How to DETACH FROM PEOPLE and SITUATIONS | STOICISM

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@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
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@GreytDays-rx5sg
@GreytDays-rx5sg Жыл бұрын
Sir, if you don't mind me asking something I would like to have your opinion on something that takes a while to explain If I can give you my email to send to I feel bad asking for yours is that ok. I understand and respect if not, Either way I still thank you for your patience and time I'm learning thanks to what you have shared
@erikscott1948
@erikscott1948 Жыл бұрын
This is good to listen to... wisdom is always needed!
@rosanajackson4668
@rosanajackson4668 11 ай бұрын
WHY do these stoic teachers or speakers think they need a background of music? Most of that music is very annoying , some times disturbing, overbearing, and much too loud. We want to listen to the speaker, we can listen to music of our choice on our own time! THANK YOU
@chatswithCassie
@chatswithCassie Жыл бұрын
Other people are not here to complete us, they are here to add to our experience of life
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thats right. We are here to complement one another and not “complete”
@rockrecordreport7136
@rockrecordreport7136 Жыл бұрын
@@thestoiccommunity We know what "we" are here to do, but "other people" might not see it quite that way at all.
@Goingsideways346
@Goingsideways346 Жыл бұрын
Every interaction we choose to participate in, is a + or a -. I guess 98-99% is a -, so its preferable to not participate in them. We can choose to decline the 98-99% ,though it reqiures a lot of focus, ressisting them.
@aureliahumphries7787
@aureliahumphries7787 Жыл бұрын
​@@rockrecordreport7136nohi
@EckheartTurtolle
@EckheartTurtolle Жыл бұрын
When you are not whole, completion is what you seek.
@StoicRealms
@StoicRealms Жыл бұрын
"The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts." - Marcus Aurelius
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Completely True
@retrodadstl
@retrodadstl Жыл бұрын
@yiannoulatrilivas6829
@yiannoulatrilivas6829 Жыл бұрын
Ohhhh yesss ❤
@carolynsmith3312
@carolynsmith3312 Жыл бұрын
Don’t be intimidated, feel obligated, or guilty if you feel the need to quietly & peacefully step away from any group of people if the mindset, teachings or whatever get repetitive, & are no longer serving you. Spiritual growth, new discoveries, perceptions …are precious gifts, & must be protected even if few understand.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
That is so true. Thanks for sharing your opinion
@dianestevens3150
@dianestevens3150 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! I needed this!
@JenniferJones-nd2kz
@JenniferJones-nd2kz Жыл бұрын
It's spiritually exhausting
@warthogA10
@warthogA10 11 ай бұрын
I walked away from people and society altogether many years ago, it was the best decision of my life, and I have been much happier, and more importantly, content ever since. Society is just a bunch of empty people who have such a deep need and desire to fit in, be liked, and be "trendy" that they will actually trick/train themselves to do, think, speak, behave in ways they don't actually like, just to be part of society/whichever clique they decide they want to be part of and accepted into. The entertainment industry, meaning all of it, movies, tv shows, music, sports, etc... and social media are the most effective efficient and powerful tools used to steer society and each of its "groups" Every time I have to be out among population it's like I'm surrounded by programmed robots,
@SuperFamiKing
@SuperFamiKing 11 ай бұрын
I did this with a language exchange group I was attending recently. Then, I started my own instead! Best decision I have made in a long time 😅
@TYGZus777
@TYGZus777 Жыл бұрын
Everyone lights up a room; some, when they enter, others, when they leave.
@cookdislander4372
@cookdislander4372 Жыл бұрын
Nice, love it! ❤
@Dominionaire090
@Dominionaire090 Жыл бұрын
Im going thru a separation, which may result in a divorce. It was during this time that I came across this channel, and am a relatively new subscriber. But to all who are going thru similar challenges, I say this to you; find that inner strength and stand on it. Even in the darkest parts, stand on your core values. Trust what you know. Rember that you can only control your response, you cannot control what's outside of you. Don't seek to repay hurt for hurt, but stand by your moral plumline. Its not the end of the road, just the end of a chapter in your life.
