Your Standard Will ALWAYS Be Tested || 5 Key Steps To Raise Your Standards & Never Settle!

[@ayanime_edem]

In this video, I share how to raise your standards in 5 steps and within those steps, you’ll also learn what to do so you never settle for less! Thank you for watching 🤍

[@helenelims]

“An abundance mindset” is what a classy person must aim for.

[@ayanime_edem]

Of course! 🤍

[@melindaferreira9879]

I had to walk away from a man who smokes weed. One of many dealbreakers . I have learned .

[@Love_Lacie]

Hit the nail on the head with the smoking example! It’s a dealbreaker for me too and I literally just had to let a man who adores me go because of his addiction

[@faithshimoomba7261]

Me too. Smoking is a deal breaker

[@Audrey-r1q]

What about hes willingness to work on himself to change? Was he willing?

[@Love_Lacie]

@@Audrey-r1q Of course not. He’s 49 and has made it apart of his identity since 13. He said his goal was to make me fall in love with him so that I wouldn’t care what he does 😂 I am ok with things in moderation but not an addiction.

[@godizself1]

In my 20s smoking weed was quite popular. A guy that I was trying to impress had asked me out and I was excited. He asked me if I smoke weed and because I wanted to impress him I said yes. He then says I'm sorry I can't date you because I'm applying to be in the police academy and I don't want anyone around me that could hinder my success. Then I tried to backtrack and say that I was lying but he did not believe me. That was quite impressionable because he knew his standard. Argh 2 years later I saw him and asked him was he on the police force and he said no and he told me that he was dismissed because he started doing cocaine with a woman who he shifted his standard for because she was prettier. Karma can be a biatch.

[@ayanime_edem]

That’s so sad and unfortunate!

[@_QueenBell]

Wow!

[@RebeccaLynn-bg9xx]

Lol, because she was pretty. Nne you won simple 😅

[@favourrita74]

Ayanime, you have my views for the rest of the week and beyond. Broke up with a supposed boyfriend whom I craved emotions from and other things Just need to raise and enforce my standards

[@debbie_and_Lucy]

I knew I made the right decision when I promised to watch one of your videos after my workout everyday. Thank you 😊

[@efe3097]

I also have spiritual standards too and i also want the kind of men with the spiritual standards you listed, but i realized that men with such qualities are very scarce, even in church 😂

[@ayanime_edem]

There you go with the scarcity mindset… what makes you think you can’t find such a man even if he’s not a staunch churchgoer because there’s a difference between being a church member and having an intimate relationship with God.

[@FaithDoom-xr8sb]

I met a guy recently that i really liked and i noticed he hardly speaks good English i mean he's not a degree holder but for his profession its not necessary he's pretty okk but to be honest he's speech and leadership skills as a man i would want a life with is questionable to me and after giving him quite a good length of time to know each other better i have seen that he's a good guy but can't be an effective spiritual and moral leader for me and anything that comes in the future its sad i had to let him go but its better this way for me

[@maryjaneokon7934ll]

Thanks Ayanime. I've had to say no several times to men with certain standards different from mine because it didn't resonate with me and accepting means selling myself short. It's difficult to say no sometimes, not gonna lie. But when I look back after a long time, I'm grateful that I said no. Thanks for always

[@ayanime_edem]

It's like a muscle... the more you say no to certain things, the more you get comfortable saying no

[@pheezarh]

You speak so well

[@ayanime_edem]

Oh thank you, I have a recent video with 11 tricks on how to speak feminine, softly and elegantly. Here’s the link 🔗 11 Tricks To Sound MORE Feminine & Attractive || How To Speak Softly & Elegantly kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqW6d6qjnZyYjKc

[@tniacrutchfield7356]

This is such a timely message that was greatly needed during this season of my life. Thank you for your honesty and encouragement to be honest, it's needed for growth. I'm so glad I found your channel. Continue to be blessed!

