My journey as an avoidant attachment
12:05
21 сағат бұрын
Q&A part 2 - navigating relationships
27:37
What does it mean to "attract" a spouse
12:04
when the excitement fades away
7:58
28 күн бұрын
Q&A Finding a Spouse - part 1
31:59
28 күн бұрын
Perfectionism and settling
10:52
how to determine compatibility
25:33
What about the physical needs?
9:02
heartbreak and vulnerability
15:23
How to prevent infatuation
11:46
3 ай бұрын
How to reject someone
6:48
3 ай бұрын
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@XprimeX-q7l
@XprimeX-q7l Сағат бұрын
Only as a muslimah? I watch your videos and yes what you said its true. Not only for marriage but for overall everyhting you work for.
@aylaa4774
@aylaa4774 Сағат бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I have disorganized attachment so I can relate with the avoidant. Last years the avoidant side has been my dominate side. It definitely makes relationships difficult, familiar, friendships, romantic , all types.
@CoeursFillah
@CoeursFillah 4 сағат бұрын
Thanks so much for this ❤ someone fund the pdf ?? Thanks a lot
@urooj1875
@urooj1875 13 сағат бұрын
what an emotional ride it had on my heart ya rab🤲🏼
@lovelyday6500
@lovelyday6500 19 сағат бұрын
Solid truth. Thank you sister for this important reminder.
@LabbaykYaMahdi313
@LabbaykYaMahdi313 Күн бұрын
Do you think its possible that (good, Muslim) women have become corrupted and thats why its hard? After all, women are the gatekeepers. I, personally have announced to the entire world that i NEED a wife, but even though i have made it public and made it clear that i was interested in certain people, no one has obliged me.
@LabbaykYaMahdi313
@LabbaykYaMahdi313 Күн бұрын
There are a number of ahadith talking about the deficiencies of women and how they are ungrateful. When a man wants to show them love, they refuse.
@LabbaykYaMahdi313
@LabbaykYaMahdi313 Күн бұрын
Meanwhile body selling and such have increased more and more. Do you think this kind of mentality seeps into the minds of the “good” women?
@laylabitar5853
@laylabitar5853 Күн бұрын
Thank you for this great message
@geraldinec1124
@geraldinec1124 Күн бұрын
i'm a devout catholic but i absolutely love this logical stand point you are putting, truly its refreshing thank you <3
@saranashat-yi6ds
@saranashat-yi6ds Күн бұрын
The point in her video isn't that you don't need to get married, it's that you're worthy with or without being married. It's that you're not a failure just because you haven't gotten married. It's that instead of focusing on having a partner and trying to chase, just focus on yourself and the right person will come.
@syeera1234
@syeera1234 Күн бұрын
Not the right people, I will make dua for us all who wants to get married for the sake of Allah ameen
@ItsjustmeAmzy
@ItsjustmeAmzy Күн бұрын
May Allah protect us all and forgive us for our ungratefulness and grant us strength to focus ameen
@jaweedmohamed7708
@jaweedmohamed7708 Күн бұрын
a woman is overprotected by law, marriage is transactional business for them shw marries a man gets half of the man"s wealth if she divorces the acquired wealth is her personal property,being a working class woman the husband has no right over her,so let's face reality why should man ask Allah Almighty Dua for such a trap.with online social ,media lots of men waiting her will she care for the sacred marriage let's be honest.islam ia a perfect religion but men must adapt with a new reality.
@BeyzaByza
@BeyzaByza 17 сағат бұрын
Wow, you are so ignorant of the 'reality'.
@jaweedmohamed7708
@jaweedmohamed7708 17 сағат бұрын
@BeyzaByza just visit a civil marriage court of any country find the answer if I am really far from reality
@21HeartSong
@21HeartSong Күн бұрын
For the PDF she mentions at 13:22, google “virtual mosque names of Allah series Jinan Yousef”.
