The #1 reason Therapy isn't working for men age 25-35

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Denmo

Denmo

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@jordantrouttOG
@jordantrouttOG Ай бұрын
Denmo, I recently took the leap and moved from my hometown. I drove 2,000 miles across the county with absolutely nothing but some clothes and a bit of food. It was hard, and I barely made it, but I'm now in Salt Lake City. I checked into an extended stay motel, and within 3 days, I found a job. I've documented the whole process on my channel and have gained a following of over 2,000 people. Your channel was a big motivation for me to do this, and the journey has been up and down, and if anyone else out there wants to do it, just know it's incredibly difficult but not impossible and the rewards are tenfold.
@dennyrose3689
@dennyrose3689 Ай бұрын
Thats dope man best of luck, thats a huge leap of faith
@itsnick37
@itsnick37 Ай бұрын
Need a roommate eventually? That’s literally gonna be me looking to move far away from the east coast, have money saved up and great credit, 31 year old guy no drugs or baggage just fed up with my state and job if you are looking for one I’d be happy to split a place
@yeahrightbear8883
@yeahrightbear8883 Ай бұрын
​@itsnick37 a roommate would make this way easier financially, but I don't know about moving in with a random person from the internet lol.
@yeahrightbear8883
@yeahrightbear8883 Ай бұрын
​@@dennyrose3689thanks!
@itsnick37
@itsnick37 Ай бұрын
@@yeahrightbear8883good point, doesn’t even mean I’ll be out that way but it’s on my list of places I’m considering, good luck to you
@TheRealBrillski
@TheRealBrillski Ай бұрын
The guys on YT have either walked or are walking in our shoes. Most therapists will never be able to relate to our struggles. Tried therapy and all therapists did was recommend coping techniques that took two seconds to search the internet for. Hopefully my new watered down comment doesn't get deleted.
@OrderRed
@OrderRed Ай бұрын
My impression is that therapists are for children and teens. They explain problems you face when you cannot fully comprehend them. When reading therapists online it looks exactly what I needed as a child. If you are old enough to understand it's too late.
@misterstaple
@misterstaple Ай бұрын
I think therapy is some sort of weird replacement for religion.
@πατριχορ
@πατριχορ Ай бұрын
​@@misterstaple It is, and it doesn't work.
@brinyheart.
@brinyheart. Ай бұрын
I can't agree more on the parts about finding a therapist who resonates with you, and especially the part where you emphasised the importance of listening. Therapy isn't for everyone because sometimes it's damn hard to find a therapist who can actually resonate with you and help you, and it's even harder to talk about shit you've buried long ago that's still influencing your way of life in a negative way. At the end of the day, if you have the money, I would really recommend it. After the first session I felt OK, after the third, I felt more confident than ever, and I used to be a red faced, ground staring, mumbling little boy. As you said, take action. Thanks Jack, you feel like an older brother to me.
@philoni5368
@philoni5368 Ай бұрын
Nice to see you here, briny! Your vids are really popping off, glad to see another social skills based creator killing it, dude!
@Iamrooq
@Iamrooq Ай бұрын
I’m a 27-year-old art teacher who is also a father of a six-year-old who lives with his mom. I’ve been struggling to become a full-time artist for the past decade. It’s gone to point where I have let my life be dictated not just by my relationship with my baby mother, but also, owning up to the fact that I sometimes cannot do everything alone. It literally drives me. It’s a narcissism. I don’t wanna be that person anymore. It is ruined my life for the longest at the same time. I want to live my life in a way where I have to worry about their well-being because I will always be there, also my son is my best friend and I only get to see him once a week and every other weekend because of my job also nice tomeet all
@elsalvaje3940
@elsalvaje3940 Ай бұрын
best of luck to you brother, always stick to a vision and eventually things will work out
@BeybladeXDash
@BeybladeXDash Ай бұрын
I started my own KZbin Channel and am working on 2-3 different buisness(Photography, advertising, and affiliate marketing.) My goal is to be an entrepreneur. I host beyblade tournaments and have met a lot of people, and made new friends. Instead of doom scrolling on social media, spending my time learning new skills has brought me a lot of happiness and opportunities. Once you get rid of the victim mindset and actually work on yourself life gets way better! Good luck to everyone and don't give up on your dreams!
