I maybe sharing something shocking but there are people who have very fragile nervous system whom even that putting of the cup can harm them a lot. I know what I'm saying. Jazākumullahu khayran

I’m soo exited for this season ❤❤

Masha Allah

I like the name but it's my aunt's name but i dont wudnt like to repeat names in the family

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Allahumma ij’alnaa min ahlil Qur’an yaa Rabb🤲

MashaALLAH ! Such a perfect episode :)) I really enjoyed watching this and it touched my heart deeply! Jakaum Allahu Khairan Ya Akhawat :))

I enjoy your discussions always.

Alhamduliah, this was a good episode!:) May الله bless us with good companions / friendships that constantly bring us closer to him!

May الله swt bless you 3, alhamdulillah I always feel like I want to get closer to الله more after each episode! May we meet in paradise!

Really random but Sister Sumayah looks really nice and happy in the thumbnail. What a lovely smile اللهم بارك لها

Ms Layinka needs to drop us a hijab tutorial

SubhanAllah! It’s insane! 4 years?😳 when I first run into Honest tea talk I was a Christian arguing with my now husband about religion and I was looking for some answers about Islam! And you ladies helped me to accept Islam Alhamdulillah! I’ll be forever grateful! May Allah give you everything you wish for!

First off Jazakumullah Khayran and Bismillah

I’m coming to England. Let’s meet

New interpretation of the quran state that the meaning was misunderstood. Poligamy is not accettable .

Please give me the title of the music in the background

Maa Shaa Allah ladies this was a really great one. I can relate with all of you. Alhamdoulilah for getting to the level when you realize that Allah should be first before any human being ❤

Flawed concept. A gift is set by the person giving the gift (not receiving it). A gift is a gesture that one person (showing their intentions) gives to another (appreciating it). Everyone would agree that when a person gives to an impoverished person, it is called a "gift/donation". The poor person doesn't go around demanding a specific gift as that would show he is not appreciative of what was given. Call it a dowry if you must, but it's not a gift if you're saying the person receiving it chooses the price. We are not buying a woman get that through your thick head. As most people here are in the Western world, Im very confident you don't go to people saying you want this specific gift. I would give what I think is appropriate. Its that simple! You say it's not a price tag of her worth, but she sets it? Seems like she put a price tag on herself. That's like saying you're going to a job interview setting a price for yourself. I put a salary range on my skills/experience as a potential employee. The employer decides to pay it or not. What part of the definition is this defined as a "gift"? It's called compensation. Stop beating around the bush. If you want to judge the mahr he gives. Shame on you. If you can't appreciate what he gives, it just shows how materialistic you will be in the future. The same argument you used about judging his character for the amount he gives. The prophet preached to every person to marry and to make the nikkah process as simple as possible. If you break the marriage off because of the mahr amount (whilst all other aspects are good), would it be justified in the name of Allah is the question?

I really think the lack of need for friendship comes from social media which fills the gap these days and doesn't require any effort from our part. Yet, Islam is built on relationships of the group, so really think we have to make the effort to cultivate our friendships and even acqaitainces for Allah. One of the best fields of friendships is within the family, siblings, aunts , cousins and of course good neighbours who are in your life all the time. Putting up with each others shortcomings is also a part of it and keeping Islamic boundaries in terms of respecting each others space and time.

Jazakallah khair, this was beautiful. ❤

Wow I couldn’t even tell you guys have children over 20!! Masha’ Allah! I hope I look as young as you guys when I have kids that age

4years ago Subhana’Allah a lot has happen Allahmduiliah. May Allah make things easy. I love you sisters so much welcome back.❤

Assalaamu alaikum. I had to pause this for a moment and really digest what was being discussed, and I think I am going to re-listen. It is so healing to listen to what you all are saying, having gone through my own share of a broken friendship that I've had for years. The friendship will never be the same because I have seen behavior that really appalled me from muslim women. In addition to navigating these types of issues, the lack of accountability that comes with it as people usually cannot see their behaviors when they are emotionally charged. I could talk so about this topic, thank you for your discussion. May Allah bless you all soo much.

