The Rise of Women's Narcissism and Look at me Culture

[@CommandoMaster]

The best quote Sadia ever gave was: reciprocity is more important than attractiveness. Meaning men value a girl being genuinely interested in him more than he cares about her beauty.

[@bobbybilly-xn4ch]

Yes. I’ve noticed this in myself and others. It’s true

[@stevemann1299]

Yes but ONLY if he is REALLY attracted to said woman. And often he is attracted to a woman out of his league. No woman who see herself above you will ever love you. This is what men are not learning. If you are a 7 or 8 as a man. You have to get with no higher than a 6. Or you will live to regret it.

[@bobbybilly-xn4ch]

@@stevemann1299 some truth here. Women who are below you in looks are much more likely to remain committed and loyal

[@Calfs101]

Yes! this is everything

[@CommandoMaster]

@@stevemann1299 Well I see 5s males with 9s females so it works.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 6 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here , I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her .

[@DianaJovita]

The struggle to release someone dear to your heart is undeniably arduous. I empathize, having experienced a similar circumstance when my 6 year relationship concluded. Refusing to accept defeat, I pursued every conceivable avenue to reclaim his affection. Eventually, I sought the assistance of a spiritual counselor, whose wisdom and intervention played a pivotal role in reuniting us.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

Where did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with her?

[@DianaJovita]

Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.

[@charlesdavid-p1y]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.

[@beedebawng2556]

Oh shit, not you again and your spam story. 😂

[@StimParavane]

Players have no problem as they just move onto the next girl. Decent men approach women that they ACTUALLY like and therefore take it more personally if they get rejected.

[@beedebawng2556]

Or maybe if they're expecting to get rejected, it's not such a big deal, either. Whereas, if you feel top bins and you get rejected, you might not be able to handle it so well. 🤔

[@StimParavane]

@@beedebawng2556 Have you no life experience? The more you like someone the greater the fear and jeopardy. If you are serious about someone i.e. would like to have children with them, then being rejected is traumatic. If you don't really care then it's no big deal.

[@divisionmonarchy]

So true. I appreciate how you put this into words. I really identify with this unfortunately.

[@LifeIsNotorious]

Wow this needs more views than it has. She’s telling the truth!

[@chevysmooth15]

She is killing it!!!! Talking facts!!!!

[@tshaolin971]

Feminism has covert narcissism embeded in the ideology.

[@DominiqueBeninca-o2y]

I think it's more about coming from a background of adversity not about the colour of the skin. It just that more coloured people have needed to overcome the adversity thus having bulletproof confidence.

[@glowupwithwonderwoman]

I think a lot of people are missing the point that she’s not talking about most women. She’s referring to the extremely tiny minority of women who are the most beautiful and get the most attention from men. It’s hard to not be a narcissist when you get a lot of unwanted attention from men who other women would gladly wait in line to be with. The majority of women who are also good people and would make loving wives and mothers have the hardest time dating and for the most part it’s because the men they want do not find them attractive. Just reporting what I have seen 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@king-nick2023]

That's because most the men they are after are far out of their league.. what you see is women rejecting what wants them and getting rejected by what they want.. It's a karmic cycle

[@glowupwithwonderwoman]

@ oooo I love that you brought karma into the mix! And I would add that most women don’t understand how to determine their league. To me your league is determined by who actually would seriously date you rather than who you think you deserve.

[@raeleneg4280]

I appreciate her way of thinking.

[@ccjohnson6251]

viewers, pay SPECIFIC ATTENTION from 8:16 to 12:17 T his is THE TRUTH and this is EXACTLY what I have been saying for the last decade. The narcissist women who are an ego self loving victim. This is what FEMINISM taught women. And this is where it comes from! And this is why most marriage and dating fail today.

[@alinarisu2878]

Because women became narcissistic and men became pathetic?

[@jarhead21100]

It's weird. I'm a white guy and I find black women gorgeous and they seem to like me great.

[@Loop-oopp]

Uh oh Don't go against the narrative

[@SomethingCoool8O]

It's 4 your money dude

[@jarhead21100]

@@SomethingCoool8O i dont have much money. I can pay my bills. Not much more than that. And I'm not an overly flashy person. The most expensive thing I wear is a $600 weapon. So, what money?

[@SomethingCoool8O]

@jarhead21100 kinda hard to wear something more expensive than $600, but idk. And it's not like they know what u have or don't have. Girls assume I'm really smart bc I'm Asian, but I think I'm just average.

[@TheLifeOfABorderline]

People are just way too complicated. I'd rather focus on smoking weed.

