You may need to hear this...

[@Jacqueline.Medina]

You are so right, Judy! I remember never burning my expensive candles and waiting until we had guests over. I stopped doing that because I want to use those nice things for me, not wait to use them for other people. Enjoy your things and live a happy life.

[@lorrainesabia9402]

I have such respect for Judy and how she handles everything with her family!

[@sameerahkhan5042]

My 82 year old grandmother says youre adorable Judy ❤

[@PastleLif3]

How thoughtful of her!

[@sameerahkhan5042]

I was visiting and granny asked what i was watching, and so we watched together and she watched the whole vlog with me she was giggling and smiling when she saw the little ones 🥺❤

[@honeybunny200]

💫🩷

[@itsJudysLife]

awwwww, thanks Grandma 🥰

[@sameerahkhan5042]

@@itsJudysLife 🤗❤ shes now saying she wants tonwatch you every week when I visit 😊🌻

[@uns]

amen - Judy dropping the truth - life is too short not to treat yourself on the daily.

[@sameerahkhan5042]

Girl I told my boyfriend the same thing today EVERYDAY is a special occasion, I used to always save my gifts and expensive stuff but no more!! We are special and we deserve to use our special things everyday ❤

[@rosietorres1974]

Yes girl that is so true!!!

[@lita3920]

Thank you Judy for those words of wisdom. Truly appreciated speaking truth to us.❤

[@sabemwah]

I cry every time mama is mentioned! :(

[@s0phiaa21]

me too:( I miss her presence in the vlogs. my heart aches so much for Judy and the family 😔🤍

[@safaamin5195]

I thought i was the only one who cry every time mama is mentioned 😢 i miss her like my own aunt

[@aliciasimoes9070]

Me too 😢

[@mirm5797]

I definitely needed to hear this. I’m that person that saves the nice things for special occasions only which is once or twice a year. Thank you for this!

[@Sapphires1985]

I really like the white dress..Judy is such a beauty inside and out..

[@mau4302]

It’s beautiful how you can speak about your mom with good memories and without it letting it bring you down or ruin your mood. Sometimes grief hits me in a way where I tend to avoid speaking of fond memories because it just hurts so much. I wish I was as strong as you when it comes to that. God bless

[@elyssamarieee]

Praying for peace and strength during you healing as you grieve your loved one! It’s never easy but God’s got you. God Bless! ❤✨

[@belamourbeauty]

Thanks for the advice on living in our own luxury! I need to do this.

[@PastleLif3]

Thankfully my mom is still with us but whenever Judy talks about her mom it brings tears to my eyes. Please for those that have their mommas, visit them often and make memories with them. I am married with kids but I always make time for her no matter what!

[@happilyevereriks8244]

Judy has always been the vlogger I always go back to watch. The family and the content minus the brand deals always feel authentic. I tried to stay loyalty to other vloggers but something about them just sometimes doesn’t sit right with me. Keep it up Judy and family that’s why people love you

[@happilyevereriks8244]

Also, I really admire Judy for mentioning AprilJustinTv no matter if it was planned or not. April just posted a video recently about how aimless she felt and insecure she felt about the yt algorithm. So for Judy to mention April and send viewers her way is so sweet and humble. Go Judy, I aspire to be you!

[@MM-619]

What a beautiful message Judy and a great reminder 💜

[@velvet_spaces]

its always so satisfying to watch judy do her makeup 😻

[@missdaisy9000]

I needed to hear this, I lost my mom last week, and yep,... I found lots of stuff, I'm using it!

[@raydinacavazos3562]

My condolences, I'm sorry. 🙏😔

[@missdaisy9000]

@@raydinacavazos3562 thanks ❤️

[@nina_park]

I love the chit chat portion of this video, Judy. Especially when you’re cleaning your brushes, it felt like a Bob Ross moment 😂❤ this message resonates with me a lot. I’ve been watching you since I was in high school when you guys lived in the apartment and I’m currently nursing my 4 month old to sleep. Love your message ❤️

[@nina_park]

Also, my granny passed away last year and we were really close. My sister and I would each gift her nice lipsticks from YSL or Chanel and when we cleared out her apartment we found she kept those lippies in her regular daily rotation and it made me happy. So yes please use your nice stuff ❤️❤️❤️

[@maxinechang]

Kudos to Judy for keeping it real! Treat yourself girls!

