10 STOIC LESSONS TO HANDLE DISRESEPECT (MUST WATCH) | STOICISM

[@danserrano100]

1. Keep your calm-their behavior is a reflection of their erroneous thoughts, and negative emotions; others insecurity; 2. Reflect on yourself-are they telling the truth, then silently reform yourself in line with your envisioned values; 3. Pause-resist the impulse to react; 4. Practice empathy-have compassion on their ignorance; 5. Concentrate on virtue of wisdom and courage, respond with reason not emotions; 6. Embrace acceptance- you have no control with others. Happy with what you have, not compare with others what you lack; 7. Use Humor-or simply smile never take it seriously; 8. Set clear boundaries- be the mountain no matter how the wind howls never bow down to it; 9. Choose forgiveness-let go of negative emotions, with compassion in fighting justice and 10. Change your perspective -take the higher view and broader perspective. Never entertain vengeance, manage your emotions with reason. Everything and everyone shall come to pass, do not be too attached to temporal wealth, power or fame and even pleasures of the Earth.

[@thestoiccommunity]

Thank you for this

[@cephalocaudal]

Maraming Salamat! ❤

[@Vaejovis357]

Very similar to Christianity and Vedanta.

[@johnnygizmo4733]

​@@Vaejovis357turn the other cheek

[@furyberserk]

Prudence, Temperance, Fortitude, Justice.

[@HauntedGuitarMan]

This is the stuff kids should be learning in schools at an early age.

[@vickicarter5808]

You are exactly right 👍

[@Gromkiii]

Most of the teachers are women, stoic teaching and accountability is a kryptonite for most of them.

[@pillowface5628]

They are too busy being taught to change their gender

[@leoprisionero]

As I teacher, i do agree

[@brownin329]

​@@Gromkiiithere are male teachers. They're not teaching it either. So what's the excuse there?

[@donnaclemmons3721]

Really hard to be stoic with a narcissist

[@eagleeyeviewimages]

Same here brother. You can do it. peace

[@jamiehill3472]

The "grey rock" technique works with narcissistic abuse .

[@MARKB671]

Stoicism, would encourage you to vary your strategy as to deal effectively with your adversary/ challenge while still maintaining virtue.

[@KerryCahill-n2u]

Exactly! My family is very narcissistic. And I of course am the scapegoat. Not easy

[@olaniyi570]

Sometimes, it's just best to walk away from certain people. Permanently.

[@martinadelaney221]

The minute someone disrespects you. Walk away.

[@myrahouse2368]

I give it the number of 3 they have 3 chances with me….

[@newfoundlandquadboss.2137]

Absolutely correct. And never go back …

[@GenoMarley-e4i]

I've ran into people before that for instance [There was this guy were I worked with who told me a few times of n.on his his dad never missed church because of a football college game in which they had to go 350 makes to get hhe spot they had for twenty years but his dad would a always make it back for church as hhoug it was a good reflection on his character. It was snd I never thought twice except he must have good character this man.One day,we had to go get a truck picked up from the mechanic and he drove me and not lobg after we got their this guys dad came in who I didn't recognize earn I'd never met him Coworker seemed to be cool like he didn't want to show much emotion towards each other kinda a nonchalant deal .Either way the first thing that came out after my Coworker introduced me was "so this is the fat guy you told me about".I couldn't walk away I felt like I was a teen that the bully had decided to pic on.ny face flushed but there was a part there that was not developed at 12 I stood there and I just smiled looking straight into his eyes.I was now an observer I was outside my body looking at what I thought I'd be seeing if i actually was.I concentrated on mainly choosing to control my breathing and not make a movie out if this.I never felt in danger but I must say I have at times rerun the science afterwards an think of reply katar on hhat would have been sharp an nesn.I am incapable of thinking spur of ghr moment I guess.i am proud that I didn't show any response to his uhm (Christian father) I'm a follower of Jesse's teachings and stoic spiritual its Jesus and God of Abraham but still these events hit me time to time in my life I wonder why ?

[@macblink]

Remember that when someone disrespect you, is a result of their personal thoughts and emotions, not a true representation of yourself and your values 👌🏻

[@9fiveb180]

Sometimes it's a response to an absence of respect from the other person.

[@jillyjenkins3195]

Thank you. Your insight is simple but effective. It makes walking on by all the easier. ❤

[@lemmesay]

1. Keep calm 2. Recognize your part, if any 3. Learn to pause in anger 4. Have empathy 5. Concentrate on virtue/be rational, maintain integrity 6. Embrace acceptance, you can not control the external 7. Use humor/do not take it seriously 8. Set clear boundaries 9. Choose forgiveness 10. Change your perspective, it is really not a big deal

[@DarkMetaOFFICIAL]

11. Grow a Very Chadly Beard.

[@thebutton]

​@@DarkMetaOFFICIALlol I sure love them goodens

[@sheisomarica]

Thank you ❤

[@elizabethawomanofgod4810]

It is a big deal! It’s called Spiritual Growth.

[@nonyabeezwax8693]

Easier said then done

[@FaithFilled.]

Never in a million years did I think philosophy would encapsulate my interests. Growing up is fun. 😂

[@tommythespitter]

Trruuussst me hahaha mad ting ❤

[@FaithFilled.]

@@tommythespitter lol, no

[@tommythespitter]

@@FaithFilled. I was simply agreeing with what you said in your comment, merely a figure of speech. I wasn't literally asking u to trust me lol. God bless you 🙏🏼 ❤️

[@FaithFilled.]

@@tommythespitter all good. 🙏

[@phildehn9597]

Brother same, I thought for the entirety of my twenties it was overkill thinking on every single minuscule part of my day. Guess you’re right, growing up is fun. Our time is finite, why not milk every single second

[@reallife231a]

Yes, we do understand that disrespect comes from the person's insecurities and jealously. If it happens repeatedly, we can't just keep taking it or they will walk all over us. Best thing is to avoid these people.

[@redsuperman7739]

For so many of us, avoidance is not possible

[@irenehartlmayr8369]

But one does not have to suffer other peoples silly ideas and agressions all the time,even if it is only their own mental poverty,stupidity,or lack of judgement that is causing their behaviour.

[@reallife231a]

@@redsuperman7739 it's tough if its a close family member.

[@alexs7671]

​@@reallife231ahumour and responding as you choose, or not responding at all. Role play in your head to alter learned dynamics. "WHATEVER" in your head and keep moving forward as if the jibe never touched you. Pray for help. Good luck.

