You can't hate yourself into the person you want to be ❤️
@aleisterlilywhite11092 жыл бұрын
I love that
@georgiagalaxy2 жыл бұрын
I lovee
@zeamzoomnpop29312 жыл бұрын
yup.. im begrudgingly starting to realize this... 🙏🏽
@GOWfanatics Жыл бұрын
Can someone elaborate this to me? Thank you, english is not my main language
@pixelperfectpravin Жыл бұрын
@@GOWfanatics I will try: if you want to become your better version, you can't force that, it has to come from source of love and with respect towards yourself Example: Instead of doing exercise to impress others or showing others that you are strong, you shall do it to take care of yourself : showing respect to your body and yourself -- Do it so you can feel better Because if you hate yourself into become a better version of you -- then what's the point? Remember in the first place you were doing this to become happy better version of yourself -- take care of yourself push slowly with love and care
@floraldystopia2 жыл бұрын
“If you start from a place of love, then there is no way you can really lose.” Wow, what a mic drop, man you are brilliant. I love your videos!
@craigtechno2 жыл бұрын
Change comes from a place of love… That’s totally on point. We have to be kind to ourselves , and then it connects with others. Really good video Thank you 🙏🏻
@dusting6450 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@zee43362 жыл бұрын
this actually made me reevaluate why i want to be a ‘better’ person or change some of my habits, and why theres literally been little to no change. really good video !! love this type of content
@Erc7822 Жыл бұрын
"You can't hate yourself into the person you want to be." I don't think any sentence has ever hit me this hard, thank you.
@itselliescott2 жыл бұрын
"You can't hate yourself into the person you want to be" is so true and definitely what I needed to hear right now! thank you
@luizcarvalho7592 жыл бұрын
as obvious as it may seem, treating myself as i would treat a friend really makes a difference in all of this. thank you for reminding me that.
@DamonAsheton Жыл бұрын
You have the most unique and beneficial perspective. I sincerely admire your energy and thought you invest into these videos that stand out from typical self development. Kudos to you man, thank you for being a light in the confusing darkness of the modern era. Blessings to you Fads ❤️🩹
@royalredbird97172 жыл бұрын
You have a great channel man. Keep going!!
@dotbop907 Жыл бұрын
Your channel is actually helpful! No guilt, nothing bogus ( no one size fits all). I really appreciate your perspective. Keep up the good work!
@Josh-bb1nn2 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk. I changed everything about myself because one day I realized how my selfish and reckless behavior destroyed those who I loved. I sent the first 30 years of my life never being sober and always getting into fights. The night I truly saw what my irresponsible actions did to those close to me was the last night I tasted alcohol or used any kind of drug ever again. My new life is 16 years in the making and I feel so much better for changing. Long story just to say I agree with what you say - it comes from love.
@Ferrestf3 ай бұрын
I'm so happy for you 💓 Keep on being you 😊
@ΓεώργιοςΠαπαδόπουλος-μ9μ2 жыл бұрын
Not only your perspective on the topics you discuss is unique compared to other videos on this platform but also your videos are well made and enjoyable to watch, I do hope your channel grows big
@YousraD-v3k Жыл бұрын
''you can't hate yourself into the person you want to be.'' thanks!
@ty-le4bf2 жыл бұрын
i get so teary eyed watching your videos (in a good way) thank you for sharing your advice and compassion
@Ferrestf3 ай бұрын
Ive been struggling to workout enough and i tried to push myself way harder than i could handle (like writing down every workout i do and even timing myself for like 2 minutes for a plank) i gave up recently and dont really regret it because i feel less pressure from my own mind to workout like that and be as organized as ppl i see online. Your video really inspired me to think that it is okay to make change goals easy and its not good to think that i should do things that i personally cannot currently do. Im hating myself for no real reason.. I still have hope for myself but change is tough. Thanks for the vid ❤
@canzosis75 Жыл бұрын
I was able to work myself into a new version of myself, but I slipped back into my old self and I'm in fear again.
