You’re not ugly, you just have to change your race.

[@NkirukasWrld]

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[@gaycosmos]

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[@daffodil365]

​@@gaycosmos No one is getting canceled for making a mistake that they apologized for and fixed. Go sit down somewhere cause you're doing too much lol

[@Maria-oh1nq]

these white chicks are not trying to look black, theyre trying to look like a hispanic woman from latin america because latin american women are usually or atleast known for being mixed aka having a tan and those are the main chicks being sought after by men right now so thats when women want to alter their looks to look like the women their men desire, why do you think the passport bro movement is so big. no one is checking for black or white american women like that

[@dotcom3015]

@@daffodil365what are you talking about, no one apologized for race changing? No public figure at least. But she might need to apologize for saying oil London looks exactly like jimin, I actually screamed aloud at that part. That was vicious lmaoooo

[@daffodil365]

@@dotcom3015 you misunderstood my comment. I'm talking about something completely different, I was responding to a comment that's been deleted.

[@Elizamay.1]

This reminds me of trying to become a mermaid as a 7 year old 💀

[@vivisnsd]

this is such a good example 😭

[@BaraAleia]

Haha same here! Mermaid and fairy princess 😂

[@RiriJamesMusic]

Haha my KZbin search history used to be “how to become a real life mermaid spell”, and “how to find a vampire to turn you” 😂

[@Elizamay.1]

@@RiriJamesMusic frrrr

[@VampireBloodlustt]

OMG SAME

[@PrincessVelaryon]

I have definitely noticed the shift to the "Asian aesthetic." Especially on Tik Tok.

[@Jhddtukbdd87542]

Sanrio and boba were the gateway dr*g for the K-pop obsessed tweens

[@kathleenking47]

Some asians look biracial from the eyelid surgery

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

@@kathleenking47no they don’t, not all Asians have monolids

[@ChloeBx]

Kpop as fun as it could be (or at least used to je with less social media) definitely influences loads of impressionable kids And since the beauty standards are in your face harsher than in the west it is tough for them

[@kathleenking47]

@@BlackGirlLovesAnime6 however, many do, and I'm hearing a lot about how South Korea is doing this surgery

[@beataklimek191]

Pro tip: everyone is “exotic” somewhere so just be yourself

[@v.xien.]

Where the hell would south Asians be considered exotic? Everywhere they go they have a bad reputation 🤣

[@andivlogs]

so true

[@Fartiosa]

Everytime I hear exotic I think of Epsteins island 🏝️

[@blub-tf6rt]

Pervert​@@Fartiosa

[@SocksWithSandalsEnjoyer]

And if EVERYONE is exotic, no one is

[@tarrenwillams6751]

OOOOh CHIIILLEEE I wanted to be Hispanic/Latina soooo bad. I used to wear these long curly weaves in college right, and it would make me look racially ambiguous. So, I just started lying telling everyone I was from Brazil, and this worked out for a while. Until one day an actual Brazilian student ended up in one of my classes and one of my classmates introduced me and here, I start speaking my broken Spanish..It was that DAY that the lie stopped and my ignorant lying a$$ discovered Brazilians do not speak Spanish....they speak Portuguese. Never wore a weave or pretended to be anything I am not ever again.

[@demigreen6495]

LMFAOOO 😂

[@Chazcott]

I’m so glad you told this embarrassing story. I don’t think people realize there IS a consequence for appropriating. Whether it be a funny story or not.

[@lalalila2]

As a Brazilian I find this quite funny lol

[@JackyKY]

girl...

[@StinsonSwarley]

Funny enough, as a Brazilian I can tell you we can look so many ways, we have white, black, indigenous, asian, so you could have probably passed, but not knowing what language we spoke and thinking we speak spanish it's atrocious hahahaha that's the only reason I don't feel bad for ya for doing that 😆😝🤪 but good on you for coming around and accepting yourself.

[@oliviashens4265]

Oli London is actually hilarious for congratulating Arianna on coming out as Korean 😭😭😭

[@bunnyowe1377]

she never said she try to look like korean, ariana just want look like asian. also everybody know her favorite asian country is japan. Thank you lol😊

[@oliviashens4265]

@@bunnyowe1377 broski that is not any better 😭

[@chuuu4610]

@@bunnyowe1377She didn’t look Japanese either and she doesn’t know the language (evident with that funny tattoo incident). The features she had been going for seemed more like what white people think Asians look like. I mean she’s a pretty girl, but I was side eyeing the change.

[@chanelle8021]

Honestly I like the way u think . As a black woman we should just love and accept our race. There is a reason why we were born the race we were born with.

[@nikky3913]

what proof is there that theres a reason lol

[@chanelle8021]

@@nikky3913 well the simple fact even if you are born black. And then u try to be white you still be black. The reason I wrote we were born this way. Is that God decided to make us who we are. So we just have to accept it that all. It will be boring if we are all the same and there just no originality nor other race culture. But having de diversity and different races and culture. Makes all unique in our own way, hope that makes sense.

[@tfkdandsvkc]

​@@chanelle8021 I hate your reply,,our physical appearance or race shouldn't be used to define people ,,yes its normal for blacks to wish to be white because white is the accepted standard of beauty,,am russian but sometimes I wish I was British,,,in a disgusting world where people use physical looks as a defining factor,,wanting to change race is absolutely normal and understandable

[@nikky3913]

@@chanelle8021 i get what ur saying kinda but honestly it would have been better if God hadnt done this to us coz now some of us are just treated like shit all the time while white people get to live life on easy mode (sigh)

[@chanelle8021]

@@tfkdandsvkc i have my right to say what I think. And I will stick to my beliefs and if u come with saying I hate. I don’t have time to hate but u do. So I don’t agree with your comment. We have a different point of view. So I’ll leave at that.

[@Diana_B526]

Honestly I believe that people who want to change their race are DEEPLY insecure and do not identify with their own race but the thing is fixations are still not okay it’s an obsession none the less

[@vicks_g]

mhm they had trama in school you know how high school is. some people just dont know how to shut up and end up hurting people a lot.

[@ritaa1359]

yes exactly and if ur gonna be honest be brutal we r taught to not hurt someone feelings but at the end of the day how do u expect to tell someone what there doing is wrong if u cant be brutal they need to learn the hard way to accept it ur not a hater for it

[@lalaloopsyyay]

i’m asian and i rmb wanting to have blonde hair and wide green eyes when i was little

[@drock9775]

True

[@cryforthemoon]

A lot of these people who say they don't identify with their culture have fractured families. The father is not at home if they know him at all.

[@LottieLaRats]

The same person that told me I was "too pale" and that I "looked sick" (rude, why tf would you say that to someone?) Was also the same person that said: "black people should avoid the sun so they dont get darker.".... in a black majority school. It's been 5 years and I still cant forget it because of how wild it was.

[@kenzierobbins386]

Same , kids would even compare arm color. It’s wild

[@iskramblol1221]

This is very real in southeast asia. As a Filipino, the ones perceived beautiful are the ones with east asian and western features. As someone with native features, I know I would never fit in to my country's beauty standards. However, I know in some country out there my features are being fetishized 😭 which sucks

[@cataza9767]

Yeah the fetishized of it is absolute disgusting and needs to be talked about more…

[@melodi_bunniez]

As a Filipino with Western features and have always been called "beautiful" while some of my more native-looking peers were called "not really pretty", I absolutely agree with you! I think years of colonialism, Eurocentrism and the entirety of the "Model minority" myth has a lot to do with this

[@nwatson2773]

I love my native Filipinos with their beautiful skin tone, warm and loving culture and FOOD!

