10 Hours of Walking in Tokyo as a Black Woman | Black Japan Vlog | Why Did I Move to Japan?

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

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[@WhitePeopleAreGarbage20o288]

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[@SecretsNarratedStories-l7t]

Its so inspiring to see how youve embraced life in Japan and shared your journey with such authenticity. How has this experience shaped your perspective on cultural connections and understanding?

[@taylorfaquier9194]

Towson University grad here. 👨‍🎓 Very happy for you! When I was in the Air Force, a good friend of mine “Nikki” Tunstall got an assignment to Japan. 🇯🇵 This was when cell phones were a novelty, and still very expensive. I lost touch with her but always wondered what her experience was like in Japan as an early 20-something single Black woman. 👩 🤔

[@taylorfaquier9194]

Towson University grad here. 👨‍🎓 Very happy for you! When I was in the Air Force, a good friend of mine “Nikki” Tunstall got an assignment to Japan. 🇯🇵 This was when cell phones were a novelty, and still very expensive. I lost touch with her but always wondered what her experience was like in Japan as an early 20-something single Black woman. 👩 🤔

[@sekimotowinnie7216]

I’m a black woman living in Japan for 30years now, I have been treated so good .

[@calidawg510]

why do you guys think u own everything and have the right to everything

[@imprisonedone8054]

Japan should close its border for what Johny Somali did!

[@Nyugen-eu6rh]

Thank you for voicing that out.

[@kaesijoo444]

@@calidawg510wtf man

[@XY-rh3if]

I bet you've being treated so good compared with the United States, where not only are Black People treated horribly, they're murdered by the State, using White Police Officers, who murder Black People on a regular basis, under the guise of self defense, fear, or mistake, as a leverage to control the growing population of people of African decent. Hence, the reason I move away and returned to Africa permanently. Inspite of the racism that exist everywhere else in the world, the United States still treats Black People worse than any other nation in the world because it's the most racist country of the world

[@LordRa777]

It's seems like mostly men stare, I can understand why in that regards because your an attractive woman. I think some of the other stares are just people curious. But I bet they stare more when you start speaking their language 😅.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hi! Thanks for your comment. They're staring because of what I'm wearing. If I dressed down, practically no one would notice me (like the majority of the people in the video), and then I wouldn't have the chance to speak to you because you and no one else would watch a boring video where no one notices me. 😂

[@ShaferHart]

A man checking out an attractive woman isn't staring though.

[@WATCHMAKER20000]

We Japanese regard her as a rude foreigner.Since she had no mask.If she can't keep the rule,plese don't come to Japan.

[@ewilshashank1068]

​@@ShaferHart I'm agree with you I never stare girl but one day i Shaw an attractive woman and I stare for 1 minute I try so hard to not stare bocz I never stare a woman in my whole life and the main part is she not wearing short dress. She wearing clothes fully covered but her face so attractive that it's even left effect on me and I stare

[@savesoil3133]

Have you guys heard of the #SaveSoil #ConsciousPlanet movement?🌎🌍🌏

[@nelliesmith5699]

I’m black and I went to Japan for 2 weeks. I loved it and I wanna go back.

[@scottbirmingham7367]

I know many ppl say they have been treated much better in Japan than they would have living in america or the west,facts!

[@jadecom6]

Same. I am there visiting now.

[@TheRealJayRican]

@@scottbirmingham7367 wonder why people go there alot.

[@a281074]

I am a Japanese male in my 40s living in Tokyo. In my opinion, Japanese people were most reluctant to do things that were against public morals, such as using mobile phones on trains and putting out rubbish in the community. Rather than discriminating on the basis of skin color, I feel that many people judge people on the basis of whether they are Japanese or speak a foreign language. I have never seen anyone in my life who throws rude, ridiculing words at people in the street. I think it is almost impossible for you to have such an experience when you walk down the streets of Japan.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

I 90% agree with your statement. The majority of my 9 years living here is exactly as you said. However, I have had experiences where, usually old guys, have said racist things under their breath around me, have loudly told the people next to him on the train to keep an eye on me because people like me are thieves (his words), had drunk people saying racist things with their friends, or of course the random school kids on the train. All of these situations are extremely rare. And of course, people typically remember negativity stronger than positive, and when I sat down to review my life in Japan objectively in regards to those occurrences and the positive experiences....I think I get catcalled or harassed in other countries way more. 😅I haven't really felt unsafe in each occurrence, just hurt or annoyed. It's very apparent to me that those situations that occurred do not represent the country as a whole.

[@rsuz4845]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan 日本人同士でも、悪辣な態度をとる人間はいます。日本にも犯罪もある。ただし、無礼な発言をした人間に対して、軽蔑の眼差しが向けられているはずです。ここ数年、田舎に住む日本人も、外国人には慣れてきましたね。肌の色は、特に関係ありません。振る舞いが優しいかどうかを気にします。

[@EternalScreams]

You can't be Japanese Because they don't know how to Speak english 💀🤡

[@hk254lyt8]

I just admire how they keep their streets tidy

[@ediesheridan7732]

Only that???

[@hk254lyt8]

@@ediesheridan7732 for me it’s a big deal because my country is so dirty 😂 😂

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

Just one reason why Japan is the only other place in the world I can feel 'at home' in.

[@elysiumcore]

it is pretty clean.. I am not sure how i will after living so long in japan to move back to a dirty place

[@Goldieslaxx9]

Americans need to take notes

[@npnl973]

Japanese people usually don't wear clothes with big open chests or clothes that show the body line clearly. This means that I don't wear clothes that make me say, "Look at me," on a daily basis. However, I sometimes wear it when I attend a special event in a special place. I usually go to work or go shopping, so I don't wear clothes that stand out. It's very rare to see a flashy-looking woman once in a while, so Japanese men unconsciously I see it. In modern times, it's not as much as in the past, but when you're glued to a beautiful woman, you can't help but look at it. Don't feel bad about being nice and attractive.

[@astroprotector]

black female culture to dress provocatively.

[@MayaJ7029]

@@astroprotectorno it isn’t. You lack critical thinking skills if you think millions of people think the same way.

[@astroprotector]

@@MayaJ7029 You obviously do not know or understand how culture functions.

[@Cozylush-ix5qn]

Not true black woman are from different cultures all over the world.

[@SecretsNarratedStories-l7t]

It's fascinating to hear about the cultural norms around fashion in Japan and how they influence daily life. Your perspective highlights the balance between individuality and social harmony. Do you think these norms are shifting among younger generations in Japan, especially with the increasing influence of global fashion trends?