@Kiyomi1238
@Kiyomi1238 Ай бұрын
Proud on you man, you found your endpoint and made efforts into it, even if its youtube (I stopped at some point knowing what its like to be in this industry of being a content creator)
@jacobb8832
@jacobb8832 Ай бұрын
I'll never give up on life, but the problem is that I still don't have any dreams to pursue. I've got nothing. What should I do to refigure out my dreams?
@nigelrosenberg9014
@nigelrosenberg9014 Ай бұрын
Hell yeah
@snaakie
@snaakie Ай бұрын
Hey Denmo, I just wanted to drop a comment and say how much your videos have helped me improve socially! Talking to women and getting dates has become so much easier now that I know what to do-and more importantly, what not to do. The way you approach it with authenticity really resonates with me, unlike the typical pickup artist mind games. I love that I can be myself, have fun, and connect with women in a genuine way now. Thanks so much for that!
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial Ай бұрын
send me an email man! Would love to hear more specific details
@Virtusstrong
@Virtusstrong Ай бұрын
Hey I’m 25 single(been single since forever), I’m currently working as an Amazon Delivery Driver, I’m going to join the National Guard, get my education, become a state trooper, and start a podcast. We’ve got this brethren!!.
@zardon_zane1630
@zardon_zane1630 Ай бұрын
I used to work as an Amazon drivers service, the one you called for help with packages lost or searching for directions or to mark packages. Hope everything goes well, delivery driver is a really hard job 💪
@Virtusstrong
@Virtusstrong Ай бұрын
@@zardon_zane1630 ohh man one thing I can say confidently is that being a driver for Amazon is an experience that you’ll never forget. Perhaps it teaches you to be somewhat resilient due to all the factors like possible dog encounters, aggressive drivers, weather, well you know but either way I’ve got things that I have a higher regard for!, also thank you for words of encouragement!, may you be blessed in many ways!🙏🏾.
@AoC-consumption
@AoC-consumption Ай бұрын
Stay strong brother! Your path is set , be consistent in your pursuit of it.
@Virtusstrong
@Virtusstrong Ай бұрын
@@AoC-consumption thank you my brother!, Godspeed to you as well!!
@redtarget5275
@redtarget5275 Ай бұрын
Good luck broham
@FilipBalakovski
@FilipBalakovski Ай бұрын
26, Czechia, starting as a software tester. Thanks for your love, Denmo 💪🏼
@kubasperkis7118
@kubasperkis7118 Ай бұрын
čus, dobré vědět že tu nejsem jediný hah
@CantoniaCustoms
@CantoniaCustoms Ай бұрын
HKer in USA. Pereptually unemployed and Student Visa is Running Short. Have No damn clue how to speak any variant of Chinese since I was basically raised in expat school because they thought the gravy train of immigration was still lucrative. Honestly I just wish I was brought up speaking mandarin so I could become the perpetrator who gets paid rather than the victim lmao.
@TibiConstantine
@TibiConstantine Ай бұрын
I am my own therapist, passionate about hiking and photography. Of course travelling might be expensive, but you can always go outside and take a picture of a landscape or person. You could write something about your life, you can go and exercise..etc
@Samuel-vw2wy
@Samuel-vw2wy Ай бұрын
If you can’t afford therapy I recommend the books “self therapy” by Jay Earely and “when therapy doesn’t work” by Shelly Young, you can use them to do some aspects of therapy on your own.
@lukebrown8311
@lukebrown8311 Ай бұрын
I’m 18 in my last year of highschool and feel pretty uncertain about the direction of my life. I currently work at Target doing curbside most weekends, which pays well but causes me to miss out on a lot of relationships and potential friendships. My main goal right now is definitely to start socializing because I need to start looking for opportunities and things to give my life more meaning.
@rickostern7860
@rickostern7860 Ай бұрын
25, freelance comic artist, I was seeking jobs for like months but damn son never get any call for interview, and when I get a few calls, suddenly I messed it up, have question in my own mind like "why do I messed it up, do I really want that job?" now I'm focusing on freelance at my current studio, helping the team with doing stuff I can do, helping the client to make their dream come true. My friends are feeling the change in me when I choose to focus on it, and it feels so fulfilling, IDK what will happen like 5 years from now but I use my free time to learn so many things and try it outs.
