When your fake friends are your only friends..... Feelsbad
@ANGELABenedSu6 жыл бұрын
You're not the only one :(
@jtawgroup6 жыл бұрын
Yep your not alone
@saraharinaa88886 жыл бұрын
same..: ( I hate school tbh..
@cake5326 жыл бұрын
Mhmm :
@saraharinaa88886 жыл бұрын
@Xxunicornxx _12 im in grade 5 and ITS SUCKKK Me and my 2 bff used to be a really good friends and have a good relationship with each other..and then..time passed by..year after year,months after months,and day after day,our friendship started to..tear apart.. I was really heart broken when my friend said that she and my other bff are going to make a new group with another friend of mine.WITHOUT TELLING ME...: ( Tbh i just wanted to be homeschooled..
@DianVx6 жыл бұрын
I wonder if anyone else was thinking about "that one friend"...
@NightcoresAndNoodles6 жыл бұрын
lol I know I was
@lids27646 жыл бұрын
Dian V I was 😖
@myraperez60026 жыл бұрын
Dian V like no one else's business. I think we all have that "person".
@demi85476 жыл бұрын
Yup XD
@UltimateTheZekrom6 жыл бұрын
Oooh yeah, her. :/ god she was such a b-
@alexiguess84784 жыл бұрын
10 signs you have a toxic friend one: you’re watching this video
@ni__wolf1434 жыл бұрын
Well i used to have some... They all abandoned me...
@teriperry79174 жыл бұрын
I used to have a small group of friends, then... They all at the same time abandoned me😭
@skye50574 жыл бұрын
im watching to find out if im the toxic friends even thk theyre never there for me when i need them but im there when they need me but oh well im the toxic ig.
@haika81254 жыл бұрын
Nope, I just wanted to make myself a better person for my friends, and some of the signs were totally me.
@mikahague4224 жыл бұрын
So true
@aishax58463 жыл бұрын
I know we all thinking about that one person while watching this
@julieschmidt84813 жыл бұрын
sometimes I question myself why am I even friends with her
@siegmeyerofcaterina12283 жыл бұрын
Yes it is me
@kingtab27423 жыл бұрын
@@julieschmidt8481 i’m a boy and I have a friend who met another friend on virtual learning and the friend always been so toxic to me and miles and me are such good friends when that person is not around then Jayden just makes me angry
@julieschmidt84813 жыл бұрын
@@kingtab2742 im Sorry to hear :( that’s not okay
@melanieroberson16833 жыл бұрын
4 people actually, I'm kind of a 5th wheel. Basically I'm glue. 2 seperate friendships that are held together by me. I literally take everything since they all don't see me as a friend. I want to see how they fall when I leave.
@nicolejones80095 жыл бұрын
my friend isn’t there for me during a tough time. all my tough times are from her
@ilmozzza4 жыл бұрын
i love this
@mariellalybrito36894 жыл бұрын
Same I don’t know what to do losing a friendship you saw a bright future in hurts the most
@shani97814 жыл бұрын
Same
@pejnandsuffering4 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@frogsrock4204 жыл бұрын
this literally describes my life right now
@arcturus34474 жыл бұрын
My “friends” call everyone around them toxic but who’s gonna tell them...
@fluffiestmisten4 жыл бұрын
Mar ooooo
@sierradonovan96484 жыл бұрын
YESSSSSss
@azhoo4 жыл бұрын
Omg yes.
@soupersoaker4 жыл бұрын
can we all be friends pls 🥺 👉👈
@fluffiestmisten4 жыл бұрын
Bloxy Fam yessss
@emilybrady11494 жыл бұрын
Sad thing is we nearly all searched this up
@justacommenterno.77003 жыл бұрын
oof
@cvtebee3 жыл бұрын
Nice it’s 69 likes
@Lily-ln3ib3 жыл бұрын
Yeah :(
@dirtyraccoon30143 жыл бұрын
:(
@allthetoastisgone18663 жыл бұрын
:(
@sirenofthesea44693 жыл бұрын
Most people think the worst thing is a cut or a scratch, but what really hurts the most is watching someone you made memories with turn into a memory
@doodlmay3 жыл бұрын
Then that same memory that told you to get lost 5 years ago invites you to their wedding so you can make more memorys of a memory that didn't want to remember you, isn't that memorable. Sorry that's what I'm going through right now😳
@thekingofgamers33503 жыл бұрын
Yeah
@episodebeats28172 жыл бұрын
Hear ya. The same feeling of loss you feel when dealing with death...
@ethanalgicosathlonchannel11102 жыл бұрын
True. IMO, emotional pain hurts much more than physical pain. I never cry at physical pain, but sometimes I do at emotional pain.
@Casualalty2 жыл бұрын
Accurate for me
@shachino93894 жыл бұрын
"I don't need friends, they disappoint me"
@FacelessCrowd4 жыл бұрын
HA same
@amirhellsing57464 жыл бұрын
me in childhood: fuck, i wish i had friends me now: thank GOD i have non and wish i never get any
@Frank-ln1td4 жыл бұрын
@amir talat i kinda feel bad for you
@amirhellsing57464 жыл бұрын
@@Frank-ln1td to be honest, there are no such thing as friends in this world, because eventually they either become your rivals OR straight up betray you. i was always lonely for 12 years of school once i got into the university i thought i would change that, and i did, i got popular and had A TON of friends, i was indeed happy until reality hit me hard, some of them are gonna use you, others will secretly hate you, others betray you and some even become your enemy and expose your secrets to every single enemy out there. im now finishing the university which in total was 6 years, and in those 6 years of my life i basically had Game of Thrones in real life. thats why i never consider anyone a friend anymore, neither i even use this word anymore.
@Frank-ln1td4 жыл бұрын
@amir talat that’s really sad I hope you find someone you can trust one day tho!
@rfk22985 жыл бұрын
Today I’m going to end my friendship with my toxic best friend... I’m so scared but I need to do this for my mental health.
@anaalvarez91025 жыл бұрын
Good luck❤️
@iwantthis52005 жыл бұрын
How did it go??
@carlsanderson32855 жыл бұрын
I got rid of my toxic best friend today. And dont get me wrong. You will feel so much better and free. When I got rid of my toxic best friend today, I dont feel like I'm trapped, I dont feel like her puppet. I feel like I cut the puppet strings, and escaped her toxic prison. And I feel amazing.
@infiresman87435 жыл бұрын
@@carlsanderson3285 so brave i have a toxic friend and i don't know how to end it
@carlsanderson32855 жыл бұрын
@@infiresman8743 all I did was go up to her face and tell her how rude and toxic she has been to me. And then I told her I couldn't handle her anymore, I told her I was done and I needed to be free and move on without her. She later tried getting me back and I said "no! I can't handle you anymore. You are too toxic" hopefully that helped. If not, I'm sorry. I've never been the best at helping people...
@amayahall16035 жыл бұрын
All I have is toxic friends. I sit with them at lunch, I get ignored. I follow people around I get ignored. If I was absent one day, it will be a normal day. They want people to feel bad for them. I wish I went back to my old school.
@applebottomjeans32845 жыл бұрын
Omg saame
@deeinoz72305 жыл бұрын
That sounds horrible. Time to shop around for more interesting friends in your school, try joining a club outside school as well. Sometimes you have to try on other people at school til you find a fit. And watch this kzbin.info/www/bejne/np6tqoqomqqFbaM
@GhostSenpaiEdits5 жыл бұрын
Omg same with me, but I have one true friend and his name is Allah :)
@mustasheolll20205 жыл бұрын
45 percent of my friends are toxic. It’s part of what made high school hard.
@annabelv.23435 жыл бұрын
SAMEEE
@ricaella91243 жыл бұрын
10 Signs you have a toxic friend 1. You feel like you can't be your true selft when you're with them. 2. Your communication becomes almost non-existent. 3. They constantly smother you. 4. You feel like you guys are competing against one another. 5. They are'nt considerate of your feelings. 6. They give you a hard time for your mistakes (even when you apologize) 7. They are controlling and try to micromanage you rather than give you advice. 8. Your friendship provides more stress than support. 9. You feequently catch them talking about you behind your back. 10. You forget why the two of you bacame friends in the first place.
@LogjamProductionss3 жыл бұрын
my whole friend group is that...
