10 Rules for Men

[@leexiong2128]

1. Get good at a skilled game 2. Read a Warren Buffet book 3. Lift weights 4. Learn another language 5. Get a sales job 6. Find a mentor 7. Learn improv 8. Be self-employed 9. Move away from parents 10. Do a 30-day challenge 11. Bonus: Learn jiu-jitsu Now watch the video!

[@LtVadim]

1. Check (MtG) 2. Haven't read the books, but I go to buffets often enough, so kinda check... 3. Check 4. Learned English and now learn Spanish (as Russian native) 5. Kinda check... Worked as salesman for a half a year, but it was so boring I couldn't wait to quit and then went to science. 6. Promo stuff, obviously... IMO becoming mentor (in my case - lecturer) for others gives you much more long-term progress then doing what someone tells you. The need to explain what works and how makes you think much deeper than just following instructions. 7. Plan to do that. (Acting and dancing classes - check) 8. Kinda. Being researcher is a career with high degree of independence, but you still have a supervisor, institute that you work for, rules to follow etc. Going full-sasquatch is rare and unnecessary. 9. Moved out as soon as I could afford a rent. 10. Did that like a decade ago. 11. Boxing. Jiujitsu and wrestling doesn't work in 1-on-2 and group scenarios (if they are not in your favor), while having a strong punch can be useful at any time. P.S. Married, 3 kids.

[@xAnonymousComedia]

@@LtVadim Same, I also often go to Buffets

[@PhsychoSomatic]

Id give you a like but youre at 69 I just cant ruin that

[@jeffgreen2194]

boxing or any striking is better than grappling for streets

[@Andrew_Schaefer]

Gotta say, it’s cool to just receive “life advice” from Uncle Todd. Thanks, brother.

[@chiragarora2827]

I see how cleverly you seeded the idea of buying your mentorship program. You indeed are a sales god!

[@PeterParkerwon]

Spanish by far is the most beneficial language to learn. If you live in North or South America it is the most useful to know. Also spanish women are some of the most attractive

[@SStabi]

Old school game: hey have you tried dressing funny and open with a neg and be kinda mysterious? New school game: hey, have you tried being as rich, smart, shizzled and have all other aspects of life tuned down to the tee?

[@charthers8903]

Old school was so much fun, it’s what allowed so called new school to get their foot in the door and develop all those “life success” products

[@khairt1731]

Natural game always stayed the same. I hate this get rich bs. Im overweight and have great success with gaming. People need to learn what attraction is and how to trigger it.

[@Yasser-cz4yd]

​@khairt1731 you're imagination doesnt count clown

[@leexiong2128]

Old school game: Have you tried acting attractive? New school game: Have you tried being attractive? Seems like that's the actual message anyway. By practicing game etc., we're actually becoming an attractive person. Plus, it's hard to put on a act and women are biologically wired to test and see through the act. There's no shortcut folks. We're actually becoming attractive by doing game. It can't be an act.

[@RobertoMagnoV]

Learn your own language deeply. I'm Brazilian and only a few of my people know the "cultured form" of Portuguese

[@Reformatt]

Replace Chess with Command & Conquer 😆

[@OneModderJ]

I saw, I came, I conquered Or should I say, I saw I conquered, I came - Pitbull "Fireball" 😎

[@edwardwebb5636]

Yu-Gi-Oh!

[@SammyCee23]

Man thats a classic game. Do people still play it?

[@user-xm7qe5zs1s]

Thank you for the rules. It would help if you did more of these. I'd add:: 1) In the lifting section, I'd expand to having good health: diet/sleep/no smoking/gym with cardio, 2) Have goals and 3) Take daily action.

[@ip7801]

What do you mean by take daily action?

[@yahnferral9163]

Ju-jitsu may not be the best for a real street fight but is good to learn.

[@null_bite]

still good! i find a lot of street fights go to the ground .. and if you can force it to the ground, even better

[@sharonlima8913]

what's the best for street fight then? like really?

