Cold Approach Without Rejection: 5 CheckPoints Before Making Your Move

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Can you really cold approach without rejection... aka meet women in real life without it going horribly wrong?? Whilst you definitely can’t make every woman you meet like you…
…you CAN learn how to interpret her social cues in the interaction: Only moving forwards when she’s showing signs that she’s open to talking to you.
Social intelligence really is the most attractive quality :-)
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00:00 Introducing 5 Checkpoints to reach before making your move
00:46 Checkpoint 1: Have you taken action to approach her?
01:49 Checkpoint 2: When you stop to speak to her, does she pause?
04:30 Checkpoint 3: If you offer her your name, does she give you her’s in return?
05:54 Checkpoint 4: Does she match your contribution to the conversation?
07:40 Try saying something like…
09:19 Checkpoint 5: Can you compliment or tease her based on something she’s said?
11:24 Some more suggestions for what to say…

[@HayleyQuinn]

Of course some of you watching this video will just “know” if you have a “vibe” with a woman you’re talking to - and asking for her number will feel easy and natural. This video is for men who don’t have that level of confidence (yet) and who need a framework to help them navigate conversations with women more successfully. I hope this provides a useful system to help you meet more women, and show them that you’re out there!

[@Matlockization]

I would appreciate it if you would not play background music, as I find it hard to differentiate between your voice and the music.

[@deanburney]

YOU never just wade in when the lady’s with her friends actively engaging. You can make eye contact and call her to you during a lull or a break though. You can tell her it’s really great to meet her and give her your card. She’ll call you if your game is tight, meaning you’re looking good and feeling good, Brothers! Deanie

[@HayleyQuinn]

there's another video on this exact topic -> kzbin.info/www/bejne/mJPHoGqLjq6Gick

[@harryflash5202]

Thanks Hayley. Good tips.

[@HayleyQuinn]

enjoy and most importantly PRACTICE

[@TomNook.]

Checkpoints? Approaching women is like a war zone 😅

[@HayleyQuinn]

I hear that - women feel the same about sending men a single. It's scary AF.

[@dongmingling4052]

Nope,be more confident bro

[@deanburney]

I’m NEVER out on a limb with a Woman ! But I can understand what you’re trying to teach.

[@Roel922]

Althrough I was'nt into dating because I needed I house, I wanted to elevate my social/aproaching skills so I succesfully started some conversations with woman only without asking her number on the streets in Netherlands using your tips. Now I have moved to Croatia and there are plenty of beautyfull women. So my question is: Will these tips work out here as well? Are they universal or culturally influenced?

[@HayleyQuinn]

There's cultural nuance everywhere but broadly speaking my advice works in the Western world. Most importantly get out there and try. The real world is the best feedback loop you can get :-)

[@Roel922]

@@HayleyQuinn thank you for your advice. I'm gonna try

[@initiatorhater0688]

yup nothing new here

[@maskedman5657]

Nah cold approaching is Dead. It's best to get your looks in and then keep it moving.

[@HayleyQuinn]

speak for yourself ;-)

[@curtmurdurk]

@@HayleyQuinnNo he’s speaking for most men

[@dongmingling4052]

​@@curtmurdurk cold approach is the best,online dating you have too many competitors ，but because IRL majority dudes don't have balls to talk with women in the street,so it's your show time

[@leonardgrant6876]

Not a bad video, however, Hayley Quinn has forgotten to mention the body language during the cold approach and that is quite hard to explain. Also, Hayley Quinn should improve her body language during the video filming because it looks like her head is talking and her body is in some kind of artificial posture.

[@deanburney]

Never offer your name. Absolutely never. Just talk to her! All the names and digits can come later! ENJOY the conversation! Never demand - or offer - your name and bio! Vibe! Feel! Respect! Then later love enters!

[@DanTuber]

Offering the name is a test

[@HayleyQuinn]

@@DanTuber it's a super effective way of checking out how comfortable she is in the conversation; and an easy way for guys to bridge from offering the name into the conversation