@redeye.spots1123 жыл бұрын
🥲
@bluemationz3 жыл бұрын
@@LogjamProductionss yes me too.. i’m just glad there are 2 people in my group who agree with me on this.
@LogjamProductionss3 жыл бұрын
@@bluemationz lol i have none
@bluemationz3 жыл бұрын
@@LogjamProductionss that's sad :I
@june58314 жыл бұрын
My toxic """friend""" only talks to me when she needs my help.
@tianathompson27254 жыл бұрын
Get rid of the parasite 👏🏽💯
@birchboom18884 жыл бұрын
I have a toxic peer that only texts me when she needs help with schoolwork.
@k-tylux12574 жыл бұрын
@@birchboom1888 yeah, me too! Otherwise she treats me like crap! 😭😭😭
@olivia_is_online81924 жыл бұрын
@@birchboom1888 I have plenty "friends" who call me just for English homework.
@eva58974 жыл бұрын
omg same here
@lianah54965 жыл бұрын
“Maybe at one point you guys really were friends, but those days are long gone” Damn...that really hit home.
@iloveuryuishida99194 жыл бұрын
cause im your home home home home~ sorry i remembered a song
@shelblzz95844 жыл бұрын
@@iloveuryuishida9919 carat?👀👀
@iloveuryuishida99194 жыл бұрын
@@shelblzz9584 yES
@shelblzz95844 жыл бұрын
@@iloveuryuishida9919 YESSS
@iloveuryuishida99194 жыл бұрын
@@shelblzz9584 YESSSS
@usernamexax83845 жыл бұрын
Aight.. I’m ending my friendship with them. I ain’t taking chances
@dekufan65944 жыл бұрын
Same i end my friendship with my terrible fake friend i'm ignoring and avoiding them however one of her friend is very kind to me But i'm so lucky that i found a friend she is very kind and giving me a wonderful advice☺
@SN64YT4 жыл бұрын
Same for me. I can't take any memes of torture any longer, my friend's stating the things I already known (like when I said I run fast as sonic the hedechog, it was a joke but he took it seriously and said "you ain't supposed to run at school" which I could of said stop stated the obvious but I said nothing and just sighed about it. He takes a lot and I mean A LOT of things seriously and giving his opinions even though I didn't asked him to do that. ), and his big obsession of memes and fire emblem (he only talks about memes, Smash bros, and fire emblem which is just boring. If you have to deal with a person talking about the same thing every day, then you will probably be annoyed by this person. And this is what I'm feeling annoyed every single time I come to sit with him in the bus. But you maybe saying, "You can just change seats." No it doesn't work in school dismissal because I try to go to the back of the line of my bus but he freaking just holds the freaking doar and goes to me realy?! I am just get unhappy when he has to sit with me in the bus because I need my peace and he gets all the room in the seat and I get squished in my seat, which is not comfortable at all.) He also goes and whispers stuff and repeats it again and again which is annoying to hear. I even get headakes every single day for even thinking of him. I dont want to do anything with him anymore. I'm just done with him. I'm can't take any of this crap with him any longer. And Orian Escoon (the dude I talked about) if you are here reading this comment (which is 99.9 percent not cuz he only watches meme videos and smash bros videos unless I bring it up.) I don't mean to hurt your feelings. I just thinked that we can just not be hanging out like at all and find different people. When I first saw you I jut thought I had a person simular to me but it ain't true. You are just a 13 year old kid who watches a bunch of memes, smg4,and smash bros directs, and draw some fire emblem stuff that I don't care about. I'm just saying that Orian is this dude who is a not good friend and I don't want to be a friend to this dude. Ok if you enjoyed the long comment please subscribe to my channel and watch my videos and like and comment to them. Hope you enjoyed.
@zion66884 жыл бұрын
Username XAX with that pfp, I can’t take you seriously-
@saryjackson77054 жыл бұрын
I want to end mine but if I do I’ll lose all my other friends
@SN64YT4 жыл бұрын
@@saryjackson7705Why do you lose all of your friends all for just a one that is a no good friend? Is the rest the same as the bad friend?
@stephenfeldman17053 жыл бұрын
My daughter sent this to me this yesterday and she came up to me crying because she realize that her best friend was the exact person that you described and then she let go of her and it hurt her but today she feels Better now thank you
@Sarah-iy2ey2 жыл бұрын
Did you let stop being friends with or did you make her shut up and stay with her? Is it just my parents or?
@shortstv82 жыл бұрын
my friend is really nice but I shifted school since then she got a new friend and she hanouts either her every weekend and I don't have any new friend in this school and that makes me insecure ....I don't know what to do
@grandwood27952 жыл бұрын
@neet prep Hey! Fellow student here! My advice for you is to go out and talk to people. You are bound to make at least one friend in your school. About your old friend, it’s best to just let go of it. If she was truly your friend, she would at least try to keep up on social media.
@shortstv82 жыл бұрын
@@grandwood2795 yeah I am trying to meet new people but since I took gap year it's a little difficult ....and about my old friend I agree on what u said ....btw thanks ...means a lot 🙂🙂
@grandwood27952 жыл бұрын
@neet prep Oh, anytime! I’ve kinda been in the same situation as you at some point. I just wanted to give some advice!
@imgoingtobedsogoaway12094 жыл бұрын
Everyone here watching this to see if their friends are toxic while I’m here to make sure I’m not the problem.. :(
@alexs18964 жыл бұрын
Me too
@yeahimahuman80804 жыл бұрын
Imgoingtobed sogoaway they also posted a video about signs your becoming toxic
@layladelcambre52544 жыл бұрын
Same...
@Vampire_Lover_284 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm a human but in a toxic friendship/relationship the person makes YOU feel like you’re the toxic person when in reality they wanna see you crash and burn
@theneighborskid54334 жыл бұрын
Same
@NewbyTon5 жыл бұрын
Can't have toxic friends when you don't have any friends 😎
@mustasheolll20205 жыл бұрын
Newby Ton not true. Having toxic friends made me not have any.
@rezaulkaiser6855 жыл бұрын
i Didn't have friends also like you.
@Carneroo_Backup5 жыл бұрын
@@rezaulkaiser685 okay
@lisathomas33525 жыл бұрын
@@rezaulkaiser685 okay
@remalewis16035 жыл бұрын
That so sad
@natconproductions1495 жыл бұрын
11. They always put thier burden on you...
@ohlook62225 жыл бұрын
Ohhhh my gosh yes
@fexarii5 жыл бұрын
Yep, true. My friend does that. Edit: my mom is now dealing what that kid, she ain’t my friend anymore. Edit 2: with* (Sorry autocorrect)
@ayeshasharmin34495 жыл бұрын
True
@charawarawa5 жыл бұрын
my friend does this all the time!!
@memow26845 жыл бұрын
NatCon Productions 12. They abandon you..
@idontknowwhattonamemyusern88532 жыл бұрын
The absolute hardest thing about having a toxic “friend” is that when you try to stay away from them or move on them they pay attention to you but then it goes back to them using you as a door mat and it makes it even more difficult when they are your only friend
@jaggass2 жыл бұрын
Not the one I've fell out with. I've blocked him and moved on because he revealed his true colours one night and if he comes to front door I will physically remove him off my property.
@voidwali58975 жыл бұрын
Me:**_Realize that I have a toxic friend_** Also Me: *_SOOO..... What now ?!?!_*
@ruyo_yoyo5 жыл бұрын
NAWlovley 96 i can relate to this so bad lmao, my friend of 12 years is rlly toxic, no wonder im rlly tired around her or even at the thought of her. And the funny things is ...i just realized that now hahaha
@voidwali58975 жыл бұрын
id gaf *_Stop knocking on a closed door .. if u looked behind u you'll find so many open doors ... leave ur friend and go make some new friends and hangout and have fun and live ur life no matter how much u love ur toxic friend ... but for sure u love ur selfmore and u deserve so much better I did that and I made some new friends and now I 'm living the best moments of my life..... RETIRE WHAT HURTS U_*
@jaydeq18435 жыл бұрын
Make a new one
@slayerqueen63525 жыл бұрын
\/(-“)\/
@shuuake5 жыл бұрын
How do I end my friendship without hurting the toxic friend? I feel as if she needs me more than she wants me. She is really rude to me and she makes me buy her lunch for lunch. I give her gifts on her birthday and other days, but she isn't greatful. When I got alot of gel pens for her she said she didn't want to carry the bag because it was embarrassing! I almost cried. I just hate her so much. Please help!