The episode we needed to listen to today! #Depth🫂💚

Love your Chanel and missed you guys. The more closer am getting to closer Allah the more am loosing interest in meeting my friends and socialising and even stop talking to a few which is odd for me as I love engaging is this a sighn from Allah? Allah knows best ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Much love sisters for Allah's sake

I loved this episode ❤ I really relate to the idea that friendships change over time and how quality in your friendships becomes more important as you get older😊 and as always I love the imaan boosting conversation ❤

I love you sisters fisabilillah❤ May Allah guide and protect you

I live with myself and I enjoy it

Thank you all sisters for sharing with us lovely ideas mashaallah

I think as I get older, I think of friendship in terms of sisterhood than friendship. The nature of the relationship is one of wishing goodness for one another for the sake of Allah. I didn’t see things that way when I was younger, friendship was more for fun and a bit transactional.

Thank you @honestteatalk for discussing the topic of adult friendships. I find that this topic seems to be oversaturated in the non-Muslim spaces on TikTok and KZbin. But not many talk about it from an Islamic perspective. I loved Aaliyah’s point on wanting companionship more than a friend ship as she gets older; closely tying in with Sumayah’s point that there needs to be depth and safety for a close meaningful friendship. I absolutely loved Layinka’s point that unfortunately some people do not have this privilege of having a good friendship which meets one’s emotional needs, especially if they are already lacking this in other platonic or romantic relationships. However, I do have one constructive criticism though (I pray I don’t cause offence and speak out of turn). I find that when Layinka and Sumaya share their opinion, Aaliyah might interject and disagree. I know this is a discussion and we can agree and disagree. But I find this may be dismissive of their contribution. I don’t know if this is me reading too much into it. Maybe asking follow-up questions or adding your opinion to show a different perspective and interpretation may be more effective. Apologies if this causes any offence. ❤

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of marriage is that which is made easiest.” (Narrated by Ibn Hibban, classed as authentic by Al-Albani in Sahih Al-Jami`, 3300) And he (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The best of Mahrs is the simplest (or most affordable).” (Narrated by Al-Hakim and Al-Bayhaqi, classed as authentic by Al-Albani in Sahih Al-Jami`, 3279) And the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to a man who wanted to get married: “Look (for something to give as a dowry), even if it is a ring of iron.” (Narrated by Al-Bukhari and Muslim)

Salam sisters, may Allah swt reward you for sharing this discourse. I'm not sure if you will see this comment, but would you consider doing an episode on family (toxic) and cutting off ties when that is not necessarily the most halal approach so to speak

I haven't listened yet but this is a nice break from all the childfree horrid videos that have been gunking up my feed.

If you really want to make friends bumble BFF has been a god send for me. I have met 3 lovely ladies on there and one has become one of my best friends and she is so caring and kind and we have so much in common. She is not Muslim but she has faith and we connect on so many levels. Sometimes we have to proactive when cultivating relationships in our lives.

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Powerful discussion, with so much to reflect on. Thank you.

MaashaAllah; I resonated deeply with this episode however, I really appreciated Sumayah's insights on this topic. Jazak Allah Khairan. <3

Since there was too much wisdom on this episode, I want to share something I read today that can be appropriate for a show like honest tea talk and that is: "we mature by damage not by age". Lovely sharing that with you.

Amazing 🤩 amazing wallah great episode. Masha Allah

Thank you ladies for this episode. May allah reward you. Ameen ya rabbi. May allah give us righteouscompanions .

19.20 Onwards, thank you! JazakomAllahu khairan!

Such a powerful discussion. For me, I feel like female friendships are so tricky with trying to stay within the bounds of Islam. I’ve noticed so many women trying to bond via backbiting or exclusionary behavior or competition. Sometimes I think it’s easier to just be alone too

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I've never needed anyone in my life alhamdulillah, but as ive gotten older ive realized i want a MAN, some of us want that companionship from the opposite sex, becuase were busy grinding, we go so hard for others and just wish someone would say im yours. single mum, this podcasts hit had.

SubhanAllah! 🤍 Friends come/ friends go, keep the ones that reminds you of الله and staying on the straight path. 🖤 لا اله الا الله

Friendship evolves with age Because we evolve as human Beings … our faith evolves and so we question who we are spending time with

The way I relate to this is crazy. I think I'm in the stage of life where I'm transitioning out of the childhood friendships and into adulthood companionships with the people in my inner circle..and it's tough and confusing, but SubhanAllah, this has shed some light on the benefits of this shift and how it's ok...