I'm looking for a place for my son he's getting out of hospital and he needs a apartment for wheelchair asap
@danielaspitz305213 күн бұрын
Imagine this with having CPTSD from narcissistic parents, being an HSP, I experienced SA at the age of 12, various narcissistc/abusive partners, raising two children ( Inhad at 21 and 23) totally on my own while working in a physically hard job while having Fibromyalgia. I was depressed and suicidal since I was a teenager, pregnant with my first son at the age of 15.... A certain situation about two months ago made me have weird meltdowns which differed from my trauma related problems which I've healed almost fully from, since making changes in my life. I came across neurodivergence and back to where I was about 15 years ago, when being in a relationship with a "typical autistic man". I hit much higher on any test than he did, but I never considered to be autistic. Now I do, being 52, desperately trying to get a diagnosis because without it, I can't join the self-help group in my town
@aslpanda16 күн бұрын
Thank you for having services for adults!
@aslpanda16 күн бұрын
Love the website 🎉
@madamecurious25 күн бұрын
1:12:13 don’t go into long monologs; keep discussions short
@madamecurious25 күн бұрын
50:06 Meds to help with anxiety, OCD etc
@infidelcastorАй бұрын
Thank you so much for this perspective and the way you express it, really helpful! ❤
@katydid6920Ай бұрын
Nobody thinks I'm worth helping
@katydid6920Ай бұрын
I give up
@LegendofZebraАй бұрын
I've built resentment for my mom because I didn't understand growing up and I really don't know how to resolve my feelings of trauma it caused emotionally. Do you have any advice?
@AANEforAutismАй бұрын
Thank you so much for your question. Please schedule a free call with AANE to speak to one of our staff members directly. aane.org/about-us/contact-us/
@jennieC_Ай бұрын
Thanks
@tanaeemudgul9985Ай бұрын
THANK YOU!
@sunset33533Ай бұрын
"She had to make the very hard decision to reduce contact with them"...I love how she said this, because it's is truly very hard, but necessary. I had to do it for a while. It's important to go slow and build boundaries. The meditation book called 30 Days to Stop Obsessing by Harper Daniels was a great for me.
@raven4090Ай бұрын
After masking subconsciously for 55 years, I found out what it was here on KZbin. I actually remember when I was 4 years old, deciding I shouldn't flap my hands because no one else did. I mark that as the time I started trying to fit in. I'd like to be myself now, but whenever there's another human present, I automatically go into survival mode. I don't feel safe because I wasn't most of my life.
@raven4090Ай бұрын
I thank God for people like you trying to make the world a better place for us all. I didn't know I was autistic until I was 51. My own mom just started trying to understand me when I was 59. Better late than never, I suppose. 😊
@kristbg2 ай бұрын
I can see how much Dr. Hendrickx understands autism and autistic people's needs. However, it's very frustrating to watch this hour-and-a-half long presentation and actually apply anything to reality. My reality here in Canada is that I need to get whatever is available while I can, or I starve to death. I get a job, burn out, spend months recovering, run out of money, get another terrible job, rinse, repeat. As for getting a job, it's the hardest part for me. Once I'm in everybody loves me because I'm intelligent, responsible, hard-working and incredibly reliable. But who cares? If you're a neurotypical HR manager I'm just a problem.
@juliaevans95212 ай бұрын
I am really resonating with almost all of the topics and points being made. Will share to help others see autism in a more positive light.
@IBISUSADIVERSE2 ай бұрын
Good work guyz
@vio33662 ай бұрын
at least she got help... I can't afford that, and my life in my country is not ideal. all that makes me depressed. I can't change my reality
@nicoleacosta5862 ай бұрын
Hey hey Olive!!! I found you, your hair is the best ❤❤❤ cant wait to see you guys at the next meet up online! Sorry I missed this last weekend ❤
@artravision2 ай бұрын
So important. Thank you!
@garyhudson54452 ай бұрын
I had thought to be alone but at 57 I read the symptoms and said yeas to all. AANE let me understand that there are many of us. AANE has also supported my work as an artist and several of my paintings have been sold from the AANE Gallery. Living now in Canterbury, N.H. I can not attend meetings regularly but I still keep in touch. When at the first Aspie art show I saw others such as me and i said, " What Brave New World That Has Such People In It."
