10 Signs of Fake Nice People

[@Psych2go]

Who here likes cats? Comment below.

[@ovi5986]

me

[@yumenousagi]

Who doesn't

[@rin5949]

Me

[@auroradazzle_]

MEEEEEE Who doesn't omg

[@heelothehamster3013]

Psych2Go me i have three CAT's

[@jorispoels3183]

When you open a bag of chips and everybody starts acting nice

[@speedskater5613]

Joris Poels when I open a can of cat food my cats start acting nice! 😂

[@doomslayerplushie6662]

When I open my shark food my sharks start acting nice

[@trinis8726]

Bruh im just "gimme gimme" XD

[@erinbathie-moore8478]

Literally my old high school classmates

[@valwowrie]

When you have a pack of gum= everyone ask to have some 🤣

[@TheFirstManticore]

"Fake" smiles are not always a sign of ill will. Most of the time, the person is just trying to be polite.

[@mrjohnnyk]

Yeah I think it's all on how it is handled. Like, are they trying to keep peace or are they trying to take advantage.

[@plainoldcereal9409]

It’s like how the kid who bullies me calls me useless and irrelevant, but I always try to put a smile on my face when he decides to be nice

[@flare_studios.]

When listening to my friend ramble on about her character backstories and her real life, I'm genuinely interested, but I don't tend to emote, if that makes sense. She could be explaining the climax of her written stories and I'd be excited but I'd keep a straight face or even look bored (even if I'm not). I dont know if that's normal or not but uhh... yeah. So yeah, uh, I 'fake' smile a lot but like her genuinely and she's one of the few friends that I truly trust and feel like I could vent to or just be close to 'myself' without being judged so no ill will there

[@TheFirstManticore]

@@flare_studios. I am somewhat the same. Often I do not show the emotions I feel, and this can actually be a problem sometimes. And often I don't recognize someone else's emotion by facial expression. So I think this is a good approach on your part. If you have any doubt, ask your friend how she feels about it, and if she doesn't understand, explain it to her. You may have heard of Asperger's syndrome, a form of mild autism. People with autism, though they have feelings the same as anybody else, often have trouble expressing them or recognizing the emotions of others. Yet you can tell them how you feel, and they can tell you how they feel; and this is a great help. I am not saying that you have autism, or that I do [nobody ever told me so]. But the principle is the same; words can sometimes make up for a lack of facial expression. Or then again, somebody who knows you very well may understand perfectly because they are used to you.

[@ninetypangel28]

i am very sad right now so i put o a fake smile mask

[@osse1n]

*#1 sign of FAKE people - their WORDS are not CONGRUENT with their ACTIONS.* They say one thing and do another. Watch their actions, they speak louder than words.

[@hannahf.572]

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me true

[@leslieking9657]

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me Yep! Or that they said they aren’t gonna do something but they do the same thing they said they wouldn’t do.

[@euphoricrenaissance955]

So true, especially if they try to excuse themselves or blame someone else for making them do it and then try to make you sympathize with them afterwards. Also a sign they're toxic af. Knew a person like that.

[@joea874]

Couldn’t agree with this more. I’ve had people in my life apologise and say they would change all the time but they never did.

[@MindNow]

Leslie King have you encountered people like that?

[@AriPicard]

About #4... I was raised in a very abusive home and was forced to “change my mood” to satisfy my abuser. Now that I am an adult, I am capable of switching from very sad, to “professional” when at work or in public. I had to develop this ability while growing up to survive whichever crisis I was thrown into. So yes, fake nice people do that, but not everyone who does that is a fake nice person.

[@Yoongis_tangerine1113]

Only one like? Lemme fix that :D

[@_..-.._..-.._]

I feel for you, I had to make my parents get along by being funny or cute, it is a skill though. Once you realize that you do it, you can choose whether you should continue or stop.

[@brucewayne8550]

While my circumstances weren't as bad as yours, I did grow up relatively isolated and withdrawn- it made me feel like a weirdo and a failure constantly. So over time, I just kind of learned how to switch off how I feel about certain things so I didn't feel like shit 24/7, and can switch on a dime from sympathetic and kind to cold and critical when the situation calls for it. So yeah, while I'm definitely not faking being nice as I generally try to be, I know how to turn it off whenever I deem necessary

[@kingmewto7148]

Now it has 125 likes it’s come so far I liked it too

[@-e-9661]

I find myself able to recover my blank face very quickly after being hurt (crying, physical pain, etc) I put on a brave, fake smile or emotionless face for the people around me like my friends and family because my mum once told me she doesn't want to see my face when I'm crying. To conclude, no, I dont find fake smiles particularly bad, if it covers up the bad mood I probably bring with my presence

[@ceilingfan2007]

I feel like I'm a fake nice person sometimes :(

[@username1830-pp]

Jake Aruna same here buddy

[@Psych2go]

Really? What points did you relate to in this video?

[@ovi5986]

same

[@crumbreth5595]

No one is perfect. I think everyone can relate to at least one of these traits at some point in their lives. It's okay buddy ❤️♥️

[@katejo9663]

Me too. I never mean to hurt any people.

[@EMFObserver]

Video unclear.. I am now doubting the authenticity of my own niceness.

[@kitcat2449]

I doubt nothing. I'm a dick.

[@aly7214]

Me too... I’m super passive aggressive, but not to people who are actually nice

[@evertheeevee2011]

My foot is stuck in a phone case. This happened 2 months ago

[@white_mochi]

YUP, me too

[@zoerodrigues7987]

So am i

[@elie2368]

Nobody: Me: watches this to make sure I’m not faking being nice

[@brittneybutler2491]

Me too!

[@yaelfeder9042]

Same!

[@JulleDulle-w8f]

kinda the same thing xD

[@treasure7192]

me too

[@Hereforfunsies]

Turns out I'm a fake nice person, cause I fake smiling, I can't help faking my smile, It's natural,

[@COSMET_WCUE]

I fake smile only when my depression gets worse They are common in middle school 💀💀💀💀

[@divishadevanshi443]

Same here bro.

[@aakwok9240]

Same

[@margaretteschmidt4423]

Oof same

[@tambaloslos_channel]

​@@divishadevanshi443 why are you important because of the fire thingy

[@chonkashyohbi2987]

Psych2go : fake nice people are rare everyone: hold my smile

[@angelajennings1633]

They're everywhere.

[@angelajennings1633]

@@chonkashyohbi2987 hey, you can always control yourself. Start today.

[@juliapan9638]

everyone in my school is fake

[@trckygamer5966]

lol

[@faerielo]

I feel like everyone is fake now

[@aer2755]

The world is full of "fake nice" people. They aren't rare.

[@cSedx00022]

Bruh. I am one. XD

[@princesaplantano]

Sadly yes.

[@Andrea-sl8wd]

Word, they are all over the workplace!

[@shawnaginther1987]

@@Andrea-sl8wd that they are.

[@catherineclarke937]

Yeah they’re all on Twitter

[@hastimaleki4981]

When u have gum and everyone starts acting like you've been friends for years

[@jerriiimochi9176]

I just go like Hippity Hippity and dis now mine. And actually run away and joke around

[@love_flower4334]

Hasti maleki i just touch it and say oh no im sorry its gpt germs but it would anway

[@eiwaa4837]

Yes.

