Being Old Sucks
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2 ай бұрын
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@vincekara9446
@vincekara9446 20 сағат бұрын
Prospective buyers are on the guise that you're desperate for the money therefore offer you 50% less. They expect you to climb mountains to satisfy their schedule. Then they ghost you.
@thewholls7176
@thewholls7176 Күн бұрын
Good luck mate. Hope it works out. Here’s a suggestion that might be showing my age a bit Print off an A4 sheet of what you’re selling. Go down to the uni and the technical colleges and shove it on the noticeboard. Lots of law students or any uni student on a budget would like machines like that That method of selling is probably out of date these days but it might help you out. You never know. Maybe Advertise it through the student guild….???
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Күн бұрын
Thats a great idea. I actually sold the Macbook air yesterday for a bit under the asking price and the buyer was a uni student. They were really impressed how it looked like new. I guess they were expecting something all scratched up. My wife looks after her stuff for sure.
@thewholls7176
@thewholls7176 Күн бұрын
@ every university library has a noticeboard…… plenty of first years coming through that want computers
@TaronArts
@TaronArts 2 күн бұрын
Ooof, never had problems like this.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 2 күн бұрын
I'm worried about selling the car and someone just driving off with the car too.
@streaming5332
@streaming5332 2 күн бұрын
That guy may not have a car, but not your problem. You need to set out your rules on Marketplace (Marketplace is the go to platform) - price not negotiable, cash only etc. Don't get into time wasting discussions, tell them there's been a lot of interest and the price is fixed.
@althunder4269
@althunder4269 2 күн бұрын
For the guy that wanted you to get on the train to meet him you should have agreed and then not shown up.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 2 күн бұрын
Oh I have an update on this. He has wanted to reduce the cost to about $300 less than my asking price, and he wants me to share the uber costs. I'm thinking this guy is going to be a lot of drama if anything goes wrong.
@Hello123-b7l
@Hello123-b7l 2 күн бұрын
Can you talk more about the car and show it as well. thank you.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 2 күн бұрын
What was it about the cars you were interested in seeing?
@Hello123-b7l
@Hello123-b7l 2 күн бұрын
@@AgeBlocked overall condition of them, the mileage, what service u have done recently etc.
@Sunshine-zi4nq
@Sunshine-zi4nq 2 күн бұрын
Welcome back! Have been looking out for your videos. Happy New Year🎉
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 2 күн бұрын
Same to you! Happy new Year!
@MaxQuagmire-u3r
@MaxQuagmire-u3r 3 күн бұрын
I feel like it's better to just drop it all off at Goodwill instead of dealing with low ballers on Craigslist/Marketplace, I'd rather them deal with the crap than me waste my time and money.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 2 күн бұрын
For my old stuff, I agree. But what I'm selling is still mostly very usable as current and has value. Well being unemployed, almost everything has value :)
@streaming5332
@streaming5332 2 күн бұрын
Charity shops like Good Sammys or Vinnies don't take electrical/electronic goods. I've never seen a computer there.
@MaxQuagmire-u3r
@MaxQuagmire-u3r 2 күн бұрын
@@AgeBlocked It all has value, but most the time it's not worth dealing with the craigslist and marketplace scammers, at least not here in America. I had a brand new iPad and people were trying to offer me $100-150 for it, I laughed and just kept it. Now I'm using it for piano practice so I guess it worked out. People will try to offer you the lint out of their pocket rather than pay what it's worth here. Like $50-100 off the new price isn't a good enough deal for them. They can go to the pawn shop and buy it for $50 more than I was going to sell it to them for then lol
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 2 күн бұрын
Yeah people focus far too much on price rather than quality.
@hectorlamar806
@hectorlamar806 3 күн бұрын
Good to see you back man. Some nice equipment there.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 3 күн бұрын
Thanks. It was pretty decent when I bought it. It's still easily usable with the latest software.
