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zoeunlimited

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@zoeunlimited
@zoeunlimited Жыл бұрын
How do you appreciate your body?🫶🏻✨ 🍓shop delicious body wash: bit.ly/3lCCKfl (available at Target, Walmart & Ulta)
@aurorasmelodies4865
@aurorasmelodies4865 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for helping me fall in love with myself💗
@maeduss
@maeduss Жыл бұрын
Staying far from triggers… Aka people who discredit skinnyph0bia (when I suffered it myself, including classmates who tried to k1ll me meanwhile the school did nothing), people who say sh1t about skinny people because they think it is acceptable, people who compare being sk1nny to being anorex1c and etc!
@bluemoore5874
@bluemoore5874 Жыл бұрын
@Valentina Savazzi I'm pretty sure getting romantically/physically involved with someone who depends on you in a doctor/patient setting is if not illegal (and I dearly hope it is) at the very least extremely morally reprehensible. In other words, that's fucked up and it wouldn't be strange if it gave you new trauma on top of your already existing depression. I hope you find actual professionals that will help you.
@veronicaorsmth
@veronicaorsmth Жыл бұрын
0:02 I CAN PLAY THIS ON MY TRUMPET
@aurorasmelodies4865
@aurorasmelodies4865 Жыл бұрын
@@veronicaorsmth what’s this piece called?
@melinafalzone3778
@melinafalzone3778 Жыл бұрын
"You are not comparing apples to apples. You are comparing apples to a hologram NFT of some 3D printed red fruits" Zoe I love you.
@altsam9
@altsam9 Жыл бұрын
People always talk about how social media is fake but what about people in real life that I see up-front? They're the ones that make me insecure. The women that I know personally have so much better skin and bodies than these plastic celebrities.
@tehr6809
@tehr6809 Жыл бұрын
@@altsam9 I kinda know what you mean....
@Concretesatanic
@Concretesatanic Жыл бұрын
@@altsam9 never seen a pretty girl irl tbh most people in the world are ugly
@ary74
@ary74 Жыл бұрын
It's like comparing a natural apple that grew without fertilizer with a gmo apple
@sfletch3042
@sfletch3042 2 ай бұрын
​@altsam9 With more life experience and growth you'll hopefully come to the place where you stop comparing yourself to other women. You're unique and on your own path. We all need to strive to be the best version of ourselves and noaomeinanyone else based on superficial markers.
@LouisaWatt
@LouisaWatt Жыл бұрын
I’m one of the rare women who doesn’t have cellulite and I’ve had guys criticise me relentlessly for my skinny legs. You can’t win.
@amilya179
@amilya179 Жыл бұрын
Same
@lg403
@lg403 Жыл бұрын
Same here, I‘m 5‘7 and I struggle to gain weight
@amilya179
@amilya179 Жыл бұрын
@@lg403 same ..it's so hard for me to gain weight 🤦‍♀️
@canteven772
@canteven772 Жыл бұрын
And then they want big ass... But guess what... It comes with cellulite. Cuz it is all fat bro. I can't give u one without the other 😊
@twothousandandchew
@twothousandandchew Жыл бұрын
really? guys love my “mile long” legs. like fit ass gym guys who can have a valid opinion 😭. don’t listen we are literally modern 90’s supermodel don’t be made to feel bad that u don’t jiggle and flop about everywhere
@yumi4160
@yumi4160 Жыл бұрын
The most depressing part about all of this is the moment you realize that even if you have a low bodyfat %, work out multiple times per week and eat healthy, some of these "body goals" are simply unobtainable. During peak pandemic I pratically starved and worked my female body to 13.5% bodyfat (basically muscle competition level), and I finally felt... like I was almost there with my body, I just needed to lose a bit more on my thighs. But at the same time, I lost my period, my hair was falling out every day in chunks and my blood tests were alarming. And that's when I realized that I'd been told a lie. I did everything influencers tell you, to reach that ideal body, but in the end, I only ended up finding out that the price you pay is your health. It is physically impossible to look like that without hurting yourself in the process and it's so hard to accept that.
@kelb6073
@kelb6073 Жыл бұрын
Yep! I have a body type where my BMI is fine. Never been considered overweight. But I look 10-15lbs overweight constantly because of my bone and fat distribution. I decided to get fit. Ate right and exercised. I lost like 15lbs. Even though I was doing it all right and exercised and felt amazing, I saw a picture of myself and I still looked chubby!!! I looked like I maybe lost 5lbs not 15! That's when I realized I'm never gonna look like someone else. I'm only ever gonna look like me. If I had lost anymore weight I was gonna start looking ill and eating way too little. So it's just not possible. I look like a rectangle and there's nothing I can do about it. All I can do is be healthy for me and be whatever my best self looks like, which isn't ever gonna be some slim thick chick.
