YOUR CORRUPT SONS SHOULD BE ACCOUNTABLE! - EP 16 || BITTER TRUTH SHOW

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Ali Dawah

Ali Dawah

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@AliDawah
@AliDawah 11 ай бұрын
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@efe6153
@efe6153 11 ай бұрын
Im just asking but y dont u censor their faces or hair on the top or put a black blanket between yall? you can still talk
@ramindurrani1295
@ramindurrani1295 11 ай бұрын
Stop free mixing
@fouwad123
@fouwad123 11 ай бұрын
salam bro, can I contact u pls face to face, I can meet you.
@Quran_Reminders_Nasheeds
@Quran_Reminders_Nasheeds 11 ай бұрын
Salam brother, just a suggestion- you should invite sister Nafisa's pearlz on your show, she's really good, educated and very knowledgeable! I think she would contribute positively on the show! 😊
@lovestory20148
@lovestory20148 9 ай бұрын
We need Mahdi Tidjani in male + female discussions brother Ali. Don't mute the voices who share his opinions in our community.
@ABUBEKERSultan-es8lp
@ABUBEKERSultan-es8lp 11 ай бұрын
We need brother Hijab in all these discussions. He balances between our personal opininons and the Islamic understanding.
@Alonzo-Harris
@Alonzo-Harris 11 ай бұрын
yes, hijab will give everyone a free lesson in arabic especially on sura 65.4 🤣 hijab also said lying to your own wife is permissible 😂
@fatezero1919
@fatezero1919 11 ай бұрын
There is no "balance" between our own opinions and Quran/Sunnah. The revelation is always absolutely over our opinions
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
@@Alonzo-Harris it is permissible. He gave evidence.
@SupermanOG
@SupermanOG 11 ай бұрын
Hijab is above these podcasts to be on them everytime imo
@misterbk1791
@misterbk1791 11 ай бұрын
@@Alonzo-Harriswhich is true. You are allowed to lie your wife,
@ahmedaden3419
@ahmedaden3419 11 ай бұрын
So long we blame each other there’s no genuine conversation. It’s time we all go back to the Quran, read and act on it.
@usmaanmalik1047
@usmaanmalik1047 11 ай бұрын
Yes. This conversation is void of real Ilm. Shame. Ali is trying but he needs a scholar on these vids everytime
@revertakh1235
@revertakh1235 11 ай бұрын
At about 18 mins sister made a very profound point "men are spending more on vapes than sadaqa and zakat" that's wallahi so true
@shahee6579
@shahee6579 11 ай бұрын
More so boys tbh
@younesm4203
@younesm4203 11 ай бұрын
Don’t talk about „men“ in general
@user-no5vv4bb6e
@user-no5vv4bb6e 11 ай бұрын
If someone is chainsmoking I think they have bigger problems then paying zakat, that point is very dismissive and misleading.
@terroriz0r
@terroriz0r 10 ай бұрын
@@user-no5vv4bb6e what you just said is kufr
@farzananisar8626
@farzananisar8626 6 ай бұрын
Our bodies are an amanah. We should take care of ourselves. Tend to your needs first. Do not compete with one another. Work alongside each other. Alcohol is prohibited, doing drugs, shisha, smoking is an indulgence. Do not set a bad example. We observe the month of Ramadan with humility, give up food, drink for Allah's pleasure. No longer feel ashamed, no to peer pressure, love yourself, value yourself. Do not allow yourself to be abused. Continue praying salah, reading the Quran. Keep in touch with your parents. Show care, compassion, empathy, gentleness to one another. Maintain your hygiene, modesty.
@AliSidTex
@AliSidTex 9 ай бұрын
If a boy is unchaste, he does not risk becoming pregnant. But if a girl is unchaste, she risks becoming pregnant and the reduces her chance to find a husband who will respect her. That's why parents are far more protective of their daughter's chastity.
@erzascarlet5078
@erzascarlet5078 9 ай бұрын
And that’s why it should be on us to CHANGE this mindset! Allah swt literally created us HUMANS TO BE SINNERS (re- read that again as MANY times as you need to in order to comprehend). So shaming women for having a past is LITERALLY unislamic! (ESPECIALLY if she’s repented and never turned back to it again).
@AliSidTex
@AliSidTex 9 ай бұрын
@@erzascarlet5078 revulsion against women having an unchaste past is not something in the "mind". It's practical reality. It's like having a tatoo or gambling debt. Allah can forgive you for the sin and you can enter paradise. But in this world, you still have to deal with the practical consequences of your choices. You will lose all your respect from a man who values a chaste woman. And you will lose your status in a society. These are natural consequences. You cannot change this reality by forcing people to buy into your repentance theory. It's just like a former gambler can't force the bank to increase his credit score just because he claimed repentance for his mistakes. You gotta just deal with the consequences of your choices.
@nami20622
@nami20622 6 ай бұрын
There is something called “condom” not all women will get pregnant that does that mean she is not unchaste? She still is just like the man, but that’s her sin which she should not reveal!
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 5 ай бұрын
You want to tell that to Allah?, stop the brain gymnastic, islamic law of for both men and women. That mentality is culturally
@AliSidTex
@AliSidTex 5 ай бұрын
@@purplelove3666 it's not brain gymnastics or culture or religion. It's simple logic that explains why parents treat their children differently in ALL cultures. It's the same reason why parents are less gentle with their sons and put more pressure on them to get a job.
@Neil05
@Neil05 11 ай бұрын
Wallahi at the end I got the chills, a girl I know wants to meet up at her college dorm for a “sleepover” and in my heart I genuinely thought I could deceive Allah. I told myself I’m only going there to sleep over, when in reality I know what will happen if I open that door and enter that room. Im trying my best not to commit zina but it’s very hard, especially when you don’t watch those dirty videos and do haram acts. Allah has sent me signs aka this video as I got invited to this sleepover 30 minutes before watching this video. Please make dua I get married as soon as possible so that I can avoid this major sin.
@khadijasankoh1219
@khadijasankoh1219 11 ай бұрын
Subhan Allah, this show how much Allah loves you... We pray HE grants you the resilience and will power in overcoming this test Amin
@khadijasankoh1219
@khadijasankoh1219 11 ай бұрын
In Sha Allah you are in our dua
@hadeyoambaro1704
@hadeyoambaro1704 11 ай бұрын
Marry first brother, Zina is such a bad sin as you mentioned. May Allah swt keep you strong enough till marriage. Otherwise you will regret it forever if you fall into Zina, also look for a girl with the same level of iman. Not someone asking for sleep overs.
@nomadnature3728
@nomadnature3728 11 ай бұрын
Asalamu alaikum The prophet (sallallahu alayhi wa sallam) said (paraphrased) that the man who is called to zina by a beautiful and noble women, and refuses, will be under the shade of Allah on the day when there will be no shade. 😊 Hope this helps in motivating you.
@BruvahSulaiman
@BruvahSulaiman 11 ай бұрын
It's only as difficult as you make it. A very important ability you need to work on is the ability to be comfortable with silence. No one forces you to have conversations, and hardly anyone reaches the point of committing zina without conversations taking place first. Simply don't speak to women unless necessary, and when you speak, get to the point quickly and move on. Absolutely no small talk whatsoever.
@kikikoko607
@kikikoko607 11 ай бұрын
The 90's and early 2000's (when I embraced Islam) were really like this. The boys were often sinful, while their sisters practiced Islam. But now the fitnah already entered the homes via smartphones and social media. The girls are lost, too. Even if their wear hejab sometimes.
@tiktokasylum5186
@tiktokasylum5186 11 ай бұрын
It always starts with the man
@masterbaits4108
@masterbaits4108 11 ай бұрын
​@@tiktokasylum5186Ohh so that's why the majority of the hellfire will be occupied by women.. right right. We must work on the boys!
@noreenbi9079
@noreenbi9079 11 ай бұрын
​@@tiktokasylum5186 Well said
@noreenbi9079
@noreenbi9079 11 ай бұрын
It's tge parents fault. They need 2 educate the sons and daughters
@Sa7biUK
@Sa7biUK 9 ай бұрын
The girls are even more lost now with the woke-feminist agenda being pushed via social media. But all you hear from the women is 'b b b but rEd pILL'
@aa-fw2pw
@aa-fw2pw 11 ай бұрын
For those wondering why the women aren't showing accountability - the debate in and of itself is about the shortcomings of men in our society. If it was about the shortcomings of women, then they would be talking about that. If you listen closely, they talk about the mothers who enable these bad habits in their sons and how women should raise their sons better.
@BruvahSulaiman
@BruvahSulaiman 11 ай бұрын
The irony of ppl complaining in the comments about the accountability of women is that they are only complaining because they refuse to hold themselves accountable for their inability to comprehend that this discussion is specifically about the issue of corrupt men.