@walsakaluk1584
@walsakaluk1584 3 күн бұрын
I wondered what happened to you. I love the suntanned feet mate! Having trouble selling old tech.... there's a reason computer equipment is no longer a capex item in a business. It's all opex now, 100% depreciation on purchase. You have to find a way to describe your old computer equipment so it seems like a good thing to buy. The people that know it's good probably have it already and aren't buying or have already sold it themselves. Folk interested in your hifi equipment ditto...or they're dead. Tech toys are a hard sell. They're discretionary purchases. Scammers? Just broke tyre kickers. Sell it for whatever you can. $1 is $1 more than you'll have holding on to it. You'll be selling it by the kg if you wait. Old tech is, well, it's old. You bought new fruits for a reason, didn't you? Depressing I know. I've got a shed full of old tech. The leaky roof and termites are helping entropy along. Cars are easier to divest. They're always needed. Glad you're back "on the air". Good luck with your yard sale. 🖖
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 3 күн бұрын
Well I did sell all my speakers, so it can be done, but man it took ages. The people who did buy it messaged me to say how amazing the speakers sound, so they are happy.
@SteveZExplores
@SteveZExplores 15 күн бұрын
I’ve started my new KZbin channel on retirement subjects like this 😊
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 3 күн бұрын
Hey good luck! It can be an extremely trying experience as I'm sure you will find out.
@upyourspercussion1317
@upyourspercussion1317 20 күн бұрын
Bingo bongo
@lindc1070
@lindc1070 22 күн бұрын
Hope all is well with you.
@lindc1070
@lindc1070 16 күн бұрын
@Jean.A.squirrel he has been silent for weeks. Quite unlike him. Am concerned.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 3 күн бұрын
Sorry I haven't checked for a few weeks, Just been busy with selling/swapping stuff and dog training.
@lindc1070
@lindc1070 2 күн бұрын
@@AgeBlocked I was getting really worried about you 😅
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 2 күн бұрын
I'm going fine, thanks for checking... much appreciated!
@lindc1070
@lindc1070 2 күн бұрын
@AgeBlocked Glad you are good
@lordprotector3367
@lordprotector3367 Ай бұрын
What's a 'super'?
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 23 күн бұрын
It's the same as a 401K i think its called if you are in the US
@jaykay5142
@jaykay5142 Ай бұрын
I've been very keen on real estate for a long while now and from what little I know you have to be careful about those homes. The sales contract often contains requirements about how much you need to spend to get the property fixed up as well as high property taxes and all kinds of other fees. There are also sometimes time limits on when the work needs to be completed by so read the fine print.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked 23 күн бұрын
I know thats the case for Italy, but not sure of the other countries.
@woman4womenkids547
@woman4womenkids547 Ай бұрын
EAP is a heavily regulated industry that is entirely independent of HR. No psychologist or counsellor in EAP even has the names of managers in any of the businesses for whom they provide counselling services. No counsellor has any personal interest in dobbing on you. So that is not how your manager found out about your grievances. It sounds like you disclosed everything to an HR person who tried to fix things.
@snakesonn
@snakesonn Ай бұрын
The same basic programming principles don't change. New frameworks and libraries may be added but they still feed off those fundamentals. If you can write and understand a basic program in C++, you can easily pick up other languages.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Yep, its the hiring people are the issue. I've had many jobs denied to me because I had experience with the wrong version of .Net. But I agree, it's pretty much the same thing.
@daffyduk77
@daffyduk77 Ай бұрын
OMG you've had a diverse career. Those are wild-looking plants, to a European. I guess all the local birds & insects love them though. 400 mile round-trip drive , hope the roads were good
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Roads were straight and boring. Miles and miles of cotton and sunflower farms.