@cinderling5472
@cinderling5472 Жыл бұрын
@@kelb6073 rectangles unite! We are a ✨ different ✨ kind of sexy
@awanti26
@awanti26 Жыл бұрын
Bro I hope you're okay 😢
@Rosiestoned
@Rosiestoned Жыл бұрын
if u take it slow u don't get all these crazy side effects. u can reach goals without starving yourself... hopefully u're ok now
@Fliona
@Fliona 4 ай бұрын
As for me i am 18 don't have body fat, no stretch mark i've that tiny waist or whatever, that's only because i never actually grew. I'm extremely underweight for my age and my height as a 5'2. I'm 35kg, ppl tell me i look 13/14. Honestly it's a pain i'm never healthy constant pain in my abdomen as i starve but feel too nauseous to eat, my hair is fine my period is great but definitely not my overall health. Eating is a chore. I really hope that ppl can embrace their healthy bodies rather than inhuman "standards"
@thelying2594
@thelying2594 Жыл бұрын
I had a friend say I was snatched literally yesterday and how fat she felt. I told her she's 5'1 and I'm 5'4-5 our bodies HAVE to be different but I understood her, I never outright say it but I wish I looked like her because she's beautiful and here I am thinking she's as confident as could be. Here we are comparing ourselves to each other and we look vastly different it's sad really and I hate it...
@peggysyri3193
@peggysyri3193 Жыл бұрын
Yes I felt that. Most of my friends are tall/taller than me and I always feel inferior when we hang out and I'm the smallest (I'm 5'3 so technically not that small) and one friend of mine who has a model like figure (tall and slim with no curves) said how much she'd like to have my curvy waist line. Many times we want what we don't have
@blancaherreroespana5035
@blancaherreroespana5035 Жыл бұрын
I was at the gym the other day and there was this girl with AMAZING legs and ass doing glute activation exercises so I went and asked her for advice on lower body exercises and told her she had the lower body I wish I had. And she went: "but YOU have the lower body I wish I had!". And there we were, feeling we didn't look good enough, not appreciating ourselves.
@777kylo
@777kylo Жыл бұрын
I wish I was your height I hate being short but I’m still growing ( 4’10 at 14 )
@sammierose1150
@sammierose1150 Жыл бұрын
@milkandcereal as long as you’re both healthy and no harmful medical issues - you’re both perfectly fine 🤗 Weight deposits differently on different body types. It’s important to be aware of the health risks of being extremely obese such as diabetes, high cholesterol and heart disease, which can drastically shorten life spans, but again like I said, if you have none of those health issues, the number on the scale matters much less than your muscle tone, energy levels and health benefits. 👍
@thelying2594
@thelying2594 Жыл бұрын
@TheGrimReaper0101 Shoot I wish I was as small as you! I think short people just look adorable I feel like a giant being 5'5 lmao
@likaelishkov5831
@likaelishkov5831 Жыл бұрын
Zoe literally has such great content
@AlmaRakelK.
@AlmaRakelK. Жыл бұрын
True
@savesoil3133
@savesoil3133 Жыл бұрын
Yup! Quite useful for young girls these days #SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet
@taehyunist
@taehyunist Жыл бұрын
right, I love her sm
@greenartnut3818
@greenartnut3818 Жыл бұрын
I agreee
@dakotadedreu1451
@dakotadedreu1451 Жыл бұрын
Agreed❤👏
@beatak.5403
@beatak.5403 Жыл бұрын
It's honestly laughable that the people you see on social media don't even look like that themselves, yet that's exactly what we compare ourselves to. Sometimes you just need a reminder, that REAL bodies simply cannot be perfect. Having stretch marks, cellulite, tummy rolls etc. does not make you any less beautiful and don't let social media tell you otherwise. Thank you Zoe for this video.
@christysong9578
@christysong9578 Жыл бұрын
I got stretch marks on my waist when I was twelve and I was afraid too. I thought I was the only one then. Am 18 now and I have learned to embrace it
@IshtarNike
@IshtarNike Жыл бұрын
I'm a guy and got stretch marks on my butt as a teenager. They're still there but I'm just lucky male standards are very different and I never really need to expose them because men have basically no pressure to show that part of our bodies.
@onyxcrowe4511
@onyxcrowe4511 Жыл бұрын
Stretch marks is normal at the age especially when going through puberty I have stretch marks on my hips , thighs and buttocks I say that I'm a tiger 😅
@dominikamarciniak6238
@dominikamarciniak6238 Жыл бұрын
same here. I am almost 32 now, still learning to embrace it
@rondrekarichardson8661
@rondrekarichardson8661 Жыл бұрын
At 31 years old I don't know adult (male or female) without any stretch marks
@AmericanDivaa
@AmericanDivaa Жыл бұрын
When stretch marks started appearing on my shoulders as a tween… I was once afraid it meant my skin would tear. 😂
@amay304
@amay304 Жыл бұрын
Fun fact: I was a twig of a human in my teens and even then I had stretch marks and cellulite: on my butt, on my knees and on my back. Presumably because I grew faster than my skin could keep up with.