[@beedebawng2556]

And later end up in the streets panhandling? I've seen quite a few like yourself who spent quite a bit of time focusing on smoking weed. Be careful.

[@TheLifeOfABorderline]

@beedebawng2556 See what I mean everyone? Get me the heck off of this planet...

[@TheLifeOfABorderline]

@beedebawng2556 Are you an actor and a musician involved in media as well? Probably not.

[@TheLifeOfABorderline]

I don't need to panhandle. I'd rather focus on weed than any human being.

[@khulamashaba903]

Smoke weed, smile and wave, rinse and repeat

[@beedebawng2556]

This dude sounds like such a mainstream brainwashed person. He's so eager to not upset the sheepul.

[@funkymunky]

I don't know. It's a shtick. Feigning ignorance.

[@stevemann1299]

He is one of the support team on MARRIED AT FIRST SIGHT UK.

[@stevemann1299]

He is one of the advisors on Married at first sight UK.

[@tunny777]

C'mon y'all, the bruva gotta make that dough. You can't serve God and Mammon. Seems bruva chose Mammon.

[@jamesblack5159]

I've actually posed that question to people before. If you don't date black guys for example, there's something you don't like about them. I think it's more than preference but wouldn't go to racism either.

[@atomicgeisha]

To me as a woman feminism to me is having the fincial means to leave an abusive relationship where as women before financially couldn't.

[@TSixSix]

We will never be understood or appreciated.

[@funkymunky]

We will never be loved the way we want to be loved.

[@stevemann1299]

You arent here to be loved.

[@funkymunky]

@@stevemann1299 Speak for yourself.

[@mistersir3185]

Asian men are left out of discussion…

[@ryanbailey8588]

Asian men after honestly like white guys. The stereotypes around you all are all good. I’m going to be brutally honest, Sadia mentioned black guys because: 1. She’s right in front of one 2. She doesn’t like them (reason why she immediately went to how they take rejection) Don’t be discouraged. I’ve seen Asian guy’s biggest problem is themselves. A lot of Asian guys just don’t think very highly of themselves when it comes to women and most women would definitely date an Asian guy.

[@JohnWarner-wm6lc]

😊 be happy about that, I am gypsy. They didn't bring us up either my brother. So we get to keep our culture.

[@drfattie]

Ahahaha

[@ericmcdowell9745]

Two types of married men is what she could of added to that theory because they are married men she is talking about!

[@ProjectCambo]

I love this lay’s work. She’s unbiased but realistically accurate about both men and women. I think men learn accountability more sufficient because we are taught or learn by our environment that self criticism will drive us. I don’t think the modern woman understands this concept and hence why a lot never learn accountability.

[@NovaSky986]

I totally agree with her

[@ZapR21]

Interesting analysis about ethnicity and dating. We need more of this.

[@anilbalram7768]

Holy shit. More women need to hear this.

[@Nando_lifts2021]

Here are some valid points for your viewers. Women date up, women date and mate for gain and men date for acceptable loss. Men used to be the captains and invited the women along to ride. Now women (and good for you) are becoming captains with careers, businesses, etc... but they won't date down. Or provide for a man who makes less than them. A man will absolutely do that. Women destroy the home with their mouths. Often times disrespecting their man and never disrespecting their job boss. How odd. Men need to address disrespect swiftly. And have boundaries in this area as well as other areas. Men work their whole lives to become someone who is attractive and a "catch" to women. Once we do this we are expected to just have one woman. It is very difficult to narrow down to 100% monogamy because the reason we have become attractive was to experience more sexual opportunity. There are studies that show if a man steps out it is not because he is unhappy in the relationship. While a women might be unhappy if she cheats. Things to consider Dr. and followers. ( I learned a lot from Corey Wayne and more from Dr. Orion Taraban from psychacks check them out!

[@goldheart320]

Sexually transmitted diseases from being with many partners

[@goldheart320]

STI's

[@Nando_lifts2021]

@goldheart320 sti?

[@goldheart320]

@Nando_lifts2021 sexually transmitted infections. The more partners you have the more STI'S you get and give to each other. People used to die from STI'S. Also babies become infected passing through their mother's womb while being born. That's why being sexually promiscuous is wrong.

[@Nando_lifts2021]

@goldheart320 yeah that can happen. Remember to Get tested

[@krystle2]

Love this. And it’s soooooo true.

[@gmoneymac23]

WWI, WWII, and the draft...who was oppressed again? Men or women?

[@johnnylion5535]

I like how she speaks with her hands

[@Ishtarthemoon]

Definitely in for a treat us British pak girls ❤️‍🔥 lol 😂 we come thru

[@samaval9920]

Please pay attention! In 19th century, white & black women had anti slavery & pro women joint coalition movement. For example, black women started womens movement in 1830s + continued anti slavery abolition movement. White women factory ( later joined by black women, at 1st joined trade unions, not yet women movement.

