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@melanati0n2 ай бұрын
As a child from a polygamous home, I can truly say I was deeply neglected in my childhood. I have carried sicknesses from my childhood into my adulthood my parents didn't even know about. I had to become my own parent and raise myself as my parents constantly bickered and went to war with each other. I am still healing from all my childhood trauma of being constantly taunted and bullied by my elder siblings from my other mothers. Truly speaking, I can't recall a day when my polygamous home was ever about me and my siblings😢
@Ekwy20232 ай бұрын
So sorry about your experience, but there are some children in monogamy that went and are still going through this same neglect. May God help everyone, and our different circumstances/situations
@rayrayndiema2 ай бұрын
@@Ekwy2023 polygamy definitely has it’s unique problems. Watching your father chose another woman over your mother, and the children bearing the brunt is a messed up thing!
@brandnewtofood21842 ай бұрын
Aww, here is a vital hug 🤗 take comfort dear. ❤
@nomsosworld2 ай бұрын
Sending warm hug, love and light to you dear.
@Ekwy20232 ай бұрын
@@rayrayndiema Sorry dear, I don’t really share this sentiment about polygamy, though am not saying your experience is not legitimate, however there’s something definitely worse than what you just described. Whether polygamy or monogamy, follow your heart
@Adaezeadina2 ай бұрын
May isn't even interested in any kind of competition with this so-called Judy. Repercussion is the only thing awaiting this lost and confused soul called Yul
@sandraokonkwo9002 ай бұрын
You re so right sis!!! Infact am tearing up writing this .Four is a whole lot ,i hv four too. I can tell you its too exhausting and draining. I know am no longer myself,parenting is not for the fainthearted. Its well.
@user-wr8hp9gc8d2 ай бұрын
Judy neglected her other kids in the village with her parents. She is an irresponsible mother. So she can have 100 kids.
@Musaliyomunde1Ай бұрын
@@user-wr8hp9gc8d 🤣🤣🤣
@madamnaija11172 ай бұрын
In some places, the men leave the children with the woman after they are done with a relationship. A word is enough for the wise!
@Allwell8232 ай бұрын
Those commiting adultery are selfishly using the children to validate their acceptance in the family.
@christophernwachukwu69722 ай бұрын
Preach on! 👍
@brandnewtofood21842 ай бұрын
I think that’s what Mercy Johnson did bearing 4 kids back to back when she “apparently” took someone’s husband
@ayodeleayodele65002 ай бұрын
But ppl clapped for Mercy Johnson!🤣🤣!! Maybe becos the first wife was not as popular as Mercy Johnson!! Double standard against Judy!!😁
@nehla942 ай бұрын
@@ayodeleayodele6500it’s not double standard against Judy, Mercy’s husband was not as known as Yul. Yul also came out to say how much May sacrificed for him. He did all these by himself inviting the public’s opinions into his life. When he looked as a responsible husband then he loved the attention, he used to comment on everything happening on blogs. People who live in glass houses should not throw stones. May has also never come out to insult Yul or Judy, she just minds her business while Yul and Judy are busy taunting her. There’s literally no similarity between Mercy and Yul. Mercy allegedly did hers and kept quiet about it. Yul has been online since then posting to the public and enjoying the opinions of others.
@ayodeleayodele65002 ай бұрын
@@nehla94 it's ok! The fact still remain both took another person's husband!! Mercy aigbe did it too! And she was dancing up and down with the man!! Ppl only choose who they want to criticize!! I didn't support any of them.
@healthythrivingfamily98202 ай бұрын
You said it the right way my sister
@thebestindewest2 ай бұрын
Sister Judy must realize what she consentes to will return back to her..she will soon see #deceptionisrealo #whatcomesaroundgoesaround
@maryjuan5082 ай бұрын
Children are really very very expensive if he doesn’t know and it cost a lot of time and patience to raise up children
@4ever9112 ай бұрын
Keep speaking the truth. God bless you nwanyioma.
@melanati0n2 ай бұрын
Looking good Summer❤❤❤
@sandraokonkwo9002 ай бұрын
I agree with you 💯% the world is a horrible place.
