Your Assumptions: Our Reactions | Episode 4

We asked, and you answered! Now it’s our turn. This is Raising Heights with Zach and Tori Roloff. Today we’re diving into assumptions and questions you submitted on Instagram to set things straight - from Zach’s interests and habits to our Disney trips, our stance on parenting and lifestyle decisions and the shame stay-at-home parents get today, we’re here to unpack it all.
We share answers to the questions everyone’s been asking:
👉 Do you work? (and what does that look like?)
👉 What kind of family are you? Are you messy?
👉 Is Zach lazy? Do you have help with the kids?
👉 What does the Rolloff family dynamic look like today?
Thank you to everyone who submitted assumptions - this was fun and we plan on doing it again! Follow us on Instagram for your chance to submit in the future.
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[@Amy-vx9lz]

I’ve always like Zach since he was a kid. He was chill and level headed way back then and he hasn’t changed a bit. I love that about him.

[@alysshae3282]

I loved when Tori said that is she irreplaceable at her home and replaceble at her job. So. True!!!

[@gleannemarie]

THIS!

[@suesteig3025]

❤❤

[@snorpuff4722]

❤

[@christyb.2272]

Will someone tell me what it means when someone writes "THIS." I have no idea what that means. Are they too lazy to write out a sentence?

[@christyb.2272]

Unfortunately Zach's Dad contributed to that 'lazy' rumor by saying back when Zach wanted to buy the farm, he wanted a reduced price but wanted his Dad to keep doing all the work. I wish you could explain what his father meant by that because he seemed to be saying that he thought if Zach bought the farm it would all fall apart due to Zach being lazy. And then his father said something else about how when the kids were growing up Amy never stayed on them about not throwing things all over the property, and he seemed to be saying he thought Zach would be very lazy also. I'm not saying I agree at all, just telling you what his father seemed to be saying.

[@pastorpattonvictorysprings2562]

Kudos to Tori for defending stay at home Moms. My Mom raised five children and worked very hard doing so from the time she got up in the morning until the time she went to bed at night. God bless you Tori and all good mothers everywhere. I have great respect for hard working stay at home mothers and I feel it is one of the most important jobs in the world. God bless you!

[@betsyfeller3378]

Thanks! I am one of the "good mothers" you speak of!

[@TS84NO]

@@betsyfeller3378 I think the person who made that comment, meant that they didn't have a job in the "traditional, 9-5" way tho. Which is true. BUT, being able to stay home, like you do, is really a blessing :) A lot of people aren't lucky enough to have that choice. Just like a friend of mine, who at 34, lost his wife to cancer, and ended up being a single parent to 3 young kids. He HAVE to work full time, yet he's still an amazing dad :)

[@marlenemulrenin8552]

I love how solid Zack is and not bubbly and excitable every time he sits in front of the camera. He’s a real solid guy and I love that.💙

[@susanlawson6290]

He gets cute and loveable (giggly) when he is interacting with Tori and priming her for his getting ready to challenge her... I love to watch him squirm but still follow through his thought as he tries to explain how he feels about something she does.. he is able to say it with love and she is able to accept it in that vein too!! they are such a cute couple!!

[@csom465]

Someone’s got a crush!!❤ He is dreamy!!

[@jeanmedeiros1783]

Dude's been working since he was a kid. He kept the train rolling. Tori is irreplaceable. Amazing humans ❤

[@meggie423]

Doing what

[@budgetwithrenay2419]

Meg, maybe you need to troll a different Podcast.

[@toodleloo2253]

@@meggie423 It does make you wonder because most young married couples at this age are paying down student debt, mortgages, car payments, raising kids, AND busting their behinds at the office More than 40 Hours a week!!--☺ But, maybe they claim disabilities, etc.??.. Or they already made The TV Fortune??.. Just wondering!...

[@sthompson1565]

I totally agree with you, Jean. They are amazing and the real deal!!

[@cherylbrantley4736]

I don’t call having cameras following you around a job, yeah Tori is amazing because she married him but she also knew there was money and thing to be had so she had to make a trade off and she ended up with three little kids some who will have some medical problems, so yes, and you have the money money but on the other hand, you have the other things going on.

[@justamom863]

Regarding the "laziness" comment. I think it is a direct reflection of the show. Zach was always compared to his dad's ambitious nature. Someone had to play second fiddle to Matt and as the other siblings stopped being on the show, Zach fell into that second fiddle spot. Zach is clearly providing a good life for his family and not lazy.

