This is so real fellow Alpha! I can’t stand those beta males saying overthinkings bad

Thanks! Such a valuable vid, definitely will implement your advice.

Amazing video! You've earned yourself a subscriber

The percentage of people with degrees have gone up dramatically over the past decades. The market is saturated with degree holders. The economy can only have so many people in white collar positions and still function. White collar positions provide no value without leveraging blue collar workforces.

Great points, I loved the video Tanzeer! I'm wondering how do you filter through opportunities? I've found myself in a position where I'm volunteering in many places and want to start focusing down on a few places Would love to hear your insights

This is incredible! Seriously, the environment matters so much but it’s hard to manage or even let go of some social relationships

5:06, I enjoy how you drop wisdom bombs in humorous ways. (Another wisdom bomb being "the third way" with the analogy of breaking into the club haha). Also, I thought I had perfectionism down, but I def have unnecessary prereqs to many of my tasks (and have to feel good enough to do it)

Hey man super awesome videos, can you do a video on how to read and understand the question properly in a test? Like I am good at encoding, I remember the whole chapter but when I see a question I think too quick and don't know how to properly answer it, in a structured way to get all the marks. This usually happens because I can't properly understand the question or I think too quick and I have a solution for thinking slowly but not the one for why I can't understand the questions during a test

Grit is important, but you need less of it if you have what psychologists call Drive

Great video as always Tanzeer! Perfectionism --> procrastination Do hard things Plan for the unexpected

SO true, I recently started blocking out time in my schedule for unexpected events and it now means that I have a higher likelihood of actually getting work done in a focused manner I'd love to hear your thoughts on how to focus whilst studying/anything really, when talking to people or sitting in lectures

This video made me realise I can't see yellow/orange

Thank you Tanzeer!

Love the last point, it really is tough honestly, people say things get easier but it's more that you become less reactive to challenges which makes it seem as if it's easier

Wow, thanks for this great lesson! I have learned something new today, and this will help me significantly!! Keep up the great work, brother :))

Bro u r way too underrated for the value you provide in this chanel much love ❤

You earned a subscriber mate. Nice one.

You should consider politics. Not enough smart people in public service.

HonestLy, I’m second to comment on this vid!

Another gem

AMAZINGG !!!! THANK YOUU

Thank you!! Love this!!

wait part is very easy to miss if you are not attentive to your own behavior thanks <3

Nice one, Tanzeer! Would love to see more of these 'mentor' advice and insight videos

Thanks

very valuable lessons keep going

Tanzeer, at it again.

for the algo

The idea that "You are not pressured to answer immediately" is so underrated and valuable. It gives me time to make that structure in my head before I speak.

Exactly what I needed. Love the example, not basic at all and obviously the answer is cat

oh my god check his british accent .. itsss wowww just amiaxingggg brohhhh

Thank you for the video Tanzeer!

man what is this quality of video bro great job man keep up your gw

Very true regarding the interrogation of the teacher rather than the parent to the student.

Hard hitting video but much needed lesson. Best learnt before it's too late, that's when it hits you like a truck It comes back to how much control you take of your own life, key word being TAKE. If you don't actively grab at all opportunities to be responsible then it's not fair on yourself honestly, you're not giving yourself the best shot at anything you do in life

You got a sub!

Your accent brother and this content ❤ Hats off brother ❤

Excellent improvements in video quality Tan! Keep up

In relation to this record-review-reflect habit what role does practicing these skills in everyday conversations play? My guess is that this habit just helps build low-moderate conscious competence with certain communication skills and then that can become unconscious competence when you practice those skills in everyday contexts.

I think the point about anxiety actually generalizes well to other areas too. Usually anxiety is a sign that you're in the fear zone so it's necessary to genuinely improve and get better at anything.

I was planning on making a time machine one day, but for the sake of 13 y/o you I shall refrain from breaking the laws of physics

congrats tan!

Thnks 😊

Excellent ideas Tanzeer! I love the topics of your videos and the pivotal solutions they present to such common but crucial problems. I suggest adding elements like text and visual effects in your videos to make them more engaging and interesting. Would love to hear your thoughts!

Tanveer

Never thought I'd get slapped by Tanzeer during a video You're spot on with the anxiety, I just had an interview and the second I stopped trying to run away from the anxiety and working on just doing what needs to be done, everything clicked (kinda) The anxiety slowly turns into excitement, still made mistakes and slipped up with my communication a few times but I actually enjoyed the interview overall. If I focused on the anxiety then it'd be a totally different experience for sure

The hinge rule is a game changer. I learnt it from Rian Doris last year, and it made me feel so in control of my day and made it stop feeling like an "all or nothing" commitment

I cant remember the last time Ive talked to a stranger proactively, so I cant wait to see how this goes. Its super scary. And what youve said at the start is me, so thank you for that

I did the record-review-reflect just now where I discussed the word, "fever" (from a random word generator). I realized I'm - 6/10 nonverbal, - 6/10 verbal, and - 4/10 (max!) on content. For the 6/10 on my nonverbal, I have two responses to uncertainty while I'm communicating: - I do this thing where my eyes literally look up and around when I'm searching hard for an idea... It's natural, sure, but I could see it interrupt the flow of communication - I bunch up my right fist in tension when I feel uncertain on what I'm talking about. For the 6/10 on verbal: - I'm happy with pauses (I do a lot of meditation/emotional release), so I don't have many filler words... - but I had no idea I was this much of a one-key person. My voice is so monotone haha. For the 4/10 (max!) content, I haven't gotten it on Loom yet, so it's not transcribed, but: - I know I struggled with the content (4/10 at best). The random word was "fever", so I was telling a story about a time I got sick because the A/C broke... And I ended up "trapped" in that hot room b/c I was too sick to leave ha. - While it was interesting, it felt like it lacked structure / aim. My guess is I need to focus more on the big picture as I speak, going into the details later. This all said, I think improving this will be a gift to my coworkers and family lol.

As much as I see myself as an entrepreneur, I probably have a strength for a mental health field. Maybe I could shadow (to the extent that HIPAA allows): - a therapist - a social worker - a psychologist - a psychiatrist and see how it's like. I've had conversations with them, but I've never seen what their daily life is like. Would move the needle on a decision like this. And just to make sure, I could volunteer at a startup, too >:) to see if the entrepreneur's life still holds appeal