07 Practices Which Parents Need To Stop At Private Schools | Can You All Unite ?

[@babitadhaka1831]

I am a teacher in a private school.I agree with you.But teachers are helpless because of the management.

[@umajoshi5325]

Yes. Even I am a teacher. I do accept that management expects results.

[@rameshromeo2000]

No one raised these problems faced in school. You are the first person to raise the issue I totally agree. I studied in government school, college and I became an Orthopaedic surgeon. I don't believe Highfy school.

[@MaheshKumar-vy9bp]

I am a UNIFORM VENDOR and you have truely nailed out the nonsense happening in the name of uniform. School managmnet clearly ask for cut of 25% per uniform or a lumpsum yearly amount amount and vendor is left with no option but to lower down the quality and raise up the price. And school has zero concern for these things. On top of it school takes a high ground as they take this amount as donation towards social upliftment.

[@auxiliasequeira8648]

Interesting 😅

[@ritavaishnav6123]

🤣🤣🤣 maza aa gaya…..I am retired school teacher and I have witnessed all these things happening first hand …. It’s a whopping business out there ….since I was very enthusiastic about my students progress I used to device novel ways to teach them very few had learning and grasping problems so I used to call them on Saturdays to discuss ways to help them deal with it ….on one side the principal madam reprimanded me that I was wasting my time on the other side I was boycotted by other teachers since parents were expecting them to be understanding and co operative like me …..finally I left ….I am better off giving tuitions and having very good rapport with my students and their parents ….I need your views on Home schooling …

[@lawanyaarvind2810]

I Salute you Ma'am , 🙏🏼

[@CyrusContractor]

It would be a good idea for you to come on the channel and share your valuable insights.

[@lawanyaarvind2810]

Good move by parents

[@kalyanichatterjee1711]

Same experience with me 😂I am also a retired teacher private school , Kolkata with poor salary retired now from 1978 batch I CSE from Lucknow..❤🙏👍😅

[@buddybrotales1002]

Absolutely 👏👏👏👏 this is ultimate truth! I was teacher myself in top private schools in Gurgaon left because of many such reasons . I raised my voice and I had to resign .

[@nidhiarora1432]

My son studies in a good school ( fee per month is in 2 digits ) i dnt attend parent teacher meeting when there is no agenda and ask them to give me a call to discuss if there is anything imp, i have highlighted to them to keep a larger window for meeting in school if they want us to attend rather than giving a fixed time as we might be busy at that time. I never do any activity of my son, and teacher says me that he doesnt do any activity to which i respond to them that ask him the same que, mostly kids are not able to understand what they need to do and teachers also know that parents will do it. Fees bhi main du, activity bhi main karu or stress bhi main lu school ptm ka 😀 i have stopped doing this.

[@nidhiarora1432]

@@travelsphere7402 10 rs

[@puspanjalirauto3080]

Project work Home work School fee high Patent teacher meeting Blood donation camp Charity ke liye cloth ,donetion mangte hai School development keliye donetion Children can't go to the toilet during class , can't drink water can't bring.avarage students are ignored by teacher.sir am completely agree with you ye sab hota hai school me

[@ambujsharma2844]

All the points are true and this is happening in maximum schools and i have faced all these and i hv raised my voice against these and faced many problems, thank you sir for bringing these points

[@AnilSharma-ny2ws]

Well said. This thing should be discussed on National TV The moment a child joins school their natural thinking stops.

[@m2abhishek836]

Absolutely bang on. All points are valid. I personally called the teacher and asked "why", when my daughter told me that she was not allowed to go to toilet and couldn't eat her tiffin because only 5 mins were allowed for that. I also faced the uniform selling issue by school. The cost of the shirt was 3 times higher than the market price. When I declined to pay the price, the shop owner (a lady) threatened me by saying "I will report this to the school and will see how your daughter gets admission".

[@luffywest]

what happened after that?

[@luckie9926]

Thank you Sir. This video is an eye opener. My son is in class 3 in an International school in Dwarka, New Delhi and I'm facing most of these situations right now. The pressure of student's performance is on a parent's shoulders and not on School's.