[@kathigee]

Best quote I've heard in a LONG time... "I am irreplaceable in my own home. I am very replaceable outside my home." SO TRUE!!! I Love it!

[@purificaciondelgadovazquez4791]

Buenos días zak y tori soy una fan vuestra desde que empezaron los capítulos madre mía sois un matrimonio increíble y bueno vuestros hijos maravillosos os merecéis todo lo que habéis construido juntos y más espero que Dios os dé mucha salud y prosperidad os queremos desde Barcelona España

[@ValerieinSC]

Zach is very articulate and thoughtful. This podcast is great.

[@amazingcars-ge7oi]

Tori's narcissism is the real issue. She is the reason he has a broken relationship with his family.

[@suzannep8371]

@@amazingcars-ge7oi that’s not true she loves his Mom Amy

[@kathysutter6968]

I like how Zack can see both sides of an issue.

[@maryann823]

I love Zack’s personality. Tori too, but Zack is funny, smart and he tells the truth, has a good understanding of how life works.

[@wildflower008]

Couldn’t agree more!

[@bvee715]

I agree!!

[@TrVlogs82]

Facts. From the start of the show, Zack was always my fav. He is more like me. Because he was shy & a late bloomer.

[@BrandyH-eh9up]

I have watched since he was a child and i agree! He and Tori really match up

[@lyndaseymore9054]

100%

[@susied1596]

Zach, some people may say "lazy" but I see you as just chill, easy-going, flexible, real and not feeling the need to be the center of attention. Keep being you and ignore those opinionated, rude people whose mold you don't fit into. Tori, you're an amazing human too so keep it up as well!

[@cherylbrantley4736]

Zach has never had a real job And now he’s complaining because his father won’t give him the farm. His father doesn’t have to he built that empire and trust me. Zach will benefit from it in the end typical selfish, self-centered person.

[@susied1596]

@@cherylbrantley4736 When you say "real job" I assume you mean a traditional 8 - 5 office job? Because Zach has worked for Indoor Goals for years and also got paid to be on the show. It isn't a traditional job but that's not a bad thing and he made enough money to support his wife and children. And he didn't ask his father to give him the farm. He made a reasonable offer to buy the house. Matt had told everyone their entire lives that he hoped the farm would be taken over by one of the children to keep it in the family. But he got greedy with the market and thought he could sell the house for millions and make a huge profit off of it. I know Matt has worked hard to make the farm what it is though and I'm not saying he should just give it all away and not have any money to support himself in his old age but that's not what they were trying to do when they offered to buy it. He really set them all up for disappointment by the empty promises he made all those years. But I think Zach and Tori have a lovely new home and I'm sure they will make many happy memories there for their family.

[@pamelac.3241]

@@cherylbrantley4736 WOW judgemental here! Zach gave an offer of MONEY, he didn't expect the farm to just be "given" to him. Matt turned down Zach's offer cuz he is greedy. PLUS Matt went and changed the amount of land he was offering to sell. Not cool.

[@petal979]

Define 'real job' @@cherylbrantley4736

[@cherylbrantley4736]

Yeah, chill because his family lucked out and got a TV show. If they wouldn’t he couldn’t be chilling at all and wouldn’t be able to have a family so let’s call it what it is.

[@deborahdodge8483]

Wow… it’s so nice to hear Zach talk. He is so intelligent and has so much perspective on what the viewers think in such an understanding way.

[@shawntingelhoff8167]

My peak for today is hearing Tori say…”I am irreplaceable in my home, I am very replaceable outside of my home. So where am I going to do the work? I’m going to do the work at home.” 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🔥❤️❤️❤️

[@jennifermahajan3465]

Wow, I am surprised that I really like their podcast. Not because I didn’t like them but because I didn’t think it would be so interesting. Tori is an absolute natural and Zach has well thought out things to say.

[@louDAY831]

Agree! I'm enjoying their podcast a lot more than I have enjoyed the LPBW show since the divorce and farm property issues and Caryn becoming a part of the show!😑

[@lindaradtke9295]

I was disappointed when you said you were quitting LPBW but now with your podcast I'm good. I think it represents you so much better. I am loving it.

[@tamiej5829]

The show will not be the same without them!! They add youth and family.