@nehuen79495 жыл бұрын
It's incredible that I had to come here just to figure out ONE person.
@moonkid88855 жыл бұрын
Omg Same
@kamryn6045 жыл бұрын
me too
@omnicupid66945 жыл бұрын
@@kamryn604 Me too...
@estttated46315 жыл бұрын
Yeah..
@sensualramen70255 жыл бұрын
Nehuen same :(
@Vulpes_Rubra6 жыл бұрын
U aint gonna have friendship problems.... If u dont have friends at the first place
@shinbreaker76776 жыл бұрын
Solo is the way.
@caracosgrove72726 жыл бұрын
that's advice right there
@kalaniprice10076 жыл бұрын
fooxx thefox true, but you have one problem: You’re lonely as heck!
@King-jd9sy6 жыл бұрын
Lol true
@PinkPizzaSprinkles6 жыл бұрын
YESSSS #SHYANDPATHETICINTROVERTS4LOFE
@itsloreal3 жыл бұрын
I got 7/10.. and whenever she feels like she doesn’t get her way she always calls me mean things and makes me feel bad..
@esmem94673 жыл бұрын
Be honest with her. If she does things to you that makes you feel uncomfortable just tell her that you don't like what she is doing and that she should stop that.
@seph11093 жыл бұрын
What the comment above me said ^^ If she doesn't change her ways, then DROP her. You don't need that in your life, there's plenty of good people out there that you haven't met yet.
@joelbrewster482 жыл бұрын
Ik how you feel. I feel trapped tbh
@patboi73845 жыл бұрын
Me : *realizes I had a toxic friend for 7 years* Also me : ah crap....
@nava22795 жыл бұрын
pat boi Yea same but it‘s 8 years for me ):
@kayyy40485 жыл бұрын
pat boi same but mine is 3 and a half years
@sinn46505 жыл бұрын
Don't jump to conclusions just because you saw a youtube video
@kaeyynn4 жыл бұрын
9 years for me :(
@kyonas60474 жыл бұрын
@@nava2279 i had gf year ago she was really cute and we had nice time but After that she starts to be bad i didint relise that even After she broke up with me but now i relise that i am not bad guy 😂☑️
@headofathousandsheepswool6 жыл бұрын
I think that even if your friend doesn't show all of these signs, the fact that you are watching this and thinking about them is a sign big enough to tell you to move on.
@Psych2go6 жыл бұрын
Good point!
@artursanti32766 жыл бұрын
Damn
@Marciusha6 жыл бұрын
Aha. Nobody watches such videos just for fun.
@headofathousandsheepswool6 жыл бұрын
Marcela Balan Some do, but if you look up signs of abuse, then you no longer need to ponder if the person at hand is bad for you. Of course some watch it for fun.
@Brewing5torm6 жыл бұрын
I actually dropped some people a few days ago. They just weren't worth the trouble
@kcrusus6 жыл бұрын
one of my friends is incredibly toxic, however, i cant cut ties or they'll send their friends after me and literally start a witch hunt. talking to them is so exhausting, you have no idea. they constantly put me down and show more than half the signs in this video.
@harrisonogarro88736 жыл бұрын
ski Toxic can mean anything, that's the problem with society nowadays. The points explained in this video can be linked to narcissism, sociopathy and psychopathy.. If you know anyone who suffers from those personality disorders, the best thing to do would be to run for the hills and don't think twice about it. I hope that you manage to cut the ties and free yourself. I hope that this comment helped you ☺☺
@kcrusus6 жыл бұрын
@@harrisonogarro8873 oh my, thank you for clearing that up for me. and yes, your reply has helped me! and i, once again, thank you.
@harrisonogarro88736 жыл бұрын
ski I'll give your channel a sub too, can you sub to mine? If you ever need help, then just send me a message on Hangouts (hogarro174@gmail.com)
@shanenelson38636 жыл бұрын
That's not your friend fam.
@nataliajackson67326 жыл бұрын
I recently just cut ties with my best friend who had been a major part of my life for literally 10 years. She became incredibly toxic and made me become the same way. I couldn't handle her anymore. I knew I was being toxic as well but I started not to care at one point. I felt guilty though. Like I had no reason to be angry at her. To want to cut ties. So I didn't leave. She had an abusive father and the only reason I didn't leave was because I knew she would be broken without me. I was her only friend and she was my only friend too. Whenever I told her I couldn't handle her she would start crying and just ask what she did to me. That girl completely ruined me as a person. Ruined my self esteem until I had none of it left. And she would ask me "why would you leave after all these years?" I probably seem like the bad guy here but.. she left me so many times. Too many times to count. Whenever she would find something else to keep her happy she would leave me. And that's ultimately what drove me to my breaking point. She left me again for her other friends, knowing very well she was the only friend *I* had. It's funny, how before she cried not wanting me to leave her. And then when she finally got what she wanted.. popularity and tons of friends. She didn't need me anymore. She blocked me and I told her to never talk to me again. I cried alot after that but I'm just letting you know it gets better. It hurts alot at first (especially if you've been friends with them for a really long time) but after a week or so I was so happy. I felt so free. I may not have any friends anymore but it really is better to have no friends at all then to have a friend who ruins your self esteem, brags, lies, etc. Or who exhausts you in which I can relate. This was supposed to be some friendly advice but I'm pretty sure I just mostly ranted XD. I needed to get that off my chest tbh. So if you read this then thanks lol
@pandy0243 жыл бұрын
I had a very toxic friend when I was 7, who forced be to bully other kids, laugh at them, and would constantly tell me I wasn't good enough, and couldn't go anywhere without her. I was 7 and didn't know it had a name. All I knew is I didn't want to be part of this anymore. So I was a loner for the next 2 years. I got new friends though!
@unusedbread24634 жыл бұрын
B: best F: fake F: friend
@annrzl_69934 жыл бұрын
B - Bitchy
@therealslimshawty18544 жыл бұрын
Idk about that chief Maybe for some ppl
@unusedbread24634 жыл бұрын
Rozel Bernardino no u XD
@randylan893 жыл бұрын
BFF
@adrijabiswas45643 жыл бұрын
True ;(
@therealslmccl6 жыл бұрын
0:40 screw my friend, I’m gonna go see Wizards vs Jedi
@thebroadwayboi80756 жыл бұрын
FandomTrash93 YAAAA
@al31246 жыл бұрын
😂
@Vividesia6 жыл бұрын
Yup, me too!
@druvjuice69066 жыл бұрын
Me too I will buy a lot of popcorn
@kaishenanigans8336 жыл бұрын
I know right? I'm going to see Wizards vs Jedi!
@abbyschannel25754 жыл бұрын
when your “best friend” does all of these😔 Edit: thank you for all the likes and support! I decided to make new friends and not hang out with her anymore and I’m so much happier. If you have a toxic friend please don’t stay with them. I have learned that I should’ve left earlier before more damage was done. 💗💗
@zinmayoo68004 жыл бұрын
@@teIescoper mine too
@alexxxxxxdaone4 жыл бұрын
Same 😥
@sheilasantos45914 жыл бұрын
I am too😔 Your not the only one who felt that....
@darksugar30914 жыл бұрын
Same, I don’t know how to leave her, I have couple mental health problems such as PTSD, BPD etc. and I have a huge fear of losing someone I’m close with
@sereenalamir27344 жыл бұрын
Yeaah :
@RaziaPrincess3 жыл бұрын
The toxic "friend" of mine only remembered me in time of needs, taking credit for all that I helped her with. I didn't think much of it at first, but it just got too much to the point she would start ignoring me when she wasn't satisfied with my help....it took a while but I could finally distance myself from her.
@devin83676 жыл бұрын
This is literally the only friendships I've had, my friends have never texted or called 1st, it's always me who starts any conversation and then we never hang out
@levisanimations98726 жыл бұрын
Devin West I am very much the same. Only once in a blue moon will they call or text first. And usually they don’t respond to my texts
@rotte55376 жыл бұрын
Same. They only want to hang out if I pay shit for them or if they get free stuff, which is basically the same thing.
