10 Things I Wish I Knew In My 20's (Now I'm 45)

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Chad Lisonbee

Chad Lisonbee

Күн бұрын

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@EGR10productions
@EGR10productions Ай бұрын
1. Nutrition 2. Employers Don’t Care About You 3. Invest Your Money Into Your Future(real estate/stocks/etc.) 4. Take Your Risks 5. Bars Are Always Going To Be Open(Say ‘NO’) 6. You Don’t Have To Prove Anything To Anyone 7. Create Good Memories(Focus Less On Stuff) 8. You’ll Notice The Benefits From Taking Risks and Facing Your Fears(Investing In Your Future) 9. Life Is About Helping/Giving To Other People 10. Be Teachable
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Those are some note taking skills!! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@limpmammoth7721
@limpmammoth7721 Ай бұрын
❤❤❤​@@ChadLisonbee
@pathmaram
@pathmaram Ай бұрын
Thankyou for listing ❤
@Masterdebator881
@Masterdebator881 Ай бұрын
Number 9 is complete bs! No good deed goes unpunished!
@GeraThaTruth1
@GeraThaTruth1 Ай бұрын
🙏🏽
@ryul_daniel
@ryul_daniel Ай бұрын
As a 2000's baby, I really am enjoying seeing more and more dudes in their 40's and 50's and older embracing what social media SHOULD be used for, and having the courage to post that first video. These videos are what our people need right now. We need good men to show the boys of our generation what they should strive for. I want to become a man that can create opportunities for the people I care about Thank you for taking the time to talk with us sir
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@ryul_daniel hell yeah!! Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate you and have a wonderful day.
@LeeAdrian777
@LeeAdrian777 Ай бұрын
Strive to know God and be saved. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life. That’s the number one goal. The world may not get it but your creator and the angels will rejoice.
@jonathanmunguia1030
@jonathanmunguia1030 12 күн бұрын
Bro there was no social media how it is today until early 2010s
@TraderTatortot
@TraderTatortot 8 күн бұрын
Me too
@Jeffthekillerawsomef
@Jeffthekillerawsomef 20 күн бұрын
I love how you say "hello" to every stranger you see. Shows that your awesome
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 20 күн бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@losocrazy3280
@losocrazy3280 Ай бұрын
Im 24 and I swear I remember being a freshman in high school thinking it was going take forever. I graduated in 2018 it’s been over 6 years now but it’s 💯saying time goes by faster the older u get
@PowerCellReactor
@PowerCellReactor Ай бұрын
Feel that. I still remember distinctly waking up at 18 years old on my birthday wishing I didn’t have to grow up. Now I’m 32. Granted a lot has changed for the better and I’ve learned a lot of great things, but it goes by quick.
@matteliasonline
@matteliasonline Ай бұрын
Yep. Same age too it’s crazy
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
@SatoshiSky
@SatoshiSky Ай бұрын
I'm 24, and feel the exact same way
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@SatoshiSky 🙌🏻
@lethyadon1182
@lethyadon1182 Ай бұрын
Bought a house at 23. Sold it 12 years later for £100k profit. Live closer to my two amazing daughters and took up majority custody. Bought a nice car, paid rent for the year and still have over £50k left, debt free, decent enough job, can take my kids anywhere. Can easily save up now and get compounding interest as well. Can’t put a price on stress free sleep.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Bro…. Killing it. I completely agree. Thank you!!✌🏻
@JYKZFORTNITE
@JYKZFORTNITE 18 күн бұрын
Can u teach me bro, I just turned 20, living in the uk like you
@ewalka9177
@ewalka9177 16 күн бұрын
⁠@@JYKZFORTNITEyou don’t have a chance. I make enough money now that I could have afforded a mortgage on a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom house if I was born when he was. In this economy it’s only enough for me to afford rent
@JYKZFORTNITE
@JYKZFORTNITE 16 күн бұрын
@@ewalka9177 if u have a girlfriend can u not both put 40k down each for a mortgage?