@daffyduk77
@daffyduk77 Ай бұрын
fascinating further details on your career path. Mine started with pencilled-in Cobol code sheets/punch cards for old ICL mainframes (a UK computer maker back then) in early 80s, state-funded training course. Looking back on Cobol, people say stuff like "the worst thing about having Cobol skills is you might be asked to use them" 😞
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
haha I did not enjoy Cobol at all after switching to c. Like opposite ends really.
@daffyduk77
@daffyduk77 Ай бұрын
@@AgeBlocked No, once you've used the more concise/terser languages (which can be less self-documenting, admittedly), regressing would be evil. But apparently there's still good money for those with a high pain threshold & IBM OS knowledge
@Luckey900
@Luckey900 Ай бұрын
Hi Jeff, did you ever consider putting the : "Coding Test Failure" (Confused Lad with the Bow Tie) on your T-shirt collections ? I think one of my Favorite Images of your Great Videos ! (LOL !) Brilliant ! Jim Canada
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Great idea! Will have to go look at that again
@Luckey900
@Luckey900 Ай бұрын
@@AgeBlocked I great Conversation piece Image for People Wondering what it's all about and Age Blocked ?!
@niq6531
@niq6531 Ай бұрын
For a video idea, maybe you could make a little example of where using C code beats C#. Thus showing why it might be wise to listen to the old guy with experience instead of the new guy who only knows what he was taught.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Pointers and memory management!
@althunder4269
@althunder4269 Ай бұрын
The constant relearning of tech (programming) is why I got out of development and into Business Analysis and IT Management. As I got older I didn't want to keep re-inventing myself as a developer. I got lucky that I was able to stay in my chosen career for 40 years doing different jobs. I got out at 65 and am now retired.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I tried getting into BA work. I couldn't find an employer willing enough to give me a go at it, which is funny because most developers do that as part of their job anyway.
@Sunshine-zi4nq
@Sunshine-zi4nq Ай бұрын
I like the back. I think the logo on the front isn't prominent enough. More so in the white background. Have you tried a black background? I think that may catch more attention.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I'm not really sure what will grab peoples attention short of having something inappropriate on the t-shirt which might get negative attention :)
@charlesd4572
@charlesd4572 Ай бұрын
Excellent - really like these down memory lane of the tech world from workers perspective.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@lindawilson795
@lindawilson795 Ай бұрын
Wow! I really like the shirt . 🎉
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Yay! Thank you!
@streaming5332
@streaming5332 Ай бұрын
The pink colour combo with green works. But to be honest modelling t shirt in the bathroom doesn't help the look.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Yes I have much to learn about shooting video.
@TheUphillBattleOfLife
@TheUphillBattleOfLife Ай бұрын
I really want to just get out of programming. I always felt like a bit of a hacker anyways, which to me was always funner. Now my bosses are building their own non functioning crap with copilot or whatever. I feel old...
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I felt the same way when they started forcing us to use slack and all those other social tools that distract you from doing real work,
@TheUphillBattleOfLife
@TheUphillBattleOfLife Ай бұрын
Love your channel. Just keep trying new things. You might also be inspiring others 😊
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Thank you, I will
@newafricanforum
@newafricanforum Ай бұрын
I understand your wife is from overseas. Assuming it is one of the less expensive countries like eastern Europe or Latin America or sea , have you considered moving there.? At least once your super kicks in? My wife is from SEA, i am close to 50 and in tech. I know if i lose my job it might be hard to find something that pays as much, so we have SEA as our backup retirement plan
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Yes she is from Latin America. Apparently they have cities full of US expats living there.
@Sunshine-zi4nq
@Sunshine-zi4nq Ай бұрын
Any adult with responsibilities has to think about supporting a family, mortgage and car payments. So at times you just got to go with the bird in hand rather than wait for the one in the bush that never comes. You did the right thing not waiting.
@yetanotherbloke
@yetanotherbloke Ай бұрын
When there's bills to pay...