[@IPetGhost]

@@sharonlima8913some boxing, for reflexes. Krav Maga, wrestling. Jeet or Thai

[@Yammmz372]

@@sharonlima8913boxing

[@TorTuga744]

@@sharonlima8913 striking, kickbox or just box

[@divinebirthrights3644]

Great video as usual my dude, the mastering a craft thing was one of the bigger ones that helped me. Realizing that this activity, & most actives in life have a science to being good at it

[@catsnchords]

I just completed a certificate in Advanced Spanish. 100% it has helped me with women, including non-hispanic women. Women think languages are sexy and it gets them intrigued with you, even if it's not their native tongue. Pick a language that is spoken by the women/culture that you're attracted to, and is also useful in travel/business. Hot women aside, English, Spanish, French, Portuguese, Russian, German, Chinese and Japanese carry a lot of value since they are spoken in multiple regions, including lots of immigrants to other countries.

[@khairt1731]

When Todd speaks, men need to listen.

[@hristobochev987]

Good advices. Also it is great that you are touching areas outside of dating. I think that you have what to contribute more there. Keep it up.

[@freddylimpster7137]

dating advice/game has kinda run its course at this point on KZbin and social media. while there will always be guys looking to get better at interacting with women, the masculinity world is a beast which branches out in various areas, not just dating

[@tinotendamaveneka2764]

Whats your elo rating in chess??

[@TimChernikoffMusic]

I understand though. If even Todd just had a restricted “type” but that type is still …. Hundreds or thousands of women, then the abundance is there to be able to find the person he values the most.

[@amphibious8765]

Todd, start every video by explaining why people should listen to you. I believe you would grow significantly faster and people can immediately answer the underlying question of "why should I listen to you?" Or "who are you to talk about this". I've followed your content for a while and have gotten into an amazing relationship because of your videos, soon 3 years now. And I know if you explain all of the success and experience you have had with women, and helping others find love, at the start of every video, you would blow up.

[@worstnurse1565]

What’s your chess rating?

[@boricuatj]

Also good to. Travel outside of your country solo or platonic couple, teaches a ton of adatapable skillsthat translate to game.

[@ЛюбомирСтойчев-л6ч]

Russian for game

[@ForShorts6]

And who do you prefer for a serious relationship?

[@CoolGobyFish]

@@ForShorts6 Dominical Spanish

[@exploration-pioneer]

Quote..Teach a person how to make a fire, and they might remember. Show them how to do it, and they will stay warm for a night. However, if you teach them the principles of making a fire, they will be warm for life.❤️💯

[@superyouinc4033]

Really good advice! YOu're spot on about learning sales skill I really think it's one of the most important skill to get. I think the only skill more important then sale is learning how to learn, this is in my opinion the number one skill to learn.

[@jamesg1974a]

Money and being in good shape are keys to a good life

[@curiousconsultant7922]

I'm 5/10 going by this list. (Also did some MMA for the bonus) I like this list because it's not the old: lose weight, magically make 1 million dollars, get a new wardrobe, get a new haircut... All these are great to do, but we know this stuff. Sometimes what we need is a list of small concrete things that we can start today which will affect how we grow as a person.

[@cincomiranda478]

It looks like I’ve been doing everything right so far haha! 10/10 score. Let’s go 💪🏼

[@MagicalRussianSongs]

I'd also add: reading a lot, reading a book a week. The Greeks had an ideal of athleticism + intellect. Of course, chess and pocker accomplish that, but reading has its own magic

[@giacomoleopardi5776]

Thanks for your Work 👍🏼.... Good new Hearcut

[@apexander2020]

Honestly love this video, I believe there is a significant portion of toddv fans from from a long time ago that have already understood the big aspects affecting Game and their results with women, so Game contents isn't that much of a need to us. I love these content more and I think todd himself feels more excited talking things other than getting women. It's no longer a challenge to him. Maybe start a different channel?

[@Camontheedge]

This is a really good list, thanks Todd

[@MagicalRussianSongs]

On Languages: It's been said that Italian is the language of romance, French - friendship, Spanish - conversation with God, German - with enemies, Russian - with any of the above. But I think any language can be romantic. I'd opt for Italian or French.