@yumorules3 ай бұрын
This helped a lot. Thank you.
@charlespatten71973 ай бұрын
I wanted to listen to this so much because of the content and experience of the speakers but the sound quality was so awful I couldn’t bear it. Read the room.
@musicmandave34393 ай бұрын
Love the Willie shirt!
@Catlily53 ай бұрын
This is a good message. My PCP doctor also told me this. I have moderate support needs and will never be independent by American standards. It is good to remember that we are all interdependent.
@kajmere2403 ай бұрын
For anyone looking. The name of the book is the title of this video. The author and speaker in the video is Eva A. Mendes
@user-qm1rw1ye5b3 ай бұрын
Great content and very helpful. Presenters need to get it together! Reading to people with ZERO inflection is off-putting and patronizing at best! Shane on you!
@madamecurious27 күн бұрын
The presentation was good, in my opinion!
@user-ov6jx9qp7s4 ай бұрын
Thank you for your work, it has immense value 🤍
@BeccaLoryHector5 ай бұрын
Yay, Molly 🎉
@nopretribrapture23185 ай бұрын
ive tried to get help here in uk for my mental health problems and disabilities, and nothing !😢
@marianelamartinez83835 ай бұрын
💙
@Catlily55 ай бұрын
You did a good job on a live stream that you hosted a while ago!
@funkymonkey87775 ай бұрын
Very helpful and informative!!! Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤
@marudmishu38375 ай бұрын
Tienen ayuda con advocate?
@marudmishu38375 ай бұрын
Hablan español?
@Jess-wk5jo5 ай бұрын
Can people who got autism or down syndrome have affair or cheat on their boyfriends without never having no sex ?
@funkymonkey87775 ай бұрын
❤
@consciouseco7756 ай бұрын
Please collaborate with Indian autistic groups.
@tinytardis89316 ай бұрын
This saved me ngl.
@autistichead81376 ай бұрын
Thank you so much.
@DanS82046 ай бұрын
This is wonderful!
@DeOmnibusDubitandum767 ай бұрын
This planet is not "designed" for anybody---it is a hostile environment for all its inhabitants.
@Catlily57 ай бұрын
I feel like a burden at times. I am glad you told Rachel that she was not a burden.
@DeOmnibusDubitandum767 ай бұрын
If one's traits will not allow for an autonomous, independent, life and severely incapacitate the sufferer, of course he or she should mask those traits or work to diminish them or their effects. A crippling condition should not be 'protected' under the guise of diversity. Respect for the sufferers is a must, of course, but acceptance of disabilities that can be improved is counterproductive and hopeless resignation.
@Catlily57 ай бұрын
Masking can make things much worse. You don't make sense. Most people with disabilities want to do what they can.
@DeOmnibusDubitandum767 ай бұрын
@@Catlily5 As a carer, I make more sense than you will ever know. The last thing most sufferers need is to be sold euphemistic and unrealistic claptrap about neurodiversity without a complete focus on fitting in society and striving for independent living when attainable.
@Catlily57 ай бұрын
@@DeOmnibusDubitandum76 Most autistic people would love to fit into society. Society doesn't seem to keen on us though. What kind of carer are you?
@DeOmnibusDubitandum766 ай бұрын
@@Catlily5 One of those carers who gets abuse and ungrateful treatment by a "neurodivergent individual" so called. And then I have to put up with this self-acceptance and euphemistic rubbish on the Web! No thank you.
@Catlily56 ай бұрын
@@DeOmnibusDubitandum76 I am sorry that you have been abused.
@racebiketuner7 ай бұрын
You need to consider that many of us are sensitive to sound quality. Please get a decent mic and cover the hard, flat surfaces in the he room with sound damping material.
@racebiketuner7 ай бұрын
I am overstimulated from the holiday season. I will finsh watching after I recover. Hopefully I will have the energy to share some of my experiences with this important topic. Keep up the good work and please do something nice to take care of yourself every day.
@racebiketuner7 ай бұрын
Yup. It is very tiring. Sometimes for days or weeks.