@DogmadawgMAMR
@DogmadawgMAMR 9 күн бұрын
​@@ewalka9177this is the sad reality, I'm almost 30 and I doubt anyone my age will own a house
@danoakley2141
@danoakley2141 9 күн бұрын
36, and this hit home big time. Got the house, the company, and just focusing on gratitude when things get hard. Thank you Chad. Your authenticity is appreciated
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 9 күн бұрын
Very welcome. Thank you!✌🏻
@RazuVankii
@RazuVankii Ай бұрын
Damn dawg I actually cried thinking about how Mom and Dad won’t always be around to help with setbacks. I appreciate you taking the time to make such an eye-opening vid 🙏🏾
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@RazuVankii it’s a sad reality. It’s even worse when they’re gone. I appreciate the kind words and I’m glad you found value in my thoughts and experiences. It means the world to me! I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
@DevilDoc23
@DevilDoc23 Ай бұрын
My dad killed himself when I was 12 bc of military ptsd and I’m 20 now and in the military so I haven’t had any males to really look up to for most of my life. I’m so thankful for this information, you have no idea how many young men you have helped!!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
That’s truly means the world to me brother!!! Thank you for serving! I appreciate you!✌🏻
@MaseratiRick-ok5oj
@MaseratiRick-ok5oj Ай бұрын
Stand strong brother. We love you. America
@tylerhrizo8424
@tylerhrizo8424 2 ай бұрын
Turning 19 in a couple days. this video just confirmed for me everything I need to be doing to set up my future. Everyone around me tells me to stop working so hard and focus on the “college experience” while they get shitfaced multiple days a week. Everyone around me tells me it’s unrealistic and too much to try and buy a rental property in 3 or 4 years. Of course I will enjoy being young, but your advice makes me realize that those aspirations are the things that will set me apart.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 ай бұрын
@@tylerhrizo8424 I’m glad to provide some direction for you. You’ll see in the future those are the same people that will be victims in their own minds and complain that everything is everyone else’s fault. They’ll never get ahead. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day! God speed!
@lilmanq7746
@lilmanq7746 Ай бұрын
im 19 too but you don’t gotta follow anyone’s literally fully advice just take what you think it’s right and live
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@lilmanq7746 I couldn’t agree more.
@Jokayne
@Jokayne Ай бұрын
Don't waste your money investing right now the whole system is crashing within the next 2 to 3 years stockmarket gone banks gone .. land and growing food is a way better investment cos starvation will be coming too
@tylerhrizo8424
@tylerhrizo8424 Ай бұрын
@@Jokayne that’s why I said I’m investing in property! And it’s for me to live in! Maybe read the comment before you reply random dude who is saying starvation is coming!
@chessc.3407
@chessc.3407 Ай бұрын
Woman here in 40s and I totally agree. Thank you for teaching younger men and providing them with your perspective.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@chessc.3407 thank you for the kind words sister! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@shepherdgumbo2684
@shepherdgumbo2684 Ай бұрын
27 man living in Zimbabwe Africa.....I appreciate you Big Bro!💯
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I appreciate you brother!!✌🏻
@nikogt406
@nikogt406 Ай бұрын
I'm 28, got my own place and stable job, but still thankful for finding this video, great talk man! Needed to hear this
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Good on you dude! I love to hear people making it, even though everything we see today says it’s not possible and the American dream is dead. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@Xzavyuh
@Xzavyuh Ай бұрын
Almost 27, if your 25 and under you're super young. Stay out of debt and budget hard. Don't waste away your money on materials and liabilities. Wish i was 20 again with the financial knowledge I have now. Its never too late, just a harder hill to climb the longer you wait to get on track.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@Xzavyuh absolutely. Hell even at 45 in still super young. I appreciate you!
@analogueoverdigital929
@analogueoverdigital929 Ай бұрын
This is the truth. I'm 36 and just about paid off all my debt. I invested a few thousand into an IRA, but I need to keep contributing, and taking care of my mental health. My physical is fine, but everything he said rains true with me. Employers do NOT CARE. Your health and your family. Also making your money work while you sleep, aka invest
@Tubuka
@Tubuka 21 күн бұрын
Learning this now, finally paid off my truck early on my 25 birthday. Got rid of almost alllll debt and completely paid off some land, can’t wait to finish working off this debt and get my life started.