[@reallife231a]

@@alexs7671 I think it's just easier to walk away and drop these kind of toxic people from your life even if they have been long time friends. You do know how narcissists work right? Of course, it hurts at the beginning but you have such a feeling of peace after they are gone.

[@johnshields6852]

Even as a 10 year old Boston kid in 1970 I've had a chip on my shoulder, always fighting older kids for bullying others or myself, I'm still the same way,l. My father told me, if you fight every Ahole you meet, you'll be fighting 24/7, he was right.

[@tommychappell6359]

The hardest lesson is that. In someone else's story. Were the bully. The problem is we see others as bully so muchhhhh. That we are blind to it/prospect ourselves. (Shocking revelation but necessary one). Or parts we play align to same thing. I'm not suggesting anyone is a bully directly. But certain things we do can have a negative result for other people. Which amount to same thing in other people's minds. Abuse/bullying. Both same. Which is inherently stealing a piece of worth from another. There are about 30 main types of abuse and 300-500 different subheadings for each abuse. So blind we don't see the UGLY in ourselves that resemble perhaps those they didn't like in the past. Which amounts to negative consequence for someone else. They say anyone can be bully. But what I think by anyone is really mean. Everyone. (But didn't have spine to say it). Such an elusive trap not to think of oneself as a bully. Because that's something we never do. But then later soon find yourself to be that person. In some form. Everyone like to think of themselves good. But are we? Do we really know what we do from outside perspective. Have we seen ourselves? In action. It starts where our limitations end. Perhaps haven't met enough people to truly see it inside ourselves. Areas we lack. The lesser good sides.

[@Aureliano01]

your father is very much wise and very much right

[@marcse7en]

There sure are a lot of a-holes in the World!

[@brienwhite4936]

Bully I have always found it was best act afraid this is to billed there confidence. You want them to feel so confident that they would never expect what is coming. It is at this time you stick them. 😃 bully gone. Danger gone.

[@sonquatsch8585]

@@brienwhite4936 always has been my philosophy, particularly at workplace. if they think u scerd the element of surprise is that much more powerful and destabilizing.

[@bambbam023]

I have been in a terrible 29 year relationship, when I met her she was 21, and I was 26, when we met she was already having major life issues and I fell for her deeply and I told her I could help her, well during the entire relationship I was trying to fix someone that wasn’t will to fix themselves but I didn’t give up because I always thought it would get better and here I am 29 years later sharing my life story. You can’t fix anyone and you can’t help others unless they are willing to fix themselves. These videos have help me a lot so thank you , divorce isn’t the end of my life but a new beginning. 😊

[@monkeypawww1]

i get it.. going through the same thing waited to get it right for marriage.. only he had custody of a 2 year old.. now 25 years later they both are the same with the same issues too much to take ready to break... again i know what you feel

[@zipperpillow]

Don't get married. That forces people to be on their best behavior, all of the time. You were sold a pack of lies. And that got you played. Welcome to the future.

[@splashmoby]

She can't help herself, it was all on you for choosing to tolerate her. Is it really important to "fix" her though? Nevertheless wishing you all the best to a new beginning.

[@reformerx667]

It is sad it took you so long to understand this simple truth - you should never try and change people. It is hard enough changing ourselves. Did you ever understand your reasons for such self harming behaviour? You may not be able to achieve closure and real growth until you understand your own actions.

[@bambbam023]

@@splashmoby I never knew what I was up against in the beginning and everything was going great, I put her through Nursing School by working two jobs seven days a week for 2.5 years and after she graduated I thought we were in the right path to a successful marriage and relationship, but it was only the beginning to what was to come, bipolar, excessive spending and I always fixed it and then we had a son, now he’s 18 years old and he’s just like her because I stayed and he does have some mental issues himself. He lives with me and I have been trying to help him but he won’t listen to me so I had to let him learn on his own by asking him to leave. That was the hardest thing I have ever done in my life. I have to take care of me first.

[@arboghast8505]

I recently had a chance of practising Stoicism when facing a sociopathic motel manager who abuses the motel guests. I failed to some degree, the major failure is not keeping my cool. But it’s ok, as stoicism pointed out, every challenge is an experience, a chance to learn. Keep at it brothers

[@kalfive555]

If they can make you angry or upset, they can control you. Don't be controlled by others.

[@michael.cschrubbe5879]

Not when my response is swift, deft, fatal!

[@dennisliamardell8906]

Met a man , named Roy masters. He wrote a book “ how to control your emotions .” Helped me enormously. “ How your mind can keep you well .” Those books are life changers. Roy Masters , unlike cult gurus Would never tolerate anyone worshiping him. He often said “ never follow anyone who wants you to work for them who will not pay you ; and, never follow gurus who do not have nine to five jobs and EARN THEIR OWN WAY IN this world.”Perfect advice for avoiding cults. I just found out this wonderful man died a few years ago ;who gave of himself so freely over the decades on his radio program. R. I. P. Roy Masters . I still have many of his books . I am glad I had the experience of meeting Roy MATERS in Los Angeles in 1977- Basically , his message was “ never follow anyone ( especially him)-but yourself .”

[@gerrimiller3491]

Thank you for mentioning this book 📖... Buying it!

[@kevinmalone3210]

I heard Roy Masters on the radio years ago portraying himself as some kind of sage, saying how important it is to control ones emotions. He really seemed to have it all together. He then started to talk about some guy he ran into, challenging him to a fight, over some incident, and saying how he accepted the challenge, and proceeded to beat the guy up. He then completely lost it. He started ranting and raving about how the US is full of cowards and bullies. So much for keeping your cool. 😅 lol.

[@Themystergamerr]

You set this out like a poem that doesn't rhyme lol

[@dennisliamardell8906]

@@Themystergamerr The best poems do not rhyme

[@martinwarner1178]

@@kevinmalone3210 Reuben Obermeister, I would never trust anyone, or any thing that changes it's name. Peace be unto you.

[@happygolucky9004]

I wish the US would teach this in every school. So many children would grow up to be better citizens and happier adults.

[@kyledowning6775]

Admittedly, I have a hard time letting disrespect go. The urge to defend yourself against unfair or unjust criticism often overrides rationality, and it's hard to think clearly in the moment. It takes extreme willpower to walk away from painful situations, and even more to respond in a calm, collected manner. It has to become a daily habit before it can become a normal part of our psyches. Some days if just feels so hard to maintain.

[@barbaragonzalez3504]

True. If you keep calm, it will make the other person wonder if their unkind and hurtful words hit home. This will make them angrier because you don't show any emotion. The victory is yours. Then walk away.