[@Manishkumar-ib4yt]

बहुत ही उम्दा बाते कही है👍🇮🇳 दिल्ली के सरकारी विद्यालयों की भी पोल खोल सके तो आपका स्वागत है🇮🇳

[@adisan9729]

1. Schools with no show offs should be opted with lesser fees. So that the same amount can be utilized in education after 12. 2. Our money is important why to waste in annual day where the child is even not getting the role which he desires. Better to go for a dance class or music class or any sports activity as per his likings in summer and winter break.

[@OyeHoye56]

Truly sir, I had not married yet but me abhi se darne laga hu. I will also participate if there is any reform movement in future. Thanks for sharing truths of life bluntly. Thank you sir 😊

[@unstoppable.boy007]

Well said sir... I have completed my 12th from cbse schools 2yr ago ...... Everything relatable.... My dad being auto rickshawala paid hefty amount and i always felt school harrassed us for their profit ...😞😞

[@varunmittal3617]

why didn't you go for open school and study thru tution only

[@laxmanlaxman7793]

Hats off u sir

[@Ari_00X]

I moved to a developed western country and put my daughter in year -1 the local government school when her schooling started. Here government schools are as good as private if not better and are available at all localities and free of cost practically. They follow a common national syllabus. I did not see any homework till year 9. My daughter is not in year 10 and only now she is getting a limited home-work that too of what was taught at school at week and easily completed in 30 minutes just once or twice a week. Broadly here is what the teaching was on: Year-1 = learn to speak well. make friends. eat, toilet, play, talk to others. Year-2 = same. take turns. give others chance. make queue. look after your own things. PLay. Year -3, Year-4 = colours, animals, world, things, etc. also communication and team-work. Year 5, Year 6 = first time ABCD, 1234, etc starts!!!! no pressure at all. Year 7, Year 8, Year 9 -- progressively more Arithmetic, Reading and Writing Skills. PLus Teamwork. Respect for other people. COmmunication. Year 10 - first time algebra, geometry, basic science, etc etc.....She is really enjoying childhood and catching up on academics very well. In India we put too much pressure studying studying and studying since Year-1 and miss out entirely on the essential "character building" that they do here...........

[@meghamilan9308]

Word to word 100% correct! Experiencing every thing you said Sir. And the education system points finger at the parent and child for performance leaving such a negative and toxic impact on the child and the parent

[@hbestinternetwatch]

I'm an ex-teacher and all the points you mentioned I agree. This is why I stopped my career from 2019 due to the system. Doing seva in Aashram at least there I could get peace and add to my spiritual life 🙂

[@vibha-ff1ee]

I wish 😢

[@9adinuma]

Hats off to your straight forwardness. Keep up . Nailed to the heart.

[@nishantnikam2996]

All the points covered are valid in most of the schools. As said it's parents who can take wise action You are doing great work Sir 👍

[@golu3206]

Hats off to you Sir I studied in a private school . Felt like I was admitted in a remand home.May I go to toilet was epic. You have to ask for permission to attend nature's call. Never felt so suffocated in life. If you don't follow their absud rules ,the teachers try to bully the child . They don't understand what they are doing but it has long lasting impact on child's psychology. My parents were not educated. They took the pain to send us to the school just to feel embarrassed on PTM meeting.We are just money minting machines for them . What they don't understand is that they are dealing with a human being which is so naive that they cannot understand what is right and what is wrong .The child is filled with guilt undergoing all these.

[@Priyankafoody]

True teachers play a major role in ruining my psychology and my self esteem. I had to work on my personality a lot to reach where I am today. I am now worried about my son.

[@CyrusContractor]

Well done Mr. Sangwan. Each and every point raised by you is cent percent true. Citizens do not have an option most of the time because of a lack of government school. So they are trapped. This will definitely be a wonderful series for sure. Along with live sessions I suggest you interact with key people from different walks of life on different matters in the form of interviews and discussions. This will bring a new dimension to the channel which I predict is going to get popular by the day. Your episodes are frank and full of wisdom and at the same time they are full of humor making them fun to watch. All the very best.

[@BALVINDER-Singh]

100 % Agreed with you, Sir.

[@gauravgaming9380]

Sir, first thank you to raised issue of students and parents..