@Lucilius-l8h
@Lucilius-l8h Ай бұрын
20 year old listening this, I held my breathe listening. Real talk that all men need to take serious. Appreciating the men who shares his wisdom …
@LiGHTProductions
@LiGHTProductions Ай бұрын
Always. So much appreciated. 🙏🫡
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you! I strongly feel young men need to hear this. There’s way to many manchildren out there the MGTOW, and INCElLS, dudes simping. It’s terrible man!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you!🙏🏻
@Malena78-f3p
@Malena78-f3p Ай бұрын
Me too ,this is so touching .Since I watched this video I started questioning my life.Thank you for sharing these lessons with us and thank god I came across you
@Bababooey95
@Bababooey95 Ай бұрын
I just turned 29 and have been feeling really depressed and like it’s the end of my road because my finances are down, my job isn’t fulfilling and life seems pointless. But this really helped keep things in perspective. Thank you.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@madschassis
@madschassis Ай бұрын
About to turn 30 myself & basically feel pretty much how you’re describing. The only thing I can do is to tell myself my life is worth living. No matter how shitty it is. I was reunited with an old friend. That old friend was myself. I found myself again. If I can do it. Everyone can. Don’t give up.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@madschassis hell yeah dude!! Amazing way to see it!! ✌🏻
@Timmay1320
@Timmay1320 2 күн бұрын
“Don’t let the bastards grind you down” there will be rough patches in life and it may suck right now, but write down what makes you happy and what does not. Follow what makes you happy, and during that time figure out a plan that works towards bringing you the things that makes you happy. You can do it, just take one step at a time
@Gabriel-xu1jx
@Gabriel-xu1jx 2 күн бұрын
i’m 20 and recently fell for a fraud check scam, i’m now 30 grand negative in the bank. i’m partly thankful for it to have happened i feel this is what i needed to really discipline myself and go hard for it i know someday i’ll get to look back knowing i got myself out of this hole. thanks for this video
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 күн бұрын
Absolutely. One day you’ll laugh about it. ✌🏻
@yaboiij6694
@yaboiij6694 Ай бұрын
I’m 25 now. Thank you man. I will try my best to listen to what you said
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Simple concept but they aren’t always easy to do. All it takes is direction and drive. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!!
@BornBurmese
@BornBurmese Ай бұрын
Taking risks early in life is truly so important. When there’s less repercussions and the lessons you learn can be used for the rest of your life
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
🙏🏻I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@GeraThaTruth1
@GeraThaTruth1 Ай бұрын
🙏🏽
@ieboyz3106
@ieboyz3106 Ай бұрын
when you say taking risks, what kind of risks are you talking about?
@martinblackwhite
@martinblackwhite 27 күн бұрын
@@ieboyz3106 Experience anything you are have been wanting to try, regardless IF IT WILL PAY OFF OR NOT then. Types of schools, jobs, countries, hobbies, partners..
@foodchainer2722
@foodchainer2722 19 күн бұрын
​@@ieboyz3106Romance, business, travel etc.
@DaSouth3860
@DaSouth3860 Ай бұрын
Love it when you said if things went south there no shame to moving back in with mom and dad dust it off and keep moving forward makes me feel grateful for my mama.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Always be grateful for them. Thank you!✌🏻
@Ttow49
@Ttow49 22 күн бұрын
Young people better listen to this guy! Hes absolutely speaking the truth
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 22 күн бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@Megan_307
@Megan_307 Ай бұрын
Love your message. Frugality is majorly underrated. “Live like no one else today and you’ll live like no one else tomorrow” - Dave Ramsey. That’s been me and my husbands motto for 20+ years (we’re in our early 40’s now) and it has “paid” off. So much pressure when you’re younger to keep up, nah!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
So true! Thank you!✌🏻
@adainsolkar4234
@adainsolkar4234 Ай бұрын
People like you are extremely important to be on social media. Sharing life lessons through a video as you take a walk could potentially completely transform someone's life. I am 19 right now. Hoping to get things figured out as soon as possible. Thanks for such videos man! You are very much appreciated😊
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 29 күн бұрын
I appreciate that! Thank you!✌🏻
@Richard_Rivers
@Richard_Rivers 21 күн бұрын
One of the most articulate person i've ever seen. Great advices
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 21 күн бұрын
Wow. Thank you!!🙏🏻
@LBfrom1900
@LBfrom1900 Ай бұрын
Turned 18 this year, and work 2 jobs. I appreciate this advice from somebody who done been there and done that, and is willing to share their experience. Thank you and loved the vid !
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Get after it man. Stay away from the stuff and be patient and good things will come! Thank you!! I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
@zanderkatrakis3991
@zanderkatrakis3991 Ай бұрын
My twin brother sent me this video. We're 22 years old and by the 5th point I could've sworn it was a conversation between the 2 of us. We took risks early and now we own an 8 bedroom room rental house and a construction business. Every young guy needs to watch this video
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Broooo. That’s what I’m talking about!! Let’s freaking go!! ✌🏻
@joshualeon5331
@joshualeon5331 Ай бұрын
That’s sick bro I have a twin brother too but we’re not as close as we used to be. I’m 19 but I honestly just want to break this generational curse of poverty, do you have any tips?
@CleoCleo-d7v
@CleoCleo-d7v 13 күн бұрын
@@joshualeon5331 hai im 21 with a twin sister too. i would say just save as much as u can. ik its hard but even if u save a dollar, it something. i have a casual job and its paying ok whilst im studying. but i barely buy myself anything. i save and invest as much as i can.