[@Yesnog05]

I'm half Japanese-Filipina from California and I visit Japan at least once every two years with my family. From my experience, I get some stares mainly because I'm taller than most Japanese women (5'9"/175 cm), my curvy-athletic build, and I have a bad habit of talking a bit too loud in public so I stick out like a sore thumb lol. I also get a lot of surprised reactions that I'm half Filipino or American. Also, that guy that grazed his hand on your butt wasn't intentional as it looked like he was too distracted to see what was in his friends phone and his friend didn't give him enough room to walk around you. I think you're safe 😉

[@mtsky-tc6uw]

my sister was a model from socal who got contracts to go japan over 55 years ago--she is 5'10" tall with long white blond hair back then--she created a stir where ever she went--the women always wanted to touch her hair--she would get a crowd around her---japan in the late 60ties was just starting to bloom

[@shestargirl8479]

I haven't been to Japan yet, but I will be returning to Taiwan for studies soon. Yes, some people did stare and the elderly did try on occasion to touch my locs, but most people mind their business. Maybe it's because Taiwan has taken a lot of cultural nuances from Japan due to colonization because they are so similar in behavior and very very polite.

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

Taiwanese people are generally more progressive

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

I LOVE Taiwan! I have quite a few Taiwanese friends as well.

[@isaacweatherington3558]

Please make more of these interactive videos of you and your experiences as yourself. Seriously love this.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Ok :D

[@phillyguy2157]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan Hello, Nice video! Tell me, do Tokyo remind you of New York City? If not what's the difference?

[@餅太郎餅田]

I’m Japanese.Thank you for coming in Japan!! I hope your visiting was amazing. You are soooo gorgeous!!! And your hair is rare for Japan. So we think “is she famous model?” “Wow gorgeous “ “ how to make this hair?” And we look at you. You wearing Yukata walked 10 hours!? You are more Japanese

[@gorgeouslyjen]

@pianist1408 That’s is what’s wrong with society, you have been brainwashed as to what beauty is meaning white. Others can see past what they have been fed to believe is beautiful & how beautiful others are, some if not most wouldn’t choose let’s say Japanese man. Please go be with common white girl like Mama June. Your the reason why minorities of every race is seen as less than, because you feed into what they want us to feel that ALL minorities are beneath.

[@ryo5215]

@pianist1408 As a fully Japanese man, I must say that is YOUR preference. Stop using the word WE like you represent all of us.

[@keumjinmi8311]

@pianist1408 Your Japanese is weird

[@christophecharlier9602]

Dear Enim, thank you for sharing all these moments of your life in Japan. It is a pure pleasure to discover this culture which was unknow to me. And i am happy to see that the inhabitants are more tolerant than many other cultures. I am a huge fan of your work; I live in Belgium and i never understood anything about racism. As they say " the sun gives the same color to the people". I will end by telling you very respectfully that you are magnificent. I wish you good luck in your work and in your life in Japan.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

sorry it took so long to get to your comment. Thank you so much! :) I hope you enjoy my other videos too. :) I wish you the best!

[@屋台の林檎飴]

日本人です。 もし黒人の女性が私の前を歩いていたら見てしまうと思います。しかしそれは差別的な視線ではなく、黒人の女性が魅力的で美しいからです。

[@patricewoodson3464]

I can relate to and understand what you're saying regarding racism vs. prejudice in another country. I went to South Korea last year and I personally did not experience any racism while I was there. I feel like America has fashioned other countries to have bad perceptions of black people.

[@upthedown1]

No it is black people who have fashioned themselves in a way that they are perceived in a bad way. America did not do that they did.

[@XY-rh3if]

Very true. I'm wisely traveled, and I can assure you that the United States is the most racist and prujudice nation of the world.

[@moon_0207]

Everyone’s experience is different. Unfortunately some people do stumble upon ignorant and rude people who think that way, but that’s every country. Even in your own. Racism will always exist.

[@pektowanderlust]

If a Japanese walks in Nigeria or any African country, you will receive the same stare... I'm just saying. It is natural to look at something different from the ordinary 😅

[@佐藤田中-s3o]

アフリカの黒人だけの村の幼い子供が、初めて見た白人男性を幽霊だと勘違いして泣き出した動画を思い出しました。

[@iwontrespond4039]

Nobody was looking at her. I was wondering why.

[@autodigitvlogs]

Not really lots of chinese in Abuja no one cares

[@cirina3]

@@autodigitvlogsthere are 36 states in Nigeria

[@acuiren8531]

​@@cirina3get the point

[@l3ubblehead]

Japan is so clean 🖤🤩

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

Yep.

[@malaysiamcgraw1457]

Japan may look clean but it’s not always clean

[@l3ubblehead]

@@malaysiamcgraw1457 😮😮😮😮

[@HeppelhopV5]

@@malaysiamcgraw1457 oh my god ,you're telling me litter exists everywhere

[@astroprotector]

@@malaysiamcgraw1457 compared to the US, Japan is Heaven.

[@jamie_mary]

2:40 I would say sumimasen, because you/I were clearly blocking the way. And he was watching his friends smartphone and still tried avoiding bumping into you.

[@hagechin]

I agree, it looks like an accident. He was looking at a smartphone and Enim was standing in the centre of the pavement.

[@Minycart]

They really like African American natural hair here! I’ve gotten so many compliments!!

[@iamlegend2699]

I think its super ugly and it looks dirty.

[@airyanawaejah2323]

African American?!!

[@Minycart]

@@airyanawaejah2323 lol my bad. I was thinking about myself when making that comment. I myself am African American and they liked my hair.

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

@@iamlegend2699 What about my twitter profiLe pic? My hair isn't done properLy on the youtube profiLe pic

[@nickng645]

​@@iamlegend2699that's unfortunate. Life is too short to be living in that ignorant bubble you're in. Maybe travel more, sample other cultures and meet new people then you'll learn to see the beauty in other ethnicities.

[@WAGISDev]

I am 6'5"...when I lived in Japan there were plenty of stares and laughter, especially when they saw me get in my tiny car or hit my head on those in store signs that hang from the ceiling. Japan is an amazing country, but because it is largely homogeneous, just as we are starting at everything and taking it all in, they are too. What is different is new and interesting. Glad you are positive and are enjoying your time in Japan.

[@jupiterite3]

I am Japanese, so I understand why you get a lot of stares from people. To Japanese people, you look like a famous movie actress, fashion model, musician, or athlete.

[@julieboops]

Your voice is so soothing! I love the vlog!

[@531brlee]

I’m glad you were able to let your guard down and get a real insight by knowing the language. Your look was giving this day btw. I Can definitely understand approving states because people like your look. Great videos chica.

[@kaija_elf]

Love your videos and this one was very well done! You are beautiful by the way! I had a similar experience when I was in Tokyo years ago. I had long blue hair and wore short skirts, and I agree with you, as a foreigner, most people simply didn’t care. In fact, I received less stares in Tokyo than my home state of Michigan! People who did approach me were kind and curious about me as a foreigner. I miss Japan very much.

[@jazzy8391]

One of the reasons I love japan is how respectable they are even to people they don't like. I'm black in America, and I experience racism and just disrespectful people all the time. Sometimes it's not that serious, just keep negative comments and actions in your head. Japan has perfected this. Just treat people how you want to be treated, America is the land of the free but can't seem to not keep this in mind.

