video was able to inspire you a little to do that… as always: sending you a big, warm hug… and please stay strong 🫂🙏🌈

[@vip_izza]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby That's really touching, Nat. Your words mean a lot to me, and your video was indeed inspiring. It's comforting to know I'm not alone and that someone understands the deeper wounds we carry. Thank you for your support and warm hug; it gives me strength. I'll keep your words close to my heart. Please take care and stay safe and happy 😊❤️

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@vip_izza thank you so much Izza ❤️ 🥹 please stay safe and strong 🙏

[@let9989]

…yes it is ♾️💯

[@charminggeek0]

There's a youtube channel called reflections on life that has so many videos to lift your heart and create a deep sense of awe and wonderment at being on this planet (it's helped me and may rekindle some magic for you and your friend)! I've learnt so much from other peoples life lessons and experiences (there are other wonderful channels and positive people out here too)! Their latest video showed me that everything in life is simply 'a practice' (like coming back to the breath in meditation) and to be gentle and compassionate towards ourselves! Also, comparison to others is the crusher of joy! We're so conditioned from school age to feel competition and comparison, and that we should be here or there at a certain age or point in life and if we're not, we've somehow failed! It needs to be let go of in order to find our own unique contentment and joy which is different for everyone! I hope this can uplift you and your friend :-)

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

This sounds wonderful 💜 especially the part with „the practice“… that really resonates with me. Thank you so much for this suggestion… I will go and check this channel out 🌈🙏☀️

[@humbleviewpoint]

❤🧡💛💚

[@jasonlockhousemusicelectro4654]

Another wonderful video. You always have a way of making me reflect on your thoughts and relating them to my own life. I then 'talk back' to you in the video and try to assure you that you are exactly where you should be right now. We all are. That can feel painful can't it but greater things are waiting for you, I can feel it in my Soul Nastja. Just give it time and keep growing. I believe your lifes purpose is being fulfilled right now. You are here to help bring peace, love & kindness to our planet whilst the shift is happening. Your here to guide us through it all. 🙏

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Jason, you are such a sweet and beautiful soul… 🥹 and your words are so dear to me… I can’t thank you enough… really… thank you so much 🙏 I would be so happy if I would be able to find a cozy apartment for my son and myself soon.. find a little bit if peace and stability with everything. This connection here gives me so much faith. That a platform like this brought people like us together.. inspiring and comforting each other is such a gift… dear Jason, I hope you’re staying strong. You give so much joy and faith into this world with your wonderful channel and your unique energy… and I’m so glad to be part of your community 🫂 sending you lots of warm hugs from rainy ☔️ Germany 🤗💞🌈

[@jasonlockhousemusicelectro4654]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby 🙏♥

[@chelsead2924]

The thing is I'm tired of taking steps....soon to be 37 and tired

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

I know that feeling very well. Being extremely tired and fatigued can be a sign to get help from outside. I know that’s a bigger step. But I think it is definitely worth it. You are worth it. What also helps me is not thinking about taking step*s,but rather about taking one step at a time. Even if I will feel totally exhausted after that one step. But it still felt a little empowering. Please take care of yourself and stay strong. Wishing you much energy for whatever your going through 🙏❤️

[@chelsead2924]

​@@EmbraceYourselfBaby thank you so much for your kind response. Take care ❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

@@chelsead2924 you are so welcome 💜

[@sudesnabasu]

"and your purpose is to overcome those struggles and to help others to do the same " ...well I've got my weekly dosage. Thank you dear. ❤❤❤

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

…. 🥹this really means a lot…. Thank you so much for your comment 🩷❤️🧡💛💚🩵

[@sudesnabasu]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby ❤️

[@twartist1411]

Hello my friend ,I am glad you are here with me now... good to see you today. ~~Tina

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

So glad you are here Tina 🦋🤗 I really hope you are feeling better again… 💜 wishing you a wonderful weekend 🌈☀️🧚‍♂️

[@Kunstmann_Film]

Welll! This is the sweetest thing! Thank you!

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

I guess you might know who Bobby is… 🙃

[@Kunstmann_Film]

@@EmbraceYourselfBaby I might ;)

[@Reenascripts-writtenbyReenaS]

listening up to @2:43,sometimes I feel the same way and this season I am preparing for a test if it is in mastery🙏🤞 I will create an offering from all the tears from before this point.if it is failure 🌃,it was never mine forever and I accept that I am the offering💘 the offering that has not happened yet🥠 ..hearing your words to your dear friend....I suddenly feel like creating❤‍🔥 sending love❣ to your friend and you,after creating I will come back and listen where I left off and relax in your creation!

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Your words with these vividly colorful emoticons give me life 🤗🌈💞how wonderful that my video could inspire you a little bit Reena (is that your artist name?)… thank you for inspiring me with your comments✨🧚‍♂️✨

[@Indudevidasi]

Oh Nastja this Massage is so Important to send out there and to hear too!!! It is so Good to See how loving and caring you are. Your writing and your Voice is so soothing. I love it! For a Long time I also thougt my life as one thing I have to figure out and get it Right. Untill I eventuelly realized it is a Flow Like a stream that Never stand still and constantly changes. Nothing is wasted it is just changing and as you said sometimes you will become so much stronger After something is destroyed or taken away from us. And maybe an Even betterpath is waiting for us. 🫶👍🌼

[@EmbraceYourselfBaby]

Sweet Indu ✨💖✨ your words and friendship are like a warm blanket that surrounds me and makes me feel safe 💞 thank you from the bottom of my heart for everything 🥹 you are so precious 🫂