@kyuchrome
@kyuchrome 13 күн бұрын
The politeness to the people around you is what makes this video even better.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 10 күн бұрын
I appreciate you brother! ✌🏻🙏🏻
@marianosetula5666
@marianosetula5666 Ай бұрын
DROPPING GOLD BROTHER! im 19 turning 20 in 2 months and im fucking scared of life. i need to start truly living. wasted so much time already. but your insight helped a lot. thank you. love you.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you homie! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@youtubegrass6932
@youtubegrass6932 Ай бұрын
I truly mean this bro start jogging half a miles for a month then up it from there
@drachenmarke
@drachenmarke Ай бұрын
Wasted time? You’re 20 f&&n years old….
@garylopez-f1w
@garylopez-f1w 18 күн бұрын
Love the video just started to follow your journey. I was one who took the risk early and did have to move back in with mom after things went south fast. I was never ashamed but rather grateful to still have them to be able to do that and recover from it. Which is exactly what I did
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 18 күн бұрын
That is awesome! Thank you!✌🏻
@slip7020
@slip7020 20 күн бұрын
I’m currently 23 and I’ve been in the worst slump of my life. No purpose no sure where I’m going to end up and working for a boss I despise. I’ve just very recently been trying to straighten up my finances and get my health in check and watching this has put a fire under my ass that I needed to keep moving forward thank you for sharing this advice I’m definitely going to put it to use!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 20 күн бұрын
Let’s go dude!!✌🏻
@Taitooturnt5
@Taitooturnt5 13 күн бұрын
I thank you for uploading this video it, not only inspired me, but changed my whole perspective on where I should be in the next couple of years. Currently I am 22, and I’m trying to make sure me and my family live a happy and healthy life. I still got a lot to learn, but for these next couple of years I will be patient, and willing to learn.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 13 күн бұрын
You’re already way ahead of others in your generation. Keep going!!✌🏻
@Taitooturnt5
@Taitooturnt5 13 күн бұрын
Thank you, I will make sure to keep going.
@TheBodycamReports
@TheBodycamReports Ай бұрын
Algorithm I am in my early twenties, thank you for sharing your wisdom. I can not stress into words how powerful I found this video. Thank you.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you brother! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@BADVIBEZ8
@BADVIBEZ8 4 күн бұрын
I’m 26 and still needed to hear this badly…..
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 4 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ✌🏻
@scrxshtrxsh
@scrxshtrxsh 14 күн бұрын
thanks for making this, especially needed the part about investing (buying property & making it a source of income) and saying no to the bar
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 14 күн бұрын
You got this. I wish you the best on this journey we call life!✌🏻
@dillonpersaud1080
@dillonpersaud1080 Күн бұрын
This is my vibe lately. I watched this at 2x speed and man, catchy and flowing. Thank you, Chad! New sub earned.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Күн бұрын
Thanks for the sub! I appreciate it. 🙏🏻
@fresh4ever792
@fresh4ever792 Ай бұрын
I had great parents and was taught the majority of this, but God provides us people like you for us to learn from. Thanks a lot sir, imma go open that index compound interest fund
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you for the kindness! I wish you the best in your ventures!
@guerosern
@guerosern 15 күн бұрын
Amen 👏👏
@stpaulphillip
@stpaulphillip 17 күн бұрын
Excellent list man. Pretty much everything I would’ve said. I just turned 50. Some of these things I did do (bought properties, invested) and I have six children. They are my life and my heart. I live for my memories with them. My ex wife took all my properties and I had to start over, but God lifted me up again. I’m sharing this video with my older children.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 16 күн бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@Mdykstra769
@Mdykstra769 Ай бұрын
I'm 55 and wish these words were available 40 years ago.. I agree 💯%! LISTEN!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you for all of the support brother!!! 🙏🏻
@jimh4072
@jimh4072 Ай бұрын
I feel the same, but I am 62. Don’t beat yourself up over being a certain age, as long as you keep trying. You might not get as far as some people - but it’s better than not moving forward at all.
@Rod_91ks
@Rod_91ks 22 күн бұрын
Spot on brother, I'm 33. Hopefully I still have time to recover from the risks I took these past couple or years. God bless you man
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 22 күн бұрын
Best of luck! Thank you!✌🏻
@Redsnowman04
@Redsnowman04 Ай бұрын
I truly believe the reason why time moves faster the older you get is because as you get older you’re so used to life’s tasks and doing repetitive things as to when you were younger and things were new to you and doing different things all the time. It’s like doing a lot of stuff and looking at the clock at work and it zooms every time you glance at it. Why do you think starting a new job your days go by so slow? The key to slowing down time is to do new and different things. This year I finally broke that repetitive cycle and started trying to do new things and living in the moment instead of working non stop. It’s not healthy so I changed it up and voila! This year has been so long for me. I’m 32 and I finally know how to slow time down. I think this needs to be spread out to everyone.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
That’s an awesome perspective! I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
@ets5697
@ets5697 Ай бұрын
Agree. Also quitting alcohol/drinking really slows things down. If you stop drinking and redirect your attention from socializing to learning things and improving yourself - time really slows down. I did both of those things this year - and it's by far the longest year I've lived in a very very long time.