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

Wow America's going to lag behind Japan at this rate if what you say is true. Which state?

[@vlonefilmzzz3880]

Bruh cmon, listen I don't want to discredit your experiences but as a black man I have never experienced any form here while also staying in one of the most "racist states" in the country which is alabama

[@massalleh5255]

@@vlonefilmzzz3880 Because they're intimidated by you

[@h3ctor272]

Don't act like you ain't part of the disrespectful people.

[@NinerEmpire5x]

Hahaha, black people are the most racist, so it always makes me laugh when I hear them complain about it

[@jbe615]

I'm so happy I came across you. Thank you for this video. My daughter is in elementary school and loves everything Japanese, like you her interest began with her looking at anime ( with her teen brother). She is learning the language and dreaming of visiting one day. You are living her dream, I can't wait for her to see you.

[@michellejohnson0319]

My 12 year old grand daughter loves anime and the Japanese culture also. Glad I stumbled across your channel. ❤

[@marthamurray7470]

My kids 12 n 17 love anime as well. I want to take them to Japan and I was happy to see this video. I was nervous and afraid to take them until this video. I cant wait to visit in 2024!

[@Songsthesecond]

That’s sad ew

[@Songsthesecond]

@@marthamurray7470 you’re kids must be bad

[@animatedmvs8818]

@@Songsthesecond imagine being disgusted by other people's interests ew

[@sugarzblossom8168]

I remember when I was that age and also loved anime and thought I loved anime I mean Japanese culture but then I didn't and slowly stopped watching anime as much It really makes me ask why

[@moukorigorilla]

私は友人とよく歩いていて欧米人を見かけた時に出る会話は「スタイルいいね！」「足長くて羨ましい！(日本人は足が短いことがコンプレックスなので)」「綺麗だね」等・・ ジロジロ見てしまう時は、ほとんどの日本人は好意的な意味で見ています。 あんまり見るのも良くないことだと分かってますが😅

[@geezygee]

I find it so interesting that your gait/walk is very much like the Japanese gait - small, polite, purposeful steps, whilst staying within your personal bubble with the arm swings as well. You actually blend into the cities you walk around in this way - very much not US gait... I feel the only real way you stood out was a lack of mask (since so many more wore them) and a shorter dress vs oversized street wear (outside of skin tone and the locks, ofc) I can't recall the age you moved there, but living there for 8 years, you have blended in quite well imo 😊

[@geezygee]

it does make me sad tho, that we Americans assume everyone else has the same experience across the globe, seeing as WE still have the same problems. ty for sharing that about your US experiences VS the rest of your world experiences. the world (and america) needs to know!

[@wendellsilva682]

Thank you for this video. My daughter and I visited Japan this year as South Asian people. It was the most beautiful place I've ever seen.

[@cccniko7889]

Hi I’m Japanese woman Be honest I often stare at black girls and their fashion. So pretty and beautiful . I’m sorry if I make you guys uncomfortable. I like black girls fashion back since 1995 ish 😍🙌

[@TheKrista5]

Thank you❤

[@andrewelam1612]

Black women they are not girls

[@SukottoX]

@@andrewelam1612 English isnt her first language, relax

[@andrewelam1612]

@@SukottoX yeah right she know the difference between women and girls

[@josiecroix]

@@andrewelam1612 Well someone woke up on the defensive. . . As a _woman,_ we call each other and ourselves girls, girlie, girlfriend, gal pal, etc. all the time. Soooo... Maybe as a _man,_ you shouldn't speak for us and how we address other women, especially when it's in admiration. Kay? Thanks! 😘

[@LilyAlcee]

To be fair, that's like an outfit Japanese women would wear to a club, not just out for a walk

[@MrJuulia01]

For some reason id say koreans too🤣🤣 because of youtube videos

[@Abc17890]

It depends where in Japan you are, some of them are very relaxed

[@duck8049]

That is not a club outfit 🫡 Literally a summer dress

[@omegab4k4]

@@duck8049 it's japan, not america bro.

[@fairlykirari]

そのショート丈のドレス姿は80年代では流行っていたのであちこちの街にいましたが今あまり着ない服です。

[@BlessedLife291]

My dream destination! As a black woman I plan to take a solo trip there next year

[@plm.nbvcxz]

待ってますよ〜😊❤

[@AngelKaleb-k3h]

Can I just say your so beautiful! Also I’ve never been to Japan and seen videos and pictures and wow, very colorful and clean.

[@EruvwuObuaya]

You covered that really nicely, with poise and grace. Well done to you and your videographer.

[@StunningSilken]

You're spot on, on them trying to push their realities onto you.

[@astroprotector]

she is in Japan, that is the reality they're pushing onto her. if she does not like it she can leave. She is a guess not a family member.

[@StunningSilken]

@@astroprotector Not the best response to give.

[@tatmanbrown]

​@StunningSilken you mean she's pushing her reality unto them, this is the issue with people like you, people stare and now they're racist, everyone is always a racist blax always want to be a victim wherever they go

[@Chezea]

You're beautiful. 😊 Asian men aren't as closed-minded like what most people think. I personally know a girl who has a black mother and a Japanese father. There was a hafu who won Miss Japan, and she's half black.

[@YamiHikariHime]

Im Canadian but honestly, I would have a hard time not staring at you because you are so drop dead gorgeous!♥️ But staring is rude so I would probably work up the courage to tell you that you were beautiful.

[@najjaforbes5340]

I live in Japan, and it’s vastly different walking in Tokyo compared to more rural areas. Tokyo is more modern, but in rural areas, you’ll get stares.

[@scotttowle8208]

I have red hair (as a guy). Almost all Japanese ignored me but when I asked for help almost all people were very courteous. One friend who lived in Japan said if he went to a store it felt like the owner treated him like a long-lost relative. When he came back to the U.S., you basically are "no one". I have been to the Philippines where it was easier to catch people's attention. If I smiled to a random person as far as 15 feet (5 meters) away they could not help but smile back lol. I went to Taiwan with almost no one giving me a 2nd look which surprised me. I had heard of mainland Chinese people touching people's hairs without permission or posing for photos with those who are different. But on Taiwan it felt like people were indifferent to me unless I engaged them lol. I had the biggest smile coming from a German gal travelling alone 😂 when we had a small talk about a hike. It is weird because I super enjoyed all places I went to but they have their own pros and cons. In Taiwan it felt super clean and uncrowded. I did not experience Japan as much as I wanted to but I appreciated the people and cleanliness. The Philippines is a mixed bag. In some aspects. On one hand the people may go miles for you (even if they will gain little from it which I hate because I really feel for them). On the other hand there are people who may take advantage of you. In Manila you can stay in one of the most crowded areas like where the 2 trains meet relatively near the airport but then if you go to the American soldier cemetary/memorial you can feel alone even though there are the cleanest skyscrapers all around you. If you go to the countryside you may lack amenities and a superstore but it can be a blessing being with the people. Ah... I almost wish we all lived in a different culture for a year or 2. Who would care if people stared at us. It counts so much more for me to know other people and how they live.

