The REAL Reason Women OUTPERFORM Men

[@ulalalalala9099]

Yes, I noticed that as well. I'm glad there is so many women speaking up about this. Men lack humanity and it is really creepy how much it was always normalized.

[@demiladeayeni]

THIS

[@nahdawg299]

The greatest lie of all time, "most men are good" The state of the world would like a word!

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

woman who lack humanity is surprised when all the men she meet lacks humanity toward her. accountability is kryptonite of psychopath.

[@cocktailonion696]

The males in here saying “no u” shows that a nerve is being touched here.

[@navideology]

Keep up the great work! You're changing lives ❤

[@yv_edit]

thank you so much sister!!! 🙏🫂

[@LynneDaniels-M19]

I really enjoy your content, you are spot on regarding so many issues. Thank you for what you do!

[@yv_edit]

Thank you so much that means the world!!! 🩷🫂

[@LynneDaniels-M19]

@@yv_edit ❤ Sorry! For some reason I can't just heart your reply. Take care :)

[@navideology]

❤️❤️❤️

[@seabreeze4559]

@@yv_edit A lot of modern men have a Cinderella complex, they feel entitled for rich men to rescue them with a job or women to rescue them personally like a Manic Pixie dream girl. They want a fairy godmother type.

[@FireSilver25]

I do love this as a Gen X. When I was younger it was “common knowledge “ that women just weren’t capable of leading, being doctors, getting ahead in school, etc etc etc. Fast forward a few decades and it’s “men are being left behind!!!!” 😂 And we’re just getting started….

[@IronJhon788]

Yeah, until society collapses due to losing the side of the population in charge of keeping civilization alive. No more plumbers, manual labor, etc... When AI replaces us all, and mass suicide begins, and resources get depleted, Mother Earth will turn things back to normal. A restart. Nothing escapes the power of our material conditions, and if you leave people behind, they will take away things from you by force as they will have nothing to lose at that point. We really live in a mice utopia, it will eventually just fail and crash hard and painfully.

[@hevabmore]

​@@IronJhon788 you realize that women can do those jobs. Men are also gatekeepers in these jobs and don't allow women in. When men were away at war, women did the jobs men did. Until men came back home and women were maneuvered back into the house.

[@seabreeze4559]

Tesla predicted this in his article When Woman is Boss. It's hilarious.

[@seabreeze4559]

@@IronJhon788 Drones keep us alive. Men are no longer drafted or pressganged....? Dunno what you're carping about honestly?? Men wanted to replace themselves. My aunt is a plumber. I have done manual labour. So? Women wanna live in the woods in a cottage. MEN want the urban penthouse dystopic view of a high tech civilization. Women don't mind a reset: MEN DO! You have a fatalistic, nihilistic view of things to blame shift to external factors, called an external locus of control. How can we leave men behind if they're THE LEADERS? "By force" nope, that fanfiction has never happened. Men already have nothing to lose. Malthus was incorrect, look into it.

[@seabreeze4559]

@@hevabmore Logically, how can we leave behind the men if they're naturally The Leaders? So if they NEED women to lead for them, was it really natural or does he expect a bailout? Methinks a bailout.

[@vick2255]

you gotta do twice as much when it is acceptable for one part to do nothing.

[@FullShade]

Accepted, not acceptable

[@treacherousjslither6920]

Yes women are outperforming men in every category. Soon it will be women who are the primary builders and maintainers of human civilization. ❤

[@larifari776]

We are

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

ah yes maintainers of human civilization that cant work with modern infrastructure. how many woman are plumbers?

[@prussiansocietyofamerica]

@@larifari776 Building and Maintaining what exactly!? Your partner and high body counts!? :D

[@DiAn-ud8dy]

Wmn made MANY of the things we use now but didnt get credit For it, just like elon musk saying that he invented the electric car when has been invented before he was born however people just believe anything he says. Ps elizabeth feinler, Grace Hopper, radia pearlman, hedy Lamar, jaime Levy, ada Lovelace to name a few wmn that Made internet possible, feinler was the director of Arpanet but if you Google "who invented the internet" Arpanet will appear but wont mention elizabeth feinler, you need to dig to find it

[@prussiansocietyofamerica]

@@DiAn-ud8dy That's complete bunk. And the fact that you bring up Elon Musk out of nowhere, shows how failed your argument is. Nobody cares about some business mogul like Elon Musk. It's also funny how you defend mostly broads who have Ancestry of the people who fall under the 6 pointed star banner. Those types are not liked whatsoever, not even Palestinians like them. Get educated.