[@pmzaii]

i’m indian and it’s kinda similar. i remember walking in on my grandparents watching an indian shows and the actors either had these piercing blue eyes or skin that was clearly bleached

[@angeliquequinones2924]

Yup even in Latin culture the tele novela have Turkish actors or light skin Latin actors with blue eyes . Being Filipino and Latin it also was hard to fit in growing up when society makes u feel like being white is the easy , n now everyone is pretending to be Latina now a days from hair makeup etc . Luckily I love myself n find this funny af

[@GranolaBars11]

In the west, we're not shifting away from Blackfishing, we're just shifting toward multiracial/looking racially ambiguous fishing. It's all about having stereotypical: Black girl shape, Asian eyes, Black girl lips, white girl nose, and Middle Eastern eyebrows/cheekbones/bone structure. There's hundreds of writings and videos on this. Of course there are some people who lean more into the Black or Asian or Middle Eastern aesthetic, but it's mostly a combination of all these styles in one person pushing us towards a very homogenous look. In the east, everyone wants to look like a kpop girl/boy and it's not even close. ESPECIALLY in SEA, they want to look like the korean beauty standard so bad it's just sad

[@stunnawhirl]

Oh my god I’ve never seen a more factual comment!

[@luctisonae]

I’m half Chinese and half white, 4th generation Chinese American. With that being said… my family has little to no Chinese culture embedded into our lives. I’ve been trying to put more effort into tapping into my culture whether it be cooking, learning Chinese, learning historical arts, but I’ve found many people around me are uncomfortable with what I’m doing. I look more white than Asian and even my name is quite European, so many times my friends will forget I’m also Chinese and be uncomfortable that I mention Chinese cultural hobbies that I’ve picked up (it was just Chinese calligraphy and reading Chinese books). Even my mom, who is full Chinese, is uncomfortable. I know being exotic is fetishized and I saw it all through high school even if I was average looking, but being biracial is really tough being rejected from both sides of the coin. This trans race stuff makes it more difficult for biracial people who are struggling to connect back with their culture without meeting even more judgement and stigmatization along the way. And yeah, you shouldn’t care about what other people think. But it really feels terrible to be told you aren’t something when you are over and over again… so what am I in the end? Anyways this was a long rant but it’s all I could think of during the video. Being Asian is trendy and it seems to the people around me that all I want to do is fit in the trend, whereas really I’m just finally an adult who realizes what they missed out on growing up.

[@SideEyeee_]

Chinese is not a race.

[@ily279]

i’m also wasian (vietnamese and white) and i can relate to alot of what you said. i am also white passing bc i have rlly pale skin and my việt features are still more eurocentric but still look asian at the same time . i also agree this whole rcta/ecta is so weird bc since when is a race or ethnicity a trend?!? it also is quite annoying when ppl try to strip you of your asian culture just bc you pass as white.

[@luctisonae]

@@SideEyeee_ Okay sorry that it offended you that much. I will correct myself: I am half asian and half white. My whole point was that my race is asian and I am excluded by other asians due to all this strange fetishizing behavior that's popped up recently. I mentioned Chinese specifically because the video included examples of people wanting to be "trans Chinese." Completely missed the entire point I was trying to make lol

[@luctisonae]

@@ily279 Although I'm glad you can relate to my experience, I'm also sad that this is more common than it should be :( I just hope I and others can be comfortable with coming to terms with culture/friends/family in the future because it's just such a confusing dilemma to be in

[@namedrop721]

@@SideEyeee_why are you here causing trouble? Girl bothers to explain her whole damn life and you have no reading comprehension ?

[@terebere.]

So being East Asian is an aesthetic now.... 😐world is crazy.

[@akay3787]

But just the convenient aspects that they can discard next year when a new ethnicity is ‘in’, because in reality they would never want to actually be Asian, deal with the culture or the discrimination that comes along with it. It’s a costume to them

[@Jhddtukbdd87542]

Just the parts that benefit them like Sanrio, better makeup techniques, SPF and sun safety, boba, skincare. None of the bad stuff like discrimination or pressure from parents.

[@cataza9767]

Yeah…it’s really sad to see

[@cinnamonstar808]

✍] 15:06 that Asian lady dont have Nigerian kids.

[@cheonsa444]

Yeah, reminds me of oli london, but back then they mock him so bad then now there is community like it 😅

[@Yazzy560]

Basically most rcta people just do it for the outside look and don't want the criticism that comes with being asian or black, but you can't turn that off.

[@Boohurghhoo]

Or even more [ justified ] criticism bc of trying so hard to be something ur not w/o the history& significance behind it

[@nystagmus1036]

Its literally because now the new beauty standard is black/asian. Isnt that what people wanted instead of racism? To be part of the beauty standard?

[@phoebesekine4783]

@@nystagmus1036yeah i dont get why people re misconstruing this… the whole point is to fit into the beauty standards, which rewards racial ambiguity or non-whiteness with white features. Beauty standards were always the point, even when it was black and asian girls wNting to be white.

[@seeleunit2000]

Exactly. It's screwed up. It's incredibly screwed up. There is no justification for this

[@kekedream]

Exactly, like Justin Bieber. He had a whole "blk gangster aesthetic" phase 😂😂😂

[@yunhosparrot]

23:59 “almost identical” girl don’t disrespect jimin like that 😭😭😭😭

[@iyananwaford6355]

no literally!!

[@YenRestherac]

Even as a joke, it's just too much😭 I can't imagine how disturbing it must feel to know that someone out there in the world did surgery to look like you... Jimin deserves better😞

[@ninagore13]

Yeah!!! Totally agree with you with that😅😢

[@Adinamfeldman]

She said that and I choked 😭😭

[@otyligrand4070]

I cried when I heard her say that

[@nomanejane5766]

Trans racial was when a black kid would get adopted by another race or something. I saw a video of an asian girl being adopted by black family and she feels culturally black, that whats the word originally meant, then rachel dolezal and all these other crazy people trying to turn it into something else

[@ladydontekno]

It’s when a child of one race gets adopted by a family of another race, not necessarily a black child. As a transracial adoptee myself, these “transracials” would never want our problems.

[@uikmnhj4me]

That’s one way to use the word. But using it in the context of someone trying to physically change their body through surgery or other means to “match how they feel on the inside” is another valid use for the same word. If anything, people will understand the latter usage better because it better fits with the woke modern lexicon

[@ladydontekno]

@@uikmnhj4me no, it is not valid and transracial adoptees have told these “transracials” that their use of the term is not valid. They’re starting to call themselves RCTA (race change to another) for that reason.

[@moustik31]

Ikr? It pisses me off. They are coopting a phrase that isnt theirs, same way they are coopting a race that isnt theirs. Rachel Dolezal isnt "transracial", she is a race coloniser.

[@soude85]

⁠​⁠@@uikmnhj4me No, that’s not a valid use! It makes no logical sense to match “the race they feel inside”, wtf does that even mean?! How does “a white person” feel inside..?🤣

[@VideosForYou90]

Your point still stands, let those stans be mad at you lol. Even if the picture was edited, just take one look at the video where Ariana performed with Nicki Minaj at the VMA's 2016 - and she's same shade when they're standing side by side. + Her backlash of blackfishing doesn't only come from one picture sooo idk why everyone acts like that. It's okay to realise that your favorite artist messed up in the past. I used to love Ariana myself, even went to her Honeymoon Tour. But after everything she's done these years, I personally can't stand her anymore. Even though she's still a fantastic artist. But oh well...

[@randomguy12593]

that’s the thing. if there’s such a genuine argument, why are doctored images necessary. “even if you used fake images” is also crazy to say

[@dotcom3015]

⁠@@randomguy12593the Ariana picture in the thumbnail isn’t fake or edited. The fake pictures are a lot darker. The one in the thumbnail comes up if you google Ariana amas 2016, and all her pictures in that day look this shade

[@tiamarrow6366]

Some of you seem to be forgetting that Ariana is also Italian. Now yes there’s the debate the not all Italians get that dark however….a lot of them do naturally tan very fast, and they do get very dark. Whenever that performance was in 2016, Ariana must’ve already been naturally very tanned and her makeup artists made things worse by adding too much bronzer to her body, and maybe even self tan to even everything out. Let’s not forget…..these artists do have a team of people, and part of their team includes makeup artists. All of those pictures of Ariana when she looked “black” were taken when she had her makeup done, so maybe look into who was doing her makeup back then and go after them.

[@ursuletul2001]

Yeah, how dare white people tan😡

[@dotcom3015]

@@tiamarrow6366 was just correcting someone who thought the picture was fake. It’s okay to fake tan, a lot of Americans do it. But that’s not the only reason ag gets race switching accusations

[@Shelaborator]

Not the Korean words to "become Japanese" 😂

[@renoirrr]

yeah i think it was trolling and rage bait 😭😭

[@LovelyAngel.]