[@poohbear3849]

Yh😂😂😂 where I'm from they be hugging and telling you all the good things they've done for you or how long they've known you just to get a piece😂😂😂

[@telescope_6990]

I always have a full packet and an empty packet, so when I slide one out and everyone wants some I hold up the empty packet and boof THEY GONE

[@TJDW]

I’d rather a person be my enemy, then for them to keep on pretending to care about me, just stop wasting both of our time.

[@alwayspeace898]

these are sick unhappy people wanna bring u down at the end when they show their true self. run for yr life

[@retrofan81]

As a Facebook meme says, “You see a person’s true colors when you are no longer beneficial in their life.”

[@Triadii]

But I was never beneficial in anyone’s life

[@zaink7037]

Believe its true. The girl I liked who I stopped seeing after school 4 years later I found she got married. She came across as a nice decent girl. Well 2 friends I spoke to recently don't like her with her nasty behaviour. Found out things about her which made me realise she was never the girl I liked and imagined

[@stephenmcinerney9457]

@@Triadii Then blessed you be

[@m.a.156]

Be nice to people ... I'm on this earth to use people as tools to achieve my goals, and I treat my tools well and nicely so that they serve me well. Anyone have problem with my view on the world.

[@cadenadelreino1442]

Ouch

[@sunshinegaming5458]

#1 thing to remember. If one of your “friends” gossip to you about other friends or people, be aware cause if they talk about other friends they most likely talk about you behind your back to others too!

[@ketereissmore3967]

Why would anyone expose their secrets tho, it's literally unsafe

[@fourthcasper6161]

Omg that is true

[@nicebars]

This is one of those rules/quotes that has never failed me. It seems that people that gossip or don’t care about others are so selfish that they could literally do that to anyone

[@paulflint6254]

thats true

[@linkinlog8543]

@ my ex friend

[@michaella1453]

I don’t think I’m a fake nice person, I’m just an introvert faking being extrovert

[@meistdebbi5388]

same bruh-

[@kbr7625]

Bruh lmfaaaoo same I feel seen let's hug

[@belieall9974]

man, don’t do that. it’ll drain you even faster than regular socializing does

[@sher0712]

Sameeeee

[@kookiiekream8677]

Sammme ahahha

[@daemonwulfe]

The easiest way to tell if a person is genuinely nice or not is to be mean to them or don't give them what they ask for and see how fast they turn.

[@smxldckenerqy7898]

I couldn’t find the summary comment so here it is: 1. Humble bragging AKA False Modesty 2. Passive Aggressive Behavior 3. Ghosting 4. Crocodile Tears AKA Faking Emotion 5. Fake Smiles (How to spot a fake smile? True smiles have wrinkles around their eyes) 6. Can’t Listen 7. They always seem to want something 8. They’re only nice to people who have power 9. They like to gossip and criticize others 10. Fake nice people are pretty rare And yes, I know this video is a year old, but I hope this comment will help anyways

[@SoonMrWick]

Are summary comments a thing? I have never seen one in the comments... but to be fair, I don't watch too many list type videos. This is why I wish I could follow commenters on KZbin... I think it's a big missed opportunity IMO. Unless you can and I don't know about that as well.

[@SoonMrWick]

Ha... you can 🤣, just not the way I thought.

[@stoneboy1708]

Wow alot of type

[@DarthRudious00]

4, 5, and 8 are the only three I’m NOT guilty of. How can I fix myself?

[@sadiestoltzfus9798]

@@darthspeaks6451 Be genuine if you want to tell someone to f-off don't be fake. Just let it out. Don't placate people with false emotion. If you don't give a damn about them be honest.

[@littlebee931]

Psych2Go: "Fake nice people are very rare" My classmates: observe.

[@hajeelei]

-Do we have the same classmates?-

[@yuh6840]

Lol.Just like my classmates

[@cgibson1141]

Same

[@jel_taime]

*I CAN RELATE~~~*

[@M00nD3m0n]

That’s is so accurate.

[@superman23cuse]

The ghosting one really needs context. You can't paint everyone with one brush. Sometimes I drop off the earth bc I have pretty bad depression and think everyone secretly hates me. I want to reach out and talk to to ppl all the time but don't want to burden/annoy.

[@emillozanov7840]

That's okay! Ghosting isn't bad when there's a valid reason, but when other fake nice traits apply to the ghoster it is a red flag.

[@kimmiecherrylilfox]

I wonder if I'm fake for ghosting too. But one of the reasons is that I think I just got tired from some ppl bc I can't feel good with them and the other one is that when I'm in social media or with my friends I just forget about time and then my responsibilities so I just try to keep myself from chat with my friends bc of this.

[@squimbwarftestiballs]

I’ve never related so much to a certain commentb

[@mosaicubaby2278]

In these cases I usually honestly say that I'm not very well and I might drop out for a while, it was always okay, people understand

[@MarcelaElviraTimis]

Same here

[@aminad6903]

I think it’s very important to point out that several of these behaviors also apply to those with autism spectrum disorder. It takes some time and effort to parse out the nuanced differences and making snap judgements based on lists like these can lead you to avoid friendships with some fantastic people...who just also happen to have autism!

[@GeminiPlatypus]

I have autism. I keep it in a little jar and bring it out for show and tell sometimes

[@stephy369]

It still isnt fair to the other person in a relationship. Autism or not, don’t mask, lie or be fake. It causes the other person to believe you are someone you are not. A couple months later when the real you comes out… it turns out the other person was just dating a ghost.

[@doktorryeen5124]

I ghost people so much but that's because I need my alone time. People can be a stressor for me

[@kenshin6553]

You could tell them that

[@btsarmy-xs6cx]

@cinnamon _EMT same, i feel like they think there is something wrong with me because i'm quite.

[@blue_cameron]

@@btsarmy-xs6cx some people see quiet people as an easy target to harass or abuse because they are less likely to get in trouble for it. If you don't like confrontation say "yeaaaah???? " every time they say something stupid.

[@TheHaters112]

Same bro. Was talking to 7 people at once one day for 2 hours then I said to myself. I need to stop. Since then I have had nice reduced conversation. Short, simple and funny.

[@littlestars4683]

Same

[@chri8067]

Sometimes being fake nice just to keep peace.

[@oMehrcy]

Always

[@yookster8239]

yeah!! but you don’t do it all the time to others, it’s just to avoid conflict like you said :0

[@bawicz0]

I m skinny

[@lauramalizia9636]

Agreed.

[@jorto5749]

I don't think this is "fake nice"; more like understanding a situation and help calm the tides. Fake nic-ing is more of a lifestyle, if i understand it right.

[@Emmelmpau]

11: Using guilt trips. And gaslighting. And blame denial.

[@Psych2go]

Those are definitely additional signs. Manipulation is always a tell tale sign. Have you experienced these?

[@Emmelmpau]

Psych2Go I think _everyone_ has experienced these signs at some point in their life, especially from people they thought they could trust.

[@potato1674]

@@Emmelmpau I couldn't agree more

[@marialindbjarnadottir4961]

Doe i agree

[@twiztedskull9063]

I think that narcissism plays a part.

[@CatraIsAdora-ble]

3:53 I do this a lot. I didn't know it was rude/toxic, I just thought telling my experience would help them know what possibilities they might be able to face and how I faced them. Sure, we all have different experiences, but if they had something similar happen to them as it did to me, then they'd know how to possibly get by it. Someone asked me about their experiences with being trans and coming out. I told them my experience and how I dealt with it, and tried to give them ideas about what they should do if something happened. I didn't know it was toxic or rude, I just thought I was helping them feel as if they weren't alone and they'd have me to talk to if something bad happened or they needed more help.