[@louisegarner8888]

Indifference 🗝 it's really, really hard at first and the urge to react keeps coming back in waves but they get less and less intense. It's actually really good practise for lots of other things like no contact, grey rock, keeping boundaries firm, introspecting instead, and... for giving us lots of time to think on all the ways you could've responded but just couldn't bring yourself to dignify that level of disrespect so knew you had to end it. Journalling as you go helps recall. 😑🕊️✌️

[@louisegarner8888]

​@@barbaragonzalez3504 Yes, that's exactly what happened. They thought I'd react and when I didn't they went nuts for weeks, now they're trying to act like they're all good but you can still see the steam coming out of their ears and they're running so many triangulations it's become ridiculous as they're switching ppl way too fast you can tell it's just designed to annoy, upset and provoke emotional reactions. We need adult to adult relationships not child to parent ones, I'm done, no one's got time or energy for that level of bs.

[@louisegarner8888]

​​@@barbaragonzalez3504Oh and they brought up that they loathed themselves, then that they don't respect anyone but themselves and lots more .. really crazy stuff, that's why I'm here. Listen to what they say, it's actually chock full of confessions about themselves not us.

[@StoicismLegends]

"You always own the option of having no opinion. There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can't control. These things are not asking to be judged by you. Leave them alone." - Marcus Aurelius

[@thinkagain9315]

These are principles that even a person with schizophrenia hearing mean thoughts can follow to create a better life for themselves. And I write this from my own perspective, me being one with schizophrenic thoughts and growing to handle them better after 5 years with no medicine and managing it with humor and grace in the name of my dignity.

[@Bond3773]

Good lucky God bless

[@Carol-qv3mk]

👍

[@donnamuller6460]

My son must have an extremely severe case then. No one can even have a conversation with him.

[@thinkagain9315]

@@donnamuller6460 I haven’t always been like this. Mine was drug induced. I had a “normal” structure before, so I knew what was living without it. My first year was traumatic. And because once I caught myself being a risk not only for myself but for others, I stopped myself and thought “I will not believe every thought from now on anymore”. And this started smoothing it out for me along time. Nowadays the schizo thought are almost gone, it’s like someone decided to lower down the volume since it was some sort of waste of energy. For me, it helped me clearing out that even since before these episodes, not all my thoughts were already mine. I was a very mean and difficult person to deal with thanks to my thought patterns. And after that I started having agency and cultivating more positive and loving patterns instead of just believing that I was the one thinking all that, therefore I must express it to its full extent. In an analogy, it’s like going to a restaurant. And, before, in that restaurant, they would only serve the dish they wanted, and I needed to accept and pay for it. Nowadays I can go to that restaurant and they will serve me a menu so I can choose, otherwise I can choose another restaurant with better conditions, prices, and a menu of my liking. So before I was being served really difficult thought patterns that would result in rage almost every day. I got fed up with rage every day and got myself into drug abuse. And after the drug abuse I started having schizo symptoms as new thought patterns (even worse than before, because they started being not grounded in reality). After realising how worse that got, I figured out I could create better ones myself, and started serving myself with something that would not end up in being anxious and angry every day. And it has to do with the practices spoken about in this video (it so happens that at the same period in my life I was invested in a lot of stoicism and spiritual development videos on KZbin too).

[@lollylula6399]

I take a good quality high dose multi B vitamin supplement most days, and then if I notice my thoughts getting 'sticky' I have a B12 injection. Apparently some people don't absorb B12 through their digestive system very well so taking through injection or a liquid supplement under the tongue helps with it's absorption. I've not had a psychotic episode for more then 15 years now. I know it works for me and others I can't guarantee it will help you but it's worth it if it helps. All the best to you.

[@Northman1963]

If someone insults or demeans me in some way my response is "thank you for your opinion". It immediately shows them that I don't care, takes them off guard, and that I think of their remark as nothing more than a simple statement. Coupled with a smile it can be effective in de escalating the situation.

[@janeyjoesmith2127]

I agree as I say something similar...” You’re welcome to your opinion 😊.”

[@Bebin369]

Thanks for that

[@zozyb1]

Yes, walk away , it's a narcissist trying to control you.

[@evka24]

@@janeyjoesmith2127funny and clever

[@ct6852]

Good way to present yourself in the moment...but never quite sure what to do in the aftermath when you really are hurt. Should you pretend not to feel anything?

[@jessevincentsawian9077]

I would argue sometimes that by not doing anything we empower them, with the confidence that there would be no consequences to their actions and would lead to an increase to their actions.

[@dudersification]

Being a nice person I always get frowned upon, talked less to meaning people make jokes at your expense, seen as feeble or weak, a push over or lack confidence. In the face of adversity I smile and keep on walking, those who wish to destroy your character will only get more frustrated because their insecurities do not affect your psyche meaning when people try to belittle and fail they only get more angry with themselves because they cannot project their insecurities upon you. Smile and walk with your head high no matter what type of difficulties you are experiencing

[@thebutton]

This week extreme disrespect was visited upon me. Twice in one day. I laid in bed literally physically sick. I was not able to go to work. Sure wished i knew about this here upload!

[@Fahq600]

I've learned that the only things I control are my emotions, my actions, and my attitude. I don't control the weather any more than I can control the neighbors down the street. Life got easier after understanding this.

[@tommychappell6359]

Well. Generally yeah. But I think always being nonchalant person is not always thing. I suppose if got not just yourself to think about then yeah (like only family ahead of you). But for yourself idk. Personally I have thought.. some tactful things here there is good. But nothing too substantial. Light statements. If must interject be very tactful about it. But sometimes better to say nothing.

[@tommychappell6359]

I think people would be more surprised then they know to see that people ARE receptive to thoughts than they would THINK. it's having preparation and right angle though. In the Same way a bystander might help friend in situation. Again being tactful about it. In the right way. I don't completely buy this always be quiet nonsense. Yes as a rule of thumb you should. But as with anything in life too much of anything can be draining to the soul. People will be receptive but only when done skillfully. And well thought.

[@tommychappell6359]

Even more than that though. Is control internal emotion. But also controlling emotions of pain that have been brought on by others. Unfortunately many people are oblivious to pains in others brought on by others, they will only see it as YOUR PAIN. rather than many people's pain On you. unfortunately means managing others people's INJUSTS against you within yourself. AS WELL. not letting those pass on to others. Just as much. Life is more about managing OTHERS PAINS within you. Not your own. Life is ironic. This managing others emotions inside you too.

[@zipperpillow]

You are not here to control things. You are here to experience things. Your delusions will be stripped one way or another, eventually. Best to enjoy the ride while it lasts, and choose your company more carefully.