@amethystfeathers7324
@amethystfeathers7324 Жыл бұрын
🥰
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a tough time, but I'm glad you found this channel. Thank you for sharing your words of encouragement and strength with others who may be facing similar challenges. Remember that you are not alone, and it's important to stand firm in your core values during difficult times. Stay strong, trust yourself, and focus on what you can control. Wishing you strength and resilience as you navigate through this difficult period.
@iuli72an1
@iuli72an1 Жыл бұрын
For now I am going through the same process and situation after 19 years of relationship and 15 years of marriage with 2 kids. At least I don’t feel anymore alone going through such things. 2 years ago we decided to move completely from Romania to Denmark. After 2 years of living here, danish school, kids school and tremendous physical effort, wife broke down to ask separation, pushing me away. That kinda of “thanks for all sucker” type of approach, saying that she has no more feeling for me.😮Anyway, here I try to find some inspiration and some wisdom for continuing my life journey.
@grvgrv7244
@grvgrv7244 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I'm really struggling right now and almost on the verge of shattering. I hate this feeling of being so weak. But I'm trying and trying. It's a lot of effort and I want to believe that soon this will all be behind me. Knowing others have done so helps.
@edsueshay
@edsueshay Жыл бұрын
@@grvgrv7244 16 yrs ago Neville Goddard (long departed) helped me in my darkest hour. Following his principle my life changed beyond all recognition. He was just what i needed. May you be blessed on your sojourn through this realm💜🙏🏻💜
@alenahawke475
@alenahawke475 Жыл бұрын
Remember to..."Choose your confidant wisely.", from the Stoic Community. Thank you for this wisdom.♥️
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your positive feedback. And glad that line resonated with you
@zwartekoffie168
@zwartekoffie168 Жыл бұрын
The mere fact that I am hurt and going through a breakup, this is the advice that I needed. Distancing myself from toxic people and sitiuations who disturb my inner peace, brings me peace.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a breakup, but I'm glad to hear that the advice resonated with you. It's important to prioritize your inner peace and distance yourself from toxic people and situations. Taking care of yourself is crucial during difficult times. Stay strong and take the time you need to heal.
@zwartekoffie168
@zwartekoffie168 Жыл бұрын
@@thestoiccommunity will do, sir. Thank you.
@bonnyedmonds7539
@bonnyedmonds7539 Жыл бұрын
Same here. Much needed.
@princeukpeiro210
@princeukpeiro210 Жыл бұрын
It's a great video my friend.... Me too suffering from great 💔
@livademairo3594
@livademairo3594 10 ай бұрын
this is what i really want at this moment.. crying while watching! hope this will give me courage to step back... it hurts a lot... but i need to, to save myself from shattering
@PhilosophIQ
@PhilosophIQ Жыл бұрын
Happiness does not lie in possessing much, but rather in being content with little
@MadonnaGrogan
@MadonnaGrogan Жыл бұрын
My cuz used say when you are happy with nothing, all else is gravy
@HusamSimaan
@HusamSimaan Жыл бұрын
In today's society, when millions of all ages suffer with anxiety, the wisdom of the ancients echos as loudly as ever.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Absolutely
@cslewislegacy1
@cslewislegacy1 Жыл бұрын
"Know, first, who you are, and then adorn yourself accordingly." - Epictetus
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
True 💯
@Lovebuzz11-11
@Lovebuzz11-11 Жыл бұрын
I had a really dificult time removing a few negative, complaining, whiney people from my life. once I did, I felt free, renewed and empowered.
@cookdislander4372
@cookdislander4372 Жыл бұрын
I feel you ❤
@Agheel963
@Agheel963 9 ай бұрын
Something similar happened with me. Toxic people will just drag you down with them
@madwifey5530
@madwifey5530 Жыл бұрын
Finding this channel has been a fruitful blessing to my life in 2024.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this positive feedback. And glad it has been a fruitful blessing for you
@christinefleming9812
@christinefleming9812 Жыл бұрын
Well, I must admit that I have always been a very emotional person, very empathetic, wanting justice for all. And it nearly destroyed me. Walking away wasn't possible for me. Instead, I was fighting all my life against windmills. And it made me tired and bitter. Now is time for change. I heard these advice before - not from people known as stoic. Anyway, it was definitely worth watching the video. I suppose I will watch it again.