@aa-fw2pw
@aa-fw2pw 11 ай бұрын
@BruvahSulaiman Exactly. You've hit the nail right on the head!
@cooljool1
@cooljool1 11 ай бұрын
this discussion is retarded as most of the corruption is not from the men or the women for that matter@@BruvahSulaiman
@user-no5vv4bb6e
@user-no5vv4bb6e 11 ай бұрын
​​​​​@@BruvahSulaimanI know plenty of men who are accountable for their sins, who don't lie to themselves about the fact that they are sinning to make themselves feel better. To claim that muslim women take responsibility at the same rate for their behaviors/sins is false, dishonest and takes away from any kind of constructive conversation. At the end of the day you are an adult and another adult isn't responsible for the way YOU conduct yourself. Also, if you're talking about one gender, naturally, it shouldn't be surprising if the other gender becomes the topic of discussion, especially if you're being told that you're the reason the other gender is committing sins.
@BruvahSulaiman
@BruvahSulaiman 11 ай бұрын
@@user-no5vv4bb6e 😮‍💨
@UncleGirliePop
@UncleGirliePop 9 ай бұрын
I agree there is a MASSIVE issue with young muslim men NOT being held to the standard of hijab and modesty as young women! Wallahi, before converting the endless stories from friends and other non muslim girls about muslim boys sleeping around, having girlfriends and leaving them afyer theyve achieved zina bwcause "my family would never accept you" completely breaking these non muslim women. Flaying their hearts, disrespecting them and their honour so they can have what theh wish from her and leave to have nikka with a muslima whom they insist be a virgin!! Its disgusting! The amount of drug dealers and weed smokers and partiers from young muslim men!
@MessiWorldCup-th2de
@MessiWorldCup-th2de 8 ай бұрын
How many women In the panel wear hijab none can’t preach modesty if u have none men and women are the same women are failures so are the men but men accept it women blaming men
@707tich
@707tich 8 ай бұрын
I am not Muslim I’m 36 (I highly respect those that are Muslim)My best freind from school her husband beat her it’s affected the kids his dad severely would beat his mum. She left after 9 years she’s completely tarnished. She’s a calm KIND devote Muslim woman. No one’s daughter needs hands on them. I agree with Ali. The fathers need to properly address, teach and lead correctly to there sons as muslim properly.
@astghferseb724
@astghferseb724 11 ай бұрын
َ'' What led you into Hell Fire? They will say: 'We were not of those who prayed.'” (Qur'an, 74:42-43) 🌹Don't forget your five daily prayers🌹
@studywithshiza8065
@studywithshiza8065 11 ай бұрын
Sorry as a woman I have seen a hijabi dating a Muslim man in my uni. Laughing and touching him. It's not only some men but some women too. Hayaa should be a priority for both genders. Don't only judge men pls, you will end up making toxic feminist srsly (like the ones that disrespect men even though what they say is correct by Islam). Like if you keep blaming only men for doing all the bad stuff, you are giving the sinning women the chance to run away and do bad stuff and not get away with it. What's gonna happen then? TOXIC FEMINISM duh! Cause some sinning women will use this "feminism" as an excuse like for example: "You cannot say this to me, I am a woman" or "It's not my fault". You do know that toxic feminism is in the rise then why are you blaming only one gender??? This topic of hayaa should be on both genders NOT one. PLEASE STOP ✋ (Edit: I would like to add that we should train both our sons and daughters about Hayaa, and sinning men or women should be punished equally)
@Altair-El-Haddad
@Altair-El-Haddad 11 ай бұрын
Based. May Allah bless you with a righteous husband.
@sarfun
@sarfun 11 ай бұрын
Perfectly said, it seems everyone just loves to lay all the blame on men for some reason and expect it to have positive outcomes. As you said it just boosts this toxic feminism that we see in many Muslim women today. Instead of blaming one gender we must call out both genders on their sins, this is the balanced and correct path that won’t make any gender feel superior/inferior to the other.
@zuhasbekillin3461
@zuhasbekillin3461 11 ай бұрын
Fax and also im tired of hearing red pill all day😂
@studywithshiza8065
@studywithshiza8065 11 ай бұрын
@@Altair-El-Haddad thank you brother, had to raise this issue.
@studywithshiza8065
@studywithshiza8065 11 ай бұрын
@@sarfun exactly, because of gender wars and forgiving one gender of their sin and blaming the other has stemmed these "Modern Issues" in our society.
@keepitreelcatfishing5883
@keepitreelcatfishing5883 11 ай бұрын
Never underestimate a woman’s ability to perform mental gymnastics in order to avoid accountability
@axis2312
@axis2312 11 ай бұрын
Many women without a strong father figure present or a father who doesn't treat his daughter like a perpetual princess (who just has to cry to get her way) will avoid accountability. Ironically this is the case for men too, who instead of taking accountability, will resort to anger and physical violence. Women and men who haven't developed mental maturity or taught about negative consequences resort to bad coping mechanisms. The presence of good father figure is so crucial
@zuhasbekillin3461
@zuhasbekillin3461 11 ай бұрын
Fax😂
@-glitch-8195
@-glitch-8195 11 ай бұрын
@Babycake.Don't you just love how they hate it when we match their energy? 😂😂😂😂They always stress accountability for women, while they advocate leadership for men. You hold the responsibility, while he holds the glory.
@sarahnovella4971
@sarahnovella4971 11 ай бұрын
​@Babycake.😂😂😂😂
@JEAGERlST
@JEAGERlST 11 ай бұрын
​​@@axis2312violence? Every guy knows if he throws hands there's an instant fireback to it.
@Livebetter77
@Livebetter77 11 ай бұрын
Islam is beautiful , I used to be Christian but I’m thinking of coming to Islam as it’s the last defence against the new world order. If Islam gets corrupted from the inside we are doomed.
@lvlygakrb
@lvlygakrb 11 ай бұрын
Some followers might go stray due to their lack of knowledge and research about Islam but Islam will never be corrupted. Some of Non believers in power are doing their best to show case a wrong definition of Islam but no one was able to nor will be able to fulfill this intention to destroy the image of Islam. Islam has taken care of past events and facts and future claim on its accuracy as word of Allah (SWT).
@Livebetter77
@Livebetter77 11 ай бұрын
@@lvlygakrb see Christians used to live true to the book but then they stopped taking there faith seriously I just hope the same doesn’t happen to Islam but god willing it will not.
@harrytenn4867
@harrytenn4867 11 ай бұрын
​@Livebetter865 Its bound to happen in the coming future. Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, told us as we reach end of times come near, shamlessness will be rampant, very few will be truly believing. But that should not discourage us to strive to be among the good ones. ISLAM will never change, but people 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️
@MoorfHiden-wq2ou
@MoorfHiden-wq2ou 11 ай бұрын
​@@Livebetter77 You said you used to be a christian. According to Bible. Who is the one who sends us prophets and messengers?
@zerowilde
@zerowilde 11 ай бұрын
Only convert if you believe in the prophet mohammed (saw) and worship Allah (God) alone. We believe Jeasus is a prophet and not son of God and do not worship prophets, only Allah. If so then feel free to join. Few have misconception to join islam but practice christianity such as not believibg in the prophet mohammed (SAW) and pray to Jeasus instead of Allah. Hope this helps. But it starts with understand and with you 👍 Islam is a good peaceful life
@Just_Fiza
@Just_Fiza 8 ай бұрын
Yes, you should be equally tough on both men and women while raising them to meet different expectations (or surviving different societal expectations) to adhere to what Allah SWT and his Prophet SAW have told us to do.
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 5 ай бұрын
Not different. Societal expectations ,Islamic law is for all men and women when it comes to characteristics
@annabellafritz6233
@annabellafritz6233 7 ай бұрын
We need to change the way clothing, I made and educate both men and women
@ismaelmohamed7780
@ismaelmohamed7780 11 ай бұрын
This whole thing about daughters at home while the sons are outside doing madnesses is a exaggerated lie I’ve seen just as much daughters that are crazy as the sons but women don’t like to say anything disparaging about their gender but will make huge generalisations about the other
@Altair-El-Haddad
@Altair-El-Haddad 11 ай бұрын
Exactly, i see more sisters being out and doing crazy stuff whereas the guys staying at home these days 😂😂. Not to mention the shenanigans they do and act like they won't have to face the consequences of it.
@marytheraspberry3145
@marytheraspberry3145 11 ай бұрын
Some households let guys get away with things that are wrong. The girls undergo consequences of their behavior, but not the guys. Doesn't make sense. Punish both.
@Irfan__
@Irfan__ 11 ай бұрын
Truuue, not to mention that it's clear the brothers nowadays they might have their problems they're way more religously serious than the sisters
@hadjokhan6576
@hadjokhan6576 11 ай бұрын
A majority is not like that, and you know that. Our culture is like that. I am Moroccan. My brothers, male cousins etc. Are always outside at night. None and i mean NO ONE of my sisters, female cousins ever go out at night. Unthinkable! Which is good. But men also have nothing to do outside after the sun is down and everything is closed except haraam places.