@FernandoTorrera
@FernandoTorrera Жыл бұрын
Before reaching 14 I just sprouted to 5’8 and it was so agonizingly painful. My height stopped at 5’11. I put it close to my after giving birth. I’ll never forget waking up and my flat chest sprouted tiny itty bitty boobs barely worthy of a training bra. That little growth made my boobs look like a demon cat just clawed me all night and the red stretch marks were even weeping. Turned out I have pcos and major hormone issues
@Emilywendymusic
@Emilywendymusic Жыл бұрын
What I don't understand is why people, celebrities, and companies still continue to photoshop themselves and photos to look unrealistic, when all of us know its fake and can easily spot it. If we all collectively hate the standards so much, and want to see real bodies and real faces, why does it feel like it's gotten worse than it was 4 years ago? I don't get it.
@mcdonaldfries3111
@mcdonaldfries3111 Жыл бұрын
Because the companies don't want us to be secure that's what makes them money
@Vivi_Pallas
@Vivi_Pallas Жыл бұрын
Can you imagine how much of an uproar men would make if they stopped photoshopping women?
@Emilywendymusic
@Emilywendymusic Жыл бұрын
@@Vivi_Pallas oh my god I truly feel like men have no idea what real women’s bodies actually look like… it would be a global crisis
@beewest5704
@beewest5704 2 ай бұрын
If I was a celeb with all the money they spent on expensive surgeries, botox & fillers I would be pissed if I still have to use filters & photoshop. It's dystopian.
@xoxo-t2d
@xoxo-t2d Жыл бұрын
I saw a comment on another video, it really cheered me up! “If you ever don’t feel pretty (you are!!!), always think about someone who you admire in real life! They most likely don’t have glass skin, or no cellulite, but guess what they do have. HUMAN FEATURES!”
@Cartoonandanimelove1
@Cartoonandanimelove1 Жыл бұрын
My favorite quote, which I tell myself every time I find myself comparing myself to others is “rainbows and flowers are both beautiful and yet so different” Zoe’s channel is single-handedly curing my ED and Body dysmorphia.
@vaishalibadhele2923
@vaishalibadhele2923 Жыл бұрын
That's really a good quote. Thank you. I'm gonna use it too.
@berryblushin3074
@berryblushin3074 Жыл бұрын
I'm hoping that with the internet, this generation will finally accept stretch marks and cellulite as normal. I grew taller very fast and stopped growing at 12. Even though I was thin and not curvy in the slightest, stretch marks showed up on my thighs. When my mom noticed, she was shocked and said that stretch marks didn't show up on her until she was pregnant. I know it was because she didn't know that stretch marks were common, but that comment made me insecure for a long time.
@megankelly8222
@megankelly8222 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry that sounds upsetting to hear I didn't think skinny girls got stretch marks when I first got mine I broke down still can't stand them I want skin without them
@eveningstar8581
@eveningstar8581 Жыл бұрын
@@megankelly8222 absolutely not true! Almost every single body, male or female, tall or short, big or thin, has stretch marks. The majority of stretch marks are from growing taller. Yes you can get them when you gain weight or grow bigger around in areas of your body. Like pregnancy. But I assure you that bodies of all sizes have them💕
@megankelly8222
@megankelly8222 Жыл бұрын
@@eveningstar8581 thank you for this it means alot my body dysmorphia makes it difficult for me to love them
@NiinasJournal
@NiinasJournal Жыл бұрын
​@@eveningstar8581 I don't but my mom doesn't have them either. Even though she have of course been pregnant and is quite overweigh now. I am skinny tho.
@mayas7060
@mayas7060 Жыл бұрын
this is why i love taking the bus. not to judge other ppl but just to see real ppl from all over my city and understand what humans actually look like. sometimes online we say "everybody has that new bag" or dress or whatever style thing. but when you actually look at people on a busy street (unless u live in LA or something) you see a mixture of styles: teens who ar tying too hard, college students who are not trying hard enough, old ppl who don't care and everyone else whose just trying t get to work/back to their families. and maybe u see the popular trend twice a week. not to just be like "touch grass" lmao but like the easiestway to understanding that social media isn't real life is by seeing the multitude of possibilities that our bodies have to offer. maybe the girls are SM are intimidating, but the old lady in a poncho, bright blue sweats and orthodic sneakers next to u on the bus isn't and she has as much of a claim to what people really look like as those social media girls we pretend are "everybody." I think maybe we just focus on the people we aspire to be like and ignore everyone else, but that worsens the problem. If you allow everyone to be worthy of paying attention to, then you realise comparison makes no sense because not everyone's goals, life position, and capcity is the same. I'm not fully there yet either but i think that realizing that the "body goals" influencers make up 0.000whatever% of the population and that even they don't look like that, and then looking at what people really do look like, not only online but also in our communities, could really help with reversing negative self-perception. and also deleting social media ofc
@r.brooks5287
@r.brooks5287 5 ай бұрын
I'm a shop assistant; I do the same thing with my customers. They are mostly old and don't give a crap about anything.
@MentalHealthMatters20
@MentalHealthMatters20 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Zoe for raising awareness on these topics! You've helped me become less insecure about my body, and life in general. Thank you for everything you do
@martycosplay
@martycosplay Жыл бұрын
I really needed that cellulite talk, thank you for normalizing it!