[@G0ry_Kori]

Same i feel you. I honestly got in a arguement with my friend in october because she was tired and drained of always talking about myself..Honestly i never knew how i acted where it got worse and worse..I feel so bad now for my actions back then..

[@extrapathos]

Me: *sees title* , let's see just how relatable this is.

[@lawlietyagami9857]

Laura P same lmao

[@llbeerus7728]

Not even joking ,lmao

[@dudeman3]

Lmao , I literally thought about the same thing

[@extrapathos]

Lmao so many likes!!! ✧◝(⁰▿⁰)◜✧

[@a_shan8662]

OH MY GOSH ME!! I WAS GOING TO COMMENT THISSS 😊😂

[@ForensicsLabwithDrDan]

The best sign for a fake person is when they don't act as they speak. The actions aren't congruent with their words. Look for what they do, not what they tell.

[@Psych2go]

That's a great advice! Any others?

[@ForensicsLabwithDrDan]

@@Psych2go thanks psych -- most of my advice is on how not to die lol. but that seems useful to me

[@ForensicsLabwithDrDan]

@@Cxurtney sorry courtney -- just another step in life to make us stronger people!

[@beautyforlife2996]

Yuppppp. Say they are there for you but their actions tell a different story

[@ForensicsLabwithDrDan]

@@beautyforlife2996 just shrug it off - those people are usually a lot less happy than it seems sometimes!

[@griime3749]

1. Humble Bragging 2. Passive Aggresive Behaviour 3. Ghosting (disapear from your life in a moment) 4. Crocodile Tears (fake emotions) 5. Fake smile 6. Doesnt listen to you, when you talk 7. ALWAYS seem to need something 8. Only nice to people who have power 9. They gossip and Criticize others 10. Actually kinda rare If you want to thank me, just like the comment :)

[@backgroundcharacter4118]

andrew “Fake nice people are rare” Me: Huh. Guess I’m a rare breed 😏

[@nosferat5395]

andrew not gonna lie, I do the ghosting pretty often

[@ozzyplaysxd2458]

My friend iş 8 and 3

[@outatisater7943]

I liked your comment, but just for your knowledge that was a fake like. I don't really value the effort you put to make this list.

[@_DearDarling_]

BRUH MEEEEE EXCEPT NUMBER 9. I hate that shit

[@Agheel963]

The false smile when you tell them something good happening to you. Noticed this on friends faces. It was always about them

[@daschababineca4560]

1. Humble Bragging 0:36 2. Passive Aggressive Behaviour 1:12 3. Ghosting 1:51 4. Crocodile Tears 2:21 5. How to spot a fake smile 2:54 6. Fake nice people can‘t listen 3:22 7. They always seem to want something 4:02 8. They‘re only nice to people who have power. 4:28 9. They like to gossip and criticize others. 4:54 10. Fake nice people are actually pretty rare 5:40

[@Psych2go]

Thank you! :)

[@daschababineca4560]

Psych2Go ❤️😂

[@bwooja2031]

Imo i feel like #10 is incorrect. Either that or i'm a psychopath. Honestly i've been putting up a front of being "nice" for years now. I'd smile as bright as i could, be that cheery happy-go-lucky girl in front of everyone and offering my "help" whenever i could. I'd only offer "help" when i don't have anything to lose and helping doesnt cause a problem for me. And i do those stuff like planning ahead in the day how i'm going to act towards this specific person because i want this thing out of him. Most of the time, i want them to either do me a favour or accompany me somewhere because i used to be hella' scared of being alone. If anything else, i feel like i can relate to at least 80% of those signs mentioned in the video :[ If it helps, the last few vudeos in my history is all about how to get people to listen to you, how to change people's minds, how to gain other's respects and similar titles.

[@MediaEnslavedNation]

This is a list of narcissistic personality disorder characteristics.

[@daschababineca4560]

baa i can completly relate 😕

[@shadowofsilence7663]

Ghosting doesn't always means you're faking For an introverted person like me It's a pain to have a long conversation even if its your REAL friend

[@homulillyakemi9089]

So you just act like they don't exist???

[@shadowofsilence7663]

@@homulillyakemi9089 no, I reply to them immediately once I'm comfortable to do so or if they're in an emergency or they need help i reply to them as fast as I can

[@ceeace8936]

I am actually agree to this cause I don't think everybody who ghosting is actually a fake nice person. They might have their reasons behind it tho.

[@user-name3366]

Yes, I'm also a introverted person.

[@spillthet1098]

@Sunflower Shine it's very rude to just leave them on read just say gtg or something

[@suryaprakashsaxena8419]

1. Humble bragging 2. Passive aggresive behavior 3. Ghosting 4. Crocodile tears 5. Fake smile 6. Not really listen 7. They always seem to want something. 8. They are only nice to people who have power. 9. They like to gossip and criticize other. 10. Fake nice people are rare.

[@jamestaylor2455]

Unfortunately cause I'm a musician in San Francisco CA playing Saxophone, there are plenty of fake nice people here, especially the techies.....and 85% of the bay area people have all ten of those qualities about them

[@naileamartinez2771]

Backhanded aswell

[@bria4776]

Oh my days

[@winning3329]

Sounds like everyone in California

[@noonegirl]

Thank you 😊

[@tomrodgers6629]

Fake nice people are not as rare as you think. I have been dealing with these weasels for years. The internet is great tool for these cowards.

[@brandonhoman3362]

Just because someone ghosted you does not mean that they're "a fake nice person". They could be dealing with depression and other mental problems and may just need some space.

[@-dfh-866]

Exactly what I said. I was kinda offended BC more times its BC of depression or in my case social anxiety. If I didn't like someone I wouldn't pretend to be nice, I jst wouldn't tlk to them. Why waste my time trying to make ppl I dnt like, like me by being fake nice to them? Stupid

[@jaosjkxjzfo]

It’s just one more signal. It doesn’t mean that if one of all these 10 signals happen, they are fake nice people.

[@chand3123k]

Thank you. When ghosting was on here. I was like wtf? People go through things, and they have to take time to disappear and go on their journey. It doesn't mean the time they spent with you, they weren't being genuinely kind.

[@Pink_Oof]

Yeah

[@tylerw800]

Okay but it’s not hard to say that you need space or don’t want to talk currently lol

[@Drawmatic]

**Me realizing that all of my "friends" are like this*

[@damgam98]

Yea...

[@beidoumimujer7783]

Yea 😔

[@CatKasst]

Drawmatic yeah ;~;

[@terrarianangel8274]

F's in the chat

[@shaneakin19]

Stop making it too relatable XD I have like 2-3 real friends

[@Liz_marshmallow_and_Raven]

Fake smiles can also be a sign of depression and ghosting could also be a sign of anxiety.

[@seefathgazalee8075]

Fake friends are like shadows. They follow u in the sun but leave u in the dark.

[@cup1d.181]

That's deep.

[@jacquelineburns7598]

oh very powerful this true and very painful when it happens to you.

[@MyEgoRules]

Omg I love this answer 🥰

[@lazaresofthewest7678]

I’m talking about my “friends” to clear things up

[@ball396]

Woah those are some deep words

[@soundaddiktion2006]

"Ghosting" could just be because that person is also very depressed and feel so ashamed of their inactivity that they do not want to engage with others because they value their actions more than their words and have done nothing to show their value and the cycle continues. I ghost often, not because I want to. But because of being unwell.