I loled so hard at that troll 🤣🤣🤣

[@mydarlingariana]

아 네, 감사합니다 일본인이에요 😭

[@Shelaborator]

@@mydarlingariana 🤣🤣

[@shutup-gc2yk]

These are ✨Caucasian Activities✨if I’ve ever seen a prime example 💀

[@lucklessly]

hey girly!! Its been said a million times, but the effort you put into all your videos does not go unnoticed !! like, it takes EFFORT to edit all those clips and pictures, sound effects, everything, and its clear you put a lot of thought into whats being said! I enjoy hearing about your personal anecdotes and humour, not to mention you are GORGEOUS ! appreciate it lots and look forward to see your channel grow

[@NkirukasWrld]

Hey girl!! Thank you sooo much!! I’m really glad it’s obvious how much work I put into my videos😅😭😭it’s not easy but I absolutely love it! And I hear you the fetishes arw fetishizing for East Asians!! It is baddddd. But I agree with you we should all focus on being ourselves and embracing what we already have! Society loves to chose certain certain features are considered attractive and trying to keep up with all of these trends is IMPOSSIBLE 😭 But thank you once again for leaving such a nice comment! It really made my day😭💕

[@Streak09]

​@@NkirukasWrld I'm a dude I want to grow hair I'm young and want to look different I'm going back to working out I don't never tell anyone this I want to become attractive as a actor

[@vivisnsd]

this is so off-topic but i'm in love with how your hair matches your lipstick and everything 😭

[@angelr5694]

As a 30 something-year-old I'm personally grateful that I had the chance of experiencing Brandy, Monica, Queen Latifah, MC light, Tatiana Ali, Mary J. Blige, Aaliyah, Lauryn Hill, and Raven-Symone, and so on and so forth because it really shaped the fact that like it was OK that I didn't look like a Britney Spears or Christina Aguilera, or Jennifer Lopez and I didn't need to be super thin or super girly. There was still a place for me essentially. Anybody who grew up after that time and I just looked back and I just think good luck.

[@angela_tarantulas]

I feel you 🎉 I‘m 40 and think the same!

[@bryanna_renaee]

Yesss, I’m 27 and my earliest memories had so many beautiful black women to look up to!! By the time I was in middle school it seemed like they all disappeared and by high school I had 0 representation outside of mixed race/light skinned women. It’s like they erased us. I was so insecure until I started binge watching the late 90s/early 00s black shows and remembered my beauty

[@superchroniko]

I miss the early 2000s.

[@MIA-fq1di]

​@@bryanna_renaeethey still making mixed race women a representation for black women 🤦🏿‍♀️

[@soude85]

@@MIA-fq1di I’m so confused by that concept… Like, why does the media call a “white” woman black?!

[@nyko9631]

Ariana grande has been jumping from race to race 😂😂

[@zaniahsims]

no...she hasn't

[@nyko9631]

@@zaniahsims do your research first please

[@zaniahsims]

@@nyko9631 im literally an ariantor not some local who believes edited pics LOL

[@zaniahsims]

@@taykay4577 no….she hasn’t 😂

[@AISHA-si5by]

@@zaniahsims Ariana maybe a good singer but she’s a deeply disturbed person , the sooner you accept that the better !!!

[@isa.m8009]

I definitely wanted to change my skin color to a lighter complexion back when I was in elementary and middle school, I used to get bullied a lot by my own kind of people about my dark skin. But now you cant tell me shit about my skin girl I love ALL OF ME!!!!

[@StinsonSwarley]

I'm glad you say that now bc you are gorgeous! Love love love your skin tone

[@isa.m8009]

@@StinsonSwarley aww thank you so much 🥰

[@isa.m8009]

@@blushbb. always from our own people smh

[@jhurbon12]

@@blushbb.so sorry that people are so mean

[@SweetSlumbers]

thanks for speaking on issues such as this. i feel like having brown skin was so frowned upon for so long, so i find it so fascinating that melanated skin is now 'in' haha. regardless, i hope we all love the skin we're in and never try to change it :")

[@melissasmith4254]

Yeah I agree with you, it's crazy.

[@Maria-oh1nq]

nah its just these chicks want a tan to look like hispanic women

[@Brittanysplittany]

For real, now sometimes I feel insecurity for being naturally super pale. It’s not considered cute anymore but how about let’s stop making racial features trending pls 🥲

[@chiaralistica]

Yes, just like my mom told me, we are all human. Let's leave it at that.

[@gg.strawbrry]

@@Brittanysplittanysame 💀 i always get told by the brown side of my family that i’m so pale 😭

[@cherryblossom789]

I’m white, and when I look at Asian or black women, I often see facial traits that are very pretty that are less common in white women. So in a perfect world I could try to switch between and be everything or a combination of traits. But not one person can have every pretty trait. So I’m happy with the beauty I have, and I admire the beauty I see in others :) And by the way, you are so beautiful, just had to let you know :)

[@Imokayluv]

every race and ethnicity has different features that make them uniquely attractive. Even amongst asians, even amongst east asians, there are traits in Koreans that I see that I don't see in Chinese., There is genuinely so much beauty to be celebrated, I have observed this when I went to Ethiopia, to Israel, turkey, Korea, and I live in the US. so I have seen a variety of diverse races and ethnicities

[@JadaPaige-kf9df]

It’s interesting that you say that because that perfectly aligns with the current plastic surgery trends. “Snatched” fox eyes = Asian. Full lips = Black. High Cheekbones = Latin etc. Celebrities in particular will pick and choose desirable features from other races and put them on their faces

[@lillninoo]

as an indian myself, i personally think wearing a bindi is far from religious and more a fashion accessory here in some parts of india now! i see my friends from non hindu religions wearing one and they all look really pretty. in that sense seeing selena wear bindi only made me happy. i see it more like appreciation :)

[@SWB6]

My friend in high school did henna on my arms & hands, & I literally never felt more beautiful. And to this day, I wish it was still on my skin 😅. I've always thought Indian artistic customs (I understand there are a diverse MANY) are beautiful! However, I've always understood it's beautiful to appreciate...never would I have thought to try to steal an entire cultural identity & claim heritage. Each culture has so much to contribute ❤

[@liamano7688]

True! It’s just an Indian thing. I’m Christian and I keep it too. I love how it makes my face look.

[@slaysan]

Thats beautifull but it still has religious significance and value in dharmic religions so lets not forget that part too! 😊

[@Ddj_00]

@@liamano7688isnt that a sin? Like an expression of a pagan fatih?

[@taesmile.]

It's definitely not a religious thing here in Bangladesh. We call it "Tip" here and girls of all religion like to wear it including myself

[@pandiispanda]

I get wanting to embrace your ethnicity and having APPRECIATION for other ethnicities but for changing it all together while being white is just white privilege at its finest LMAO appreciation and straight up appropriating are SO different 😅

[@adenarmy7257]

no... I've seen many people do that not only white people... It's social media effect babe

[@JulianSteve]

For real. It’s really sad. I do not know why people would want to do this, especially at an adult age😅

[@victorias.odysseys]

White privilege? It's everyone who is changing race and i don't see how white privilege plays a part in this while no one even accepts Race change as a whole

[@Millie_the_Mermaid]

Mmmmm...you said it, not me 😅

[@340dokidoki]

No, black people are also changing their race, getting skin bleaching, its weird. Asians are trying to be come white, black people are trying to look white or mixed, white people are trying to look hispanic, some are trying to look asain... its sad.

[@gabilafora4204]

Funny story about black dolls, I used to love baby dolls when I was little, and my mom said I selected a black one myself at the store one time, and I had it for many years, my dad side of my family is mostly black and my nanny at the time also was black so baby me just saw something familiar with love, I think is very nice that we have more options of different coloured dolls today.