[@Dangic23]

Don’t know why your video popped in my feed, but I am loving it. I have lived in 5 Countries outside of the US, and visited many others.

[@reeicesradiance8498]

Oh My Goodness this video is so true!!!! Japanese people are so sweet and this is exactly what I experienced when I was in Japan!! PERIOD!

[@alexyafalcon3203]

If someone touches u inappropriately by accident or not u make it known ur aware and not willing to let your boundaries be crossed

[@SOSTalley]

I could have sworn I already commented on this one, but I didn't! Yoooo!! I'm so happy to see your content THRIVING! It's so good and love your perspectives! Keep up the good work!

[@SOSTalley]

Oh yeah and I'll say, you'll definitely get more looks if you're outside a major city like.....*sigh* my city. But definitely in Tokyo, people don't even care LOL.

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

I agree!

[@darrenkcork9476]

I believe you. I know a coworker who went for a visit. He LOVED it and wants to go back.

[@yuriestan]

About the Japanese people speaking in lower level polite language, what you said is true and I'd also add that sometimes there is a level of infantilization going on, like thinking the people who speak rudimentary Japanese are stupid and child-like. This happens all over the world, not just Japan. Wrongfully equating someone's intelligence with their language skills. Probably many people dont even know they are doing it. Another reason we need to be more conscious and mindful when we see "the other".

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

I agree with this. I actually came to this realization after working with many Chinese and Latino people in the US. I thought the people I was working with , although adults, must have been so naive and not as experienced. But after moving to Peru, I saw how people treated me before I learned their dialect of Spanish.. Yup!

[@yuriestan]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan yea, I too have experienced both ends of this.

[@shandytown7019]

Thanks for posting that video. I grew up in California, but lived in Australia from ages 25 to 45, and also traveled to many parts of Europe and Asia during those years. The longer I was away from the US, the more I developed a growing disrespect for it. Things are so insular in the US, that people who have never been out of the country generally believe all people in the world have the same views and predjudices, which to me now is hilarious, because honestly the views and predjudices in the US that I’ve seen are very exclusive to that country. Of course, it’s changed more with the coming of the internet and social media. We have more exposure to other cultures, however social media still portrays more of a story which can be pretty slanted away from reality. Even way back when, in the 90s, when my Aussie husband lived with me in California, he used to comment on how it was impossible to get world news in the US. There was so much going on here that world news was very watered down or just skipped altogether. I’ve been a lot of places, including Japan, many times, and being a woman with long, blonde hair and blue eyes, I would guess I get more stares in Japan than you do, simply because my color tones are more different ti local Japanese, than yours are. This was especially true in the early 2000s, before Smart Phones and Social Media brought other cultures to us so broadly. The only place I have been in my travels where I experienced racism similar to the US was, surprisingly, in Korea, and at a 5 star hotel, no less! At the Westin in Seoul, way back in the early 2000s, they segregated the “foreign” tourists from the local tourists in the breakfast area… VERY obviously. Being a white, American woman, that was a definite eye-opener for me as to what a black person might have experienced in the US… and only a very small sample. It was unpleasant to say the least. Korea is the only place I’ve been to outside the US however, where I’ve witnessed anything like this. I also experienced something weird walking down the streets of Seoul. I think it had something to do with the religion in Korea that elevates elder females. More than once, I was actually slyly whacked across the face by older Korean women! This was the oddest thing I ever experienced. I believe older Korean women in this particular religion are elevated to a level of authority, and don’t much like foreigners coming to their country (or didn’t back then… may have changed now). Being 20 something at the time and with long blonde hair and blue eyes… I was an obvious foreigner, and not welcome in their country. I’d really like to know more about this though. It was so strange!

[@佐藤田中-s3o]

私は日本人です。興味深いエピソードですね。私には想像もできない話なので、貴女と似た経験をした人がいないか調べてみようと思います。貴重な話をありがとうございます。

[@emira_kb]

I am a Japanese and I always care foreigners or tourists from different country when I find them while I am shopping. This is because they often need a help to communicate with a shop staff in Japanese. Tokyo is okay but many of Japanese people are still not that fluent in English. Of course, many use apps or basic Japanese, and I do not help them in that case. But I will always be ready to help them when they need. I might make them feel uncomfortable even though I always try not to stare at them. Some of the staring people would be like me. So is my mother haha Anyway, I just want to say, regardless of races or nationalities, we always welcome people who is interested in and visit our country ❤

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

かわいでづね〜

[@ばかーんいやーん]

カメラを前にべっぴんさんが歩いていたら、多くの日本人は【モデルさん？有名なタレント？】って思って見つめてるんだと思いますね。

[@heatherwhiteway9132]

Thank you for sharing 😊! It's so nice to see other countries in the World 🌍! Stay positive! We love you. 💖

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you so much!!

[@heatherwhiteway9132]

💟😊😁🤗

[@melly6366]

Thank you for your channel. I hope it becomes an eye opener for everyone of all races.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you so much! 😊

[@lygonthereddragon]

2:42 the guy that bump into you was an accident and he wasn't paying attention to where you are, not only that you were in the middle of the sidewalk where anyone can bump into you like that.

[@1010kk]

I don’t think it was an accident, just based on how he had no reaction after making clear contact

[@blessuzo]

I don't think it was an accident bc if you looked stretched out his hand a bit to touch her. That's just what i think.

[@Im-fq1mn]

Exactly 💯💯

[@astroprotector]

@@blessuzo stay out of Japan. they didn't ask her to come.

[@ThatsPety]

​@@astroprotector you sound so stupid

[@jroyaltyhebrew1992]

You have to explain to me how you lived in Japan for 4 months rent free. I would love to know that information, I have always wanted to visit Japan and I truly am a fan of anime, fact " Demon Slayer" is in my top ten greatest anime of all time! Anyways every time I watch your videos it makes me more and more eager to visit Japan, so keep up the good work!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Sure! I'll make a video and let everyone know before I upload that video. :)

[@kastrie89]

@4:19 I noticed a guy behind you wearing an Al Green t-shirt 🤣 Awesome!

[@haloj7920]

I’m so proud of you for stepping outside the narcissistic box that the American life puts everyone in. Big love ❤️ Keep Moving Forward.

[@thorsonthe3rd200]

Ur projecting, if ur uncomfortable with racism being spoken about say that.

[@pektowanderlust]

Lol East Asia is as narcissist as America. They love pale colors.

[@bamfordsteele555]

Not narcissistic?? She's literally walking around for 11 minutes with the camera trained completely on her. 😂

[@ratking927]

I think it’s really gross when people feel like they have to hate on one group to compliment another

[@astroprotector]

the way she dresses in public knowing full well it is outlandish for Japanese a conservative nation to do so, you don't see that her narcissism is in high gear? She literally travelled with her American narcissism to Japan!!