[@theelite5135]

Im not sure if this might help, but I always tell my friends that I will be offline for some time due to how I’m feeling

[@Williamwestp24]

@Arron Asham KO Good Night Jay Beagle So are you ready to handle the truth? "YOU CAN"T HANDLE THE TRUTH". 😄 Joking but I agree with you that it just best to be open and honest regardless how that person feels.

[@joel8708]

It could be

[@NoBody-ex4wt]

I actually deleted most of my social media because it would affect me to compare myself to other peoples lives then when I deleted it, it made me realize that nun of that mattered. It’s still hard but it’s not as bad as it was before. I might be addicted to my phone😬 or lazy

[@ShadowPhoenix82]

People here say "just be honest" but it sounds like that's meant to be simple. Like "JUST be honest! I am very accepting of the truth." But you aren't the one they are trying to interact with, and a lack of trust and security means for them it feels safer to ghost the friend than to be attacked for being horrible or further burdening the friend. It's a similar mentality to suicide, but they just stop at killing the relationship. Ghost. So yeah. Not simple, unfortunately.

[@princesaplantano]

"Fake people are rare." Me who is always surrounded by fake people: *actually-*

[@EvilFlurffyKitten2256]

Fake *nice* people.

[@sethvin4593]

I feel you

[@BlackOmEga_2099]

And nice people are more rare.

[@lightly7717]

Omg same my friends always want money and are nice to people with power

[@BlackOmEga_2099]

Jake man i wish i had people like that. I’m true to myself all the time but it just feels like everyone leaves me because I’m not good enough for them

[@parkerkeele5924]

I’ve lived with and around a lot of fake nice people, and I’m dealing with the aftermath of one right now. Don’t let yourself get taken advantage of when you are trying to be genuinely kind. People are really good at building up a good, fake reputation for themselves.

[@fightnight6496]

This makes me want to die. I thought I was being nice. I'm passive agressive I fake a smile I put in my input to help people out with life

[@Nathan-tj7ie]

You know your heart and intentions. If you mean it in a good way with no ill intentions then you're fine.

[@dezert956]

Same

[@jgyapologist7946]

Me too! I get you man, I feel shitty now

[@ikazuchi-san5772]

She said that in most cases these are signs that the person is, probably, a fake friend but that doesnt mean every case is a case of false friendship. Dont worry if you do these with good intentions then youre not a fake

[@cgibson1141]

Same

[@saraphiquell8712]

“Fake nice people fake their emotion” *Actors:*

[@gerardgmz]

Hupokrisis in Greek: acting of a theatrical part. The word hypocrisy originated from this.

[@fartmomentum7510]

i have a friend named abram and he always criticizes people even me and my other friends and we got in a fight about it if he talks crap about me or my friend again its treason then

[@deadcell1]

"It's better to be hated for what you are than loved for what you're not" - Andre Gide

[@birdlover6842]

Good point. I would rather be loved for what I am not but I have cluster B personality disorders.

[@YourMid]

Not really. You should never be yourself. Always change yourself and act normal and people like you

[@alexanderavila8934]

Goofy ahhnimations no way man, at the end of the day you’d serve the consequences they eventually will themselves

[@YourMid]

@@alexanderavila8934 I re-read your comment more than 10 times and I can't even understand it yet-

[@fellsino]

i thought kurt who said that 💀

[@Reggae023]

Sometimes I act nice to people because they are annoying but I don’t want to hurt their feelings

[@nothingsofar8535]

Fake nice guy: "taking notes" on what not to do.

[@InvalidPersistentName]

Hehehehheheh

[@DyingNakama]

That’s so dangerous 😰

[@artiscrutial]

nothing SO FAR 🤣😂

[@brendabalzan1994]

@Caleb Pederson or Game of Thorns...

[@brendabalzan1994]

@Ukreain Iowen Nice guy syndrome... Entitled guy cause "he is nice", and can't see or accept their fault.

[@melissawaters7405]

Ghosting may be done because introvert...or social anxiety..

[@personwholikesgames268]

Melissa Sayide Or Depression

[@bottsou1257]

Ghosting is an irresponsible way to act in healthy relationships. In adolescence, it can be moreso detrimental, as people who are not fully emotionally matured are likely to react disproportionately to it and assume the worst (I’m being ignored, I’m unwanted! They think I’m annoying,), which creates tension and cultivates resentment or self-esteem issues on both sides. If you care enough about someone, you must have the courage to be honest with them and tell them that you will not always be available. Be reassuring that it isn’t their fault. If they are a true friend then they will understand and be supportive of you. If they do not understand this, or do not empathize with your condition (be it introversion, disability, SAD/GAD, etc) then they are not the type of friend you will want in your life for the long term. Do not be afraid to let people know directly when you are struggling or need alone time. Not only will it improve your social skills but it will show you who your true friends are.

[@MaximuzGW]

I have a lot of introvert friends. They never ghosting because introvert prefer texting than actually speaking face to face. Meanwhile, my extrovert friend never respond to my text unless he is the one who need help. He also tend to be more friendly with people with higher power. I really agree with this video.

[@Opinionated05]

zio kaelani hey not all extrovert are like that ok. My bff is an extrovert but, she is still answers all my text and help people when they need ok.

[@MaximuzGW]

@@Opinionated05 i did not say that all extrovert are fake nice people. You misinterpret my comment. I take one of my extrovet friend just for an example.

[@rinhd1977]

This is how you teach people. School should take notes

[@Psych2go]

So what did you learn today? :)

[@rinhd1977]

@@Psych2go All of it. Your voice so calm and blissful

[@nicebars]

Agreed. She has an awesome voice and also if kids understood psychology that applies to everyday social situations like this it would help tremendously with their daily lives and careers..

[@northshift]

Why would they? Schools(private) and unis are just a form of business now

[@Anna-nw1ge]

True.. KZbin has better teachers .. and moreover better lessons # *life lessons*

[@anushkasapre7421]

I often worry that I'm fake in my niceness. This video is a great introduction to your topic. If Psych2Go is up for suggestions, could you cover something on how to gauge one's authenticity and genuineness with sentiments?

[@norahammes2029]

"Ghosting" I sometimes just freaking forget answering texts and I hate it lmao

[@sunfruit83]

sometimes ur phone gets confiscated and u cant do anything about it

[@moved7820]

Same lmao

[@andreasleonlandgren3092]

This is a humble brag.

[@adrianaaleksandrova9670]

Or sometimes you can truly understand and appreciate someone without wanting any relationship with them, but people start to expect too much from you.

[@BloomTotallyHere]

Yea same

[@foodngems]

I prefer people who are open about being not nice. They are the most honest people!

[@TiffanyRay]

Yup then i can stay the fuck anyway from them

[@kzhe]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/p6q8eYqhi7yEatE

[@kookiemons9315]

Sometimes these kind of "honest'' people are just rude and pretend they are honest.

[@foodngems]

@@kookiemons9315 they are rude but at least not fake. Both are bad, but one is a better poison than the other I suppose

[@foodngems]

@SHERINA BT SHERIDAN - I think I'd just avoid people like that. It's easier to spot them and not waste energy in them 🙂

[@sanaf8127]

I ghost people but that's more social anxiety than being rude 😢

[@reishidesu]

Sana F I agree. When people get too close to me or when I feel obligated to chat with them routinely, I become uncomfortable and drained. So I avoid them.

