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@almatsuses8736 5 күн бұрын
Thank you for making videos like this you are the best I can’t thank you more
@einzelganger5290 13 күн бұрын
Entitlement is at the core of narcissism. If you've ever worked, lived or interacted with a narcissist then you know exactly what I'm talking about.
@skilla4hire 14 күн бұрын
My mother (rest in love) used to always say: it's better to be loved than to always try to be right. We should be able to have opposite opinions and agree to disagree. It's ok. People who always overstate their opinions are usually in my experience, very narcissistic. The only way to deal with them is to avoid opinion based convo. Have string boundaries and keep healthy space between you and that person. Combative people are facing things (or refusing to face some internal things) that may keep them from being able to interact with others without "proving themselves." I emphasize, BUT, my peace and well being is priority.
@stephanM5 15 күн бұрын
Never let anyone live inside your head rent free.
@JKDVIPER 22 күн бұрын
Not a real adult. 💯😉👈🏻
@scarredcitizen2023 25 күн бұрын
All this redirecting requires alot of mental energy. Controlling a person like this and every conversation is not worth it......
@jammyjay917 28 күн бұрын
Its hard in the heat of the moment though when being provoked....
@TheHeirachyExploitYou Ай бұрын
The role play is helpful and seeing them as children makes them less of a threat. I do belueve that there is something behind the person making them behave like they do. Something super natural so.ething that has followed and influenced you from birth and knows just what buttone to push. Thats what we are fighting in my opinion. Thankyou.
@AzadC Ай бұрын
Dude my issue in terms of being provoked is not at all with randoms people at the street saying whatever. It is when living at the same place with other people. Because the biggest difference with random people that 99 of the time it can bounce off me. Because the chance that you are meating them again is very little it does exist but it is very small chance. But its when living with other people when it gets repeatable that its when it gets personal. I am by no means a violent physical type of guy. But i have the natural urge to provoke back when things gets personal. One person who is on 1st place on people i hate on my top 5 list. of assholes i meant in my life is my own brother little brother. Because after since our mom passed away. He almost always does it on purpose trying to trigger me into rage making all sorts out of the world accusations when our dad is there. But i dont most of the time even though i have the fantasy to beat the hell out of him hit him i dont because if i do that he psychologically wins over me. And plus i get in bad standing with our dad
@Tom_Emody Ай бұрын
It’s a haunting feeling when you find a channel that has been inactive for years. It makes me wonder what changed in the persons life. Did he quit because making videos ain’t so grand? Did he get married to a rich girl and lives off grid on a sailboat? ⛵️ Or did the sad thing happen, is he gone from this world? 🌎 It’s a better world when we are sharing our love with each other…. So say hi sometime if you are still here to do it. And if you are indeed deceased, feel free to haunt my next barbecue…..much love and respect…..Tom
@AzadC Ай бұрын
Im kinda one of those not either too much extroverted or even introverted a thing between those two. But i know the topic in this video. Because i met alot of provoking people in my life. On the outside i let them believe their jokes are fun = masking feelings. But not on the inside. Im always had a long history when the opportunity is there for me. Because i lived places with people where i inside did knew that i could not 100% retaliate provoke them back to anger to the point they almost hit me. Because we lived together but as soon as i left that or those places i knew that the living together rule dont count for me anymore so i am totally free to decide whether or not to provoke them back to the point of stalk harassment. That i even sometimes got law cases against me. But thats just me as someone who got bullied from early childhood who never has 100% completely recovered from that trauma. It is naturally for me to provoke back
@NightOwlGames Ай бұрын
My younger sister wanted to sit in the front seat of the car the whole time i just thought meh ill sit in the back we both getting to our destination at exactly the same time what difference does it make?
@TheRealBrook1968 Ай бұрын
I have financial goals. I also love watches. I only buy a new watch of substance after completing a comparable significant financial goal. This also allows me to also have fun researching which watch I would like to have in the meantime.
@Yldaro 2 ай бұрын
what should I do, as I am the argumentative person :( I'm 20, and my best friend says I argue about everything, and the only times I'm not doing it is when I'm defending my ego instead; I want to be better. I don't want to be toxic. What should I do?
@heinekelland9223 2 ай бұрын
hiiii is everything okay? Will you be making more videos?
@Poppy-yx8js 2 ай бұрын
I’ve earned my skill set. And I work for myself. I don’t appreciate entitlement in anyone.