@BismahIrfan-hk2uj
@BismahIrfan-hk2uj Күн бұрын
Jazakhullah, that was beautiful, this makes me feel so much better
@chhf08765
@chhf08765 2 күн бұрын
Lama, do you think it’s a good idea to make duaa for a particular person? Please make a video about this 💕
@nurulnasrudin
@nurulnasrudin 2 күн бұрын
Waalaikum salam wr sungguh pun aku tak mengerti maksud program ini apa lagi masalah Navigasi sebab yang lalu pun tak ada realisasinya please thank you I love you wassalam
@ladyAZforeveryoung
@ladyAZforeveryoung 2 күн бұрын
I don’t know if you already have a podcast but you definitely have a podcast for the people that want the audio only, because when I watch your videos it’s usually when I am getting ready or on my way somewhere
@hellazul3052
@hellazul3052 2 күн бұрын
Love this 🙌
@Rahmaaa-m9r
@Rahmaaa-m9r 2 күн бұрын
but is it halal for girls to put their picture on apps like this , i read that it is forbidden
@Zee6758-t8k
@Zee6758-t8k 2 күн бұрын
Hey can anyone let me know what’s the pdf she mentioned, thanks
@rainydays72
@rainydays72 2 күн бұрын
I can’t explain to you how beneficial this video and message was! I need this thank you 🙏🏼 May Allah SWT reward you
@cocophoria6019
@cocophoria6019 2 күн бұрын
thank you so much🙏♥️
@tvrocksmyworldtoo
@tvrocksmyworldtoo 2 күн бұрын
Your words are always soothing as if you hear our inner thoughts❤. Jazaki allah kheir.
@hayagirl4615
@hayagirl4615 2 күн бұрын
Can you please share the link names of 99 names of Allah
@abeernouman5181
@abeernouman5181 2 күн бұрын
www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/names-of-Allah-seriesv2.pdf
@fariiduhh
@fariiduhh 16 сағат бұрын
asalamu alaikum the link is below www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/names-of-Allah-seriesv2.pdf
@hayagirl4615
@hayagirl4615 2 күн бұрын
This video came to me by Allah at this moment Alhamdulillah as if Allah is guiding me and talking to me
@hayagirl4615
@hayagirl4615 2 күн бұрын
Much much needed suffering from anxiety and in a worst situation this was much needed
@salvitraveltips
@salvitraveltips 2 күн бұрын
salam thanks a lot sister Alhumdullilah
@rajaaiqbal4640
@rajaaiqbal4640 2 күн бұрын
Sis, the thing I noticed first was your makeup 😊 you look beautiful. Keep spreading sunshine! ❤
@alwazkazi1916
@alwazkazi1916 2 күн бұрын
This video came at the right time, thank you
@nappybwoii1203
@nappybwoii1203 2 күн бұрын
may allah bless you
@minacamoglu1419
@minacamoglu1419 2 күн бұрын
Thank you so much, this was beautiful.
@bhalubebo7817
@bhalubebo7817 2 күн бұрын
i needed to hear this i trust Allah but needed to hear this in many ways. jazak Allah khair sister
@fabihagm9593
@fabihagm9593 3 күн бұрын
You made me cry, struggling with my my thoughts. Some inbuilt concepts are so strong due to past experiences that every good thing you pray for seems unimaginable . That is tough to break. Prayers all the way.
@mulyydorkyy
@mulyydorkyy 3 күн бұрын
I was just stressing about scholarships and this video helped me actually
@shiraisi13
@shiraisi13 3 күн бұрын
I have certain 'attributes' I want in my partner, some materialistic, some spritual. Can I pray for someone who have both qualities but also someone who is good for me? Also thank you for the new perspective.
@hikmat-Hajii
@hikmat-Hajii 22 сағат бұрын
From what I know you can be specific in your duas and yes you can pray for that certain someone. Make your dua and be certain in Allah’s ability.