[@traceysheppard7578]

Girl I really needed to hear that 😊Thank you Judy 😊I will take your advice “live in your own luxury” every dang day!!💕

[@marahbracy3901]

Words of wisdom!!! You’re so right Judy, things are too expensive to just not use it!!! Enjoy all your things while you can!! We love you 💙💙💙

[@caroljean161]

Wow! Judy the talk about using your nice stuff and luxury goods was chicken soup for my soul! Thank you! ❤ I am 64 years old and today I was talking to one of my long tome friends. We have been friends from school days She was saying EXACTLY what you were saying about using your good stuff and not storing it up. I really needed to hear this and so I was like…. “Ok Lord I get the message!” I am one of these people who has best or good stuff that has never been used and some really nice stuff that only comes out on very very special occasions. My friend reminded me ‘ you’re worth it! Use it ‘ Glad to hear Papa is doing as well as he can considering. I am a widow of 3 years and was married to my hubby for 34 years. I still catch myself waiting for him to come home at his usual time, and I miss him so much thoughI have good friends and loving family. Praying for Papa and all of you as you try and adjust to life without your Mama ❤

[@amandazook]

Thank you Judy for reminding me to treat myself! My Husband & I love you all!! Also thank you for being real & sharing about Mama. I lost my Dad to COVID in October, he too was on dialysis. I miss him so much my heart hurts but I find peace that he's no longer in pain. You all make the world a better place! So much love sent from Amanda & Ryan in hot hot AZ 💚💖

[@msctinax]

Oh yes! I watch that episode of April with her mom things. Now I just use my luxury stuff even if i am just going to the market or staying at home. It such a helpful tip!!

[@dannichen6049]

Which episode is that??

[@simplychicbtq]

Great advice from Judy! Good reminder to use what makes you happy and not save it because you don’t know what the future holds

[@Aramirez760]

Mama is so special. I tear up too every time she is mention. I miss her. 🫶

[@ipinkbaby]

April is awesome and so are you. Very sorry for the loss of your moms. They were both wonderful :(

[@suzy-qtravels9202]

I just lost my mom too Judy! I completely understand! Your doing awesome! Your daughters and Benji will help you through! 🥰

[@wickedlycrazy100]

omg I think its a Filipino thing. My parents do the same. Keep the nice things in the cabinet until bags and shoes peel. Keeping the nice stuff for occassions that rarely or will never happen.

[@yasje91]

Hi Judy, why don’t you make the guest bedroom Juliana’s room. She’s big enough to sleep downstairs alone. And then turn Juliana’s room into Leah’s room

[@elleairrrr2985]

I loved this vlog! I lost my father 5 years ago & im just now getting to a place where I can talk about him without crying . Allow yourself time to grieve and give yourself grace . We all loved Mama . Such a transparent and relatable vlog . That’s why we love you Judy ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Sisterwayne]

When my mother was dying in ICU I just could not bring myself to enter her room. I'd go to the hospital each day and say "today is the day". I just could not do it. They moved her to a private room and I was eventually able to be with her. So this grieving process is very, very difficult. Be well.

[@lalaflores9548]

Thank you for this video Judy and for reminding people to wear that beautiful dress 👗 today not only for a special occasion.

