Your Absence Made Me Cheat!

[@BreakupBounce]

Do you think cheaters deserve a hug like the one at the end?

[@Wyowanderer]

Not a chance. She betrayed him and deserves nothing from him.

[@tracyoguntokun4284]

Not at all cheater will always be a cheater

[@Roddy_Zeh]

I can only speak for myself, but I wouldn't hug someone after they cheated on me. "Good luck with your life, but I'm outta here.", and walk away. No turning back.

[@ImSiam007]

Nah no way man,I would never do that.Leave about hug after cheating if she wants me to listen why she did that I wouldn't even listen that either

[@limitlesky]

@@tracyoguntokun4284 said by a cheater.

[@TubeYouViewer12099]

You picked up the phone 1000 times and you had 1000 chances and opportunities NOT to cheat, and you did not take even ONE!

[@HummingDork]

Oof, that hits hard.

[@dookester.manoftruth7773]

🎵1,000 Times Goodbye 🎶 🤟🏽

[@DoubleBrownieofRage]

damn lol every thing about this is right

[@lilykhandker6716]

I never understood the why people called this a 'love story' Where was the love I felt he was stupid and weak for giving HER forgiveness

[@elQuestionare]

its horrible its the story of failing he should stand up and go away the only right thing to do

[@masterDarts4188]

I feel like it's a matter of time and changes in social stigmas. There was a time when Titantic was seen as the most romantic film in the world, now opinions on it have soured. I think it's because an increasing number of men are realizing how manipulative and fake this kind of stuff is and how they are getting played. See back then, we gave them the benefit of the doubt and trusted them. Now it's becoming increasingly clear, that we're getting conned.

[@chiefcuningcoyote4906]

A woman probably wrote the script

[@christopherjohnson2171]

I feel like many "romance" films often have very unsympathetic female characters that cheat and get undeserved forgiveness. Even in the classic "trapped in a difficult choice between 2 men" trope for romance films often has what most people would consider "cheating" as she leads both men on.

[@kebub1]

this is story for woman. most of things u will see in tv will be appealing to woman fantasy in any regard.

[@Vanexelfan3137]

“He needed me to help him with everything!” Yeah, I’ll bet.

[@amantripathi6080]

She helped him a little too much 😂

[@colourbasscolourbassweapon2135]

fr no cap lmmfao i see what you did there

[@colourbasscolourbassweapon2135]

@@amantripathi6080 if you know what we mean no cap lmmfao

[@wm7929]

My wife cheated and this is kinda what it was like, no apologizing, a lot of "poor me" and blameshifting, she was unhappy, etc. This video shows a little of the defensiveness, but in my case she started treating me just nasty, like it wasn't enough that she cheated she needed to kick me when I was down too. There's a psychology to it I've learned, a way to cope with having done something against their values, a tendency for the cheating partner to make the betrayed partner into a huge bad guy that somehow makes the cheating not as bad of an option.

[@unicoenelmundo26]

​@@freestyler5first of all, wow bro hope you find someone better, that b*tch belongs to the streets. Second, it's a nasty world and there are all kinds of humans, you 'll find the right one

[@stedunn563]

My ex was very abusive saying some of the worst things you can to me. And her way of saying sorry was "well can you imagine how hurt I am to say that " so some how it was my fault. She paints her self out to be this sweet caring Innocent women, she's anything but. The worst mistake I ever did was get with this person but walking out felt good!

[@stedunn563]

​@@freestyler5they need to blame us because of ego, they live in a fairytale in their head and they're always the good person no matter what. Cheating isn't forced by the cheater on. It's a choice they took when there was also a choice not to.

[@malbung]

hope she is your ex-wife now bro

[@3O2MuStAnG]

Same happened to me. We were together for 10 years when she suddenly started treating me like utter trash. At some point I noticed a person and confronted her. She admitted she had been cheating on me for 3 years because I lost my job. The thing is I was already working a new, well paid job by the time she had started cheating on me. Love just isn't a real thing. Women are addicted to excitement and thus completely controlled by (temporary) emotions. They don't act or think rationally. The second you are not "performing" 100% optimally as a man she WILL consider replacing you. I haven't really felt any happiness since that happened. It's like I stopped living the second she admitted to cheating on me (while I was working 10 hours a day).

[@roderickcatolico311]

I wonder why this actress always typecast of being a cheater,..i've seen many of her movies and her roles always cheat....