@audreykyte2 ай бұрын
Hello Summer welcome back home, as for Yul, he did not marry Judy, no one in the Edochie' s Family has accepted Judy, no one. Judy is still a baby mama. Judy is 38yrs. old so how old will she be by the time she gets the 11th child. Yul mother said she can have 100 but she will still not be part of their Family.
@thebestindewest2 ай бұрын
Wow it is sad that she is trying her best to squeeze herself in....I pray she wakes up n realize she sold herself short
@pdm84462 ай бұрын
@@thebestindewestdon’t waste your prayers on Just pls . 🙏🏾
@ayodeleayodele65002 ай бұрын
@pdm8446 the truth is ur prayer or not, Judy and Yul are living their lives!! Mercy Johnson took another person's husband, she's enjoying her life and you ppl are still clapping for her!! Mercy aigbe did the same!! Let them live their lives!!
@user-wr8hp9gc8d2 ай бұрын
Judy is 1979 according to some people that know her. Others said she is 38. You are right that she is not married to Yul yet. She is not his wife. None of the Edochie's showed up for the baby dedication. Judy is just a very desperate woman.
@user-wr8hp9gc8d2 ай бұрын
@@ayodeleayodele6500 Mercy married a Muslim. Yul is Roman catholic. A child also died in the whole process. Judy came out to mock a mourning mom. That cannot be forgotten. Judy came to destroy and take over. This polygamy would have been very toxic. I'm glad May refused. Judy's insecurities would have made her do bad things within the marriage. She can go ahead and eat Yul and be prepared to welcome a younger wife after her. We know she can't take that because she doesn't let any other woman come close to Yul on set. She is very jealous. How can such woman be a polygamist? Dey play!
@thebestindewest2 ай бұрын
It is very unfortunate that the children are brought in to the situation and they neglected....end up with a rough life because they feel they dont belong....we see it everyvday Aunty Summer
@zipporahweah76712 ай бұрын
First to comment.watching from Liberia
@floralovoji6091Ай бұрын
Children have to be taking care of .you said it all right
@sandraokonkwo9002 ай бұрын
I can absolutely relate. Sometimes i feel am going crazy.
@NeneBlessing2 ай бұрын
You have said it all
@isaacoguamanam2532 ай бұрын
I wish you a wonderful blessed happy Sunday Nwanyioma jisike ❤
@rashasharobertson42332 ай бұрын
Very well said summer. My complete sentments . I never desired to have alot of chuldren because I wanted them to enjoy there childhood and give them the best. I have 2 a very big afe gap to give both of them the love, support and care that was needed. 1 us 28 years and the other 13 years. Both of them feel like the only child syndrome. Its truly quality over quanity that matters. Focus on being successful as a woman and making your children successful you wont be naive or fighting over things you did not labor for when the individual pass away.
@patehigiator14742 ай бұрын
Summer, you are right when I was in Nigeria. I said to myself I am going to have more children when I travel out of Nigeria I have to rethink my word and say know having more children is easy but giving them good life is another tin so I gave birth to the ones I know I can give good life.
@pdm84462 ай бұрын
My hubby’s uncle married 2nd wife. 1st wife had 5 children. Just like Summer said, 2nd wife wanted to outdo and outshine so she had 7 abi 8 children… at some point, 1st wife had been chased out of the home. Fast forward to about 10 years ago, 1st wife was brought back home and 2nd wife sent packing. Tehehehehe
@thebestindewest2 ай бұрын
Aunty Summer 1 aunty of mine had 11 and I can tell you she wasnt a kind person she never got rest her body n mind never recover o #verysad
@thebestindewest2 ай бұрын
Aunty Summer you have said well o
@omololafaithfrancis43822 ай бұрын
Eleven what????????????????????? MY God. Wonder no go end oooooooo
@heather54792 ай бұрын
Only selfish and inconsiderate people would born children for competition sake.Children need love and attention ,from 0 -18 parents are responsible for those children and how can they adequately provide for those children if their motives for brining them into the world is not right.