[@Kchambers23]

@@Net-26 FYI, they were let go for poor ratings.

[@honeststers4688]

@@Kchambers23 True, I fast forward on there parts to get to Matt and Amy stuff.

[@davelundon.dt9vf]

@@TrentBriggs-ti8uk They should have cut tori and zach from this current season. They have no storyline and are like watching paint dry.

[@patjones5723]

Yup.. .me too 😍

[@july77773]

Zach is used to being interrupted because his father and mother constantly interrupted him. Also, growing up in a group, there are many voices to contend with. Tory has the perfect husband for her need to talk. She is intelligent. Zach's comments inspire her brain.

[@elizabethcabrera5718]

Thank you for sticking up for stay at home moms . It’s the hardest job I have ever had and I took it seriously raising my 5 children to be the awesome productive people they are . Being a chef and nurse and an underwriter . Yes I received a pay check but my children is a lifetime reward 😊❤ love y’all

[@cheriemyers2155]

Peak and pit. Peak for social media for Zak could be social media making you a more communicative person? The pits of social media could be a long list. Parenting children how to responsibly deal with social media is big. The two of you with all your experience in social media with be better equipped to help and teach your children. Good luck and best wishes to all the Roloffs.

[@PrincessKarissa21]

Amen!!!

[@crazygrams6683]

Domestic engineers have the most important job of all. I did it too, my kids are now grown and I can't be more happy with the outcome. Never apologize or be embarrassed for it, the rewards cannot be diminished!

[@user-vl7un2zq6y]

I appreciate Zach’s comments about him not being lazy. I think he is just a laid back, easy going person and as he said it isn’t that important to be super driven.

[@dustibones9879]

My impression of Zack is that he's quietly taking information in and observing before he speaks. Not one to jump in just to hear himself talk. Good podcast, you two.

[@WhirlyPearly]

Zachary you’ve been using your brain and had great ideas from an early age. You are a super smart guy and put your ideas into action and are a great Dad. I’m impressed at the family you and Tori are creating and you each have your part. It’s hard to be in the public view and you both handle it well. This PODcast is great.

[@pamelaknecht5814]

The best thing about this, no boss telling you what to do!!

[@MamaBearBite]

Contentment is the word you might be looking for with the lazy assumption. You grew up with a dad that was never content, he always went for the next best/big thing. That’s exhausting… your kids will be better off knowing that contentment brings a lot more happiness then chasing something to bring you that temporary high of faux joy.

[@misssunshine8469]

wow, well said

[@plethora.of.etceteras]

Spot on observation and very well said. 💛

[@susantrapp3769]

You guys have 3 beautiful children that is a job 24-7. Your family being on TV for so long is a job. No fooling me.

[@CuzmicTarot]

I seriously agree with you 🤷🏾‍♂️🖤😅

[@fionafifi7029]

Exactly! And I only have 1 child. Idk how anyone has more than 1 child 😂😳

[@cherylbrantley4736]

So lot of people have kids.

[@daveshoemaker7137]

@@cherylbrantley4736 And work a couple of jobs and take care of their children and home!

[@susantrapp3769]

@@cherylbrantley4736 and it's a full time job

[@Joy4Light9]

"I am irreplaceable in my home" YES!!! Such a blessing to have the chance to be home with your children. You guys are making that happen right now, and I hope that for all that want it!!! It's HARD, but priceless ❤

[@pamelaknecht5814]

I so agree, your children are little for such a short amount of time, if you’re blessed to be able to stay and be a stay at home parent’s then I say god bless both of you and more importantly your family!! People are just jealous, so I say don’t pay attention to them!!

[@user-ky3vv1iu5t]

I have watched your journey from the very beginning. Zack you have always been my favorite. You have grown to be a very smart,strong, independent person,husband and father. I always felt like the show held you back. You had opinions and things to say that you didn’t get a chance to share. I could see you biting your tongue. Sooooo now is the time to shine and be you! Tell us how it is and if they don’t like it STOP WATCHING!!! It’s that easy people ugh! Thank you for sharing your journey with us, I know it’s not been easy. I do miss seeing you and Jeremy together.

[@motivationwithlisa]

II LOVE ZACH'S INTELLIGENCE!!! Everyone has a role to play in this life❤

[@carlafranklin3081]

I am often amazed at how critical and judgmental people can be on social media. They make assumptions about people from a few minutes of airtime without really knowing them. I enjoy your podcast as much as I enjoyed watching LPBW. Thank you for sharing this glimpse into your life.

