Zelda: Ocarina of Time and My Parents Divorce - My Retro Life

It was Christmas of 1998, my parents were divorced, and The Legend of Zelda: Ocarina of Time on Nintendo 64 brought some much needed healing.
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Zelda: The Ocarina of Time and My Parents Divorce - My Retro Life

[@MyRetroLife]

Hey guys! Divorce can be incredibly painful, and this is a subject I've often shied away from, but it's part of my story. Ultimately, I hope this video brings some positivity into a serious topic. Thank you to everyone who supports this channel. Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and be safe!

[@AlohaGamester]

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family Tyler thank you for producing and sharing these wonderful videos with us. I Haven’t seen Mikey or Manny on Twitch recently I hope they’re doing well too!

[@saintarchangel9547]

Video was great man, so we'll done. Thanks for sharing with us. Your videos always hit home with the nostalgia hence why I love your channel. I always see something I had or I played, like that Scorch the dragon Beanie Baby! Haha I loved him. Again, thanks for sharing Tyler and Merry Christmas to you and yours!

[@jaylucien669]

Merry Christmas.

[@ZethN64]

This was a really great video! I had no idea what to expect when you asked to use some footage from my channel but this video was a tugging hard on my nostalgia heartstrings and encapsulated a lot of feelings I had when I first got the game. Thanks for wonderful trip down memory lane, I hope you have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!

[@NESADDICT]

Thanks for your openness Tyler

[@Tyguy3030]

My name is Tyler, I'm 34 yo my dad died last year , I just recently found your videos and they have been extremely helpful in my grieving process. Thank you and your dad.

[@MyRetroLife]

@@Tyguy3030 So sorry for your loss man. Thankful that the videos are able to help in some way. It does get better.

[@codynutkiss9463]

​@@MyRetroLifehello

[@Danbo22987]

Similar story but Breath of the Wild came out shortly after my mom started chemotherapy and she found it very calming to just sit and watch me play. She ulitmately didn't make it but the game provided us some momentary relief where we could just enjoy being together.

[@jed23ify]

I’m very sorry for your loss. Your mom sounded like a wonderful person.

[@MyRetroLife]

What an amazing and bittersweet memory to have attached to that game. I have one similar with Dad that I’ll share one day. So sorry for your loss.

[@Trollseeder]

My condolences. I can absolutely see how Breath of the Wild could give a very similar feeling. They are both transformative epic adventures of growth. A part of your relationship with your mom will always stay in BOTW. Oh, and... merry Christmas :)

[@nathangibson2114]

Similar story with my mom and Skyrim/Oblivion. She left in 2016. I’d give up all my tomorrows to spend another night talking with her.

[@DustlessYeti76]

Sorry for your loss

[@ronnietravis741]

I’m 39 and growing up playing video games during this time really was a special magical feeling. I feel so lucky to be a kid in the 90s. Gaming then really was magic

[@lazsosa8711]

What a time it was to be alive.

[@gerardgmz]

I'll forever miss the 90's

[@Spartanlyra]

I'm also 39 and I miss that feeling of getting an game box or a catridge on my hands and admire those old pre rendered 3D art ,even If I didnt owned it because this was all so expensive in my country.

[@HollowRick]

32 here and I agree being child through this era was incredible

[@TheOnlyKontrol]

Gaming is special for most around the time they started gaming. For me it was GTA:SA…and Call of duty…I wouldn’t change it for the world because that’s what I experienced in my timeframe and it’s pure nostalgia and joy when I think about it.

[@dagbman]

The standout for me was to hear your dad break his comedic character for a moment to say - "You're the best boy a dad could ever have." This reminded me of the Mega Man 2 video where your parents took the time to explain why you deserved the game. Your daughter is so lucky to have a dad who learned from the best.

[@CatManDoom84]

Def noticed that precious moment too

[@GabrielGarcia-su9po]

Your father definitely loves you. We can all hear it in his voice when he said it. Great video

[@honjo5809]

This hit home . My parents never split before dad got the 💀. PlayStation and spending time with my mom got me through so much. This was the best retro vid I saw the year just cuz .

[@specwarseabee]

Yep that part hit hard. I have two boys 6 & 8 and I had to pause the video to tell them how much I loved them and how good they are. Too often we get caught up in the stress of life but don’t stop and take a moment to appreciate the blessing children bring into your life.

[@IbelieveinHarris]

Hey Tyler, I have low key been watch your videos from time time for nostalgia reasons, but this is another video of many that you have produced showing you’re amazingly magical storytelling and indescribable how you give Vulnerable explanation of video games and your family memories. Bravo at your Art sir!

[@kestasgimbickis6917]

“Youre the best boy a dad could have” just melts my heart. What a great dad. Best dad anyone could have. These videos will make him live forever. Thank you and your dad for this footage and amazing youtube content before youtube was even a thing. Love & peace

[@Bricksty]

I hold this game so incredibly close to my heart. I grew up watching my older brother play this game. He was such an incredible role model and the soundtrack to this masterpiece of a game floods me with all the best memories of him. I'm tearing up just writing this but I know he's looking down on me. Rest in peace, Chris. Edit: Thanks for all the kind responses

[@MyRetroLife]

So sorry for your loss. Amazing that so many of us are connected through this game.