@hananbk37
@hananbk37 Жыл бұрын
Im an empath & this is helping me. Make sure to listen to it everyday so it can register in ur subconcious mind
@staypeace5955
@staypeace5955 10 ай бұрын
Me too. But actually nothing wrong with that. Where this world population are busy with their own greediness, we still have a place in our heart for compassion and universal love. Isn't it beautiful?
@StoicMindset99
@StoicMindset99 10 ай бұрын
" Sometimes even life is an act of courage." - Seneca
@982Chloe
@982Chloe Жыл бұрын
Trying to be stoic and step away from my husband who almost killed me and our unborn child for trying to expose him to police after catching him with an underage mentally challenged girl who he would get drunk. It almost cost me my life. I’ve been with him since I was 13 yrs old and it’s been hard. But the restraining order is helping me. I have to do it for self preservation ❤
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been through. It takes incredible strength to step away from such a dangerous situation, especially after being with someone for so long. It's important to prioritize your safety and well-being, and it's great to hear that the restraining order is helping you. You are incredibly brave, and I hope you continue to prioritize your self-preservation.
@teesahurt2074
@teesahurt2074 Жыл бұрын
Move away. This man shows serious capabilities of harm towards you. Change your job, email, social media . Disappear without a trace. This sounds like Narcissistic Personality disorder. RUN…….For your life. And never look back.
@splash-qi5kn
@splash-qi5kn Жыл бұрын
That is horrific. God bless you for standing for what is right. I pray for you and your beautiful child. Stay strong
@982Chloe
@982Chloe Жыл бұрын
@@thestoiccommunity thank you, we have to do what is right. Pray for me, I now have to go to physical therapy because of the blows and kicks to my head, spine and back. It gives me headaches, neck and back pain so bad that if I stand up or sit up for a few minutes I start having trouble breathing and feel like I’m going to faint. We have 4 other children and it’s been taking a toll on our daily lives. I can’t work due to the pains that I get. They already did CT scan and x-rays but they can’t do anymore because of the high amount of radiation. Pray for my baby and my children. Thank you.
@982Chloe
@982Chloe Жыл бұрын
@@splash-qi5kn thank you 🙏🏼
@rubyred3860
@rubyred3860 Жыл бұрын
I’m always taking a step back from certain people until I realize that I should just leave them alone permanently and by taking that step back, I always learn something and appreciate it to the fullest!! Your video is certainly providing some very wise counsel!! 💯💯💯💯
@zaccariasippidabarbercollins
@zaccariasippidabarbercollins 11 ай бұрын
Right now I am taking my break from Social media and working on my goals checklist. I am gyming 5 days a week weight training and 3x a week for my boxing of 12-3 min rds. Looking at increasing financial literacy and clearing up debt. I’ve been practicing Stoicism about 1.5 to 2 yrs now and it has strengthened my Emotional Intelligence, my ability to prefer isolation and solitude on my 24 acre Ranch and capability to cut off none beneficial relationships that are non conducive to my Life. Love the channel and the Knowledge that is Always Shared. Blessings and Respect.
@DellaSmith-cy8ne
@DellaSmith-cy8ne Жыл бұрын
#7 is the step I am going to focus on. I've been dealing with loss and depression for a long time. The ways I use to get back my peace and recharge don't work now. This was an encouragement for me to focus on this issue for myself. Since I no longer have a support person for this personal growth encouragement, THANK YOU!
@LatriciaThomas-bw1eu
@LatriciaThomas-bw1eu Жыл бұрын
Be careful who you vent to,a listening ear can be a running mouth.-unknown-
@TheREALLibertyOrDeath
@TheREALLibertyOrDeath Жыл бұрын
Yeah that’s a hard lesson
@sandrawright8109
@sandrawright8109 Жыл бұрын
I learnt this the hard way.couldnt agree more
@derek_3054
@derek_3054 6 ай бұрын
Yep learned this the hard way
@patriciaharp6404
@patriciaharp6404 Жыл бұрын
The clarity of self-love, removing myself from people who do not enhance my life. I feel there’s a lot of benefits to this.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It's great to hear that you're prioritizing your own well-being. Keep focusing on what enhances your life.
@calebcakes
@calebcakes Жыл бұрын
This is like much/ needed self-help therapy, thank you.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Glad it is helpful to you. Thank you for your positive feedback
@Luckystoic
@Luckystoic 8 ай бұрын
If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time....