[@ridingtheroad185]

You are so right and even worse they will boycott businesses and go to such extremes. So sad.

[@joyful_tanya]

I only got into the first few seasons of LPBW, but my husband loved it. But even he bailed during the divorce. It brought up "too many feelings " about his own divorce. But we are both enjoying this podcast!

[@rachellehernandez302]

You are so right

[@cherylbrantley4736]

Really, get used to it.

[@user-si6qm8jr6v]

I’m seeing a new side of Zach. Tori being a mom is a KINGDOM job and you are doing great!

[@Stopit77]

Agree 100% about the eating thing. I came from a home where dinner was made for you, it was there so if you don’t like it…starve! You go Zach!

[@shannonjumper5695]

Tori is 💯% percent correct. As a stay at home mom for the last 22 years I wouldn’t have had it any other way. Those years of raising your children you cannot ever get back. As my children r now 15,17,and 22 they will tell you themselves how much they appreciated having mom at home as they were growing up. Don’t let anyone hate on you for wanting to raise your children.

[@cherylbrantley4736]

Neither you or Tori invented being the stay at home mom’s of course she staying at home she’s on TV

[@user-oz9cm4ym7g]

@@cherylbrantley4736 And she’s always hocking items, I guess that’s another way to bring in income.

[@StarryNightsAreForDreams]

@shannon I’m proud of myself for having been a stay at home mom for my two now-adult kids. It’s ok to be proud. I overcame a rough childhood to be the mom I wished I had. I would not have traded a better financial situation to miss out on my children growing up. Tori, you are doing a great job, and should be very proud of yourself!

[@smiley1511]

My mom was raising three kids, cooking, cleaning, washing, shopping and was doing everything else you can imagine around the house, while having a full time job !!! So please, don’t praise yourself for being a stay at home mom because that is the easier option to raising the kids and having a full time job at the same time !

[@user-oz9cm4ym7g]

@@smiley1511 I AGREE!

[@eroberts2521]

As the primary cook in my family, I love and respect Zach’s outlook on food and feeding children. Cooking for a family is a lot of work and although you don’t have to eat something you really dislike, don’t expect an alternate meal every day AND show some appreciation for the person who does the work! And it’s true …every meal does not need to be an event! Just eat something and move on! 🙂

[@karolegrano5942]

My mother-in-law was a very practical person. She never worried about making a meal fancy, but she worked hard to feed her family of 12 (10 children). And when she was eating at someone else's home, she always said "Thanks to God, and thanks to the cook". Simple, but so right. I treasure her example.

[@StilettoCutsQuick.]

@@karolegrano5942cooking for 12 it was probably a necessity to be practical. That is impressive.

[@StilettoCutsQuick.]

Zach and Tori are way more like-able than Jeremy and Audrey. They are not pretentious and thank goodness they have a sense of humor. I bet Jeremy and Audrey go months without laughing 🤪

[@antoniawe]

Eat to live not live to eat.

[@shannonpolk9366]

We had that room you can’t touch. A fancy living room. Not allowed in there EVER!!!

[@normafleming2518]

Zach got his dad's ability to create.

[@jarnwine4960]

One of the best new podcasts I have seen in a long time! I want to say how refreshing it is to see a couple show their love and respect for each other all while finding the humor in the day-to-day of life. You two are the best and you can see the love you have for each other and your family. I agree with so many of the comments here, you two are doing it right. Keep loving each other, listening to each other, and showing the kindness that you do with each other and you can handle anything that comes along. God bless you two and your beautiful family. I have watched every podcast, will recommend it to others, and know that this will be a wonderful adventure for you both. Love getting to hear your sides and viewpoints on whatever you choose to share - this is YOUR STORY TOGETHER! 💕

[@Ashley-bb5ts]

We moved to WA from California so we could afford to make me a stay-at-home mom. I still remember the disgusted look I got from my co-workers when I told them I wanted this. They acted like I was from a different planet. I get wanting to work and be someone outside of a mom, but I also get that you only get 5 years before your kids go off and spend their day away from you for most of their day. 5 years flies by! In our case, Im 7 years into this stage, and this will be the last year since my last one is starting school this fall. I can't recommend it enough! The bond and relationship I gained with my kids is PRICELESS!