@ismaelmohamed7780
@ismaelmohamed7780 11 ай бұрын
@@marytheraspberry3145key word “some” but they talk about it like it’s the majority or it’s always happening
@GokuBlack-sn5dr
@GokuBlack-sn5dr 11 ай бұрын
subhannallah sister with the convertible hijab talking about girls being good sitting at home and the boys are at the streets smoking weed. Go outside at the right time and you'll see plenty of sisters with their boyfriends.
@Falasteen7urra
@Falasteen7urra 11 ай бұрын
Maybe she's talking about her own generation. As someone born in the 80s that's certainly what it was like for us. We don't know what the newer generation is up to as we're now parents with young children with our own social circles. Sometimes its hard to believe things would change so drastically in 10-15yrs 🤷‍♀️
@shahee6579
@shahee6579 11 ай бұрын
​@@Falasteen7urraso maybe the old heads shouldnt talk without knowledge about the youth . We are the youth, and as a teen muslim boys and girls are commiting zina with each other
@Falasteen7urra
@Falasteen7urra 11 ай бұрын
@@shahee6579 I don’t think older generations ever really know as our parents were also very misinformed about what kids our age got up to so I’d imagine it’ll always be the case with every upcoming generation that’ll deal with its own set of challenges. Either way, I think the point is that parents should be vigilant with their daughters and sons equally.
@razer0072073
@razer0072073 11 ай бұрын
When's the last time you've seen a woman take accountability?
@Altair-El-Haddad
@Altair-El-Haddad 11 ай бұрын
I can tell this is gonna be a goofy one cause most guys, let alone Muslim guys, don't even get a chance to begin with and are single whereas it's not the same for the sisters cause they're having "fun" with the non-believing guys.
@jayjay6357
@jayjay6357 11 ай бұрын
Never
@Altair-El-Haddad
@Altair-El-Haddad 11 ай бұрын
@Babycake. I'm not talking about myself here, I'm not a part of the majority who don't get any positive reinforcements from the opposite gender. I'm just stating the obvious reality.
@Altair-El-Haddad
@Altair-El-Haddad 11 ай бұрын
@Babycake. If it makes you sleep well at night then sure.
@Altair-El-Haddad
@Altair-El-Haddad 11 ай бұрын
@Babycake. Facts do? Then why'd you lie to me about having a husband and then when I asked you for his IG, to see what a real man is (as you claimed), to meet him irl, you simply said he's got no SM but you do and you dropped yours and quickly yeeted it. Too bad for you, I checked it, and it was a profile of a 15 year old girl who gets pictures from Pinterest and adds different fonts on their profile to make it seem "aesthetic". Let's not play this game.
@BruvahSulaiman
@BruvahSulaiman 11 ай бұрын
Having a good spouse won't earn you any reward in the hereafter and having a bad spouse won't earn you any punishment. Ppl focus on the wrong things because their primary motivation is having what they desire and not pursuing the pleasure of Allah.
@shahee6579
@shahee6579 11 ай бұрын
A good spouse can make dua for you continuously when you die
@BruvahSulaiman
@BruvahSulaiman 11 ай бұрын
@@shahee6579 So can all the ppl you help if you don't waste time wallowing in self pity.
@America_1st_the.rest.r_last
@America_1st_the.rest.r_last 11 ай бұрын
That's not true. There's many mentions of what is considered mandatory between spouses, and then there's acts considered good deeds. Make sure you research for 2nd and 3rd or 4th opinions on the matter before just taking the first person's word for it. It's best to go along with the majority of consensus within scholars of Islam. Don't go with what you feel or think is right.
@BruvahSulaiman
@BruvahSulaiman 11 ай бұрын
@a7md69 What wasn't true? Objectively, having a good spouse won't earn you any reward, just like having a good brother won't earn you any reward. Their deeds are not what you will be judged for. Their aqidah is not what you will be asked about. Prophets had spouses and children who went astray, and none of those prophets were punished alongside their wives or children, while none of those who went astray were saved by the righteousness of their spouse. There is no difference of opinion on what I am stating, but feel free to ask your Imam about it. At-Tahrim (66:11) And Allah sets forth an example for the believers: the wife of Pharaoh, who prayed, “My Lord! Build me a house in Paradise near You, deliver me from Pharaoh and his ˹evil˺ doing, and save me from the wrongdoing people.” Nothing is an act of worship without the correct intention, and on average, people don't even know the meaning of intention, let alone how to develop a pure intention.
@1Loveneverends
@1Loveneverends 11 ай бұрын
@@BruvahSulaiman🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Dianeek9
@Dianeek9 11 ай бұрын
I am not proud when I say that between 20 and 25, my first 5 years as muslim, I did not wear hijab or any head covering although dressing modestly, and didn't even pray on time, most of the times. But at least I never dated AlhamduliLlah, not as a revert and not before either. I met my husband only twice in public spaces before marrying him, AlhamduliLlah, and a pious husband helped me becoming a better Muslima. Now I even wear the face veil. So don't be too fast on judging by the appearance. The environment you are in, can make the difference and help you strengthening your Iman.
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
My sister, congratulations to you for embracing the religion of Islam and wearing the hijab. You are very strong because you endured covering your face even though you tried not wearing the hijab. I mean, it is a big transition from not wearing a hijab at all to covering your face. I cover my face and wear a black abaya because I am from Saudi Arabia and all of my family does that, even young girls. However, I am not the biggest supporter of the hijab. I am amazed when I see women like you who like to cover their faces I'm not against you, but I'm just amazed
@chillbeediva1803
@chillbeediva1803 11 ай бұрын
LADIES there is no point debating among the opposite sides. you live this life, like you are here to find love. But you aren’t. You are here to build your Aakhirah. You are here to find Allah. Do not waste your youth, brooding over one of the many people that will cross your path, perhaps they were a trial and I pray, you gain the best out of it. Spend your time investing in your eternal life. That is a life worth living, unlike this Dunya. The more you try to hold on this world, the less you will hold on to the next. And Allah know how worthless this world is, that is why He never asked you to let it’s burdens weigh you down. They must help you rise, instead. As for the people they will come and go and some may even stay but nobody is worth loving more then your Rabb. So change your priorities from this red pill and blue pill nonsense and focus on your relationship with your Maker. Until you learn to truly love your Creator, you will able to love his Creation. And when you love your Creator the people who deserve to be in your life will come and find you. Your task here is to find Allah. Your purpose here is to cross the bridge between this life and the next. And never let this Dunya make you forget that. For the MAN if you don’t intend to marry her keep your hands off another man future wife. And If you do intend to marry her keep your hand off until she is your wife.
@studywithshiza8065
@studywithshiza8065 11 ай бұрын
This is so true. Preach!
@roosworld4910
@roosworld4910 11 ай бұрын
Appreciate this topic and everyone's contribution.
@user-ts4ol4xg3t
@user-ts4ol4xg3t 11 ай бұрын
If we raise our sons correctly according to Quran an sunnah then our daughters alhamdolillah will not go astray! When we allow our sons to become haram an live like non Muslim men then our sisters will go astray! We can not put pressure on our sisters an daughters if we ourselves as men live like non Muslims because that will never work 100%. So in a nutshell if us ourselves men an our sons are raised correctly according to Quran an sunnah then our daughters an our sisters will follow in sha Allah
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 5 ай бұрын
First of all you raising your son's to go according to the Sunnah ,HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WOMEN GOING ASTRAY,,WOMEN ARE INDIVIDUALS NOT DOGS,
@The-Zaynab
@The-Zaynab 11 ай бұрын
Yes in Islam modesty is not just looks but still Islam should not be blamed when Muslims misbehave, we are just imperfect human beings Train your sons as much as you train your daughters Infact these days sons need more attention because when damaged, it’s hard to retrieve
@user-no5vv4bb6e
@user-no5vv4bb6e 11 ай бұрын
Excusing misdeeds by saying we are just imperfect beings is a very Christian approach that I see a lot of Muslims adopting these days
@SK-gm7ge
@SK-gm7ge 11 ай бұрын
You sounds like liberal. Don't raise son and daughter as same raise them as men and women.
@johncharles4146
@johncharles4146 11 ай бұрын
This girls arent wearing the hijab, properly why are you having them on your podcast ALI
@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564
@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 11 ай бұрын
Careful. He'll tell you that you have no knowledge, even if you studied in Madinah for 8 years.
@ImenBen12
@ImenBen12 11 ай бұрын
Amira is a huge asset on this show! I just love how she articulates herself so well and has amazing ideas. MashaAllah!!