@devin83676 жыл бұрын
Leah Spangler Same here, I'm really hoping all this will change once I get to college
@levisanimations98726 жыл бұрын
Devin West same but for when I get to high school
@devin83676 жыл бұрын
Leah Spangler Well let's hope we find people who genuinely care for us. Good luck
@shantel62165 жыл бұрын
I've stayed in a toxic friendship for a long time,afraid to let go because I keep thinking I'll have nobody else as a friend but once I did it was such a relief like a heavy burden being lifted off my shoulder
@liasuckslmao4 жыл бұрын
im in the same situation but i do have real friends that do care abt me but it’s rlly hard for me to stay in touch :(
@annagranger77884 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY !!!
@hockey_card084 жыл бұрын
Same
@metalrose36074 жыл бұрын
THEUPSIDEDOWN I once dated a guy like that. It was total chaos. He would be rude to me every now and then, and overall a bit toxic everyday and I wouldn't notice. We dated for 3 months. At the 2nd month I started to feel awful and my mental health got worse because of him and a bunch of other toxic people. I thought if I left him, nobody would want me. When I was still dating him, at the 3rd month, I fell in love for someone else. The guy was super nice, single and looking for a girl. After a couple days, the guy I was in love with started to date another girl and I felt like I lost a huge opportunity because I was still dating my toxic ex. If I had the guts to jump off of the boat sooner, I'd be dating the love of my life now. As for today, I'm single and I'm happier than I ever was when I dated that toxic loser.
@catronai4 жыл бұрын
Maybe I should, too...
@raoisle63175 жыл бұрын
Sign 11 They talk and gossip about other people to *you*
@Jayden.productions4 жыл бұрын
they could just be a gossip
@pandabelepotan4 жыл бұрын
And definitely they talk about you with others
@dekufan65944 жыл бұрын
I can relate
@IDK-fv3hu4 жыл бұрын
Oh.. well um me and my friend gossip about other people sometime xD
@emmaerickson47074 жыл бұрын
Ya plus she’s controlling mean selfish and won’t give back MY toys because she wants to keep them and she says she forgot!
@nathan___40792 жыл бұрын
Worst part is when only very few people knows they are toxic, and they really act all nice to others, so all that abuse felt like it never happened
@nothisispatrick46446 жыл бұрын
Im already quite toxic myself....
@Kalixa19916 жыл бұрын
No this is Patrick same
@Kalixa19916 жыл бұрын
LyricsVideoZone at least we see we are toxic... Not everyone admits it because they have a huge ego and can't analyze their behaviours.
@swag_alwayz_on6 жыл бұрын
I always feel like I’m too clingy, with a certain friend (mostly because I have a crush on them), and I always ask if I’m a bad friend. She always says no. But she’s already rejected me, and I hope that she doesn’t realize I still love her with a burning passion.
@nyakorii6 жыл бұрын
Mhm same- And it gets worse because i get clingy-
@swag_alwayz_on6 жыл бұрын
LilSmol_NyanCake Have you ever asked them about it?
@husseindjavadzadeh36684 жыл бұрын
"Maybe at some point you guys really were friends but those days are long." This line tore my heart right apart because that's exactly how I feel about one my friends
@zarcul19193 жыл бұрын
Yess, that one line, that one line reall hit close to home with me. I had a friend who I had lots of fun with. I thought they were great that they were going to be long lasting friend. I had finally made a mew friend after I had raised up my shield around me in. I was so happy to have gotten a new friend but they treated me like an item with an expiration date and I had gone past that date. My use for her was gone. She didnt need me anymore. No matter how hard I tried I never became useful for her anymore. Left me for the friends i had introduced her to. And even tried to separate me from them.
@showkatali48963 жыл бұрын
@@zarcul1919 You- just explained my life rn I'm from the UK England specifically where friends make fun of you on a daily and there is no limits on the jokes it's the English banter, I'm year 10 (I think that's the 11th grade in US) back in year 8 (9th grade prolly) I was I guess one of the 'popular kids' relatively popular majority of people knew who I was I made a friend in the new year I never had so much fun in my life with him we had a solid friendship group about 3-5 *close* friends (I had loads of other friends but I had a couple that were really close) anyway we had the most fun ever and during year 9 the lockdown happend I didn't really speak to my friends that often but the lockdown goes into another year (year 10) and I've seen that my close friends just started hanging out together and just left me and decided to make another group with 3 more people (those 3 people left since they had a fallout and a fight) and during year 9 I made a really close friend who we both know the 3-5 people (my old friends) do we decided to hang out with them again but it's not the same anymore, anyway thanks for reading my comment I usually don't comment but your comment really meant something to me thanks.
@indirasen98003 жыл бұрын
Same
@oscarcortis77293 жыл бұрын
I know how you feel :(
@KBQuick812 жыл бұрын
So do I !
@gigi_nwmn4 жыл бұрын
Now in this quarantine, I began to realized that all the “friends” I have they are really not my friends more like I am friends with them but they aren’t friends with me.
@ardenlinville85114 жыл бұрын
I KNOW RIGHT!
@Jackson-tx5uc4 жыл бұрын
@Villet Chuckie Damn, that sucks, I hope life gets better for you. And the people that treated you badly experience the same suffering one day.
@therealslimshawty18544 жыл бұрын
My friends hardly talk to me anymore Guess I kinda understand though, the pandemic and all
@fliegendewolke57913 жыл бұрын
it can be an eyeopener.
@lindamartalibe96873 жыл бұрын
Same😭I'm literally the only one (from "our" "group ") who is trying to not lose our friendship. I'm trying to socialize with them(not in person, but through phone) and then there are they.. Who I guess doesn't care about me at all. .. That makes me so sad. And.. I think I don't have friends.. Until someone need a homework 🙄😭. And I hate myself for sending them my homeworks, but when I don't do that I feel super bad, and I think that I'm the worst friend ever. But then again.. How am I the bad one if they are texting me just when they need something from me.. I am always searching for my problem.. What I do wrong, what I did wrong or whatever.. Because I think that maybe I'm the problem.. Maybe I'm just stupid idiot who.. I don't know, ask too much?? Well.. I mean I want just to have friend by my side.. And to know that they need me and they talk to me, not just listen to my problems and ignore everything.. I want to feel like I am needed by someone. I don't know maybe I'm just really asking too much and no one has that kind of friendship.. Maybe friendship that I have is normal? I'm sorry I just needed to let out my thoughts somewhere..
@ivaco91003 жыл бұрын
Having no friends and watching this hits kinda different
@addy2253 жыл бұрын
whats thate thing they say? its like have good friends other then alot of fake friends
@IBY-zx2jp2 жыл бұрын
Trust me, having toxic ftiends hurts more than that
@lysra17776 жыл бұрын
I have real friends, but I also have toxic ones. I hate that they think that they can control me just because I'm an introvert and also hate conflicts. And I try to be there for them always, when they have problems, but when I need somebody, everyone disappears. :(
@mythicaldragonbye28176 жыл бұрын
Black Rose I know how that feels and it hurts a lot you should probably try to get new friends that you know you can trust good luck have a nice day
@Marciusha6 жыл бұрын
You are not alone. Also if you are one type of human that wants everyone to feel good i understand you((( sometimes it hurts and you get stressed but try to put boundaries. But if they don't get them and make fun of it - be more rude( sometimes it os the only way). Only when i was no more afraid of what will they think or feel about me i could say "No" to them. Of course sometimes it is not that easy but always think that your emotional health is more important, you cannot please everyone, even more, you shouldn't please people because those who love you the way you are will understand your alone time and will not change their mind about you no matter of your boundaries are, they will accept it and not harm you intentionally🤗🤗🤗🤗It happened to me.
@nataliakef6 жыл бұрын
I feel ya
@juni2606 жыл бұрын
Black Rose YOU ARE DESCRIBING MY EXACT SITUATION
@muneezashah6 жыл бұрын
Black Rose :/ this is the most relatable comment I ever read lol
@ileavecomments-g9m4 жыл бұрын
1- “you don’t feel your true self with them” Me: oh so all my friends are toxic now
@idkaally4 жыл бұрын
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@lilianamorales4904 жыл бұрын
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@sarab65804 жыл бұрын
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@abandonedacc4204 жыл бұрын
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@begonabilbaocenturion76424 жыл бұрын
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@JBR9395 жыл бұрын
I know someone who makes me feel guilty even though I didn't do anything wrong. Is that a sign too?