@MawbNaw
@MawbNaw Ай бұрын
Great video Jack, I think an underlying theme here is to do your best to develop the strongest sense of self as possible. Currently working on that myself as a 25 y/o, looking to break into my industry that I just got out of school for! True self love is something most are not inherently born with imo
@tomasburian6550
@tomasburian6550 Ай бұрын
I'm going to a therapy once a month, after a bad breakup I was going once a week, it's amazing and I recommend it to everyone as a part of a mental hygiene. Sure, watch this content once in a while, but the info that you truly need can be absorbed in a relatively short time, otherwise you gotta hustle and don't just passively watch.
@szililolabu
@szililolabu Ай бұрын
Appreciate the direct language and brutal honesty
@JeremiahEspinoza-dn8xe
@JeremiahEspinoza-dn8xe Ай бұрын
I'm 18, I'm a part time dishwasher and I'm going threw a breakup, both our parents didn't want us seeing each other. Now I'm trying to be self sufficient, and take responsibility for my self as a young man. No more relying on other people
@Brett-Eras
@Brett-Eras Ай бұрын
Denmo's the real deal, speakin from the heart and unabashed, thanks these video's bro
@frederikmeincke9822
@frederikmeincke9822 Ай бұрын
26, gonna be graduating as a psychologist in 9 months. Very interesting points about therapy, and I completely agree to an extent that the traditional format of therapy stands to mostly benefit women. However more modern forms of therapy are developed evidence based techniques to teach people actual cognitive and emotional skills alongside adressing trauma. This way the mind is kind of treated like a muscle that can be trained to work in your favor instead of against you. Like going to a brain gym if you like. Ofc this also has elements of listening and validating, but I believe this more goal oriented approach is way more effective for men. Im not gonna sit here and say therapy is for everybody, but I would definitely look for therapists that provide an approach that suits your needs, and not just sits there and says uh huh and nods (even though it might be what feels good)
@Jbrimbelibap
@Jbrimbelibap Ай бұрын
Just realised I came back to this channel with a girlfriend, a job I like with colleagues I love, some sick friends, a good physique I'm proud off, and a sick car I bought myself (Saab 900) Of course everyone isn't sparkles and rainbows but I've made so much progress, I feel like I can now talk to anyone You're partly to thank for all this Denmo, so thanks man
@ardaturan5446
@ardaturan5446 Ай бұрын
I recently got very interested in blackpill/rant videos of guys and it's kinda comforting
@papigang9728
@papigang9728 Ай бұрын
I’m an OG in that space , deleted my old channel though 😂
@OrderRed
@OrderRed Ай бұрын
me too, but I don't know if it's comforting. Just blackpilling. It at least explains.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial Ай бұрын
I hope that aint what you think i am. I'm optimistic af lol
@theLunarDJ
@theLunarDJ Ай бұрын
Blackpill ranter checking in 😎
@brianmeen2158
@brianmeen2158 Ай бұрын
Damn you guys find the black pill content comforting?!? That’s concerning as it’s the most pessimistic bs I’ve ever encountered .. stay away from black pill - I see way too many guy wallowing in black pill agony and it’s bizarre
@blakekogut3045
@blakekogut3045 Ай бұрын
Hey Denmo hey guys im 30 years old work a good not super awesome job as an assistant manager in a parking garage i tend to be chronically online like you said 3-4 hours therapy has helped me a lot having bipolar but yeah what im going to do now to improve is exercise more than i am and really just get better with practice on talking to girls im not super attracted to for warm up practice for the ones i am because i am quite lonely living in my own place solo lol really enjoyed the video man i thought a lot of great points were made
@youngbenkenobi
@youngbenkenobi Ай бұрын
This is perfect because it gets to the meat of the matter while then providing the same thing that happens in therapy: a call to action. There comes a point in therapy where the person has started to turn a corner for the better and it's the therapist's job to literally push them to go out on their own and DO THE THING. Only then can they measure the worth of the therapy and their commitment to making their lives better. Hoping this video reaches as many as possible and that KZbin sees a decrease in the amount of young men using it because we're all out here crushing life. Go get some.