@cnlscj8270
@cnlscj8270 Ай бұрын
I’m 27 now and this has always been my perspective since I was like 15-18, when time really started flying by for me. That’s why traveling I love to travel whenever I can, especially to different countries.
@jacksonwalsh4243
@jacksonwalsh4243 3 күн бұрын
As a 22 year old about to get out of the military going through a rough time, thank you. I took notes.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 күн бұрын
I was once there brother. You will figure this out. Thank you for watching ✌🏻
@WanderWisdomHive121
@WanderWisdomHive121 Ай бұрын
I'm so grateful to see this in my 20s. It's no coincidence-it’s a sign to start making smarter financial decisions now so I can enjoy life later. Going to bars with friends is like burning money, and our 20s are the prime time to lock in. Distractions will come, but we need accountability to stay purpose-driven and perform at our best. Thanks for this video 🙏
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Heck yeah!! Let’s go!✌🏻
@MACERATIONART
@MACERATIONART 23 күн бұрын
I’m 23 man been living wit my girl since we was 19 its been hard but i love everyday of it thank you man
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 23 күн бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@db8715
@db8715 Ай бұрын
First time I’ve ever heard of your channel. I turn 45 October 16th and this is one awesome video of great advice. I listened to every word you said. 👍👍
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Come on in brother. The water is warm. Lol. I appreciate your kindness and support. I’m here making a new video everyday. ✌🏻
@anthtistic
@anthtistic 2 күн бұрын
Needed this man. I turned 23 yesterday and i've been struggling a lot. Thank you for your wisdom
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 күн бұрын
Happy birthday!
@anthtistic
@anthtistic 2 күн бұрын
@@ChadLisonbee Thank you!
@aproodigalson
@aproodigalson 21 күн бұрын
Well said man. I'm gonna be 43 soon and you nailed it
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 20 күн бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@tedcation7940
@tedcation7940 20 күн бұрын
Thank you, sir. I'm a 24 year old guy, and I appreciate you for making this video. All love, man ❤
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 20 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you!✌🏻
@DJBou0407
@DJBou0407 Ай бұрын
A long time friend and coworker stopped talking to me because I wouldn't go to the bar to celebrate someone retirement. She didn't know that in my early 30's I was one drink away from becoming an alcoholic. I quit cold turkey and have never looked back. I'm 65 now.
@AIBreakitSimple
@AIBreakitSimple Ай бұрын
This is so real I'm 27 and started to go hard in investing 5 years ago living with only what I need to survive it washard but now with 150k in assets and a home but honestly you get to a point were you are actually get comfortable living below your means and when you try to spoil yourself it doesn't feel right in my opinion so you tent to go back to living below your means because it feels comfortable in the end the hard times is were you get best memories in my opinion
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
That’s bad ass man! Unfortunately most won’t find comfort where they are. The saying “the more you make the spend”, is very real. You’re definitely not average! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@iambversamusic
@iambversamusic Ай бұрын
29 going on 30. A veteran and still made mistakes. Rushing without a plan… hit rock bottom, heartbreaks and had the wake up call. Great video..
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you for your service brother!