[@juniorforbes5472]

Was gonna comment the same but , let's search the comments first see if someone had the same thought, and bingo.😊😊

[@ManirajsinghBhati]

What is the name of this movie

[@romainplagnol882]

​@@ManirajsinghBhatiDear John

[@TheShockVox]

Literally just commented this, I had no idea she was doing this

[@antoniorobertocosta3824]

I heard she was a cheater in real life. Some rumor years ago that once she was the mistress who had an affair with some actor who had a fiance or wife, then he broke up with the other woman and he end up with this actress and they have kids now. I don't know if she also had a boyfriend, that would be double cheating. Anyway, if she ever cheat or split from her current partner i can't feel bad for him. They say how you get them is how you lose them. To be fair, he also can be the one cheating on her like he did with his previous partner. They deserve each other.

[@alvinrichardson8123]

I would NEVER forgive or hug a cheating woman, I would grab my jacket and leave without saying anything and not look back.

[@multiSPEEDitUP]

FTB

[@wm7929]

That's what I always thought, but when she cheated after 20 years of marriage, kids, finances and lives entwined it wasn't so easy to just walk. I don't think anything can prepare you for the shock, it takes a few months just for the shock to wear off.

[@mafia_gamer_official30973]

Try force choking like Anakin, so she understands her mistake in her final times. )))

[@alvinrichardson8123]

@@mafia_gamer_official30973 if only it were that simple, that would be awesome.

[@TheOutlierToday]

If the guy did that they'd paint him as scum. Only women get away with stuff like that in movies. They were always the victims. Either they were trying to find love which apparently is a good enough reason or they were seduced and didn't have a choice

[@stedunn563]

Because men take accountability yet women don't. Worse is as men we have to accept women are this way. We will always be painted as the bad guys.

[@kathy7095]

Hell, I'd hold women accountable regardless. You cheat, you suck, period.

[@steffenjonda8283]

Nope, w§ores aka modern vvoman want to tell this lies, in reallity most of them are miserable cheap w§ores, easy to nail. Gladly in the USA the guys do no longer care absout that filthy scum, so they get really upset, no mealtickets anymore. And again the scum does videos about the toxic masculinity that disturb w§ores lies to themselves. I love it.

[@MADLADCOMICS]

I hate these scenes so much😒 •He was loyal, she cheated and had every chance not to. •He gets rightfully upset. •She starts crying and blaming him for being part of the reason she cheated. •Despite being the victim, he comforts the woman who cheated, lied, made excuses, and blamed him. Can people recommend films or shows where the cheater (male or female) got what they deserved, below please.

[@baronsengir187]

If there are any i would like to know as well

[@mrkiky]

The "I had no choice" lol. Again, women being portrayed as though not in control of their actions and decisions... yet they should still have equal chances to be in charge of important decisions. Dunno about any movies, but there's that one episode of House MD where the diagnosis incriminates her and her husband leaves her even though she's now dying.(IIRC) 😂

[@Arrowdynamic92]

Watched comedy film "forgetting sarah marshall" and "along came polly", I really liked how the cheater got treated at the end.

[@kirtricknelson1348]

There's always a choice, but you chose wrong. No matter the reason or excuse, you made the choice to cheat. You should've respected the relationship and yourself more and communicated better. Sad that nowadays, rather than do right, it's easier to do wrong and then play victim when you get caught. Do better and take responsibility

[@dciccantelli]

Definitely a choice. Funny thing is that the right choice is not the hard one to make. It might be hard to walk away from cheating but the right choice (not cheat) is obvious. Yet, people choose the wrong one repeatedly.

[@kirtricknelson1348]

@@dciccantelli kinda sad, ain't it?

[@BreakupBounce]

"I had NO CHOICE!" Really?

[@tracyoguntokun4284]

Not at all

[@Roddy_Zeh]

There's ALWAYS a choice. People often prefer the easier path, they're not willing to deal with the challenges, and sometimes sacrifices, that these choices require...even if, by cheating, these consequences are far worse than the sacrifice of, let's say, putting on more effort in communicating, in being someone better, for example.

[@ryuzakilawliet2228]

@Roddy_Zeh I Totally agree with you 💯%

[@dciccantelli]

That's insulting.

[@deltaechomusicnh555]

Why don't you put the name of the movie.

[@limitlesky]

This sounds like what Jada Smith said "August was going through problems. He needed healing."

[@AkmikzeNull]

"No. You not being able to be by yourself is the reason you cheated on me..."