[@mai-vc6pb]

I grew up watching my older brother play this game too!! Thank you for sharing memories of your beloved brother 💚💚

[@brandonlee7382]

I'm a older brother right now I'm 21 and my brother is 5 and he loves playing games with me. I can't wait to hear what story's he talks about when he's older. I may actually start filming some games he's playing now and film when he gets a new console in future. I did get him a xbox series s and I wish I would of filmed it. I did film his reaction to the xbox series x trailer which was so damn cute because he was like 3 years old

[@booboo7502]

From a little brother who is unfortunately missing his big brother too, I just wanted to reach out and give a virtual hug. Reading your comment warmed my heart as I too loved watching my brother play this game. At first when he’d ask if I wanted to play I’d just say “it’s okay, I like watching you play”, which was certainly true. However it wasn’t the full truth. I didn’t feel “advanced” enough to play but I wanted to see what happened, so I was always right there watching my brother when he’d fire it up. One day, he caught onto my true intentions and when he went to fire it up he handed me the controller and said “today we are gonna start you your own game. I’m right here if ya get stuck and need help”. I felt so cool having my big brother sit there and watch me play, encouraging me along the way, as I had with him so many times. For this reason and more, this game holds a really precious space in my heart too. Thank you for sharing your memory. 🙏❤️

[@booboo7502]

@@brandonlee7382 Keep that up big bro. I promise the memories will be rich and well worth the time spent. He will absolutely remember. 😊

[@spewdog]

Tyler is a truly genuine person. My Retro Life is healing therapy told through the language of love and gaming nostalgia

[@MyRetroLife]

Love this. Thank you 🙏

[@nicolausteslaus]

Soyjack👍

[@turtlehermit6047]

My parents were never married. They spilt up.when I was around ten. I had two sisters one left home and got married ...the other got pregnant as a teen and moved out with her boyfriend. So every year up till that year was pretty good..the family was still together and we had big fun Christmases. By the year all that happened that Christmas was not so good. It was 1995...I was ten. It was just me and mom..no body else. I remember waking up and being excited for Christmas.. But instead I got a life lesson. There was no presents under the tree...just my crying mother.. I wanted to be upset..I tried to be upset.. But mom was having a nervous break down. So I told her it was allright..that I didn't need anything etc. That year and Christmas killed my the kid in me. We.moved and she married a new guy..which I really liked. But mom only got worse mentally. Her and her marriage started to fall apart... Due to her drinking and mental issues. She just wanted to drink and sleep..that's all she ever did. My step dad got to the point were he would take off for weeks at a time. I don't blame him..I would have left if I could. Things got worse..it was just me and her most the time..more then once I would come home from school to.find her on the floor or bed..out of her mind..only to find out she had took tons of pills to try to kill her self. She said she was not trying to kill herself but trying to make the pain go away. I told her yeah that's trying at kill yourself. She.would not let me call 911 she scream and yell not to call. So i had to pretend to be calling someone else. The cop s and paramedics came to my house so much I knew them on a first name basis. Then she got sent to mental hospitals multiple times.. Sometimes it was just me as a teen running the whole household..sometimes my stepped was there. He had started drinking to cope with his failing marriage and died in a drunk driving accident. Luckily he did not hurt anyone but himself but it still hurts to think about. After that things got real crazy. Between my moms life and mine I could write a book..a lot of bad and good things happened. But Christmas was never the same for me. The only thing that got me through all that was video games like ff7 ..Zelda oot..castlevania sotn..resident evil..etc And music..music helped alot. I learned to play several instruments.. Been in several bands etc. Ow I'm married.. Own my house and land. Have two kids..and have been trying my hardest to male every day with them better then the last. You have to break the cycle. Good luck to everyone and merry Christmas.

[@tbp8523]

"You have to break the cycle."

[@temperedglass1130]

Your mom the 304 hero

[@fshoaps]

Take it somewhere else.

[@mondomoya1251]

​@@fshoaps oasis sucks!

[@fshoaps]

Best British rock and roll band since The Beatles.@@mondomoya1251

[@WindowsGG]

wow your parents went through hard times i'm so glad that game healed you and your parents came back together

[@AlohaGamester]

I was watching some of your videos yesterday morning and asked myself “has Tyler ever discussed The Legend of Zelda before, did he not play much of it?” And here we are today the topic of discussion. One of the videos I was watching the one where you brought your mother on modern day to talk about her memories. I love how when she talks about your father there is never any ill will behind her voice.

[@MyRetroLife]

Thanks man. Just a whole lot of love and cherished memories. In the end, those all outweigh the bad. There is hope after a painful season. I'm living proof of that.

[@Richter_val82]

"You're the best boy a dad can have" 💔 As a dad my self, I know the power those words have. I'm glad your parents made their best to make you feel loved. And I can relate about video games healing bad times. When I was a kid, my parents use to fight a lot, mostly for money issues, we had a hard time back then. So, playing games helped me to stay happy and keep dreaming with better times. God bless you, bro. Happy new year.

[@shokfox]

My sister and I never knew our biological father's. Our dad now who married our mom also adopted us but there were a lot of complications at the beginning. They divorced twice trying to make it work and it stayed like that for awhile but in the end ultimately remarried. Games were an escape for me as well and as I don't remember playing most consoles before 2002. I did get into them as I grew I just couldn't get enough lol my parents weren't supporters of my hobby unfortunately. Honestly it's really a treat what you do on your channel speaks a lot bigger then just the games you play and show us all. I see a family and a lot of love! Merry Christmas and I wish you and your family all the best

[@MyRetroLife]

Thank you! Merry Christmas to you too!