[@CoolGobyFish]

I"ll be honest, I think French is the most annoying language. We have lots of loud Canadiens here in Florida, it's just the worst)) It sounds so weird and annoying.

[@LtVadim]

3:33 Finally! MtG folks, assemble!!!

[@YaniqCampbell]

I thought we play magic to make sure women are repelled by us

[@differentone_p]

gold advices.

[@nirmalasokan1687]

Do you think learning to play a musical instrument adds value for men?

[@Sealwithwificonnection]

Yes.

[@spadeking12]

Yes.

[@freddylimpster7137]

everything that you do with passion adds value for men. even if you were into modelism or some more nerdy stuff, the way you talk about it and how it enhances your life makes the difference

[@random19911004]

Probably. I am thinking of buying a guitar and trying to learn how to play songs.

[@spadeking12]

@@random19911004 how old are you

[@tarquinlawson2136]

Hi love your videos. Very helpful. Have you ever thought of uploading the audio of some of your videos like the Relationship Manifesto or the 'How to never run out of things to say?' as podcasts on Spotify? I think they would fit very well.

[@Paul-yk7ds]

He does have a podcast on Spotify called The Todd V Show

[@RedRumble14]

todd post a clip of you rolling in jiu jitsu for 300k subs!

[@CoachSteveJandS]

Todd providing the value again 🙏🏼

[@chrisschneider3873]

I'm in Europe and the best second language for meeting women has got to be Russian. It opens so many doors, among other things...

[@javierricardomozoserpa8826]

Well , I am Colombian who lives in Australia , so I am native in Spanish, and still learning English , now that I went to Europe , I think German would be very good to meet women, Swiss, German, Austrian and Dutch Girls are amazingly beautiful , that’s right I say that. And thanks for the rest of the advice.

[@bravecarnage6635]

I think this overall needed advice...make more of these videos

[@mikaelmagnusson3225]

Magic the Gathering is the best game to be good at. The most complex game according to scientist at Harvard

[@nathanmessina192]

Funniest comment here

[@mikaelmagnusson3225]

@@nathanmessina192 You will be the sexiest man alive. I promise

[@HumbleShallot]

which scientist? Oh, you mean that’s his name. That must get confusing.

[@destroyerofworlds6824]

it is.

[@AgustinElli_ok]

I loved the video! I’m happy to say I marked quite a few of the tips. However, I noticed there wasn't much on grooming and fashion. Still, it's a great video overall. Thanks!

[@HawkeYe-Xx]

Does balding affect game ??? I m balding bad 😅

[@aichi337]

depends on how you deal with it

[@navjotwarade8894]

yes, but only if your game is average

[@OHHnoYOUdidntMAN]

you're only really going to get shit-test, prepare for them and learn how to pass them

[@the.hamel.mammal7802]

I got into JiuJitsu at the end of High School, and I'm so glad I did

[@chedabu]

One of your best videos!

[@MrMnbv1144]

French in Canada and Western Europe. German in Central and Eastern Europe. Chinese in East Asia more useful to learn than Spanish. Spanish would be the second most useful followed by English in Western Hemisphere. Obviously English for non-english speaking countries.

[@GoingData]

@toddvdatting whats your elo score?

[@jaumetdepalma5347]

i'm a Spaniard from mallorca. i´m billingual spanish and catalan. have a very decent level of english, french and german. Is one of the best "sports" for brain to know at least 2 languages. and.. for the rest of 9 rules... i never followed not a single of them 🤣🤣

[@rajnishsharma2084]

This is Gold 🔥🔥🔥

[@razefan350]

Meh. I’d say learn stand up comedy, learn to cook, learn to massage Stand up comedy = excuse to dhv social proof cooking = excuse to get a home date massage = excuse for intimacy

[@alonsoguemes6486]

Sería interesante escuchar al buen Todd hablar en español. Saludos desde México.

[@leeali4096]

Spanish is a must.