@kristencole7357 2 ай бұрын
I wish he would have spoke of entitlement mentality to do with relationships.
@ranaeid2390 2 ай бұрын
This is so true. Being reactive and screaming got me no where. It hurt my health, my relationships, and work.
@jacqueslee2592 2 ай бұрын
This is daily reality in the US. Everywhere you go there are people who are venting and are looking to start a problem. I get this all the time mainly because of my height. This is why women say they desire tall men because tall men are never going to get this kind of bullshit. I get it all the time. I also other shorter men get this around their families. Hence, why it is an advantage to look fit. Otherwise, you are easy prey.
@autismknights8971 3 ай бұрын
YOUR first example sounded kind of encouraging, EXCEPT when you reallllly clarified "you will be as good as us"! ..... I kinda talk in this same calm tone and tell people "it's all good you will get this sht in no time" but Im really being encouraging when I do! Maybe I should start thinking about that, maybe say the same thing In a cool upbeat tone! Never been really good socialy anyways, ah F it!
@Sizhui-mg6hc 3 ай бұрын
Was told i looked condescending when I got angry. Truth it, it's me trying to smile to not get affected but my brows and eyes tell a different story 😢
@duromusabc 3 ай бұрын
A common but SUBTLE COVERT condescending behavior is a toxic married parent telling a married person with no kids “…well you don’t have kids “ (with a tone of invalidation ) or “…since you don’t have kids “ when it comes to buying a big expensive vehicle vs a smaller less expensive vehicle or choosing multiple streaming services that each have a hefty fee vs just having free streaming service or even visiting a huge mall that has an amusement park in it that toxic married parent with kids is obviously acting superior than the married person with no kids This scenario can be a conversation during a July 4th party or Thanksgiving party or Christmas party with family and in-laws
@mr.kumar1 3 ай бұрын
I like
@Verified-Mojolajesu 4 ай бұрын
Picture them as a big baby. Quite weird and funny anyways😂
@ZoroVC 4 ай бұрын
So, there's a guy who provokes me without any reason. We aren't friends, I don't know him much, in instance we never had a conversation. But still he provokes me without any reason. I don't understand how to deal with it. I mean I can fight, I know moves, I train boxing but fighting without a reason isn't my style. I feel angry but I am trying too hard to control it. What should I do now? I am confused, if I beat him will that make it over. Will it be over?
@AzadC Ай бұрын
No no if you start hitting him. It is only him that wins on that psychological aspect. And in some countries like mine. It is actually illegal to use martial arts even if they started it = attacking you. It is only them who is winning in court against you and you lose. Just a example
@fanboy7718 4 ай бұрын
Very good video - I also read in a Zen book, you need to give up their world. Dont react, say sry I didnt unterstand you and ignore them. Its very usefull
@opticalman6417 4 ай бұрын
you see this with people with low iq or mental health issues someone says something or does something and they think there Entitled to smack them up the person on the receving end justing being what there meant to be the reflective mirror the activator the trigger for someone else unheal heal wounds that then get projected on to them that they need to work on
@opticalman6417 4 ай бұрын
a false sense of Entitlement go very much hand in hand with victimhood which is a aspect of it that people dont take in to acount another aspect of this is reflective mirroring triggering and projection
@sarose1006 4 ай бұрын
Thank you for posting this. A friend was just being condescending and I was insulted and hurt. But this made me feel better and helped me to not to take it personal.
@user-lt9lf6jb3z 5 ай бұрын
That. "joke" wasn't funny at all... you need to be the ppl that dont make jokes to skip #4 for you unless you learn how to tell an actual joke lol!!!😂😂 love the video tho it's very informing and I learned a lot so ty... just had to tell you your joke was dry!! 🥶🤣🤣
@lararain2801 5 ай бұрын
A condescending doctor just finished a phone call with me saying she finds me very condescending & doesnt understand why i as a mother is putting getting help for my daughter (adult learning difficulties) is more important than a cancer referal appointment next week? Whos the condescending one???? I had to even look up the word.
@Visuals710 5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the advice
@azizovich85 5 ай бұрын
Not reacting is different than not getting angry .