@sieshae5 жыл бұрын
Julie Kan yes that's definitely a sign!! i had a friend who would always do that,, they're trying to make you feel worse, so that either you follow their every word, or you do what they want,, leave that friendship !!! good luck bb,, it'll be hard at first but it'll be ok i promise
@JBR9395 жыл бұрын
@@sieshae thank you!!
@jamilgotcher54565 жыл бұрын
Yes, that is a sign. I have a friend like that. She's very controlling. She is unemployed and takes it personal when I don't get back to her in what she thinks is a timely manner over things that aren't important. And she tries to make me feel guilty about it. She's super insecure.
@melinarodriguez4535 жыл бұрын
YES!!
@flental67084 жыл бұрын
yes, but instead of ending the friendship point it out to them and wait and see if they decide to change :)
@17_Biskitz3 жыл бұрын
I don't think my friend is toxic, but lately I started making new friends and got more confident, and when I tell her it just seems to bother her, knowing I used to have trouble making friends, she sees my new friends as ''competition''
@castingThoron6 жыл бұрын
In my opinion, it's better to have no friends than a toxic friend
@alexshock38316 жыл бұрын
agreed
@alexshock38316 жыл бұрын
and i have no friends
@iishadesiixd21256 жыл бұрын
You couldn’t be more right
@thatonesomeone05516 жыл бұрын
DayuZ agreed
@ie_va6 жыл бұрын
DayuZ Indeed.
@katethehuman20015 жыл бұрын
*OOF... when your best friend is the toxic friend.*
@emmasmith9714 жыл бұрын
And all of a sudden they wanna hang out, you have the time of your life, then the next day they go back to being toxic and you don’t know what to do? ;(
@clxudynana43984 жыл бұрын
Mood.
@LeonardoFan20084 жыл бұрын
I dont even know if I'm toxic or my best friend is honestly. Gets me all sad, he wouldn't care though.I have may have done some things that may have hurt him alot but i apolagize and tried to help him but I feel like nothing is enough
@LeonardoFan20084 жыл бұрын
And my mom has told me to cut him out of my life because I have done harmful things to myself because of somethings he did, but I always say he will get better because he is really one of the best people I ever known so far
@oook69194 жыл бұрын
Same
@mspastel53424 жыл бұрын
oh...this all speaks my “best friend”..
@leonierawr81934 жыл бұрын
Same
@misa22064 жыл бұрын
Same😶
@taeslostguccibag95544 жыл бұрын
Same :{
@yeahimahuman80804 жыл бұрын
Ms Pastel same except I don't talk to my "best friend'' cause anytime I do she makes fun of me and does all of these other things
@tianathompson27254 жыл бұрын
That's not a best friend 👏🏽💯
@nothingtoseehere316 Жыл бұрын
I’ve ended a16 year old friendships… it’s absolutely heartbreaking 💔 especially when you’re in your 40 with no other friends… but it was toxic, abusive and needed to be end… I know it will take time to heal but i need to do it for my own mental health
@movedtoplooshiepunch42575 жыл бұрын
U know ur friend is real when they send u wholesome memes any time you show any act of sadness
@nidhi58104 жыл бұрын
I want to like but then your likes will no longer be '69'.
@ingridgustafson86274 жыл бұрын
yes
@kyonas60474 жыл бұрын
Yubbb like me 😂☑️now i don't really love memes that much becauce i practice volleyball
@therevenant3204 жыл бұрын
dort rice worst is when you think your real friend is the toxic one and turns your acts of sadness to their acts of laughter and negativity, fun and entertainment.
@carrotnoises69814 жыл бұрын
lmao my friend just says "oof" or completely ignores me
@metalrose36074 жыл бұрын
I got a whole bunch of toxic friends! They always made me feel miserable and in the beginning, I though it was my fault. I would apologize for literally everything, even if it wasn't my fault. They would blame me, talk behind my back, never forgive me and never remember me for who I am, for my personality and for the big heart I have, always for my mistakes. They were never there for me... I recently found out that they have been cussing at me for absolutely no reason... I have always treated everyone as sweet as I could, I'd stay hours and hours on my phone checking on them, making sure every single one of them were ok after a fight or an issue. I'd get no sleep trying to make everyone happy and cool with each other again, and the list goes on. I just wish they cared about me as much as I cared about them... they truly shattered my heart...
@spmmike224 жыл бұрын
I feel sad for you... :(
@yourmasterbro31554 жыл бұрын
Your story is similar to mine. I once had a friend last year and i realised that he wasn't even an actual friend, he was nothing but a judgemental freak who spent his life sending hateful comments on the internet, especially to me and my trustful friends.
@devilisalair56414 жыл бұрын
😥
@mrsbillie69634 жыл бұрын
I'm really sorry, I can relate to you. I wanted to be sweet and always be there for my friends but I don't think they would appreciate it, that they just wanted abandon me, or they just don't care about me.
@masturarahman32724 жыл бұрын
It's like ALL I GAVE YOU IS GONE
@sasha-zv1vs5 жыл бұрын
when your "best friend" meets every single one of these 😔
@odin43065 жыл бұрын
Ravenclaw Randomness same here. and there’s been a romantic element off and on. she toys w that often. It’s hard to figure out the best option.
@iwantthis52005 жыл бұрын
My best friend we have been best friends for four years and she is almost all of these oof
@carlsanderson32855 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh mine did. I got rid of her today, I feel so much better
@daisyv97585 жыл бұрын
haha same..
@Mariaelenaaaaa5 жыл бұрын
soysha I’m here if you need anything
@ezzieluzon9773 жыл бұрын
Watching this after crying about that person. I’m just so sick of being used and mistreated like this when I’m the only one who’s trying. I know I deserve better. I hope everyone watching this who realized just like me that their friend is toxic gets out of that friendship. It’s not easy I get that. I haven’t even done it yet but I hope to. Best luck to you all. Involve the people who actually like you for you around you cause you’re awesome. Don’t let anyone use you. Do what makes you happy
@xx_breakfastroll_46276 жыл бұрын
I have a kind of “friend” that I’ve been best friends for years, but he is showing signs of being toxic now. I don’t have many friends and I can’t tell if he’s worth hanging around. We have both grown together and learned a lot. He is making me feel better since I don’t have other friends, but also worse because i feel like he’s bringing me down a lot
@lizzy61046 жыл бұрын
Cheyenne Felix I'd say try and do something about it now, because it'll just get worse and it'll be harder to stop later on but it's your descision
@castingThoron6 жыл бұрын
Cheyenne Felix Keeping someone around just because they're your only "friend" can really damage your self esteem. I believed for many years that I couldn't find other friends because no one else would tolerate me like my "friend" did. It's better to have no friends than a toxic one, in my opinion. You should try to confront him, especially if he wasn't like that before. He might not realize it and needs to hear from you about the person he's becoming. I regretted not confronting my ex friend when I suddenly cut ties with them.
@adityapradhan29656 жыл бұрын
Cheyenne Felix try to spend some time alone and do what you like so that you can understand and appreciate yourself in a better way. And you should try to make new friends because toxic friends like to limit the number of friends their victims have and you should also talk to someone else like a family member about this.
@Psych2go6 жыл бұрын
Cheyenne Felix don’t fall for the sunk cost fallacy!
@王楠-u4z6 жыл бұрын
I personally walked out of the same situation more than a year ago. Friends are not made for life, at least most of them.
@angelinakim846 жыл бұрын
My friend refuses to listen. She constantly asks for help, but never listens. She trash talks and can’t handle trash talk aimed toward her. She puts in no effort. Because of this, my anxiety gets worse. She always talks about her problems and never lets us talk about our problems. So this caused my problems with self worth to become even worse. I really just wanted to rant
@waffles20436 жыл бұрын
I had this too I know how you feel :/
@larissadias96616 жыл бұрын
Get rid of that bitchh
@SteampunkHorse6 жыл бұрын
Ik how you feel, I once had a toxic friend that used to be really nice to me until she turned our friend group into a wolf pack and made herself alpha, she then started treating me worse and worse until it came to a point where she was the cause of my depression and suicidal wishes. She moved schools though ^~^ I rant about this all the time and idk why but I feel like crying rn
@BeanzBakedBoy6 жыл бұрын
Angelina Kim yeah that sucks.My friend ich makes me feel like im the younger and he is the older.He acts like he is my dad.AND IM WAY STRESS.He even says this was how i treat my father.