@ForeverinChristourLord
@ForeverinChristourLord Жыл бұрын
I needed this one so bad today. Thankyou from the bottom of my heart. Thankyou.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
You are most welcome. Glad it was valuable to you. And thank you for your feedback
@Me-iu8my
@Me-iu8my Жыл бұрын
Step 1 2 3 and 4 Have to master these to move on. 🎉🎉🎉 thank u have been suffering from a broken heart. Returning to myself. scary place never acknowledged me really. am working to get to a better version of me for Me.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Hey there! I'm sorry to hear that you've been going through a tough time with a broken heart. It's great to see that you're focusing on returning to yourself and working towards becoming a better version of you. Remember, self-improvement is a journey, and it's important to be kind to yourself along the way. Keep moving forward!
@NeilRockTV
@NeilRockTV Жыл бұрын
I'll go back and watch this again, thank you! I might need this again one of these days
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for your comment! I'm glad you found the video helpful. Feel free to come back and watch it again anytime you need to.
@SuperReeanna
@SuperReeanna 11 ай бұрын
So important for me right now. Im pleased i got to hear this today, at the right moment. Interesting a simple logic philosophy can remind you.... Sometimes we do need reminding .
@ageeibc6029
@ageeibc6029 Жыл бұрын
I never get attached to anyone emotional, mentally & materially. Once you have the Lord & The Church, walah! You have everything. Amen. Octogenarian.
@cookdislander4372
@cookdislander4372 Жыл бұрын
Voilà***
@libratime5809
@libratime5809 Жыл бұрын
Stepping away from a person, I found the most effective. The mental and emotional space is what I need to be clear of a situation, and then I would know how to handle myself from being overwhelmed with hurt and lonely feelings.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your insight. Taking a step back can indeed provide the clarity needed to handle overwhelming emotions.
@31Alden
@31Alden Жыл бұрын
Stepping back, not necessarily completely away, from social media for quiet time and reassessing what serves my higher good versus the frenetic activity of social media. Not worded well, but I know what brings me peace and clarity. Now more than ever during a painful and difficult time in my life.
@hazelrivers7642
@hazelrivers7642 10 ай бұрын
Your happiness depends upon you believe me I learned this well when I paid more attention to the peoples that was in my life they were there to take while I was the giver thank you
@StoicismLegends
@StoicismLegends Жыл бұрын
"You always own the option of having no opinion. There is never any need to get worked up or to trouble your soul about things you can't control. These things are not asking to be judged by you. Leave them alone." - Marcus Aurelius
@e.gsecret4202
@e.gsecret4202 10 ай бұрын
Discovering Stoicism helped me a lot to realize what’s wrong with me , it helps me to see through my mistakes and flaw’s through out my relationship , My ex broke up with me 2 weeks ago this helped me to see things clearly.
@InIAMONELOVE
@InIAMONELOVE Жыл бұрын
Today is the day I detached from this whole problem thanks 👍
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Best wishes
@EileenMckenna-op3dj
@EileenMckenna-op3dj 7 ай бұрын
Today is the day , and forever.
@arlenelovelace18
@arlenelovelace18 Жыл бұрын
I just stumbled upon this youtube channel yesterday, and I absolutely LOVE it! Sure could’ve used this wisdom several years ago…but I am never too old to learn!
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for finding my channel! I'm glad you're enjoying the content. It's never too late to learn and I'm happy to have you on this journey with us.
@BWill-uw2so
@BWill-uw2so 5 ай бұрын
Thank you, for your Wisdom & guidance. We all need Stoicism. Blessings &Lov
@DhyanaIris-du1nu
@DhyanaIris-du1nu Жыл бұрын
If one is generous in spirit, words and deeds, unless deep appreciation is coming towards one, it’s time to walk.
@nancyanderson1716
@nancyanderson1716 Жыл бұрын
Yeah you right!
@priscillasanchez9666
@priscillasanchez9666 Жыл бұрын
Many good points of wisdom!!!!❤
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@David-sg1yi
@David-sg1yi Жыл бұрын
This is fantastic. Thanks so much for posting this. I've been going through the process of detaching from someone in my life and this is very helpful.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Glad you found the content helpful. Detaching from someone in your life can be a challenging process, but I'm glad to know that the information provided has been beneficial to you.