[@Youtubecreater312]

I had to practice test this morning with my son as he was going into a fit of anger because he didn’t want to go to school. I held my composure and I remembered everything this video said, and it actually worked. I didn’t have to go to work angry, and he slowly began to realize that I did not have the energy for him, and he apologized And then it was a beautiful day.

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[@luxemindsetofficial]

Beautiful comment

[@The_Vegan_Punk1967]

I just ignore them. The best way to insult a fool is to ignore them.

[@janicewatts294]

I live with a relative who has severe bipolar disorder and I find myself being disrespect ed several times a day. It is very hard to deal with at times. Watching these sort of videos helps to keep thinks in perspective.

[@billwright2811]

I face disrespect often. It is the way i am perceived by others. I need to change the way I am perceived. I get angry. I get fed up with looking at the reasons they behave the way they do about me. So now I have more "tools" to help me cope. Yes, take a deep breathe, then reassure myself that I have worth. The initial reaction will pass.

[@nedthestaffieegan3452]

I know what you mean. I'm very conscious of how I conduct myself and communicate, so I'm mindful to treat others with respect. Sometimes this comes across as weakness or a perceived lack of power, and not worthy of respect. I notice it a lot in the way other people communicate with each other, where respect doesn't even figure as important. This reduces the quality of interaction and overall human connectedness, as it creates defensiveness and hostility. As a species we really need to take a long look at this, if we are to progress and evolve. Life could be much sweeter if we didn't have to worry about being attacked or hurt by the careless disrespectful actions of others. The hardest thing to do is avoid stooping to the same level and responding in a disrespectful way. This goes against our values and principles, but it's not easy doing nothing either! Sending you respect for your comment 🌅🌸

[@Indigostarfly]

The less people in my life, the happier I find I am and in peace.

[@Hezigrimm]

It's always like the universe sends me what I need when I need it. Been very disrespected by people in my work place and my company. I needed this; I need to delve back into philosophy once again. It made me such a better person.

[@dylansmith6078]

One line my wife loves when somone comes to me and disrespects me is "start over" they either get offended or repeat themselfs in a more respectful manner if they get offended I simply state "I want to hear what you have to say but I want it to be civil" simple as that my boss hates it but he has never given me disrespect since a few times of that. He now knows he can't push me.

[@INFJ2]

LOVE THIS

[@bdml77]

To whomever is reading this: no, you don't need to accept disrespect. Exhibiting acceptance and empathy towards people who are willfully disrespectful makes you a target for more abuse.

[@fishinthesea3454]

I agree. I've had to deal with my own insecurities without being being disrespectful to other people. So I don't deal with other people's insecurities, truly. Sorry, not sorry.

[@zavd.r.3638]

Stoicism is not about being passive and accepting harm without any action. Rather, it is about accepting that some things are outside of your control and focusing your energy on what you can control, such as your own thoughts and actions.

[@michael.cschrubbe5879]

​@@zavd.r.3638well said!

[@ericchristian6710]

There is a difference between accepting disrespect and choosing when you act and what you do under trying circumstances as in more pleasant ones. It's not hard to tell the difference between a man who is in control of his emotions and one who is afraid to speak

[@ericchristian6710]

Most of the baddest dudes I ever knew were stoic and likely to tolerate a certain amount of disrespect calmly and without reaction until they didn't and they are likely to seem deceptively calm to someone who just happened upon them with nefarious intentions and proceeded to give them the business and poking sticks up bears' noses and stuff lol. I used to go to jail and prison every time they let me out so I know a few knuckleheads.

[@pattyberryman3037]

The Beautiful Beings of Gaia would like to thank The Stoic Community for their service. We are forever grateful.

[@thestoiccommunity]

Glad you liked it. Thank you for watching

[@danb3762]

Wat ? Your no more human than anyone else. Beauty is only in the eyes the.beholder

[@pageremick5504]

Excellent. Now, if this was only taught in schools and practiced by adults as examples to children. Be in control of your emotions.

[@tommychappell6359]

Kind of hard when being attacked left right and centre. Swept into yesteryear. For a taking/For a ride.

[@tommychappell6359]

Biggest lesson is what you see in others is yourself in them.

[@Beniah107]

These are the lessons a child needs to be taught by parents, first and foremost. Schools are not there to teach morals, beliefs and values.

[@zipperpillow]

Be in control of your emotions? So funny that a woman just preached that. Do you know any women?

[@tommychappell6359]

I know another. Be in control of emotions. Yeah because one who isn't in control is more discrete in getting away with it. Where other must be forced to walk more difficult one. In their midst. Of not discovering the fuller truth. That is was not.. in fact. Their fault. And perpetrator knows something and deliberately keeps quiet so don't incriminate themselves. But I smell people holding back from a mile away. I know when something isn't right. Like it being reflective of own miscalculation. Own misconduct. Be more in control. Yeah because you're the one getting away with it. Or because more expecting of other people/blaming other people than you are yourself. Cause enjoy hinging blame on others exponentialllyy.

[@YodaMiyagi]

Respect is given Trust is earned

[@laurence-tw7su]

Yes! Only last week, someone I trusted disrespected me by doing something I specifically asked her not to do. As a direct result, i got into a lot of trouble with my neighbours. I totally lost my trust in her, and when I see her next (she is currently on holiday) I will tell her calmly, and rationally. But I will not take it lying down.

[@M0odyBlue]

Thinking back on my life, the times, events, and arguments I regret the most are those where I reacted emotionally. I am learning to let regret and guilt go and just do better. Our pastor, who is a wise and learned man, says we have to forgive, but we don’t have to put ourselves in the position to be offended against again. Thank you for this. I never really learned about stoicism in my education, and am enjoying learning about it now. So much wisdom. So little time.

[@tommychappell6359]

I want everyone to make a book. Just 1 book. With own lessons. So they may pass it on. And not repeat pains.

[@tommychappell6359]

With deep reflection I've found well only way to learn is to go through it. It's not very pleasant experience I can tell you, some of them might come to cause heartbreak/tear in yourself. It will always come down to some level of personal experience. Physical experience/knowledge. Which is the gold of all knowledge. Forgivness I found is number 1 in society. As to forgive others trespasses against us. It all takes time. We must explore deeper aspects of things so we can muster deeper compassion for people. At the end of the day. We're all human. Trying to make best out of what we can. Unfortunately reality doesn't always mean the best for us. When we forsake a human-being we also forsake their capacity for goodness. Which could have come about into the world. We must endure, to our greatest ability to be best version of ourselves. Not letting ourselves fall. Until it has to. With compassion and understanding and bit of trying we can all love to endure each others trials. If you must endure pain for learning. Let it be based off an educated guess. Rather than an uneducated one/preventable one. Thus it will be next level up. (Than one below it). The most painful lesson in life is to be forgiven for a basic lesson (easily prevented). Always be guy who forgiven for the educated guess. This not allowing forgiveness it's own a bad rap.