@denisandreev6911
@denisandreev6911 2 ай бұрын
I am 25 and just entered the real estate market after saving up for years, as I think the earlier the better as you state, everything in the video is true and you can hear it's coming from the heart with good intentions, thank you for the wisdom and sincerity. Keep it coming, as I am sure it helps keep younger generation in the right direction.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 ай бұрын
I hope it does help the younger generation. As long as they’re teachable, they’ll get it. I wash you the best on your ventures your headed the right direction with a good head on your shoulders!! Thank you for your support! Thank you for sharing your time with me and giving a damn. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
@vols519
@vols519 Күн бұрын
Brother what a great video, sound life advice. I wish I could've given it more than a thumbs up.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thank you! ✌🏻
@sancasmiadas1
@sancasmiadas1 Ай бұрын
Im 39 and am learning this is a fact. Own a business that is profitable. But I spent everything on building it to this size. I was feeling depressed and overworked so I bought a race car and a rubicon rock climber to feel wealthy. But now at 39 I see I have to buy realstate. 2024 First year I felt old. My mind is on real-estate now. How ever I don’t regret building my family I have 4 kids and my wife so that makes me feel rich. I spent a good amount of my money vacation and camping with them. In a nutshell I’ve never really had savings I spend it all. But it’s time to change that. I hope it’s not too late for me
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
It’s never too late brother! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@Lily-lc9sz
@Lily-lc9sz Ай бұрын
35 no wife no kids no money. Crippling mental illnesses. You’re doing well nice see hard work paying off keep grinding
@TheRexPerkins
@TheRexPerkins 4 күн бұрын
Thank you. Gratitude=happiness really hit home. It really is that simple
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 4 күн бұрын
Thank you for watching ✌🏻
@tonythegreat4275
@tonythegreat4275 Ай бұрын
Turning 26 this month, and i remember when i was 19 like yesterday. Between that time i haven't accomplished anything. Only thing i got new with me is a STD from all the sez i was having. I realize how much of a fool i was, and how dumb i was i had big dreams at 19 yet here i am almost 26 and i am not anywhere, I don't being in the military didn't really get me anywhere nor do i feel like a winner. I know what i have i just say this to inspire someone in a similar situation.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Keep going and you’ll find what you’re looking for. Get your VA benefits rolling to help you. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@martea726
@martea726 Ай бұрын
Beautiful advice bud I really appreciate it. I’m 22 and not sure what career path to take once I graduate. I worked 4 internships in accounting and investment firms and work part time in investment management right now as I finish off some courses at university. I spoke with the CEO and CCO of a lending company and impressed them, leading to a job offer for an underwriting position once I graduate from university. However, I enjoyed a plant growing job at my family’s greenhouse back in 2021. It’s strange because I like plant growing, yet it’s not mentally stimulating enough for me. On the other hand, being in an office for too long gets me depressed since I love to be outside. I’ll try to work out a plan to do the underwriting and grower job at different times of the year since both are seasonal. Great video lots for me to consider!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@newstart7232
@newstart7232 Ай бұрын
Facing the same issue I work for the govt for which i have a permanent position which is away from the city and I want to learn something for which you have to be physically present in the city ... 🫤
@kwadwoamponsah
@kwadwoamponsah Ай бұрын
Thanks for this. I’m 31 I miss the feeling of immortality in my 20’s , but life has whopped me enough to have humility so I am gonna be able to grow properly in 30’s.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Sometimes we have to learn the hard way. The important thing is we learn. ✌🏻
@mawhadmd
@mawhadmd Ай бұрын
"The more you know, the more you realize you don't know" and it hurts, I'm 20, and have not been to any job, but I'm discovering the world as much as i can.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Keep moving forward dude. You’ll find your path!
@mawhadmd
@mawhadmd 28 күн бұрын
@@ChadLisonbeethanks man
@bousnaneabdelghani164
@bousnaneabdelghani164 Ай бұрын
That's amazing as a 25 yrs old moved to another country, really needed to hear that , thank you so much
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@bousnaneabdelghani164
@bousnaneabdelghani164 Ай бұрын
@@ChadLisonbee you too sir
@palobar9974
@palobar9974 2 ай бұрын
Walking in nature while making these videos is a wonderful idea. Keep up the good work brother.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 ай бұрын
@@palobar9974 thank you. It helps me get into a state of flow. I’m glad you enjoy it and I’m grateful for your support!
@IsaiahSypien
@IsaiahSypien 5 күн бұрын
Finally a real KZbinr offering real advice. I needed your video.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 5 күн бұрын
Thank you ✌🏻
@reecerazz4807
@reecerazz4807 Ай бұрын
This video spoke to me I am turning 21 in a few weeks and trying to turn my life into something great for myself and my family thank you 🙏
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@reecerazz4807 I’m extremely happy to hear that. Start right be right! Don’t forget your youth, but emphasize on your life on the future!
@matthuang21
@matthuang21 Ай бұрын
Chad, thank you for this video. I’m 25 right now and everything you said resonated with me. Going to do my best to make the smart long term decisions and have a teachable mindset so that I can create a life I can be proud of in 20 years. Please know your efforts are greatly appreciated.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
You got this! Thank you!✌🏻
@anthonyplaysbass
@anthonyplaysbass Ай бұрын
Im in my 30s (31 almost 32 in a few months) and wish i was 21 again holy shit...but, this may be the best decade of my life. Just like my 40s ...and 50s...
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
If you design and focus on your future you’ll build the future you want! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@our.secret1130
@our.secret1130 Ай бұрын
What would you do differently?
@anthonyplaysbass
@anthonyplaysbass Ай бұрын
@@our.secret1130 me? Learn a trade. See my parents and grandparents more.