[@therealmickey8213]

Sana F mine is cuz I’m to depressed to even pick up my phone and reply like I see the messages but I just don’t have the mindset or energy to reply

[@shadybeashooketh1911]

@@reishidesu i don't ghost cause that's out of order imo i just emotionally distance myself from them

[@shadybeashooketh1911]

@Daniel Embree you don't know them you dickhead

[@shaharothe-khan4139]

It’s rude to ghost people whether you have anxiety or not

[@kristenglenn7026]

For anybody interested in subjects like this I recommend a book called The Four Agreements. The author talks about the way people treat you or what they think about you-the thought from the Toltec (an ancient spiritual set of beliefs) it blew me away what the author stated how you should feel when people say something bad or good about you or to you. It has made me not care what others think be it bad or good (as much as humanely possible) & to only care about how you view yourself! Assumption is another thing! Wow! How I could’ve saved myself some serious drama when i was younger if i knew to never assume! For some reason this video reminded me of this book & those 2 subjects in particular. Just thought I’d share. It’s not a religious book by any means but more a book of the soul or spirit & of self

[@cute511teddy]

Thank you. Same situations. I was stressed over same. Will check that book. ❤

[@Kit91180]

Sometimes people ghost for logical reasons though. I feel like that’s not always dependable for a fake nice person because it could depend on the situation

[@BlueBlue13]

Jacqui I agree, I have ghosted people due to personal safety reasons. Sometimes it’s the only option in this situation

[@Kit91180]

@@BlueBlue13 that's the same exact reason why I've ghosted

[@thatguyben7754]

Sometimes I ghost out of protecting the other person. Sometimes i get in a mood and say things I don’t mean, which can be really hurtful, so it’s for there own good. And I’d rather not say I didn’t mean it after, as that’s not believable really

[@Kit91180]

ThatGuyBen true. Actually that’s also another good point in that sometimes people need space so that they can let that person be on there own. Like I recently broke up, and I think that giving him a chance to think about it on his own is needed. He kept trying to convince me to stay, and I told him no, and now we aren’t talking, but I think he needs that to heal.

[@thatguyben7754]

Jacqui I mean, I actually ruined my last relationship quite early, as I wasn’t in the mood and I basically blamed her for everything wrong in my life. I still feel bad about it today, and that’s why I don’t talk to people when I’m like that anymore

[@cIeetz]

the part about people breaking you down to make themselves look or feel better is 100% accurate. however someone who has manic mood swings can still be a genuinely nice person who is just unbalanced

[@S_u_n_Flower_]

Yeah my friends do all this crap to me

[@Smeowling]

@@S_u_n_Flower_ it could be an excuse for all you know

[@Itsyaboysuper]

Yes , exactly

[@goblinwrecks698]

I actually have manic moodswings and that has to do with my lack of sleep. I only sleep for like 6 hours and whenever I go to work and see people I really don't like, I become cantankerous and quick to anger.

[@squeezeliz]

Can this just be toxic behavior and unexcused

[@gabby_5820]

"Fake friends fake their smiles" Depression: Uh huh.

[@MasaUnix]

I normally can't laugh, I am usually very depressed to actually laught at something and always fake my smiles/laugh

[@gabby_5820]

@@MasaUnix Lol, i can't laugh because I get super hyper because of that lul

[@gabby_5820]

@I love Angelique Cool.

[@nencrows_4580]

@I love Angelique Same

[@ninetypangel28]

i have a real deppretion my dad died i had someone try to kill me and i just put on a smile fake mask

[@Shinnyuu2]

Having a fake smile doesn’t always mean you’re not nice. It could just mean you’re depressed and the weight of the world has crushed your gentle spirit.

[@hauntedlust]

"Fake people often don't listen" Deaf people: *What?*

[@imaginarychip4916]

Lol this is so underrated

[@hauntedlust]

@@imaginarychip4916 UwU

[@shirleywong4333]

real people often don't talk

[@chakydd]

Perfect lmfao

[@pedroriku3191]

???

[@zuko1569]

Someone gave me diamonds in Minecraft the next day he pushed me into the lava.

[@Hello-rw2th]

Zuzu the biggest betrayal of all...

[@louiselavigne5085]

what in the world

[@danimato1833]

Just stop following me your are the new Justin Y. CMON STAY AWAY FROM ME I AM WAITING FOR HATARAKU SAIBOU SEASON 2

[@nicolevanderwesthuizen3016]

*Top 10 anime betrayals* But seriously, HOW DARE HEEEEE!😡

[@aurellianarujan6226]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@camismith5338]

I think bragging is a turn off whether it's humble or genuine. If you are that great you won't need to broadcast it.

[@mobileaccount3217]

Super true.

[@mobileaccount3217]

All my colleagues brag all the time like they're the shit, when in reality, they ain't shit. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@camismith5338]

@@mobileaccount3217 lol I know the type

[@bunniallure]

Yea, beautiful things don't need to cry for attention. 🙌

[@camismith5338]

@@bunniallure 🙌🙌🙌

[@blaqjade1384]

Fake nice people get on my nerves pretending to be helpful when really they're trying to be controlling. They want to take pictures of you and everyone else but don't want to get in the picture. They want you to come to their house for a party because they can control who enters and who they put out. Their generosity is always tethered to some ulterior motive that you are unaware of at the time when you accept their generosity. Fake nice people are those people that nobody feels that they can criticize for their phoniness but everyone has gotten a taste of their venom but are afraid to stand up to them.

[@albedos4incher715]

I'm a fake nice person, and holy heck, this made me feel very attacked. I never realized how much of a fake person I was until I watched this, now I feel bad.

[@tochiitea5786]

at least you're self aware, that's a start. people can change, and as long as you know what you're doing is wrong and you want to change, then you can! it's never too late to change for the better!

[@Sunnylucy]

Well at least you are man enough to admit it… now THAT'S rare! Good on you~

[@null8694]

Ingrid Weiner damn relax

[@itsjuupiter]

Ingrid Weiner no one deserves to die

[@Nine-dq4lj]

Its oke as long as you learn your wrong

[@titlespree]

No matter how much fake people try to be nice, you can just feel negative energy coming from them!

[@mehreenfatima7503]

So true

[@nicebars]

Exactly. Everything is energy. Your gut will tell you if something is off

[@EchthelionII]

I completely agree. That's one of the reasons I prefer to talk face to face, even though I hate doing that.

[@r.t.5767]

@@EchthelionII Exactly the same here, except I hate writing (when I know I can meet her/him), and like to talk face to face I don't like even phone calling, just face to face :D

[@lifestories5189]

Your black

[@josephaldrich4023]

This sounds more like a narcisist rather than "fake nice people".

[@justacinnamonbun8658]

Indeed, this video is mistitled. Video should be titled *"10 Signs of Someone with Bipolar Disorder with Narcissistic Tendency."* Don't ask me how I know. 😐

[@asmrtpop2676]

Leonel Ventura covert narcissists are fake nice.

@Jessica Smith Do you know that only 1% of church goers actually worship God and the rest are there for other reasons besides God? you'll meet 9 out of 10 in church are fake nice people who march to their own holiness. Be careful who you confide. Let the Holy Spirit guide you.

[@kovenmaitreya7184]

Narcissist are the poster children for "fake nice". But then again, they are just fake in general.

