fight fire with ice water! LOL itll extinguish in a sec

This was really good advice

I used to just have one close friend..with just a few casusl..my mean relatives say ohh ur too quirkt. So im getting better at friends it still hurts when i meet onrs that turn out to br not who i tbought they were or fall for lies of others even knkwing they bully and harasd othets it hurts..im happy to have other friends ..there are others thst leave that hole and it takes time..bottom line people get the facts about people first

I had this happen on and ,, it happened recently..and this friend and i used to work together...she was taken with these toxic gals and seems to try to impress people..and she hoped id like these meAn gals..i didnt ..i tried to like em but it obvious to her and to me be that thse gals werent the type id want to be friends with..i told these gals no when i said something wasnt ok..i just said what she did wadnt ok..and she zaid u dont like her..not someone who treats people this way..i dont want someone like that in my life..she said i was being nadty..i said no im protecting mysekf..ironically..when mt friend was not arpund thse gals wpuld backstab my friend ..boy was i tempted to say S they really dont like u...i tjink another friend of mine tried to say something to her indurely and she just said oh no shes playing..and my friend is used to bad people on life..never did well with parters , spuses ect....so my friend treated me and tbose around me lime trash..she doesnt undertand why many are distant a d cautious with het..ive ling known shez not had friends ..many since her childhood

I hate excluded...in some cases its case some want to cause other friends of thiers control them.and let thier other friends tell thrm what to do....and some people just become rats

❤ Thank you for the advice and the valudation that what I am doing is the right thing for me ....

I have a good question. What do you do when a casual friend is starting to give too many gifts and something just doesn’t feel right. It feels weird and slightly controlling.

My friend is very controlling and judges me. She yells at me, she would get mad at me when i dont let her use my hotspot to save data on my phone, she would be like “WHY CANT I FUCKIN USE UR DATA U SELFISH IDIOT!”she thinks that everything is about her and she relies on me to buy her stuff

I had this friend who stopped speaking to me after things seemed great..but kept up with a few others i know, but as the same time she pretended to not know 2 people she and both knew..then sometime later she cut ties with other folks i know

A few years ago, a gal i was close with stopped speaking to me ,we talked for a bit adter she moved fir a diffetent job, she stopped by a few times, a few other folks thar know her also loss contact as well, she has a lot of issues in her life , and doesnt get along with some of het family, i know at least 2 people who passed by her and she was with a family member both said hi and she ignored them , the relative said dont you know that girl, both gals heard heard hwr say no to thiet surprise when she did know them..have heard shes pretty reclusive now, cause one of her siblings married the sisof of my classmates..so havent heard much

I'm going through this at the moment, absolutely horrific, she treats me cold and ignores me, so I treat her the same, just a toxic situation. I dislike her now she has a rotten personality

Is best to try. Avoid them but if you can't. I will confront them and call them m Out on it to make them think about their behavior

So people feel Intimidated By people who are positive. And strong. But it is important to be kind in humble to everybody. So you don't give off that vibe

I had to.kick out my partner for being drunk and i told him time and time again not to come in my apt like that.

Im not sure if i could..id have to see how a person is, trust is not easily put back together..friendship may not be the same

Yes im huntimg for jobs as are ithers cause the company only wants to hear the side of thise 2 or 3 folks..that most in co dont like..bullies...seems like no one wants to hear the truth , most left..

Theres a gal that thinks im gonna come around and be friends...umm no after her words and actions told me she shouldnt be trusted..she says she wont do her shenanigans again but she does it and acts all sweet but lues..2 faced i guess..others have told me the same story on her..one gal says yes but she is just that way...lets just say..myself and others wont be surprised if she calls mr saying shes had enough

I had this gal that was mean to me to most all others..only a few got her nice side, i rarely got het good side, so i was neutral..she did not like it if people said no to..they were ties i get irritated with her..bad idea..she was something else..i said yes to her for a time to get her off my back..big mistake so i quit that..even the people she was nice too she would backstab when they went home for tbe day..she would try to make up luez to get people in truble ,s are them off thr job..she moved on to another job i heard write ups galore but they keep her cause that job has a hard time fimdimg anyome...i knew of two guys that dated women similiar to her ot didnt end well they died by suicide sadly. So beware of some

This happened to me on and off..some in group wanted me thete but some spoiled bullies in group are ones to scare them..i have othets but it hurts when these folks do this..i tend to talk woth some of them on thier own or two or 3..it seem when the bullies came in they ruined it for me and others

I believe that it's an inappropriate time to speak about a subject that should be displayed in private without allowing anyone in your personal business.