@DrinkYourNailPolish
@DrinkYourNailPolish Жыл бұрын
If you look at ancient statues of the Goddess Venus you'll see she has rolls and she was the body goals of that day. So if you ever feel a little down abt your rolls remember: you have the body of an ancient GODDESS!!
@awanti26
@awanti26 Жыл бұрын
Exactly 💯😌
@hope426
@hope426 Жыл бұрын
Im currently in the process of adapting a healthier lifestyle and trying to lose the stubborn 20 extra pounds I’ve had since puberty and it’s been 2 months since I’ve started my journey and I watched probably every single video of yours and I gotta say your vids always make me feel better about myself and bring me back to reality when I’m overthinking and sad I don’t see as much progress I would like, thank you so much for this
@IshtarNike
@IshtarNike Жыл бұрын
Honest question: are they extra pounds? If you had them since puberty that suggests they're your natural postpubertal weight, right?
@hope426
@hope426 Жыл бұрын
@@IshtarNike i didn't gain them overnight, it was a slow process of me gaining a couple of pounds every year until it reached a certain number and i stopped gaining weight the thing is, i wasn't eating mindfully and i also became much less active than i was as a child, hormones have played their part too but most of that waight came from a sedetary lifestyle and me not keeping track of what i eat (even tho i don't have a tendency to binge eat or overeat i definitely didn't get enough nutrients) ngl, looks are what motivated me to start this journey, i've been self countious about my arms fat since i was a teenager, a flat stomach would be nice too, but since i started working out and eating healthy i also started feeling so much better. i get a better sleep, i'm much less stressed out and don't get annoyed so easily anymore and it just makes me feel more productive and better about myself in general i've already lost 8 pounds and never felt so good in my life, even tho i was never overweight according to bmi if you trust it, i know that i will feel and look even better when i reach my goal weight
@persephonel2117
@persephonel2117 Жыл бұрын
I got cellulite when I got pregnant for the first time and I was upset at first and then I learned that my body was storing fat so that it would be able to make milk for my baby after they were born. That changed my whole perspective and I actually loved my cellulite after that. Cellulite is there for a reason, it’s because our bodies are smart and amazing and they have a reason for everything they do.
@ellaevans7822
@ellaevans7822 Жыл бұрын
I literally have no fat on my ass or thighs but during puberty i still got stretch marks and cellulite in those areas it's literally in text books all women go through it.
@wondernlight
@wondernlight Жыл бұрын
pure love and acceptance. that's what I feel after this video 💖 thank you Zoe! ✨
@joellevelvis9278
@joellevelvis9278 4 ай бұрын
This is litterly my comfort youtube channel, thank you so much for making me feel more confident!
@nzbr-z4l
@nzbr-z4l Жыл бұрын
My biggest problem is my waist. Coming from a person who's 165cm and 55kgs. I'm a teenager but I'm really insecure of actually having no booty and being flat everywhere except my tummy. I do athletics almost everyday and I also eat normally. Before I used to starve myself to fix it, but I realised it's making me slower at running, so I had to stop. Now I still got issues with this and idk how to fix it. Thank you so much for this video it made me feel a little bit better today 😊
@xsweethearto
@xsweethearto Жыл бұрын
You could just be still going through puberty or you just have either a natural straight/rectangle, or a diamond body shape. Those shapes tend to gain weight in their belly area. So it is normal.
@beatrizalmeidasantos7746
@beatrizalmeidasantos7746 Жыл бұрын
Gisele Büdchen is one of the most popular and beautiful models in the world and she doesn't have a snatched waist even that she has a very skinny body.
@charlottet7379
@charlottet7379 5 ай бұрын
5:44 🙌 I didn't realize this till you put it like that. THANK you for that!
@lealeilani9256
@lealeilani9256 Жыл бұрын
so way only 80-90% of women have cellulite!! I've only ONCE in my life met a women who didn't have cellulite. has anyone here met someone without? I think it's around 98%
@mar1nn998
@mar1nn998 Жыл бұрын
People say i do not have idk....
@slothisasin8240
@slothisasin8240 3 ай бұрын
My former language teacher accidentally said that "only old people have cellulite", because she didn't have cellulite. She learned something new that day 😂 That's the only person I know of.
@kant89
@kant89 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Zoe, I gained a lot of confidence due to your videos❤
@Marie-r6u9c
@Marie-r6u9c 5 ай бұрын
Im 14 and recently discovered the cellulite on my butt and also strech marks but i didnt feel bad about them bc i watched videos like this so thank you very much
@Winniesingss
@Winniesingss Жыл бұрын
I also started puberty/period a lot earlier than everyone around me (4 grade) and I grew drastically in my hips, butt, and breasts and I just remember the way everyone around me would say I need to cut down on how much I was eating due to getting better. Even thought I was at a healthy weight for a girl going through body changes. It’s the reason I still have body image issues today. Crazy how I went through that as a young girl just growing into her woman body and was judged so falsely about it, even by family members.