[@acadkenz.9497]

Thank you for commenting this, this is so encouraging to me and a great example of not caring what people think but choosing what is best for you family! It's sad that so many underlying choices of us as people are driven by money, or to be seen as "good enough" that it leaves people scratching their heads to (if they have the choice) to even choose to dedicate themselves to something so humbling and selfless. In a world where we grab what we want, motherhood does not have payoff of prestige or material goods. But to give as you do for your kids is love that can only enrich and multiply. I think we need to return to the "why" of life, which is to enjoy our relationships and pour into them.

[@user-be6yh1nr6v]

One of the very best consequences of their show..........you two met, fell inlove. got married. living your lives with your beautiful kids! Great loving parents!

[@Amanda.Marie40]

They met because of the show?

[@shannonpolk9366]

@@Amanda.Marie40I think she worked on farm during Pumpkin season without show they may not have had the pumpkin patch portion of farm.

[@MrsCarrieSnyder]

As a SAH mom of 3 who also is a realtor, I appreciate Zack’s understanding that there is a huge difference in y’all’s work load. My husband is a Master commercial plumber. Believe me, what he does is beyond hard. Physically and mentally. I respect that Zack sees y’all’s privileged situation. Even being a SAH mom is such a privilege in todays society. 😊

[@gerryhatrick6678]

I am so thankful to see you be a traditional family. If you are blessed to be able to be hands on parents, that is amazing. Having worked in Daycare for 20 years, one firm fast rule I had was, I would never have kids unless I could stay home and parent them. It is the most important job in the world.

[@daisytwilight]

We went to the farm, pre Tori and met zack by the porta potty....he signed our hat and his personality shinned out...such a kind person

[@Sky-1313]

As parents I think we should focus on lifting our children up emotionally so that they are able to get through all the negative things of the world. People are harsh and can be thoughtless of other people’s feelings, so we need to be the safe place and let them know that they are good enough to be out in the world and that they can conquer anything that comes their way.

[@marjoriemclean7640]

Yes, I agree, but there is also a balance that is just as important called boundaries. Children need boundaries, they give security and are a reminder to show and share their love and kindness regularly towards others.

[@sugardoessweets7718]

Totally agree about motherhood, Tori!!! Mothers are irreplaceable for their families.

[@dianehorton8704]

Stay at home moms have the most important job ever! More power to you Tori! You guys make a great team!

[@alw5101]

I’m a proud stay at home wealthy,pampered,Mom-Wife-Cook-Maid(which is Omg a 24/7hr.duty!) Tailor-Financial advisor-plumber-Gardener- and so much more not to mention fully taking care of my husband’s needs…hence 5 Kids! Happily Married for 30 yrs to my HANDSOME PROM DATE! Frankly my kids and husband wouldn’t know what to do if mom wasn’t in the kitchen when they opened the door asking how their day was- it was a choice my husband and I made when I got pregnant with our first child at 20 and it’s paid off well for my whole family! Tori~Enjoy never missing a moment with the loves of your lives “YOUR FAMILY!”😊💝

[@kcotjo]

Another great video! I love how articulate Zach is. He is very well spoken! You both are such a joy to watch. Tori you are so right in believing that your job right now is being a good wife, mother and homemaker. Our society is slowing appreciating the women who choose to remain at home and raise the children. Zach I can envision you being in broadcasting in some capacity! Thank you for sharing your thoughts and visions. You both are mature for your age!

[@toodleloo2253]

I just wish he had some formal Hobbies- maybe coaching Kids' Soccer teams?!..

[@bmarshall9118]

Not lazy-content is a thing. My husband works hard ( we have a farm) but he doesn’t have hobbies and doesn’t care to be basic and feel the need to do what everyone else is doing. I recently said to him, “ Aren’t you worried you’ll regret it on your death bed, not having a hobby or doing projects or traveling and reading, going out of your comfort zone, etc?” He said no, I’m very content in my life, I work, I spend time with family & that’s all I need. I don’t need to do extra stuff and have things perfect,etc…🤷🏼‍♀️

[@daleclark8872]

Absolutely LOVE your podcast. Zach, I love your laid-back disposition! You don’t have to be charged up and fired up to have a successful podcast. I love your no nonsense, matter of fact style. You both are wonderful parents, and Tori is right, being a stay at home mom should be applauded and valued! May God continue to bless your family!! 🙏❤️🙏