Love this advice !

Thank u

Looking lovely, Marie ❤

I find it flattering and don't play into their game. They took seconds out of their life to absorb my fabolocity while I turn away because I do not check out or look twice at excrement since it is so gross. They are intimidated by you and I feel sorry for them to be doing this at their advanced age.

Great video, Marie! Love the channel and Amazon jewelry selections.

Tell her she's not what you look for in a friend and walk off. If you see each other when your out just walk right past her without saying anything to her. Just live your happy life without her.

Hey Marie, this year has been a year of transformation for me. I’ve just recently ended another friendship. She like me when I was the down & out - She in those times became Uber supportive. But any success she would give the side eye or try to minimize my success, I called her on it and she apologized but didn’t talked to me for 7 months. She popped back in my life and spent time in my house and was negative, gave me the side-eye, complained and poo/poo my accomplishments- I had enough and ended the friendship the next day. I was done!! Some people you can’t take with you when you level up.

What if it’s not about that you can’t stand them. What if that person takes measures to destroy your life and destroy your family? Why would your friend want to be in the company of someone so evil if they care about you? Birds of a feather flock together. Look hard at both of them and you will see neither are worthy of being your friend. Friends should protect you. Friends should cringe at that site of someone that takes actions to hurt you. Don’t pick friends with bad judgement. Life is too short. Move on!

People have forgotten how to be friends

That kitchen behind you is very big and beautiful!

Good video. Thank you. The key here is to give a sincere apology, admit your mistakes, and extend olive branch. The rest is up to them. The ball is in their court indeed.

Thank you! I am at the ignoring stage, but they are still trying to catch my eye and act like nothing ever happened, so I started doubting myself. This reminded me not to get sucked back in

Politics has brought out a lot of angry people. It’s ridiculous. They just start being confrontational and vulgar absolutely insane. I don’t deal with them.

They always give me dirty looks & they’re always In a bad mood. They want to me to either save them or be a punching bag.

Thank you for this❤ God bless you.🙏🏽

My broken 'family' were responsible for making my life a failure (I know we're not supposed to keep excuses in life but Im not keeping this in that way to avoid my own personal growth, it was just a true reality). I just hate my Dad phoning then asking "what have you been up to?". I hate that invasive question because to truthfully respond to it would be like 'everything opposite to what you want'. Im not comfortable telling them that Im an unrecognisable black sheep, i would rather not be part of the 'family' which is a harsh thing to say but what do they expect? The baby boomers rejected every historical standard and are still waiting on good results. They never want to do introspection and repent, even when the consequences of their attitudes couldn't be any more pronounced right now.

Hey Marie! Always a treat to see you.

Avoid them if possible….

I'm might be autistic and some situation are so hard to deal with and your video is so helpfull thank you so much !

That’s me I’m the angry one 😂

Happy Sunday Marie!! Thank you for more excellent advice! You're awesome! Have a very nice day and new week ahead my beautiful friend!! 😊🌹💪

What if shes avoiding eye contect while im in a conversation with her, its confusing😭

Watching this on my birthday 😞

Love your hair looks great❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤great video. Great advice as always❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Recently, I've noticed the angry people I run into a few times a week has begun stopping up to chat, as some maneuver to avoid even looking at me... Some days it feels like a tiny blessing, other days like a compliment (like wow, they feel the need to group up, against me???) and some days it's like a punch in the gut... I never, ever, did anything to them.

THANK YOU.

I tend to respond instantly so I won't have to think about it afterwards.. I have better things to do than try to match their pace to be honest. For me that's waaay too much effort and mind clutter.. If they don't respond at all, then good riddance!

I didn't do anything wrong

Omg this woman is absolutely mental to think it's ok to date one of your friends exes , she Defoe should not be a councilor 😤😠😡🤬

3:07 that part 👏👏👏