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Yes always bills :(
@newafricanforum
@newafricanforum Ай бұрын
I am turning 50 in about a month. I have been testing the market by applying to jobs here and there but havent had any interview. So i guess when my job ends i will be struggling to get hired at 50. I am thinking of doing a diploma in immigration advice, get licensed and use it as a backup career. Cant think of anything else at this stage 😢
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Immigration advice will have no end of customers I bet.
@Mike-B.
@Mike-B. Ай бұрын
what about javascript and PHP (front and back)?
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I've done some PHP but haven;t really done javascript at all.
@PhilInAustralia
@PhilInAustralia Ай бұрын
You've had an interesting career path and working life. When I started out as a software developer in my early 20s, one of the first things I noticed was that there was no developer over 40 in any of the workplaces I worked. Made me realise I had to plan for a career of at most 20 years.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Yes it was nagging me for decades to move into management. And then I thought, I hate managing people so just kept programming. Eventually it catches up!
@niq6531
@niq6531 Ай бұрын
I'm finding out late (but not too late fortunately) that if you're lucky enough to have a job, you had better focus on living frugally, paying off debt and building up that nest egg. No going out. No vacations. I've got enough saved now. But I wish I had started earlier. It would've saved me so much pain these last few years.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Thats good advice!
@roswb5388
@roswb5388 Ай бұрын
Typical public service giving everyone an exam to get a job, then totally unsuitable people get the jobs. You must be very clever.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Many jobs I have been the go-to person for tech help, but I have had many jobs where I have worked with someone way above my ability. Public service for many years would only hire programmers with degrees too. I don't think its like that anymore.
@PrimeMover4
@PrimeMover4 Ай бұрын
What's with the Star of David in the thumbnail?
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I have multiple thumbnails running. Which one is it? Blame the AI on that
@lindc1070
@lindc1070 Ай бұрын
Do you have peers who chose a different career path and came out much better? Most of my friends in their 50s , even 40s,who were in IT have had to switch to something else. On the other hand those in Education and Healthcare havent had too. Bankers mostly had to retire by 50 but they had earned enough to retire comfortably had they invested well.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I don't keep much in contact anymore. Some just retired, some moved on to other things. They main factor for me at least was having several partners more than the job.
@vincekara9446
@vincekara9446 Ай бұрын
Thanks for your insight of your career. I feel that you've missed the original topic on why you don't settle for any job. Basically in my view, I agree that you don't take anything unless you're absolutely broke; because you'll lose the time and flexibility in finding what you're after.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I did answer that towards the end in a unclimatic kind of way! Basically you'll get so caught up in your current job you tend to miss the *wave* of new trends/frameworks.
@vincekara9446
@vincekara9446 Ай бұрын
​@@AgeBlockedThank you. I'm enjoying your videos. Keep them coming. Cheers
@jaykay5142
@jaykay5142 Ай бұрын
I'm a tad bit younger than you but still remember doing the same kind of things, programming my own games, especially text adventure games were so much fun. Those times were really good for software people.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Yeah. The market is totally saturated now, and full of malware and spam which annoys me to no end. Even Adobe is doing it.
@jaykay5142
@jaykay5142 Ай бұрын
@AgeBlocked one thing that really helped me out early on is seeking employment in the US. It would have been a different story if I would have stayed in 🇨🇦. Those folks have been seeing really hard times for many years now.
@el_carbonara
@el_carbonara Ай бұрын
yep, web dev kinda sucks the life out of you, but not as much as having to justify your existence to breathe every time to a potential new employer, that is the worst.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Hopefully it improves soon, or maybe not at all considering there are some AI sites than will generate a website for you now.