@moviegoerz
@moviegoerz 11 ай бұрын
she's a hypocrite, be careful when people speak in a slick way
@MushDog789
@MushDog789 11 ай бұрын
She’s a hypocrite and at times speaks about matters she doesn’t have any knowledge which is sad coz at times she makes good points.
@FactsCanHurt
@FactsCanHurt 11 ай бұрын
I have to agree with the commentators... the opinion and view trumps what it is... the approach is imbalanced a lot of the time.
@aa-fw2pw
@aa-fw2pw 11 ай бұрын
We're not in a position to call her a hypocrite. Only Allah can make that judgement of her
@moviegoerz
@moviegoerz 11 ай бұрын
@@aa-fw2pw only hypocrites speak that way
@Alinsouth
@Alinsouth 11 ай бұрын
A woman’s hair is ‘awrah and she must cover it; this applies to all of her body except the face and hands. Hence she must make sure to cover her hair with a headcover in such a way that none of her hair sticks out from it.
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
Most of the sister in the sof are talking about men not covering the awrah but they have their hair exposed.
@noahark1038
@noahark1038 11 ай бұрын
This is a fresh a fit muslim version
@Alonzo-Harris
@Alonzo-Harris 11 ай бұрын
In islame, women have to dress up like ninjas because their husbands are frequently beating them (sura 4.34)
@zakirchoudhury9206
@zakirchoudhury9206 11 ай бұрын
Well done on ignoring the whole topic of the conversation and focusing on women.
@noahark1038
@noahark1038 11 ай бұрын
@@zakirchoudhury9206 If you see wrong you must speak out regardless of gender
@axis2312
@axis2312 11 ай бұрын
Honour has nothing to do with beauty, it's to do with respect and esteem. Men and women are respected for many of the same things with few differences in between, such as social conduct, character and morals. We need to stop using the West's method of acquiring data and social analysis and projecting those results on muslims, we absolutely operate differently so we should not make conclusions about the male and female nature based on their findings. The muslims in the West do not represent Eastern cultures or the rest of the ummah and this sort of attitude is exactly what you guys are trying to debunk in this episode but you're falling into the same pitfalls, you're seeing honour from the eyes of the orientalists, who use Judeo Christian values and project that on our women and our men. Eastern men don't have the baggage of Judeo Christian values where they literally view women as the fall of humanity, our men give their lives to protect the women of their society, and our women support entire lineages, we are not the same as them even though we have now adopted some of their ways through colonialism and social media. Let's start from what we should be doing according to Qur'an and Sunnah and admonishing every single cultural act that contradicts that.
@Tomf-tz4pd
@Tomf-tz4pd 11 ай бұрын
Judeo-Christian (JC) doctrine does not view woman as the fall of humanity. And it is countries whose heritage arises from JC that you know your daughters will have all the freedoms and privileges she can ever which for as compared to Islamic countries. Talking about protecting women etc .. isn’t this the very channel that was advocating polygamy and secret wives ??? I had never seen so much cognitive dissonance in women until I read the comment section for this video. I speak for all Sons Of God on Earth who will continue to follow God's true Prophets and Apostles who teach these Judeo-Christian values which tell us to marry only one woman (1 Timothy 3:2, Genesis 2:23), treat older women as my mother and young women as my sister with absolute purity (1 Timothy 5:2), never divorce your wife except for sexual immorality, (Matthew 5:32), even if she commits sexual immorality as much as possible forgive her (Hosea 1:2-4), treat your wife with love and respect and die for her if need be (Ephesians 5:25-33), not look lustfully at a women (Matthew 5:28-29), and never take advantage of a women (1 Thessalonians 4:6). Ps- I remember watching Harvard university school of medicine 2023 Valedictorian .. a female Muslim refugee… who in her speech was unapologetic of her Muslim identity and rightly so.. nevertheless where she was I l thought to myself was not because of Islamic values. The irony an institution whose origin motto was “Everyone shall consider as the main end of his life and studies, to know God and Jesus Christ, which is eternal life” is what got her there. You talk about western men viewing women as the fall of humanity.. look at the statistics.. where will your daughter be protected and thrive with her freedom.. the west or countries that uphold the values you r eastern men observe
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
No offense, sisters are talking about men not covering their awrah while there are sisters not with proper hijab in the panel.
@hasnain8559
@hasnain8559 11 ай бұрын
I agree but that doesn't mean the sisters opinion are invalid
@shahee6579
@shahee6579 11 ай бұрын
​@@hasnain8559true, but it looks pretty silly
@NaziraKarimi4President
@NaziraKarimi4President 11 ай бұрын
It is called hypocrisy
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
@@hasnain8559 Sisters are being hypocritical, saying that brothers are not doing this and not doing that, zina, vaping, weed, wearing shorts but women are just as bad. Brothers know when they are bad but these women genuinely believe their hypocrisy, this is why they feel comfortable pointing finger at brothers modesty for wearing shorts while they are wearing convertible hijabs and flamingo eye lashes to quote akhi ayman. If brothers are wearing shorts because their parents are only strict with their daughters then why are these women not wearing hijab the right way? Muslim girls, including hijabis are not having boyfriends? Look at uni campuses. Many Muslim men wear shorts? now many Muslim women do not even wear the hijab. How many that wear it, do it properly? How many women wear hijab while being caked up in make up. How many post pics of them in make up on social media? Zina? No? Who are Muslim men having as their haram girlfriends? Its normally with other Muslim girls, not men with a wig.
@Brooke-rh8hy
@Brooke-rh8hy 11 ай бұрын
@@93boxing81 Muslim men aren’t being honor killed for showing awrah. it’s the women that are being killed for being accused of zina even when they were raped
@leslieblue5920
@leslieblue5920 11 ай бұрын
I am from a western country (now Muslim). My irish Roman catholic upbringing didn't allow me to be week. I was raised with too much freedom and no boundaries and not to depend upon any males. It was very difficult to set boundaries when raised to have no limits! Becouse of this as a woman, I got hurt a lot no sense of direction and no guidance. So when I had kids of my own I refused to bring up my sons and niece to: "play" with their bodies with other people emotions. To not have guidance To not have standards And to believe that it's free! I raised 2 men and a niece as a single mother. I made sure that they knew they needed to have a high standard of quality vs quantity when it came to potential wife/husband. I don't believe in "play" and then you find a "pure" partner and I brought them up to have respect for themselves and not put themselves into situations that question their own morals. I did a lot of "would you allow someone else to do it to if you had.. your own son, daughter, mother? No!? well they ARE someone's son, daughter... don't do it.. your not an animal ". and your body is a temple take care of it and don't play Russian roulette by sleeping with this one and that one she can give you STDs too! And it's not different for your cousin because she's a girl.. rules are the same for her too.
@Livebetter77
@Livebetter77 11 ай бұрын
Yes Catholicism is the worst type of Christianity cause they do to much idol worship. It’s really corrupted. But I’m glad you managed to escape. ❤
@JEAGERlST
@JEAGERlST 11 ай бұрын
No hate but how are you gonna talk about awrah when yours isn't covered. Let's not be hypocrites.
@MOTHUG786
@MOTHUG786 9 ай бұрын
Brother Ali Dawah, how come you're not bringing this conversation back to Qur'an and sunnah?
@Starzig123
@Starzig123 11 ай бұрын
An example is the Qatar World Cup. Muslims globally were happy with Saudi Arabia and morrocos performance. BUT there was no "shock" with their uniform like their shorts. Even Islamic channels like ilm feed and one path foundation were talking about the good things but never talked about the modesty of mens football clothing. Even some Dawahs channels did the same.
@SOS0799
@SOS0799 11 ай бұрын
People need to stop making excuses that hijab is not just about covering. It needs to be wholistic. The same sister arguing this has not even fullfilled actual hijab. You know the command is to cover, if you know all that why are you not fulfiling it as a whole? She trying to basicslly excuse herself for not covering accordingly. Your excuses are not ok.
@Top_o_da_foodDChain
@Top_o_da_foodDChain 11 ай бұрын
These sisters are not qualified to talk about what hijab is. They’re awra is exposed! Subhan’Allah!
@M7M-4
@M7M-4 13 күн бұрын
Are you a male? If yes, you have no right to talk
@Top_o_da_foodDChain
@Top_o_da_foodDChain 13 күн бұрын
@@M7M-4 you don’t give me my rights 🤪
@M7M-4
@M7M-4 13 күн бұрын
@@Top_o_da_foodDChain then mind your business as a male. No respect nor shame. Astargfirullah
@Top_o_da_foodDChain
@Top_o_da_foodDChain 13 күн бұрын
@@M7M-4 my wife is my business. Islam is my business. Your opinion isn’t my business and so I don’t care about it. 🤪
@M7M-4
@M7M-4 13 күн бұрын
@Top_o_da_foodDChain look you tropical bird. Go dance for your wife I don't care. What a waste of time
@wajeehkhan6295
@wajeehkhan6295 11 ай бұрын
one of the most things that women didn't discover is accountability.