@rampom6616
@rampom6616 Жыл бұрын
Your content is literally theraphy to me. THX sooo much for making me confident again
@laurad4277
@laurad4277 Жыл бұрын
I love your content and the messages you put across with them. The amount of work you put into your videos is amazing and it shows in the final product. Make sure you don't overwork yourself and that you take care yourself and don't get lost in the grind of making content 💚
@samaraalicesouza8745
@samaraalicesouza8745 Жыл бұрын
when I was younger I couldn't care less about cellulite or stretch marks but when I was 12 an aunt looked at me (I was wearing shorts) and said: "wow, you have A LOT of stretch marks and cellulite on your butt. I just have ONE stretch mark and that's all." since then (I'm 22 years old now) every time I wear shorts I think about that day and feel bad.
@w.2978
@w.2978 Жыл бұрын
i hope youll overcome it❤️ its insane how one comment can affect us so much, i totally get you
@wild864
@wild864 Жыл бұрын
I’ve experienced this from an aunt of mine as well. Family members really contribute to our insecurities
@artbygilik
@artbygilik 2 ай бұрын
I’ve always avoided wearing shorts because that is an insecurity of mine since I was young (and I’m twice your age now) I wish the media and standards would not have been so unrealistic. I photograph gorgeous women as part of my business, and they have some flaws too.
@thezambianprince3893
@thezambianprince3893 Жыл бұрын
Love these types of videos as it talks about real bodies and how our bodies store fat and the food. Excited for what comes next and have a great year ahead, look forward to seeing what else you eat.
@nellystepchin975
@nellystepchin975 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping it real Zoe!
@floraspond666
@floraspond666 Жыл бұрын
I haven’t gone through puberty but I have had many growth spurts so I have lumps in places and stretch marks in other places and I was so insecure about them and tried to workout more until I discovered this video. Now I know that this stuff normal.
@sydneym-y
@sydneym-y Жыл бұрын
I love this video!! I’m an athlete and I’ve had issues with looking a certain way or not looking like the smaller girls on my team but I have remind myself that I’m 5’7 and quite literally cannot have the same body size as a 5’ tall girl. Thank you for making these videos 🫶🏼
@GirlMeetsSunshine
@GirlMeetsSunshine Жыл бұрын
Girl, you did NOT need to flex with your shoulders that much in the last few seconds! Damn, you look FABULOUS! 😍💕 You must have been putting in time and effort into your workouts!
@samcarmen
@samcarmen Жыл бұрын
many people are actually "body goals" but i find it so funny that the people that make a whole career out of being body goals either aren't themselves or didn't get their naturally. truly funny how the world works
@chocolatecharley99
@chocolatecharley99 Ай бұрын
Bc you have to have a good face at the same time
@pluf8751
@pluf8751 Жыл бұрын
Has anyone realized the contradictions that Zoe has said in her past video including this one? I really loved watching her content but I noticed that most of her videos are about the beauty standard but she still promotes it in her vids especially in her KZbin short clips. Her clips feel condescending. She keeps making these beauty standard videos which I understand because they’re toxic but yet she keeps posting these weight loss tips. Like?? Especially her “eat anything you want and don’t get fat tips” “my secret of staying skinny”. She just promotes diet culture in a way that’s not too obvious so unless you’re actually thinking about what she’s actually saying you won’t even notice. I feel like a lot of her videos are about her only, and that she’s projecting what she feels onto her videos. Idk anyone feel the same way? Also sorry for any grammar mistakes
@leenyyy
@leenyyy Жыл бұрын
I hear you, but to me I am just taking this as personal growth. Those videos are a bit older. And it seems like she, alike us, was affected and influences by obsession of self image, diet culture, and all of that. I think one can criticize, have thoughts and opinions on this subject, while healing and growing from them.
@messyb3494
@messyb3494 Жыл бұрын
I AGREE!!
@cakeasaverb
@cakeasaverb Жыл бұрын
Being aware of toxic beauty standards doesn’t mean you don’t also entertain them we are all participating in this in some way or another. I mean even watching this video itself is participation in appearance obsession
@yourdream-lb9oc
@yourdream-lb9oc Жыл бұрын
Not really? From my personal experience, it's totally okay. I'm struggling with ED, but still, her videos are nice to watch. She does not promote unhealthy diets, she talks about normal ways to lose and maintain weight. She also does a great job discussing Beaty trends and how close they r to reality. I don't see anything projective, don't be that sensitive. If you see promotion, then it's only in your brain and caused by your own, probably weight, problems.
@derpwadder
@derpwadder Жыл бұрын
You should want to be physically fit, your body is healthier. Sorry, that’s just REALITY.
@xoxo.amanda09
@xoxo.amanda09 Жыл бұрын
this is the first video to genuinely make me feel better about my little “imperfections”
@AnnieArissbae17
@AnnieArissbae17 Жыл бұрын
I love commentary videos made by Zoe, I've watched them all and being inspired by each of them, Love you sm Zoe!!
