You’re Not Attracting Avoidants - You’re Drawn to Them: Here’s Why

[@ceciliamac4283]

“You are used to trying hard”. That spoke to me. I grew up where everything was hard. From basic needs (food, housing,…) to everything else. I developed a high endurance to hard and challenging things. Even if I can’t stand the hardship, I will find myself taking up the challenge. I finally woke up to this a couple of years ago.

[@haihai5293]

"How worthy person would behave". Very good statment! Greetings from Poland.

[@TheMoreTheMary_]

This was on my Home page! Congrats to you 🎉 therapy time to me 😂

[@KR-ou2qo]

0:38 Or there are so many of them available because they push everyone away and also many of them act secure in the beginning

[@purplebutterfly415]

Yes totally resonates

[@jaredvaughan1665]

I have discovered that avoidants prefer anxious people pleasing dogs, and anxious types prefer aloof independent avoidant cats.

[@dougpetrie6007]

Truth

[@ceciliamac4283]

No, I don’t agree. I am not attracted to avoidant aloof people. I am attracted to emotionally generous people. Which he showed me at first, then he showed his real face