[@michaelmeyer4682]

My parents divorced when I was 12. We had to move into my grandmas house and live there after the divorce. One day my mom brought a super Nintendo home with Mario world and actraiser. Actraiser helped me escape the dire situation we were left in, and I was able to forget about the real world for awhile. I recently required actraiser, and hearing the music immediately brought me back to my grandma's basement. Very emotional.

[@bczarrockbeast6264]

Being a kid with divorced parents and an only child this hit me in the feels for sure. Don't get me wrong my mom and dad are amazing. But it's a shock for a young kid especially when you never seen or heard them argue then one day before school they drop that bomb on you and your whole life gets flipped upside down. Having to try to explain to your friends who's parents are together why your dad moved to a apartment across town when you don't really understand it either. To be honest that is when I leaned into video games as well. Great video!

[@EDFCentral]

I'm glad your parents were able to stay friends. My parents divorced in 87 when I was eight. Things never got better for us and I used video games to escape as well. Mom married another nightmare who made sure I knew what a loser I was. I couldn't even enjoy my video games because they were for losers as well. Constantly being belittled and degraded, but I continued to escape into video games. I thank God, truly thank God for video games and the way he used them in my life to help me get through. 43 and still a gamer and my stepdad finally turned over a new leaf and became a decent fellow. Left a lot of scars, but things are better. My father and I get along better as well because when I was younger he was a tyrant as well. I've never known a good father outside of my heavenly one, but I'm determined to be the best father I can be. Sorry, not sure why I shared all that, but I felt like I needed to even if you all are strangers. In some ways I live vicariously through your happy childhood. I'd say many of us do even if most don't admit it. Merry Christmas Tyler!

[@MyRetroLife]

Thank you for sharing this! Truly. I hoped this video would help people open up. It looks as though it has! Merry Christmas!

[@Zachery_]

This is the wrong forum to say this but maybe he was right and video games are for losers, think of if you devoted the same amount of time to schoolwork and working out and becoming successful, video games and other entertainment are just that, excess entertainment can be our biggest downfall

[@paulhunter_]

@@Zachery_ k

[@ocsjc13]

Ur mom is so bad for not leaving that guy for talking ish on you

[@EDFCentral]

@@Zachery_ Considering I've been married to the same woman for 20 years, have 3 kids, have advanced through the ranks and now hold a coveted position within my job, am a respected elder within my church holding the position of deacon and young adult life group leader and am adored by my children which is my greatest achievement. I don't see loser as being a title that hangs around my neck and I still play video games regularly. Video games have nothing to do with whether you end up a "loser" or not. The bigger decisions you make in life determine that. My father figures were wrong and I'm proof of that.

[@meganesposito3013]

Great video, hun! Very genuine, raw but also ended with hope. Love you!

[@MyRetroLife]

Thanks babe! 😘

[@Curlyheart]

Awwww!

[@videostash413]

I believe you mean "hon" unless you are saying he's Atilla the Hun

[@Miguel_Proud_Binary]

For me it's the Opening Prelude/Press Start melody of FFVII, my father died at the end of 2003, aged 48, I was just a teenager, I felt alone because I lost my best friend who loved to watch me play videogames,, he would spend hours just to watch me play, my first console was the NES, but it was in the 90s with the PS1 that I have the most memories of playing with my father by my side, and the game he most loved to see me play was FFVII. Now, when I just hear that melody of the game I just start to cry because it seems like I'm going back in time and I see him at my side watching me play! This is the magic of retro games, it makes us go back in time and relive beautiful memories, especially with people we love who unfortunately are no longer here! Thank you Tyler for having this channel!

[@ShinkuGouki]

Ocarina of Time is legendary. It's a game that, to this day, is among my top 3 of all time. The story is so tragic and beautiful,just like real life. Things never go the way we hope but there's beauty in imperfection. I can relate to my parents splitting when I was 8 years old. Always hoping they'd get back together and just trying my best to enjoy my video games while the nagging issues remained at the deepest recesses of my mind. They never did get back together. My dad passed away and my mom and I miss him so much. Ocarina of time deserves to be made into a movie. The ending made me tear up because nobody knows they were saved by that little boy.

[@StillxXxTrue85]

I can relate to this so much . My parents got divorced when I was 15 right when Shenmue came out for the Dreamcast. I would get lost in that world to escape reality. To this day it's still my favorite game .

[@tricycloplots21]

Your video literally brought a tear to my eye, thank you for sharing this. We are the same age, my parents divorced when I was 6 in 1992, but for my family there was never any healing. Video games were always a safe escape from the trauma of a rough childhood, especially when few of my friends could relate to what I was experiencing. It was definitely a very lonely time for me.

[@ryandesain5090]

This series means so much to so many of us. More than you may ever know. Really appreciate what you do.

[@CrossingRover]

Wow Tyler, I really appreciate you sharing content that is so personal. As someone who suffered immensely during my parents divorce in 2008 I can relate to escaping into a video game world to find a safe space. For me the game was Fallout 3 but the feelings you described were very familiar. In contrast for me, Ocarina of Time came out at a time when I was only 6 years old and it was the first video game that truly captured my imagination. I remember feeling as though the world of Hyrule was a living and breathing place that could go on forever far beyond the bounds of the game.