@lindawilson795
@lindawilson795 Ай бұрын
You have had a very interesting career. ❤
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Fly with the breeze type of career haha
@myobee9875
@myobee9875 Ай бұрын
You should be proud that you were in the top group to qualify for that initial training at age 20. You should also be proud about how successful you were at learning new programming languages and adapting to an ever-changing field. You'll be feeling much better when you get your "Super," which I assume is the equivalent of the USA's Social Security. Can you take just any available job to earn some cash until you get your "Super"? I don't understand the Australian system, but there's a saying here that it doesn't matter what you do to make a living because "it all comes from the same Mint." Count your blessings and recognize your achievements. I'd like to add that in the USA health care is the area least likely to discriminate by age. Older doctors are revered, and that attitude colors the approach to supporting staff. Might there be a role for you there (even if part time) in your country?
@streaming5332
@streaming5332 Ай бұрын
Superannuation is the contribution you make during your working years to an accumulated fund, taken from your pay by the employer. It's a retirement fund. It can be accesed when you're 65. It's the government's attempt to get people to fund their own retirement so they're not reliant on welfare. Super became compulsory in Australia about 3 decades ago.
@myobee9875
@myobee9875 Ай бұрын
@@streaming5332 Thank you. Is there a guaranteed amount the way Social Security in the USA is? Here there's a minimum amount you'll get, but how much you get depends on your income during your working life. It is not a set account just for you. Is the Super an actual account about which you make investment decisions?
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I have full access to my super now. That is what I am living on :(
@lindc1070
@lindc1070 Ай бұрын
Even in Australia doctors and nurses are in demand. There is a global shortage in healthcare especially with people living longer these days.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I think many nurses also declined to get their shot too. I heard a lot of people were let go for that reason, which might account for the shortage.
@streaming5332
@streaming5332 Ай бұрын
Didn't go to uni....... you must have matriculated, smart enough to get a Commonwealth scholarship.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I did go to uni to do accounting. But I got bored with it.
@lindc1070
@lindc1070 Ай бұрын
​@@AgeBlockeddo you think your career path would have been more stable as an Accountant/ Auditor?
@streaming5332
@streaming5332 Ай бұрын
Or an engineer as a stable career. Computing was very new then, not even being taught in tertiary institutions.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
It probably would have been yes, since accounting rules haven't really changed. Only the software has. As for engineering, theres been a few engineers comment on this channel say that profession is as bad and as ageist as it is for programmers.
@raymondbyczko
@raymondbyczko Ай бұрын
Interesting narrative about your journey as a software developer. I would say you are not alone. As an electrical engineer self trained in software, my first work experiences were in c, c++ and MFC. However, I found that as c++ was gaining steam, some managers were very cautious about its adoption, saying it was 'too new etc'. Yet, the power of classes, inheritance, and OO was quite apparent. So it was sometimes the case that management was kind of stuck in using an older methodology, and if a person worked there, they were not being exposed at all to something newer. Essentially, sometimes, management can stop a programmer's natural healthy learning curve, and when the gig ends, that programmer find themselves without the proper industrial skills.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Yeah once you start doing 1 particular thing for a few years, it's really easy to make yourself obsolete with the newer trends if you don't keep up.
@thetreekeeper143
@thetreekeeper143 Ай бұрын
You still had a bit of work during your career. Surely you saved quite abit for retirement. What about super? Did you contribute much to your super?
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I'm surviving on my super now actually. And I lost about 30% of it when the market dropped when covid started ( I had the investment set to shares )
@Sunshine-zi4nq
@Sunshine-zi4nq Ай бұрын
​@AgeBlocked how long will it last? Here in Singapore part of it goes into an annuity that gives us monthly payouts for life from age 65
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
I estimate maybe 3 years? I am not overly concerned as I'll get a pension anyway.
@daffyduk77
@daffyduk77 Ай бұрын
Will your situation improve when you get to state pension age (67 ?) Quite a gap to bridge, mind you. It sounds like it imposes some intrusive stuff re: assets etc.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
It won't be ideal, but it will improve. I'll still be at the mercy of ever increasing rents however.
@daffyduk77
@daffyduk77 Ай бұрын
@@AgeBlocked Sorry if I already asked you that a while back (can't recall if I did !) it will be the Alzheimers 🙂
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Apparently I won't get a pension if my wife is working. That kinda sucks.