@benezer5155 Жыл бұрын
You listen to khrugabin, i am automatically subscribing, liking and sharing your channel. U have good taste in music.
@aarongreenberg1592 жыл бұрын
Found this channel and you've just gained a new subscriber! You go into deep topics without making me anxious.
@renaigh2 жыл бұрын
this channel feels so cozy.
@teamextremepk2 жыл бұрын
This is only my second video but this already my favorite channel. Underrated af.
@coneysama23972 жыл бұрын
Your channel is gonna blow up man. You’ve got the content. Now just keep going
@name-bearbeiten Жыл бұрын
That was probably the most important video on KZbin I've watched since 2009.
@shasings2 жыл бұрын
Man, i just wanna say thank you for making this video. By the end of it, i was in tears. You reminded me that i am worthy of my own love. I had forgotten that, for a very long time. Thank you, for touching my heart.
@AbandonedVoid2 жыл бұрын
Sage advice. I can tell you're speaking from a level of understanding only experience can provide. I'm thankful that you've chosen to share your insights
@zen_hayate2 жыл бұрын
Funny enough recently I had been thinking a lot about changing my self just the perfect video that I need to contemplate all of it, thanks.
@katydennington80462 жыл бұрын
I'm obsessed with this channel 😍
@pixelperfectpravin2 жыл бұрын
Your video quality is good, your audio is good, content is good and valueable in all sense
@TheJali72 ай бұрын
Those words at the end really had an effect
@azzvdd28452 жыл бұрын
your videos are great, Fads
@Fads2 жыл бұрын
thanks!!
@multiro_r.leaves2 жыл бұрын
Such a lovely essay. I could not imagine the point about necessity of love coming, but it makes so much sense. Thank you for what you do.
@nomoredrugs549 ай бұрын
I loved your channel, you generates a-lot of ideas in my mind and that what i was looking for. Many thanks man 🤝
@cookiesyruplover2 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate this video. It's sincere, it's simple and it's straight to the point. Great work!
@andrea.56772 жыл бұрын
I was needing this, thanks
@omnipotentit2 жыл бұрын
Dude you are awesome. Thank you for being you.
@ggnoree6684 Жыл бұрын
Fantastic video! i love your work in the few vids i have seen since i have found your channel
@Anja_Pearson2 жыл бұрын
I love this. Thank you, thank you, from the bottom of my heart. ❤️
@timteichmann68302 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this very thougt provoking video. Im also very happy that I discoverd your channel today and I think you have the potential to help a lot of young people to reflect about them self (probably mostly men). Warm greetings from berlin.
@vaclavkapsa73942 жыл бұрын
Every one of your videos are so interesting and so well put together. These must take so much effort. I am so greatful for finding your channel. You da best :)
@laurafolk124611 ай бұрын
Aaaaa thats so nice. Great video- bit of refreshing from all these crazy burnout motivational videos that set you up for failure.
@wanda59832 жыл бұрын
3 minutes of stretching every day sounds like sooo much work to me, I'm not even kidding
@孤独の観測者-o7e2 жыл бұрын
Haha, this is exactly what I thought when he said that as well. It's a constant struggle to get myself to brush my teeth everyday, and that takes roughly as long. I'm pretty sure that one of those self-help books would tell you to start even smaller than 3 minutes of stretching if that's much, though. So like, just sit down on the floor in the spot where you plan to do stretches and then get back up right away, and do that every day and mark it down as a success when you do it, then hopefully you'll eventually start to have days where you do this and feel like you may as well do a few stretches now that you're sitting in the right spot for it already. This never really worked for me either, though, since it's hard not to build up a subconscious expectation that eventually you'll start to feel like doing those stretches, and then when after a month it's still not working you begin to want to give up. Anyway, wish I had something better to tell you but I haven't been able to figure anything out for myself either so all I can do is wish you luck.
@BlankFaceAma2 жыл бұрын
Your content really resonates with me. Thank you for this.