[@ayanime_edem]

Wonderful! I'm glad to have you here 🤍🎉

[@HelenSunday-xu9vi]

It's the patience that goes with this abundance mindset. That's why over time ladies reduce their standards

[@Omidan_mayus]

This has been on repeat so it can stick. Thank you Ayanime. God bless you

[@icon12legacy17]

You are always a wonder..Thank you sweet Ayanime

[@ayanime_edem]

You made me blush ☺️ and it’s my pleasure 🤍

[@lovethcharles8029]

Ayanime I love your sincerity. You speak from your own experiences. I love you ma

[@rahmamataan]

You’re delightful ❤

[@ayanime_edem]

Oh thank you 🤍

[@AnnNjeri-fb2mw]

You are so gorgeous 😍😍. Thank you for sharing wisdom with us.

[@fritznatheodore3696]

Thank you so much for sharing ❤️❤️

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure 🤍

[@bushraaraashed]

Agree Ayanamey. On point as always ❤

[@ednaumoh4069]

Thanks so much My dear

[@ayanime_edem]

You’re welcome mummy 🤍

[@eeshahomes]

glad I came across this video.

[@nathanielvictoria3214]

Something new has been added to my knowledge. Thank you baby😘😍🥰

[@ayanime_edem]

You’re welcome beautiful 🤍

[@TheFlowerGardenZa]

Such a great video! Thank you for mentioning that we get tested in friendship to which is true

[@ayanime_edem]

Of course 🤍

[@naturalbeauty9202]

I fail tests and games. I feel it's so unnecessary... especially when we're all adults. Now that I'm healed, when folks test me, they never get the results they want, but they do get placed on the back burner or ghosted. If we're trying to connect and get to know one another, why test me or play games? I don't get it.

[@AdaezeNwaeze-n2j]

Amazing video

[@syedahzay]

But the thing is "no one is perfect" you will never be finding someone with all qualities

[@peaceekanem]

Thank you so much dear

[@chiemerieeuphemia4065]

I love u ma'am,I love this

[@chiamakachike4830]

This is a great reminder

[@ayanime_edem]

🤍

[@swetlanametzler1846]

Thank you ❤️

[@chiomakristie8263]

Thank you so much Ayanime

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure 🤍

[@etimekaette3959]

True😢

[@ayanime_edem]

Could you tell me what’s true and resonated with you? Would love to know 🤍

[@etimekaette3959]

Having the courage to say No. I will improve on that

[@pheezarh]

Thank you soooo much for sharing.

[@ayanime_edem]

You are so welcome 🤍

[@gabrielamartiniuc6322]

I love your channel! ❤

[@ayanime_edem]

Oh I'm glad you do! 🤍

[@shalomakaelu]

The way I run here anytime you post a new video🤭 Ayanime, please when will you do a meet and greet?🥹

[@ayanime_edem]

Lol… I’m glad you’re here! And regarding the meet & greet, I’ll see how I can make plans towards that 🤍

[@tphlor]

@@ayanime_edemi look forward to the meet and greet too

[@asha4189]

Where do you shop? Your tops are always so lovely 😍

[@ayanime_edem]

It’ll depend if you’re in Nigeria because I shop from shops that carry a mixture of most brands. From Zara, River Island and ASOS to even Turkey brands

[@agnessmwachiyaba6088]

Ayanime, how is your diet?

[@ayanime_edem]

Good, I guess... why?

[@naturalbeauty9202]

What a random and strange question lol, but ok.

[@lovettephilips7960]

what if you're already in the scene. You've said yes already and it's late now?

[@favourrita74]

As long as you have not said I do, you can do what your heart feels is right. Listen to your inner voice. It may be rough but you will pat yourself at the back in the long run

[@EzeFavour-m4r]

❤❤

[@eminaemi7854]

I LOVE your content❤ And i agree with you. Thank your for making this content. It feels as if i am listening to a siter❤ Keep on doing💜🪻

[@ayanime_edem]

My pleasure 🤍

[@ireneighalo]

Thank you😍