[@nikhilkumarsingh6041]

Maaja aa gaya sir ji

[@superShankaranand]

All points 100 true खासतौर से प्रोजेक्ट्स,एनुअल फंक्शन,और होमवर्क । लगभग सारे प्रोजेक्ट्स तो माँ बाप भी बनाते हैं बच्चों के।

[@jaswantsinghchhina]

Bahut thik kaha sir in schools ki asliyat ka pata chaliya mujhe in sab baaton ki jaankari nahi thi Ab aage se koshish ki jayegi ke in baaton ka dhian rakha ja sake Bahut bahut dhanwad sir 🙏🙏

[@bubblegum5793]

I am From Kathmandu Nepal, and the same thing is going on here. Parents are paying Kalingpong & Darjeling schools extra(contributions) for their kids to get admitted there. I have 2 kids who go to a IB school in Kathmandu, and like you said everything is going on here. When covid lockdowns started and kids had online school that's when I found out that, this was just an average school in terms of teaching. Yes they do have nice playgrounds but they are never going to beat a regular school student in studies, creativity or sports

[@sameerchavan1529]

Very much true Sir , nowadays Science projects and crafts are sold in outside market and there is no contribution from majority of private school teachers .. sports and annual programs are just money making business not all students gets participated .. very much truth you told in this video .. Parents should acknowledge and exit from this rate race of getting certificates instead of real involvement as team work and real creativity

[@MrRavipatole]

Video is really good. Sensible. I commented on unity in parents but you have solution for that we can collect parents nunber for kids.

[@divyanshubhatnagar4601]

Really appreciate the quality and intent of the content! Great initiative !

[@aparnaroy8814]

Though I am not a parent I completely agree with all your points. The schools are charging very high fees but paying paltry salaries to the staff. India must be the only country where teachers want to work in Government schools and send their children to private schools.

[@caterbilt]

Loved the contents. Love to see the more practical solutions for affected parents.

[@meenalpande2868]

Very apt observation.

[@neerajpuri544]

Maja ageya😂 U r great. Lovely topic. ❤ U

[@nkrishnamys]

Sir ji, pls come out strong on this very topic again & again. Jio sir ji Jio. Khoob aasheesh aap ko

[@shunyabinduinteriors]

You have nailed it sir 👍💯 I totally agree with you.This business of schools should be stopped and govt schools should be increased in nos and their quality should be improved.The onus of this lies with us as parents'💯

[@charuprabhakar9810]

Respected Sir, each word you have said is true. We are parents in disguise. Infact I'm a teacher! Would like to bring to light that we are also harassed and forced at our workplace to do things which we don't want to. Teaching is one of the most noble profession. Management has made it money minting machine business. We have to suffer with less salary, more work pressure ( useless time wasting work) n unlimited stay back due to which our family suffers a lot. We can't spend relaxing time with our family which inturn is also affecting our health. We suffer from Anxiety, PCOD/PCOS, stress and many more personal problems. My colleagues also face problem, consider this as Voice of Teachers. Not everyone will speak because our household is also concern for us. Attrition rate is high of teachers due to which students suffer psychologically. I want you to make videos on pain of parents + teachers also which should be solution oriented too. Any support you require from my side will be happy to help sir. 🙏🙏

[@kavitamatai4591]

Nice 👍

[@lawanyaarvind2810]

Ma'am you have spoken on behalf of all of us teachers

[@charuprabhakar9810]

@@lawanyaarvind2810 love and peace 😊✌️🌹

[@vineetamendiratta5488]

Yes. My mother is a teacher to. It is very hard for her

[@zahrabjinu]

You have opened my eyes on many things. It was time to open up drama on private schools.They are just money making rackets without any flexibility for parents.Teachers are a big joke now

[@bhakersunil]

All the mentioned points are the real facts in schools. Thank for highlighting and sharing the details!

[@KiranDevi-yp8el]

very good topic raised by you,sir ji🙏🙏🙏

[@avidebnath8435]

Absolutely correct. This video must become viral.