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Beautiful response

[@timkoerber869]

Brilliant! Worth watching multiple times! Reminds me of what Socrates said "The unexamined life is not worth living" Wish I had these lessons presented when I was younger!

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Im teaching these techniques to local kids

[@abelinaportillo1783]

It called SELF esteem for a reason. IMO, we can’t allow others or situations to dictate how we feel. Also saying NO is a powerful tool that allows ourselves to flow within our limits and standards.

[@guadalupeiorio1216]

I'm going to keep this video close and reflect on it when someone tries to distribute my peace. Thank you

[@N1n3pix]

I really needed to hear this as my parents are both narcissistic and disrespect me daily. I'm a mother of a young child as well and feel as if they see me still as a child raising a child instead of an adult

[@jandunn169]

Even when I was in my 60ʼs my Mom refused to acknowledge I was in charge of caring for her. Sometimes it is their own insecurities and inability to let go of control.

[@zipperpillow]

It is more likely that their stubborn self-delusion was rooted in easily dominating children without ever learning how to appreciate the life that they were gifted. It's an entitlement delusion, and sloppy, lazy human skills. You should punch her in the face and knock out her expensive teeth.@@jandunn169

[@pollytheparrot8929]

Same here.. My parents too are narcissistic.. I hate them

[@ilonacheema6088]

This is very common and unfortunately still many parents do this. It is like owing their kids, regardless, till the rest of their lives. I would just move away for a long time to a place where they cannot follow, maybe too far for them, and not look for their company. Eventually this feelings will go and you will be able to stand up again. You should certainly not let them ruin you.

[@zipperpillow]

I agree. If your parents aren't helpful, leave them, move away. You only get 1 life, don't waste it being around people who like tearing you down, or who need to make themselves feel superior to you. Ilona is right.@@ilonacheema6088

[@QuoteQuest_world]

The Beautiful Beings of Gaia would like to thank The Stoic Community for their service. We are forever grateful.

[@TheLastSentientVolatile]

Thank you stoics stoisism changed my life and i do believe it is the answer to all our problems. I recommend everyone to stoisism

[@JuanRamos-sj3cx]

This video really helped me out today . It has been a roller coaster week. I woke up ,to bad thoughs idealing in my head. After listening and understanding the message of this video, I grew back to my self, the rock that I am. Thanks.

[@thestoiccommunity]

Glad it helped. Thanks for sharing this

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Beautiful comment. Stay strong

[@richardlaino1079]

Been on a journey…was faced with a disrespectful situation with an older brother…..this defiantly helped my thought process…I realize that I’m a stoic….always have been…just a little rough around the edges…71…I always put people first when I’m in front of them….then the phone rings!….I’m a much better person…..

[@lindaeubanks-ym7ve]

AMEN

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Beautiful story

[@jinshin6611]

Resonated with number 9,, truly "forgiveness" is the key to a peaceful life. Let go and give it to God. 🙏🙌

[@loz5491]

I respect your interpretation and personal choice in ‘ giving it to God ‘ 👍🏻

[@KerryCahill-n2u]

Most people want to think we’ve got stoicism down. But like everything else inherent in the human experience, everything changes. I have yet to meet anyone who is consistently stoic. My cats are very stoic😊

[@pip393]

That's really odd, since throughout my life I've always been as nervous as a cat in a room full of rocking chairs.

[@mattz4229]

I consider myself quite stoic, but I will say I am nowhere near perfect. I occasionally lose all my shit I have neatly collected behind my barrier. Hats off to anyone who is 100% because I am only 98% but that 2% gets loose

[@KerryCahill-n2u]

@@mattz4229 😀 😊🙂

[@JerseyLynne]

Mine is a narcissist. (My cat)

[@KerryCahill-n2u]

@@JerseyLynne 😻🤣😻

[@Positivevibes6238]

THANK GOD,MY PARENTS TAUGHT US TO RESPECT OTHERS SINCE WE WERE YOUNG AND STAY HUMBLE.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@marcillioficino4663]

Humble people don't type using all caps....... busted.

[@KeytarKris]

👂!!!

[@Positivevibes6238]

@@marcillioficino4663 I HAVE EYESIGHT PROBLEM,BESIDES, MY RIGHT EYE IS BLIND.THINK BEFORE YOU GIVE AN OPINION,YOU NEVER KNOW THE PROBLEM PEOPLE UNDERGO,WHY I HAVE THIS BIG LETTERS.MAY GOD ENLIGHTEN YOU TO BE SENSITIVE TO OTHERS.BLESS YOU.BY THE WAY I AM 70 YR.OLD AND SICK.ARE YOU A NARC?YOU SOUND LIKE ONE.YOU ARE DESCRIBING YOURSELF.

[@marilynbrown5274]

Did they teach you to respect yourself?

[@liverightdieproud2189]

Listening to this at 6 am. I wish someone had taught me this 20 years back.

[@jimbogan3692]

Remember being a stoic also doesn't mean being a doormat and letting someone to continue doing disruptive behaviour.

[@marydietterich5968]

I think I have almost mastered these actions, but have taken a lifetime to learn how! This is the work that we need to study from a young age! The Practice of Compassion using our beliefs as a shield to create boundaries! Then to solve problems with dignity making a better world in the process!

[@lesliea7394]

I have been learning about myself for many years...at age 77, I have arrived at a place where I am doing much better with the issue addressed in this video. I am so grateful that I have made it so far from where I began.....personal growth is paramount to living a successful life.

[@bethdumont9020]

1) Keep your calm. Just because the disrespectful action is a result of the other person's issues doesn't mean it's not harmful to you. I've found that knowing WHY someone does a certain action only helps you move thru the hurt caused faster. That's because you can put the action into a framework. However - knowing why someone did something doesn't in any way stop the hurt from occurring the next time the person repeats the disrespectful behaviour. Just because there is no intent to harm doesn't mean an action isn't disrespectful. There is - quite simply - ZERO reason to be rude & ill mannered. This includes asking first, not doing an action to another you know they will not appreciate, accepting the other as a valid person.