@cinderling5472
@cinderling5472 Жыл бұрын
I have an effortlessly athletic body type with broad shoulders. Women tend to envy or admire my body. But on the flip side, I'm not very desired by men I can't win 😭 Bottom line: it's really no use comparing yourself to anyone! You might think someone looks amazing, but you don't know how the person feels about themselves, which weighs stronger. You don't know if that thing you don't like about yourself, is actually coveted by others Just be the best version of you 💖 there's only one anyway
@ShivaniSingh-uq4zl
@ShivaniSingh-uq4zl Жыл бұрын
Your concent makes me feel very confident bro like it just makes me accept the reality.
@fantasie618
@fantasie618 4 ай бұрын
the way that the influencer's bodies in the unedited pictures look 1000x better than i could ever try and achieve😭
@dearchanie
@dearchanie Жыл бұрын
Recently i have started to find hourglass figures a bit(of influencers)weird and a normal bodies so pretty like they look good wtf slayyy
@angel_qu3en
@angel_qu3en Жыл бұрын
I remember how i trained so hard to lose weight and eat less, sometimes none at all, i even ate and threw it up because i just wanted to lose weight sooooo bad. I'm on the thicker side and i hate not having a smaller waist but i ended up over doing it and developed an ED and had to be hospitalized cause my body wouldn't allow me to feed myself and i couldn't walk due to fatigue, dehydration and lack of energy. I nearly died just to be the beauty standard, my life is worth more than some body goals.
@kellyminter08
@kellyminter08 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video 🥺 helping all of us love ourselves more.
@SSM654
@SSM654 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video . I was so sad when I found out that my body type is rectangular and having a 24 inch waist, that no matter how hard I worked my body type would just look...like a door and I would never be this beauty. It's still hard, and makes me sad to think I will never be hourglass but I've learned to try to accept it .
@sxnshine7
@sxnshine7 Жыл бұрын
her comparisons are always on point, masterpiece 🧡
@M_J456
@M_J456 3 ай бұрын
I have two different body goals: - For me: to keep my body alive and well - For my body: to allow me to live and experience life So currently to focus on both of these goals, I am actively trying to gain weight. I am currently on medication that would hurt my body if I kept it at this unsafe weight (for my medication and also I find it's beneficial to keep reserves to cushion any losses due to stress). This medication helps me enjoy my life and thus I will help my body help me. Yeah sure I like the way my body looks, but I liked it just the same at my heaviest too! It's never been that deep: I like my body because it is my body. I like my cellulite because it is my cellulite. I like my stretch marks because they are my stretch marks. My "mustache" as well. Even the odd way the section of my left eyebrow stands up. It's me man, the body is me and I LIKE me. It's not ego or confidence it just is. I am alive = Life brings experience = experience brings enrichment = I like enrichment = I like myself Why on Earth would I want to improve if I didn't like myself? Why yearn for good times if you do not like yourself? Why feel ANYTHING if you do not like yourself? Life is care: for yourself and for others. You don't have to be obsessed or infatuated with yourself. Simply care about anything and you have already experienced self love.
@c.uni2370
@c.uni2370 Жыл бұрын
Ever since I lost more weight, it’s like my stretch marks on my belly button from my past pregnancy are starting to show more prominently that’s it’s been messing with my head like crazy! I’ve even tried micro needling and vitamin c serum and trying to work out and just that stretched out skin makes me feel so insecure 😩 sucks us women fight these negative feelings daily
@FernandoTorrera
@FernandoTorrera Жыл бұрын
Its extra skin and if you are done having babies get a tummy tuck. My mom had bad loose skin from her difficult pregnancies it was irritating her and leaving her prone to rashes.
@slothisasin8240
@slothisasin8240 3 ай бұрын
​@@FernandoTorrera Even though some people do want a tummy tuck, please don't advice people to go under the knife. They might not want to go through major surgery. I understand that you had good intentions, but please be careful with your suggestions! 😊
@lovana1689
@lovana1689 Жыл бұрын
I live in your challenge girl😭😂 when I wake up and open my eyes I check out your channel, also before sleep and the whole day. I was in your channel when you uploaded this video. I want to say that I'm your big fan sis fighting and love you
@NinaMP6305
@NinaMP6305 Жыл бұрын
I’m not body goals, but you aren’t either. Follow your own standards. You’re body goals. I’m body goals.
@fcrm3254
@fcrm3254 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this 💓I needed a reality check like this one, sometimes we get so caught up with social media it's hard to see out of it
@milothecat4288
@milothecat4288 Жыл бұрын
I swear ever since I started watching these videos my self-confidence has skyrocketed. I feel good about myself most of the time even without a flat stomach.
@bladee.11.
@bladee.11. Жыл бұрын
Thank you ma'am! i needed to see this video. Im teenager and i started having body image issues lately (mostly because of comments from my family). This have helped me a bit : )
@lookatthemoonshining
@lookatthemoonshining Жыл бұрын
Hello Zoe! I'm a insecure person but you're content has been helping me a lot" So thank you from the bottom of my heart for that
@cutiebearx4661
@cutiebearx4661 Жыл бұрын
i don't compare myself with idols or models, actors. I compare myself with the people around me but they al look better than me . But when i am alone i dont' compare myself at all.