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
Exactly. These sisters want to talk about men not fulfilling their Islamic duties and hijab and modesty while 3 out of these 4 sisters are wearing convertible hijabs
@Alonzo-Harris
@Alonzo-Harris 11 ай бұрын
ali dawah wants to marry his 9 year old daughter to a 40 year old
@brumtownmiller6130
@brumtownmiller6130 11 ай бұрын
@@93boxing81that still doesn’t change the facts that they said and your proving them right. Many men and boys aren’t doing what they’re supposed to but instead of discussing why or ways to better men which will intern also help women and the community, you jump straight to women bad!
@Snowyblazer
@Snowyblazer 11 ай бұрын
@@brumtownmiller6130 no its literally the other way around. If Woman would be fit feminine submissive etc men on mass would be more masculine but thanks to feminism and social media beeing a man in 2023 and forward is deemed as something bad (toxic masculinity) so there is no motivation for men anymore to go out and work hard and make that money because woman are not woman any more there is a reason why the saying 'the juice aint worth the squeeze' is more popular among men then when it was invented years ago. Trust me these sisters can do all that talking but they only want a real man until they get one. And i say that because a man that is dominant a provider etc, will have expectations on the woman too and most woman these days dont want that. They just wanna sit at home, have fun with their girlfriends and look pretty.
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
@@brumtownmiller6130 you are talking about how the brothers are not doing the right thing more so than the sisters, but me pointing point the sisters are not covering the awrah (while talking about men not covering their awrah) for example shows that the sisters are equally not doing the right thing. Me point this out disproved the whole topic. It would be unacceptable for a brother to wear shorts in the show talking about women not wearing the hijab properly. Same thing here. This is common. This is why women without hijab will comment on Andrew tates photo 2 weeks after he became a Muslim on why he has no haya.
@m.haslam8495
@m.haslam8495 10 ай бұрын
Why is it that the only girl wearing the headscarf correctly is the one with a brown scarf. The other three you can see their hair.
@bikeboi821
@bikeboi821 7 ай бұрын
Educate the boys
@NekoEspada
@NekoEspada 11 ай бұрын
I don't think I've ever seen this topic brought up ever. This is sadly very common in western countries, a lot of fake muslims (or relgious people in general) like Fouseytube for example who say they're muslim, while they willingly engage in sin when the cameras are off.
@Itsprincessangelb
@Itsprincessangelb 11 ай бұрын
I’ve really been enjoying this show but it’s such a shame that the host has such a warped understanding of sex. “It is done to you” very weird way of looking at such a sacred intimate activity with your partner.
@endoneezer
@endoneezer 11 ай бұрын
whos the G that got his face blurred? yet we can freely see all the women?
@wassaaa710
@wassaaa710 11 ай бұрын
Exactly
@PkOrPvp
@PkOrPvp 11 ай бұрын
Maybe he asked for his face to be blurred
@endoneezer
@endoneezer 11 ай бұрын
@PkOrPvp wot is he that pretty ? Fitna for the ladies hey
@hennam
@hennam 11 ай бұрын
No one's forcing you to look, just look away and listen instead, simple.
@shahee6579
@shahee6579 11 ай бұрын
As a man he is a fitnah for me
@GlassmindProject
@GlassmindProject 11 ай бұрын
For some reason I felt the pressure on this episode and muddled my words, forgot what I wanted to say a few times. Very frustrating, never the less, enjoy the episode.
@ABCD-tx1gs
@ABCD-tx1gs 11 ай бұрын
Salam alikum Brother Michael
@GlassmindProject
@GlassmindProject 11 ай бұрын
@@ABCD-tx1gs walaikum as salam brother
@smurfanb348
@smurfanb348 11 ай бұрын
Dont worry brother, you did better than I could do😂, may Allah bless you
@GlassmindProject
@GlassmindProject 11 ай бұрын
@@floki5182 Black Jumper
@PacoKlax
@PacoKlax 11 ай бұрын
May Allah bless you brother Mickael, you are a G From the brother who told you a story about his prayer mat 😉
@sayeeed1303
@sayeeed1303 11 ай бұрын
Most non religious Muslims are women. Majority of sins committed publicly are by Muslim women. Muslim women literally publicly sin while wearing the hijab. Also, if women have problem with the double standard that men are allowed to go out late at night and women are not, then they should also complain about other double standards such as, boys expected to do all the heavy lifting, fathers being more strict towards thier son compared to thier daughter, boys expected to stay out late night to work and provide for the family, boys expected to pick up thier sisters, physically diciplining the son and not the daughter etc.
@ma_iii
@ma_iii 11 ай бұрын
That’s a very good point
@MH-bf4uu
@MH-bf4uu 11 ай бұрын
Most of the time, males are preferred in many cultures and the daughters are expected to do all the housework whereas sons can relax. Also reflect on yourself reading the first statement. Dont make claims like that based on your biased view. Its like saying most non religious people are black people because thats what youve seen in the town you live in perhaps. One more thing- ofc hijabis are going to sin, nobody is perfect, id rather be a public sinner whilst wearing hijab than a public sinner without wearing hijab because at least you are following something god has ordained
@Altair-El-Haddad
@Altair-El-Haddad 11 ай бұрын
@@MH-bf4uu typical red herring of a woman 😂😂
@Falasteen7urra
@Falasteen7urra 11 ай бұрын
How on earth could you make such a claim so confidently😂 astaghfirullah I didn’t know a mere mortal could have such knowledge of all the Muslim women of the world to make such ridiculous claims🙄 I don’t know what unicorn culture you belong to but in most Muslim cultures, society and family is always much harder on women. Men are allowed all the perks and none of the responsibility in most households. Boys talking to girls? No one cares. Girls talking to boys and every male member of the family has a right to give her hell for it. Boys committing zina? You may get a slap on the wrist at the very worst. Girls committing zina and sometimes even if only ‘suspected’ of it? Disownment, beating or death is the most likely scenario you’ll face. I barely know of any father that is stricter with their sons where it matters. Boys are generally spoilt and rarely expected to lift a finger at home. My female cousins who work actually take better care of their parents and pitch in financially more than my male cousins so in my experience many guys aren’t even providing right anymore 😂 Basically my personal experience is the complete opposite of your claims but even then I won’t act as though men are much worse in general worldwide.
@user-lt3nw9pm8j
@user-lt3nw9pm8j 11 ай бұрын
Red pillers have arrived.
@MOTHUG786
@MOTHUG786 9 ай бұрын
Bro, you should ask them, how often they share their selfies with the world wide web... She might have hijab, but the whole world has now seen her. Is that ok?
@sharissharee-pm2kq
@sharissharee-pm2kq 11 ай бұрын
In regards of what the sisters said about daughters being tough i agree with her stop raising girls to be fragile the world moves forward it gets more dangerous girls need to know how to be tough.
@JDNR30k
@JDNR30k 11 ай бұрын
Can you make the next podcast about women?
@Brooke-rh8hy
@Brooke-rh8hy 11 ай бұрын
He has a bunch about women….
@jayr3938
@jayr3938 11 ай бұрын
Joker 😂😂😂
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
Women are not a football team Just because we were born with the same reproductive organ, does not mean that we are all the same. Every woman is her self
@ariahdestiny5594
@ariahdestiny5594 11 ай бұрын
I've noticed in the past few episodes that a door is constantly opening and closing and it's pretty distratcing. Maybe something to look at :)
@America_1st_the.rest.r_last
@America_1st_the.rest.r_last 11 ай бұрын
Ya, get some WD-40 and spray those hinges
@Young_z_dawah
@Young_z_dawah 11 ай бұрын
This sister here at the right side is making a good point, modesty should also include how you speak, you can't be wearing hijabi as a Muslim woman but you're still using the abusive words paharps backbiting people you know envious all of these things should be apply the way you talk the way your positive characters respect for everyone
@-glitch-8195
@-glitch-8195 11 ай бұрын
The last point that the Somali sister highlighted is true. Men in general can't handle pain. So women are emotional proxies for them. If they were to face each other man to man, it'll end in violence so they have proxy battles instead. It's pure cowardice behavior. This is one of the many reasons I openly discriminated against brothers with a past. So I'm supposed to uphold honor while he doesn't have to? Whats the point in that? Alhamdulilah since I hold myself to such a high standard, it only makes sense to pursue a brother like that as well. I don't want a man to bring me shame either. I always tell men that. I am not your battle ground. I don't care if it's my father, uncle, nephew, etc. You have to teach them how they should treat you & not be a damsel in distress. Truth be told, they high key love that. They love damsels in distress 😂😂😂😂 It's unfortunate that sisters who enable bad behaviors in men only end up hurting other sisters with their ignorance. May Allah guide them. I do think the sisters should've exercised proper hijab in this episode. However, this isn't to say a man should behave like a degenerate because he sees an immodest sister.