[@leventhumps3861]

A movie made for women… Woman: You think war is hard!? Try staying faithful to the vows that you made! No. You were gone! Off to war to play with your little friends. Meanwhile I’m supposed to not cheat?! You ask too much! Man: Yes, queen. You’re so right.

[@davidbailey1938]

Really one always has a choice bar none

[@TheVagolfer]

Unrealistic Hallmark Channel B.S. This just encourages women to cheat.

[@lionandbutterflies]

she cheats in every movie.

[@juicepops5344]

it's only a problem when a man does the same thing💀

[@Sylvie-w4r]

It's interesting how even when women are the villain, they make themselves out to be the victim. Nary a word she uttered about empathy for him. It was all about her - like every pathological narcissist.

[@DestinyMurray-l4m]

Girl: I was alone and I had no idea what I was doing Me: He was risking his life over seas you don’t think he got lonely, you no excuse to do what you did

[@outlog9714]

In movies women cheat is right thing to do and always have good ending , smh

[@ahmedsurid1018]

Cheating is not a mistake its a choice .And the person who Cheat doesn't deserve forgiveness at all.

[@Nostradamusknow]

Those men who take back a cheater are kind of men who deserve to be cheated on.

[@Daza-La]

God's honest truth.

[@eddydede4275]

Absolutely

[@johnisaacfelipe6357]

No, no men deserve to be cheated on

[@sambagins829]

💯

[@swastikvratsingh593]

I hear what you think but sometimes forgiveness can go way better than many think

[@beehive5835]

So it's okay for a woman to cheat because she is lonely, but when a man is away doing a dangerous job (especially a job where he may be killed) and is also lonely there is an expectation that he will be faithful. Hmmm.

[@rudimerm7686]

Another pretty accurate scenario. Selfishness, scapegoating, and crocodile tears after making bad decisions.

[@Lone_wolf_9_6]

I have watched the movie after this clip, complete crap movie ending. It again proves the point if you lose to give attention to women she will move on definitely. She again had a backup atlast. Dont fall for this type of women, once you found the red flag run away...let them face consequence for their actions...i dont see love here. If you are not fighting for your love, then who will. This comply on both sides of a relationship. John forgives her, but that should not the case. The partner should reciprocate some thing. I hate this movie.

[@mikef2811]

I learn at 16 that nice guys finish last. Bad boys don't give an F and they get what they want. I stopped being a nice guy after 16. Now at 50, I have no regrets.

[@philipmwangi5270]

The gaslighting is 💯

[@BuddyHollyTexas]

I got Dear John’d. I attempted something like this. It was kinda like this. She ended up getting pregnant by the guy and broke up a couple months after giving birth.

[@dannyslurplaser]

Honestly if u cant stand being alone of far away from your loved ones just break up, why hurt someone else because you're hurting? if the guy wants closure or w/e that fine keep it civil and all that but that's it. It ends there no buts or maybe's.

[@thefacelessghost4894]

The inability to be alone is definitely a problem, it's hard to understand because being alone gives you time to figure things out, to learn more about yourself and discover who you are, to reflect on past actions and to figure out what you want without any distractions and being around others all the time is nothing but a distraction. You can't learn and grow if you can't be by yourself. I don't understand folks like this. I agree with everything you said in your comment.

[@dathula804]

One a cheater always a cheater...Don't be a simp!!

[@robertoautore9252]

Once a cheater always a cheater, my father always said going back to the person that broke your heart is like you vomiting and than eating your own vomit.

[@Dirk102]

Blameshifting, gaslighting, zero accountability and no self reflection. "I had no choice" But she made 1000 choices. And he hugged her??? What a bad Movie. Excactly this rubbish teached young men to take ab*se from women for years. He just should have stood up and left. No sympathy, no explanation, no last look or hug. She didn't deserved anything.

[@spencethoroughman7986]

The depth of love a really dedicated man gives is unfathomable by most, especially by their women who aren't truly committed.

[@greaveslb75]

Some women are just weak, and some men are weaker for taking back a cheater! Only the strong ones walk away.

[@phillipschwoerke8374]

Hire a military advisor next time- get the uniform right because all the former military tuned out rather quickly.

[@Buster01Actual]

Exactly.