@Lunchkit780
@Lunchkit780 Жыл бұрын
Social media break. Reflect ok previous detachments and their outcomes( which always ended up being positive in the long run)😊
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this
@shaneburns4349
@shaneburns4349 Жыл бұрын
Men and Women are the strengths of society. They need to be happy with the roles they fulfill for a fulfilled society.
@michaeleucharia7049
@michaeleucharia7049 11 ай бұрын
Yes, Development of skills and strategies in managing situations especially on interpersonal relationship counts.
@onyebuchi4441
@onyebuchi4441 5 ай бұрын
This is educative and the more I listen, the stronger I am becoming to attack my situations
@Babatope-up4iu
@Babatope-up4iu Жыл бұрын
Whao! All the steps are full of invaluable wisdoms, and non of the steps are dispensable.
@lloydrowe9798
@lloydrowe9798 10 ай бұрын
I really enjoy listening to A session while slowly using my elliptical. I feel like I am feeding my head while I exercise my body. Thank you for all of these gems 💎
@harrieelias5756
@harrieelias5756 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful creation of wisdom peace integrity honesty respectability honorablity in our life is your stoic lessons that you are providing us like a super tasty meal that we must be mindful when we are eating. I cannot explain how much watch deserving your honest thoughts and contributions are worth in terms of peaceful life.
@Kate.Sangalang
@Kate.Sangalang Жыл бұрын
Whoever you are, you articulate well the words that cannot be express. Very insightful!
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback
@donaldweaver5138
@donaldweaver5138 Жыл бұрын
Live intentionaly
@chris2sean
@chris2sean Жыл бұрын
when feelings cloud our vision a step back helps us observe them like watching clouds drift across the sky
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Well said
@StoicWisdom-3368
@StoicWisdom-3368 3 ай бұрын
Anakin’s story perfectly illustrates the danger of emotional attachment. Stoicism teaches us that stepping back from our emotions can bring clarity, allowing us to navigate life without being ruled by fear or loss.
@chrisloomis1489
@chrisloomis1489 Жыл бұрын
This is the Best channel for Men.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@apassionforlace
@apassionforlace Жыл бұрын
Being around some people, is like hugging a cactus.
@QueenB695
@QueenB695 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this wisdom I’m grateful!
@gregoryladd5507
@gregoryladd5507 Жыл бұрын
True life to live by
@TheDad.NjDaShow
@TheDad.NjDaShow Жыл бұрын
I love your stuff, and will donate as soon as I have money
@manfredthewonderdog
@manfredthewonderdog Жыл бұрын
Thank you. Life circumstances have brought me the challenge of parenting a13 year old granddaughter, as her mother died two years ago. This has been Incredibly difficult for both of us. I recently sent her to stay with a friend. She feels very rejected by my doing so. This helps me share with her why I needed that to happen. That is not a rejection of her, it is a clarification of my love my love for her. Now I can write her a letter of love instead of self defense.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Glad this video helped you in clarifying your love for your granddaughter. Thank you for sharing this with us
@belgicaconsuegra3721
@belgicaconsuegra3721 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message. It really hit home.❤
@yvonnesimpson8808
@yvonnesimpson8808 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this informative presentation. I enjoyed listening and learning new way of dealing with life emotional challenges.❤
@nisetteoyola395
@nisetteoyola395 8 ай бұрын
Trying them all!❤
@cathyavila2666
@cathyavila2666 Жыл бұрын
I love this helps in giving me help for my answers🎉
@rebeccacasas6152
@rebeccacasas6152 Жыл бұрын
Thank you! It raises to a higher degree of our values...It is really a powerful lessons in a tool for our success..and..It's nice to apply in our daily lives. Thank you very much.🙏
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Glad you found it applicable to your daily life. Stay tuned for more content like this
@leewinn765
@leewinn765 Жыл бұрын
I'm thankful for all these videos and messages they're very inspiring ❤
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your insightful feedback
@LiudameighyuTichangdepkiuyo
@LiudameighyuTichangdepkiuyo 7 ай бұрын
Thank you
@gasmith7486
@gasmith7486 Жыл бұрын
EXCELLENT!! ❤ Thank you 🙏🏼
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
You are most welcome. Thank you for your feedback
@Maria-jo6nn
@Maria-jo6nn Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 😊 I relate detached take a break so I can get clarity of what is about that person that eats my lunch and I get hurt 😞 love your wisdom 🖐️
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@michelleaguirre6412
@michelleaguirre6412 Жыл бұрын
Put a note on it and warn him or her that I might kick his ass. 😂 Or maybe that person is so poor and can't afford food? Either way let us know.