[@KatEyze1015]

Where do you get your hair done in Japan? I must say the city is so clean and I'm so impressed! As a black woman, I would love to know how it feels not to be stared at just because someone thinks I don't belong because of my skin color.

[@佐藤田中-s3o]

日本の美容師は黒人さんの髪の毛を切ったことがないので、あなたで学習し外国人の髪質に詳しい貴重な人材になるかもしれません。黒人女性に人気のお店になったら興味深いですね。

[@VictorZaverukha]

Loved the Hava Nagila music in the end. You have a lovely voice to listen to… And you are absolutely gorgeous

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you so much! 🥰 I appreciate you being here.

[@iammarleyangel]

You are so awesome, I really appreciate you sharing your experience with us And you have a wonderful voice as well 💗 😌

[@misstanndo5319]

I have lived in japan for 7 to 8 years, and the japanese treated me very good, yes they look at you because they does not see many blacks in their area but if you have a friend or speak a little of their language then they will stick on you you will be there best friend, they will touch your hair, your skin, they love everything about blacks.

[@やすす-h5g]

視線を感じる理由は撮影してるからKZbinかな？というのが気になるというのと、日本では外国人が珍しいというのと、体の線がわかりやすい短い丈の服は日本では普段着としてあまり着る人は居ないので服が珍しいからだと思います。夜の仕事やパーティーなら見る服ですが真っ白なので目立って自然と視線が向くのかなと思います。

[@ばなこ-p8x]

外国人は珍しくはないけどやっぱり服だよね

[@LaAraeha]

I love your video and perspective. Thank you for sharing your experience.

[@cedricdrake6855]

I adore your family. You and your grandmother are beautiful. You are NOT lying. I lived in China and Japan. Your experience is authentic, fact, and not to be denied.

[@evensmail]

The only thing I can see is the way you walk. I love it!

[@7GabriEl7FM7]

😌I’m so glad I found your KZbin channel. 😌😏Very fascinating experiences of yours. Thank you for sharing your experiences.🍻💯✌🏼🙃

[@Nyugen-eu6rh]

Thank you for creating a realistic video rather than those sensational video that tries to spread hatred. You are very understanding and sweet person. Most of the problems root from Japanese being very introverted and shy. Some are ignorant. It is never a hate. I feel that those so persistent to vilify whole Japanese ethnic are somewhat racists themselves.

[@toasturhztoastbunz896]

I agree. Ironic in how many people who try to accuse Japanese people of being racist often end up looking more racist themselves by speaking of them in very dehumanizing and objectifying ways.

[@Waos7777]

I find it funny that In the subtitles says stairs instead of stares idk why but it’s funny when iot says “Don’t be afraid of stairs” Btw nice video I discovered your channel today and I’m in love with your content💕💕

[@nakialindsey5684]

I love your elegance 🤓 I'm so goofy🤣 it was like you was walking down an invisible runway. The white dress 👗 very beautiful with the jewelry I enjoyed your breakdown of why they 🫣 stare rock on✌🏽.

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

Yay!

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

🤭tee hee! Thank you!

[@Jasmine-mi5dq]

I subscribed simply because of some of the comments from haters who know nothing of what it means to be a black. I love your videos and will watch them all since I plan to travel this year with my family. ❤❤❤❤ thank you for removing some fears I had and some concepts I had misunderstood.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hi! Thank you so much for subbing. Please let me know if there’s something more you’d like to see :)

[@UnRaT3Dx]

And what does it mean to be black exactly

[@करनमिढ़ा]

​@B.Michael Lewis lol no, racism in Asia is on some extreme level especially towards dark skinned people, they look down on dark skinned people and they kiss the feet of light skinned people

[@करनमिढ़ा]

​@@UnRaT3Dx you would've known if you were black or dark skinned

[@UnRaT3Dx]

@@करनमिढ़ा blk people and dark skinned people are literally the most racist people in the world lol

[@scottmitchell1974]

Being very attractive might be a big part of the reaction besides the normal human curiosity of different/novel experiences.

[@blackknight597]

I was waiting for you to mention Osaka! Man, I love Osaka. I hope I can convince my wife to move to have a small home there. I don't care where specifically. As long as it's in West Japan Kansai area. But it is true about Tokyo. It's just a busy city and people don't tend to be outside of their own bubble. It's more a city culture. But when I lived in Osaka or visited Gifu. I never been happier or more relaxed.

[@nekonoke]

2:45 I didn't understand it at first either. I watched it multiple times to make sure. The conclusion is unintentional. If he was on purpose, he wouldn't be so relaxed. In that case, some unnaturalness appears in the facial expressions and hand movements. I'm sure he was so busy talking to his friend next door that he didn't pay attention to you. This is a common tendency among otaku😅.

[@brnn17]

I just found your channel today and have already watched sooo many videos! I really like the content you’ve shared with us so far and can’t wait to fully catch up and see what comes next. P.S. I love your style!

[@ltcarlston]

Just awesome! Thanks for this illuminating video!

[@NicCanDance]

It seems like the people staring are either looking at her hair or some guys were clearly checking out her figure. You can see eyes going directly to her butt! She’s a beautiful woman, inevitably people will give her a second glance as they would any other attractive woman.

[@audreymcfarlin6947]

I really enjoyed this video and very educational. Thanks for sharing

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Thank you! I'm glad you liked it!

[@bryanv083]

I like the way you walk.

[@ebonyn9439]

Thank you. I had a great experience unforgettable Tokyo several years ago with my family

[@michaelg.854]

They stare because she is beautiful. I would say. I hate our race based society in America. I've never understood how someone could hate someone else for something so insignificant as skin tone.

[@kali18]

Hey is it possible to do an update video for someone who never been to Japan and wants to know important essentials to bring for like vacation. Like to talk on the phone letting ur love one’s back home you made it to Japan safely, how to get a hotel or hostel, or even which places are foreigner friendly to eat. Some small restaurants don’t allow foreigners I have heard. just anything that can be very very important. I’m coming to Japan this fall and want to make sure I have everything down pact. Thanks 🙏🏾💕💕

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hi! I will answer your questions in a yt short this week. I hope you find it. :)

[@kali18]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan thank you💕

[@robertadu-marfo6878]

Great video - thanks for sharing and educating

[@jimtakahashi4638]

_ No surprise there. Just think about this : racism and colonialism (and slavery) are inseparable. AmeriKKKa is the most successful case of colonialism (and slavery), and therefore … I, for one, being an avid jazz/blues fan, I may have racism against crappy white blues (except a very few cases). BTW, @2:44 _ Say sorry to the guy for blocking his way. You were standing in the middle of the sidewalk. Or, do nothing.

[@kingkoiroi]

Kiki's delivery service was my favorite movie of all time. Amazing you connect with it.

[@Minycart]

I’m in Fukuoka right now. Just got finished visiting Tokyo, Kyoto, and Osaka! Wished I had bumped into you.

[@shuddiind7738]

They treat you well... So living beautiful country...