[@natashanoneya7494]

I have been going through a situation with three of my neighbors for more than two years now. I have been more than patient with building management to resolve this issue. I've tried literally everything that I've heard from this lesson. I am not happy with the results of this situation. As of right now, they are two of my neighbors who continue to harrass me.

[@weenttaguy223]

I learnt these powerful lesson from my (3) traditional elders from their Indigenous perspective, it helped me throughout my healing and wellness journey (29 years)…this is an awesome follow-up and reminder to never lose focus...I'm still learning and want more before I leave Mother Earth for my next journey!

[@antoniotorcoli5740]

Thank you for your video. I was disrespected by my narcissistic ex wife for 5 years. Now I am divorced and I respect myself again

[@Novastar.SaberCombat]

"Wise is the warrior who carries a weapon, but rarely reveals it." --Master Dupree' (DD4) 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ "Before I start, I must see my end. Destination known, my mind's journey now begins. Upon my chariot, heart and soul's fate revealed. In time, all points converge; hope's strength, re-steeled. But to earn final peace at the universe's endless refrain, We must see all in nothingness... Before we start again." 🐲✨🐲✨🐲✨ --Diamond Dragons (series)

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Beautiful comment

[@michaelmckinney7240]

Stoicism consists of two parts; accepting the valid principles talked about in this important video, and also "training" the mind over time to make them an automatic default response when they are most called for in a personally challenging situation. Stoicism is both a core set of beliefs and also a personal habit.

[@clocksurfer]

Watching this, it seems perhaps I'm already somewhat more stoic than I thought. I've certainly seen positive examples set by people who exhibit stoic virtues. I have one remaining concern about a particular type of disrespect, though. I still grapple with my feelings about people who mistake my kindness for weakness. This video shares a good message and affirmation for me. Helpful.

[@thestoiccommunity]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and personal experience with stoicism.

[@jillburns8773]

How wonderfully wise! Forgiveness as the ultimate act of self care! Wow.

[@MaeBelleArt]

The best way to respond disrespect people i dont have Time for it😊 and no reaction for it . I pray for there Peace of mind .

[@alexangenault1639]

You have integrated ancient wisdom to nowadays problems in a concise and practical manner. I thank you for sharing these thoughts with us

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Beautiful comment

[@Cynthia-iz5qp]

Empathy works well until it doesn't. In some domestic situations this won't work. But this will come in handy for most customers I deal with every day. Thanks

[@jaygold4467]

B.S. above. Never put up with disrespect.

[@charlieb3943]

True! I am a very patient person to everything and don't desire material ownership because I will lose against those who do. Let them worry about their stuff I don't have the time to argue about it. Let that anger go to someone else who is weaker or wants to fight it.

[@DiaryOfALesbianGamer]

I’ve been trying my hardest to understand how to handle my emotions. Even more so now that I am coming to find out I may have ADHD. I used to run only on frustration (working on my own, holding 3 jobs in a house of 5), and coke cola. I am now coming to understand that no one person should be under that pressure if others are not living within the means. I got Bell’s palsy and have a permanent reminder that you can’t just run on caffeine and frustration. When I was trying to get help from behavioral health, my case worker advised me that when I come across something that causes anxiety or anger, to “think it away.” I asked her how the hell do you do that and she just repeated herself. This has helped me refocus my emotions. I can be a very empathetic person but I can only deal with bs so many times that it begins to feel personal. People acting like jerks for no fokin reason I’ve given em. But this has reminded me that disrespect is like someones work, the boss might allow their bs but eventually the truth comes out. Let it go and let their true self show. Move on and let them deal with their own crap. You ain’t got to forget what they did or say, you just got to let go of the feeling that was stirred by their issues. To help you keep inner peace. Thank you very much. ❤

[@marcotangalini8778]

You're on the right track my friend.

[@ninawildr4207]

If you have adhd carnivore helps❤

[@tommychappell6359]

Living within the means? To live?

[@tommychappell6359]

Your right society is very like that. Told to quench our emotions. But bs is like rest of society. Should be taught how to validate emotions and forgive. Rather than unforgive (as extension) and invalidate emotions. It's very washed up. And control only makes people more greedy on process. Rather than uncontrol. Unpower. Aka forgiveness. If you want validation though? Validate yourself take it from me. Make books about it so may be seen and recorded in history and validated based off potential future, if ever came to it. People are mindblind.

[@tommychappell6359]

In fact so in need validation I validated people next week. And they thanked me like there was no tomorrow. It was was like bear grills. Where hadn't ate for a month. And had honey from tree. That's how I see validation these days. Like Oxygen supply after hour of having it. Be lucky to have. Just think about the kind of society we live in for people to be like that. I take it's a dying breed these days. In fact we've become more attached to invalidating people than validating people. Sad to see. Sry to see people don't question things as should. Because let me tell you being right and invalidated is very painful experience. Unfortunately people can't translate invisible to real. Does not compute to them. Don't see how it goes from one nozzle to the other. Hence why get so confused up on first place. I assure abstractifying people's pain not cool either. Tying them into a tidy knot. REAL has no meaning to people.

[@rajeshn6106]

Feeling lighter now, after all the said event gone through my life. Earlier our thoughts were about why this happens to me in my life, now I realise all this are part of our life, how to see the things that occurs in our life and to overcome and how to view them. I had gone through both personally and professionally, now got better view. Let me try to apply in life...Thanks for ur video...

[@thestoiccommunity]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and personal experiences. It's great to hear that you have gained a better perspective on life and how to overcome challenges. I hope that you continue to apply these insights in your daily life. Thank you for watching my video and taking the time to leave a comment.

[@chickenoodle3397]

After facing recent strife in my personal life leading to a miserable past couple days I've learnt after watching this video that I've unknowingly have internalize a lot of these principles while being too immature to embody them completely.

[@invisibilianone6288]

The worst time to fail, is the last time one endeavors to try. No matter how many years of experience, even the most wise will be subject to mistakes. Learn from mistakes, rather than the fact one was made.

[@Kartay333]

I really appreciate this video. What has helped me is the teaching that being disrespected is a part of life and we should accept it and grow from it. If we’re always hoping to avoid it we will be disappointed because it’ll always be there. What a gift knowing that we have the potential to turn things around and strengthen our character by applying stoic principles.

[@nedthestaffieegan3452]

Great attitude 🌸

[@zipperpillow]

Or....you could just kick her in the puss*, and annouce to her, "That's enough of that, unless you want more?".

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Great comment

[@zipperpillow]

We don't have our whole lives to be patiently enduring other people's B.S.@@luxemindsetofficial

[@Kjt853]

You can’t change other people, but you can change the way you *respond* to other other people.