[@greenonion4201]

Me and my dad when I was little, we were you two. He died back in 2015 and these videos tear me to shreds, in a good way though. They help me grieve in a way I didn't know I still needed to. Thank you for your work I cant wait for the next one!

[@MyRetroLife]

Glad they help you in some way! Sorry for your loss. Thanks for watching

[@AdamZ84]

Merry Christmas to your family from ours as well, Tyler! This video brought back a lot of memories for me as well. I remember my dad asking me if I wanted a Nintendo 64 with Zelda, or a PlayStation with Final Fantasy 7… it was a tough decision to make, but I said I want the PlayStation with Final Fantasy seven and boy was I surprised on Christmas morning when I received both a PlayStation and a Nintendo 64 with both Final Fantasy seven and Zelda ocarina of time. I also have the gold cartridge of the game and a gold controller as well! I’m only a couple of years older than you, so I clearly remember having a feeling of guilt, knowing how much my dad and mom spent on the extra system. My father enjoyed watching me play through Zelda. It was good bonding time for us, and I beat that game at 100% and got every single secret, that’s how much I loved it. My six year old son plays the downloaded version on my Nintendo Wii of ocarina of time,and he doesn’t really have an interest of going through the game, we beat the Deku tree, and now he just likes running around in Hyrule field beating little skeleton monsters and wants to do his own thing. My seven year old son who will be eight next month just enjoys watching when it comes to Zelda and that reminds me, I think you said that your daughter is seven years old and said that she was born in January on one of your live streams, my first son was born on January 7, 2015, so I have a feeling that our kids are a few days apart in age, so it’s cool to see your daughter grow up loving video games like my sons do, I think that’s part of the reason why they like your channel so much, because they connect you with me as a dad, and see that you have a child, the same age as them. A big, thank you for keeping your channel family, friendly and with clean language and fun memories. You spoke about escapism in this video, and nowadays, there are far worse things to escape into, then video games. I escaped into these fantasy realms as well with Zelda and Final Fantasy seven and they actually helped me become an excellent reader due to all of the dialogue you had to read through to get through the game and understand it. Wow, I have so much to say from one video haha.

[@mariorruiz]

You almost made me cry, good job. And yes, it hurts to hear that soundtrack but in a very very very good way

[@Jpark.]

That feeling you get hearing the opening of Ocarina Of Time is the same I get hearing the opening of Harvest Moon 64. Mixture of emotions, pain and memories all flooding back.

[@SneakerPhetish]

I’m a 1986 baby so this is directly my era. Games were my escape too. My mom was divorced & re-married to my stepdad, but they were also rocky before eventually divorcing as well in 2000. One of my best memories was getting my Nintendo 64 for Christmas. I lost myself in video games - I had PS1, Sega, SNES, N64, etc….I always wished that my parents recorded these memories growing up. This video was special. Thanks for this.

[@vintagedrugrug8637]

I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing with us youre a real inspiration for me

[@garylshawiii483]

Agreed that’s what I love about this channel. In time of toxicity and posturing I love a guy who can be vulnerable and explore a different side of gamers especially male gamers.

[@petermalleo88]

There was something so incredible about playing this during Christmas vacation 98-99 My friends and I still discuss the importance of it and the impact it had on us still to this day.

[@brok9591]

The Nostalgia hit me so hard from this video my heart starting racing and I was short of breath.

[@turtledroid12]

Gosh, this is one of the sincerest youtube video that I have seen Good job mate.

[@babaliboon9323]

Hey man - this was one of your most relatable videos yet. My parents also divorced that same year (what's up with the mid-90s and divorce rates, eh?). I love your channel and thank you for all the work you put in. Wishing you a wonderful Christmas!

[@TheConuresrule]

It only gets worse. Usually women are the ones to initiate.

[@Seroxm13]

Sadly, many men can't control themselves and do cheat a lot. One of my cousins loved his husband so much and they were married with 2 kids, yet typical man style, he cheated on her. Was with another woman. As much as it pained her, she had to leave him. Men are usully responsible for divorces. Women/moms are usually there for the family and to take care of them and the house, men just want to more and more... Plus many men are abusive, controlling and commit domestic violence. I've known so many women in my life get hurt by men, not usually physically, but by their ignorance & selfishness. It's sad how that macho mentality is still going on nowadays. I can guarantee you 100% I won't be 1 of those typical men. I will not add and be part of the statistics. I would never cheat or abuse my wife.

[@flaquis2729]

@@Seroxm13 The thing I've learned in life is there's always 2 sides to every story, especially in relationships. Both parties usually are to blame when things get rough. At least that's how I see things.

[@Seroxm13]

@@flaquis2729 not usually both. It's usually 1 that start it all. If it's cheating, well the cheater started it. Just because people divorce doesn't mean it's always both fault. Maybe 1 is trying their best to stay loyal and not divorce, but the other just doesn't want to stay. I also have an aunt whose my uncle cheated on her and had 2 kids with his lover... He had 4 kids with my aunt and 2 kids with her other women, yet my aunt who is 1 of the nicest persons ever, kinda pardoned him and they still live together. Some of my uncles 4 kids were mad at him for cheating her mom. It's absurd what men do. I will never be like my uncle and the typical macho men.