@winwinsonlylinesinboss6 жыл бұрын
Bro same here, my friend just needs to stfu like damn
@Earl_Black5 жыл бұрын
11. They are manipulators 12. They put their burden on you 13. *THEY SUCK* fake friends: haha I'm the worst Toxic friends: *hold my Toxicity 100% beer*
@augustible91515 жыл бұрын
I am the toxic friend or was? I have tried changing which is working pretty well in my opinion. ....that makes me feel bad.
@Marie-t6i5 жыл бұрын
My friends are toxic and fake Soooo what do I win?
@thinking11845 жыл бұрын
Epic
@kyonas60474 жыл бұрын
"haha i am the worst" i heard that from my gf After she changes 😂☑️i feel nice really i was thinking that i am the bad guy
@zeke89854 жыл бұрын
My friend (well fake friend and hes toxic) is annoying as hell
@raheemwilliams27132 жыл бұрын
This video just confirmed everything that I’ve been thinking for the past ten years . But I rather have fake friends than no friends at all . It’s really sad how depressed I am .
@KingBestie1042 жыл бұрын
aww im really sorry I know it can be really hard. I hope you feel better soon
@AI-bq8dd6 жыл бұрын
*looks blankly at all of them*
@callofabyss6 жыл бұрын
A I mood
@LailuRosa_studios6 жыл бұрын
A I im not sure if she's toxic or not
@zacharymabb48736 жыл бұрын
U ok?
@user139764 жыл бұрын
haha, i’m thinking of my “friend” right now
@nuzmux86074 жыл бұрын
I have depression because my "friend" called me the N word now he tries to befriend me I just ignore him
@jaredberlin20664 жыл бұрын
Same
@cody80824 жыл бұрын
Me too
@AnandSingh-zv7pc4 жыл бұрын
Same
@R.R_Rinren4 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking of my two close friends in school right now lol
@wigletko37965 жыл бұрын
But i also don’t want to end our friendship as she’s my only friend...
@xxengineermain6.9youtube824 жыл бұрын
Wiglet Ko well, think of it this way. If you don’t think of them as a good friend, are they even your friend? It seems to be a one sided relationship. I say you just finish the friendship. If you try, good luck, hope they don’t snap at you.
@devikalal90124 жыл бұрын
This is my same situation!!😓😭
@matersven4 жыл бұрын
@@devikalal9012 want to be friends
@devikalal90124 жыл бұрын
@@matersven actually what do u mean??? 🤔🙂Be friends with my *fake friend* ???🤔🤔 I hate my bff as she is cheating on me...😫
@devikalal90124 жыл бұрын
@@matersven actually I don't want to be my *fake friend's* bff...but I have no other chance and she is the only on with me...she hates I hate her... But everyone thinks that we are true friend
@ItsTheETG3 жыл бұрын
I want to end the friendship but we’ve done alot together and when i think about ending the friendship the good memories flood in and i just can’t.
@leilanigill26442 жыл бұрын
I understand it’s hard because you start thinking about the good memories, but think about the bad memories and if you’ve had more good or bad with them. And if the bad is over powering the good that’s a sign that something is wrong.
@spacexghost8886 жыл бұрын
*Signs you have a narcissistic friend*
@giraffeparty04 жыл бұрын
damn this one girl I'm "friends with" does like all of these...smh
@slinkyshelby4 жыл бұрын
What happened? Just checking in on this comment xD
@its_lemon_194 жыл бұрын
sailxcreature • Same. There's this one guy that always seems kinda off to ke and I never feel like he wants to be friends.
@JunePlayzGacha5 жыл бұрын
I have these four friends.....they don't treat me right, make fun of me, talk behind my back , we don't have the same intrests and ect..... But if I hang out with only one of the four friends...they start being nicer.... I really feel like they're toxicating me..... At the same time a have these 2 girls that are super nice to me, we share the same interests and hobbys..... I sometimes hang out with them....but when I do...my toxic friends become even meaner....I just want to end the friendship and start over....and maybe be friends with those 2 girls....... The only reason I hang out with the four friends is because we used to be BFF's in primary school... EDIT: I left the toxic friends! I became friends with the two other girls!~
@mariokingtana63995 жыл бұрын
Here’s a tip. Act like you don’t care about them. Eventually it becomes the truth. Find new friends. Focus on them. If they say anything just be like “oh yeah I have these new cool friends”. They’ll realize that they should’ve been nicer and either act right or stay the same. You might lose them, but they weren’t worth keeping them. Don’t however, start trying to reverse the situation by trying to make them feel bad. Just let them realize how they’re being bad friends and if they trually care they’ll change. Nothing pisses people or a bully more then when they realize they aren’t irrelevant or don’t have the power over you.
@salomeyamankwaa25555 жыл бұрын
Omg same
@gabrielahernandez94165 жыл бұрын
Same situation
@mg6825 жыл бұрын
I hang with the ones I got cuz.... They're my way of finding that temporary happiness, whether it's a kickback or whatever... But the real question is, is it really worth it?
@yunglemonakis5 жыл бұрын
OMG! you're so brave and you did a huge risk but you succeded and I'm so proud of you.
@viviennetxng4 жыл бұрын
All of these apply to me, however, I devoted so much time to that one friend that I have nobody else to turn to. I'm legit thinking of going to a therapist. She has been my best friend since kindergarten and I feel less close to her every day, she won't even tell me what I did wrong if I did something wrong. She ignores me when I try to talk to her to try to right my wrongs. Thank you so much for this video!
@icyjinks3 жыл бұрын
Why are we on the same page
@theribloxchannel65505 жыл бұрын
Literally my " friend " always talks about how she's such a good friend all the heckn time, she takes my snacks on the bus and always finds something about me to criticize
@dickthebirthdayboy56315 жыл бұрын
that 1 feetus Same here... Even though I know it's not true it makes it even harder for me to cut ties with her.
@ghostrifter64055 жыл бұрын
One thing I learned from the past is to avoid the people that always compliments themselves alot.
@IAm-qf2xb4 жыл бұрын
fekkin
@hanennbow64614 жыл бұрын
yea same
@lindsighh4 жыл бұрын
One of my friends does think of something bad about me every day. They say bad things about how I act or how I look. One thing she is good about is she is funny around me in a good way. Is she toxic or just a normal friend?
@Xx_Angel-Demon_xX6 жыл бұрын
Man I’m early! I’ve had the most toxic friend she was a liar a manipulative person and everything here points out what she did. She’s moved and I’m grateful and I found friendships that are healthy and perfect it’s a dream come true this really helped me!
@_kanaoki_6 жыл бұрын
Angel- Demon Same! I didn't go through what exactly happened to you, but, most of what happened to you, happened to me.
@Xx_Angel-Demon_xX6 жыл бұрын
Hey It’s Day! Yes it’s very hurtful and extremely painful but in the end the moment they ditch you it’s worth it since they weren’t worth your time
@Xx_Angel-Demon_xX6 жыл бұрын
trashman that’s something good that you did it shows others that person is horrible and then it shows to avoid them
@Xx_Angel-Demon_xX6 жыл бұрын
Stardoll Motion Studios there’s a way remember there can be a way
@maryaliceolewicz6276 жыл бұрын
Angel- Demon Sorry to ask but what was she like? I feel the same way you do 😿
@marissarumrill36974 жыл бұрын
This is literally all my friends.…...
@syaetudes4 жыл бұрын
Your not the only one :"(
@FactOrbit.4 жыл бұрын
Both of you arent the only one 😭
@jungwonenthusiast56144 жыл бұрын
All of you aren’t the only ones
@jayple_syrup4 жыл бұрын
I can be your friend
@crystalxxx_xplays28blogs984 жыл бұрын
OOF Master go find sum new friends
@SA-ud9nf2 жыл бұрын
It's wonderful that people argue that are on KZbin helping care so much to watch out for others. I pray you were blessed for all you do. Thank you
@angelicaheart98175 жыл бұрын
Me: *Realises that I have a toxic friend* Me: *Realises that I talk behind her back because she's toxic* Am I the toxic? Edit: Omg I have never got any replies or this many likes before! Thank u!