[@samaval9920]

US white womens movement started in 1848, & before & during US Civil War worked with abolition movement. Women from business class wanted to become full citizens, while workers wanted to become full workers.

[@BackyardEngineer334]

Single Moms are the headache you don’t need…

[@coachhbosoccer]

I saw somewhere online being with a single mom I'd like paying off a debt you don't owe.

[@J40-q8d]

@Sadia Psychology you are so right concerning the approach by us as black men compared to other cultures

[@rushnande3731]

But we have it the hardest that's why we are tough. Women of other races do not prefer dating us over the other races given that we have the same status as men of other races. Even majority of black women given a chance would choose other races over us.

[@JosePerez-xv8im]

Kudos

[@gamagoblin4520]

She knows how algorithm works 🤐🤐🤐

[@Peacepeacelovelove]

I know she’s not saying that black men need more grace. They don’t even like black women, or themselves. Treat people how you wanna be treated and maybe one day you’ll find a woman that you’re equally yoked with. This has everything to do with the women, these type of men choose. When you choose a bird, they always fly away.

[@Ohxinessaxinessa]

I LOVE WHEN SADIA GENERALIZES AND SPEAKS FOR ALL MEN AND ALL WOMEN!! SUCH PROFOUND INSIGHT!! ONE DAY I TOO ASPIRE TO FEEL POMPOUS ENOUGH THAT I ALLOW MYSELF THE AUDACITY TO SPEAK FOR ENTIRE GROUPS OF HUMANS AS SHE DOES. 🤦‍♀️

[@ck5015]

🙄

[@jambajoby32]

The common factor that reduces ALL to a more specific # is the ones who are interested in bettering the relationships in their life.

[@tylercrooks8659]

13:59 that makes sense to me.

[@welchrasta89]

Amen

[@BarlowJacob]

I think this guy needs to look up the definition of racism

[@TivonSanders]

Being pro choice has nothing to do with Narcissism, and is a choice all women in the situation of abortion take seriously. I really hope you don't agree with the notion that a baby should be born, no matter the situation, no matter if the sexual activity that conceived the baby was consentual or not. Furthermore, saying it's 2 human beings is a statement that can easily be debated, because most, if not all clinics, will not abort a "baby" after a certain trimester. A human in the womb that's not fully developed into a human baby isn't a human at all. Those are just the facts. This is where I disagree with you.

[@VilleIvar]

I am not sure if it is the common values that explain ethnic preferances.😅

[@Loop-oopp]

I really enjoyed listening to Sadia, but she has lost me for good on this racist statement: 'White women had slaves so I can't buy into white feminism' What a lie! Slaves when? Who? Since 1920s? What a racist thing to say and a complete lie. Slavery is still alive and well in many non white countries today. Rich people and corporations in Southern US exploited slaves centuries ago. Majority of average White people never have nor wanted slaves. It's been illegal in White countries for a long time because it's disgusting.

[@1tavell]

This is first

[@rudybrown3313]

It’s more than 1 percent

[@maxhung69]

painful watching the end of this video. the guy's not attractive (too thin, poor facial bone structure, etc.) besides his podcast but he's very confident/arrogant. how is the rest of the conversation relevant to most people?

[@apcpa8]

Preferences arent racism cmon

[@NahumAladdin]

Polygamy is not cheating though

[@revelsoundscape]

Who is the black guy? He’s not linked anywhere

[@jonathonwallace4128]

Ive saw a black man ask a white girl for her number and after she said no he slapped her

[@Routetherapy10]

Sure u did

[@Kareena1988]

Men do not have it harder...

[@timuryorkart]

Stop equating personal mating preferences with racism. That's actually offensive.

[@SMcGrath01]

Have a teaspoon of concrete, grow up and do reality and you’ll harden up for the truth because the truth doesn’t care whether you like it or not!

[@tunny777]

Personal preferences come from somewhere and sometimes that somewhere is "racism". See, two things could both be correct at the same time.

[@Routetherapy10]

​@@SMcGrath01 he's sheltered

[@lewislibre]

She really needs to stop saying “im a Muslim woman” because she isn’t

[@Ras_Spinoza]

Okay, Prophet Mohammed.. How is heaven?

[@Routetherapy10]

If she didn't, I would have assumed she was Mexican

[@guillaumebersac7287]

How is she not Muslim?

[@gideondavid30]

She is good, but I do not subscribe to maculinity courses from women.

[@BLUECNOTE2024_REALONE]

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