[@southsidesaiyan8641]

@@Seroxm13 sounds like you just have a strong personal bias against men based on personal experiences. You made a bunch of claims about how much men cheat, how abusive men are and do domestic violence, but where are your statistics to back up these claims? Because I could also give plenty of examples of women doing all those things you just mentioned too.

[@albertwayne2323]

Ocarina of Time was very special to all of us who played it on it's launch. People who play it today can't understand the feelings this game creates on us. Masterpiece.

[@okitasan]

I've only watched about 75% of a full video but i can tell this channel is special. Great editing and storytelling, and an amazing amount of high quality footage. Your dad was a really good videographer.

[@QCJSiteB]

My cat, Zazu, just shy of 14 years with us, just passed away last Monday. Ive been with him longer than I've been married. He was my best friend and son. My friends are in different states, so no local multiplayer gaming for me. But he'd be with me every night. Between it being Christmas and having my get-away, my hobby, 'gaming' feeling hollow and quiet without him, im just down. He had a larger than life personality and there's a black void left in his absence in our lives.

[@Ankosi1987]

It's always nice when you upload a video, I'm watching it with my son now, thanks for your great work. Merry Christmas to you on your family

[@MyRetroLife]

Thanks, you too!

[@Mas0o0n]

I remember when this game came out, but I didn't play it until I was older, in about 2010 or 2011, and it was the first Zelda game I ever played. One thing that's special about the game to me is that I experienced all the same emotions that folks who grew up with the game talk about, and it immediately became my favorite game. It's inherently nostalgic.

[@Kevin_40]

one of the reasons i like video games so much is i used them as an escape during my parents divorce in the early 90s when i was like 10 years old. very traumatic. cops even came to the house one night because of parents fighting. my dad is still alive and hes such a nice guy that he despises the fact i still play video games at the age of 41. he has no idea it was half his fault, my video game addiction, because of him and my mom not figuring out how to get along and raise the family they started.

[@DaddeGamer]

6:20 I literally think that all of us that grew up with this game felt that statement so much ♥ Very well said!

[@JazzJune7]

Had to subscribe after finding this video. Thank you for such a great video. Now I’m gonna watch more of your recent content! Happy new years man.

[@MyRetroLife]

Thanks and same to you! Happy New Year

[@jfh.8064]

This is an amazing video. Ocarina of Time is my favorite game ever. I was 8 years old. It’s impossible to describe to someone who didn’t grow up as a kid with that game how amazing it was. It was seriously life changing. And I totally agree about the title screen music. Makes me want to cry.

[@TheDrewManGroup]

I had a very similar experience in life around that time and with this game. I was born in 1987 and my parents separated in 1997 and got divorced in 1998. At first it was hard like it is for any family, but by Christmas of 1998 and through the magic of playing this game, I began to turn the corner and start the next chapter of life. It really was in so many ways the first time I remember being happy again. Thanks for sharing your story. Your dad seems like he was an awesome man and he reminds me of my own father in many ways. Cheers!

[@backintheday3097]

1996 was kind of the beginning of the end for my parents as well. It would only be a year later that my dad would file for divorce. I was 20 at the time, so I had the fortune of not having to go through that mind f**k of whether or not I was the cause of their problems. Much like you I can relate to the "boy becoming a man" analogy. I had just graduated high school in June of 1997 and it had only been a few months when dad dropped the bomb that he was done. So for me, I was making that transition from teen in to young adult. Unlike you however, games weren't my outlet. I threw myself into music and guitar playing. I became like a rabid dog and just devoured albums left and right and learned as much of the history of the bands as I could. I'm glad your parents were able to rekindle their friendship and be able to have put their differences aside. I wish I could say the same for mine. Unfortunately that never happened and when mom passed back in 2015, any prospects of that were quickly snuffed out. Anyway. I've rambled long enough. Thanks for the great video! I don't always comment but I always make sure to watch and leave a "like". Merry Christmas Tyler.

[@mattgallagher7105]

I feel you on being a little older - I was 16 when my parents split up. Dad’s boating hobby turned into seeing a woman on the side, mom had spending problems and they just werent in love for a long time by that point, so it didnt hit me too hard. But I will say the financial fallout of it prob landed me in a different place today than it would have had they stayed together. We werent well off together, but I learned the meaning of being dead broke from 17-mid 20s with no help in sight from parents who were struggling on their own.

[@abswithflabsttv]

I got emotional and nearly cried, I went through something similar with my parents and gaming but was too young to understand...

[@neverenoughguitars8276]

I remember getting this game for my birthday in Feb 99. I still remember booting it up for the first time on the TV with my Mom and Dad watching from the couch behind me. I remember all three of us were in awe of the opening sequence of link riding the horse and the music and my Mom saying "This is beautiful!". Such a great memory!

[@j.rivera6402]

My dad died in 1997….I was 14. My mom really showed out for me after we lost him and booooom…..I got the gold Ocarina of Time on Christmas 98 as well. I lost myself in Zelda and had so much fun playing it. Thank you for the memories momma. RIP mom & dad ❤

[@Howard007]

Your parents are absolutely amazing & seeing all this footage makes me feel like i got to grow up with you in a way. I love your family and your dad is right, you definitely are the best son a dad could ever have.

[@MyRetroLife]

Awesome comment. Thanks bro

[@nickrohfeld4283]

When your dad said, Merry Christmas Tyler, you're the best boy a daddy could ever had." And hugged you, I cried. RIP to a real gaming legend.