[@divyaparashar2936]

Sir, please make a video from Teachers perspective also.... It will make a bridge between two of ur videos- career for women and expectations from a daughter in law.... Today also getting a daughter in law , working as a teacher is preferred over the one who's working in corporate sector....but only teacher fraternity gets homework after their working hours, irrespective of working 6-7 hours in school.... there's no infrastructure, other facilities for those who are working in government sector....a school teacher wakes up early in the morning, expected to get back home to cook lunch n prepare dinner ,even at odd late hours if husband comes late.... Expectations are still similar from a teacher, which was there 20 years back, there is no change in mindset!!!

[@vk62005]

Man ki baat batayi Sir aapne. In bato pe koi nahi bat karata. School me dusare baccho ke parents bhi nahi chahate in bato pe charcha karana. Isape aur charcha honi chahiye aur solutions ke bare me baat honi chahiye. 100% correct analysis. Thank you 🙏

[@renusingroha2024]

महोदय जी बिल्कुल सही और सचाई वाला वीडियो है आप का हम सहमत है आप से धन्यवाद 🙏

[@hemantaswain1421]

Your presentation is praiseworthy. We support this issue to be raised on national level.

[@1602parag]

The first point itself is bang on! Very apt thoughts 👍. Thank you for this video sir 🙏

[@mahimasameer]

I was a teacher but during covid Lockdown I had to leave my job so that I could help my son (in class 3) do his online work. Since then I have been at home because the school work is increasing day by day and I find no time to do other things apart from completing his projects, holiday assignments, artwork etc. It's such a pain and sorrow which I feel after leaving my job. I really had to give up my passion just for useless stuff of school. These schools take a lot of money and simply waste student's time in making them compulsory to participate in school programs like Independence Day celebration, Janmashtami, Dussera, Republic Day Parade, Sports Day and the list goes on.

[@simranvirk9005]

200% agreed with you sir. But the responsibility does not lie with only teacher. Teachers get a huge pressure from the management itself.

[@omjitiwari1174]

To teacher ko bolna chahiye management ko ki aap galat kar rahe ho. Aise job nahi karungi

[@ravneetsingh7123]

All parents are same.....some motherfuckers rant in office.... your teachers are not giving assignments....

[@vineetamendiratta5488]

@@omjitiwari1174 wo paise kaisi kamainge fir? My mother is a teacher and during online classes did I only realise how hard it is for her. She used to work from 7am to 10pm sometimes.

[@omjitiwari1174]

@@vineetamendiratta5488 ऐसी क्या मजबूरी है कि अपनी मानसिक शान्ति से ज्यादा पैसा कमाना जरूरी है। क्या आपके पिताजी के पैसे से घर की जरूरत पूरी नहीं हो सकती, क्युंकि शौक का तो कोई अन्त नहीं है।

[@yusrasid2063]

U r great sir....mazaa aayega aapko sunne me....vedio waqayi sunne samajhne or share krne layaq he...

[@Randhir_Guleria]

Sir Dil ki baat kar di app ne. You are great

[@SumanSingh-wv4ue]

Aapki baat 100% shi h sir aajkal schools m yhi chl rha h...being a teacher m ye sb achhi trh mehsoos krti hu....baaki pta nhi kb government ki aankhe khulegi education ko lekr...ye school wale mrji ka status symbol bnkr society ko khraab kr rkha h

[@parvezahmad5326]

Your discovery about common people's pain and releif should go on. We are with you.

[@sahilhanda12]

Very good topic sir. Salute for bringing awareness

[@ExcelFormulasHacks]

Bahut hi sahi bola sir! Need more videos like this.

[@shivanibhalla4638]

Totally agree with you! Loved your audacity 👏🏻

[@nakshgoyal6589]

What you are saying is 100% true .. Wish this message gets to a right place ..!!

[@niharikaverma1640]

Namaste sir 🙏 your point of view is very clear and straight forward

[@cuteteddyieschannel9415]

Was difficult but took the decision feel good after hearing you did good thing,

[@ankurchhibber5465]

Sir, We treat you as our guardian who explains the things with so much passion...Every point is true..!!! The Idea of Whatsapp Group of same section is a wonderful idea which can be initiated. You have got Unique Content worth min. 1 Million Subscribers..May you accomplish soon...!!!