[@alicec.6195]

It's nice to admire a man who is not weak. I've had 4 long term relationships in life, im 35. Only one of them the man wasn't weak and dependant. Guess who is the most successful one in life today? Guess who was the only one who truly respected me and done zero abuse? 😊

[@prussiansocietyofamerica]

The one who was a Simp! 😄

[@marsbarzart]

This most of all men are behind in life, emotionally, spiritually, they lack empathy and they compensate that with money and now they’re more women have been listening to what the podcast is her thing and getting their own bag it’s falling on their head…. Because now that women are making the six figures or 3 1/2 figures or just one figure……… women are requiring emotional intelligence and for them to be present, not only with them, but the children that they helped create….. “don’t have hobbies that don’t include your children “” is one of the hugest statements I’m hearing from women who have gotten impregnated by boys/males not men the truth is when you settle for less you are settling for lesser version of yourself. The main reason why I am single is not choice because truthfully girlfriend and boyfriend is just another way of saying I want to sleep with you some of us actually want to be *with* someone not on top or under someone women historically have been asking to be parallel to men not the same line we’re going in the same direction at the same speed at the same time equality does not mean to copy or to replace or replicate. It means to be parallel to your mate/persons/communities/race There is a reason why there’s an entire manifesto that is currently being implemented in the United States government to make sure that more young women are uneducated because it’s unnecessary and that’s the reason why the birth rate is declineing

[@OO_sunflower_OO]

Lol you described my dad. It was so sick growing up. I grew up in a civilized city and I couldn’t relate to anyone about this in school. Lots of violence , lots of my mom just serving him and taking his side when he’s rude to everyone and feels he’s the king. He actually has no skills. I cook better. My mom earns more money. I have more education. SMH what a loser honestly.

[@jenniferhanson6467]

It's a case of "let's label a bunch of traits and you women, just do what we want you to do that suits us and has us sitting around like coddled kings". I'm breaking out and your channel helps immensely

[@gwendolynsnyder463]

Autistic woman here. I wanted to share my observation about autistic vs neurotypical men I've met. The only actually good men I've met are autistic. I have a theory on why that happens. Reason 1, society just has a certain ableism in them towards autistic people. Even if someone doesn't think they're ableist, they'd still discipline an autistic boy more harshly, due to underlying thoughts of "He's autistic! He'll suck at socializing! I need to make sure he learns social skills because he's autistic!" , that happen on a subconscious level. That inernalized ableism goes too far if you don't take your kid seriously at all just because they're autistic, but no matter how good a person is, due to internalized ableism, they will always discipline an autistic boy more than a neurotypical boy. This results in autistic men being disciplined and responsible, and actually kind people, while neurotypical men are undisciplined, because they didn't receive this discipline as children that autistic men had received. Reason 2, autistic people, both men and women, aren't as sensitive to peer pressure as neurotypical people are. This is both a blessing and a curse at once. The curse of that is, that we often end up as outcasts, because we autistic people are confident in ourselves enough to say "Nah, that fad doesn't interest me" , or "Nah, it's ok for me to have different hobbies than yall have." Autistic women often sound like pickmeshas or like they're in their "not like other girls" phase, even though that's really just how we are, because we literally aren't like neurotypical girls. Meanwhile, the autistic man just has to stop participating in the male power plays, because autistic people often have a really damn strong moral compass, that is really damn hard to shake. It's not unshakeable, but an autistic man would most likely think "yall silly." , go back to his special interest, and end up being alone. Now to come to the blessing of this trait: We have the confidence to not conform entirely. Sure, we mask, because we don't want to be outcasts, but our moral compasses are really damn hard to shake, and while part of our masking behaviour may be not infodumping about our special interest, we don't see the need to denounce our hobbies, just because of society. I'm not denying that there are some men out there that say "I'm autistic" to justify bad behaviour. You should just leave him and not see him saying that he's autistic as a valid excuse for violating your boundaries. That mans probably not even autistic, just pathethic and thinks that he's autistic because of stereotypes. A truly autistic man would respect your boundaries, you just have to be blunt with him, but once you clearly tell him "I don't like when you do XY" , he would most likely respect that, but his demand in return is that you do the same for him, and respect a personal boundary when he sets one. And from what I've experienced, when a person knows I'm autistic, they feel the need to deliberately cross a boundary and ridicule me for having that boundary. So that's why I am very fiercly defensive about my boundaries, and just cut a person off entirely when they start with that bullshit.