[@johnnyonwheels6722]

Keep going JA! Let’s try the countryside next time. More stares. 🙌😄

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hahahahahahaha! Thanks always, Johnny!

[@4cornershike51]

The only i think I noticed that others might have thought was different is that you were walking with just holding a phone with a dress on. No purse, bag, or backpack. Most people have one of those things or something with pockets.

[@JosephOccenoBFH]

2:42 It wasn't done intentionally. The guy doesn't have the makings of a sex fiend.

[@muanakongo7809]

When I grow up I am going to Japan for sure❤❤❤❤🇯🇵🇯🇵🇯🇵

[@hufjgoiz]

I traveled to Germany with my guard down and not expecting it to be any different than in the U.S. and was very surprised when people’s responses were a lot more negative than I anticipated. I know sometimes people mean no harm when they stare but there were some very obvious negative stares in which people were scowling at me so it was very apparent that they were not happy to see me. I really want to go to Japan someday and while that experience in Germany kind of heightened my senses, I do feel like it also kind of prepared me for whatever (though I’m sure there’s worse places than Germany when it comes to racism). And I do want to go back to Germany as well because I don’t want to let fear or anxiety stop me from a good time and their donuts were delicious 😂

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

Wow I'm shocked, I was under the impression Germans where more progressive. Maybe there were annoyed for some other reason? Germans have a tendency to be particular.

[@seaeable]

I live in Germany so I want to know more And there's a word that sounds like the m word In popular use "Digga" which means homie or dude Edit: not saying you haven't heard it (i don't know what happened) just a fyi

[@KillahManjaro]

@@user-yc3fw6vq5n Germany was one of the western nations that flooded the globe with scientific racism and negative rational against African people while they were colonizing Namabia. The created the first concentration camps in Namibia in 1904-1908 to exterminate the Herero and Nama people. All those fancy buildings and infrastructure in Europe hide a grim history.

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

@@KillahManjaro I thought after WWII Germany became over-the-top woke for obvious reasons

[@user-yc3fw6vq5n]

@@KillahManjaro I thought they became over-the-top woke for obvious reasons.

[@crazy4corbinbleux]

2:35 LOL I am also black and your shade, a little more curvier but I jus came from Japan and had that same experience. I feel like they think with our hair and body we 'look cool' when we aren't even trying to. My partner and I went to a sushi restaurant and the chef wouldn't stop asking about my hair but it was in a positive way? And he said I like the way you dress, it looks "cozy" hahah.

[@Keekee1253]

I asked my grandma today can we live in Japan because I think it's nice and better then the DMV aka DC Maryland and Virginia but she asked how would we get there I said by plane so she said ok but when I become an adult I hope to have a mixed race family not only all blacks or African Americans. I do also hope to visit Tokyo, Japan one day or anywhere in Japan.

[@Raimu_u]

I wanna go to! Maybe we could meet, when I'm older lol

[@Keekee1253]

@Taiminshao lol okie lol, im not that old either 😅

[@Raimu_u]

@Keekee1253 same I'm not even done high school but I have friends in Japan!

[@Keekee1253]

@Taiminshao okie, yeah I don't have Japanese friends but I am studying it rn

[@jjb2655]

They are looking because they can’t help it!! Toooo pretty❤

[@aceofhearts573]

Japan is like 98 percent Japanese. Walk around and everyone is Japanese so if you look different people will stare....

[@OffCode]

I’ve heard from multiple Blk women that have been to Japan that many of the Japanese men,that would find them attractive,would think they were”easy!”It blew me back when these women who don’t know each other all shared that experience with me😮😮😮

[@jennerial]

People are questioning your videos because there are tons of Black in Japan videos here on KZbin of mixed Black and Japanese people talking about how hurt they were by Japanese people and the racism they experienced. There are African people who complain that Japanese people won't sit next to them on trains because Japanese people say they stink b/c they wear perfume or cologne. There's a Nigerian lady who had to pull her child out of school b/c. of the constant bullying she had to put him in an international school, and YES she said there was violence against him. There are several videos made by Black Americans teaching English who have complained about not getting a job or parents telling them they prefer a white teacher - just b/c she's white. One Black English teacher said that a school hired several eastern European English teachers who knew English but had a very thick accents to the point that she could barely understand them over Black American teachers who of course spoke English fluently. There is another lady who took a corporate job in Japan with her company and she said she was sexually harassed multiple times and that she experienced tons of racism as well. I believe you, and Im happy you are having a good time, but it appears you are the only one.

[@nekonoke]

The perfume story has nothing to do with racism. However, if the story about bullying kids is true, I can't let it stand either. We need to tell the administration and hold the school accountable. How did the parents and the child handle the situation? Do they have a channel?

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

Hi, thanks for your comment. This is specifically why I felt compelled to make these videos. So many people keep asking about what it's like to be Black in Japan, and many people think it's all racist. However, I'm a strong believer in you find what you seek. Something I didn't know about Japan and Japanese people before I moved here is, Japanese people overall don't like strong smells, perfumes, or flavor. That's one reason why their food doesn't use much seasoning and focuses on the authentic flavor of the meat or vegetables. Most Japanese people do not wear perfume, deodorant (many non-westernized asians don't actually because they don't have the same sweat glands). And also, most detergents and soaps here are neutral smell. Without knowing this information, it's easy to take it personally when one is wearing strong hair products, lotions, or perfume and a Japanese person moves away because of the smell. It's a cultural thing. The thing about "Africans complaining about Japanese sitting next to them." This happens to all foreigners and is called the "gaijin seat" here in Japan by expats living here. I'm not trying to sound harsh or anything, but again, it's not a Black issue because it happens to most foreigners regardless if they're Black or not. If you're going to be discriminated against in Japan, Japanese people mainly discriminate against people who are not Japanese, not necessarily because one is Black -- although that does happen sometimes too! Bullying does indeed happen in Japan! I don't know the full situation of the woman, but bullying is a huge problem in both Japan and South Korea! It happens to a lot of kids for varying reasons. Of course it could happen because the kid is Black, but it happens to other kids too for having freckles, overweight, etc. All of it is bad, but being Black is not an exception or special case of bullying. To us with a history of racism it is, but here, not so much. I feel like my response is harsh, but I love my people. For me, it took leaving my country to see that, racism is just another prejudice that happens around the world. The main difference is, in my country you can die, get incarcerated, have less opportunities, or get hurt for it. In the countries I've been to, if someone doesn't like me, so what?! A school didn't want to hire you because you're Black? So what? Their loss! There are hundreds of other schools here in Japan that will hire her. There are countless other Black English teachers here in Japan as proof! This is life. Doors will be shut, and other doors will open. Regardless if the door is closed because of your gender, race, etc., there will be other doors that open. Stop fixating on the door that is closed. This is my belief. When I experience a racist encounter here, it happens, and then life goes on. I'm left alone. Sometimes people stand up for me, and sometimes people don't. Either way, I still can find friends here, can stand up for myself, etc. I don't have to "correct" anything because I know whatever they believe won't hurt me, and I know what they think is not true and by me just being me I show that. I think too many people are getting caught up on outlier experiences. We don't hear or see the normal everyday situations...because they're boring. If it was really that bad here...I don't understand the rationale for staying. The BIGGEST thing I could recommend anyone, Black or otherwise, coming to Japan is: 1. Live abroad somewhere else for at least 3 months first 2. Learn Japanese! Many of the Black forums I'm in where people complain about Japanese people, and some of those complaints are 100% justifiable, but others are misunderstandings that spread into stereotypes. Most of the foreigners here stick with other foreigners and don't ever learn even conversational Japanese.