[@SangoLifeSutras]

Thanks

[@Sabari862]

U r absolutely right….correct. I am a mother from mumbai and all of this happens in our school Also u mention about donation for admission in school/ college still parents pay through nose for this

[@pallavianand3331]

Very real information. I realised this before my kids were born and i had selected such a school who has bear minimum of all these 7 points. I really don't understand why parents are still not aware of the basic problem as you always say, in school we are paying and we are only supposed to perform.

[@gunjangovila647]

Which school is it?

[@raz.mariner]

Sir your all points are correct. We are blessed that Ryan school is not pressuring too much but yes they too are involved in all this.

[@lawanyaarvind2810]

Absolutely 💯 on target about all the issues you have discussed in this video...I resigned from a well known school as a teacher of English to Middle school students because I faced many of the issues discussed. My approach to teaching was to help my students but the parents and management did not like it because they looked at only marks and scores and topping board exams. I am relieved that changes may happen due to this video...I am hopeful

[@jaigamer2994]

Sir very nice mere mind me bhi ye baate hamesa aati thi par sir ji aape ne inko acche se describe kiya hai Salute

[@ananthakeshava7278]

sir I have not missed a single video of yours. Keep making videos sir. Thanking you sir

[@deepak-singh2010]

Well said and all true points covered, pranam sir ji 🙏

[@ShwetanshChandra]

Very correct. Such practices needs to stop immediately. Very well explained.

[@parthlakhiya4039]

🎉 respect for you sir... You are raising the right issues...

[@abadhkumarsingh2391]

You are raising very common issues. Thanx siir.

[@saurabhhgarg81]

very rightly said amit ji as usual , aur door bell sunn ke maza aa jaata hai

[@rupalishankerarthub]

hai...kyaa perfect video hai....every point us bang on target.

[@priyankasharma-rs2oq]

5 years back I joined as professor in a reputed private engineering institute. There I got the shock of my life to learn that they have PTM for engineering students. We had to call the parents if the attendance of their ward was below 80%. Even if a student’s attendance was 79% we would call the parents and the number of such students would be 40/45 in each section. Along with the students the professors were the one who would be under tremendous pressure for n number of extra work that we had to do, which had no relevance with teaching. salary was very basic, ultimately I resigned and started my own business earning much better and comparatively less stress.

[@neelamtopal9162]

Very true sir.projects are given to child but actually it is given to parents.

[@monika-tr4wy]

Very informative vedio uncle ji

[@MSP2386]

Please talk more about schools and how can we do home schooling for children...thank you for for this video sir...very important video for for every parents...

[@sourabh3540]

1:35 पे गजब गजब🤣🤣🤣🤣, बहुत दिनों में इतना हँसा बहुत हँसा ||एक एक बात कटु सत्य कही || बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद सर जी 🙏😄

[@Unknownk637]

Salute to u sir discussing on a such topic.

[@shikhajain8406]

Sir, my daughter participate in school programs because of teachers pressure, but suffers for her class work because all the function practices were in school timings, so she has to suffer a lot.

[@manishkhanna5629]

Bilcul sahi kaha sir apne..thank u so much

[@kavitaswainchauhan4247]

Thank you so much sir Pehli Baar online Kisi vyakti ne middle class Logon ke liye Socha video Banaya yah Sabse Badi baat hai thanks again aap bahut bahut dhanyvad

[@kalyanichatterjee1711]

You r so right sir, even i am a retired private school teacher .My salary was so poor because it was not a government school .They squeeze money from the parents like you have mentioned. I was from a convent missionary , 1978 batch.I was fortunate and tried to involve maximum students in class activities, functions, and i was told not to write comments in the copies . The general comments were prefered as all teachers did not have the aptitude 😂😂.🙏. Keep going Sir for India .I have been an efficient teacher with a good reputation that worked against me with my colleagues❤..🙏🇮🇳👍.I was educated other states and worked in KOLKATA.

[@manishakala2592]

You're a great speaker and topics you discuss are also very much true

[@nandininegaluri354]

Too informative, sir.

[@manishyadav-yo2gz]

Great Sir, you are bang on.. Keep educating and wish you great success..

[@hoperdave9076]

Absolute valid points infact i have been thinking these points from time to time

[@AndhraPodcaster]

Sir, kindly do more videos on this. Thanks for doing what you are doing.