[@seekerbeing2267]

I think that you are right about stay at home Moms, they are under valued! You are a wonderful Mom and Dad ! Keep it up! I know you aren’t lazy Zach! God bless your beautiful family!❤

[@joadams9074]

I am now a grandma and have raised my kids. My youngest 2 were very sick for their first year and I had to stay home with them. I love my children to the moon and back, but that was the longest year of my life. I was not cut out to be a stay at home mom. I am so glad you and Zach are able to financially because it is better for your family. Those saying it’s not a “real” job have never attempted that “job”. Kudos to you and your family for just living your life your own way.

[@angelaguzman6055]

I like how Tori puts it regarding stay at home parents "I am irreplaceable at home but replaceable at work " very well said!

[@heidibrandenburg95]

Great job! Zack congratulations on doing this for us, I’m actually impressed listening to you, this format gives you a chance to be yourself, and you are a well read intelligent young man.

[@cindycox57]

Zack has one of the best laughs and CHILL

[@jclelache7694]

It’s so nice to learn about you both minus the realty tv show. I appreciate that you view being home raising your children as important and something you want for your family. Parenting is definitely a job, and kudos to you that you rise above the negativity. You’re doing a great job - 👏🏻

[@kapiland-ns2yn]

Zack your so right..When someones a peaceful person or just at Peace within..others can mistake that as " a person that doesnt care" about things. There is a peace that passes all understanding...like if a person is walking something hard, yet they have a peace about them...others cant understand why their not upset, angry or worried

[@user-zo6vd3qw9z]

I really like you guys and agree with a lot that you say but to say that stay at home parents work “harder” is crazy. I understand that it’s not just laying on the couch all day, but it is a luxury to have the option to do so

[@rochellea9652]

So refreshing to hear a young couple respectful of each other and smart. I LOVE YOU GUYS!!!!

[@sheila8705]

You both truly support each other. Stay true to yourselves. Zack your an amazing young man.

[@kaylaalshouse-mr4tr]

LOVE that comment about you being irreplaceable at home. So so true!!!!!

[@deedeew4040]

Tori, you come across as honest, mamma bear, caring, kind and everything nice. Do not let things in the media bother you. We your fans love you. We know the true you.

[@healingbloomsfarm]

I think people take other people too literally these days. We have become a very judgmental society. Some of these comments are harsh and are just even more assumptions being made. I see how you guys are so passionate about clarifying you both work very hard, glad you got a chance to stand up for yourselves. What I love about you guys is that you seem like very genuine, sweet individuals and that quality has passed down to your children. That is huge! Good luck moving forward!

[@joanmilano1182]

Thank heavens Zack got his mothers personality and not his fathers. His father is a very unpleasant person.

[@user-ob8pb7ji3e]

I’m so glad you both are going this route because the stories in social media can be so horrible. I would rather hear your stories straight from you both. Thank you for bringing it to us.

[@amandapepe2118]

"I am irreplaceable in my own home. I am very replaceable outside my home. So where am I going to do the work? I am going to to the work at home." Tori Roloff . Great statement Tori!

[@carrie6157]

Zack 💞Tori !!! And your beautiful children!!!

[@lisaoneal2401]

Tori, you're totally right about mom's being at home and taking care of the family. I did the same. My husband wanted me to be a stay at home mom, I didn't want someone else raising my kids, and I didn't want to miss out on raising them cause you can never press rewind. We couldn't go on vacation or trips because we never had the money to go, but that was the trade-off for raising my kids. I wouldn't have changed it for the world, and when they got older, I worked part-time only while they were at school, and I made sure I was off before they got out of school. It worked out great,no regrets on always being there for them.😊ps just wanted to say that I understand not everyone can do this, especially if you're a single parent or your spouse's income is just not enough to make ends meet. Have a great day 😀

[@gloworm1822]

Tori, you nailed it! Irreplaceable as a Mother and replaceable at work. Well Said!

[@user-vy6fk3rh6z]

Yep. No matter how good you are at outside work, you are just a number and can be replaced.

[@crh251]

I worked until I was 38. I got married late and had kids late. I was lucky to stay at home with both my kids. It was a lot of work but rewarding too. Tori and Zach, keep up the good work! Don’t listen to the naysayers. They are always out there especially on social media.