[@elyssamarieee]

I definitely needed that talk Judy. I’m currently 32 weeks pregnant with my first and I’ve been feeling so blah lately but today I put on a dress I’ve never worn (still had the tag) and even though I’m not going anywhere today besides packing some boxes for our move, I feel a lot better about myself. My mom is the same. She doesn’t want to “waste” her good things and the truth is it’s a waste if we never get to use it. Idk if it’s a Filipino mom mentality but I definitely know what you’re saying. Thank you for the reminder to go ahead and use your nice things regardless of what you’re doing for the day. We deserve to feel our best! 🫶🏼❤️✨

[@Cupcakes1971]

So true! I will be 70 in September and I am exactly the same way. My son and husband buys me nice expensive stuff. Tiffany jewelries, Rolex watch, LV purses and I never use them. Just on special occasions. I have many unopened bottle of expensive perfumes. I am starting today! I will start using all of them.Thanks Judy. Starting today I will surely treat myself and live in my own luxury.

[@everythinganything6]

You are right Judy.. I discovered a lump in my breast and I'm 40 years old..I'm waiting for all these tests and your words was describing everything in my mind.. One more thing Judy I have been watching you for 9 years and I can't believe that mama is gone..I loved her like she is my family..

[@dannichen6049]

Hii Judy great advice on the living luxury! Its like me keep all my nice dresses for special occasions, wear them only 1 or 2 times.. Without realizing time pases so fast and after a couple years they don't fit me anymore.

[@alisasontaya3104]

Judy THANK YOU for the Reminder! Life is short. Time is fast. No replay. No rewind. So ENJOY♥️

[@JoyInAccomplishment]

Preach, Judy, preach. I learned this 35 years ago.

[@aajboit]

My sisters and I are now enjoying going through mum’s stuff and she had all the best clothes, jewelry and literally everything. It’s so fun to play in her stuff and wear all her glamorous things. Very comforting ❤

[@beautybyj1533]

I’m a first time mom. My me-time is applying makeup every day! Even if I’m just sitting at home with the baby and dog all day. It makes me feel so good! And doing laundry with a full face of makeup is so much better than with no makeup 😂

[@victoriaharris8543]

You’re right Judy I have so many new things and DONT use them

[@RachaelDenise]

We are moving this weekend and as I was packing clothes I was thinking why do I not wear this stuff?!?! I work from home and I’m a mom and my hubby and daughter look good why not me lol I get it Judy!

[@reyesmalexander]

Loved the Spanish music during ice cream time!! 😂👏🏼💃 that’s how I feel when I eat ice cream 🍨 😋

[@imdianeee54]

love that message! Thank you Judy many of us needed to hear it ❤️✨

[@nikkideanrobles]

When Leah sawa bug! "Go away bug!" "Stay away!" Oh so adorable! ❤❤❤

[@priyadestiny7880]

My mom and I are like that. We kept what we kept and never used it lol even when I got my mom a new rice cooker and it's still in the box. I was cleaning up when my mom passed away In Oct. and saw a lot of old and new things that my mom kept in the house. Boy, memories were just coming like crazy for me and also crying omg. It's hard to cope with all this now. I miss my mom, too. Thank you for taking your time to share your thoughts and feelings with us. ❤❤❤❤

[@Anew1008]

Omg that is so hard for me, I think it’s a thing of letting go cause if I use it all then I don’t have it anymore so I would leave a tiny bit left in all my bottles. It’s true use it before it expires! Just have to get into the habit!❤️ Thanks girl!

[@amemon4661]

My aunt told me to put on my nice things and to use them. So I 100% agree w you. Also you may not be “going anywhere “ but your household is what matters most! You are looking good for you but also for your children and Hubby. Setting a good example! A good example. ❤

[@PrincessOceanna]

Agreed Judy!! I'm definitely a huge "this is too nice to use for x y z" and then one day I realize I've waited so long, the products have gone bad. Now I try to use what I have and if I had the money to splurge on it, I should be using it. Which is the whole point of buying it.

[@mrssadiec]

Yes to this. I always say that today is your best day so use your best and enjoy it. Life is short, enjoy things while you can. Also Judy, I can’t wear white either. Love it but I’m a mess! It’s why my wedding dress was dark red, could NOT be trusted with white! 😅

[@honeyimhome9341]

Love how you are viewing those expensive item that sometimes we are just too frugal to use. I’m exactly like your mom. I’m always waiting for the perfect timing to carry one of my luxury bag or that expensive perfume. I’m going to remind myself to use those items more often.