[@daotin2997]

Admitting to it is a brave thing rather no hide it.

[@greylizard1040]

A warning sign can also be if someone treats almost everyone else in their life poorly and expresses a cruel hatred towards the majority of people for just existing, but is sweet as pie to you. Those are dangerous people to be close to. If something doesn't add up and doesn't make sense about their kindness, keep a careful distance. Something to do when something seems off about someone is to pay attention to the claims that people make about themselves. Don't point out any of their contradictory statements about themselves and their actions, just make a mental note of it, because those are people to be really careful around as well. Ghosting is usually a huge indicator of depression, or that person's stress in their life burning them out. Don't always assume they are ghosting unless you see them doing a bunch of stuff with other people all the time and not with you and they just ignore you. Social media can be very misleading about what a person is really going through. If someone doesn't respond or have any interest in you, then move on and wait for them to make a move. I am usually the friend that checks in on people, I maintain many one sided friendships unfortunately. So many people just don't know how to care about others and appreciate them with equal effort. Something to ask yourself is maybe you have been too reliant on them maintaining the friendship and being the one to reach out. That isn't always the case, but if that's not something you know how to do then friendships will eventually fade away. Honestly, most of my friends are like that and are clueless about it. At least with me. One hard truth in life is that we all know too many people for each of them to hold top priority. Sometimes I message people and they are actually really glad that I reached out because they were insanely lonely but don't know how to be the one to say hello first, especially if they're feeling down. When you meet someone who genuinely cares about you (and I mean really ACTUALLY cares) and has nothing to gain from it other than mutual friendship, those are the people to keep in your life and to make important.

[@nor-ainpandapatan4581]

I'm here to find out if I have some fake people in my life But I only realize that I am one of them...

[@spartanwar1185]

top ten biggest plot twists

[@loralynf.9722]

We all are

[@tirarose]

Exactly! Lmfao

[@bmajestysurrell4081]

It does seem because of society we don't really have a choice but to be less genuine and more business appropriate

[@nor-ainpandapatan4581]

@@bmajestysurrell4081 i think i learned more meaningful things coz of u than my math subject

[@keiaurelyn5739]

“Fake nice people are very rare” True. Im surrounded with *fake fake* people

[@keiaurelyn5739]

asro no sorry to make it confusing I meant like fake just fake realy fake sth like dat ;>;

[@smartii3s]

Lmao pretending to be fake

[@quit9271]

I'm surrounded by really fake people.. I'm good at noticing lies, knowing what's going to happen and I know who is fake..

[@buttarain27]

@@quit9271 Same here.

[@random6579]

@@keiaurelyn5739 really* shit* that*

[@sarahhazell8300]

My online bestie: Fakes depression Replaces people Dosent listen to problems Pretends to be happy for me Brags Makes everything about them I think it's time to leave her now..

[@sacredotaku6644]

might want to ask her why shes doing that first it might give her a chance to say sorry

[@sarahhazell8300]

She'll just leave me if I confront her about anything..

[@miy4li]

Why is one of my online friends like this aswell..?

[@lemex27gamesnshit]

Gacha bad

[@abbythings]

sounds like some girls i know irl. they don't even pretend to be nice to me, but they to others.

[@aniaacw4497]

Honestly. The thing I struggle the most with is dealing with people are fake to me. People will ghost or fake being friends with me, and I end up sometimes returning the emotions. I don’t like doing it, but it feels good to get those people back. It’s hard to figure out if you are mean for a reason, or just doing it with crocodile tears. I still struggle with this.

[@sleepylhei]

"Fake nice people are rare?" Thats probably my favorite joke ever-

[@jamietomalin3815]

haha your so naive aren't you ..... ITS THE HOLE OF THE WOLRD!

[@acetiagan1594]

Yes🤣🤣 I see them everywhere, I'm just observing them and keep in my mind that they can't be trusted🤣🤣

[@imsentinelprime9279]

Im one

[@homulillyakemi9089]

AHAHAHA

[@nightmaresdrawnstudios8767]

Meet middle school girls. It’s a majority population

[@krishnalibrodo6199]

I’m sorry... but I don’t know how to react.. I can’t express myself.. I seem fake and exaggerated sometimes..

[@roirocky820]

Kc Lib me too and I’m scared my friends will think I’m fake :(

[@frog8603]

Same. But I get told that I’m a nice person by my friends so..? I don’t really know

[@midnightsun1429]

Omg that's me and I think that is the reason why I don't actually have freinds that share the same things with me 😢😢

[@starryngl5073]

I understand, same here

[@diskdem0n]

yeah same....

[@headhusky5707]

If you tell people you're nice, then you probably aren't. Nice people don't have to say anything, they show it.

[@saulbadman5164]

This pretty much goes for every personality trait Most people I met who said they were really intelligent ended up being the most narcissistic people I've ever encountered.

[@klltsun_2576]

What if I- *cough* I mean... Some metaphorical person said they're nice in an interview, simply because they have low self esteem and have trouble thinking of their "strengths" instead of their weaknesses 😂

[@orionsmith3097]

:/ wait so because I say I'm an evil spawn child it really means I'm nice?

[@saulbadman5164]

@@orionsmith3097 yes

[@Africangyal]

That's actually a really good one

[@ladymagnet6202]

**me realizing I can be like this sometimes**

[@melissadavis8773]

*mood*

[@em-vl5kp]

Being fake is the reflection of the society we live in. If people around us are fake, we are likely to behave the same... there are few real feelings left, in this world....

[@katiaskendraoui1970]

Same

[@gabrieljavier5845]

ikr

[@James-ck4bg]

As someone who's faking being nice because of major depression: 1. Derealization: "zoning out". The smile remains, the eyes are fixed and look empty. It can look scary, because it literally looks like someone is having a "bug" in the system. In reality they are emotionally overwhelmed till the point of shutting down from incoming impulses temporarily. They appear to suddenly wake up again. 2. Rapid change in facial expressions: always pleasing, so always going with the flow of the conversation. You drop your tone in voice, so does my smile. You smile, I smile. Note how we never express an opposite reaction of what you'd expect. 3. Showing interest, but not listening: could be because zoning out or to maintain friend status. Yes, the last one sounds cold, but it's basically your morality speaking. You have to be friendly to your friends. Even though you don't feel like it. So you play it. This might be why the person forgets the things you've said, they weren't listening accurately enough to remember. They were just busy keeping the conversation going. 4.Rarely wants to meet: always excuses. If depression gets worse enough they'll be nice in your face, but never let something hear of them on social media. Or respond really late. 5.Seems to have multiple personalities in different social contexts: basically switching masks. Depending on who's in the group there may be a shift in interests, tone of voice, facial expressions, vocabulary and gestures. He's still nice, but seems like a totally different person than yesterday.

[@lightfurya2087]

Are you seeking help for your depression? If not. What are you doing?! Get help!!!!

[@skywalker6648]

Sounds like a lot of work to keep up all that fakeness. It has to break you down at some point, so perhaps you should talk to a counselor? You may also need to take a sabbatical for awhile to discover imbalances in your life causing depression. Just a suggestion. Good luck.