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 5 ай бұрын
​​@Fortifier1021May Allah purify your heart and your mind, you need it.
@lvlygakrb
@lvlygakrb 11 ай бұрын
Islam is futuristic, no matter how you rule your daughters but they are still at risk which limits their options if they want to be safe and protective because sons are not taught the same way so to minimize risk there should be strict guidelines for sons as well. Living in western countries and being surrounded with a totally new culture adds more concerns to make sure your are raising your children. It needs deep and meaningful education of Islam to children on why they are doing rituals, what the verses means and why they should do Dhikrs. It helps a lot to be protected against those who is looking for Muslim to be able to convert to any other religion other than islams. I highly appreciate your efforts to educating our young generation about our religion.
@SK-gm7ge
@SK-gm7ge 11 ай бұрын
Men are men not women men lead rule and protect but women are emotional and she needed to be advised more. Don't bring your equality stupid in Islam.
@gwaittaali8597
@gwaittaali8597 11 ай бұрын
My sincere comment is that you Muslims from the west are so out of touch with us Muslims who live in Asia and Africa that you think that they way your western values or western problems are our problems.THE BITTER TRUTH is that you guys are the minority in the Muslim Ummah and whatever you think makes no sense to us here in Africa and Asia concerning relationship dynamics. Just help is battle the west concerning their belief systems (secularism)which is the confusion that is making you out of touch with the rest of the Ummah 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 We are not confused as the west is confused about relationship dynamics
@h.z.4153
@h.z.4153 11 ай бұрын
Don't forget to say alhamdulillah brother. At the end it was ALLAH سبحانه وتعالى who decides where and when we are born. It is all a test. We have different struggles but our ultimate focus should be ALLAH سبحانه وتعالى. And I also must mention that the eastern Muslims are under attack. And the reason why it's so dangerous is because it's so hidden in a Muslim society. I'm seeing more and more feminist talk shows, inapropriate clothing, all the filth in the eastern music and film industry. At the end of the day wherever we are, sheytan (أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم) is everywhere and he has different tactics for different people. You may not accept what I said from me, as I am a Muslim born in the west, and I am really not intending to make our problems to your problems. But I am just concerned. I visit my muslim homeland every year. And my muslim family notices that me and my siblings are very sensitive to different topics. Sometimes we are even called extreme for our opinions. For example that we don't touch the opposite gender and that we greet without touching. Or that we wore hijab very early before it was officially fard for us. Or that we think that a woman's priority is to take care of the home and children. Or that we should get married early. These things seem foreign to my homeland because it was infiltrated with feminism and secular ideologies. So I want to apologise if it comes across as me trying to make our problems to your problems. It is not the intention.
@gwaittaali8597
@gwaittaali8597 11 ай бұрын
@@h.z.4153 please get the point we have a very wide spectrum of problems in the Muslim Ummah, crimes, injustices, killings ,zina etc but the thing is that We must not turn it into a show and copy the west with two extreme side of the spectrum battling it out for who is right or wrong this is a disservice to Islam
@gwaittaali8597
@gwaittaali8597 11 ай бұрын
@@h.z.4153 and please I don't need your apologies because somehow you think my feelings are hurt but I am pointing out rationally the complexity of the problems and you Muslims in the west want to simplify things
@h.z.4153
@h.z.4153 11 ай бұрын
@@gwaittaali8597 Don't assume. I apologized out of politeness. So do not worry I don't think your feelings are hurt. And also don't say ''YOU muslims in the west''. Making a baseless generalization is not being rational. It's being unjust and only creates division in the ummah. And we have more than enough already. May ALLAH سبحانه وتعالى forgive our sins and protect us from the hellfire. Amin.
@gwaittaali8597
@gwaittaali8597 11 ай бұрын
@@h.z.4153' You Muslims from the west' was my critique specifically to the people in this debate or podcast who use western values or western view points to act as if they represent Islam in general
@Quran119
@Quran119 11 ай бұрын
The Somali sister said something that I do not agree with, nor does Islam agree with, which is that morals are more important than the hijab. I tell her that if morals were more important than the hijab, God would not have ordered the hijab and punished those who are not veiled. In addition, the hijab should not be compared to morals, because they are both obligatory things in Islam. Should I compare prayer and fasting, for example??? We are tired of hearing these things because you encourage nudity So let the girls go out naked and have great manners What is this ignorance? Hijab is obligatory for all women, whether criminal, good or evil. All women are obligated to wear the hijab.
@user-lt3nw9pm8j
@user-lt3nw9pm8j 11 ай бұрын
And lowering your gaze isn't a factor in what you're saying? Allah told men to lower their gaze before he told women to wear hijab. Go figure. And you sit there typing away as if you're sinless or not currently committing sin. I would rather my non hijabi my sister came on this show than pretend she was going to the library when in fact she's hanging round in shisha cafes with her hijab on
@simonesimone1101
@simonesimone1101 8 ай бұрын
Yes
@PkOrPvp
@PkOrPvp 11 ай бұрын
Are there bad brothers out there? I’m sure there is. Are they the majority ? Of course not, not even close. Sometimes you may get unlucky . But a big problem with women in general, Muslim and non is accountability. For every bad boy , tall handsome, rich guy that they go for, there are 20 other guys who may not be as wealthy, smooth or look average that they glance over because they don’t fit the type of cool guy they want. Many sisters first priority aren’t if the guys deen is good. Wallahi I swear, First questions, Is he tall? Is he rich? Is he handsome How much for mehr? And deen is maybe the last question they will ask. Take some accountability. The ummah isn’t in shambles because of men and the red pill movement 🤣🤣. For every bad guy there are 300 good ones willing to treat the women like queens. Let’s not be delusional here.
@Unknownperson-ob7fu
@Unknownperson-ob7fu 11 ай бұрын
You got a point
@RmonK2000
@RmonK2000 11 ай бұрын
Your comment alone just proved that men can't take accountability🤦‍♀️. You had a rare video addressing corrupt men and you managed to make it about women subhanallah. Women do not only take accountability for their actions but even society does it for them. That's why evil practices such as femicide and honor k1llings were done on women for centuries and ages, but there's no male equivalent to them. "Bad men" are wayy more common than you think, look at the crimes rates! Plus you act as if men care about a woman's deen. All they want to know is if she's beautiful, a virgin, if she can cook and clean and serve him 24/7 like a slave🤦‍♀️ not surprised that's male hypocrisy for you and the redpill movement made it easier for women to be single
@MuslimMessenger267
@MuslimMessenger267 11 ай бұрын
I really like and appreciate sister amira❤. But a little advice: It is sometimes a little frustrating to not hear a clear response. Sister sometimes opens another topic within her answers and does not directly answer the questions. Jazak allahu khairan
@FactsCanHurt
@FactsCanHurt 11 ай бұрын
I find her bias's unbearable.... she speaks facts when it suits her, yes the facts she speaks like in the case of men are true... she does not lie but she forget to present the other half of the arguement too.... yes some families allow boys to get away with murder...BUT there are also some families which allow women to do the same.... the palestinian brother nailed it.. issues is the lack of Islam not whether its a boy or girl... families which do not understand Islam, do not understand it is equally important to raise respectful boys AND girls.
@wassaaa710
@wassaaa710 11 ай бұрын
I find her goofy and annoying
@gogadgetgo3125
@gogadgetgo3125 11 ай бұрын
Great topic, great panel again Ali, well done.
@shabirmohammed
@shabirmohammed 11 ай бұрын
Great as always.
@ghuraba8438
@ghuraba8438 11 ай бұрын
Juste a side note Sisters in abaya look like queens. Theres no style out there that can match it
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
What It is a ridiculous thing to try to convince women to wear the abaya by making them look like queens, because queens wear modest dresses, but not an Islamic abaya. Treat women seriously, we are not children Would you be satisfied if I told you that the men who go to the mosque resemble Spider-Man in their strength?
@hocinekaddourhocine4534
@hocinekaddourhocine4534 11 ай бұрын
Brother Ali , you are doing قزع ( haircut where some parts of are cut whilst other left), you still have hawa(desire) in your Heart
@newMUSLIM_exposingMUSHRKS_6580
@newMUSLIM_exposingMUSHRKS_6580 11 ай бұрын
☝I AM PROUD TO BE A NEW MUSLIM ❤🎉...