[@bluebear9228]

28:46 The way I'll never forget that image of kylie bc she captioned the pic #whitegirlsdoitbetter and then got mad at Amandla Stenburg when she called her out on it smh

[@NkirukasWrld]

Omg I didn’t know she said that 🤦🏾‍♀️I would say I’m disappointed but not really. It was probably just a publicity stunt tbh

[@bluebear9228]

most likely, that family feeds off controversy for relevancy@@NkirukasWrld

[@sheeniebeanie2597]

mmm, i don't have an issue with that tag, just like i don't have an issue if someone has the tag #blackgirlsdoitbetter. having an issue with one and not the other is ✨ hypocrisy ✨

[@bluebear9228]

thats great for u loser!@@sheeniebeanie2597

[@felixsfreckles6822]

​@@sheeniebeanie2597What the hell are you talking about. What hypocrisy? Where did they mention the blackgirlsdoitbetter tag?

[@useralphabet2915]

Indian girl here. As you asked about bindi, the whole point of Indian aesthetic is to make you look mature and modest. Even Indian girls don't just wear traditional clothes for show. They wear it for special occasions to show women modesty and maturity. If Selena is using it in her video just like that which has seductive lyrics then its just not right because people who follow her will pick the tredn up but would never use this style with it's real meaning. Thats straight up disrespectful. I dont know about apologizing but i do want her to learn before she ises any other culture's aesthetic for any music or performance projects of hers. Great video. I have been watching you for some time now and i find your videos very informative and entertaining as well. Keep up the good work ❤

[@AMiah-jz8uu]

I think thats nonsense. Im bengali and i think most people just use it for style. Also, part of growing up is being seductive and finding a partner. I said what i said - deal with it

[@useralphabet2915]

@@AMiah-jz8uu I suppose my mother knows better than you. So yes no matter what BS you say you're wrong. Also are you 12 or what? 😂 Do some research on Google if no one in your house knows this basic. Education is really important. Good luck 🤞

[@AMiah-jz8uu]

@@useralphabet2915 if we went to the history of EVERYTHING we'd all be butt hurt. I give her permission to wear the bindi. Gurl bye!

[@GamerBunny2025]

My best friend is Indian-American (first generation), & most of the Indian culture & movies she & her parents showed me were very romanticized- no sex scenes, sometimes not even kissing. It was very modest. They even gave me a sari that they thought would look good on me (it didn't show the waist) but my best friend's sari did. Neither were supposed to be sexualized, they wore those outfits to birthdays, weddings, etc. My friend still dresses modestly & doesn't show off her body because that was just part of her culture. Yes, she had a sexual awakening like most teenagers/adults, but she wasn't using traditional outfits to pick up men. Selena Gomez has no business wearing simeone else's traditional garb to appear sexualized when they aren't even her traditions. It was as bad as Katy Perry going full Cleopatra, & Egyptians were offended by it. I think everyone is entitled to their opinions, but cultural appropriation and treating traditional wear like a costume without the respect it deserves is disrespectful.

[@AMiah-jz8uu]

@@GamerBunny2025ive just read about katy perrys dark horse video now which ive seen in past before...what about michael jacksons video that was also based entirely on ancient egypt back when ppl werent so sensitive...im an early 90s baby... everyone too offended nowadays everyone just a bunch of fairies clearly the younger generations!! Makes me sick 🤮 yall need to get a grip whoever so easily offended.

[@barose1]

The fetishization of Asians is not new. It’s been going on for centuries, if not earlier - actually, for millennia. it just looks slightly different with each passing generation.

[@eliza1826]

Lmao cope

[@rayyyherway]

Families need to educate the youth on their race/culture and teach them pride, dignity, and self love. The fact that these term even exit is just sad and says a lot about where the world is headed. Thank you for sharing this info😇🙏🏽

[@Blaque_Dahlya]

I wanted to be black growing up so badly. My cousins are black, my uncle, I have many black friends. I have always loved how beautiful their skin is. And I was always the odd one out, and wanted to be like everyone around me. I'm happy with myself now mostly

[@Mogna3214]

Stop lying

[@LaouratouSavane-f5m]

Can you be kind and why are you aggressive

[@Sky_fullof_stars-kp1nn]

that one video that said kamsamnida (감사합니다) when they said to turn Japanese was actually KOREAN AND IT INFURIATED ME SO MUCH . anyways thank you and to whomever made that video research before you post

[@maryk5829]

12:53 The fact that "kamsamnida" is actually thank you in Korean... Also its actually spelt as gamsahabnida

[@arwen_candl]

True but also there's no one 'true' romanization of 감사합니다. Personally, I feel like kamsamnida is lil closer to how you'd actually say it.

[@miiina19]

It's so interesting to see how people from different countries growing up have different experience when it comes to appearance. I was called a ghost or looking sick from being naturally very fair-skinned. When we were teenagers some parents gave money for tanning sessions and dad of my friend made her go there before prom. Also some might remember dark faces light neck situation from foundation. But honestly we should stop this obsession with colors of skin or hair or appearance trends. I used to be so insecure used filters and stuff but after I stopped engaging with insta/tiktok or yt short with makeup and lifestyle "it" girls content I feel myself much more confident and I started to see beauty in real people around me.

[@t3m077]

Same here. I was picked on a bit for being pale but fortunately I'm a ginger and a social outcast growing up so I wasn't forced to tan by society or a friend group

[@haideperales]

guys imagine unsubscribing over a pic💀

[@glasstablegcrls]

i have to laugh.

[@d.n.8919]

They’re in a parasocial relationship with Ariana Grande 😂

[@stellamary204]

My thoughts exactly

[@v.xien.]

Like she don’t care about you lil bro 😭 she not gonna give you millions

[@vanessaa7602]

Pathetic losers! Bye, Felicias 👋

[@artlover4997]

As a white person, the thing that angers me the most about fellow white people who try to change their race, either to look Asian or Black, is that when they get called out for things like doing braids which will most likely damage their hair, is that they then say "Oh but white people have braids too, look at the Vikings!" 1. You're gaslighting the people who are warning you that you will ruin your hair 2. That's a huge lack of knowledge about the diversity of European culture because there are different braids depending on each culture, and 3. Yes, we do have braids as well so why not embrace your own braids from your own culture which are made for your hair type?

[@h8616]

OMG EXACTLYYYY!!!!! i’m not white but the braids in different white/european cultures are so beautiful yet the white people appropriating the hairstyles from BLACK cultures don’t even wear them or embrace them but as soon as black people call them out for it then they gaslight us and say that the “vikings had braids”, “slavics has braids”, etc. yet they don’t even wear them…??? like make it make sense. how are you going to use that as ur argument against black people who are calling you out about the cultural appropriation of our hairstyles yet you don’t even wear your own cultural hairstyles that you claim to have??? imagine if all the white people and non black people in general who appropriate black hairstyles just wear their own cultural hairstyles, showcasing the different styles they have in their cultures and its beauty just like black people do.

[@tika2glamorous]

And God bless you for speaking out on this! It was this girl on tic tok who was white who had braids and she tried argue all the black women down (myself included) about her hair. Two weeks later she had to shave her head. I couldn’t do anything but laugh. Nobody disrespected her we simply told her that her was going to fall out. She cried shaving her head it was actually sad.

[@IYeleven]

@@h8616 Loads of bw wear Asian or Brazilian hair but you don’t see them getting called out for appropriating. Edit: to the comment under, it’s not about Wh. ite ladies wearing anyone’s hair. Its about double standards. If asian and Brazilian ladies started calling out the rest of the world for appropriating their hair by wearing it, would you then realize how hypocritical you’re being ?

[@h8616]

@@IYeleven white women also wear asian and brazilian hair… straight hair isn’t cultural, it’s a hair texture that ANYONE can have just like anyone can have curly hair. braids, twists, locs, etc. are cultural which is why those hairstyles look different in every culture. european braids aren’t the same as african/black braids.

[@Lovestay822]

Would you say the same thing to a black girl doing French braids or straightening her hair? Probably not lol

[@bluebear9228]

u ariana grande fans r so bias ur more focused on the ''edited pic'' rather than the actual point of the vid

[@NkirukasWrld]

Lol someone said it! Ariana is not even the focus of the video 🤦🏾‍♀️if I didn’t have a sponsorship I would pin this comment 😂

[@moonlightblair]

again so then why use her in the thumbnail? y'all don't want us to react but keep giving us reasons to

[@bluebear9228]

do u girl dw ignore them, love ur channel x@@NkirukasWrld

[@tiamarrow6366]

@@NkirukasWrldwell you definitely used her picture to get people like myself to wanna click on it. You used that picture of her because you knew a lot of people who feel some type of way, and would wanna click. However it’s also worth noting that a lot of pictures of Ariana looking either super pale and almost Asian, or super tanned and almost black…..were over edited by her own fan pages who wanted to make fun of her, and of course paparazzi taking bad pictures too.