@tenslymezidor3696
@tenslymezidor3696 18 күн бұрын
Thank so much for all the advice Chad… I’m still 20 and trying to figure things out this helped a lot
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 18 күн бұрын
Happy to help!
@williammartens1776
@williammartens1776 Ай бұрын
I'm a 21 year old guy and have been doing my Roth IRA and 401k because of guys like you that make me look to the future. Also I stopped eating processed food which has improved my health a lot. Thanks
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Let’s go bro!
@lifeinthetreehouse
@lifeinthetreehouse Ай бұрын
I’m 27, I really needed this advice. I want to succeed in life, I want the best for my family, I want to create a beautiful life and thank you for sharing your wisdom. Lucky to have come across your video.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I’m glad to hear this video resonated with you. I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@jpgleiden
@jpgleiden Ай бұрын
Straight to the point talk, thats what i like. Suscribed!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I appreciate your support!
@AIDOCTOR416
@AIDOCTOR416 12 күн бұрын
Bro you’re such a g. I’m 22, moving to the Philippines to keep growing my business in January and I can relate to a lot of things you’ve said. Your eyes and voice show the kind of person you are and I truly thank you for sharing your experiences, you can be very proud. My first ever comment on KZbin, I hope you read it because yeah I can see a father talking here and I respect that. Keep posting and take care of yourself, thanks. Thomas
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 10 күн бұрын
I appreciate that! I read and reply to all comments. It’s getting harder but so far I’ve been getting it done. ✌🏻
@wvjon75
@wvjon75 Ай бұрын
I’m 49 and I’ve also learned the hard way. Great advice! Subscribed.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@wvjon75 I appreciate the support! Thank you! I appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
@FUjandro
@FUjandro Ай бұрын
Just turned 20 and all I can say is thank you, god bless
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!✌🏻
@storyIine
@storyIine Ай бұрын
it hits too hard because its too real. im 23, and im currently working to invest in myself
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@storyIine the best investment you could ever make dude!
@ramishahmed1860
@ramishahmed1860 8 күн бұрын
Dude is lookin strong and healthy thanks for the strong and healthy advice
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 7 күн бұрын
Thank you ✌🏻
@deanthomas983
@deanthomas983 Ай бұрын
I hope this finds those feeling lost, this will help many young guys out there.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!🙏🏻
@JiggaOfficial
@JiggaOfficial Ай бұрын
26 and been building my self as a single man. Had some mistakes but recoverable and in place to recover. Started my journey investing in myself at 19. Best decision I’ve ever made. To think at point they have been doubts but God has shown me examples over these pass 7 years of why the slower route was the better route. Haven’t partied in 7 years - I’ve went out a handful of times but I mostly go out to network and still meet with women often. Actually higher quality women at times that are willing to build with me in some form. Keep working Jed.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Awesome dude! Thank you!✌🏻
@Dadreamer96
@Dadreamer96 Ай бұрын
Listening to you feels like i know you for ages and also feels like you’re talking about me
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you! It means the world to hear I’m able to connect with others.
@kristian21
@kristian21 Ай бұрын
Wise words, my friend. Turning 40 later this year and all that you said rings perfectly true to me.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@allenreid62
@allenreid62 2 ай бұрын
You crushed it on this one. I try relaying much of what you've touched on in this video to my kids, but you never know if it sinks in.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 ай бұрын
@@allenreid62 Thank you! That really means a lot coming from someone with your experience. Yesterday was quite a challenge with one tech issue after another-I had to re-record multiple times, lost audio, (that’s why it’s at night) and my editing software kept glitching. It was frustrating, but your support makes it all worthwhile. I truly appreciate it!
@allenreid62
@allenreid62 2 ай бұрын
@@ChadLisonbee But you got it done when you could've easily said screw it.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 ай бұрын
@@allenreid62 amen brother!!!!🙏🏻
@TwistedFuchsia
@TwistedFuchsia 22 күн бұрын
Just keep reiterating it in different ways and when the time is right. I’ve grown to be surprised how many helpful lessons my parents taught me, even when i was a spiteful troublemaker of a teenager 😂😂
@saturnovzla-andresfernande2755
@saturnovzla-andresfernande2755 8 күн бұрын
thank you for these valuable words, you have a new Venezuelan follower. Keep working to build a better future
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 8 күн бұрын
Thank you ✌🏻
@oliverbuddy6784
@oliverbuddy6784 Ай бұрын
turn 24 next month man this video really resonates. Appreciate you sharing your thoughts man 🙏 It means a lot
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you brother!! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@BaltTV
@BaltTV Ай бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I wish I had learned this in my teens. I'm 31 now and trying my best to catch up. Much appreciated, my brother.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
You got this! You still have plenty of time as long as you start now!