@kaykite82034 жыл бұрын
Olivia Heart good. Give her medicine. See how it feels for her.
@zacharyullom46144 жыл бұрын
In the same boat, whoops 🤷🏻♂️
@blackeared13344 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I was thinking about that
@gaeltepale31894 жыл бұрын
Angelica Heart doesnt that make *you* the toxic friend?
@angelicaheart98174 жыл бұрын
@@gaeltepale3189 To be honest, I don't Know, my friend hurt me once and said she didn't care, and she would try to make me feel bad at times, but i talk bad about her because she is very rude to me, so I think u should deside if I am toxic or if my friend is toxic
@idksamir6 жыл бұрын
god i have so many people to get rid of
@nostalgia32836 жыл бұрын
Sweetie get rid of them, you don't deserve this treatment, I got rid of mine.
@citrus88846 жыл бұрын
Me and you both lol
@gabrielegenota14806 жыл бұрын
@@nostalgia3283 Hi! I'm a toxic friend here. And I also watch these videos. And I have feelings. Thanks
@nostalgia32836 жыл бұрын
Gabriele Genota Hi, I'm glad you have feelings...Of course you have feelings and that's great to know. Maybe you should consider other's feelings, too. Have a great day:) I wish you the best.
@gabrielegenota14806 жыл бұрын
@@nostalgia3283 The reason I watch these is because I want to fix myself in order to mend a shattered friendship. Seeing that people would nonchalantly "remove" friends upsets me. It feels like the value of a "friend" is little to none.
@skylarbeneck29066 жыл бұрын
I definitely have a toxic friend, but I'm afraid to distance myself because every time I've done that, she gets defensive and reminds me why I owe her
@adityapradhan29656 жыл бұрын
Skylar if you feel that you are suffering in any way because of her then don't hesitate to slam the door or at least talk about it to her. Don't be afraid of anything stay strong!
@liminalniko6 жыл бұрын
Skylar if they're toxic, then you dont owe them anything. Best thing for you would be to stop being friends or at least tell her why shes toxic and have a talk. Maybe she can be a better friend if you talk to her about it in depth. Just my guess. But if she doesn't change then cut the cord, you shouldn't have to deal with a toxic friend
@flairpwo6 жыл бұрын
Skylar Stay stong... I had been in that kind of situation before. Just be courageous, dont end up like me, tramutised, sad, lonely. Just say no!
@skylarbeneck29066 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys very much :)
@adityapradhan29656 жыл бұрын
Skylar just remember that people like these make us feel like we are nothing but that is not true. I am sure that you are a strong person because talking about a matter like this itself requires a lot of strength so be proud of yourself!
@GabrielTheMagolorMain3 жыл бұрын
Another sign: They don’t start a cult with you
@addy2253 жыл бұрын
thats so toxic om my gosh dump them if they dont join your 50 cults
@Katherine-mj8sw2 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY
@Vivio88972 жыл бұрын
@@addy225 what should i do?
@EnragedM0nkey5 жыл бұрын
I guess literally all of my friends are toxic.
@turtleshed58895 жыл бұрын
Same here i also only found this video because i typed in "how to get new friends" because they were all being assholes
@mumtazfaza91185 жыл бұрын
At lease you still have a friend but go find another friend
@turtleshed58895 жыл бұрын
@@haleigh3950 same here
@yuinurahilyon57115 жыл бұрын
The world is cruel but there are people who are always there for you... God, family, and people that could relate. Good and evil is created from the flow of this world. Just remove that attachment and learn to forgive others not for everything that they have done but for yourself by accepting that it happened and that it happens for important reasons... what is the need of hating if it won't help you? The brain is doing it's best to survive take care of it!
@YNNEB-hz3be5 жыл бұрын
I am sorry for you
@lawisa24 жыл бұрын
:{ Im crying right now... my best friend is almost all of these... since i havnt updated yall im not friends with her i hate her shes so dramatic over everything i hang out with another friend she gets salty. Edit: ur cool
@BudA294 жыл бұрын
You are etter than them x
@06devirona784 жыл бұрын
Same here
@byeetch4 жыл бұрын
Bruh, you have a Gacha profile
@leonierawr81934 жыл бұрын
Same
@sammyvibez6104 жыл бұрын
I'll be your friend
@marisolsarahi82065 жыл бұрын
Me: knows i have toxic fake friends but watches these videos anyways
@ayeitsnotme85175 жыл бұрын
lol same
@karinhame52745 жыл бұрын
RandomDraws YT same LOL
@meadowbell_5 жыл бұрын
Same
@sleepyhuman38165 жыл бұрын
same
@random_dog67932 жыл бұрын
The day before yesterday my best friend at school called me an "ugly disgusting freak" for not doing a dare she said. She's manipulative and she always makes up fights for little things. Definitely considering our friendship. Tysm for making this video Psych2Go
@MDWLRK76 жыл бұрын
This was my ex best friend. Hands down. Every...single thing.
@corinatralala25566 жыл бұрын
QuirkFrame Industries Same here!
@grapegarden80696 жыл бұрын
Same but with my current friends
@Laermira20056 жыл бұрын
He would ghost you and smother you??!! Wow he sounds bipolar
@noizee056 жыл бұрын
Same here and is heart-breaking and hard when you realize it and cut them off, because..when I had to do it, I felt the worst and most ungrateful person on the planet but within time I realize that it was the best decision despite sometimes feeling a void
@Ameliaaaa6 жыл бұрын
Laermira2005 that can happen! toxic friends will notice if you’re trying to distance yourself from them & manipulate you into thinking they’re an actual friend through attention. it’s sadly pretty common practice
@maxq1256 жыл бұрын
I forgot why I became friends in the first place... Because I’ve known them for that long.
@orchidskiesd53256 жыл бұрын
Same
@river80026 жыл бұрын
Me too ive known my friend for 11 years
@bongo91034 жыл бұрын
I’m sat here crying because every time I’m with my friend we laugh and have so much fun but now I’ve just found out she was back chatting shit about me and one of my other friends screenshoted her story on insta and it said “Gay weirdo” “Freak” “Go see a doctor” “Get help” Just because I suffer from ADHD might mean I get hyper but I didn’t know she thought that about me 🥺. If I dump her she’ll just chat even more shit about me and more people will see. The worst part is I actually viewed her as my friend and cared about her but if she dosent think that about me what’s the point ☹️
@higu4564 жыл бұрын
I’m scared of that happening to me if he talks behind my back
@لوتالوتا-ق5ق4 жыл бұрын
Get yourself some good friends :)
@Breezy_Blue4 жыл бұрын
End that friendship. Ignore what other people might be saying about you, and *stand up for yourself.* Don’t let them make you feel down, they don’t deserve your loyalty and kindness! They will realise that they have lost such a great and a caring friend. Move on and make some new friends, hopefully they will be better than the one you have ❤️❤️
@miuper42634 жыл бұрын
@@higu456 i have a “friend” and i have a good friend. the good friend is friends with the “friend”. When “friend” talks about me good friend tells it to me :)
@miuper42634 жыл бұрын
and Bongo it’s ok ur have lots of friends i don’t :)
@gage31803 жыл бұрын
A few years ago I realized that I'm a really toxic person but I didn't know what I could do to make myself better so I've been cutting people off, I think this was a good choice because this way no one gets hurt, if I phase out of there life subtly soon they'll forget about me and that makes me feel more confident in doing that
@thesacredcoffin6 жыл бұрын
YUP I HAVE A TOXIC FRIEND Edit:thanks for sooo many likes!
@Evelin.6 жыл бұрын
*ME TOO*
@mr.jazzmoose19376 жыл бұрын
O o f
@lizartlopez85836 жыл бұрын
layla msp ME TOO
@Bemw06 жыл бұрын
How would you get rid of them it’s just so hars
@devendrasharma35506 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ieatcoochiebut70955 жыл бұрын
I watch these to see if I'm being a good friend, only to end up questioning my friendship skills.