@thpisland2423
@thpisland2423 Ай бұрын
I’m addicted to this guy’s videos as of late
@Gfazo38
@Gfazo38 Ай бұрын
21 M ) here living in my moms apartment in the projects I have had a couple of jobs but I always blew my money and was stuck in the flashy lifestyle being a person I was not I’ve isolated myself at home just smoking weed playing video games etc after watching your vids I applied for colleges to study biology and become a zookeeper I don’t know the road ahead but I’m going to try my best!!!
@isaiahheyward1488
@isaiahheyward1488 Ай бұрын
21 , A Computer Science Student and Working as a Business Scientist , Action: Cease using KZbin and other video media based social media as a form of therapy. See you and the community you built on Skool , I fell off the wagon after a few unforseen setbacks and deciding to hop back on.
@Lawand
@Lawand Ай бұрын
thank you for all you do denmo your content means so much to us young men
@AoC-consumption
@AoC-consumption Ай бұрын
Im 33, God has been gracious to me all my life I have a home, a well paying job as a nurse, and meaning however small in my career. Loneliness plagues me, but I am remembering Gods grace towards me. " Knowing that glory in tribulation produces perseverance and perseverance character and character hope." Romans 5:3
@devilsadvocacy
@devilsadvocacy Ай бұрын
YT is cheaper and more effective than psychotherapy 😅
@BeepBoop-qt4eq
@BeepBoop-qt4eq Ай бұрын
I know the point is that he is a life coach and is selling a product however, as a man I have had a horrible time with therapy. The first time I went is because an abusive woman tried to tell me I was crazy and needed it. I've only sought therapy because of women come to think of it. I really think that men in general need life coaches and philosophy. As Denmo pointed out: I agree therapy is for women generally. Emotional support. The other utility is to figure out if a person is suffering from a neurological disorder. Forgive my poor grammar.
@centfn2883
@centfn2883 Ай бұрын
Hey I’m a 20 year old college senior and private pilot. I will become will be an airline pilot by the time I turn 24. All the best gentlemen keep grinding.
@tylercraigg5383
@tylercraigg5383 Ай бұрын
Yo Denmo, here’s one for you. I’m 24, I been with my chick for 5 years. We have a 3 year old, I live in rural Missouri, prices for everything are astronomical or I’d move. I make good money as an autoworker but I don’t know what to do next. I feel like I need friends or hobbies but I don’t wanna become stagnant. I want time with my girl and kid but that requires me to leave to learn a skill or something. Just feel lost man!
@ironmind258
@ironmind258 Ай бұрын
Go solo hiking on big hikes will push ya hard.
@zardon_zane1630
@zardon_zane1630 Ай бұрын
Im 23, working at a bilingual call center in Mexico, I have some debt since I started a business and gor robbed wo I got 10 months worth of salary in debt for that nad credit card debt whil I got a job, I have no highschool ( had to quit since we needed money and I was the breadwinnerbfor all my family ( we are a lot of people) for a year when my dad was unemployed, now he works but half of my money goes to cover the debt, my objective is to keep working even if I hate it and start a business little by little, I'm going to negotiatey debts even if that ruins my score for a while, I'm studying tp complete highschool in one exam certificated by the SEP ( Education Secretary of the country) and once my debts are paid, I'll save to work and study in New Zealand for a while and I'll think about living there or returning to Mexico
@AoC-consumption
@AoC-consumption Ай бұрын
That's a harsh start to life brother! You seem like a man of honor and perseverance. Keep pursuing your plan. I hope your family appreciates your sacrifice and drive to bring about a better life.
@zardon_zane1630
@zardon_zane1630 Ай бұрын
@@AoC-consumption ty, hope everything goes well for you too :D
@leisiyox
@leisiyox Ай бұрын
Yes, I have the world at my fingertips! IN MY PHONE, like literally. I don't use social media. I talk to people and they don't want to be bothered because they are consuming their own content I watch hours and hours of informational videos on many topics like linguistics, space, nature, etc but whenever I want to share this they don't want to talk to me and ghost me irl and on text
@jacobb8832
@jacobb8832 Ай бұрын
That's great to hear. I would watch hours of informational videos as well, only for self-improvement. The problem is that since I still feel mentally lost in life today, and want to figure out which career, hobbies, or direction in life, I have a hard time deciding on what is best for me to do. I can't even remember who I am, or what kind of value to offer to this world other than to focus on my own improvement as a person in general. There are many many resources to start with and consume that it can sometimes be difficult to choose because I would want to do something that aligns my unnoticed potential and purpose. Living a life only for self-improvement and not being able to form relationships with like-minded people, and not being able to provide for anything can be very mundane, and unfulfilling as a man. What should I do to overcome this issue?