[@RobbZipp]

Thanks for sharing your story. I know it wasn’t easy, but it’ll help more people than you would know. I’m also glad you realized that no matter what, they both loved you. I hope you and your family had a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year! Let’s have a video game adventure in 2023!

[@budz2355]

One of the very few carts in my collection that is my childhood game. My parents also went through a divorce in 99.

[@SYIBOI]

I'm forever grateful for your style and videos and I love seeing how much your parents loved you and how your passions devolped young and how they were fostered. I'm glad they and you were able to move beyond the bitterness of divorce and face the future with love and peace in your hearts. Happy holidays my friend and thank you for being you, the world needs more people like you out there.

[@MyRetroLife]

Thank you so much. Very kind of you. Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!

[@tonyolsson4376]

Christmas greetings from Sweden. I had a similar situation as a youngling. My parents got divorced in the early 90´s. Didn´t see or hear from my mom for over a year. My salvation/healing came from the Super Nintendo (gamingvise). Both the tones from Super Mario World and later A Link to the Past had a soothing effect on my inner emotions. Merry Christmas everyone.

[@IceKoldKilla]

Very sad to hear. I never grew up with a dad so I can't say I can relate but it's must be tough to see your parents separate. I know I would've hated to see my mom go when she was still alive. Thank you for sharing. Great video!

[@turtlehermit6047]

My memories of this game are hanging out with friends in a basement playing Zelda ..star fox..goldeneye..etc And playing it and resident evil 2 myself in my room listening to music..mostly type o negative.

[@deusprogrammer_thekingofspace]

The opening score of Ocarina of Time always brings me to tears. Hearing it in concert performed by this game named Ocarina Link at Video Games Live reduced me to a sobbing heap.

[@quicksanddixon6757]

Thanks for making this video. I had a very similar experience. My parents were going through a divorce and my dad was staying in these small apartments. I still remember everyday he would do nothing but sleep and wait for my mom to call him. I beat StarFox 64 for the first time at those apartments. It was a bittersweet moment. I had finally killed Andross and Fox’s dad came to lead Fox out of the base. It was very impactful to see his father do that and it made me think of my dad and how depressed he was. I was still happy to beat the game but to this day that ending reminds me of those apartments.

[@MyRetroLife]

Thank you for sharing this story! I enjoyed reading it and appreciate you watching

[@cjcarter8267]

The attachment and relationship you had with your dad is something I’ve never had, your dad was so legendary and cared so much for you it’s heartwarming. And to never have met either of you and get that kinda vibe from your videos is amazing.

[@MyRetroLife]

Love this. Thank you CJ!

[@richardnl541]

Hey Tyler, just want to let you know that I am very happy with your videos. We're about the same age I think. Video games have played an important role throughout my childhood. Nintendo has a special place in my heart. So many great games, with Zelda Ocarina of Time being one of my favorites. The music of this game touches my heart and it makes me emotional. Sometimes I feel sad because that innocent time from then won't come back. But thanks to your videos I get to experience and feel it again. By the way, you have a wonderful, loving dad. But you already knew that. We are all very grateful to him for his recordings because we can all go back in time to our own childhood. He's a real hero. Thank you. Lots of love from Europe.

[@prodbyhostile]

I was a 90s kid myself and Nintendo games always gave me the “it’s gonna be ok” vibes 😎

[@1lichfield]

Games helped me through my childhood,I lost my Father when I was 10/11. Playing games gave me escapism, my Mum bought me the Sega Saturn when it launched a few years later, it will always hold a place in my heart as it got me through some dark times. I got OoT for Xmas in 98,it was a special game and one I'll always remember..totally understand how you felt..it was like holding treasure.

[@SentinelPrimal]

This game hit me a little differently. I was in my early 20’s at the time and it was the last game I played and thoroughly enjoyed in my last year as a carefree young adult. The next year, I got a full time job and everything changed. Oot was an adventure I’ll never forget.

[@fabricator.cap.hill.seattle]

Did you play Majora's Mask?

[@BreadCatMarcus]

I've been working Full time and more since 16. It sucks and I really wish I got to capture more of my youth at the time. Video games were a big escape for me, I'm sure like everyone else here.

[@peter-r3o3v]

The way you combine your personal memories along with the shared experiences of video game history is a special sort of genius. I too associate certain videogames with certain memories and chapters in my life. Thank you buddy

[@Sum1WhoExists]

Man, divorced parents as friends, wouldn't that be nice?

[@GrassToucherTV]

This channel is a true gem. I love how you're able to communicate the feelings and memories of your past through gaming and share your personal stories with us who watch these. Even though these aren't my own personal experiences, your videos still resonate with me and I really enjoy them. Subscribed!

[@Ephesians-yn8ux]

Man I feel this on another level. The escapism that video games provides has gotten me through a lot of hard times and psychological pain. Have a merry Christmas Tyler. God bless.

[@emansfvera]

Bro I cried so much watching this as I’m going through a rough time with my wife and having kids. Divorce is rough asf man, you’re one of my favorite KZbin channels, so genuine. Thank you for touching on a real ass subject but tied to a beautiful video game story.