@certified_p.y.t.044 жыл бұрын
Me too.. Just found out that I'm a toxic friend she deserves someone better
@Raxcblue6 жыл бұрын
Too many snakes in my life
@MagicTranceChic946 жыл бұрын
Nadeem Chitaliya a literal quote i made from toy story "THERE'S A SNAKE IN MY GROUP"
@MediocreCritic2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video. I recently got into an argument with a friend and didn't know if I was being the toxic one. My friend claimed I was shoving everything i was saying into his face when I was trying to explain things from my perspective and wasn't trying to harm him with any message that would come off as something bad again. Now I know I'm in a toxic friendship from all the past experience from the 3 year friendship.
@ciawillhite2496 жыл бұрын
This helped realize that I need new friends.
@Bimskuuy6 жыл бұрын
Cia Willhite lets be friend
@fiddelstix8886 жыл бұрын
i used to have a toxic friend a long time ago she never really considered my emotions, and treated me like a toy... just something to put on a shelf and forget about
@Peridox694206 жыл бұрын
10 signs that you have a toxic friend. 1. If I’m your friend.
@pandalover52926 жыл бұрын
(Slight chuckle)
@Archemetics6 жыл бұрын
b e m y f r i e n d
@turtleboy11886 жыл бұрын
Go away
@itzfusionplex42666 жыл бұрын
Turtle Boy *no u*
@yoshifan03126 жыл бұрын
I can feel the edge from this comment and I'm using Chrome.
@mihika86722 жыл бұрын
Its my birthday today and all of my friends said yes to my party and cancelled at the last moment I feel so alone and disheartened
@giagiaa47475 жыл бұрын
I think I finally got out of a toxic friendship. I’ve been trying to escape so many times, but every time I tried to end the friendship I’d receive an “I’m sorry” or “Ill never do it again” or “Your making me so sad” from the friend. Recently I went to the movies with her (T for Toxic), and a few other friends. The beginning of the end was when we were playing truth or dare, and it was my turn. The dare I had was to let someone kiss me, but I skipped because I wasn’t comfortable with it. T-Friend then proceeds to slap my face and joke about it. A few turns later the dare was to let myself be kicked (the dates were odd because we were using a app). I skipped again, and T-Friend then proceeds to kick me twice. We were playing in our mall food court. As we were leaving the food court to go to Barnes and noble, on the way there T-Friend pushed my to the ground twice. When we were in Barnes and noble she kept trying to hit me with stuff. She finally threw a book at me, and I was bleeding for 2 hours. I was washing myself off as T-Friend was playing in the hallways, causing people to complain and us getting kicked out. Me and my other friends ditched her, and she kept trying to defend herself on our group chat saying that she was just having fun, and that she didn’t wanna go to Barnes and noble anyway. I now have a big noticeable cut on my lip thanks to her, but I’m finally relieved the friendship has ended. Previous times I’ve tried to end our friendship as T-Friend would verbally abuse me, calling me ugly, a terrible person (because I said I wanted to adopt children when I grow up) and a ton of other bad things. Ty for reading this.
@ilaa_amir5 жыл бұрын
The fact that you want to adopt children proves that you are opposite of terrible. But why did you let her to hit you and stuff?
@vsmoonchildmahir2835 жыл бұрын
You don't deserve this. You seem like such a nice person and you did a good thing getting rid of them 💜
@heerghaija39685 жыл бұрын
Giavanna Rotondo I don’t even receive sorry I have to say sorry even if it is not my mistake as I grew older my bestie became toxic now I am crying right now while watching this video remembering her we just fought today 😡😭😭
@giagiaa47475 жыл бұрын
Drawings byIQ Tysm really idk why I let it happen. But I’m happy it’s over
@mumtazfaza91185 жыл бұрын
Yeah me too my toxic friend did that to me so I decided to left him and he mad because he was kinda popular he use all her friend to bully me like calling me ugly stuff like that I'm glad that it's over because I go to junioy highschool and not gonna meet her again
@Z2wastaken4 жыл бұрын
THROUGHOUT THIS VIDEO EVERY SECOND I JUST THINK OF: Hey this reminds me off *blank* Hey thats what *blank* does! This video is bringing up alot of things relating to *blank* Anybody else?
@لوتالوتا-ق5ق4 жыл бұрын
This video got me thinking about my friend nijar. I never actually liked her :/
@zarcul19193 жыл бұрын
Yea, I had searched this up because of a certain friend. I wanted to know if "yea they're actually a toxic friend" because they're still good friends with some of my other friends and I'm worried that shes also gonna do the same to them. Sad thing is one of them is too nice to leave her. But it also gets me thinking how he can still be friends with her after what she did to me. I basically had an experiation date and it had been past that so she didnt want nor need me anymore so she tried to get rid of me but keep the friends I had introduced her to. And something I hate is how those friends, even after I told them the shit she did they still talk to her and told me to talk it out. And she likes to play victim in all this as well. Acts like a fuking child and looks for excuses.
@mishio-how68913 жыл бұрын
I got sent this video from my toxic friend😀✋
@Z2wastaken3 жыл бұрын
@@mishio-how6891 LMFAOOO
@Emmawow123 жыл бұрын
this video got thinking about every toxic friend i met!
@macaronimacaroon76085 жыл бұрын
I watch these because I'm scared if I am a toxic or not a good friend 😞
@randomturk20945 жыл бұрын
dont worry a toxic person would never admit that he/she is toxic
@macaronimacaroon76085 жыл бұрын
@@randomturk2094 Oh ok, thank you :)
@randomturk20945 жыл бұрын
@@macaronimacaroon7608 thx for responding no just dont worry be yourself always never belive when somebody tells you you changed or something like that that is a manipulating technique just stay same i think u are good friend i you search videos like this
@personinapoolofpeople77735 жыл бұрын
Macaroni Macaroon I feel the same... All my friends left me for other groups,I’m scared I’m the one pushing them away...
@napsmvm5 жыл бұрын
my two friends bully me on discord and school what makes it worse is that i deal with it everyday and its 2vs 1
@heatheralosi7792 жыл бұрын
These videos are so helpful. After this video, I realized I had a fake friend. Me and a true friend resolved the problem. Now me and the fake friend aren’t friends, but we are happier
@JPhilPJ6 жыл бұрын
I don't want to become what I hate.
@brooklynhurt63854 жыл бұрын
everytime i heard a new part of the list my stomache dropped :(
@李新-x9p4 жыл бұрын
I watched this to see if I'm that toxic friend. Turns out I am. More than I would like to admit. I was so oblivious to it all, and now I fucking hate myself. Even now I'm being self cantered. I'm typing up a comment about me. Always me. Why?
@kurapikakurta19974 жыл бұрын
It’s weird how that happened to me as well, but it was just my sister sleepwalking when I was watching this at night XD
@aleafoftea43646 жыл бұрын
I think this video also helps us to become a better friend
@-jelly-potato-71583 жыл бұрын
Yep. I have no doubt now. They where a toxic “friend”. Welp I just ended a “friendship” today.
@tania_yt6 жыл бұрын
Wow... this is one of the most relatable videos ever.... i bet many people have toxic friends who watch this.
@beledihenrietta11545 жыл бұрын
I think my best friend is toxic... well ex-best friend.. :'(
@mariebrown56816 жыл бұрын
This hurts so much, because this describes my situation 100%. He's just like the toxic, so-called "friend" in this video. He's no longer my boyfriend, and he probably never was; he's just a very cruel person. I have to let him go.
@ruthruthie29316 жыл бұрын
Marie Brown block his number and read some books when you feel lonely. And get a pet!
@mariebrown56816 жыл бұрын
Ruth C Thank you! ❤
@allanbaker59456 жыл бұрын
You'll be all right!
@mariebrown56816 жыл бұрын
Allan Baker ❤ I hope so. Thank you.
@Kalixa19916 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@silkwillowfarm94972 жыл бұрын
Thank you, this video helped me realise how toxic my two best friends are… they are always making me uncomfortable and like the only thing I’m good for is to dump their problems on me and no longer worry about it. Also whenever I speak they just look at me as of I’m a piece of inconvenient dirt that just happened to be there.