@joshdodd8686
@joshdodd8686 Ай бұрын
My fear (just a little bit but not entirely) isn't her saying no but saying yes. I've never been in a relationship and I fear I wouldn't be any good at it
@itsnick37
@itsnick37 Ай бұрын
You aren’t alone, I need a social life and different job before I would feel comfortable tbh. But I’m also looking to make a big move I feel like I’m wasting my time now and not really looking to do much where I currently am. Work on yourself first then worry about dating after, think it will feel better and be easier if you fix yourself first.
@lujsharkzz
@lujsharkzz Ай бұрын
Yeah but thats part of the process bro. Just got my first gf a year ago and she broke up, i wasnt good enough in the relationship. You just need to go through it, to get better. If it's really meant to be, it'll work out anyway
@zardon_zane1630
@zardon_zane1630 Ай бұрын
Something like that happens to me, I haven't repaid my debts ans those suck half of my money and I don't have stable job plus I never took care of myself before and last timw I was on a relationship I realized that I don't really likes my gf, I just accepted to have one, I cut the relationship after a month, I don't want something like that to happen again
@Kiyomi1238
@Kiyomi1238 Ай бұрын
I’m 19, I say that I am trying to find a job, I got no experience. Recently got academically withdrawn because I failed a lot of my classes, I’m in my own head feeling like I’m going insane because I can’t do anything for the next 8 months. I still live with my parents, feeling like I’m just rotting away at this point. Realized that the program I’m doing is the wrong one, should’ve went into the software development side rather than the IT side. Too many screw ups. Only things I’ve been doing to help myself is do daily walks, workout once a few days out of the week. I know I have to put the effort into certifications and study for my next classes, barely do it as I keep on pushing it or ignore it. Just a rant but if someone got words of wisdom, lay it all out on me, give me that tough love
@centfn2883
@centfn2883 Ай бұрын
Can’t say I’ve been through what you’re going through my man. I wish you the best through these tough times. In this moment you need to focus on what you can control. You cannot change the past but you can control what you decide to do next. Do not give up. I commend your courage and more importantly, I believe in you.
@Vidis88
@Vidis88 Ай бұрын
I think a huge thing "scrolling" through internet content have given men, is a leveled up mindset how to handle women. Just realizing one is not alone I think have helped many. Life aint easy. The Danger is still tough getting stuck in that eco-chamber/comfort zone, the real world is out there and it aint gonna wait for you.
@Vidis88
@Vidis88 Ай бұрын
@Center-t1o Dont you think their nature got imprinted back with Adam and Eve😂
@Vidis88
@Vidis88 Ай бұрын
@Center-t1o Yeah that part, I agree.
@nigelrosenberg9014
@nigelrosenberg9014 Ай бұрын
25. Trying to finish school and become a physicist. It’s hard but I’d rather die than give up on myself
@thedavidhammond
@thedavidhammond Ай бұрын
You need Jesus bro. He’s your therapy. Love you G. ❤
@animalsvillagelife
@animalsvillagelife Ай бұрын
You watch Jack denmo?
@RobertLofty
@RobertLofty Ай бұрын
Jesus is a lie.
@user-yk4gd1fl4z
@user-yk4gd1fl4z Ай бұрын
Leave your sky daddy fantasy out of if
@carpenoctem775
@carpenoctem775 Ай бұрын
Not that bad. It’s cool to have topical discussions with people.
@kleenexbox974
@kleenexbox974 Ай бұрын
22, im a streamer never locked in enough and so I haven't gotten anywhere, but i been getting serious about it now
@andrxsperez2874
@andrxsperez2874 Ай бұрын
I am 21 years old, i work as assistant account and I just came here to practice my English by doing shadowing technique. I am Colombian and I am learning English in order to get a better job, that’s all. (If anyone wants practice with me, tell me)
@ALIVE-Company
@ALIVE-Company Ай бұрын
You're right. I'm going to listen to books more instead of YT and gain new skills instead of thinking I'm being productive here.