@devigiemariekistiah7436
@devigiemariekistiah7436 Жыл бұрын
Stoicism is a Bomshell Safe house fr ones sanity.Avoiding stress strain interuption.
@sreekalan2738
@sreekalan2738 11 ай бұрын
Very helpful
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity 11 ай бұрын
Glad it helped
@hazelebony5688
@hazelebony5688 Жыл бұрын
These videos are helping me so much Thank you for taking the time to put them out for us, they are wonderful.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Glad they have been helpful
@angelagaleana2339
@angelagaleana2339 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate. Thank you.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
You're very welcome. Glad it helped
@StoicismMasteryZone
@StoicismMasteryZone Жыл бұрын
It's important to know who you are before you adorn yourself.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Well said. We should know ourself first
@DD-kn5kg
@DD-kn5kg Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Thanks for watching
@EileenMckenna-op3dj
@EileenMckenna-op3dj 7 ай бұрын
Today is the day, now and forever, l will heal I will grow I wil be true to my values I will find someone whom l trust I will gain clarity and perspective of all good things in my life’s path.
@princeukpeiro210
@princeukpeiro210 Жыл бұрын
I love this video....tanks fellow stoic
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity 11 ай бұрын
Thanks a lot for your feedback. Glad you love it
@lynetteowens946
@lynetteowens946 Жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this, thank you
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it
@rupakguha1936
@rupakguha1936 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the wonderful content. I think instead of rules based solutions, one should observe from a distance just to know the truth as it is. For example, instead of trying to understand why i became angry, i must remove the "anger" from my condition and see it as such, not as my or someone else's anger and only then the pure anger and its orgin and movement will be doubtlessly visible.
@kratoscraken5614
@kratoscraken5614 Жыл бұрын
Fear of lose, not anymore. Sometimes i feel "love" is a mistake and I'm no longer doing that shit again in the end you never win 👎
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your opinion. However, I think there are people who have experienced something different
@kratoscraken5614
@kratoscraken5614 Жыл бұрын
@@thestoiccommunity true, however I don't give a shit about the people I'm only speaking about my experiences 👈
@GreytDays-rx5sg
@GreytDays-rx5sg Жыл бұрын
​@@kratoscraken5614it took me a Great Deal time to from my shock to Learn how building the number of experiences that were good, pleasant or just had a kind of understanding of how it over time I understand was something that I understood it does get to make it manage easier. But hey I will definitely admit I felt despair and a deep sense of loneliness and no way to explain or seemed i could communicate what I was feeling, experiencing or the shift in how much it had in how much difference in how I perceived many things I couldn't ever begin to image how it seemed then It's hard to perceive any joy or hope closer to when the lose occurring
@toscabrutus1781
@toscabrutus1781 8 ай бұрын
Briljante Video ek het baie geleer!
@teresagrace6475
@teresagrace6475 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this valuable information. All of your videos inspire me to be my best person. Could you perhaps make a video on dealing with distancing oneself or complete removal from a hurtful Jekyel/ Hide parent? Thank you again for sharing your wisdom.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your request, and I appreciate your support. Stay tuned for the upcoming videos
@paulangelokumwenda3209
@paulangelokumwenda3209 Жыл бұрын
Reading through the comments I know I'm not alone , I'm new subscriber and thanks for the video
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Glad you found it helpful and welcome to our stoic community
@Mr.EastCoast-oj2xk
@Mr.EastCoast-oj2xk 10 ай бұрын
Star Wars is epic!
@frankdavf4599
@frankdavf4599 11 ай бұрын
yes, I ve been there...possible the deepest pain known, it holds on everything you value, the world crumbles down.
@LunchBox_SB322
@LunchBox_SB322 Жыл бұрын
(Fortus Vida) strong life!