[@joycealgood8418]

Tori PLEASE STOP interrupting Zach! Give him a chance to complete a thought, a sentence. He has such a wonderful voice and very intelligent ❤

[@jenn451]

I mean this in the nicest way as it could be taken but Tori you interrupt him so often.

[@linethmejia1703]

Agreed yet again.

[@user-vy6fk3rh6z]

And then she got upset when she felt Zach interrupted her. Haha. But Tori did do better on this episode.

[@lilpixie4u]

I commented on that last week. It's really noticeable. Tori, re watch an episode and notice how many times you cut him off. It's very rude.

[@user-oz9cm4ym7g]

I wrote the same thing, she is so overbearing and needs to shut-up, personally I can’t stand her and find her so annoying…yucks. Never will watch this again.

[@s.c.prepperann6921]

Tori does an amazing job thinking things through before voicing herself. Love the support you both have for each other.

[@marjoriemclean7640]

You two are a breath of fresh air! Keep on growing together in Christ and raising your precious children and congratulations on your new show! Grace and peace,m.

[@allyalexandre8315]

I find Zach so attractive. I can see why Tori adores him... Very smart, handsome, and takes the lead as the man of the house. I love me a handy and hard-working man❤

[@naturelovinjenn7223]

I completely agree!

[@siennataras6265]

I love that Tori! Being a stay at home mother and wife is super important! To raise productive ,responsible adults. Put the work in and it pays off. There is nothing more important than being there for your children.

[@cbxray1]

My wife and I are older and even though you are younger, you both have so much wisdom and positivity! Thank you for giving us that gift.

[@snoozie1suzie]

I am so happy you have your own platform. I watched the show to keep up with you and your siblings. It’s so nice to see you happy and thriving post TLC. You both are the human equivalent of a big warm hug. Hope the rest of your siblings are thriving as well! ❤

[@adiraodeda7962]

Being at home and being a wife and mother is definitely WORK! Most who critize would NOT could NOT handle what you two do!

[@ZWonderfullife]

One good piece of advice I heard when raising my 6 children was this: It's great to praise your children to them, but you should also let your children overhear you praising them to someone else. It's amazing how powerful that is....much like letting your children overhear you praying for them when they think you don't know they are listening.

[@judyjudge6585]

Your children are blessed to have both of you work at home and be with them. And Tori, you are beautiful!

[@jocelynfinnegan9251]

Your children are blessed, and Zach has been on LPBW since he was a kid, so he did have a job, and Tori being a teacher or even a substitute teacher is difficult. Your words about stay at home moms are correct. SAHM is a job 24/7. So don't let what others think. You're both doing a great job raising kids.

[@lindasueduquette5681]

I think that Tory & Zach are awesome people & parents. ❤

[@bobbi-c]

I think the person that said you don't work was taking about monetary jobs. I think they just wanted to know what you do to earn money.

[@maribelishooked4378]

You two are adorable. I think people jump to conclusions based on a few minutes of a TV reality show. I’m amazed how judgy people are. Being content is not lazy.

[@b4peace1]

Zack is cool! I wish Tori would stop interrupting Zack.

[@shana7552]

Love the Podcasts but Tori, you really should work on not interrupting Zach! I know you mean well, but it would be nice to hear him out. I like that he really is intentional about what he says. Very smart man. Really enjoy watching n listening to you both n knowing the truth. What is your actual instagram site. Not sure I see your actual account.

[@naturelovinjenn7223]

Amen! Stay at home parents work so hard. Literally going to a job is like a vacation at times. I would never change staying home, but its hard.

[@LauraBlack-cp2il]

Totally agree with Zach about eating!!! You generally should eat whatever is set before and not be picky or turn your nose up at what someone else makes for you. And also that we generally should not live to eat But rather we eat to live’

[@jodilucas1408]

So enjoying your podcasts! Thank you for continuing to share your lives in YOUR way but will miss you on the show. Honestly though? This is even better! Sending positive loving vibes to you and your family ❤

[@kellysue7554]

With all due respect Tori you don't know how hard it is to be a stay at home mom when Zach is there helping everyday. Try doing it yourself like most stay at home moms...then you'll understand how hard it really is. You are truly blessed.

[@GiggleOutfitter]

Exactly and there are a lot of people who wish they could be a stay at home mom and not have to work, it’s not always a choice like she implied.

