My SIL doesn't like so let's eat at HER HOME. You should have known. It is your health. No one is gonna watch out for you BUT YOU! Now go to the POLICE and file a police report for poisoning or her trying to unalive you

Se le olvidó su pipa de crack.

Nunca te disculpes solo para "mantener la paz"; eso solo le demuestra a ese miembro de la familia que pueden pisotearte y que te disculparás después de molestarte.

Cuando era adolescente, mis parientes solían dejarme a cargo de sus hijos.

Bad behavior is not limited to one political party. Both lefties and righties can be obnoxious, or even Ecole unhinged. NTA. If they cannot behave, you are right to tell them to leave.

Women who expect men to cover their bills usually give something in return, you should have told her you did not realize she was that type of woman.

Now I know why one of my friends always says separate checks please when he first orders when we go out with a group. Smart guy.

It is not actually any more work, if they pay together, then they can pay for the whole meal and OP can do the calculations on what her ordered (probably a couple items) and pay them back, obviously they are taking advantage of him Also how does splitting the meal 2 ways not easy? Who thinks someone who didn’t eat or drink would even consider paying their part of the bill

Another doormat story.

No you’re not.

Order pizza.

Come on, op, grow that shiny spine and stick to your boundaries. If husband doesn't like it, tell him to do the work. I'm sorry, op, your husband doesn't give a crap about you.

Funny how Emma claimed that op knew that she would not like any of the food when Emma doesn't know for sure she wouldn't like it. Emma didn't even try the food, so she can't truly say she doesn't like it. Oo should have told her she was just being dramatic and overreacting. "I had no idea you would not eat any of it and the rest of the family loved it. You're the only person who couldn't find something to eat."

I'm allergic to beer and the hops that it's made of. I can't even go inside a restaurant that serves beer In the dining room area.

Es entendible que te sientas herido y preocupado por tu salud, pero es importante manejar estas situaciones con calma y comunicación. La venganza puede empeorar las relaciones familiares. Tal vez una conversación abierta con tu cuñada para expresar cómo te afectó esto pueda ayudar a evitar futuros conflictos y a reforzar el respeto mutuo.

Where's the rest of the story?

I've heard of people insisting on a new mattress, not wanting to have sex in the same bed as the ex, but never a car seat. That's a new one 😄

What he did was immature. He could have just gone no contact. That would’ve been the adult route. He was almost just as bad as Emma.

I would’ve called the police and.

As someone who is allergic to all Almond products , I avoid the allergy like the plague as I get hives ,rash ,vomiting and diarrhoea with one tenth of a pea sized bit for a week . Op sol thought it would be funny to see how your allergy affected you .

Almond paste is a flavoring, so I probably would have said also that there were no nuts used, but I don't have a nut allergy so I don't know if flavor of a nut matters.

Haven’t heard the story yet but no you’re not the AH

An easy to solve the problem. Tell the parents that her babysitting rates is $50.00 per hour per child, payable in advance.😂

Tell your aunt to grow the duck up and parent her own ducking children. Then quit taking her calls. Spend the holidays at a friends house.

All I can say is. Oh my god what the f__k!

He sounds like a fool

I’m sorry, but you’re both in the wrong. He’s in the wrong. She’s in the wrong for doing what she did and you’re in the wrong for doing what you do there’s a difference he is young, but you can teach a child and making up rules doesn’t teach a child that’s condoling him to get away with whatever they want whether he’s autistic or not and I have six of them.

RUN NOW.

Please tell me that you dumped the nut case.

Don't Marry her!!!!

Congratulations, AI. You have perfected the psychotic. 😂😂

Her double standards are beyond crazy.

Sweet baby Jesus. Dude run real fast this is not the life. 😢😢😢😢 she’s 😢being petty.

Pumpkin curry casserole sounds like it could be good if made by someone competent in the kitchen.

Sometimes you look around the table and realise the only thing you are thankful for, is only doing this once a year! 🤗

Oh please she’s banging the ex and just using you for material stuff.. she’s looking for an excuse to dump you and you’re not getting the hint

She's obviously a nut. And youre nutty for putting up with it this long.

Do not marry this woman either go to counseling with her or break up.

😮😮She is headed for a break. So isn’t her EX a guy who cannot be trusted if ALL men are untrustworthy.

Since OP says they have Family Meetings…Now they can’t take advantage of OP- they can decide on a menu and they can each bring an agreed part of that menu. Also, have assigned people to do cleanup ! My family is usually about 50-60 people for Christmas. We have a cousin who has a very large home and outdoor party area. They send out by text what they want to fix ( his wife loves to cook) and we all fix sides, appetizers and desserts ! We are thrilled to be able to gather and the adults are watching to take care of their beautiful home. Picking up and lots of offers to wash and dry dishes. Swedish Family - many helpers!! lol. Main thing is we have fun, lots of talking, laughter and ❤️❤️❤️! Moral of this story should be - Don’t take advantage of anyone’s generosity…help with something !!! I’m amazed that family’s expect one family to it all !!!

She is not being unreasonable. She is being psychotic.

If you cant figure out on your own, that this is a huge red flag, you need more help than a reddit thread.

Don't get married that's a nuclear redflag

3 years in and she’s just now bringing that up? Dude, don’t ignore that big red flag…she’s finding excuses to either end this relationship, to control you or has huge emotional issues. Pay attention…

Emily is spoiled selfish narcissist bully lying manipulative brat who believes the whole world should revolve around her and she can do whatever she wants because she’s mommy and daddy’s golden child…….

Why do the kids need babysat at a family event ?

I hate those story tellings where the same things are repeted over and over and over and over again.

Fake ass bullshit story

Oh my gosh! We used to mix rice cereal with a bit of milk/formula and feed them off a baby spoon to get them started on solids. But fruit fluffin loops _in_ their bottle. That woman is a certifiable idiot 🤯

Typical Redditor. Rather than talking and making his point clear like an adult, gotta be a passive aggressive asshole