[@MartinKleinheinz]

Todd you look younger. I mean the skin overall. What is your secret?

[@TheGreenAnima]

Curious about that too

[@null_bite]

copious amounts of women

[@user-xm7qe5zs1s]

He follows his 11 rules. ;)

[@regalution]

are you blind, the dude has aged considerably the past few years. 🤣

[@chriba6815]

it's good rules but honestly way too much and will just stress you out. I would boil it down to: 1.) Do sports/lift weights 2.) learn one additional skill like a language or some technical skill like programming which will enhance your job proficiency or allow you to generate secondary income If you spend the rest of your time on healthy eating, maintaining your household and social life, which already includes learning actual game, you have more than enough to do. The warren buffet books and learning games like chess or poker is really just gimmicks.

[@Fire-jk8ye]

Been following you and other pickup artists for years, I've had varying amounts of success and many good relationships along the way, but this video seals the deal. Im done with dating. It clearly is all about money and financial success now rather then actually wooing and romantically dating a woman. No thanks, ill take 1ns till I die now.

[@ChrisGroggyCreaser]

- Thanks!!... :)

[@orysher1]

you are a walking book. thank you man

[@RedRumble14]

why it says USA in your channel info if u are a brit Todd?

[@Paul-yk7ds]

He's not a Brit

[@theedit9028]

Sir , i have one request from you , can you please provide "hindi" dubbed version of your videos Because I can understand you but sometimes , I can understand you more from my regional language

[@kolibritree]

Great advice

[@happymiro]

Rule 10 sounds good, but at the moment, I don't have enough financial resources to approach women in their twenties, and women around my age (forty) carry a lot of bitterness, which discourages me from getting closer. 😬

[@sharonlima8913]

tf! have you been listening to Todd at all? must be a newbie

[@differentone_p]

so solve these problems first? spend another 5-10 years?😆 some girls don't need money they need feelings and support from you.

[@happymiro]

@@sharonlima8913 I am with him couple of years all ready

[@Alexandre-rt7xk]

I live in a small city in Brazil. There is no improvisation class here unfortunately. Does anyone knows a good You Tube channel about that or even a single video?

[@Hermanjoshi]

English is the most applicable language in terms of dating all over the world except china. 😅

[@youaccreteme6422]

The US is wealthy because the US Dollar is the world's reserve currency. It has nothing to do w/ "sales".. whatever that means.

[@david-wt7td]

Did u read mastery by robert green in those days?

[@RedRumble14]

any nonchalant lines to ask a girl i like out via text? i wanna reply to her insta story, not write outta nowhere. but should i ask “how are you doing?” type of question first or be direct and suggest a meet up right away? we are cool with each other and know each other from uni, but i felt she was a bit colder the last time we communicated months ago. todd suggested creating a “yes ladder” with some questions prior to asking her out, but i feel like it may be boring to ask how she s doing and girls get it right away why are we texting them usually.

[@TimChernikoffMusic]

I dunno sometimes this is too sharp of an angle. Like you don’t want to end up in a place with someone you desire greatly and it doesn’t work out. But if there’s all these rules and procedures it’s just not going to translate the right way. I think if you’re like a public speaker or a money coach, you might get away with making game “congruent” and that’s cool but if you come off as the opposite of that, and you’re getting positive responses from that, probably need to lean into that, instead of work a bunch of game steps. There’s a saying that it’s much easier to fake having value if you don’t really have much… if you have value then trying to act like a person who doesn’t have value that is faking having value; seems to be the wrong direction.

[@VuNguyen-fv5jl]

Todd’s looking older now. Proper silver fox

[@allenlin7333]

Spanish is the wrong choice of language. Mandarin Chinese is far better for the following reasons: 1. a language with a cultural context totally different from English that's going to stimulate your mind to grow even more. 2. The most spoken language in the world. 3. Chinese women are among the the easiest to pickup for western men. If you speak mandarin, the level of easiness drops to the floor. Chinese women literally try to pick you up instead. You can be a sub 5 and dating a Chinese 8 woman easy. Zero game required. I've seen it happneing all the time when the western man speaks good Mandarin.