[@laurence-tw7su]

Yes but it doesn't mean you allow them to walk all over you. You need to set boundaries.

[@devarajan4002]

Everyone has the right to live with dignity(Human rights)

[@alchemxstxavier5225]

I felt I’ve always been stoic. But this video wisdom has reminded me, and encouraged me! Thank you for putting the time and effort into making this video.

[@smdh9582]

Thank You so much found out this morning my husband still talks to an ex he promised not to speak to once we were married he has lied to me 3 times about the same female... this time I wanted to respond different to show up for me. I'm a good God fearing woman I serve others and mean no one any harm .... harm keeps finding me. I'll use these principles, they align with Father God to me as well Thank you I needed to word Kind of a drag our 1 year anniversary is two days away..... I cancelled my plans

[@tunkytunky]

1 year and no kids, I hope? I think true stoicism is to just walk away without feeling too much, it will not get better. It's a reflection on him, not you. Careful about serving others too much. It attracts users.

[@carlorizzo827]

Thank you. I think it's sinking in. I'm glad i'm old. Went through life as a white knuckled raw nerve. Came from a milieu where tantrums were the norm. Impulsive reactions happen becsuse...why? A deeply embedded sense of danger

[@tanookis_nookie2056]

Thanks for sharing, it was relatable

[@tommythespitter]

Salute

[@tommythespitter]

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[@bryanhermans4303]

Rarely do I encounter such practical wisdom such as contained in this video. I learn from it that I have made progress in my life when dealing with negative people; but, I learn that I have more maturing to do. I am truly grateful for the effort put into this video.

[@onestoicusa]

The part about changing your perspective on disrespect was really powerful. I’ve often taken things personally or gotten upset over minor slights, but understanding that disrespect is usually more about the other person's issues than a reflection of my worth is such a liberating thought. The Stoic perspective helps me not only cope with disrespect but also move forward without dwelling on it. Great lesson on emotional resilience!

[@marshallwhito5681]

If disrespect comes from one’s narcissistic views and intend to belittle the other, there is no constructive way to react. Some say that silence is the way in such situations, however these kind of people take silence only as approval of their toxic and harmful way to continue. In these instances the only possible way to win this situation and prevent it from happening again, is to cut them out of our lives. We need to remove ourselves because our worth and practise of self love don’t deserve to be put into test of us questioning It

[@jwilson9273]

“The one thing you can’t take away from me is the way I choose to respond to what you do to me. The last of one’s freedoms is to choose one’s attitude in any given circumstance.” - Victor Frankl “Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms-to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.” - Victor Frankl

[@supratickchakraborty2358]

Thank you "Sir" for your patience for giving this "Ancient Wisdom"...

[@TheModernStoicg]

These Stoic principles offer such a powerful way to handle disrespect with grace and strength. Learning to pause, reflect, and respond with empathy instead of reacting emotionally can really transform how we deal with challenging situations. It's a reminder that our inner peace is within our control, no matter what others say or do. Thank you for sharing this wisdom

[@johnq8362]

🔥😂I have learned to laugh. I laugh at myself even when I’m an ass hole. I laugh at others when they offend me. I laugh at life. I laugh when others get mad at me. I have no time for anger. Disrespect no longer affects me. I laugh. I find by laughing at everything has become a choice. I don’t see anger. Because of this I notice they aren’t sure how to handle this 😂. I love but I don’t care ❤️‍🔥

[@obiwanjebroni505]

i have trouble with this. Disrespect is an inherently personal sleight and while i can dismiss it for my own sake and the sake of the situation - what i cannot abide is the idea that i should take an empathetic standpoint toward their disrespect, even when there is a token of truth in it. Such disrespect is something i actively avoid as a principle no matter how i feel and to receive something so unconstructive from a person tends me toward not really givng a single shit about why that person feels that way. You've shown me you care so little about me as to personally sleight me on purpose - i feel its only right to return the sentiment when they make their feelings about you clear. No outcome can be for the good that involves that person any longer.

[@nedthestaffieegan3452]

I found myself in exactly this situation today. It was so frustrating and touched on every aspect of this video. I'm not sure if I handled it with the dignity and grace I would have liked, but I was dealing with a particularly loathsome and self righteous bigot. The level of contempt and disrespect from him was unlike anything I'd ever seen, and he was so full of himself and the rubbish he was spouting. Normally I'd ignore such folk, but something got under my skin and I felt compelled to call him out on his nonsense. He didn't like that at all and tried to annihilate me, but he underestimated my communication skills and perceptive abilities. By the time I was finished I'd destroyed every argument, and he fell into every trap I set for him to trip himself up. By the end his fake bravado was shot to pieces and he was revealed as the insufferable jerk he is. Respect is one of the most important things to me. I always try to conduct myself by respecting others, or treating them with respect anyway as it goes a long way. This video has made me feel a bit better about the incident today, as I don't think I did too badly.

[@MyDoppleganger20]

Looking back I realize I should have instilled more of these types of principles as well as more Biblical ones in my kids. Schools should be teaching these things also. These are life skills in a sense

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Im teaching local kids these techniques

[@GB-he1zc]

😮Thank you. Listening to you, I hear my grandmother's words of wisdom. I loved spending time with her and how she lived, the manner, behaviour she exhibited. I wanted to be just like her. I left her when I was twelve, became an immigrant. As I got older her advice made more and more sense. We wrote to each other but I needed her very much in person and often. Again, thank you.❤❤❤😊

[@luxemindsetofficial]

Lovely comment

[@janebennett4362]

Fabulous reminder on how to be a goodly human. Thank you.Stoicism needs to be embraced by humanity right now.

[@pattyberryman3037]

Thank you for your amazing work.

[@chriswhite8144]

Thank you All for this, these:Content and for all these sincere contributions. I am excited so many like-minded continue to strive and to courageously share for others to grow ~

[@thestoiccommunity]

Thank you for your kind words and appreciation

[@brandypopejohnson2072]

You know as much as I understand this sometimes disrespect is just disrespect. Some people just get satisfaction out of just disrespecting you 🤬

[@luxemindsetofficial]

So true!

[@Scott-p8p]

But remember it has everything to do with them and little to nothing to do with you. Best thing to do is to act like a rock, not a doormat. In a wise and calmly way, tell them to fuck off. If the they get angry, that's their problem until they physically harm you. Do whats needed to become free.