@dinasilva9263
@dinasilva9263 Жыл бұрын
I found out your Channel a few weeks ago and now i watch every vídeo. 🤗
@moon076
@moon076 Жыл бұрын
As a teenager, I'm so grateful to be your subscriber Thankyou sm❤️
@CatBrash
@CatBrash 3 ай бұрын
my body dysmorphia loves you for all this
@magadiendor
@magadiendor Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video and for all the other ones you made! They made me feel so much better about myself, so much normal and acceptable to my own eyes.
@giuliamentrasti422
@giuliamentrasti422 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Zoe for your videos, you always give me a boost of confidence. Can't wait for next videos!!
@Yolohipsteryolo
@Yolohipsteryolo Жыл бұрын
I basically soaked up those unretouched pictures of celebrities bc I honestly couldn’t imagine even one of them could look so „normal“. Some are even in worse shape than I, and I am uncomfortable that I even have these thoughts. 😦
@xyz.sophi510
@xyz.sophi510 Жыл бұрын
Finally someone said it 😭
@-hj9zl
@-hj9zl Жыл бұрын
this needs to blow tf up 👏🏻
@bshdndbdhdnbdfnf-db7pj
@bshdndbdhdnbdfnf-db7pj Жыл бұрын
i love zoe's videos, i swear she keeps me sane
@lkf8799
@lkf8799 Жыл бұрын
OoOoo I didn't know Tree Hut had big bottles of body wash. Nice! Thank you so much for showing the edited and unedited photos next to each other.
@DetsCrissy
@DetsCrissy Жыл бұрын
I got stretch marks at 12 years old and I thought I was the only one my age with stretch marks 😢 funny thing I didn't get any stretch marks at all when I got pregnant!! Woman's body needs fat to procreate! And cellulite is a sign of a healthy body 🤷‍♀️ I wasn't over weight, or gained weight to get stretch marks, I simply went through puberty 🤷‍♀️ I hope teens reading this know that this are very common things to happen, unavoidable, and if you happen to get them, it's totally not your fault nor does it diminish your worth ❤
@squeeky.bunnijay6832
@squeeky.bunnijay6832 Жыл бұрын
Your videos helps me so much with my insecurities ,thank you!!I love your videos :DD
@lauralalu6165
@lauralalu6165 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I needed this! Sadly I need this as a reminder again and again but it helps everytime. 🙏🧡
@maeduss
@maeduss Жыл бұрын
2:28 I personally have no celulites, but I was also so surprised by the amount of stretch marks I have on my a$$ (meanwhile I know women of bigger 🍑 who do have cellulites but minimum to, maybe even, no stretch marks at all)! It’s crazy how things change from body to body (bc I always thought stretch marks had something to do with those parts of you getting bigger)!
@autobot4639
@autobot4639 Жыл бұрын
I kinda needed this video, I was being super down on myself about my body. I felt like I was letting myself go and I didn’t like the way I looked. I’ve been dieting and going to the gym and I felt like it wasn’t enough. Ik it doesn’t seem like a big deal but thank you.
@we.genuinely.think2882
@we.genuinely.think2882 Жыл бұрын
I remember when I first got stretch marks and my mum was worried... turns out she tought they were self harm marks from far away. So obviously she got worried but I thought it was because of the stretch marks and got worried too 😅
@adamarie6675
@adamarie6675 Жыл бұрын
How to know what is normal- look around you. I see SO MANY GORGEOUS strong, amazing women at my gym, and not one of them looks like this shit online. Not ONE. and that is exactly how it should be 💕
@rationalatheist9824
@rationalatheist9824 Жыл бұрын
Videos like these s are saving our children's lives
@hyxxx1564
@hyxxx1564 Жыл бұрын
Love the content, was feeling a bit low about how i look and youtube did god's work and showed me ur video, i raaaan to watch it...on a diff note tree hut you better ship internationally!!!
@marenwilliams2787
@marenwilliams2787 Жыл бұрын
I only compete with myself. When bad habits gave me an extra 15lbs, I started a slight calorie deficit & expect to lose about 1 lb a week, slow & healthy. Just be the best, most healthy version of yourself & be happy!
@gabrielladore4287
@gabrielladore4287 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video, I really needed a reminder that I am good as I am!
@giaparmer
@giaparmer Жыл бұрын
Ahhhh I’m totally into shower and hygiene content and I love tree hut. I watched the whole sponsorship. Try the Tahitian vanilla shave oil it’s so good
@Vwink1528
@Vwink1528 3 ай бұрын
I starved myself until I had no period and my hair fell out 😢 I had to lean on walls to stand. I will never do that again. EVER! It wasn’t worth it. Now I get the proper foods and lift weights. Feeling better and trying to change my mindset on how I view my body. Social media doesn’t help. At all.