[@shantee1696]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan Even if someone can get a job at another place, I don’t think it should just be taken as a “so what”. Not everyone has the means to wait to find another job. Being discriminated against is also traumatizing to many so it’s not as easy to say “so what”. Companies shouldn’t be able to get away with mistreatment anywhere. In addition, while it’s great you have a mostly positive experience I think it’s not really right to say that just because other Foreigners experience Prejudice that black people living in Japan who label an experience where their discriminated is not really “racism”. You can’t speak for all black people or all Japanese people. You don’t know someone’s intent or the core of their experience. While racism in Japan may not usually be violent, it doesn’t mean that it is not hurtful. You are allowed to share your experience while others are as well. The way you explained it in your paragraph made it seem like you were discounting other people’s experiences. Even if it’s a small percentage of foreigners or black people going through it. Colorism is also an issue everywhere. Asian people experience it and black people of course. A lot of the black folks who have shared their negative experiences are dark skin black men & women. Many of which aren’t from America (i.e. Nigerians) and who also have never experienced “American Racism”. I also did not see the acknowledgment of the comment about the woman who was sexually assaulted at her company ? Like I said, it is really great that you had a great experience and I think more people should share that because obviously most people will not experience heavy racism there, but it is okay for others to share their experience if they have. You can correct me if I interpreted your words incorrectly, but I acknowledge it’s hard to understand people via comments. I’m also curious because there are numerous other countries where people experiences heavy racism other than America but I think you mostly highlighted that it happens in the US. It’s still very prevalent in European countries as well as in places like South Africa etc.

[@EnimsLifeinJapan]

@@shantee1696 Thank you so much for your respectful comment and the time you took to share your opinion. :) I appreciate people like you. I too hope the tone of my message doesn’t get misconstrued as I really am grateful for you being on my page and caring so much about this topic. Although there is so much more I want to say, I tried to keep this as short as I could. I think to understand my thoughts, one must understand what drives me. I am a proactive person. I like action and solutions. I think this information is needed in order to understand my following comments. Being outside of the US for so long, living in Peru, Japan, traveling to Morocco, Philippines, Taiwan, and other countries, my thinking has greatly changed from what I used to believe from the standpoint of a Black person in the US to how I think now. I may have also misinterpreted parts of what you said, but overall I sympathized with it because I used to strongly think the same. I am an American, so I speak as an American. The Africans (mainly Nigerian and Ghanians) I see here are very resilient and have adapted to Japanese culture. I have no counts of them complaining about their lives here, but don’t know if that’s because they have more of a community here or it’s just the ones I’ve met, so I have no experience and can not address that part of your comment. However: “Even if someone can get a job at another place, I don’t think it should just be taken as a “so what”. Not everyone has the means to wait to find another job. Being discriminated against is also traumatizing to many so it’s not as easy to say “so what”. Companies shouldn’t be able to get away with mistreatment anywhere. “ -> I think this comment is sympathizing with the person who couldn’t find the job. This is understandable…but not how life works. Life is unfair, and even more difficult when you’re abroad in a foreign country that has laws and rules that were made without you in mind. In my proactive mind, I think I can either help this person by feeding into their complaints and waste time, classify a whole group of people as racist and talk about how unfair the system is…or we can be proactive, stop wasting time, and find a solution. I agree with you that businesses shouldn’t be able to get away with mistreatment….but…I don’t know about you, but I am American. This concept, equality and freedom, is American. It doesn’t make sense trying to colonize another countries way of thinking. The faster we learn this, the faster we can find our open door to success. All things in nature either adapt or die out. As cold as this seems, my way of helping someone in that person’s predicament is to help them adapt to the situation and find a solution. I meant this in regards to the person who was SA as well. I thought that was obvious, but rereading my previous comment I can see how it looked like I didn’t address it. “In addition, while it’s great you have a mostly positive experience I think it’s not really right to say that just because other Foreigners experience Prejudice that black people living in Japan who label an experience where their discriminated is not really “racism”. You can’t speak for all black people or all Japanese people. You don’t know someone’s intent or the core of their experience. While racism in Japan may not usually be violent, it doesn’t mean that it is not hurtful. You are allowed to share your experience while others are as well. The way you explained it in your paragraph made it seem like you were discounting other people’s experiences. Even if it’s a small percentage of foreigners or black people going through it.” -> I understand many people seemed to have taken my content to be about positivity in Japan…but that’s not what I intended at all. I wanted a realistic approach, just me walking around Tokyo so you can see and judge things for yourself. It just so happened that I had positive experiences in the videos and my time living here…that’s why I’ve stayed for so long. I feel I am VERY careful with my words when it comes to race talks because I understand how my thinking has changed from how it used to be, and I’m aware that how I think is not the mainstream. So rereading my previous comment, I don’t see how it was implied that I was speaking for all Black or Japanese people and discounting other people’s experiences. I completely acknowledge their situations. I use the word “racism” in its dictionary form. In America, from what I’ve gathered, we use the term very loosely to imply any negative situation that was forced onto someone else potentially because of someone’s background (oftentimes we don’t have hard evidence, but…in the US as Americans we can just tell something is racist because we have a history of it so we can define it in our historical context). In my previous comment, I meant that there are many foreigners who understand things from their country’s lens - including America’s broad definition of racism. No, I don’t know everyone’s intent or situation, and yes racist situations like that can be hurtful. But, having been here for a while I have the experience to know that I shouldn’t take things like this personally because it happens to many foreigners or there is a way around it. It’s my personality but, I literally and completely do not understand the point in everyone coming together and talking about their racist encounters (that may not even have even been racist. We have no idea), in a foreign country that is not catered to them. Where do we go from there? I am completely at a loss. What do we do with this information when there is no physical proof of harm? My brain doesn’t work like this. I am genuinely trying to come up with something right now, but can’t. The information is useful knowing that yes, racism does happen….but racism like other prejudices literally happen on all corners of the globe and often towards people who are geographically next to you. In Japan they’re most racist towards other asians. In Russia, they’re most racist to people from the Caucus areas. In Europe, people from Africa. America, basically anyone not white. If no one is physically or systemically hurting us in these countries, what is stopping us from adapting to the situation and moving or creating our own safe space? As far as I know and have seen from my other entrepreneur friends here, Japan does not have systemic racism nor do the other countries I’ve been to (sexism is a different story though 🥲…). This is my goal. Empowering my viewers and people who look like me to be more proactive and solution oriented. Talks on race and diversity education, the solution we came up in the west (specifically the US) has not worked for us. We have studies that show diversity education/training does not work, with the most recent one I found from Wharton Business school 2019. People trust what they’re most familiar with, so understanding that racist situations may happen anywhere, but being so confident and unshakeable with who you are to the point that it does not affect your core is my goal. There is always a solution! *I hope this is enough to answer the remainder of your comment. Side note: 1. I think many KZbin and social media viewers fail to understand the incentive behind making specifically ‘racism’ and ‘Black’ content. We get paid and more views for singling out Black people and talking about racism against Black people. Look at the many videos from other KZbinrs even non-Black who make this content “Black in…”. We’re literally paid and pushed in the algorithms (not just yt) for talking about how discriminated against Black people are. You can imagine that this can blow up people's idea of the truth, and many Black people may take away that everyone country is very racist towards them. This concept is literally what I used to grow this channel so quickly, “Black Woman” and showing an image of me singled out. Even if the situation is true, the question I had after learning about this was: “Why do these companies want me, or other Black people, to believe this so badly that they’ll pay people to push these narratives and keywords?”