@Svj63dreamcar
@Svj63dreamcar Ай бұрын
love you denmo, keep on helping me
@abdeldjalilchabane3181
@abdeldjalilchabane3181 Ай бұрын
Im 29 and i study electrical engineering on a forign country i used to be around family a lot this make me never feel alone (exept during covid where i was locked in my apartment ) i've never feel the need of a girlfriend my family was giving me all the attention and love necessary but i think it was a big mistake because now i'm 29 alone on a different country yes i have friend but it's not enough i need someone who i will be able to open to and listen to me and listen to him and care and encourage each other and that's the caracterestique usually found in a good women i tried to approach girls here but because of the language (i speak the language but i'm not smooth can't make flirty jokes and rizzez) plus my lack of experience it was so difficult for me .i'm trying to improve but i wish it was easier.
@Thunderbolt-9
@Thunderbolt-9 Ай бұрын
I’m 27, never had a girlfriend or sex. That hasn’t stopped me from trying though, but it’s getting harder
@CEO-tp3go
@CEO-tp3go Ай бұрын
Therapy is not bad in itself,
@CEO-tp3go
@CEO-tp3go Ай бұрын
This is such an American problem i travel to other countries and men abroad always have a sense of community, tribe, Brotherhood, but in America everyone is hyper individualistic
@maikh.7813
@maikh.7813 Ай бұрын
The beginning was great man😂welcome to the therapy show
@zyzz7
@zyzz7 Ай бұрын
23 years old, actually I'm working as a web designer and UX/UI Design. My goal is to expand my work in foreign companies, not only in from Brazil. Because I found the occupation that I love so much, but also I'd found several difficulties to maintain the consistency in prospection, production content and so on. I got bored so easier many times in the work that I feel I'll procrastinate in other things.
@alikhazali6446
@alikhazali6446 Ай бұрын
Hi my name is ali from iran I'm 20 years old I'm just a student in college. Thank you ❤❤
@BrianDgreat123
@BrianDgreat123 Ай бұрын
Most of the manosphere stuff is super toxic and terrible too, but for a lot of dudes its all they have because nobody elae will offer them any sympathy.
@AlexRocks80s80s
@AlexRocks80s80s Ай бұрын
I had an idiot therapist as my first ever therapist. It sucks because now I don’t want any therapist
@notreallynate6814
@notreallynate6814 Ай бұрын
i NEEDED THIS VIDEO. I'M 25 NO JOB. GOING TO A SMALL COMMUNITY COLLEGE TMR
@memoism457
@memoism457 Ай бұрын
I think this is your magnum opus for help videos. Your line on “KZbin is for poor people” is insanely accurate and designed to be that way. If you have money you’re not gonna be online. You’re gonna be doing whatever activity in the real world.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial Ай бұрын
glad you found this video helpful brother
@Lapis8000
@Lapis8000 Ай бұрын
You just have to throw yourself out there. Exposure is crucial for development.
@Diomedes_XXII
@Diomedes_XXII Ай бұрын
Bro, this is the second vid i saw from you... fuckin good shit. Big up.
@JeffCaplan313
@JeffCaplan313 Ай бұрын
I found the one thing in this world that cares for me - the algorithm. ❤️ 🤖 ❤️
@RouVie2001
@RouVie2001 Ай бұрын
talking about my problems isnt going to make me feel better. the resolution of my problems will make me feel better. i live in a small town so even if I leave my house there's not gonna be any girls to approach.
@Balasidine957
@Balasidine957 Ай бұрын
Therapy nearly ended my life. I had to quit permanently before things got bad.
@fabricliver
@fabricliver Ай бұрын
Tell us more!
@Balasidine957
@Balasidine957 Ай бұрын
@@fabricliver Have you been surrounded by people who don't get you? It eats you alive to the point where you feel so alone. Therapy put me in a very dangerous spot. So before I did something awful, I pulled away...permanently. Men should not be going to therapy period. The system hates you.