[@s.7948]

I still cannot believe mama is gone 😢 I first started watching your channel when my daughter was a baby 10 years ago time flies enjoy your luxury items you are right Judy 😊😊

[@HeyJules]

I agree with you Judy. I wear my perfumes everyday, even if I'm just going to stay home. I even wear them after I take a shower at night. lol

[@sabemwah]

BEAUTIFOOOH! Beautiful words!!! ❤

[@angelikaaf6438]

Judy, you look so elegant in that white dress😊 btw you’re dead right about making yourself feel good and wearing/using our ‘nice’ things more often! 👋 from Ireland 🇮🇪

[@michellecalvo5112]

Wow! I needed this talk… i am a stay at home mom, and i always “save” my expensive stuff for “special” occassions.

[@darettablack3794]

I agree with you Judy, I use my favorite perfume every day,because I believe I’m only here on earth once 😊 so why not smell your best. I do get Nice compliments😊! Judy,thank you for sharing about how your sweet daddy’s doing ♥️. My heart goes out to you Judy and I still pray for God’s peace and comfort for your sweet family 🙏🫂🙏. God bless your sweet family and have a wonderful weekend…..🍃💗🍃

[@klcpc1298]

Be careful with saving the pull ups, they expire like pads and tampons. Mold can grow over time and the cotton breaks down.

[@iCrazyMisha]

That is a good reminder to use our nice things. Every day is a gift

[@shawtazz]

I needed to hear 'use the stuff' speech so much like it was for me to hear, thank you Judy

[@bernadetteperez7884]

Heart to heart Judy, I want to tell you thank you for your wholesome advice it really touched my heart. I can relate!

[@makeupnwin]

Thanks Judy!! Love ‘Live in your own luxury’ ❤️

[@mayseeyaj]

Love the dress! Where is it from?

[@jazrehman1385]

Hi Judy, My brother passed away in September, and my dad in February. We had back-to-back deaths in the family. But I am not here to tell my story. It will take time (even years) to go through their stuff and finally let go. When you are ready, I recommend giving Mamma stuff to family and friends. Then donate any other items to honor her. I plan to donate my dad and brother in Fiji by giving their shirts to farmers who can't afford clothes. I hope this helps. Send you love and a big hug!

[@amyandfamily664]

Hey, Judy. Great message. Also, I liked that you spent so much time in front of the camera. Blessings!

[@sinceroamor]

Totally understand not about wasting either I’ve been using my face cleanser fully! God bless

[@Anew1008]

Love the new look great advice don’t wait, wear it! I’ve been getting better at it with clothes. ❤️

[@bliahang3131]

Judy. You hear you on that. When you buy nice and expensive stuff USE IT. My mom is the same way. My brother bought her a nice rice cooker too bc her is getting old and she took it out of the box to use it once, only once then put it back inside the box. She's back to using her old rice cooker bc she says it's not broken it's still good. So yeah my mom hears the same from us too use it while you can don't save it bc yeah you never know that is facts.

[@Pooplydoo]

Ate Judy you got the refill for the dish soap spray. You need the nozzle!

[@thesamanofamily]

I needed this message - I literally just threw away soo many Kat Von D lipsticks after holding onto it for 5+ years. 😅

[@cnicole_]

My mom puts kale in her caldo de pollo and it’s amazing! I love it so much and it gives it a great chew like benji said !

[@Marthaskitchen214]

I’m not sure how you would feel but it would be nice packing your moms belongings and send it to your moms family members so they can have a piece of your mom to remember. Or sell them and you can collect money and help those in need

[@andreinavalenzuela199]

Agreed! I like to feel good and look good for MYSELF. So whether I go out or not I’m using my ‘nice’ things. 💕 thank you for promoting this.

[@indie1885]

You have fair points! Gonna try to remember this!