@jessechow24412 жыл бұрын
I love your work. Keep going. It's helped so much already. Thank you.
@let_it_sin_kin2 жыл бұрын
your channel is a gem
@justrest452 жыл бұрын
I love your closing statement 🥺❤️
@nonodlamini2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your wisdom , this vid especially came at the right time
@ellagray24402 жыл бұрын
Just stumbled across your channel and you’re so softly spoken and calming, love your content and your mind :)
@desi_anarch2 жыл бұрын
Fear being fuel for change is so true
@notchickenfriedrice2 жыл бұрын
your videos are really good, keep up the work bruv, you'll certainly go far
@maddim8102 жыл бұрын
my favorite youtuber
@emanuel36172 жыл бұрын
just perfect, just what i needed, thx
@jesaispaaas2 жыл бұрын
i'm happy to have discovered this channel last month. your videos are amazing
@Fads2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@et58952 жыл бұрын
Your thumbnails are a 10/10
@damanodrama2 жыл бұрын
extroversion actually translates as creativity
@diamondcentury212 жыл бұрын
How?
@garretschiltz12872 жыл бұрын
your doing great work. im trying to promote your work actively. good luck and hope you are doing well
@Piasays2 жыл бұрын
Wow you really spittin! 😮💨
@Fads2 жыл бұрын
I try lol
@jhbbhjhghgb2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@talita88822 жыл бұрын
Great video (as always), but I have a question: what is embarrassing about that adorable picture? Thank you very much for this message, I really needed it and the way your articulated it all makes a huge difference for comprehension.
@eeeee3232 жыл бұрын
😊🌈I love your voice and rythm! So calm! and fresh!
@let_it_sin_kin2 жыл бұрын
I have this big issue with conscientiousness, there's none of it the only C I get from the OCEAN comes from the N so that means I'm productive when I'm neurotic I experience lots and lots of anxiety, spiraling circles in cycles I have great openness though.. but I'm also very introverted, the thing that u blend with neurotocism and get something miserable can't have motivation longer than a day if anyone has a situation close to mine, I just really really recommend therapy. because if there's someone who is keeping you socially accountable it starts to work (slow but it's better when it's slow 'cause slow doesn't mean spiraling down). for a long time I've running from it, telling myself I don't have enough money for it, but u have to not be blindfolded by your own self with such poor excuse really. when it got really bad I found a great therapist that doesn't charge nearly as much as I thougt it required)
@bluntbenny11752 жыл бұрын
Dope vid 👍
@vinnie4v2772 жыл бұрын
Do you have a discord? Love to meet likeminded people. I only seen one vid and i love the aproach you take, going deeper than ussual selfhelp
@Fads2 жыл бұрын
Not at the moment but I am considering starting one! And thanks for the feedback too!!
@AtharvaSheershPandey19 күн бұрын
💗💗
@emotionsin5d2 жыл бұрын
I was just watching this video on emotional health about why we will never reach our goals kzbin.info/www/bejne/oX7XpWtqZ6yUfbc and is just like you said: the profound desire for change, independent of the level of discomfort or direction, is the awakening of our (self-)awareness. Most of us don’t know want WE want (is more like what we Think we want because society said so), and then we focus so much on the destination, or change, that we forget to not only enjoy the failures, successes and lessons along the way, but also that the whole point of change is to take those ridiculously small and incremental steps towards loving yourself (really). Great content, keep up!
@joetwiddy21392 жыл бұрын
❤
@waldiana91052 жыл бұрын
Is…is that Khruangbin in the background?????? Please tell me that’s them
@Fads2 жыл бұрын
why yes it is - seems like you also have great taste
@let_it_sin_kin2 жыл бұрын
ok i have a q do u listen to nathaniel drew, matt d'avella, jordan peterson and andrew huberman..? i get their vibes all at once (i absolutely adore them) (u're also as soft spoken as Lana Blakely, whom I also love)
@let_it_sin_kin2 жыл бұрын
sorry, so much comparison, I honestly mean it in the bast way