@victoriyaholovko6865
@victoriyaholovko6865 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@WoundManagementRafaelRafolsMD
@WoundManagementRafaelRafolsMD Жыл бұрын
Sagacity 🔥
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Yes 💯
@benjaminmawutor3672
@benjaminmawutor3672 Жыл бұрын
GOOD 👍
@terriwhalen3618
@terriwhalen3618 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@gpparis2023
@gpparis2023 Жыл бұрын
This is so helpful
@sreekalan2738
@sreekalan2738 11 ай бұрын
well said
@chriskahlson
@chriskahlson Жыл бұрын
Rational Reality Readiness 😊
@michaelwatson1505
@michaelwatson1505 Жыл бұрын
I let a woman treat me like garbage and I keep going back we have kids is my reason I must fully detatch for survival
@FrankandBaggioTheCavalier
@FrankandBaggioTheCavalier 5 ай бұрын
My ex dumped me 7 months ago and just found out she cheated and monkey-branched into a new relationship that is apparently thriving. I was heartbroken and grieved, but this has helped me. I can’t control what happened, but I can control my reaction. I wish them well.
@allisonshaw9341
@allisonshaw9341 Жыл бұрын
Toxic people and situations should not be tolerated. You can't change them, so stop trying. Walk away. Introspection is mandatory if one wants to have clarity of mind, heart, and spirit. As many philosophers have said in many ways - know yourself to the marrow of your being, all your faults, weaknesses, and hidden/secret places within your psyche as well as those parts of you that are positive and strong. How else will you know what needs to be addressed, healed, cut away, or changed for the better? That time alone, away from the crowd? Make it mandatory and regular. Meditation is important. Integrity at all times in all things, and most especially with yourself. Any friend should also be a person of absolute integrity so that you have a confident and advisor. Detachment from everyone and everything periodically is, in my estimation, a small piece of paradise available to us mere mortals if we discipline ourselves to partake of it.
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts on toxic people and the importance of introspection and integrity. It's so true that we can't change toxic people and situations, and it's important to walk away from them. Introspection and meditation are indeed crucial for clarity of mind, heart, and spirit. Detaching from everything periodically can truly feel like a piece of paradise. Your insights are valuable and I appreciate you taking the time to share them.
@allisonshaw9341
@allisonshaw9341 Жыл бұрын
@@thestoiccommunity Thank you.
@StoicArena_
@StoicArena_ Жыл бұрын
Brilliant content!
@nicholastracy4915
@nicholastracy4915 10 ай бұрын
Stoicism made the difference: this time was different.
@StoicAscend
@StoicAscend Жыл бұрын
“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts.” - Marcus Aurelius
@darhlvercaigne8795
@darhlvercaigne8795 Жыл бұрын
This has been very helpful for me passing of my wife
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I'm glad I could help.
@GreytDays-rx5sg
@GreytDays-rx5sg Жыл бұрын
Thanks that is something of block for me in psychological sense still. It's not something easy to describe that it way
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
I understand that it can be difficult to put into words, but it's okay to take your time to process and work through it. Sometimes our emotions and experiences can feel like a block, but with patience and self-reflection, we can find ways to understand and overcome them.
@GreytDays-rx5sg
@GreytDays-rx5sg Жыл бұрын
@@thestoiccommunity I never really gave up ,it can be hard to explain it when there is nothing that looks wrong with me to most people that can relate enough let alone at all. 16 years or since she die that was sudden shock was bad enough, it was how to try keep employment or just ignored and how that really brought me to collapse that was just a damaging and that effect I found very overwhelming Yet I'm still here and I did find ways to keep going and Tricks to help My dog Baron my English Staffy really was something that turned me around a great deal too
@wrdsrallihave
@wrdsrallihave Ай бұрын
Nothing came as a surprise....expected the unexpected,no regrets.Will never turn back the clock.
@Geeronimo99
@Geeronimo99 Жыл бұрын
Hello. Im going to turn off the mobile this afternoon and start a journal. Where can i buy a hard copy of your e.book. i prefer books due to vision. Thankyou. A calming wise site.
@cookdislander4372
@cookdislander4372 Жыл бұрын
Yeah same. I need a book on this too ❤
@FaithGovender-f9o
@FaithGovender-f9o Жыл бұрын
True story
@thestoiccommunity
@thestoiccommunity Жыл бұрын
Thank you
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