[@shantee1696]

@@EnimsLifeinJapan Hi, thanks for the clarification and touching base. As we both mentioned, it’s sometimes hard to fully understand a written comment so some things weren’t completely obvious to me at first. I like how you specified you’re not sharing positivity per se, but just that your experience happened to be mainly positive. To answer your question, I am a first generation US citizen (my parents are Caribbean immigrants and we live in California). Although I do have dual citizenship in Saint Lucia and the US and I am multicultural (Saint Lucian, Panamanian and French Guinean etc.). I do understand how racism/ prejudice or discrimination differs depending on the location. Saint Lucia is predominantly black so there’s a huge cultural difference when I go there (main focus is sexism and colorism. Although, tourism is the main income source and Europeans hold the most wealth there). While I agree that I nor others can expect other countries to have the same mindset, I also believe that some people tend to excuse ignorance too often (not saying you do!). For example, I know in Japan there are a group of people who partake in Chicano culture. While most of the time they are respectful, many Mexican Americans have called them out for pushing negative Mexican American stereotypes i.e. dressing up in prison costumes, getting Chicano tattoos etc. Another example is gyaru culture which was heavily inspired by black culture or how sometimes in j pop or k pop , the idols often partake in cultural appropriation (braids, wearing bindis etc.) and use the excuse of “ignorance” or not meaning harm. Of course all of these examples don’t reflect a whole community, but I just wanted to highlight. I do realize this is probably due to lack of exposure, but it’s still something that upsets me at times. I’ve watched some videos and have had family members and friends who have said when they visited Japan or Korea, they were asked stereotypical questions (I.e. can you dance, play basketball, does your skin rub off etc.) but I also know many were probably just curious and don’t have the intention of “hate”. I think we’re kind of saying the same thing when you mention people sometimes interpreting situations as racist when they might not be (I.e. like when the older woman asked you to help with English). I’m just pointing out that your interpretation, mine or someone else ‘could be entirely wrong or true because we never know what the other person is truly thinking. So labeling it as racist or not racist is tricky unless someone specifically shares their intent. I think you explained in the video that in Japanese culture (forgot the word for it as I’m responding) that people usually like to keep the peace, so even if they don’t like someone they usually don’t stir something up. In my day job I’m a mental health therapist, so I tend to see things through a clinical lens. A lot of what I do is helping people learn better coping skills and learn to grow from hardships so I do understand with the job situation that people need to advocate for themselves and that life isn’t fair. I think we have a Similar take on this. You mentioned that you say things in a “harsher” way, which is maybe why I got it misconstrued. For me, I didn’t mean someone shouldn’t move on and look elsewhere for work if they are discriminated against, I just meant I think it’s okay for them to be upset about it and I wanted to acknowledge that sometimes their are other circumstances I.e. mental illness, age, finances, disability that may hinder a person’s ability to go to multiple interviews or locations. In Japan, I’m sure teaching jobs for English are popular, but I am also sure they’re are jobs that are harder to get hired for due to popularity of the position, the requirements or the status. In California, my mom just got her masters degree with me and has yet to find a job after a year of interviews. She keeps reaching the last round of interviews but the companies always ending up Choosing a younger Person (usually men- She works in real estate development). She still tries but it can be discouraging and my family and I support her when she is down about this, but motivate her to keep going. As someone with anxiety, I give myself time to worry and then use my coping skills to get through a situation and move on eventually. Although diversity trainings may not be a solution to things like this, I thinks it’s a start. The US has many years of institutionalized racism so it will probably take another 100 years to gain more notable progress tbh. As for homogeneous countries, I am not sure what the solution to learning more about foreigner differences would be. I also definitely agree with what you said about KZbin pushing an algorithm centered around race, specifically in Asian countries. I am guilty of clicking on these things as well and pushing this algorithm given I am a black woman myself and want to know how I would be treated if I visit Japan, India and Korea soon. Overall, I’ve seen in the videos I watch, that usually if a black person has a negative experience, they noted that they didn’t feel endangered and it didn’t happen often (most said if a negative comment about their race was said it was an older person- of course this doesn’t mean older people are inherently racist. It seems like your Japanese Grandma is so sweet). I did really like your video btw and appreciate you taking the time to read and respond to what I said despite me being confused on what you meant or disagreeing with some things. Hope you have a wonderful day and I just subscribed!

[@LiliaandNova]

Thank you for sharing your experience! I love that it's been so much more positive for you. 💖 And shame on anyone who doesn't view you as a reliable source on your own experiences. Re the touch: I frustratingly doubt it was an accident. Many men do that story of thing and act like it was unintentional. It wouldn't have happened if you were a man though. ❤

[@Carolsnewssubs]

If you watch Japan vlogs, doesn’t matter if you’re black, white, or even Japanese, You’ll see people in the backgrounds will take a look. They’re being aware of the cameras, not who you are. Some people just don’t want to get their faces uploaded into some random videos on youtube. They become aware if there’re cameras around.

[@renaldowilliams9575]

The camera is hidden

[@Mobik_]

I'm from Argentina and also got interested in Japan for the exact same reasons 😅Dragon Ball and my Nintendo games (Zelda, Mario, etc) everything was from Japan and I didn't knew before someone told me.

[@bullymaguire2074]

When i went to africa i got the same reaction. Although i am not racist towards blacks but the thing is staring doesn't make you a bad person. So we cant judge entire africa or entire japan

[@THPAGE756]

Africa is a continent. No hate, but just educating. Thats comparing Africa to Asia. What country did you visit? Then you can compare it to Japan.

[@RaikaSTi]

Man, Japan is so clean

[@CHESTERC3HARRIS]

Yea you look good, guys are going to look anywhere 👌 but I’m aware Japanese men are shy and there’s that kawaii culture etc. so they’re more ready to just look then say hi 😏