[@PixelGod240]

imagine having a Dad :(

[@quantumblurrr]

Many dads don't deserve their kids. It's not always this wholesome, sometimes you're better off without

[@Robsreviews85]

Can't watch anymore too sad. Sorry about your loss brother love your content and would love to talk with you about this game (My favorite Zelda game besides Links Awakening) God bless you and your family.

[@edge6441]

Man there couldnt be a better time for you to release this footage....so many memories come flooding in LoZ OoT was THE game that every knowledgeable N64 enthusiast or owner had in the bk of their heads since the console's release...i remember reading magazines the whole time waiting for this. Kids of today cannot possibly understand the hype! i dont know what it was probably the years or the era we were going through we had just gone to 3D graphics the new tech looked so awesome despite of it being in its infancy and an adventure game of this magnitude (i mean for those that had played a link to the past) being teased all the time and it coming to 3D was just soooo MINDBLOWING. I never ordered the game i just run over to the store money on hand and they just happened to have one copy there yes i was lucky! i got OoT for Christmas that year as well and as many others did. Although as far as i now know the game was so high in demand many other kids didnt lay a hand on it for months until restock. It was the best xmas present that year! holding this cartridge that you had heard so much about had waited so much and it was finally there and most importantly the game not just lived up to its hype but exceeded it! Worth every penny! Amazing times!

[@SweetJohnnyCage]

Thanks for sharing your story! Games were often a form of escape for me as a kid, too. My dad got sober in 1997, but before that, my parents would have insane fights, yelling all over the house, and it was incredibly chaotic and painful to deal with as a kid. I played video games in the living room, which their bedroom was off of. I remember playing Super Mario 64, Cool Cool Mountain, specifically, during one of their last fights over my dad's drinking. The sound of the penguin crying is always a complain that everyone has about that level, but for me, hearing that sound reminds me of that fight they were having, and I can't play that level without reliving it. Games are truly a gift, but I've always had to be careful about escaping from life and using games to get away from stress. Really appreciate you sharing, and I'm glad your parents started to get along again, like mine did. Hope you've continued to have a great relationship with them in your adult years!

[@danr.1299]

I was born In the late 1900's (94) and this channel brings back so many memories of my childhood. I loved video games as a kid and playing all the best games at my friends house.

[@ct6852]

My introduction to the game was watching someone struggling hard with the Water Temple and getting angry...so I did not think I'd be into it at all. Picked it up for the first time at 15 or 16...but yeah it sucked me in. And fast. That opening music was comforting and magical.

[@Subfightr]

Hollywood needs to get a hold of Tyler to direct moments when they need the audience to feel something and actually care about the characters. 3 minutes in and boom, you're invested and want the best for everyone involved. Incredible job with the editing, voice over, pacing, music. It never feels forced. If feels..? Genuine.

[@LoneAries77]

It really was magical. I was 21 and broken hearted when i played it. It was my first zelda game ever. Nothing evokes so much emotion and it healed my heart. My mom got it for me too. I was so depressed during that time. The music still makes me cry today and transports me back to 21 years old. I have beat it countless times and Am getting ready for 3ds playthrough. My mom past away 1 1/2 years ago and it’s gonna hurt, but it’s gonna heal my heart again. She used to watch me play it and always loved it too. Thanks mom. Love you.

[@MyRetroLife]

Sorry for your loss. Thanks for opening up and sharing. This game has a certain magic for all of us doesn’t it?

[@JeffYPbPr]

I was 15 when that came out. The memories are still with me to this day. Legendary game

[@TheMicahwitz]

My parents got divorced when I was 14 in 1994. Street Fighter II and Super NES were my games at the time. When the divorce was happening I wasn’t really that sad. But now when I play these old games the memories of my old family hit so hard I can’t help but cry. Thanks for making this man. Just wanted to let you know you’re not alone!

[@Zazzaro703]

Ocarina of Times title screen is definitely one of if not the best of all time. That music and sound of Epona galloping is instant nostalgia for millions of people.

[@nikdrown]

If there’s a better one I can’t imagine what it is. Not a huge gamer by metric but this game definitely did leave its mark on those who were around at the time. The new ones kind of hit that but nothing like this one did. I love the newer ones on switch but OoT and Majoras will probably always be my favs for nostalgic reasons

[@CobraBlade]

For better or worse, you are so lucky to have so many moments caught on tape. With memories being so faulty, but you’ll have such clear ones of these time thanks to this.

[@gameexplorerofficial2453]

My parents divorced when I was 2, and my mom got full custody of me. Somehow I remember, that my dad was there one day, and then the next day he was gone. I barely recall any commotion, and I’m glad it turned out that way. So growing up without a father, video games definitely helped me out. Whenever I was having a down day, I’d always get lost in the video games, and I would be at peace. Also, I’m very sorry for your loss on your dad. He seemed like he was an awesome guy, and I’m sure he’d be smiling right now for you keeping your memories alive! God bless you man! I’m always looking forward to seeing new videos from you!!

[@mr.maniacal]

I’m almost 31. I was staying at my grandmothers for a school year, I was roughly 5-6 years old. My uncle, he would stay up with me all night, just sit on the bed and watch me play Ocarina of time. I was so mesmerized by this game. And what he didn’t know was how much that meant to me, to this day it brings tears to my eyes. He passed in 2019 to cancer of his liver. Every time I go back to this game, it reminds me of him. RIP uncle Lantz.