[@poisongal2095]

@@tiamarrow6366i mean its not a complete lie😭 i saw her in person once when i was a kid and she was like caramel colored💀

[@t3m077]

Im a white girl of russian and irish decent and even though I never wished I was another race, my grandmother was half central asian (Mongolian and uzbek). I was quite jealous of her eye shape because I found it so beautiful and interesting looking. Two of my cousins and my nephew both have eyes like hers so im glad the trait was passed on somewhere.

[@magicovento]

Aaaa i have these eyes (indigenous mixed/latina) and they've been always my biggest insecurity

[@janedoe4305]

I'm russian and have ancestors all over the north from Baltics to Inuits, I look like a typicsl eastern European, my eyes dont have the mono eyelid but are hella small🥲

[@slasla2345]

​@@magicoventowhaaatt they're the prettiest thing 😭😭

[@eliza1826]

@@slasla2345why are you lying? They’re the most unattractive thing, still today.

[@annemuller4499]

Thank you for bringing up this point! 😘It's the media who is driving us crazy with new beauty standards. We have to save us and espacially our very young brothers and sisters from the media, it's so so damaging. Thank you for your great work 🥰

[@erinsymone1645]

wow, I'm glad you opened the conversation on this. I had always wanted to change my race. Growing up it was very hard to see any beauty in being black - it just didn't seem (to me, at least) to be valued or celebrated back in the 2000s. It was all about being white, white white! (nothing wrong with being a white girl, btw, - I think y'all are beautiful!) It's hard for me to judge because I understand where these insecurities come from. even now, I don't think I'll ever "live up" to the beauty standard, so i've kind of had to divorce myself from that and just be in my own lane.

[@SippingIcedTea]

People who are unsubscribing because of the Ariana Grande pic, we do not care, it’s not that serious.

[@Brittanysplittany]

When I was little, I wished my skin looked black because I thought it looked soooo beautiful, like chocolate. I’m very pale LOL but I think it’s great to appreciate your own skin for what it is!

[@v.xien.]

We always want what we don’t/can’t have

[@jainabella1601]

„Act Like you can’t swim” - killed me 💀🤚🏾

[@puppet_mqrker6462]

Im SOOOO glad someone is talking to this!! I've seen this mainly talked about it the kpop community (as expected, since i am a kpop fan) but only on tiktok. Thank you for talking about this!! 😭

[@chase1828]

plus that second photo of ariana, there’s pics of her from that same night. she looks the literal same. the only reason why she looks different in both pictures is because of makeup styles.

[@SapphireRadioactive]

When i was growing up in the 90s i had a black Barbie and babydoll. I requested from my parents i wouldn't accept any less because i loved how different they were. lol i gasped when you said you traded Mariposa.. that means butterfly in spanish by the way. I'm a new sub

[@Dandelion32]

I’d just be happy to look normal 💀 I’m albino and have spent years dyeing all my body hair and wearing dark contacts. I got freckles tattooed on and spray tanned every three weeks. And when I was 18 I went through an experimental drug trial for young adults with albinism to try and help fix our ocular issues which gave me a slightly more normal skin color and I was so happy to even be just considered “very pale white” instead of “Casper the ghost”

[@xLyla15]

albinism is beautiful, albino people look ethereal

[@kawaiifangzz]

Looks, fashion, culture, etc has trending cycles. It is NOT hard to take eras and compare them to others (simply look at Western fashion trends and you can break them up in decades) It is not hard to understand why she made this video - K-Pop and East-Asian culture is highly favored at the moment (thanks to platforms such as TikTok and Netflix) People who are offended by the "darker than normal" Ariana picture, she was trying to be racially ambiguous and there is no denying it. She, like many other white women in the spotlight, tried to come across as racially ambiguous because it was what was "sexy/hot/desirable". Fast forward a few years and now looking/liking/being East-Asian everything is what is "sexy/hot/desirable"

[@SamLaroy-x6q]

Что значит расово неоднозначно?😂

[@SamLaroy-x6q]

Зага нн ощначет расовоноднозначно?😂

[@PakiraTomusu]

On the note of being mocked because of your looks. As a white, very pale polish woman I had and still having my fair shear of such mistreatment. In early 2000 there was no make up produces of my skin tone, no "nude" underwear that matched me and I was bullied for being "sickly pale" or "white as flour". It get to the point where my mother (whom is almost as pale) feel need to put tanning products on herself almost weekly to match beauty standards that surrounded us. It was sad to see that even your mum doesn't consider your sheared trait as something good. Now, seeing so many whitening products, so many trends with pale skin tone it feels bittersweet. I'm glad we are mostly over the mismatched foundation colour but had we really had to go threw it to begin with?

[@PakiraTomusu]

@@IYA-yb6yt I always liked my skin. Only now I can really feel confidant with it. It might have come with age or growing more emotionally independent or simply because now there is more acceptance and products for all skin colours.

[@PakiraTomusu]

@@IYA-yb6yt Little to non. Remember , Poland really opened up for foreign market when we jointed EU, which is 2004, borders were opened in 2007. Beauty products slowly started hitting shelfs and retailers mostly provided most common/demanded skin tones, which at that time was warm medium colours like sand and beige. People like me, with cool tones that fall in to ivory and porcelain, are still having problem with matching products. Think how many times have you seen foundation in "alabaster" type of shade. Funny thing is that I could use baby powder and it would be only slightly paler then needed :) You can literary see my veins so in some lights I appear blueish/greenish.

[@DearBill]

@@PakiraTomusu I always find super pale skin attractive and delicate (look at Nicole Kidman , Rose Mac Gowan , Dita Von Teese or Isabelle Adjani). For this reason and because i’ve meet insecure people of their pale complexion (it seems insane for me cuz i was insecure of my olive color) , i decided to bleach my skin heavily since 4 years.

[@neoxochitl]

There used to be communities on livejournal for trans racial people and also other kin going back to like 2006 at the very least. Back then it was mostly people saying they were Japanese but I think with trends, now kpop is so much more popular, it went that way.

[@jesuisbroke2909]

the way you speak is so soothing and articulate. didn't expect a controversial topic such as this one would end up making me feel calm 😂 love from Turkey🌺

[@lolarian]

Ever since i found your channel I've been loving every video. Love the topics and how you try to promote conversation about it. This rcta community is definitely nothing new. I think in the early 2010's and late 2000's there were people who really wanted to be east asian, Japanese in particular. Thinking of people like venusangelic and others. Funny how lots of the clips from tiktok have kpop videos for inspiration for their transformation. its always the most thin, light skinned examples and you'll never really see people wanting to race swap with south east asian and those of darker skin tones. It's always a matter of picking and choosing what they want from that race. I think some people are genuinely so disconnected from their lives and family that they would rather swap into something more "desirable". Either way... those who want to race swap likely aren't doing well mentally.

[@angela_tarantulas]

Honestly, as a teenage girl I wanted to look like Mel B from the Spice Girls. I’m white, but I really admire the beauty of black people. But as I’m not rich, I couldn’t change my race per plastic surgery - and honestly I think it’s a bad thing to do this 😱 It’s just a new symptom of the unhappiness of people, presented on social media 😢 I’m Swiss-Italian, white as a ghost but dark hair 😅 and I slowly start to accept how I look 🙈 I was bullied a lot as a child and have a low self esteem. But I‘d never change my DNA or outside looks of my body 😱 Thank you for your very great information ❤ just found your channel and like your content!

[@DIMSMAKEUP]

I had a patient (15yoF) that started listening to this videos in YT (to be thin) and her mother brought her to my psychological clinic extremely terrified because the girl didn’t actually sleep.