[@James-ck4bg]

@Sky Walker it's not healthy. You don't wanna end up in isolation, which ironically happens anyway. It's exactly like you say, because it drains energy. I have talked to a counselor, even psychiatrist. They can't say for sure, but suspect a neurobiological disturbance in my brains, because of inherited genes. I also have ADD, which also counts for a risk factor. So in a way it's logic I ended up with it. Now I try to cope with it as much as possible. I don't want medication because I suffer badly from side effects. Also the reason why my ADD remains untreated, but I do get cognitive behavioral therapy for it. What helped me personally more was working out regularly. Especially running. For some reason depression makes me love the pain. Furthermore diet choices: green tea for the l-theanin which basically is a natural antidepressant, valerian root tea for sleep, no coffee, no sugar, no energy drinks, nor soda, etc. Thanks for your advice :)

[@skywalker6648]

@@James-ck4bg Well, I once heard you have to sometimes isolate in order to elevate. Btw, yes meds can be a mess to deal with. Herbal supplements like Valerian and Vitamins like calcium/magnesium, vitD, B vitamins, St.Johns Wort are all way better along with cardio exercise as it sounds like you are doing than the meds. It also depends on how "major" your depression really is, I guess. Some really do need the "meds" temporarily or for life. Either way, Good luck to you and you're welcome!

[@BeanSprouts02]

Fuck I’ve been doing this for a while now. It’s been 2 years and I hate it but I’m trying to improve myself recently.

[@Vesayah]

Okay but ghosting is how I protect myself from fake nice people.

[@roaaali8009]

Exactly

[@chemical_raccoon]

That's just me being an introvert

[@melvyncarrot4741]

That’s just me not wanting to take calls or text from people who just wanna chat me up to gossip .

[@anomalous34]

Ghosting for me is being nice and not telling people why I hate them in great detail while manically expressing joy at degrading them.

[@malachiowens3423]

Christian Chandler I don’t think you know what the words “nice” are

[@_..-.._..-.._]

I would recommend figuring out _WHY_ someone is being fake nice before writing them off. I’m fake nice a lot of times, but it’s just because I’m not happy but I don’t want to place that burden on the checkout person or family friend, it’s from a place of insecurity, not anything against the other person. Sometimes it’s easier to pretend to be nice and happy than to be honest.

[@abeautifulmess163]

I was friends with a fake-nice person. Finding out that their intentions were never good is honestly heartbreaking.

[@userm180]

u ok?

[@yahdonteatmekid5772]

Same I had a fake nice friend in year 9 and her true colours came out in year 10 when I found out that I had to be her roommate. Eversince then I've lost myself

[@marleyeli2091]

Two of my best friends were fake :(

[@venomxo8325]

I had a fake friend named Ruth and we got along pretty well but over time I was starting to actually discover her true colours and I regret being friends with her. Oh well,😒 thank goodness she's not around anymore. 😌

[@abeautifulmess163]

@@venomxo8325 I am glad she is not around anymore either. I wish some people were not so fake.

[@darksunelli]

Oh wow, this makes me feel like a fake nice person ._. and tbh i don't know if i'm nice to others bc of selfish reasons (fake nice) or bc i'm genuine? idk even know myself this much I'm nice to everybody bc everybody deserves to be treated nicely. And sometimes it feels like I have to say nice things.

[@pinkred22]

I feel you bro

[@icenice3287]

SAME FINALLY

[@laurenhodges6411]

@@icenice3287 Some days I feel like both, but that's usually if I'm having a bad day and have to play the part of nice at work. Customers don't need to see me cry, so the best I can do is put on a fake smile and turn up the chirp in my voice. :(

[@icenice3287]

@@laurenhodges6411 OH SAME! Welp i can't describe mine tho ;-;

[@Gabriela-sp8vw]

Is so bad to try to be nice to others even if you don't feel it? :(

[@Softerhaze]

When I genuinely compliment ppl, they think I’m being sarcastic-

[@aeipathyedits7273]

Pirate Eilish omg same

[@alextrebek8293]

are they mostly women?

[@neonmajora8454]

That happens to me sometimes.

[@faith3305]

A lot of the time it actually has to do with them. They may have a sense of worthlessness and low self-esteem and can't imagine someone would be serious about a compliment.

[@trainkeenpilates5227]

Unless you are ghosting someone who has stabbed you in the back and is 2-faced. It’s okay to pull away from people like that.

[@KtEnns1]

I was shocked to hear this is uncommon. I grew up with a whole bunch of fake nice people. To the point where I actually don't trust people anymore.

[@Sandraann91]

True, same.

[@jayraewaves7337]

same.

[@bueaty3656]

Honestly the whole community/culture im from us fake nice people. So im like uncommon where? I feel like the black sheep as a very blunt person

[@brandyrodgers4329]

Yes same here

[@devil_lucy3131]

Yes

[@staylovingyedam3613]

After watching this I think I’m probably the fakest person I know

[@dyzii2905]

Same cuz I pretend to be happy when I'm near my friends but inside I feel annoyed

[@imacupcake]

Juliana Rojas -im faker than james charles’ apology-

[@estherjung5794]

I am...so guilty of doing this. My friends call me a politician too so.....

[@sundes2807]

LOL

[@sundes2807]

@@dyzii2905 😂😂😂

[@MrMisanthrope84]

When you see a person being gossipy about someone they hang around with. You know from that point that they're doing the same with you.

[@eaudelorenz]

This

[@sadiyahandoo9682]

Gosh this is so trueeee!

[@kiera6326]

I used to agree, until there was somebody in my friend group who was consistently problematic. Talking or venting about her was really only something that was fine about her because her actions were so out of line, or because she’d made you upset. But the others didn’t get the same treatment

[@vanetiawellington1302]

Exactly! Which is why I stay faaaaarrr away from such persons.

[@HEIZOU_IS_BACK]

Y E S

[@paulstuart551]

I now a fake nice person who is extremely popular: she establishes common ground by pretending to agree, she only denigrates herself to ingratiate through false vulnerability. Once she gains power over people she adopts a false sense of care she speaks of others in derisive terms, sarcastic backstabbing & backhanded compliments to make it seem humorous. While smiling & sympiphising in direct interaction, she gossips nastily behind their back. She uses ghosting as a power tool to manipulate others into submission with excuses like "No problem, I'm just busy" or "I was left on my own to do everything". She is always the hero & victim in her self delusion of fake compassion - "I had to cope with their depression. She believes her own deciets as being justified truths. She is a collector & discarder of people, saying old friends have become odd. It gives her a sense of power to have control over so many superficial relationships that are believed to have a deeper integrity. In truth she only cares how her identity is affected, although in truth she lacks true substance. She talks constantly of grand plans which never come to fruition. Sounds like the behaviour of a narcissist.

[@musiccreator3559]

Your body will tell you. Always listen to your body's reaction to a person. All humans are born with Divine intuition❤

[@maitamitsuhide]

Nope

[@drousseau2049]

Some ppl have it n some don’t I’ve learned to trust ur instinct n usually always right too 🍻

[@maitamitsuhide]

@@drousseau2049 instincts isn't objectively real

[@drousseau2049]

@@maitamitsuhide so what is it really...

[@drousseau2049]

Ive been thru enough to know trust ur instinct , ignoring a bad vibe about someone is how u become a victim 🍻

[@MeloraCarabas]

"Real smiles" are very easy to fake. Just pay attention to smiling with your eyes and imagine a feeling bursting out of your face. Don't automatically trust any smiles.

[@clutz7941]

Yup, can do that pretty easy.