@tinachizo69442 ай бұрын
Judy forgot she had severe preeclampsia, the older you the more severe they get. Good luck Judy with your aspirations.
@ayodeleayodele65002 ай бұрын
It's not Judy that spoke, it's Yul! Yul can still marry another wife!!
@DorisL-ti6yn2 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯. Very important message. It's not about numbers 🔢.
@Cecyk2 ай бұрын
In the end it’s the children and the woman who will suffer the consequences. At this point Judy should be very careful because the effects of his actions will be more severe for her and the children she is gonna give birth too.
@tzoneo80292 ай бұрын
Summer Summer
@ujunwalilian70832 ай бұрын
Hi❤
@jenniferokuh90152 ай бұрын
Truth saying Aku, let the husbands proprieties not be everything to any woman oOoOO fight for your children's good doing in life😂
@Unique2023-2 ай бұрын
Juju Austin already has 3 children with her ex husband and now 2 with Yul, with no thriving career, hmm shes in for it , May can care less no competition here, she's blessed and financially stable.
@evelynejeka71822 ай бұрын
Let Yul sign the divorce papers so he can continue his mass production
@jenniferokuh90152 ай бұрын
Dear are saying that this man is going to father the other children God forbid he is digging his grave while still alive to bad cheia thank Aku
@Pauline07_082 ай бұрын
They also want to show the other person that they actually do have intimate relations with their SO and being pregnant is the proof😢
@godisincontrol92872 ай бұрын
His trying make may jealous since she the one in custody of those kids and has right to see them has been compromised by his actions. So bringing ford children from other woman... Is I can have children if I want. Very foolish and stupid idea
@rosewillisakyempong27982 ай бұрын
Queen May is not competing with anyone. If Judy wants to compete she need to use brains and not kpukus and occultic practices.😢
@beatriceaissatou84992 ай бұрын
Summer, you said don’t be selfish okay, so why should YUL be so SELFISH to deprive Judy’s Husband Mr Obassi from the right of gaining access to his children!
@vasselandrea49552 ай бұрын
I bet you yul will not be sticking around for long to do this whole parenting thing again.
@pamelamojekwu56402 ай бұрын
Yul, Yul, Yul....hmmmm
@user-wr8hp9gc8d2 ай бұрын
Judy is not a smart woman. Her bringing more kids into this mess is selfish of her. She is currently pregnant as we speak.
@ndidiamakanwachukwu51862 ай бұрын
Na to born children be d tin? Na to train dem be d koko. Born full house at the end some go be vagabond. Mtcheeeew
@emmanuelchikeluba23602 ай бұрын
Good take generally, but could Nigerians let this family be? This is wrong and it's purveyed by social media. This is people's personal affairs and people are making it theirs because of SM.
@esthermark56042 ай бұрын
She is not thinking of health issues, like prolapse and others. Such competitions come with a lot of issues, as per Yul he will move on to another, while she stays at home nursing her wounds. Wisdom is profitable to direct.
@marqarittakakuva4712 ай бұрын
They are elleven ??
@faithessome63672 ай бұрын
He wants to have 11 children.
@Jane-ms2fz2 ай бұрын
Am sorry to sound rude, but the character most men shows there is nothing logical about them, and sometimes I wonder if, indeed, God made them the head. Will God give the leadership to a careless being and ask the reasonable one to follow the reckless one.
@ayodeleayodele65002 ай бұрын
You can change it. When u have u own husband, tell him u want to be the head!! And if u are married already, endeavor to be the head. That's if u have taken the position from him!😂😂
@Jane-ms2fz2 ай бұрын
@@ayodeleayodele6500 hahaha. If he is not sensible, he can't lead. Know one wants to enter pit
@beatriceaissatou84992 ай бұрын
Excuse me SUMMER, YUL & JUDY are not married, YUL has never even addressed JUDY as his wife because he knew Judy is excited having children with YUL just to force herself to YUL especially as she Judy fines it to be her only achievement on earth
@pdm84462 ай бұрын
His very 1st post introducing Judy was as a second wife.