[@CrystalLovesChrist]

Bestie keep doing what you’re doing, your channel has some very thought provoking discussions. Most ppl probably didn’t even finish the video lol. God bless you babes ❤️

[@NkirukasWrld]

They didn’t even watch the video 😂they started commenting before the video went live 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@CrystalLovesChrist]

@@NkirukasWrld don’t mind them sis. They’re especially defensive around this season lol. Also love to see us Nigerian girls flourishing perioddd🇳🇬☺️

[@daffodil365]

​@@NkirukasWrld cause they want a reason to hate you, ignore them.

[@CheeseGirl91]

I wished I was Japanese back when I was in high school (I graduated 15 years ago, so looking back at this is mega cringe). I'm biracial (black and white), but I've always looked ambiguous. Sometimes when people asked what race I am, they seemed disappointed when I told them that im half black. I was mistaken for Japanese a lot because I am short, and I was really skinny (I also straightened my hair). I grew up watching anime and listening to Jpop, so there was some idealizing going on. It took me a while to realize that people were being racist towards me, and instead of calling them out, I took it as being half Black was something to be ashamed of. I'm just glad that I've learned to accept myself for who I am, and i can love anime and kpop without making it my entire identity.

[@lovelylittlegirl3332]

As a Nigerian I’m so offended because those are Black American stereotypes. At least use the correct stereotypes. She could have said be loud, blunt and eat Jollof everyday😂

[@Nuancecat]

Honestly it annoyed me more. No legwork or pidgin? Smh

[@rianamoore3138]

Big thumbs up girlie :) I am a black woman from New York and ethnically Afro American. Growing up, I experienced a loT of microaggressions about my appearance, and I lost a good amount of my self perception/sense of individuality to it because I was worried about being "bullied" by the white girls I grew up around for not being like the black people they saw on tv and not being able to successfully conform to their beauty/social standards n ideals. I'm in a much MUCH healthier space in my life because of discussions like this and honestly staying off social media :) I really liked that you shared that anecdote on the white Barbie v black Barbie - I experienced this as a little girl!! My mom brought me to toys r us and asked if I wanted a black barbie and I YELLED at her that "I want the White one!!!". And looking back, I did that for similar reasons, mostly because I saW white Barbie and that she was AccePTED, so that's why I wanted the white one. Because just like the black Barbie, I was considered inferior or "not the right one" so I felt that white Barbie would help me to further like, assimilate I guess in school and among the girls I went to school with. Anyways, really love your content! Grateful for discussions like this.

[@skylarsouthhearth1523]

another day of wishing people weren't separated by 'race' cuz now people are doing this- I get being envious of someone, but I wish these people could just be happy as they are, I feel like if this idea of separating people by 'race' never existed people would be a lot happier but that is just a dream, And it isn't how the world works these days :( Gonna be honest when I was 7 I didn't even know what race was, I just thought being 'Black' Or 'Brown' was the same thing as having freckles or green eyes, But behold as I entered the land of the internet I discovered it was regarded as much more...

[@namedrop721]

Yes it’s fine to pretend you have freckles or green eyes but the internet doesn’t like changing skin color. Make it make sense.

[@Ca11MeMayb3]

Last time I checked people with freckles or green eyes where never forced into slavery​@@namedrop721

[@jasmine_j88]

Thank you for your video. On the flip side, for many years Asian people have been bleaching their skin and having eye and nose surgery to appear Caucasian. I’ve been to Thailand and India and so much of their skincare contains ingredients to make them more fair. In the film industry (Bollywood and others) the fairer actors (also in Latin American countries) have more opportunities than actors who have darker skin. Re: the Asian fishing, stars like Bella Hadid and possibly Ariana Grande have had eye surgery (I think called fox eye) to make their eyes appear more Asian. It’s not reversible and it’s just sad that so many people don’t like their features. There are so many beautiful people all over the world and races should not be temporary fads - especially when people who adopt a race are not subjected to discrimination and most can change back to being white or the race they were born as.

[@HhhhgftrVvvvjjh]

What if we will chant other words to ourselves? Like: I love myself the way I am. My aspiration in live is becoming happy and enjoy the ones I love and letting my pure self free. Taking care for this body that I may live in, and give myself the joy of positivity and love. Create a world for myself. My own bubble full of happy and loving thoughts❤

[@tamaralukudu5717]

Her lip gloss is poppin'!

[@Grace-he3yi]

As a Nigerian I'm happy the person didn't say be a scammer not surprised by he rest even though their false 😔

[@ThandekaGoba]

To be honest, I ALWAYS used to wish I was white and American when I was a kid (not that long ago, like 7 years ago 😭) anyway, I'm pretty sure it was insecurity and the fact that I felt like I wasn't pretty enough as the way I am, which is pretty sad as again, I was young. I am a black South African girl and my ethnic group is Xhosa (*one of the many cultural groups we have here in SA) so growing up, I mostly watched and read American things and I think my understanding was, wow, these people (Americans) are everywhere, that must be because they are better than us and kinder people etc. my point is, it's not irrational to aspire to be like the people you see on TV but I wanted to be a WHOLE OTHER RACE and LOOK NOTHING LIKE MYSELF! That has obviously changed and I'd like to say that I am very much proud to be black and even MORE proud to be South African and it's wonderful to see more people that are comfortable in there own skin so I hope I can prove to you that all it takes is some self discovery (I didn't know how to end it, sorry if this was long 🤭😝🥰) Ps- I haven't finished this video so I can't say anything about how amazing it was (which I'm sure it will be 😝) so yeah, I'm gonna love it and I will post another comment +I think!!??!?🥰💖💖😊 OMG! Yes, I agree with all your points and this video was amazing and might be my favourite topic you've discussed so far !!❤❤ All I have to add on is that, I do find it weird how white women basically spray paint there skin to be like mine but for some reason that trend actually made me more confident in my skin and it made me quite happy for part of me to be the beauty standard - did I find the blackfishing cute, no - did I appreciate the cultural appropriation, also no but it did make me feel seen and that was fun, I still think being unique is still what people opt for and why not, I actually kinda get compared to being blasian a lot (black+ asian) and you know I kinda don't hate it?!!? Don't get me wrong, I love being me but I think blasians are unique and cute and being compared to one feels like a complement to me ANYWAY, I found it sooo funny when Oli London kept congratulating celebs into the 'community' when the people themselves never even said so 😂😂 Thanks for reading, hope NK see's this 🤞😝🙌💞💕🤭😭😘✨✨🔥🗣️

[@egurls_r_rosie]

Thank you! Everyone is lashing out at these people for wanting to be a different race, but they don’t realize it stems from insecurity and seeing other races fetishized/praised. Also white shame, racism, colorism, lack of representation etc. is a big factor into whether you’re proud and happy with your race or not so much. I hope these people can find the beauty in their own culture and celebrate it.

[@melissasmith4254]

There's a whole website that advertises changing your race, I forgot what its called. A KZbinr talked about it years ago. Plus theres a few white ppl that in the media got melanin injections so you are not reaching. Martina Big is the main example if you want to google about her. Another good example unfortunately was Brittany Murphy. She is white, but Italian. Lost a lot of weight, and dyed her hair blond. It's wild. This is interesting non the less cus i never heard of this tiktok trend. Pretty cringe lol. Thanks for sharing this.

[@Kazuma_kiryu311]

I remember markiplier saying he used to get bullied at school as a kid for being half Korean 😭

[@okhalayartist1859]

I don't know why but I cried at your barbie doll story....

[@alexis4689]

I was the same way! I grew up around the white side of my family so I always envied my cousin specifically bc she had blonde hair and blue eyes and I really thought my life would be easier and I would actually love myself. It took a longgggg time for me to be comfortable in my own skin and now I loveeeee the fact that I’m black and embrace it!

[@LotusesGalaxyOcean]

The problem now is that people often term everything appropriation. When wearing a saree correctly is appropriation….. we have created a set up that means it is almost impossible to explore other cultures. Also, this is very much western. People in Asia and many other places do not think about this issue in this way. Culture is formed from traditions. Traditions are ritual and restraint. Therefore, is it surprising it is disappearing in places where individual freedom is all people care about?