[@Plutos_Child69]

True

[@MayDay-yn3bw]

I've often thought that the wrong people are in charge...

[@trustmaker1014]

I love this channel. Commenting for the algorithm

[@BL-sd2qw]

Reminds me of that post about how vaginas can lift weight and other stuff, lol

[@meghanelizabeth9235]

You are so damn smart. Thank you for being here and giving words to everything I’ve ever felt.

[@yv_edit]

that’s so kind thank you!!! happy to be here & so glad you find it validating 🫂🩷 it’s something we don’t get a lot of as women

[@NinaGothMambaNegra]

I don't really think about it like energies but labor, it's always labor. I've been called masculine because I'm austitic just because I choose some different skills. Those traits are not masculine nor femenine but labor profiles that changed according to the era. Men just don't know how to work, on themselves, on others, at work, outside of work, that's why they rely on other people's work. Men stopped adulting a long tome ago, forget about parenting, we're talking basic social skills. And as women we were kinda force to adult sooner than them. These "energies" talks could lead people into neo conspirituality, since it comes from cult dynamics that were heavily focus on shmegs as "healing" lead by shady dudes of course.

[@readinggeorgeeliot1489]

Well, socialization does begin at their operative "home" since not bothering to learn emotional intelligence or to take care of their own hygiene does depend on the direct role models that are their parent(s) and extended families and neighborhood. And then its reinforced by school and the rest of society. So if their heroes were people who "was the man"; so to say a person who had the image, title and status while surrounded by help-mes, then that's what they'll likely regurgitate since that's the privilege they might aspire to. At least, that's one possibility.

[@seabreeze4559]

like video games being called masculine but actually the victorians considered all board games including chess feminine because it wasn't outdoors involving active effort

[@seabreeze4559]

@@readinggeorgeeliot1489 they know self sufficiency is expected of adults, even toddlers know to pick up their own toys

[@NinaGothMambaNegra]

@@seabreeze4559 exactly. great example

[@JKH-m4y]

Stellar points!! , but honestly I do not believe in masculine, feminine energy. It still has that touch of gender roles attached ya know? More like active, passive energy Active energy is impulsive, hard discipline, takes willpower but incites change Passive energy is years of experience and knowledge, logical thinking, strategizing, intuition. We both need the yin and Yang to balance life, some people just have more of active energy that it burns them out, they forget to dip into calm passivity, vice versa may happen

[@naomiokenn447]

It’s so true oh my god gosh I am having such an epiphany rn

[@FishareFriendsNotFood972]

Radical responsibility: 'no matter what happens, it's always your fault'. WOW, well put, that really helped me understand some things

[@martibee8984]

The line for masculine, and feminine, is mostly feminine also according to societal standards. Society has limited what men are allowed to do while still being considered masculine so drastically that the majority of human behavior falls onto the feminine. It also still tries to say that women are masculine when they do anything beyond the halfway mark even though it's been deemed not masculine. So... a man isn't masculine if he does anything beyond the far end of that line, and a woman isn't feminine if she does anything on that half of the scale. That leaves about 2/6ths of human behavior is basically not allowed by anyone without them being shamed by someone.

[@martibee8984]

In nature the males are given certain attributes to help them obtain a mate. This is almost always physical. Human men are acting like they have to have only the physical attribute to get a mate, but humans aren't like other animal species. We have additional higher functioning brains, and that means that mental attributes become a necessity in choosing a mate as well. Men in general don't focus on that aspect of their matability. They choose to run around like peacocks, and will not put in the mental work to be a decent partner.