[@jinglebells1025]

I might act like a fake nice person but I actually have a hard time expressing my emotions. So I'd be like, "Whoo! You got this!" It would be an encouragement to my friend but it would come out sounding half-hearted and sarcastic. 😩😞

[@imacupcake]

Geekynerd 1548 same :(

[@missyuu9348]

Same here.. i dont smile that much and im not really that expressive if im tired socializing

[@benjamin7746]

Guys it ok we are just introvert

[@kaichisaki1232]

Same here.

[@iceanqel]

Same :(

[@badgrand]

Ghosting may actually be needed with some people. It’s to protect oneself’s sanity/safety in my opinion.

[@lolypop2946]

The title should be: “Describing my high school friends in 5 minutes”

[@mohanamukherjee8592]

Loly pop same here it’s so relatable

[@stupidlele]

describing me and my online friends in 5 minutes

[@kojkunya5352]

Exactly I was just thinking about those people 👍😂

[@quitekryptic5920]

*laugh*

[@stupidlele]

@Loquatter it hasn't turned out bad yet and my online friends are better than my real ones and actually talk to me so I think I'll stick with them, tyvm

[@majanilsen9503]

I think there are different types of ghosting. 1) Someone ghosting you but then repairing in you're life when they need something. 2) People cutting you off due to personal reason like perhaps mismatch between your personalities.

[@r.t.5767]

3) Cutting someone's off because he/she's untrustful and you know what they were doing behind your back

[@feetenjoyer365]

4) Using the act of ghosting due to personal matters (depression, suicide thoughts, abuse of different kinds etc) and not wanting to drag people into one's mess.

[@j3npho83]

5.) Ghosting because someone is overbearing, needy, intrusive, don't respect privacy or boundaries, passive aggressive, negative Nancy's, and just overall draining.

[@rayw.6677]

Maja Nilsen True. I had to do that to my ex boyfriend. I felt horrible about it. Told him nicely that I didn’t think the relationship would work out. He said ok but still continued to text me daily.

[@DystopianOverture]

6) physical chronic illness that makes all kind of social interaction tiring and not having the energy to keep up text/DM convos.

[@fecklessfury]

Surely ghosting can also be a result of many other things, eg depression

[@-dfh-866]

Exactly. For me its social anxiety.

[@Itachi-qt4qb]

Thank you! I feel so guilty for ghosting my friends. I don't like myself now, I know it will show and I'll probably make them feel bad from it, so I'd rather not be around. Doesn't mean I stoped caring about them. Sometimes people needs to deal with their head first before they can share themselves with others again.

[@KandiXoXoXo]

@@Itachi-qt4qb Exactly!!! People who don't deal with it don't understand which makes it hard to maintain friendships. They just don't understand but we do still love them

[@mariawelling4194]

Bingo! You nailed it!

[@mila9156]

we all need a break from people.

[@Just_.looka._yay]

Sometimes people be fake friends with you just so they don't appear rude or mean, and so they appear nice, and they don't want you to HATE them but they also don't like being your friend. I mean it's okay if someone doesn't wanna be your friend cuz you can always find better friends. Being a nice fake friend is bad in a good way as they don't want you to feel lonely but they don't wanna be friends with you

[@Lopholillie]

"Fake nice people are rare." In my class there's at least nine-

[@mintiski36]

Same

[@danieluwu4235]

It's nearly my entire school-

[@AEHudg]

Most people I know

[@lilapercyperson5742]

Angie baby you probably remember more of the mean people in your life more then the average people that are still nice and you remember the supppperrrr nice people more, I didn’t mean to be mean or anything o-O

[@fsl1323]

Hmm I would say I'm a little bit of a fake (over the top) nice person but I'm trying to be nice with intent, to genuinely be of help when needed. No malice, just friendly.

[@yukichan1630]

Psych2go : fake nice people are rare Classmate: hold my beer

[@giemski123]

when u have social anxiety. This video: you're fake

[@HystericalDark]

Yup I call bs on that

[@risingsara]

So true :D

[@Alex-kn4gk]

Yeah I just watched one if there videos called 8 signs you have social anxiety and I had all of them

[@cgeikimbot]

Very true-

[@MichaelP833]

i was thinking the exact same thing. many of these are signs that someone has social anxiety. that i see in myself and see in most of my friends. whats worse, people with social anxiety are the ones that worry if other people think they are being fake

[@kreativernickname4031]

Some of these signs can be easily misunderstood tho, for example, if someone seems like they´re not listening to you, they may not be able to hear good or just can´t concentrate for some reason.

[@hareemsyed8458]

Clicked this just to figure out my fake frnds Inner me - oh it's about me

[@Dipakshi]

So true!

[@a.e.rromero5403]

My "best friend" stopped talking to me after I set boundaries with her. She never listens to what I have to say and always seemed concerned with something else or bored. She always hijacks the conversation to make it about her. It makes me sad she just stopped talking to me after I set boundaries with her but it also let me know she only wants what she wants when she wants it.

[@sohachachad]

i can relate 100 percent, this same happened between my and my "best friend"

[@happymess3219]

😶 she's a narcissist.

[@morganophelia5963]

Yeah I'm kinda going through this I feel bad because I love her but she's kinda driving me crazy 🥺 ... Plus I've caught her in strange lies like about her life .... Like one minute she will say she was poor growing up but then the next saying they had huge Christmas parties with turkey and ham and all kinds of gifts... Really strange??? I don't get it.

[@happymess3219]

@Rachi's Nail Corner 😶 i'm good. and you're right about that. thanks tho.

[@Ikaros23]

after a while you will feel better. You dont need narcissists in your life. Boundaries= selfrespect and peace of mind. New people will come to your life who will respect and care for you. Have a great day and good work!

[@t..pisntasgoodaseveryonesa5040]

"Fake nice people are rare" My bestfriends: Observe-

[@adelitaboop2346]

Same 👌

[@moonlightriverra6019]

I'm sorry I can't help but look at your username-

[@АндрейНефедьев-ю7п]

Top is better than you are

[@SunziesStarz]

I needed this before i found out my bestie was a fake kind person

[@boredweebye7099]

I don't know if I'm nice or fake I kept telling my school mates that I'm not that nice Because they kept telling me that I'm nice They say that even if they didn't have much I would treat them evenly, They say I'm the only person they know that notices them and accepts them(I'm an honor student and a daughter of a teacher) They say that I'm nice because I help them whenever they don't understand something in school. And I tell them that its just who I am and I always warn them not to do something to me that would piss me off cause they don't really know me......they say I sometimes act weird...... Well in 1 day I have different moods I sometimes become happy and energetic and just a moment past I'm silent........

[@kopp2663]

I think you're nice by the way they were describing you. If you do those things for no reason, then that shows you're compassionate, and you warn them of another side of you because i'm assuming you don't want to hurt them. Another reason why you're nice

[@rosinjulyz]

Same, except im not a teacher's daughter lol

[@ginajtejero8879]

same and also my mom's a teacher but from another school nearby ours.

[@sundes2807]

Oh.. Thats not fake. Its the same with me... Everyone says that I am the nicest person they know but that I am a weird person (ok. because I prank them a lot :) ) I understand you, its just a natural feeling to help others... why would that be fake? They are just mood swings and thats okay. and we all got them...just tell them about it and that they shouldn't take it personally.

[@sundes2807]

@@Suika_buki Wait.. so everyone is nice because of the reasons you listed above? I don't do that, I mean I simply love everyone hence I help everyone because they mean a lot to me… thats why she might be doing it too. That just made me sad. 😥😥😑