[@katrine-pearls]

Thank you for widening my HORIZON in regards to, too much absorbed self-ego and too ignorant. A user, I can breath much better now. Again, thank you for these life's changing 🙏

[@katrine-pearls]

It's an eye-opener. Thank you

[@hawksrob1961]

So whoever composed, and or posted this video, I want to give you the thanks that I normally reserve for divine intervention Although I consider myself intelligent, I’m not an educated individual, but I really do feel like all the descriptive instructions in this video lifted great weight off of my life, and maybe even gave me the opportunity to spend my last five years or so in a decent humane frame of mind Too often over the course of my life I have felt disrespected and lashed out, I felt paranoid, I have had medical and mental issues, but nothing seems to make me feel like I’m being treated with at least the minimum amount of respect Seriously, I’m gonna watch this video about 50 times and base my life on it. Thank you. Have a great life, also not that it matters I subscribed to your channel and liked the video and shared it with as many people as I could

[@whatizreality0124]

So what happens when you realize that some ppl are actually out to hurt you physically or psychologically , and will never stop ? EVIL EXISTS , and pretending it doesn't is disingenuous . Not acting or caring about these kinds of " disrespect " is actually perpetuating the cycle . I agree with some these principles in this video , but most of us aren't muscular / jacked demi gods who can end a confrontation with just a look of " stoicism " .

[@donnacristino4957]

I let them voice their opinions- my grandson is too important to me. I know the truth. I am their scapegoat. I choose to give love and be loved over nonsense. ☮️💜✝️🇺🇸

[@sonquatsch8585]

minus points for the american flag.

[@donnacristino4957]

@sonquatsch8585 I'm American. I've been attaching it to everything I do, and it's not going away. 🤷‍♀️ now you will always know it's me. ☮️💜✝️🇺🇸

[@karinacolonLA]

Empathy and kindness. Tried that. Didn't work. The person escalated psychotically. Surveillance cameras and recording everything is what worked.

[@cabowobble5543]

Its better to walk away and find someone else

[@SteeleMagnolia]

The ability to avoid acting/speaking out impulsively, when triggered, has paid off well for me. I've learned to put emotions aside, breathe in some calming breaths, keep the tone unemotional, and never speak in an accusatory manner - even if the other party legitimately deserves to be sent to the slaughter for the evil they perpetrate on unsuspecting victims. This is how narcissists should always be handled, then find your opportunity to defect from their existence, where no-contact is a must in your own survival.

[@tomservo5347]

I'm learning lessons at midlife with my first supervisor job. I really hoped the 'honor' system would work but it doesn't because you'll always have that one person take advantage of it. I'm a sensitive person and it's a double edged sword because being open and honest with people that are less than honorable is a painful experience. It's easy in practice but applied to real life is a different matter in that I might appear stoic on the outside but it's because I internalize everything. Just the way I am with a plethora of thoughts always going on inside.

[@a.b.c.1431]

Nothing easier than dealing with disrespect. Don't be proud. Pride is just glorified arrogance. If you aren't proud and aware of your flaws, disrespect won't upset you.

[@LittleTut]

How appropriate this video showed up in my queue today. I work a part time job in a retail store as an on-line shopper. I stopped by the sea food department to ask if a certain items was located and this guy; I've picked up a negative energy from him since I've been there, little more than a month now, and He says "DON'T PUT THAT PHONE IN MY FACE AND IT'S RIGHT THERE! I said, I didn't put the phone in your face; I was several feet from his face. Also, I always will say, "Excuse me." Or "Good morning." then pose my question. I didn't flick off back at him and found out he's the manager of the department. Yes, I was mad internally, but chose not to match that disrespect towards me back at him. I went to one of the front end store supervisors to complain and whom was to speak with the guy. I also spoke to my team leader who was to follow up. Yes, in the past, I've "went off" on people I found disrespected me, but now, I take a "keep it calm" mentality. I have too much going on in my life right now, especially financially, to let someone's negative attitude bring me down. And yes, I thought about what I may have done wrong to trigger him, he may have things going in his life , or he's just tired of people asking for help (being disturbed ). But, that's no excuse for that type of behavior especially if you're a manager.🙏🏽

[@sigmawolfvlog]

Toxic feminism cant handle stoicism. But me as someone with female body(got influenced by female hormone daily) find stoicism is very liberating. Learn how to cope with emotion, accept it, embrace it, admit that i am hurt, then bring in the stoicism perspective and I'm ready to go again. Balancing masculine and feminine is the key

[@sonquatsch8585]

stoicism is incompatible with radical leftist queer and trans ideology.

[@ninagalvani1007]

Yeah the Jung anima/animus thing

[@AngelaM-s4o]

U got that right. 👍

[@shyrlockmaxwell9088]

I will prioritize myself first.

[@blxxdbvrn]

Thank you God for recommending me this video 🙏🏽

[@mindexpandingknowledge409]

This is over-complicated and too rational. When someone disrespects you it means they want to challenge and dominate. Primitive impulse found in all nature. You have to develop self-confidence above everything else, and know your true worth. Just calmly call out their bullshit. Don't tolerate crap. This is the equivalent of looking someone in the eyes and standing your ground. Stand up for yourself and defend your ground. Verbally and maybe physically if needed. That simple.

[@Imthesoulofthes]

If someone puts their Hand on my loved ones or if they threaten them, I am not gonna take several seconds to collect myself. I’m gonna start punching and swearing immediately.

[@azizcook1651]

It's not over complicated it's actually very simple. There is a time and place for everything and what you just described isn't the answer to everything and neither is Stoicism.

[@evelynacido8951]

Thank you for sharing this is very helpful in dealing with everything that is happening in and around me, I can always apply this to become a better version of myself❤

[@Solo-Katsu]

I believe what heard to be true I am a strong believer & believe the Lord has given me this strength & power to overcome the weaker person who has no power especially when that person knows it, that’s why they act as the do. All Power, Mercy & Grace come from my God 🕊️Amen 🙏🏼

[@StoicWisdom-3368]

This video is truly eye-opening! The Stoic principles for dealing with disrespect not only help me stay calm but also make me realize that others' actions don't determine my own worth. Thank you for sharing these valuable lessons!

[@okona1007]

Thank you! ❤

[@tel1723]

I have a single criticism. When people who disrespect you due to their own weakness, initiate a bizare form of retaliation. This guy i know was offended by the most minute thing that i had been given by another person, he began harassing, stalking, messing with my things and back stabing me for years. Because it was some thing he had always wanted and never got. Another person, former room mate. Convinced himself i was doing things to him, so he starred destroying my things behind my back, claiming ignorance and when i tried to reason with him he would shout babble like a child

[@MNorbert89]

There are toxic people in this world. No question.