@LoisJacquelyne
@LoisJacquelyne Ай бұрын
this format really suits me
@jonp.1084
@jonp.1084 Ай бұрын
This was very therapeutic Denmo
@RamonSampson-m4o
@RamonSampson-m4o 9 күн бұрын
this sht hit different fr
@swerth
@swerth Ай бұрын
I like therapy. I don't think my therapist is a good person. I'm 59, management. A few good points in there, always learning
@tristianchevier
@tristianchevier Ай бұрын
This is what arrogance looks like. As men we just want to do it ourselves but anyone whos been successful has had mentors and teachers to guide them in the right direction
@terrencesaffold5841
@terrencesaffold5841 Ай бұрын
Thank you 🔥 I’m gonna take notes lol
@terrencesaffold5841
@terrencesaffold5841 Ай бұрын
Im 23, im currently working in fast food(Portilo's) I am gonna get my forklift license but i like learning philosophy and writing i wanna be a author and i also write songs i do watch you videos they are top tier i also appreciate the tough love respect
@twixxtro
@twixxtro Ай бұрын
4 hours aint even THAT bad😭🙏
@redwall1521
@redwall1521 Ай бұрын
wow get a life
@Jducukfks
@Jducukfks Ай бұрын
I mean it depends on your age but after looking at your data @twixxtro who spends 9h+ per day on the internet I see no hope
@90slifter90
@90slifter90 Ай бұрын
True some people it’s 8-10 hours.
@twixxtro
@twixxtro Ай бұрын
@@redwall1521 is 4 hours really that bad
@darzelizam8404
@darzelizam8404 Ай бұрын
There s different types of therapy : Schema / Systems / Behavioural / ... Depending on your needs one will work better then the other.
@AlexSaheli
@AlexSaheli Ай бұрын
Just to make Denmo a bit more happy, I have a full excel table where I track my meanigful actions every day.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial Ай бұрын
atta boy, you are making me happy
@AlexSaheli
@AlexSaheli Ай бұрын
@@jacobb8832 man ill be honest these questions are dumb. Sorry. With love
@jacobb8832
@jacobb8832 Ай бұрын
​@Denmosocial Hey Denmo. I'm 23 with ASD/manic depressive disorder, and I just quit my job at a grocery store not too long ago in Fort Lauderdale, Florida. I'm now back on my grind, going to the gym, reading some good books, getting a driver's license, self-therapy, trading/digital marketing, going on walks, photography, winter arc, memory improvement, escape the matrix, etc. As I'm preparing to lock in, accomplish goals, and finally get myself together by the end of this year before 2025, I still haven't truly figured out my true purpose and passions to pursue for the near future. The struggles of not knowing who I truly am can be very troubling in this day in age since my brain always feels like I'm stuck in a time loop. All I'm focusing on is to be a beginner, heal and detox from reality, expand my positive outlook on life, and just be brave enough to embrace the unknown. I don't even have any good ideas for an online business or whether or not I should go to college other than to want to be a better, healthier person.
@rodrigomoran5181
@rodrigomoran5181 Ай бұрын
I enjoy my job I work in auto paint and body shop is very good money too
@stefverheyen8547
@stefverheyen8547 Ай бұрын
i am 32 years working in factory, soon as bike repairder Building my brand soon my first YT video is online
@TheRazorReloaded
@TheRazorReloaded Ай бұрын
when does a new monk mode video come
@jacobb8832
@jacobb8832 Ай бұрын
How do I do monk mode every day? What should I do?
@nesano4735
@nesano4735 Ай бұрын
Selfishness is just a byproduct of suffering.
@jacobb8832
@jacobb8832 Ай бұрын
How so?
@nesano4735
@nesano4735 Ай бұрын
@@jacobb8832 When someone's suffering all they can think about is their own suffering.
@jacobb8832
@jacobb8832 Ай бұрын
@nesano4735 All I think about is the one map/plan I still have yet to come up with, not to suffer any longer. To refigure out my truest self that could bring value to this crazy world. Not knowing where to start or what to pursue other than wanting to be stronger, smarter, and more fit.
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial Ай бұрын
elaborate more
@nesano4735
@nesano4735 Ай бұрын
@@Denmosocial Thinking of the logical extreme of it makes the connection more apparent. A guy bleeding out in a trench that's gonna die in minutes unless he gets medical attention isn't thinking about anyone but himself. Men these days are basically experiencing a slower, non-physical version of that.
@agustinhernandez8461
@agustinhernandez8461 Ай бұрын
Starting a business gunna teach you all the therapy you need 😅
@jacobb8832
@jacobb8832 Ай бұрын
Good for you, brother.👍 To be honest, in my perspective, I currently don't even have any good ideas for an online business or a company to build. I've got nothing. I feel like I no longer have any creative vision to use for myself. The only things I plan on doing are to start making money online by trading or even dropshipping. How do I get some inspiration to make an online business?