[@BatsOnSaturn]

As I'm coming close to 20 years old next month, I look back at this game with nothing but fondness. I first played the game on the Wii Virtual Console back in 2008 and didn't get too far since I was a little kid, but earlier this year I managed to complete the game 100% on the original gold cartridge, and the experience I got from OoT was unlike any other retro and modern video game. Ocarina of Time truly was and is always going to be one of the greatest video games of all time, hell I understand why some think it IS the greatest of all time. It's so magical and nostalgic that you can't help but love it even under all of its 90's jank. Merry Christmas, to you and your family Tyler, even your dad who I know was giving you all the hugs and kisses in the world filming this, and even as I write this comment. We love you as a community, Tyler, and I'm grateful you're still here making videos even with fatherly responsibilities. It helps me feel happier when I'm in my worst moments in life, and even though I'm much younger than most kids who played this in 98, I did play it in 08 so I can sympathize in that long-time nostalgic pain. Happy Holidays, and have yourself a Merry little Christmas, same to everyone reading this. 💜💜💜💜

[@urikayan2368]

Damn... this effected your life too? Your family seemed so happy. I had to come back an add more cause this video just hit so much for me today. This game will always take us back like you said, to the time we were in. It's amazing to see. I appreciate you sharing this with us as it also allows us to remember ourselves as well.

[@jbizzy208]

My younger brother died of cancer in March of ‘99. I was 16 and he was 15. I never really thought about how this game played a part in helping me cope. I’ve replayed it several times through my 20s and 30s. It’s always a little emotional. Your video helped me see why. Thank you for sharing your story and the unique perspective on the emotional role video games can play in our lives.

[@ffxiikiller]

The way you talk about the intro, the way you talk about what kind of emotions it brings up, is something most of us feel. Hats off to you sir, for this video.

[@kevinvandorst]

Great video, there is just something magical about this game.... I just loved it so much as a kid, and for me this is still the best game of all time.

[@type2red]

Your channel is simply amazing the emotion and the feels i get from viewing your content as an older gamer are unmatched and your family despite any bad times are amazing thank you for sharing all of your memories it helps heal us strangers too.

[@BladeBlur]

Thank you for sharing your story as difficult as it might have been. As someone who also had to deal with a messy divorce as a child it is still one of the most harrowing memories from my childhood. Sadly my mom and dad never truly became amicable since, and nowadays my dad has passed away. Your Ocarina of time was Klonoa 2 for me. I remember getting the game shortly after moving to a new school with my mom and it was my comfort food. So much so even playing the remake this year made me shed a tear. Before getting too sentimental, thanks again for making the video. The silver lining is exactly what I needed.

[@adcasa24]

God damnit man…I just left a big comment on a video. But man when you said you started to feel escapism I felt that….same here man. My folks hated each other and always fought and it was real bad at home. Ocarina of Time holds a VERY special place in my heart. My uncle who passed introduced me to gaming with OOT. Taught me to whistle with Zelda’s Lullaby. Taught me that a story can’t just be shown on the big screen. Man, your channel really is something special.

[@rodolfomelo7636]

Beautiful video. I had the same age in 1998/99. My Dad gave to me this game and I got hooked. Because of that time in life, you feel like a kid, but childhood is saying goodbye. The game has that ... the main character has to surrender his childhood to the greater good. When you play as an Adult, everything feels different and when you have to back again in time for the first time it has a certain relief. Certainly one of the best games that I've played in my childhood. Thank you for this video.

[@SMALLSandJOE]

Man, I've listened to the opening theme hundreds... thousands of times but this time hearing it really hit me. Brought me to tears. Lovely video. Thank you for sharing your experiences and reminding people why we love video games and how they can impact our lives.

[@nusilver]

So much melancholy in that soundtrack. I can only imagine what you were processing at that time. I was the only kid from my group of friends I grew up with (and am still friends with, despite not living in the same state) who didn't have divorced parents. Of course, then my mom died when I was 20. Kudos for putting this one out there. Merry Christmas.

[@loudorchen9897]

Geez you have been through some heavy stuff, your Dad would be proud of you for what you have become its almost as if all of his footage over the years turned into one last gift that really set your life up for a great path on KZbin, very cool, i like your videos and all the nostalgia in them.

[@Chad-wb7du]

As a 31 year old, I just cried this entire video. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@2Sweeet]

I've watched several of your videos in a matter of a couple days. I don’t care about the games at all, it's getting to see those precious moments from years gone by. I feel very blessed to see the footage in your videos. So great to see a dad love gaming as much as the kids. And they always seemed to be a gift. He was a very generous man. Thanks for sharing these family moments.

[@MintCity]

This channel seriously comforts me on a level that no other channel has managed to achieve.

[@MyRetroLife]

So glad for that!

[@kickstart118]

Your the boy a daddy could ever have. Your dad inspires me through these videos to be like him. Thank you

[@nathanpeabody4388]

My father passed that year and I was 13...growing into an adult. My older brother got this game for Christmas and we played it constantly. It was somewhat of a mirror to my life. Awesome video and this really really hit home.

[@RyanH2024-q1v]

I know how you felt in that time, my mom died that year six days before Christmas. I was Nine and I have no siblings, my Aunt bought me Zelda and it was the one thing that was able to help me escape that reality. Really cool to see someone else share such a unique experience with a game.

[@kyleboynton2748]

Well wasn’t expecting to cry today but here we are