YOUR UPBRINGING ISN'T ALWAYS RESPONSIBLE FOR YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS

[@SherriFlemming]

Well said Ken.♥️

[@HotRodHarley06]

I'm no expert however guessing if we had a traumatic or abusive adult romantic relationship it could also lead one to becoming more avoidant or anxious.

[@brittanyortiz4342]

@@HotRodHarley06 agreed

[@SherriFlemming]

Trauma. Complex PTSD From Surviving To Thriving by Pete Walker

[@AllenTolbert-ld9ms]

True

[@brittanyortiz4342]

Genetics apparently play a role in up To 35% of avoidant cases.

[@RainFall-wz2yp]

my whole entire life, my self esteem and sense of self worth have been raped out of me. and now... now grief drowns me. I can barely breathe through the pain I'm feeling. It's like a 999-trillion pound weight on top of my chest. I am breathless in my agony. My soul is raped. I am tormented and tortured by grief and sorrow. The rape of my soul is ceaseless and impossible to run from, it goes with me everywhere. I could weep and wail forever and ever.

[@matthewnelson3685]

Deal I mean deal deal deal

[@matthewnelson3685]

Deal.

[@matthewnelson3685]

Just deal