[@양송-k2g]

I also think the term is being over used. For some time, like a few months, I've been talking to a Korean man living in Korea since birth. I'm from Poland and we actively talked about our cultures, asked questions (he actually thought about moving here so understanding Polish culture was important to him). He once said that as a thank you for teaching him about my country and being interested and appreciating of his culture and media, he'll get me a hanbok, a traditional Korean clothing. He said that people in Korea love it when foreigners want to buy and wear them, and see hanboks as beautiful. Many of them encourage foreigners to try hanboks on and help them find the right colour etc etc. I think it's beautiful

[@Jhddtukbdd87542]

@@양송-k2gI’ve always wanted to visit Korea and I see ppl renting hanboks to take pictures in…I don’t know how that’s viewed or if I’d be able to post the picture back in the US. Good to know that it’s not bad to wear one

[@양송-k2g]

@@Jhddtukbdd87542 idk how it'll be seen in the US but I think that if you simply wear it with respect it should be fine :)

[@XxcelestialgirlxX]

I definitely see what you mean but you also have to understand that Asians in Asia don't deal with racism and fetishization in their own countries from their own people. I myself am an Asian American experience Racism that an Asian in a more homogeneous country wouldn't experience. So it makes sense that western Asians would be more particular about it

[@LotusesGalaxyOcean]

@@XxcelestialgirlxX That sounds so absurdist to me. I lived in Asia and racism is alive and well there. It is in fact standard to be racist there. They do not have good opinions about african people at all. Look up some of the things China has said and done for some colorful examples. And it does not stop there depending on what specific asian ethnicity you are other asians will be racist to you. Look up asian immigrant workers in Japan for a recent easy example. Racism being seen as bad and wrong at all is western. Often other asians are shamed within their own society if they get tanned as it is seen as low class… so no discrimination is very much a thing.

[@KyKyy333]

The thumbnail title 😂😂😂” New year new race” had me dead💀💀💀💀

[@BatkoNashBandera774]

1:32 As someone who has never installed Tik Tok, nor felt compelled to install Instagram, this is as far as I need to go in this video to realize nothing good is about to be revealed.

[@surbhidhuppad786]

Unrelated- you are absolutely drop dead gorgeous

[@Life-oo2tr]

Having grown up as an Asian American in the early 90’s, and was bullied and ridiculed for being Asian, the fact that people wanna change their race to Asian is sooooo weird to me. They want the looks, probably only kpop idol looks, but have no idea what its like to be an Asian. The worst part is, they’re aiming for the ideal east Asian beauty standard. Pale skin, big eyes, high nose bridge, or looking half Asian. They aren’t tryna look like us darker skinned Asians. Its f’ed up and perpetuates colorism

[@eliza1826]

Asians don’t have big eyes, if you mean Indian by Asian then maybe tes

[@earthshuman3864]

As a teen definitely but now i realise how stupid i was , better to love yourself as how you are rather than trying to be someone

[@Fforthai]

Motto of the year… “you’re not ugly, you’re just poor.” 😩💔

[@ataldanb4815]

I’m white and from Brasil so my family is mixed, my younger brother is black and little sister white with 4c hair 😅 in my family we have from unties grandpas and grandmas that are black and black/indigenous so I have a lot of contact with customs/culture etc.. One thing I really appreciate about my relatives is the exchange of care and knowledge ab hair cair and skincare health.. some I can use but not everything is for me.. 🤷🏻‍♀️ One thing I always wanted as I was growing up was to have a sew in (my hair is straight so braids would be a major fail) 💀🤷🏻‍♀️.. But I learned to love from afar 💜 Don’t know why ppl can’t do the same

[@ataldanb4815]

@@vanessaperry5244 sorry, I meant: “ I am white and from Brasil. So… my family it’s mixed” My English it’s not the best so what I tried to portrait didn’t work 🤷🏻‍♀️ was like a starting point for my story.. not that i was identifying as mixed.. sorry. I completely understand your point

[@racheldeschaine]

I love your channel-cool older sister who gives great advice vibes-subbed!

[@fridacarvajal5811]

This is so interesting and SO important to share. Thank you so much for your insight on race/ethnicity ambiguity and its impact on social media and society in general, it really gets the conversation going on the issues and dangers it brings, thank you!

[@shawneel5339]

25:52 love your video, but I just wanted to offer a small correction. Oli London does not identify as transracial anymore and has always been a grifter and a clout chaser. He identified as trans and non binary a little while back but he’s now branded himself as a detransitioner. Now he is an anti trans “activist,” who is grifting on the conservative speaking circuit.

[@xydoit2024]

Its incredible how you changed your skin color and hair color in seconds

[@corymiller536]

Free Palestine

[@im_here_watchingyt]

I’m Asian Hispanic and there were times where ppl would say “ewwwww” at my school lunch but I stayed confident and I ate my lunch like I didn’t give a f. But I love my background and the cultures that I am. I have grown to love my mixed ethnicity.

[@Lasagna_Garfield_]

I’m Native Hispanic and people always think I’m Asian. I was bullied all throughout school because of my eyes and even my own Whitexican grandfather would belittle me for it and stretch his eyes out at me and tell me to “go back to North Korea” lmao. Good on your for not letting it get you down because it definitely affected me

[@ClovdDov]

I remember growing up I hated being Asian and I wanted to be a White American with blonde hair, blue eyes and pale skin. I was severely bullied for my ethnicity/race at such a young age. So, I started watching more American movies, learned perfect English to the point I always get perfect score and have a low grade with my native language. It was really hard for me to fit in with my own people too because I was so busy fitting in with the foreigners rather than just being happy for what I am.

[@Glacier-q9p]

I liked being as tan as I could get every summer when I was a kid but I never felt like that was me trying to change my race cause it was still my skin, just a little more tan from the sun lol. Idk if I've ever wanted to change my race, but I've definitely wished that it felt more acceptable for me to embrace stuff (like aesthetics, slang, culture, etc) of different races without ridicule or people trying to say "oh so you wish you were Black" or whatever. Sometimes felt like people just want you to be your race (in every sense) and embrace/appreciate nothing else, which seems almost as racist to me as someone pretending to be another race for the benefits of being exotic or whatever without the racism. I hope I'm making sense, I guess what I'm trying to say is, when is it okay for people to wear makeup/hair that they think looks good, or speak in ways that sounds cool/interesting to them, etc without it being considered as appropriation/offensive?

[@ariaxrose1]

It’s always okay. If someone is telling you you can’t speak a certain way or dress a certain way because your white……honey that’s racism.

[@tuba.1506]

Hi there! I recently started watching your videos and I just love the way you express your opinions in such a calm and cool way. I agree with everything you said in this video. As an Indian, I will say that Selena Gomez wearing a bindi ten years ago isn't cultural appropriation, at least according to me. It does get annoying when Westerners take our cultural symbols and claim it as their own (eg: goop girl Gwyneth claiming that she popularized yoga), but them wearing/using Indian cultural symbols while acknowledging where it's originated from isn't wrong. People don't own a culture, so trademarking something like a bindi or a saree or even yoga is pretty stupid. Anyone can wear these, anyone can take part in these. As long as they're not mocking or making fun of the culture and its people, it's fine. I mean, we wear Western clothes like jeans-tshirts all the time. That doesn't make it cultural appropriation, just like how Selena wearing a bindi or Gigi wearing a saree isn't. Also would like to add something: just because an individual is wearing something that comes from a particular culture doesn't mean they have to recognize and talk about the entire history of that place/people/culture. I remember seeing people online being mad about Emma Chamberlain wearing a necklace (which was presumably Indian) w/o acknowledging the "oppression" and "colonization" that was associated with said necklace. Which is so stupid, according to me, because just because someone is wearing a piece of accessory doesn't mean they have to turn into Wikipedia pages about its history. Anyways, I'm all up for cultural appreciation and it's really fun to see non-South Asians add their own personal touch to our clothings or accessories, as long as they're not mocking us :) Hope that was helpful!