[@destroyraiden]

the word society itself when you entomology it means 1530s, "companionship, friendly association with others," from Old French societe "company" and we ascribe these things to be feminine.

[@destroyraiden]

@@martibee8984 yeah but the men solved them not having the rest of the traits by dupping women into doing all the stuff like peacocking, bringing food, building and designing the nest, and then she praises him as if he did any of it all he has to do is sex and even then she'll pretend it was good and praise him for worst lay ever.

[@martibee8984]

@destroyraiden sounds like whoever decided the definition lived in a positivity bubble outside of reality 😉 Companionship and friendly association, I'm not surprised it was deemed feminine.

[@Леонид-в6х]

Girl, you are clever, you can literally write a good book for us.

[@Plutos_Child69]

Think the same

[@caseyjude5472]

I love when the notebook & drawings come out. Like Katie Porter’s White Board-you know it’s gonna be good!

[@yv_edit]

ahahah thank you 😅😭

[@theehardpill]

That why i dont listen to 99% of folks talking about maculine or feminine energy because they're all speaking on performative tasks created by the patriarchy on either side. None of them have ever read or researched books like the kybalion that discuss the 7 hermetic principles. 1 being gender. So alot of what's being said online goes in one ear and right out the other. 🙄

[@lesley275]

100% agree.

[@hannahsims7510]

Hello! I appreciate the articulate way you break down complex ideas about gender. Do you have a patreon? I don't engage much in public forums but would love to support your work.

[@nzingahoney]

@@hannahsims7510 the audaci-tea podcast she hosts has one

[@diamond852]

The masculinity-femininity myth is just that.

[@kristenmoonrise]

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[@Lysistrata2025]

Very insightful video!

[@dorino9057]

Great video agreed👏

[@JKH-m4y]

Ever entered male living spaces?

[@elegantempress1395]

Brilliant, thank you so much 🫶🏽❤️

[@meli7315]

I am working a lot on my masculine and feminine energy. The book gene keys is genius . Yon and Yang ☯️ The want us to search after the other energy external but the real deal is searching and balancing within itself. It’s about inner peace. Look within yourself for your yin yang inner peace. I don’t need a man. I am my own man.

[@shiina29]

I don’t know what you’re basing your idea of masculine and feminine on, especially since you say we all have both. We should just stop calling things masculine and feminine all together, and just encourage and foster good traits in everyone.

[@olympiaelda1121]

THIS.

[@nzingahoney]

I agree with her. Names are for particular things and there's a cost for throwing names away

[@readinggeorgeeliot1489]

'Emotional Labor' by Rose Hackman has a section on people performing feminine attributes: empathetic, insightful, warm, expressive other directed and more aware of the feelings of others while masculine attributes are usually: self directed, active, decisive, performance driven, etc. Not the whole list so it would be better to read the book. Of course, don't like the terms, don't use them.

[@CeCe1066]

A man’s worst date is a woman rejecting them sex and attention then having to pay for her. A woman’s worst date is getting raped and tortured, and then having to bear her rapist’s child because she lives in a state that has banned abortion. We do NOT move in this society the same way and we CANNOT PRETEND AND IGNORE these differences if we want anything to change. The first step to change is acceptance and i dont think the USA has ever accepted the true misogyny and sexism that permeates so many aspects of our lives. Society still sees women as caregivers, mothers, and stay at home moms before anything else. Working women are usually always expected to be the one to plan birthdays, socials, and keep the office maintained even if that’s not their job description. What im getting at is: we can preach “encourage good traits in everyone and get rid of dividing language” but there are limits to how much we can get rid of if society is too stubborn to change. There is simply no way in our current society and biologically that we can try and pretend we are the same; frankly, we’ve tried to pretend, and it doesn’t work because men are not at the same level of seeing women as equals on par to men. Men will always be the issue if we continue to live in a patriarchal society where a rapist and felon can become the US President.

[@almamater489]

She didn't make that shit up. Those terms and definitions of them are all from alchemy

[@08Davis2]

❤

[@Fkpatriarchy]

Sounds like i need a leash! 😊

[@EmperorOfTheDamned]

The real reason is because they don't. 💯

[@jones2277]

Interesting paradigm

[@t.f.6297]

This!!!❤

[@Id.rather.be.a.dragon]

🧡🧡🧡

[@focuseddisarry8398]

👀

[@navideology]

👏🏻

[@barefooted001]

😂

[@funkysawmanwright5077]

You want to challenge me to this???

