I’m now a year since loosing my wife of 36 years and best friend Cheri. As I start my second year alone I’ve found my grief hasn’t abated. I still love and miss her so incredibly much. I have no desire to find someone else. I’ve had a grief counselor for the past year which has helped some. It’s like she’s been gone forever, and like she is just sleeping in the next room at the same time.

I needed to her this. TY. The model Iman said the same about her deceased husband that she is still married,

Lost my soul mate of 46 yrs 3 days before Christmas its just me him & our pets - i got to go food from a drive thru on 24th to heat the next day - i had a white candle burning at the table (still do when im home or awake) i took cate of our animals warmed my dinner & ate alone there were already decorations at the table & some around bedore this hapoened so i spent a quiet Christmas alone ate my dinner & retired to my room early - i wanted the quiet & solitude & for it t i be over as soon as possible - we always had made the most of our situation over any holiday with what we had so were used to simple holiday no guests or family just us 2 & our pets - it was sad & hard but i did the neccesary animal care fed myself & relaxed in quiet bed til i fell asleep next day was glad this hard day ws behind me

Your right about experiencing things 1 by 1 alone now - each 1 another stumbling block - slowly they begin to add up & there's less & less things & places that are a new "alone" experience- my aunt Liz heard I was "cycling" on & off crying & on & off she said the same as you that it ment I was slowly working my way threw the situation - so you hit 2 key things accurately that have been happening - after 46 yrs with my soul mate - its all too new I'm just beginning my journey with thus- ill say I'm impressed with your channel to be accurate on 2 things I'm feeling in such a short time - I've been listening to I channels for guidance threw the road ahead - & you make the most sense I've heard so far (& agree with my aunt Liz) when she said I was working my wat threw it by having repeated off & on episodes it was brand new & I didn't understand- but now I think I'm beginning to - its our natural way of dealing with it little by little- I think?= & I do like the honoring them on special days by doing something they loved doing - even though I'm not able to now its all still too new - but maybe later down the road whenever I get more leveled out - I'm not looking forward to this journey at all & have a heavy heart & the loneliness is extremely hard luckily we have pets to care for- taking care of them helps keep me on track - right now its only the beginning for me - long road ahead & I know it

I hope DR. BILL WEBSTER that you can continue more of your Streams they are very very helpful. Gives sense HOPE ENCOURAGEMENT PEACE Press on forward.

How do I cope with the regret of letting me mother decline into death!

Hi . I’m suffering . I lost my husband in June 2024 & I’m finding it difficult to cope . I hear you’re Scottish as I am . How did you overcome the grief please. I need help 💔😭

How does one grieve with the outcome of healing eventually?

Thank you

Thank you. I needed to hear this. I lost my mom because she broke her hip when I left her seated in a wheelchair for only 30 minutes. It was never in my imagination that a disabled person could still break a bone.

Keep Our Loved ones ALIVE LIGHTING CANDLE SIGN OF PEACE✝️🕯🙏

Nothing has helped me more than this video. Thank you ❤

Thank you.

Thankyou so much. You take this seriously. It's been exhausting. Arrrrrgghhh I could scream and cry. You really help me too. God bless to all who have died and to those who grieve badly.

I miss my husband so much. He died suddenly six weeks ago, leaving me so empty.

I feel your pain....thank you so much for sharing.❤

Thank you, Sir. I really appreciate your insight. However, as a Man., that is currently in a relationship with a recent widow, I must say this--It both saddens and angers me that a woman will let Grief and Guilt rob them of what Life has to offer. I am right here, right now and she does not even see me. As a disabled, Combat Veteran, all I can say is, welcome to Life.

Very well said young lady!!!

Thank You Dr Bill.

This is really a nice video I look at it this morning and I send it to two people going through a loss like myself. I am glad I met up with this program ❤.

I lost my beloved partner on Christmas Eve 2021. I want nothing to do with Christmas.

MOJO

No. Its the only thing that lasts forever.

Thanks to the crazy political idiots our governments created, it's hard to meet anyone on a social level. They even got musician artist, athletic, and Hollywood to keep us all separated!

After my husband died, I stayed with my daughter, her husband, and my grandchildren, and I still felt alone. Everywhere I go, I feel alone. Hopefully, the saying: "Time heals all wounds" is true. I just need time.

This is really helpful to me. Thank you

I never grieved over anyone like i am grieving over my husband. I love him so much Married 30 + yesrs. He was a beautiful person. Such a beautiful person❤

Wonderful video! Thanks!

I miss my husband so much ❤

This is so true, I wanted him back so much. miss my husband so much. I didn't remember because it was so tramatic. My husband died from demitia, and I thought he was just getting old. He was in the last stage, demitia, and I didn't know-- he would old things but forget new things! I miss him dearly!❤ I thought my husband would come home, and he didn't. I miss him so much!❤

I think it’s less of a decision and more of a realization. Someday I’ll be ready, realize it, and that’ll be the day.

Music is totally unnecessary here

Counseling is a dam medical/ educational opinion. I dont think any professionals have the right to tell a grieving person what to do with their loved ones ashes. Its like these rules have been made by people that have not lost a close loved one. And you are a grief counselor?!!🤦🏼‍♀️

Thank you

Spirit is more present in their loved ones lives than they were in physical life, they are present with every thought. ❤️

10 years later -no it doesn’t. Every day. 😭

The words you say are so true lonleness with out them is terabble and you do feel so a lone

I knew this video was posted long ago. I lost my wife to sepsis and she was only 54. The amount of guilt I feel is terrible because if I just would have stayed with her rather than having to go to work. The next day I went she never woke up what did she go through while I was at work. She died a week before we got a really large accident settlement from a surgery I had but I was afraid to get it because of the severity of the surgery.. how do I forgive myself I don't know how. I'm stuck in a guilt stage the wound isn't closed its large open and gaping. I do like what you said though because I was her caregiver with amputations and the wound care provider! This was such a wonderful Father's Day gift I didn't think I was going to get anything! God bless you

I can't sleep, don't want to eat or take care of myself. My Mama passed away last Friday afternoon. So 4 days until the afternoon. She was my world. I took care of her over a decade and she was doing great when we got her into the convalescent home for 2 years and then they moved her and stressed her out until she got so tired she gave up and wanted to go see my Papa who died 21 years ago. She never recovered from that loss. Now I'm devastated 😢

7:09 When my brother called last Friday afternoon to say Mama had passed away in her sleep we both said, We're orphans now, we're orphans now.😢 But then I remembered I have a Heavenly Father so I never an orphan.❤

My mother in law passed on Mother's Day 2024. We had her in a memory care facility. There is no time to wait and decide at all, so I brought everything to my home except for a dresser. I then began the process of washing, sorting and categorizing to see what family members would like first. I'm doing this now because I know there is a large storage unit with a monthly fee that will need to be looked through also. In my opinion, addressing and taking care of her property left behind is a form of respect to her.

People really do say ignorant things in a desperate attempt to try to somehow create a silver lining for us and it often doesn't resonate. For example when people told him at least he has his boys and he won't be lonely. How naive and ignorant for someone to say that and not realize there is a complete difference between the love of a father and his children and the love between his wife and himself. A child can never replace a spouse.

Exactly how I feel - May 22/24

I didn’t want to celebrate the holidays at all

My first Christmas without my husband SUCKED

I wish I had your video when my husband passed

I wish you were my therapist after my husband passed

Perfectly normal

People who think you should be pulling yourself together after 3 months, don’t know sht

I’m sure you did, I cried right through Frank’s service 😊