@Unknownperson-ob7fu
@Unknownperson-ob7fu 11 ай бұрын
Fake account 😒
@MR-hu3cv
@MR-hu3cv 11 ай бұрын
Enough is enough bro Ali dawah fear Allah I'm directing this at you as you are orchestrating this show. This is freemixing and your labelling it 'islamic' the cameras are on and your all ridiculously trying to lower the gaze where at other settings you don't give a toss also the clothes should be modest too for the men so why such tight shirt mr biceps. Finally either stop this fitna show or as I've said before there are other ways around this: men gather in the studio and have ladies on the screen blurred also have the men blurred on the ladies screen. Simple. Not rocket science. You may interact listen to voice no need for the second third fourth fifth... Glance. ya'nee
@MR-hu3cv
@MR-hu3cv 11 ай бұрын
One word bro.. dayooth
@saminaali5747
@saminaali5747 26 күн бұрын
All my sisters are MashaAllah very best inside out . ❤❤❤
@jamil5522
@jamil5522 11 ай бұрын
قال رسول الله - صلى الله عليه وسلم -: ((كلمتان خفيفتان على اللسان، ثقيلتان في الميزان، حبيبتان إلى الرحمن: سبحان الله وبحمده، سبحان الله العظيم))؛ متفق عليه
@Hewhodoesthemachines
@Hewhodoesthemachines 11 ай бұрын
To be honest, I’m lucky because I’m one of the dudes that avoid having a girlfriend and probably wait marriage because the ideal of boyfriend girlfriend hasn’t come into my head, I even if I wasn’t religious, I would still probably avoid it
@sharonabdullah9741
@sharonabdullah9741 11 ай бұрын
Why do these Muslim "ladies" not cover their hair?
@NaziraKarimi4President
@NaziraKarimi4President 11 ай бұрын
Do you know how hard it is to cover the hair? Their instagram followers would not be happy.
@KassimEffect
@KassimEffect 11 ай бұрын
Still on the free mix flex, I see.
@MoeedKhan1979
@MoeedKhan1979 11 ай бұрын
Another point to mention is that great mothers provide great males so responsibility of women is much high in that sense also. Great woman brought up great man
@Falasteen7urra
@Falasteen7urra 11 ай бұрын
Exactly. This is why the prophet pbuh mentioned taking care of women in his last sermon. The downfall of woman means the downfall of man. If women turn fickle, shallow, uneducated in the deen and worldly matters, have low self esteem etc what kind of generation will they be raising? We only need to look around to find out lol.
@MoeedKhan1979
@MoeedKhan1979 11 ай бұрын
@@Falasteen7urra 100% agree.
@brumtownmiller6130
@brumtownmiller6130 11 ай бұрын
@@Falasteen7urraI thought it was the women that nurtured and care for the boys and the men, educate and discipline them. Only a man can teach a boy how to navigate the world as a man
@Falasteen7urra
@Falasteen7urra 11 ай бұрын
@@brumtownmiller6130 realistically most dads don’t actually have the time to make as much of an impact as they spend most of their time at work. It’s usually the mother that teaches the basics like manners, deen and how to practice it. A dads presence is also very important as he’ll be a living example of how a man should be and how a man should treat his wife or the women under his protection etc. discipline is the job of both parents. I see the dads role as ‘the big guns’ and backup when things get too out of hand 😅 the kids usually won’t want it to get to that. You only need to look at men who marry non Muslim women to see the importance of a mother as 9 out of 10 those kids also end up not being Muslim or in the rare cases they are, won’t know the basics of the deen.
@brumtownmiller6130
@brumtownmiller6130 11 ай бұрын
@@Falasteen7urra not nowadays, most homes have 2 working parents or the women is on maternity leave until the child is is part time/full time education. Also men only works so many hours, they still need to be impactful on their children’s lives. That’s why single mother homes are such a bad thing and negatively affects children and society on a whole. My job as dad is as you said big guns lol but also the presence of who’s in charge and the consequences of bad behaviour. I take my son to the barbers, I teach him how to do pushups and hold frame. Teach how men interact and how to navigate as a boy then man. Some things only a man can teach their son just like only a woman can teach their daughter. It might be different because I’m not Muslim so don’t mean to disrespectful but I don’t no what the deen is but I do respect the family dynamic of Muslim families and interested in the culture. So I can’t say I’m right or wrong just this is how I feel as a father of a boy and girl.
@mohammednhamed8715
@mohammednhamed8715 6 ай бұрын
There is only one sister wherein the hejab right my allah guide our sisters and brothers
@user-no5vv4bb6e
@user-no5vv4bb6e 11 ай бұрын
Amirah is not feminine, she doesn't wear her hijab correctly, and she regularly slanders Muslim men. Still, she then tries to act as if she's Islamically adherent, and as if all of Islam's modern issues result from the men. She takes no accountability and completely disregards the sinful ways many Muslim women live. Shame on you, and shame on this channel for regularly making it an issue about the men.
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
What do you mean, not feminine? I'm not trying to defend her because I don't know her, but femininity doesn't mean being submissive and looking down and waiting for a man to lead you. Femininity is something people like you will never understand. Femininity is a power in itself
@user-no5vv4bb6e
@user-no5vv4bb6e 10 ай бұрын
@@GirlStrong-op9bg that is one of the most gayest and most western centric interpretation of femininity I have ever heard. Being feminine is not being combative and argumentative, and within the context of a relationship it definitely means having the capacity to being led by a man. Otherwise, rent is due next month along w your half of the remaining bills. If you want to live a western feminist life and adopt that into your relationships that is totally your prerogative, but don't expect to be treated traditionally if you yourself aren't traditional, and if you're a feminist that inherently conflicts w being traditional. A bunch of disingenous ppl arguing insincerely.
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
@@user-no5vv4bb6e Don't try to stereotype women Not all women are Western feminists or submissive I am not a Westerner, and I do not care about feminism, and I do not hate men, but they are not my leader. They are human beings like me. We all live on this earth. You are not qualified to define femininity because of course you will reduce it to a context that pleases you. As a male, Western feminists are not like me. I am not in a state of competition with men in order to prove my strength. A woman can be strong by being a woman who has personal boundaries and principles. She can be smart in managing her life and friendships and be strong in raising her children and making her own decisions. A man does not lead a woman, but rather protects her because this is his responsibility.
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
@@user-no5vv4bb6e A woman is a human being who has pride, ideas, debate, and theories, and she can also talk and discuss. She is not an inanimate object. Stop normalizing a stereotypical image of women, and that femininity means women being submissive, silent, and submissive to men. This stereotype may appeal to sadistic and narcissistic men Femininity is not a prison or an uncomfortable dress that a woman wears in order to please men Femininity is not what men reduce women to A female is a human being who can think, argue, raise ideas and questions, invent and write Women are an important part of society, and this is the lowest level of respect for women, which is not to objectify them or reduce them to a certain stereotypical image.
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
@@user-no5vv4bb6e Stop describing anything that contradicts your view of women as Western feminism, because I believe that saying that women are weak beings and must be submissive, non-argumentative, and silent is an extremism in hatred of women, and also the other feminist idea that portrays women as a victim of everything, and that all boundaries and extremism in decadence must be dropped. Nudity and the sexualization of women in advertisements and TV series is another aspect of misogyny, so I am not a feminist. I am moderate and I am confident in myself. I don't hate men, but I don't exist to fulfill the fantasy of a man who wants to live out the role of masculinity by controlling women And their leadership Likewise, I have nothing to do with other women, as I speak for myself You don't know me. Just because I was born female doesn't mean I have to engage in the absurdities of feminism or traditionalism I only represent myself
@OFFICIALRAMKO
@OFFICIALRAMKO 7 ай бұрын
Because men are different. For men to have multiple partners isn’t a big deal, they don’t get destroyed by it.
@blackbold1860
@blackbold1860 11 ай бұрын
I think it could be because they look at the value aspect of male and female. So its means male can do what ever they want because the more experience they have the more value they are while the female is born with value, so they will be more protective towards female since their value will depreciate as time goes by. Sadly, this involves haram things too. My 2 cents.
@hmmm4412584
@hmmm4412584 11 ай бұрын
As a revert, I dont understand why this is even gendered. There is a large / small minority of muslims doing bad, everyone should be held accountable.
@MohammedAhmed-xh2wk
@MohammedAhmed-xh2wk 11 ай бұрын
Salaam Ali, is it possible to discuss, on the wife responsibilities for their husband and how to overcome marriage disputes.
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
Respect your wife
@abdulwahidhassan2896
@abdulwahidhassan2896 11 ай бұрын
Everyone has an issue with red pill but don't realise the ppl who consume the content, such as myself, is capable of taking the info that aligns and discarding those that don't. Use your head ppl
@hussainsharmin661
@hussainsharmin661 11 ай бұрын
Here the parents who raised them its first their fault they didnt teach their son and daughters manners and they didn't tought them any lesson. Parents are blame here.
@Zaina1085
@Zaina1085 11 ай бұрын
Salaam Ali, can you please send a list of the Adhkar you read every day please
@miyamo.x
@miyamo.x 8 ай бұрын
Wa3alaykum Asslam, it’s Azkar Sabah and Masa (invocation in the morning and the evening) you can google it and found it really easily😊
@shellahussain7416
@shellahussain7416 6 ай бұрын
Brother Ali, pls give us the morning and evening prayers you mention, afkah?