@Bunyip3124
@Bunyip3124 Жыл бұрын
Cellulite is simply how the fat sits, that's all. Instead of the fat sitting in a smooth layer, there's fibres that pull the skin down into dimples, like those lounges / armchairs with those buttons that are pressed into the padding to give that cushion effect. So if you have less fat the dimples are less pronounced, if you have more fat the dimples have more dimension and are more obvious.
@boniguess1872
@boniguess1872 Жыл бұрын
I remember being on the beach wearing shorts and my mom seeing stretch marks on my thighs. She pointed them out, said I should exercise more and she told me she didn’t get hers until she was pregnant with me. I was super uncomfortable but I didn’t have anything to cover up with since I didn’t have another change of clothes
@talisha5863
@talisha5863 Жыл бұрын
Great discussion Zoe👏🏽
@sangie9559
@sangie9559 Жыл бұрын
I clicked on this video IMMEDIATELY. I love your content so much.❤
@barber.james11
@barber.james11 2 ай бұрын
So I know I’m not a women, I’m a male. However, I will say this about the weight. .. I have never been a big person like ever. But I got sober over a year ago. And as a result I gained a shit ton of weight. And because I was so heavy i developed sleep apnea and I couldn’t even tie my shoes, so I lost the weight and I would rather be fit then over weight any day. Not for vanity. For my health! ❤
@yume9998
@yume9998 Жыл бұрын
Well, I'm fat, but not obese. I don't have any health problems but since I downloaded instagram to chat with my friends, I started to hate myself. I remember days, not eating anything except breakfast and dinner that I have with my family. Slowly, I lost my body image, I forgot the way I looked like in the real life. I started doing workout to get a better shape. Push-ups, crunches, planks but nothing worked. My tummy got slightly smaller, at least that was what my mom said at that time. I thought that if I got skinnier, I'd look better in clothes, get more friends, attract that guy in the class. I'M FUCKİN 15 YEARS OLD. I didn't even know that people would care about me without fake smiles and sayings like "No, u r not fat, u look beautiful". Then I made a decision and deleted social media of all kind except youtube. Now I don't have to be concerned about how I look because I know that no ome cares :) everyone is engaged with their own stuff and they don't care if the skirt I wear is showing my legs, that blouse is making my tummy look big or anything. Because THEY DON'T CARE and I don't have to care either. I'm happy with who I am. I'm happy with the young girl that likes to eat two plates of spaghetti in once. I'm not a model and I don't have to be
@alanam9528
@alanam9528 Жыл бұрын
The Getty image thing is so true, I feel so much better about my skin texture
@liebeswag
@liebeswag Жыл бұрын
needed to hear this today ty
@bakubaku087
@bakubaku087 Жыл бұрын
YES we love some down-to-earth slayage!!!!
@raylubin
@raylubin Жыл бұрын
As a guy who doesn't use tiktok, I love these videos. Thank you for all the positive reminders Zoe!🤍
@nourbryan4418
@nourbryan4418 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much I feel better every time I watch your video 😊
@peachwhite-333
@peachwhite-333 4 ай бұрын
I'm 19 and I'm currently getting a bit of cellulites on my butt. I've struggled 4 years with my Anorexia, I just got back more of my weight, but now, I have to worry about other things.
@rainbow9987
@rainbow9987 4 ай бұрын
I think the ratio of the waist is something we have made up. Avery women is shaped differently and most women are not the same shape. Average woman has fat on her waist.
@lailiecarrillo
@lailiecarrillo Жыл бұрын
omg you’re so close to 1 million subscribers!!!!
@dawnpandoraplaylist5864
@dawnpandoraplaylist5864 5 ай бұрын
I love you so much ! Thx for this lovely sorority
@noya1192
@noya1192 Жыл бұрын
I love your outfit !! Great video as always ✨
@theop00
@theop00 Жыл бұрын
My waist to hip ratio is highish even though I'm skinny because my hips are naturally narrow. Yet another reason not to obsess over things like that!
@hibeautym
@hibeautym Жыл бұрын
Omg the amount of editing done on those pictures you showed in the beginning 😮
@LittleMissTotoro
@LittleMissTotoro Жыл бұрын
I got a puppy and because she will literally eat me or bark when I try to scroll on social media I think so much less about me and what I look like! And it's amazing ❤ Puppy doesn't care if I do my make-up, she wants to play outside and I have to come with her!
@eduardaarrais
@eduardaarrais Жыл бұрын
You know the craziest thing about cellulite? We women get it because our body stores fat in a different way than men. Men's bodies store fat in square cells, like bricks. We store fat in round cells, which is why we end up with bumpy skin. Storing fat in round cells actually means we have more body fat than men, even if our bodies on the outside look exactly the same. And why would we have more fat? Biology girl, evolution. You literally have more body fat so you don't DIE during childbirth. Our body is a machine developed to ensure our survival during the most traumatic natural thing that could happen to our bodies. You don't have cellulite because you're fat - you have cellulite because your body is trying to prevent you from dying! So don't feel ashamed of it. There's no workout that is going to change your body or erase your cellulite, because that's literally how your body works - and there's nothing wrong with it. You are beautiful ❤
congrats, your body is trending.
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