@daffyduk77
@daffyduk77 Ай бұрын
@@AgeBlocked That's a bummer. What if she just worked part-time n? Any spousal income upper limit ?
@snakesonn
@snakesonn Ай бұрын
The entirety of life sucks. This world is a hell where people are punished for existing
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
For me, I think being alone all day doesn't help.
@snakesonn
@snakesonn Ай бұрын
@ I guess we are social creatures after all
@Lion_McLionhead
@Lion_McLionhead Ай бұрын
Not bad. The lion kingdom made a 400 sq ft flat work for its entire career.
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
That sounds pretty small.
@manfredmann2766
@manfredmann2766 Ай бұрын
Never would have thought you were over 60!! Guessed 53 at the most. Years ago, you could easily lie about your age, but now with a tap a button, someone can easily determine your age and make presumptions. Here in the USA, especially in the south and southwest, they need teachers badly, but the pay is subpar, the work conditions can be horrid, and the health insurance sucks. At the very least, as an older worker, I have a steady pittance in the aforementioned field. Large companies would not even take a second look at me, and I have been told I look no more than 40 versus the 57 years that I am. I try to spend each day thinking about Jesus and his disciples, and the suffering they went through to maintain my sanity, along with daily exercise. At my workplace, 99 percent of students do not eat their bagged breakfast, so I load up on food items like: milk, apples, graham crackers, yogurt, and cereal bars. (Defraying food costs??). All those bagged lunches go into the trash anyway and staff is encouraged to load up 🤣 I think and pray 🙏 regularly, use sleep aids (ie, Melatonin and Valerian Root) so I feel less exhausted each day. Know of teachers that drink heavily (I rarely will have a glass of Cabernet) and purchase merchandise from the multiple dispensaries to cope. I have done the latter via gummies, and have passed out and slept like a log (also escaping the world temporarily being oblivious) but fortunately I hate the after effects too much to where I have virtually no desire to consume them daily. Even prayed to God, about saving me from getting hooked. The aforementioned can get pricey and I value physical health. Will sometimes binge watch Wojak on you tube, because I feel like the main character goes through what I go through, even though he represents more of the millennial generation versus my Generation X self. Great videos you make, awesome 👏
@AgeBlocked
@AgeBlocked Ай бұрын
Thanks very much, and thank you for sharing your story.
@enilenis
@enilenis Ай бұрын
On a positive note, while being in my 40's and employed in film all my life, from day one I was worried about aging out of the industry and being replaced by young minds. I knew that all the people are saw around were in their 20's, except the managers. There wasn't a single person in their 50's or 60's or anywhere close to retirement. To me that indicated, that people didn't stick around and that I would have to eventually be replaced by someone younger. But then something amazing happened. Smartphones emerged on the market and turned everyone into zombies. So many people started getting hired and fired within weeks, for not being able to do work. Constantly swiping, like addicts looking for a vein. People became half as skilled and twice as arrogant. Despite film schools still pumping out the same volume of students each semester, it's been a while since I've seen one enter the industry and stick around. Kids have become near-unemployable. As a result, I'm still working and doing way better than in my youth. Not because I got better. My younger brain was more efficient, and could code at the speed of thought. I also taught myself programming. Also made games in MS-DOS days, built autonomous robots etc. Does any of it matter with employers? As you say it does not. I have 2 diplomas, and in my working life I haven't had to show them even once to anyone. Nobody ever asked what education I had. Interviews were more about judging the character. If they like you as a person - they'll hire you, and if you come across as an a-hole, then no amount of skill will make up for it. But with that being said, I've seen older coworkers get pushed out, if someone younger did their job better. I've seen people get fired for being old, even though no one was allowed to focus on that fact, because that would've been considered discrimination. Much easier to invent an excuse, even if everyone else knows the truth.