@usmaanmalik1047
@usmaanmalik1047 11 ай бұрын
Sister on the left needs to fix her Hijab then talk about Hijab. And she needs to leave, she only talks on emotions
@gaiam6653
@gaiam6653 11 ай бұрын
Why are use free mixing 🤔 ... you should know better
@muhammadislam4640
@muhammadislam4640 11 ай бұрын
The reason a women's modesty and honour defines the entire family is because of the implications. If a wife is dishonourable then it can be inferred that her husband, father or any other male in the family is not man enough to keep his family in check, there is also the implication on her children that they are being raised by a dishonourable woman and so they will follow in their mother's footsteps.
@brumtownmiller6130
@brumtownmiller6130 11 ай бұрын
Doesn’t that hold true if the boys are doing wrong? Doesn’t it negatively reflect on the men of the family, especially dad.
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
Women were not created to be controlled by men If a woman is corrupt, it is because she is corrupt. Stop associating women with men Women can be kind and smart, and they can be brutal killers, it has nothing to do with you
@MessiWorldCup-th2de
@MessiWorldCup-th2de 8 ай бұрын
@@brumtownmiller6130nope when a man commits zina u don’t see anyone bashing the dad or saying ur sons a hoe but if a daughter does it every man will feel like killing himself rather than having a hoe of a daughter
@FactsCanHurt
@FactsCanHurt 11 ай бұрын
We need more balanced approaches.... these general statements harm all, we have all seen boys who are horrible Muslim examples but let's not act like you don't know the same in girls too... when we blame one side, the real issues fall through the cracks
@user-fk7sk9ut1t
@user-fk7sk9ut1t 11 ай бұрын
6:05 classic “it’s not the fault of women”
@harrytenn4867
@harrytenn4867 11 ай бұрын
​@Babycake.😂😂 accountability and women ?😂😂 they dont fit into the same sentence.
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
@Babycake. The only fault men have is to allow women to be influenced by feminism and not putting them back in line.
@Snowyblazer
@Snowyblazer 11 ай бұрын
@@harrytenn4867 she is a miserable NPC bro look at all the comments that hold woman accountable, youll find her there hating on men. A truly sad individual but i dont pity her cause she is a femin@zi
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 5 ай бұрын
If men are getting (R) by other men as well ,then men really need to sit down and evaluate themselves
@qodius
@qodius 11 ай бұрын
If you get the girls in line, there would be no door the guys can go through it. On modesty scale girst get blasted.
@OkayFiroz
@OkayFiroz 7 ай бұрын
Assalam alaikum warahmatullah. Ali bhai please don't get me wrong but plz instruct our sister to cover their hair, i am not disrespecting them, i just want to watch your video peacefully, i am not saying that i good boy, I hope you get it what I mean.
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
Sister Amira keeps saying it's the mens fault because they are weak. She is right. Men are too weak to check their women. But does she ever point that out? Women just want to blame the men for their own actions "men cannot handle women", "men are weak", " men dont know how to treat women properly". Part of treating a woman is keeping her in line.
@harrytenn4867
@harrytenn4867 11 ай бұрын
The women is always rights and its the mens fault always 😂 Allah...
@93boxing81
@93boxing81 11 ай бұрын
@Babycake. Keep it up, no husband but your life will be full of cats.
@Freedom_for_Palestina
@Freedom_for_Palestina 11 ай бұрын
Sometimes man choose wrong woman not because he is naive or generous (to help her to become better) but because he likes that kind of women and then later he complains about her.this situation also is not very rear
@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564
@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 11 ай бұрын
Women exist to complain. They have so much to say about things they have no understanding of, kind of like the kuffar.
@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564
@shahidabdoullakhanzorovr1564 11 ай бұрын
@Babycake. Stay single, please.
@HE-rf8ks
@HE-rf8ks 11 ай бұрын
They talk about how it is hypocritical to be strict with the girls and not with the boys. Isn't it hypocritical to advise boys while not fully covering your hair, it's clear in the religion that you should begin from yourself and it's definitely not logical to advice boys to follow the religion strictly while you don't.
@qodius
@qodius 11 ай бұрын
You should brought the Mahdi.
@mulsimin__
@mulsimin__ 11 ай бұрын
Why are you promoting free mixing? This is not right.
@Mia-ll5di
@Mia-ll5di 11 ай бұрын
Ali next time please get people that are fluent in the English language because it’s hard to listen to someone struggling with the language and stuff. We want the Somali sister and amira to stay replace the rest. ❤️
@jayr3938
@jayr3938 11 ай бұрын
So you want Muslim feminists talking nonsense?
@America_1st_the.rest.r_last
@America_1st_the.rest.r_last 11 ай бұрын
The rest? It was only one guy who I. Couldn't understand. Everyone else was understandable
@Mia-ll5di
@Mia-ll5di 11 ай бұрын
@@America_1st_the.rest.r_last yea I’m talking about the one brother, the reason why I said Amira and the Somali sister should stay is because they talk the most, we want people who wanna talk and explain their opinions etc.
@moab0226
@moab0226 11 ай бұрын
WHO IS THIS GUY WHO NEEDS HIS FACE BLURRED OUT?!?! Ali man you couldn’t find any other person?!
@GirlStrong-op9bg
@GirlStrong-op9bg 10 ай бұрын
Maybe he wants privacy
@wasimmomin1128
@wasimmomin1128 11 ай бұрын
Assalamu Alaikum Ali. When is sister Naima Robert coming on this show?
@alberxenos
@alberxenos 11 ай бұрын
Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
@ozhankaraman
@ozhankaraman 8 ай бұрын
“We see a lot of girls who are well behaved”...Im sorry but where ?? They are just as invisible as the good guys.
@barahui9
@barahui9 9 ай бұрын
O believers! Protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones, overseen by formidable and severe angels, who never disobey whatever Allah orders-always doing as commanded. (66:6) ----- Don't worry about what someone else's son, daughter, cousin, mother, or father is doing. Number one priority is YOU, then your family.
@SaidIqra
@SaidIqra 11 ай бұрын
You can tell me that I'm judging this women but are you to expect me to listen to their Islamic advice when they not even wearing proper hijab ( showing their hair ) Astagfiruallah. May Allah guide us and make us honest on our faith. Guys listen to Ulamas !!!! Salam Ualikum
@Falasteen7urra
@Falasteen7urra 11 ай бұрын
Just because they don’t wear hijab to your standards doesn’t mean they don’t know the deen or aren’t spiritual. One of my most knowledgeable friends doesn’t wear hijab. If you only listen to people who are perfect in the deen then you can’t listen to anyone at all lol.
@SaidIqra
@SaidIqra 11 ай бұрын
@@Falasteen7urra Allah say in the quran : O you who have believed, why do you say what you do not do? . Hijab is compulsory upon women , its Haram to not wear it .
@SaidIqra
@SaidIqra 11 ай бұрын
@@luluah1198 Yes I'm not listening random people because this is Din this is not a show TV. Becarefull where to take the knowledge from. That's why we have Ulama . Have you hear one of the girls saying I want to give my opinion put a site the din ..... Astagfiruallah. Come on ! Wake up and stop tolerant everything you will end like Christians and Jews.
@Falasteen7urra
@Falasteen7urra 11 ай бұрын
@@SaidIqra that has nothing to do with what I'm saying. People still have free will and still sin. Not wearing hijab doesn't mean you don't know the religion or can't give good advice or should be looked down on. Whether a woman wears it or not is between her and Allah and doesn't mean those of us who do should act like we're somehow better.
@SaidIqra
@SaidIqra 11 ай бұрын
@@Falasteen7urra NoOne is perfect but I can see you don't know much about din. Haven't you read the muslims should advice each other. If we say everyone is between him or her and Allah , Fithna will spread in the society. That's there is laws if you sin you do it privately not openly doing proganda and helping saytan to get more followers. Sister May Allah bless you , becarefull with saytan steps and Din isn't a joke or game , it's a serious matter an Hamdullah is the best that human being can get . All prays to Allah swt 🤲🏻
@estonian44
@estonian44 11 ай бұрын
at this point make 2 books: 1 ya'na stories and all that 2. step by step guide plus daily schedule at least example
@cryptomania9263
@cryptomania9263 11 ай бұрын
Amira don't know anything about sisters getting divorced.
@turansabanci1192
@turansabanci1192 11 ай бұрын
Why are they showing their hair
@MoeedKhan1979
@MoeedKhan1979 11 ай бұрын
Yes i agree that we muslims emphasize more on girl than boys which is not good. We should brought up nicely both the gender equally. Even girls are fragile creatures and we must take care of them more. I am father of two girls and three sons and i proud of that alhamdullilah
@Freedom_for_Palestina
@Freedom_for_Palestina 11 ай бұрын
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