[@rivalverse]

"I had no choice" is wild

[@altairibn-laahad2781]

I would have walked out of there and not look back

[@JustABeserkFan]

„I had no choice.“ Buuuuuuuuuuuuuuull……

[@DarkCerberuz]

1. Shame on her. 2. This Guy deserves to be cheated on for wearing his rank sign upside up!!!

[@Faagata21t]

Movie about getting dumped while at war. Me: can’t stop staring at shoulder rank

[@mrkiky]

"You think it was hard out there?" Haven't seen the movie but it seems he's in military uniform, so I'm guessing he was deployed. I'm sure it was much harder for her at home than for him. 🙄

[@mikef2811]

It happened right after 911. He and his team reenlisted.

[@omnione12]

I been deployed 13 times, and I will tell you this, no matter how hard you think your inconsiderate ass thinks it is back at home, its NEVER EVER as bad as it is for those who are deployed

[@snakeoids1]

Forgiveness is the path to healing Unforgiveness is the path to suffering

[@bryandavidson7375]

Wow that actress plays a cheater in alot of movies

[@shahuselectronicsandelectr5103]

A Man can bear and forgive everything but not cheating

[@ChadFollmer]

She's always playing a cheater. Must be good at it.

[@MuktarulHussainSarkar]

Movie name

[@Shingoat-s5v]

I think after this, TVA sent him to the Void.

[@TubeYouViewer12099]

Rewatching this I had another take: It wasn't that she COUDN'T, she DIDN'T WANT TO!

[@frost3193]

Man, why this actress have so many cheating woman roles? She's so familiar in cheating movie scenes, I won't be surprised if the actress is a cheater in real life.

[@jamshedkasim]

Same thoughts

[@CristianoRonaldo-so1dp]

What her name

[@sabbirkhan5427]

What the heck.... Is She literally said that "if she heard her husband voice she wouldn't cheat with some another Men" what kind of f"*"*king line is this!!!? 😡😡❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@TheInfectiousCadaver]

remember its a choice. they made it. dont deal with it for them. send em on their way.

[@sougotokiwa8439]

She really F'd Scott Fitzgerald. 😂

[@anthonylangevin1546]

Cheating is not a mistake. It is a choice if you're going to cheat, then leave the relationship at least that would be more respectful. Cause when you get caught, person loses all respect for you. And once you lose that respect and that trust there is no getting it back

[@StrikeDemonX]

Women that break boundaries by meeting guys alone when in a r/s. She's a ratchet and for the streets. Movies shouldn't let cheaters get the happy ending. Cheating is always wrong, show the person has low character.

[@scottm8076]

‘Didn’t have a choice’!?!? Pathetic. And he’s a simp!!! He deserves her betrayal for his weakness.

[@limitlesky]

The simp is an emotional fool. Somebody needs to help him. If you ever meet a simp like this, be careful not to call him a simp. Simps get very angry and defensive and will block us. They need support and not shame. Shame only makes them coil up in their little shell. Maybe it's best to fool the simp and take him out for some fun activities where he sees a different brighter side of life and understands life doesn't have to be about simping and crying.

[@johnbutler1323]

It's bugging the Hell out of me that his shoulder rank is upside down.

[@krpticspawn7069]

BRO WHY IS SHE ALWAYS A CHEATER IN EVERY MOVIE😭😭

[@LanceHanlonOutdoors]

Did they not see that his rank was upside down when they made this movie?

[@They_Call_Me_HeartFace]

Please just tell me she ain't comparing helping a """""""""""""""""sick""""""""""""""" person/father with a war vet on duty....

[@nostalgiawins8929]

“He needed me to help him with every hole!”

[@aaronsabin8868]

It's why I'll never marry again. My divorce is just about complete. Thank, God.

[@andrewamata]

'I had no choice'

[@matheussilvarodrigues3576]

It’s funny, right?

[@dobroutro8356]

Do not marry, do not engage.

[@theinconvenienttruth9260]

To be honest , I do have some empathy for her . He should have known that he can’t have a real relationship in his line of work. It’s not a real relationship if someone is gone for two years without contact . Especially as they’d only known each other for a summer vacation, he shouldn’t have got himself so emotionally involved

[@Spirit8930]

Everyone has a CHOICE

[@jhetttiernan2623]

You ALWAYS have a choice.

[@spinmaster0]

Him: I was on duty. People were trying to shoot me and blow me up. People who knew how. I had to sleep with one eye open. Her: You think you had it hard? I was lonely. And Chad was sick and needed my help! 🙄

[@Peace-zn5nb]

Cheating is a choice

[@matheussilvarodrigues3576]

You know, it’s funny to see that these people who cheat because their partner are ”not there” (like in this case, the guy seems to be a marine). Like, don’t they have anything better do to like speak with friends or family or do something besides cheating?