[@lifewithstaph]

That’s what I started to learn and I’m 30. I would always be afraid to use my expensive stuff because it was expensive. But then it expires and now it’s definitely wasteful. These things are meant to be used. So I’ve learned to just use it!

[@DaNi-ji4kz]

I’ve been screaming at the screen for you to do this very same thing for years. You deserve to feel good no matter what. I heard a story of a lady who didn’t wear her nice pearls until in her casket. ❤

[@strawberriesncandii]

That is very true. We all were sitting in our homes for almost 2 years. I stopped that mentality. I use my nice shoes and bags even in the daytime.

[@visionsofk8]

Thanks for this reminder caz. I remember I was saving so many nice clothes and I had to donate them cause they no longer fit. Lol. I have a few luxury items Brad got me for special occasions that are still in boxes. I will get into those STAT. Glad the kale worked out. I was skeptical about it and will probably never resort to it. 😂 You looked beautiful as always and I miss you and the fam. Love you! Enjoyed this vlog. ❤

[@SillyMacy1]

100% agree! You deserve to use nice things!

[@skeviefthymiou1579]

I love you getting ready and glamorous at home!!! Like why not just think about it the man you want to notice you is in your home and the girls you want to give a good example are in your home!!!!!!!! So why not girl!!!!!!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Ace-bb1bm]

Judy, your makeup is gorge!! You look so pretty and I agree, we need to be better about treating ourselves to our luxury items.

[@alohalli3]

I love this so much.. thanks for the reminder, Judy 🩷 we all miss Mama too.

[@shirleyalvarez4623]

U are so right Judy ❤, life itself is a gift so everyday that passes we need to celebrate it as a gift ❤ I will do the same ❤

[@itsgeemarie6758]

What about moving JB downstairs?

[@camalia]

3:24 YESSS JUDY! ❤️ This resonates with me so much!

[@k.c3239]

Judy I completely agree with 'your own self luxury' that is how I try to lead my life daily. A swipe of lipstick and some blusher with a spray of perfume while putting on dinner is good for me

[@chantreasida]

Slogan for the rest of the year: USE IT! No matter what it is no matter the price use it and enjoy it 😊

[@kimgardner1615]

Yes! Use your stuff and enjoy it!

[@tammypham3736]

I love these life lessons! Thank you for sharing!! Saving stuff is so normalized, and you're so right! Why treat yourself to nice things if you don't make use of it after the initial purchase? Can't wait to experience the little bursts of happiness again and again instead of only once when I first buy something

[@jirahpigte123]

I need to know where you got your dress and other dresses Judyy pleaseeee they look so good on you! 3:54

[@maelimoncito3391]

Agree with this. Been using my perfumes everytime I go to sleep. Hihi. One of my guilty pleasure, so it wont go to waste. 💖🥰

[@Lexie9311]

I learned that lesson too through April. Before I would only use my Burberry perfume for special occasions, but I hardly ever go to special occasions so now I wear it constantly

[@JeppyParaiso]

❤❤❤ love yah Judy!!! I hope our Mom’s are up in Heaven comparing Louis Vuittons and exchanging recipes ❤❤❤ and looking down giggling at the titas with the fake ones! 😆

[@bried3274]

Judy, I noticed your new tops/wardrobe & I love it! Suites you very well 😊

[@cookiesmybut]

Your skin is looking flawless!

[@freshyx3]

Well spoken Judy! Live in your own luxury 🥰✨

[@hannahm2944]

I needed to hear this! I just moved all my things and I have all these beauty products just waiting to be used and taking up space!

[@MichiRanada]

I can so relate!! I think, it's a very Filipino mindset especially for the older generations - keeping things for a special occasion. My mom has special china, the ones with the gilded edges that only sees the light of day on Christmas or special birthdays. We must use them, thanks for the reminder Judy!🥰

[@Noreen_Reynoso]

9:04. Try using mustard leaves. It’s a whole different flavor! Masarap!! 🤗

[@sheilasylver23]

Judy, I use to save my clothes when my kids were little I was a single mom,but now that all of them are grown, what ever I buy I wear and my husband loves it.