[@sharadsrivastava1043]

Absolutely agree with all the points. I have subscribed to your channel. Thanks

[@anushashukla8102]

very insightful video and please give us more information on this. Very grateful for empowering us

[@rimpapal248]

I m a teacher myself. I agree with all the things. But management makes us do all these things. We are targeted in meetings, if we don't comply with management conditions. Our ideas are also not taken into consideration.

[@khekughasumi6045]

Genuine content👍 and also I feel Govt should infact recognise online classes for kids as they are doing really well and their content is great and also saves time and parents can also monitor the child or even if the child misses the class they can see the replay and submit homework any time and teachers are great and interact well with children and parents as well and they also provide a mentor teacher for each child and the best part is fees are very minimal (like the Oda class).

[@ansyagi]

Though I'm a school director myself, I agree with u. School owners today run amuck with absolute nonsensical and false huge egos and auras. They've acquired the skill of sounding sweet and polished but inside them is pure greed. The good teachers are left with no choice but to conform to this system.

[@preetideshmukh3484]

Very nice topic sir

[@palmyrikalex9281]

Absolutely correct. I have worked in school administration

[@hemakanagala9429]

You have taken valid points sir. I am from Hyderabad. My daughter is 9 years old she's in 4th class in a missionary school. She studies well from the beginning. Mujhe aisa thoughts Anne laga ki inko 6th class mean change her to some sainik school. I want to give her coaching for it. That too online .in our school yes they give project work but not like in corporate schools. Our school education is good. I am a home maker so I will leave her and bring her home b.coz our house is near to school. Till now no tution I make her to study at home. In holidays we go out to different holy places or some places to enjoy with her. Sometimes I worry is it enough for my future of my child .we have a single child so my attention will always on her studies. Thank you sir for doing such content videos make some more videos on education system.

[@metabolichealthcoach]

Where are you based. I too was thinking the same for my daughter. She is 5 now. I was planning for army school after 5 years. But the situation of such schools for girls is poor in India. There is entrance exam and many girls are appearing for the exams. But the quality of infrastructure and teaching is not good.

[@hemakanagala9429]

@@metabolichealthcoach we are from Hyderabad fees are equivalent to corporate schools. 1lac 30 thousand in first year. In hyderabad there are no sainik schools in Andhra pradesh we have two schools and in karnataka we have two schools.

[@metabolichealthcoach]

@@hemakanagala9429 we too are paying the same fees. But i may opt for another school if things don't work out

[@ROHITKUMAR-rn6tz]

Thank you sir hum logo ko aware krne k liye 🙏🙏🙏

[@gauravbhatt5594]

More videos like this are definitely needed

[@Pawanputra24]

Great observation... thanks

[@ak71193]

Sir, huge respect for you and being so frank....and also exposing the flaws....keep on the good work.....

[@nitindhawan4548]

Sir u are 100% right. Because of political support private schools are doing what they want to do.

[@caashishbarthwal3875]

Excellent..all topics very well covered. Please do something for school fees too.please

[@lyf_byte]

In the comings days , intelligent parents will opt for home schooling with best teachers available on line or offline. The education is worth of 0.1 % to the fee paid but for some parents school is also a new show off and other low esteem people are carried away by the social pressure. Am already thinking of alternative education for my kids once they are done with primary education in so called school. My idea is to go for home school and let the kid more grow through self learning and observations ….thanks sir for talking on such a topic. Schools are rusting the present of parents and future of kids eventually leading India two steps backwards ….

[@metabolichealthcoach]

Homeschooling has only a SINGLE drawback...No social mingling

[@darshanashetty3467]

@@metabolichealthcoach True. But such home schoolers can be sent to sports and other extra classes where they can mingle with other peers. School is no picnic for someone who were shy and were bullied

[@metabolichealthcoach]

@@darshanashetty3467 Right. You mean we should have tutors for the kids at home or we teach ourselves?

[@darshanashetty3467]

@@metabolichealthcoach Why not both. Parents won't have knowledge about all aspects. Better hire someone who could teach better than them

[@metabolichealthcoach]

@@darshanashetty3467 Agreed. Heard that its expensive than the most expensive boards out there. Hope i am not bothering.