[@tuba.1506]

My first time writing an essay on yt haha

[@FoundSheep-AN]

Thanks

[@MediAndClaire]

Omg you ARE SO PRETTY

[@angiii_.c9]

girl since i have met you I love your energy and the way you explain the topics

[@wd4kari]

I'm half Chinese and half Japanese, these people on tiktok have no idea what it feels like to be discriminated as an east asian person, they only see the side of ea like kpop, anime, architecture, food, music and pop culture but don't see the hate and racism that comes with it. I feel like wishing you were white with blonde hair and blue eyes is a universal poc experience, and these people don't know how it feels to wish you looked like the other kids in a country you're an immigrant in or having other kids at school pull their eyes back and call you slurs

[@gabby-mayo5556]

That Barbie story breaks my heart, you are so pretty- i cant

[@shinjiki1197]

girl and lets not forget a lot of the little white girls trying to look latina, i feel like the race everyone wants to be comes out after a big trend

[@SamLaroy-x6q]

What?😂

[@Cyhcg5uhgb]

I am north african but grew up in europe. I always wanted to look stereotypically white as all the pretty girls in my class had blond hair and blue eyes. All the cool girls were white and I hated comming from a diffrent ethnic background. I also feel like people have become so much more open to other cultures, but this was less the case over 10 years ago. I was already a weird kid and being a diffrent ethnicity made me feel even more lonely. At some point I got into Japanese culture when I was a teen and that is the first time I felt pretty: The pretty girls all had brown/dark hair, dark eyes and pale skin. They were also short like me. So I went through this weird phase where I wanted to look Asian, because I tried again to fit in somewhere. Currently as a grown adult women I am fine with my ethnicity, I actually dislike it when people tell me I don't look North African, but look European or Asian (I look quite racially ambiguous). I felt lonely and left out, being from an immigrant family and growing up in a diffrent culture was quite challenging, but right now I just feel like myself and I feel no desire to look like a diffrent race/ethnicity.

[@Lucien234-i2z]

I am Scottish with black hair, brown eyes and pale skin, it's very common here, most people here don't have blonde hair! Where the f**K did you grow up? Scandinavia??

[@DearBill]

@@Lucien234-i2zshe probably grew up in France , North African features are disliked to there.

[@Lui2Smoove]

i just wanna point out that looking "exotic" isn't necessarily a trend its just human evolution, traits that are uncommen in your ethnic background are more attractive because it shows variation in the gene pool. it just so happens that combinations of racial features create a more unique beautiful face (ex. An African American man with very bright green eyes will more times then not be more attractive then one with brown.) thats why the Kardashians with there mix of Armenian plus the addition of the butt was so wowing like you said its normal on a black women so its therefore not gonna have that same wowing effect.

[@Boohurghhoo]

That's literally what makes it a trend tho..? (or at least "trendy now") like that's the point w/ the video and the problem w/ these whole "rcta communities". It shouldn't be so desirable and attractive on you bc it's from another ethnic background thats not urs and you don't belong to so it makes you better. It def shouldn't make you any more than either, like your this perfectly built human bc ur taking "exotic traits" (semi stereotypical ) that weren't and didn't get passed down to you. Also, that's what makes it "exotic" esp starting from a rather mundane average base to get this unique perfect combo look. I get it, that's how it happens in society but again that's literally the point, bc of how far, fetishized, obsessive, deluded, and ignorant this whole problem becomes. Actually, how it is tbw. Although again it shouldn't be (like why would you find a black man more attractive w/ green eyes just bc it's uncanny to you instead of the brown eyed ones? Or even better if they're lightskin instead of that/too dark and boring looking yet..."you" replicate that and that's why ur looking for the "unique" and "exotics").Esp bc it clearly isn't happening naturally-for most. Another thing I wanna point out is not all blk girls are extra curvy and all that with a lot of butt which just adds onto the same problems (ignorance,stereotypes, etc) oto if it's not good for or on the original it shouldn't be deemed good on the copycat. Dont denounce these traits when you see them on others (but you want it so badly for urself to urself, "eventually") and downplay the feelings behind it and problems attached w/ it just to do something stupid like this. Bc of ur poor thinking skills and wants being more important for w.e reason. Yet still, throughout it all "you" have the same ignorant thinking process even w/ those features, you and you alone desired so badly after clowning one way or the other on the original.

[@SOMETHINGTOSLOW]

I like this take, I think you have a point 👏🏽

[@baum7des7lebens7]

Your comment should be pinned.

[@Lui2Smoove]

@@baum7des7lebens7 lmao thank u I just feel like some people don’t realize why things r attractive n make assumptions (i used to be like that but then i got curious 😂)

[@55CINCO55]

Don't think this is true at all lol. I find White women more attractive than Black women and they would both categorize as "exotic" to me given that I am a Hispanic male.

[@May_003]

i love the way you opened the video with a question. "have you ever wanted to change your race?" my god, the cultural shock I'm experiencing right now is INSANE. i think that's a question you could only ask to people from a certain place. Why? In recent years, I've seen people appropriate asian culture, follow me here, when years ago it was all about appropriating black or latin american culture, and i've seen influencers and celebrities switch races like it's underwear. And i find it interesting that i've seen that only because I consume and keep up with content from America, Canada, the UK, basically english speaking, first world, privileged countries. At least where i live, the concept of wanting to change your race or even asking that question out sounds DERANGED. Like we got other problems 😭 I'm sincerely sending so much healing energy and love to y'all cause this is .... sum else.

[@dprdenny]

i learned to embrace who i am and where i'm from, looking back i feel so ashamed for making fun of myself when i was younger and enabling people to do so

[@charlesmao7743]

I’m not Chinese, but growing up in a Chinese school and have mostly Chinese friends, and I don’t really look like my race that much, but I do find it funny and amusing that once they found out I’m not Chinese, I always laughed it off and pulled their legs a bit, before telling them the truth. And honestly, it doesn’t bother me that much. I do speak mandarin, know their culture, and mostly love their cuisine, but it doesn’t come to my mind that I want to be Chinese or I hate my ethnicity and just love me myself for who I am. It all comes down to ignore these “boxes” that “progressive people” invented themselves and understand other people’s culture. I know some of my friends or colleagues who able to speak few languages cuz of the work environment or working in another country. And I’m currently trying to self-study French (and struggling too) and learn their culture and such. It’s a fun experience overall but it doesn’t to the point make me feel like I wanna change my race to be a French. Look, everyone is unique and has their own talent, just tap into it and focus on yourself, your life will be much simpler and able to shift your focus on other more important thing.

[@dekamohamed2140]

Whether white or black or east Asian. You should love and accept whatever race you are born in ❤

[@Stealthlyturtle]

Just trynna change your race is crazy- like not sleeping for 1 day just to get “Asian eyes” AINT GONNA WORK, at this point we are gonna see a new way to change our race is gonna be watching a show that is not from your country (I tried to explain it as best as I could so I’m sorry if u got kinda confused by my spelling ig) :,)

[@BigGMaliya]

Hi! I'm black, white, and Filipino. My dad is black, while my mom is white and Filipino. I'm also racially ambiguous. I've been told I look Indian, Hispanic, Afro-latina, and other things. Though, I'd say I look Hispanic, I of course, am not. And with the diverse mix of races and ethnicities I hold. It really has been hard for me to find my identity. So, I definitely understand the mindset of the people in the RTCA group. During lockdown, I spent basically my whole life on my phone, and that got me obsessed with kpop. So much to where I did wish I was born Korean or with a mix of Korean. Now I didn't go as far as trying to *change* my race. Since maybe early or mid 2022, I've let of that obsession (thankfully). Along with other factors, I've really been stuck on my whole racial identity. Sometimes, I kind of want to be Afro-latina, so I can stop being so confused with myself. Anyways, I can understand the position that people of the RTCA group are in. I just I hope they get help in finding themselves, rather than making a fool of themselves trying to be someone else.

[@FoundSheep-AN]

Wow you are so lucky to be mixed ! So interesting, a mix of all races ! You can have a fluid beauty and flui cultural identity and explore and own all of your races!

[@homeiswherethelatteis1025]

I'm white, I've lived in Switzerland, Spain and England. I spoke 5 languages fluently when I was 9 but misslearned them because I wasn't allowed to speak anything other than English. As a result, I haven't been able to communicate with my Abuelo properly since I was about 10, 13 years ago... I really want to relearn Swiss German so I can have full conversations with my granddad before its too late.