These Virtues Attract Men Who Crave All 5 Types of Intimacy

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In today's video, I'm sharing a way for you to inspire five different types of intimacy in a commitment-minded man without being pushy so that he can powerfully commit to you and only you.
00:00 Framing the Problem
03:01 Common Delusion
03:56 The 2 Needed Virtues
4:31 Emotional Intimacy
7:34 Intellectual Intimacy
9:26 The #Spiritual1 Reason You're Single
10:15 Spiritual Intimacy
13:05 Physical Intimacy
14:47 Sexual Intimacy

[@BernMendez]

[Take The Free Quiz]: What's the #1 Reason You're Single? bit.ly/youresinglequiz

[@VICTORIAPAVLOVA77]

Cause he wanted to act single free and off the hook!! And he told me that 🕳

[@amyj.4992]

My top 3 ♒🌠, sigma specific needs in the relationship are: 1. Intellectual intimacy 2. Spiritual intimacy 3. Sexual intimacy (A hunger for emotional intelligence= authentic personal development for me)

[@therealpancakegirl777]

u r an outstanding coach… u have the emotional and intellectual together and uve made them conscious by systematizing them like this. hope one day to work with u

[@BernMendez]

Thank you very much for your kind words. When you feel ready to reach out here's the link to apply: bit.ly/speakwithbern

[@annaimperiale9249]

I really enjoy your content, Bern. You’re very wise and good at communicating. Thanks!

[@therealpancakegirl777]

these metrics can also work as a manifestation template - thank u for inspiring and teaching us

[@BernMendez]

Glad this was helpful to you.

[@Summer-tk8yk]

This content is gold. Thank you so much. ❤

[@BernMendez]

You're so welcome :)

[@jenniferhobbs2719]

My, what insight you have!😊

[@BernMendez]

Jennifer, glad this was helpful :)

[@cortneyozment7825]

It’s soo crazy because I have all of these things for one guy but not physically or sexually attracted to them!

[@nini65078]

Me too😢

[@BernMendez]

Some times chemistry develops over time, if it's been a while and it hasn't it's time to move on : )

[@ladyofspa]

Very detailed. Need a recap 😂 1. 1a. But wait...😅 Good stuff thanks.

[@BernMendez]

Thank you :)

[@karenKristal]

but men only want the sexual intimacy. I get confused about the point of trying to build the other kinds when men will be focusing on their end goal nd just humouring a woman at best. It kind of doesnt make sense to push for all these other kinds of intimacy when its not the mans natural instinct. Its all quite confusing.

[@BernMendez]

Men don't just want sexual intimacy. The biggest area of opportunity for you is to open up to meet more men outside your current circles. Not all men are the way you describe : )

[@carolmilligan3259]

@@BernMendez yes most men are.

[@veronicachic]

That's why you need to seek out high IQ slow life strategists. Most northern and Eastern Europeans are highly monogamous K strategists

[@CADcougar]

I disagree. I desire a woman I can trust and respect, a best friend to "let my hair down with" (phantom hair since I am almost bald), physical and emotional intimacy. I am not sure Cave Man sex should be classified as sexual intimacy.

[@vickykinyunyuzi4448]

What if the man is not open or doesn't talk much what do you do for him to open up?or say what he feels?

[@BernMendez]

You can't force a man to open up you can only do your best to inspire him but ultimately if he doesn't you have a bigger decision to make :)

[@reemsaif3105]

💗

[@VICTORIAPAVLOVA77]

❤❤❤

[@BernMendez]

Thank you for Watching Anna!

[@VICTORIAPAVLOVA77]

@@BernMendez I love your channel and advices. Happy Christmas and the best New Year 23’! V❤️🔥

[@ksref]

😂" life throws you inevitable turds" 😂😂 you're not wrong

[@BernMendez]

😊

[@therealpancakegirl777]

i ❤ numbers so 11th comment & 131th like

[@BernMendez]

: )

[@helensanderson7092]

I've given up on relationships it's a waste of time for me.

[@marjoriemischeaux9337]

I released possibilities yrs ago....and after 7yrs, I met the man beyond my dreams. Don't give up.