@adilrizwan4392
@adilrizwan4392 3 күн бұрын
I’m 35 and not married because of my disability, I prayed, prayed and prayed waiting for it to get answered soon
@princessstar5480
@princessstar5480 2 күн бұрын
Try tahjuud please please it works
@abeernouman5181
@abeernouman5181 2 күн бұрын
Istigfar, durood and these inner shift work in lama's videos - in sha Allah things will workout with Allah's mercy
@fali6723
@fali6723 Күн бұрын
I pray Allaah gives you what you want … I am also 35 and not married May Allaah grant us beautiful marriages ❤
@tahmeenanazarwal10
@tahmeenanazarwal10 Күн бұрын
@@fali6723 inshallah ameen
@uroosasoomro1627
@uroosasoomro1627 3 күн бұрын
This is one of the best videos and Emotional one... May Allah bless you💜
@majdoumajdou1175
@majdoumajdou1175 3 күн бұрын
You are definitely a relief! Thanks
@usman7207
@usman7207 3 күн бұрын
Thanks sister you're the best ❤
@moosaumar6220
@moosaumar6220 3 күн бұрын
I just needed this content 🙂 jazakallah khair sister
@allthingsmumlifeUK
@allthingsmumlifeUK 3 күн бұрын
Thank you for this sister 💓love & Salams from you sister in the UK 🇬🇧
@betterme8412
@betterme8412 3 күн бұрын
Assalam sis. Do u have the link to the pdf of 99 names of Allah that u've mentioned? Thank u
@ozlemyildiz4875
@ozlemyildiz4875 3 күн бұрын
But I really recommend you to get the book version, I read it for a while now and it is very helpful to right some notes in it
@betterme8412
@betterme8412 3 күн бұрын
@ozlemyildiz4875 pls share the title of the book n author's name pls, thank u.
@ozlemyildiz4875
@ozlemyildiz4875 3 күн бұрын
@@betterme8412 The book is from jinan yousef and it's called reflecting on the names of Allah
@ginichimaru2837
@ginichimaru2837 2 күн бұрын
@@betterme8412 www.virtualmosque.com/wp-content/uploads/names-of-Allah-seriesv2.pdf
@SaraAlAnsari-n5q
@SaraAlAnsari-n5q Күн бұрын
Reflecting on the names of Allah by Jinan Yousef. Highly highly HIGHLY recommend.
@AbrarSaf
@AbrarSaf 3 күн бұрын
You are looking very gorgeous 😍
@Rahmaaa-m9r
@Rahmaaa-m9r 3 күн бұрын
what do you think about marriage sights and apps is it opposite of believe in god or it like you use the ways to help...i hope you understand me
@asyed1995
@asyed1995 3 күн бұрын
Goodness Dearness Fairness Freshness Kindness , Suitable .Good Wishes.
@martinr4549
@martinr4549 3 күн бұрын
True! And very timely thank you sister
@aminah761
@aminah761 3 күн бұрын
Alhumdullilah 😊 I’m 45 and not married . I know my Allah knows what’s best for me
@tahmeenanazarwal10
@tahmeenanazarwal10 3 күн бұрын
I am happy to see a sister happy when society judges you all the time. Mash allah. May Allah reward you for your "Sabr" and may Allah make us successful in the journey of life, in both worlds.
@usman7207
@usman7207 3 күн бұрын
Try marriage websites, and marriage apps, and marriage events, and be open to options abroad. Finally only meet someone in person with a mehram. Also don't be shy to approach and make the 1st move.
@rumituni2568
@rumituni2568 Күн бұрын
How😢??? What is the reason sister, is it black magic?
@scentedgamer8676
@scentedgamer8676 Күн бұрын
Ur not married because there is something wrong with u 😎
@rumituni2568
@rumituni2568 Күн бұрын
@@scentedgamer8676 Dont say that, Allah gives her miracles marriage child everything In saa Allah 💯💯🤲
@AB-wm6co
@AB-wm6co 3 күн бұрын
😢I cried your so right sis…I need to shift my mindset into thinking Allahs is totally in control of my marriage search and when and how it will happen. What’s crazy is I made dua for something else and it was accepted in less than a week and I had the mindset that only Allah knows when he can make this happen.
@feyzaakinci3678
@feyzaakinci3678 3 күн бұрын
What is the rooth cause of this attachment style?
@nojoodelbaage3833
@nojoodelbaage3833 3 күн бұрын
Allah aleeki ♥️ MashaAllah Aleeki