[@artguz5807]

I dont want to date CCP serfs thanks.

[@blackrafsangaming8555]

Can it be good to idolize an anime character to develop yourself ??? I am talking about characters like Ayanokoji or Koenji

[@ZootedInc]

Bro i watch amine and still have no clue who you're talking about. No shot he does. Also if you trying to model over an anime you should take a step back

[@russellkite4191]

Don't be weird....

[@sharonlima8913]

guys in the replies. chill! watching amazing anime series like Baki can really motivate him

[@VEE727]

Idolize? Probably not but you can maybe pick a lesson or two. Anime is too far from reality.

[@PeterParkerwon]

A lot of anime characters that look cool are serious,stoic and quite like sasuke,neji however in real life those people are not successful they’re weird and awkward. Dont use anime for inspiration

[@yonizp]

I just read one of the Warren letters (1977) and I didn't learn anything . I know 1 letter might not be enough but all he talk about is big numbers (in the millions) and how in a very technical language other people on his company made moves to achieve good management . He didn't explain anything specific to investment .

[@atharvbhardwaj4167]

I believe it’s French but Spanish is worth learning as well no doubt

[@CyberWisdom2.0]

ju-jitsu may not be the best for real street fight but any material arts will do it

[@yahnferral9163]

Value investing with ‘insider access’ to freshly printed money ey. 😂

[@iacangelofinancialgroup1580]

I've got at least 7 of these. Thanks! Language to meet beautiful women? Russian!

[@andusavel1308]

I remember you've also done Krav Maga. From a life lessons point of view, not a fighting one, why did you choose jiu jitsu over it?

[@younganton6405]

I’m learning Ukrainian! I live in Kyiv

[@Daniel-h4w6z]

OMG, going to war wasn’t on the list.

[@atharvbhardwaj4167]

poker reminds me of Harvey Specter personality

[@RedRumble14]

guys is recording a voice message or a short video to ask a girl out a good idea or looks too try hard? i just feel i can give her a sense of my vibe better though intonations and all that. i have a good voice and diction people said

[@RedRumble14]

nah o probably would write 2 lines to look not caring at all

[@Paul-yk7ds]

Voice messages are awesome, but usually best to start with conversation, flirty banter, joking, not directly asking her out in the first message or something

[@eugenijusdolgovas9278]

Yeah.. 1 rule applies to me as a handicapped 32 year old man and I'm already on it. Nearly fell asleep.

[@xAnonymousComedia]

Curious what game you play as a handicapped man? I am as well, but my handicap is still light for now. Granted, I still cannot do sports

[@deeblade]

Oh geez… I hate chess and cards. I don’t even think my neck has glanced towards either one let alone get good at them. Isn’t there something else Todd?

[@ToddVDating]

There are plenty of others... find what's right for you and fills this role in your life.

[@deeblade]

@@ToddVDating Thanks man I will.

[@redowlnetwork]

great video, espanol

[@Jaboukii]

Aye Todd, when are you going to settle down

[@EatYourVegs]

How to be Todd Valentine

[@madarah8533]

Doing math every day will make everything else in life easier. At least for me it did

[@jabamtavrishvili-ov3wk]

Todd it’s Jaba I speak Russian

[@bedil47]

First 🎉

[@sutats]

Learnin' Spanglish.

[@sharonlima8913]

hola

[@csakzozo]

Jiujitsu is gay :p Go for kickboxing or Muay Thai.

[@sharonlima8913]

tf lol

[@jajajaaajaaa]

💎🔥

[@jabbersneeze2399]

French

[@ForShorts6]

Is he married or in a relationship?

[@rushenpatel7876]

hes mentioned he has a relationship with kids

[@Paul-yk7ds]

open relationship

[@vpoppv]

Ironically, my first language is French, considered to be a cool language of love, but it gets me zero game🤣🤣. I wanna learn Hindi though.....

[@adaml5166]

Thanks Todd

[@soulsee9620]