Your Opportunity for Marriage Wont Last Forever | Dr. Nasser Karimian

[@lonestar1558]

جزاكم الله خيرا و نفع بكم أمة المسلمين

[@akramrashid642]

Great work Masha-Allah

[@alib7489]

Jazakallah Khair Sheikh

[@vanessajoycecollett6607]

How to even marry when men are not serious with any women while they already proposed to u they are still chatting up options

[@dr.nasserk]

@@vanessajoycecollett6607 Those are two different scenarios: 1. Some men are simply not serious. I suggest you move on quickly, don't waste time on immaturity. 2. Some men are speaking to multiple women. That doesn't mean they're not serious. In fact, from a Fiqh perspective, since a man can marry multiple women, chatting to different women at once isn't a problem. However, I'm sorry if you're dealing with immature men. May Allah ﷻ bless you with a good man, Ameen

[@catinthebread]

​@@dr.nasserk Doesn't that open doors for problems if man already proposed he can still chat with other women?

[@Gearz4lyfe]

@@moriuma558 Try reading #1 again.

[@nissa4644]

​@@dr.nasserk In most cases, when men speak to multiple women simultaneously, it has little to do with an intention to marry several wives. Unfortunately, it often stems from a desire to evaluate and choose who they consider the most suitable partner-a behavior they would likely resent if women did the same to them.

[@gigatrooper5098]

What a goated imam. I will be better inshallah

[@smilingsue4444]

I’m sorry, I deleted my comment I misunderstood 😅 May Allah bless you

[@Shaimaamostafa2025]

Jazak Allah khairan sheikh But I feel not everyone should marry. Marriage has lot of responsibilities they both need to face them. Not everybody can do this sheikh.

[@dr.nasserk]

@@Shaimaamostafa2025 The Prophet ﷺ said: النِّكَاحُ مِنْ سُنَّتِي، فَمَنْ لَمْ يَعْمَلْ بِسُنَّتِي، فَلَيْسَ مِنِّي Marriage is from my Sunnah, and whoever doesn’t apply my Sunnah has nothing to do with me... (Sunan Ibn Majah: Book 9, Hadith 2. Graded Hasan by Darussalam)

[@blueberrycupcake6999]

@@dr.nasserkhate to break it to you sheikh not everyone has the same life

[@milkchocolate6719]

Did the Sahaba that were not married have nothing to do with the prophet then?

[@dr.nasserk]

@milkchocolate6719 to my understanding, those righteous people in our history who never married simply never found someone suitable, or perhaps they didn't have the means, however, they didn't say, "Marriage isn't for me." Allah ﷻ knows best.

[@samia6888]

Please make dua for me I am 34 and unmarried and to be honest it is not looking good for me.

[@sadiyasaleh3406]

Samia where do you live?

[@Vlogbobb]

Pray for all of us. Getting cheated on at 33 is the worst especially divorce that followed.

[@samia6888]

@ may Allah heal you and give you a better spouse. Ameen.

[@Vlogbobb]

@@samia6888 may Allah give you a good spouse also. InshAllah

[@fstorms236]

If no one takes interest in you and proposes to you. How is this your fault?

[@fstorms236]

That’s my current situation

[@BlacFireSan]

Work on making yourself desirable to your future husband, get in shape, work on your manners and femininity, improve you knowledge of the deen, and make lots of Dua.

[@dr.nasserk]

@@fstorms236 If you're working on yourself, and searching, yet you're not getting proposals, then it's not your fault. I didn't say that it is. I just said to apply the Hadeeth that encourages searching for the right spouse early so you can hopefully make the best decision. And Allah ﷻ knows best.

[@blueberrycupcake6999]

@@dr.nasserkwhy should they search early most youngsters nowadays can’t take care of themselves forget taking care of a spouse also some men want a slave for their whole family

[@acccc4083]

@@BlacFireSanAmen

[@janetjatta7945]

Masha Allah

[@TheUnseen-ee8sm]

Can a woman chat multiple men while selecting one ?

[@dr.nasserk]

@@TheUnseen-ee8sm www.google.com/amp/s/islamqa.info/amp/ar/answers/146610 This fatwa says that, even at the time of the Prophet ﷺ, some women would get multiple proposals and would weigh between their options before picking. Allah ﷻ knows best.

[@Vlogbobb]

Yes, but once decided, she can only go with one man. My ex went for 2 guys. One Main and the other side and ended with a divorce

[@blueberrycupcake6999]

Y’all behave like the world will end of Muslims don’t marry. Let ppl catch a break ! There’s really not many nice ppl or families out their to marry/marry into!

[@dr.nasserk]

@blueberrycupcake6999 the Khutbah wasn't about people who don't marry, it was about people who marry late and make a rushed decision. Your comment has nothing to do with the content of my lecture.

[@dzacqline]

​ @dr.nasserk The original poster is right and many times parents/people lie to you as long as you can serve them or they can take advantage of you/ tell you you have time. Men think differently now/are selfish because they have more options than (muslim) women. Men will destroy a good girl for no reason.

[@dbm903]

It seems, unfortunately, that you didn’t listen to the Khutbah with the due attention it deserved. It was such an on-point and much-needed topic, and the way he addressed it, Ma’sha’Allah Tabarak Allah, was truly remarkable! بارك الله فيك, Dr. Shaykh Nasser! May Allah سبحانه وتعالى bless you and reward you abundantly. Aameen.

[@dzacqline]

I think my comment got deleted. But I agree with blueberry. There seems to be a lot more responsibility and blame put on women vs. men. Men are given leeway to pick and choose and wait until their thirties, wasting sisters' time, breaking off engagements, while women are ostrasized.