[@madkilla707]

Don't watch This Movie It's encourage Infidelity a Normal Thing Don't Marriage Is a Commitment Not a Duty

[@thelegionisnotamused8929]

Yo, fix Staff Sergeants chevrons. They flyin' upside down.

[@DemarcusCox-b3e]

I see the gaslighting is going strong whenever you off to military duty please don’t get into a serious relationship

[@The_Messenger1983]

I had no choice, you always have a choice you just picked the wrong one

[@sputnikalgrim]

Everyone has a choice, that choice is influenced by plenty of different things but it’s still a choice. You could choose to just break up with somebody and leave, you could choose to stay and struggle, but cheating is evil. Cheating seems like you’re doing something hoping to get caught because you want to hurt the other person. Once trust is gone you can never go back.

[@fatboy12G]

Dumby fell for the crocodile tears smh. What an embarrassment

[@TheShockVox]

I’ve seen like threee different videos on this channel about a lady cheating in three different movies. And the lady was Amanda Seyfried all three times. Is she typecast as a cheater?! That’s so weird, I thought I was tripping

[@angelus3406]

I can’t believe a guy would actually listen to that bs 😂

[@vezner]

Walk away. Forgiving that is stupid.

[@sibor8968]

His absence made her cheat? What a bs... Why doesnt she break up if she was so unhappy? He was like a plan B, if the other guy jumps of. I think thats the reason.

[@jaycornu3351]

yes i do think you wanna stand infront of him like that, every movie i see you in you're cheating on your man :"D

[@reevansingh21]

I never watched the movie but wow she cheated and made him feel sympathy for her for cheating that's rough she was the one who cheated and i must feel bad and show sympathy for you that's insane

[@reydez84]

She had the choice, this scene is stupid

[@cavemanjoe79]

I would have walked out.

[@danex2206]

I had no choice my ass

[@Ouwkackemann]

Are his shoulder epaulets upside down or am I wrong?

[@phillipschwoerke8374]

they are wrong

[@scottboning3542]

The staff sgt needs to fix his shoulder border rank

[@sandaruwijekoon2204]

If that's me..i'll let go her away and be single.....if someone can't keep your trust and loyalty to each hother....then leave her or him....

[@davidbailey1938]

My x wife answer was because he asked

[@Roddy_Zeh]

Damn. Sorry you had to go through that, friend. 😔 Imagine if you had a girl asking you to cheat on your wife and you accepted it. I wonder how she would've handled that. 🤔 Did she try contacting you or getting back together with you after the break-up?

[@davidbailey1938]

Nope

[@davidbailey1938]

My 2 .wife tried for better than ten years to get back I always said no

[@HalfKosher-g7n]

Is she a cheater in like alll the movies she’s in ?

[@Gabriel902884]

i hope in the movie he did not forgive her

[@mikef2811]

After her husband passed away. They saw each other again....I don't read books, but I got a feeling they got back together

[@monkiyaz]

What’s with Amanda Seyfried in these cheating roles?

[@xavier1417]

Real women have faith on their bf ....and its just excuse playing victim card .....why? If man can wait their love many years then why women cant ....

[@shari23]

Cheaters belongs to streets not in arms and these mf movies now days just teaching cheating to girls and to guys be nice guy and forgive them BC she wasn't know what she was doing like wtf is this is there really that much naive guys exist who forgive cheating if are then they are gay😂

[@gviswanaath]

What if that guy has cheated on her. Whether she will accept?

[@andrewgedge4015]

Your channel gets a lot of content from Amanda Seyfried. Does this woman just sign up everytime she's offered the role of a cheater? Wonder how faithful she is in real life...

[@dr.j1416]

So, she cheated on him with a B.S excuse and he still came to hug and comfort her? (Bruh) 🙄 Simp

[@khdmhd2947]

Guy is such a nice guy. He hugged her. I mean he is cuck for sure, but at least he understands her better now. Right? .....riiiight?....okay I don't really get it.

[@Denm_a]

Absence aint a fucking excuse for infidelity. If your ass can't wait for your partner but expect the absolute best from him or her, you should have never even gotten in a serious relationship in the first place

[@31aruca]

Simping 101.

[@mikef2811]

Fact! The only bigger simp was Forest Gump