@volodymyrkim5846 5 ай бұрын
I actually do feel kind of guilty because I have caregivers in the group home and I feel like I should only do what they say because they're gonna give me my iPad for like two hours so sometimes I would get my iPad taken away and they would tell me to do something and then I'm just gonna say no way I'm not doing that because you took away my iPad and that's not fair so whenever they take away my iPad often when they tell me to do some thing I'm like no no way absolutely not I'm not doing what is being asked cause I don't want to that's number one and number two is that you're not giving me what I want so in order for you to get what you want for me you have to give me what I want first so I guess that's kind of entitled behavior I mean I'm still young I'm only like 18 and I don't understand that sometimes you just gotta listen to other people even when you don't really want to especially when it comes to them telling you what to do because they think it's best for you so what I learned from that is that I shouldn't just do things to get what I want I should do it because it's good for me
@volodymyrkim5846 5 ай бұрын
And it's good for other people too if I do what is said or asked of me because not only do I feel good but the caregivers feel good when I do what they say without saying OK I do this and you're gonna give me that sometimes there is a negotiation like they tell me if you do this I will give you three hours on your iPad but then I started seeing it as if it was OK to constantly negotiate over the iPad or anything at all but I guess that's not true and I know it isn't true because I've tried it and it didn't work I acted entitled and nobody liked it and there were also sometimes with my caregivers told me to do something and I was grounded at that time so I couldn't have my iPad and when they told me to do some thing that I needed to get done I'm like no you took away my iPad you grounded me I'm not doing anything that you're asking me too sometimes I do feel like all they think I owe them that's why they're telling me to do what they ask but I don't owe them anything it turns out they just want what is best for me that's why they tell me to do things that I sometimes don't want to do it's just that one message I want to point out is that entitled people don't understand that they can't always get what they want and entitled people don't understand that you can't do things just to get what you want or you can't behave just to get what you want you have to behave because it's the right thing to do basically entitled people think they know what's best for them I guess but they don't know what's best for them this mostly happens with kids
@giftadedayo5574 6 ай бұрын
Thank you Scott, I realise that im actually giilty of point 4 you mentioned above. I should start to make more contributions to other people's growth and appreciate them more whem they do mine♥️
@mlissgay5054 6 ай бұрын
Omg😂yes thank you for sharing this ❤ aloha from big island 🏝️
@JourneyWithHavi 6 ай бұрын
OMG it is everywhere
@inkbythebarrelandpaperbyth6905 6 ай бұрын
Do people who are entitled accuse you of being entitled I wonder
@mrwizzardknight 6 ай бұрын
Chloe Bourgeois and her mum, Audrey from Miraculous Ladybug are all of this! 😱😂
@scott83gmail 7 ай бұрын
If I forced you and your family to work for 20 years with no pay are you entitled for compensation? What if I never pay and just make your grandchild work 40 years with no pay? Would they be entitled for compensation? Afterward what if I were to compensate none of you instead just let you go and starve? Are those grandchildren and their grandchildren entitled to any compensation?
@scott83gmail 7 ай бұрын
It has become obvious that those who use the word entitled the most seem to have the least understanding of the word entitled
@scott83gmail 7 ай бұрын
Orange County California is full of entitled racist like Craig Sumner Elliott, 68. Most of them are wealthy but all of them are ignorant.
@dicerosautismambient4894 7 ай бұрын
This chanel still active I was liking these videos
@dicerosautismambient4894 7 ай бұрын
I am autistic. I have to deal with this behavior every other day by my mom. I manage it by not having any kind of reaction but inside it is annoying and frustrating. I lack emotions maybe this is the reason
@blaiddfumbler 7 ай бұрын
man I'm an artist and I do this to my friends :/ thanks for posting this, I'll be more aware of my actions.
@5canwalk 7 ай бұрын
Helpful video! All spot-on, and I'm guilty of tantrum throwing once or twice OMG.
@LakesideTable 7 ай бұрын
The daily action one is so true! I have been planning my days more recently and have gotten so much more done!
@kristenpotter377 7 ай бұрын
This video makes me feel so much better cause we all know people who like to poke fun such as the guy with the black jacket on the right lol.😂😂Thanks for this video.
@a.m.pietroschek1972 7 ай бұрын
I belong to the Caucasian minority in this meddled-with pseudo-internet... Became dazed from not seeing another opium addict hyping BS. 🤕
@stavrosnanos1135 8 ай бұрын
Why do parents belittling you
@johnrainsman6650 9 ай бұрын
Here's a good one. You get in a worker's face in the office, and make him sound like a fool, and then the next day, you say, "How are you?" Do you see where I'm going with this?