[@christinekillen3852]

yes, hence my comment on her saying "I work harder than anyone out there". No you don't. yes SAHM is a lot of work, ...I did it,, but you have Zach's support and you don't also have to juggle an outside job

[@juliannemoore5334]

I agree with tori..a stay at home parent is working...there's so many different ways to be prosperous in this society ...you both r doing great!!

[@barbname2153]

I was a single Mom. Even though I was blessed as an RN Nothing in my opinion was harder than working nights and being a Mom that shows up for all the day time activities

[@missymyers7043]

Having moms in the work place is all by design to divide the traditional family. Tori…you are spot on, Moms should be home raising their children or why have them. AND it is the hardest most underrated job EVER! Kudos to you both!

[@dianaburn7974]

I just love Tori. She is such a sweet soul . Love how down to earth they both are. Wish you both all the best.

[@chrism7182]

I wanted to tell you if more kids had parents like you two, the world would be a much better place to live in. I wiuld also like to tell you I found early in my kids life the best way to build them up is to let them hear you saying great things about them when they dont think you know they are listening. Did that make sense? Finally anyone that would say Zack is lazy I think is crazy. I don't know y'all personally but you can just tell hes not lazy. People are just jealous of your life and try to make you feel bad. Don't let it get to you, you are truly wonderful people.

[@Sonoragrove4]

Zach had no choice to be on reality tv , his parents made that decision for the family. You could not pay me enough money in this world to have my life on tv,people criticizing everything you do and to give up your anonymity. He and Tori should be able to profit off of 20 yrs of exposing their life to audiences. They are awesome parents and people. The trend now for many young people is the FIRE movement . So if they have been smart enough to invest their money to be able to both be at home then they deserve congratulations because most Americans are in debt and wish they could have the freedom they have. ❤❤

[@donnacole8715]

I am 60 years old. I have way more life experience than you do. When my children were young, I worked 10 hours a day. The guilt of not being home to spend time with your children and do quality things with them still weigh on me. Anyone who takes for granted or thinks the blessing of being able to stay at home and be a mom is harder work than someone who has to carry the burden of working outside the home and still trying to be a good parent is deceived. It is way harder to juggle a work life, and a home life and do well at both of them.

[@christinekillen3852]

100%... she should not have said that

[@marjolainejane1506]

Tori you are interrupting Zack too often, let him speak. His mother did a wonderful job raising her son. Never saw the show but somehow got this podcast.

[@christinaavalos-jq6ug]

Tori you’re spot on!! Mothers are irreplaceable and if you’re in a position to be at momma working at home on her family and raising children, it’s perfect. Your children will definitely need you, you and Zack a an inspiration to all parents and couples❤. Hey there house may have been messy growing up but they were happy. Mom spent more time living life with kids rather than cleaning. Hahaha I remember the laundry cleaning day at the roloff house 😂😂 in one of the early episodes. I remember Zack didn’t seem embarrassed whatsoever to have his friends over when house was messy 😂 that’s such a guy 😂

[@carolsmith2603]

There is a spot on the wall there on Tori's right side.. I keep wiping my screen trying to get it off.

[@itsmonie21]

Really loving your podcast so far. I just found it! I don't have kids yet but trying to learn and absorb good parenting styles before we do. I am starting to realize that God created mothers to raise up their child at home. Additionally, he did also created us to share our gifts, which I believe comes after the season of raising up your kids. I think you are absolutely right, there is a season for both and your time with your kids is so precious! Can't wait for more and would love to hear more about your faith journey and active relationship with God too!

[@paulinestelmach8301]

Let him finish his sentence

[@user-wi2zk6io7x]

Tori don't think you really appreciate Zach enough for all he does! You are blessed to have him home to help you!

[@naturelovinjenn7223]

Zack your eating habits are awesome!!! What an amazing way to be and raise your kids. So respectful.

[@kkl8631]

About noticing your kid's positive behaviors, one philosophy is "You get more of what your focus on" so if you focus on their positive behaviors and how they are helpful, the children will be more likely to repeat them. e.g. "You helped your brother pick up the toys so no one will trip on them. That was helpful!"

[@charlottecolon6704]

She interrupts him constantly…

[@hollykeil210]

love these podcasts!!! Thanks for being so transparent

[@LoveforDogs455]

I’m so glad you guys started this! Love your talks!