@indmslikedeez8005
@indmslikedeez8005 Ай бұрын
@@jacobb8832do you have any interests like in sports or any specific media like tv shows or films? If so your business can be based on reviewing those topics whether it be basketball, football or horror movies etc. What kinda things are you interested in
@omkarjoshi-wn6bf
@omkarjoshi-wn6bf Ай бұрын
What is your take on true love
@borysd6339
@borysd6339 Ай бұрын
Could you please tell what mic you have?
@BlckPollen
@BlckPollen Ай бұрын
I love therapy mang
@SgtBrutalisk
@SgtBrutalisk Ай бұрын
Therapists don't have clinical experience.
@jaspergabriels8933
@jaspergabriels8933 Ай бұрын
all those therapists are so crap my god
@OliviaLotetta
@OliviaLotetta Ай бұрын
really liked this video
@tanayvasishtha1336
@tanayvasishtha1336 Ай бұрын
If you want cheap therapy just try developing countries therapists. Hope it helps
@AlexSaheli
@AlexSaheli Ай бұрын
Oh so true
@christianburrzGR3Y
@christianburrzGR3Y Ай бұрын
How do you know all this about me???
@VeraAnnaqa
@VeraAnnaqa Ай бұрын
awesome
@Nubbley
@Nubbley Ай бұрын
Only place I don’t get called incel for talking about abuse and bullying xD sadly.
@parthsarvaiya4316
@parthsarvaiya4316 Ай бұрын
Yea man , that's true . My younger brother just told me that you should fucking delete youtube I live on KZbin. He said. And for so many years. And you're saying that. Ahah funny.
@alwaysemployed656
@alwaysemployed656 Ай бұрын
Don't bro me. I am not your bro.
@smerdopsis6092
@smerdopsis6092 Ай бұрын
Don't watch his videos, it's up to you.
@rankupwithme
@rankupwithme Ай бұрын
Wtf is the purpose of this comment
@Denmosocial
@Denmosocial Ай бұрын
okay bro
@TibiConstantine
@TibiConstantine Ай бұрын
bruhhhhhh
@timo5204
@timo5204 Ай бұрын
I think the best compliment for Jack is to not watch his videos
@alikhazali6446
@alikhazali6446 Ай бұрын
❤❤
@itsnick37
@itsnick37 Ай бұрын
Therapy for men? Work on yourself and having hobbies that’s it don’t believe in therapy.
@jacobb8832
@jacobb8832 Ай бұрын
But I don't have any good hobbies, and I don't really know a good strategy to work on myself. What should I do to figure it out.
@ArmageddonChess
@ArmageddonChess Ай бұрын
@@jacobb8832 find new hobbies, try out everything, Martial arts, sports, chess, coding..
@Libertycity56
@Libertycity56 Ай бұрын
What would you define as "working on yourself"? Anything that you do that helps you grow as a person is "working on yourself". One could argue going to therapy is working on yourself.
@Tupac25Shakur
@Tupac25Shakur Ай бұрын
Whats up with the pranks
@necia7301
@necia7301 Ай бұрын
idk why youtube recommended this video to me as im not a guy, but im genuinely curious - why so many of you guys seem to be so obsessed with getting sex and having a WOMAN? a woman, not a life partner and someone you love and cherish, and someone you treat like another human being and your best friend. also based on what guys comment under this video and other ones of this kind it just feels like most of you treat opposite gender more like a possession you dont have, not like another human being which is kinda the first step you guys might be failing at? also so many of you focus only on sex which is... not really the only pleasure in this life? world is really messed up about many things and sex being seen as an achievement is one of them, but really, you guys should stop focusing on only that, because from a perspective of an outsider it seems like that's the main goal here. go and find some hobbies, people who dont have extreme/weird views on life and stop thinking you're the victim. leave your echo chamber and stop treating sex as the most important goal in your life. sex is cool and it comes from a woman, but there really is more than only that one thing :/
@twixxtro
@twixxtro Ай бұрын
10 hours
@tornikeumankoshvili7041
@tornikeumankoshvili7041 Ай бұрын
Y'all don't need therapy, y'all need Jesus, man.
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@Yeyeyey23 Ай бұрын
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everybody around you is faking it.
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