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@staceywilliams16242 жыл бұрын
1. Fall in love with your own life 2. Courage to understand your “musts” 3. Expressing your matching traits 4. Invite with your heart but don’t push 5. Worth
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it, Stacey.
@LivingMyBestLifeIAm Жыл бұрын
My husband didn’t give me a chance to wonder. He let me know that he saw my value before I even got home from meeting him. The next communication we had, he told me he can’t stop thinking of me. Well! That instantly made me not be able to stop thinking about that! I never had to wonder or play games. 11 months later he asked me marry him. Next week will be 15 years since we met.
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
Im happy yo hear this! :)
@staceywilliams16242 жыл бұрын
Chemistry Friendship Depth (the feeling of being seen, understood) Compatibility Commitment
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching
@sandragreen51462 жыл бұрын
I love how he explain things. I also appreciate the diversity in his visuals. Great advice.🙏❤️
@PrizzT2 жыл бұрын
The thing is I am loving my life so much that I am not too sure whether to let anyone new into my life...It is a dilemma.
@BrooklynBaby1002 жыл бұрын
Giiirl… I was soooo happy and then let someone in that trashed it up, made a huge mess of my heart and soul and left the 💩 for me to clean.. be very very very careful and vet like crazy.
@sandragreen51462 жыл бұрын
Thank you. Enjoyed this. Focus on you and use your feminine energy for yourself to make you feel happy inside.when you are truly happy with yourself, that's when you attract the right man to you.
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your support and enthusiasm, Sandra.
@sandragreen51462 жыл бұрын
@@BernMendez you more than welcome😊
@sandragreen51462 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting on femininity from a man's perspective! So valuable👏
@christinaoulundsen99302 жыл бұрын
Soooo blessed to have found ur channel 💓....LOVE all of ur videos!!!...U are a gift from God to us women...thank you!!!
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Hi Christina, thank you for your kind words!
@tifftiff66172 жыл бұрын
He truly is!
@pamelakapke622 жыл бұрын
"not based on what you think you can get" I heard that! 😁
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Glad this part resonated deeply with you, Pamela.
@amyj.49927 ай бұрын
As an Aquarius ♒😀💝, you cannot be my lover without being my friend 💕👑 first and foremost. I need to test the chemistry and your loyalty to me
@BernMendez7 ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@Elena-4774 ай бұрын
So true. To stop asking something/ somebody we're not yet a match to. Soooo so true.
@tinasharinna10122 жыл бұрын
WORTH. Hits hard.
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Glad this was useful, Tina : )
@sarahheinz2 жыл бұрын
you looking fab Bern !!! much love 💕💕💕💕
@suzansuzan93722 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so much many many blessing !! Go for it🍀🍀👊
@felicitygrace51132 жыл бұрын
Very helpful! Yet not sure how where to meet men to date multiple at the same time, its not like I can go the supermarket and pick an choose from a shelf several at a time... 🤪😜🤔
@artaiesalniece15602 жыл бұрын
Great as always!
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Arta, so glad you enjoyed this!
@oliviapatterson53182 жыл бұрын
What needs to happen when your life changes to that of caregiver to a parent yet you still have a desire for a companion/mate?
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Olivia, what needs to happen is a re-definition of what's most important to you, and as much as possible clear boundaries around what you can and can't offer. Once this is clear you can look for a relationship that is a fit to your lifestyle with clear definitions and boundaries from the start.
@crystalporter3142 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! Thank you!
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Glad you liked it, Crystal.
@preselagranil54082 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much Bern for this video .I love it.
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
My pleasure, Presela. : )
@sarahheinz2 жыл бұрын
you got it. right on point.
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙏
@rehemahajilo22112 жыл бұрын
Watching from kenya
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Blessings all the way to Kenya.
@aylex1974 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 😊
@lillieknight Жыл бұрын
My Dad used to say a woman’s got to be mean. I wish I would have listened to him and did that.
@BernMendez Жыл бұрын
There is no need to be mean that will only get you in and out of toxic relationships. Asserting yourself doesn't typically require being mean except for life or death situations.
@vikki86992 жыл бұрын
What if you are in love with your life and all you attract are men who aren't in love with theirs and want you to give up on all that you worked hard for? I love being in my femininity yet I seem to get men wanting me to be more masculine and the bread winner? Its a real turn off!
@verycherry44592 жыл бұрын
Sounds like they are trying to date their Mom and have you take care of them while they stay home playing video games or whatever and you go to work. That would be a turn off! There are dating sites for successful women to meet successful men or you can go to places where happier successful men are more likely to be such as a Starbucks working on something, country club, singles travel club, swanky hotel lounge where someone might be on a business trip, golf course, a class, airport lounge, religious or spiritual or new age group or activity or festival, MeetUp group enjoying a volunteer group activity (people are happier who think outside themselves), a shared interest/ hobby or singles group activity, MENSA meeting as a guest or networking MeetUp group. There are plenty of places to meet quality people. You may even meet someone by unsolicited referral from someone you know unexpectedly. You may even meet him at the counter at the grocery store picking out something for the next cookout asking for your advice. Never know.
@BrooklynBaby1002 жыл бұрын
@@verycherry4459 yea but don’t sleep with them until marriage.. otherwise they’ll just hookup and leave.
@juliaskagfjord62072 күн бұрын
@@BrooklynBaby100 alternatively a popular thing is doing the 90 day rule....this is more my idea, because the only person who will agree to see that through is also someone who wants something real and lasting...
@darlinah80902 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️✨
@BernMendez2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching, Darlina
@darlinah80902 жыл бұрын
@@BernMendez you've given the best advice and guidances ☺️🙏❤️