This was so so so good! It hit on so many beneficial levels. This has definitely been my experience and I did not have that support and often fought through it very much alone and was attacked for speaking out. It's hard. Im still growing and healing the aftermath because it's a process but this was a needed conversation. Thank you both. Such an advocate for Love doesnt mean access and Forgiveness doesnt mean trust. I live this through and through which disrupts perpetual toxic cycles. I know everyone doesnt have the capacity to live this way though

Who would be attracted to something that's viewed as something Sloopy looking

If I could afford therapy I still wouldn't go to therapy.

When Yvette says she is still learning how to have a lot of conversation with Anaya, I chuckled bc I can just imagine. That chocolate baby l is just soo confident , they have done such a good job with her I can only imagine the challenges she presents her parents 😅

I’m team don’t argue with a fool.

I think the problem with people who are messy, they aren’t thoughtful to begin with and don’t really care or can’t imagine how it might affect others.

I wish my husband was as thoughtful as yours. I think that’s the problem with people who are messy, they aren’t thoughtful.

Sounds like my husband. Sometimes he cleans up usually it all has to pile up and he has to be in the mood.

Honestly, homegirl needs to charge this one to the game. Get in therapy and deal with these issues. I 100% agree with Glen, before the death it sounded like the relationship needed some work. Grief doesn’t make sense, a friend stopped dating a mutual because he needed space but when he was ready to love again he didn’t return to her and met someone else and is now engaged 🤷🏾‍♀️

Honestly, homegirl needs to charge this one to the game. Get in therapy and deal with these issues. I 100% agree with Glen, before the death it sounded like the relationship needed some work

The difference between you two and everyone else is the majority of men and women are not Traditional anymore. There's nothing wrong with men not getting sex from women that were pure. But since the majority of women are modern independent having sex with multiple men. Men are now saying if those types of women want a man to provide everything then sex better be a part of that. Cause if she's not bringing nothing Traditional what's the point

I LOVE LOVE, you have her here for this episode.

Time to go to BACK into the WORK FORCE.., creativity is stifled and old .., in my opinion

It’s been one year since this first wonderful phenomenal podcast. I where is the second part they’re going into 2025 and I’m looking forward to it Bless each and everyone of you

OK, I remember this episode and why I’m packing to go home for the holidays. I wanted to listen to it again, I am in my 70s and this episode really impact my mindset

Checking in from the DMV.

The song, priceless!!!!...

He's in school soooo, other kids AT school are definitely influencers. You just never know what kids pick up from other kids. Ask the questions concerning their daily activities.

Ive never understood why fun can't be the goal of dating. Flirting to no end is fun. And i do think there are men who date for fun...with sex being an added bonus.

I’ve never watched from KZbin, I always listen from Apple Podcast but I’ve been missing you guys so much I said I HAVE TO BE MISSING SOMETHING. I noticed this one was not uploaded to Apple Podcast. It’s so refreshing to hear you again.

4:00😂😂😂😂 +Yvette’s reaction

Just coming back to see what happened ?

I just y’all!!! ❤❤❤

Hey, guys! Hell yes I will come to the wedding party! Texas!! Love you guys!

Ayyeeeee that intro!😍❤ Loving the podcast.

"Been married XX years" 🥸

"been married XX years" 👈🏾 That's the fix.

Love y'all 😂

Song is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Is this Husband Retwisting your Locs 🎉❤😊. I hope my future husband helps with mine.. it would definetly save money . Though I only get them done 2 to 4 times a year.

I agree with Yvette!

Welcome to real farm parenting life.

great

Hinge! 🤷🏾‍♀️

Bless Yvette’s heart 😂

Her mom’s crazy isn’t one that can be fixed overnight. Culture seems to be a driving force into why she does the things she does, there’s no room to hear or see anyone’s point of view on anything because it’s just her way or the culture’s way. I especially feel sad for her dad as well, because that woman is suppose to be his bestfriend, his point of peace and comfort and he seems terrified because that woman is a lunatic. Intervention is needed and it won’t be easy. But I don’t think she should take that on , on her own. Continue to distance yourself and be at peace where you are and leave her to sink in her mental illness. Because that is wayy bigger than you!

Y'all, loved the episode, always blessed to hear y'all perspective & what God's been doing 😊

The song is AMAZING ❤

Love your song of his you two met!

Love your song of how you two met!

A melting pot means we melt our identities together...maybe more like paella or a beautiful kale salad? Where everything maintains is wonderful tastes and identities.

I really enjoyed the live with all the disruptions, Yvettes boogy and leaving her mic on, Lilly peeking around the corner!! Soooo funny and what a message!!! I am an older follower, been married 28yrs, 29 in December. We are almost in empty nest season and I look forward to the email that the person will send in. I feel like we are 2 different people that need to learn each other all over again. Ive been feeling like it might be better for me to leave, but at the same time we may just need intense counseling . Love you two❤❤

Y'all need to safely store a few gallons of gas somewhere on the property for those times when getting gas is problematic! 😂

I love that song. It’s so beautifully done with so much depth and smooth flow to it. Congratulations!!!!🎉 on finishing it. Christmas gift for….. Keep shining my beautiful chocolate family ❤🤗🫶🏿👊🏿👏🏿💪🏿🌞

Yes, definitely fear having kids. I don’t feel like I can handle keeping another human alive when I’m struggling to keep myself alive. I struggle to cope with everyday life. So the thought of bringing a child into the world terrifies me.

They said that some children don't really become fully trained to keep dry at night until about 7.

Yes, I definitely fear having kids. I don’t feel like I can handle keeping another human alive when I’m struggling to keep myself alive. I struggle to cope with everyday life. So the thought of bringing a child into the world terrifies me.

1 Thessalonians 5:22 Abstain from all appearance of evil.

Love the song!!!❤🎉

I got married to my long term "best friend" - sorry to all our exes, seriously, really very sorry🤷‍♀