[@kwyatt261]

The survival show where it was a group of men surviving and a group of women surviving BEGS to differ. Those women were not able to adapt, they needed their 21st century comforts and conveniences, while the men were mentally resilient and team oriented. But ok lady

[@oneoutstrider]

Exactly, its just one example, but they choose their own limited parameters to make judgments. Furthermore, it doesn't even occur to her that real men don't even care about most stuff within the system that's rigged against us

[@Tommie_the_wrath_of_Khan]

Some feelings being hurt here? Ya know… back in the day when women had their feelings hurt, they were diagnosed hysterical and put in institutions. Maybe men could benefit from being institutionalized for hysterics these days. Just a thought 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@empreenergy3376]

Bet ya they had to lie, cheat n steal to do it tho...yall laughable! Look at our world today...we out perform u! In the caveman days yall were the stars. .yall cant even evolve!

[@kwyatt261]

@Tommie_the_wrath_of_Khan Sure, many men are hysterical. I'm just stating what happens in the wild when left to their own devices to some extent.

[@QWERTY-gp8fd]

@@empreenergy3376 u outperform men so why complain about wage gap? lmao.

[@Lex_Nocturna]

Lol nope

[@marys2406]

Stop being lazy

[@IronJhon788]

As a man I agree with most of what you have said. There is a problem though... No matter how much women complain about men, they will never change things unless they change the material conditions that make those things a reallity in the first place. Structural problems are a result of the underlying material conditions, that's an inescapable fact, and man can only improve individually and in context, but the overall structure states the same. The pathriarchy was born as a consequence of agriculture, and still until today, we expect men to be more successful than women, and base their value on that success, hence the rewarding of assertive and aggressive behaviours. It is truth that men are dehumanized, both by themeselves and by womnen. Those women who say that they want vulnerable and emotional men, have never known vulnerable and emotional man, spoilers: They will absolutely not love them... It is what it is, and society will hopefully collapse by the effect of its weight in the future, so we can restart.

[@Dee_Dee216]

And ofcourse, as usual, it's never men's fault. Some how women are to blame for men's choices. Like it's actually ridiculous at this point.

[@seabreeze4559]

the issue is misunderstanding Jung, gender psychology is Jungian and everyone was meant to have BOTH traits. Marketing to one or the other was Bernays in the 1900s especially in the 50s.

[@TMeyer-ge5pj]

​@Dee_Dee216 yeah it is the responsibility of women to fix men's issues. When have men ever fixed women's issues for us lol ??

[@BL-sd2qw]

Have you checked the book Saharasia?

[@BL-sd2qw]

Also, the agriculture thing was debunked already. Matriarchies have food forests.

[@szellllest]

Lady, stop dividing people. Men vs women is not the problem. If you really want to know, start learning about the threads of the current world. There is evil and influence all over. Now imagine you are forced to "play along".

[@videoreferenzen1549]

“wELl aCtUAllY the problem is wHatAbouTiSM.” F off, wmn here aren’t falling for that.

[@chariocexvii8368]

Gender based violence stats would say otherwise

[@olganova3058]

your mansplaining is hilarious

[@unicorn73212]

It's not dividing people it's making people understand the differences so that were not so divided and you got triggered by it because there's a lot of truth behind it. So you proved her point. Masculine men feel threatened by women that exercise their brain and not there emotions. We crave balance men crave division because it makes them feel masculine to disagree or one up women. Holding women back from becoming a successful person is the reason why women and men are so divided and why men are not always successful he's worried about the women around him doing better then him instead of using that energy to build himself back up. For someone that doesn't care what we say about men they sure have a lot to say about nothing..

[@meli7315]

I am working a lot on my masculine and feminine energy. The book gene keys is genius . Yon and Yang ☯️ The want us to search after the other energy external but the real deal is searching and balancing within itself. It’s about inner peace. Look within yourself for your yin yang inner peace. I don’t need a man. I am my own man.

[@danidiaz2377]

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