@behaviorthoughts
@behaviorthoughts Ай бұрын
I’m almost 29, thank you for this
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I’m. Glad you’re able to get something out of my thoughts and life experiences. I wish you the best in this game we call life!!! I’m here everyday! ✌🏻
@BigPavful
@BigPavful 19 күн бұрын
Recently turned 35, all you said is right. Only through trials I got this info you observed in the video. Thanks for sharing!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 19 күн бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thank you✌🏻
@Mrkaliforniaofficial
@Mrkaliforniaofficial Ай бұрын
I’m 29 god bless you
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@LAQueja
@LAQueja Ай бұрын
Good video! #2 I learned first hand in postal service during orientation. They blantly stated it for all to hear. #11 know when to say NO. Know when to stay away. That includes family.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
@@LAQueja I agree!! Thank you for your kindness and spending your time on me! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@KasiTvForKasiTribe
@KasiTvForKasiTribe Ай бұрын
Thanks bro for this video, I'm in South Africa and your video touched me 😢🙏🏿 I'm 32yrs old,lost everything bcz of business, but thank you for those w
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
It amazes me to hear how far a person can reach in this day and age! It’s all about perspective. You only lost everything if you didn’t learn from it. Otherwise if you can shift your perspective, you’ll see it as an expensive lesson. Thank you! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@Revan_the3rd
@Revan_the3rd 2 күн бұрын
Gratitude and happiness I’ve noticed
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 күн бұрын
💯Thank you!✌🏻
@achraf2095
@achraf2095 Ай бұрын
Thanks for this wisdom
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
I’m glad to hear you found value! I’m making new videos everyday. I appreciate you! I hope you have a wonderful day!
@Raed.Merhi.
@Raed.Merhi. 3 күн бұрын
One of the most valuable youtube videos out there for people in their 20s or anyone that really wants to grow and prosper in life. I know from experience that it is actually hard, so hard to learn from someone else's experience, to believe that you shouldn't do what your arrogance tells you to do, what your gratification is lacking, what you desire. When you know how life should be lived yet still insist on living it on your own messed terms which oppose the real wisdom and truth. It is certainly hard to experience the depth of the words and it is only easy to say that "okay, thats how you had it, should not be how i have mine" while still behaving as if you listen to what the OG has to say, to what the wise speak. "The great is he who truly learns from others' mistakes" (i.e, not replicating what you know to be wrong, not insisting on going the wrong paths and just thinking arrogantly that you're paving a new path)
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 күн бұрын
True words! Thank you for watching✌🏻
@henrijstomilovs3594
@henrijstomilovs3594 2 ай бұрын
Thanks dad!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 ай бұрын
😂Thank you for your support! Thank you for sharing your time with me and giving a damn. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
@jaybeez
@jaybeez Ай бұрын
Thank you for this. I'm 41 now with a family to take care of and had to learn a lot of these lessons the hardway since being on my own without much of a father figure since I was 14. Such good sage life advice. Hats off to you sir!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you brother!! Thank you!🙏🏻
@rockenroller9749
@rockenroller9749 Ай бұрын
Great video , greetings from Europe.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you homie! It’s a wonderful time that we can communicate with others across the pond! I appreciate you! Have a wonderful day!
@Armandytalks
@Armandytalks 17 күн бұрын
this, was the best segment i came across all year
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 16 күн бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@Petersonluke
@Petersonluke 3 күн бұрын
I never comment on videos but ur a G and thank you for making this video. I’m watching it again tomorrow.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 3 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! Have a great night ✌🏻
@jeffbianchi-classicalguita1456
@jeffbianchi-classicalguita1456 Ай бұрын
Find something you love to do and make it your job. If you love being a garbage collector, be a garbage collector. Disregard what others say and whether something is possible or not. Your life will be much, much better for it.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@ardl1280
@ardl1280 9 күн бұрын
I listen this everyday, saved to playlist motivation. Thanks bro. Im so young and i dont have these insights yet.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 9 күн бұрын
Thank you ✌🏻
@MichaelsPaintingChannel
@MichaelsPaintingChannel Ай бұрын
That was brilliant. 1979? Me too. Cheers!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
Yes sir. 1979 sure was an amazing year!
@MDaDonLegacy
@MDaDonLegacy 24 күн бұрын
I feel this so much. I decided to make a video myself. Take care of yourselves.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 24 күн бұрын
Thank you! You too!✌🏻
@BabaYana-q1l
@BabaYana-q1l 2 ай бұрын
What makes this video even more credible is the fact that you put nutrition first on the list. People, for some reason, think, or perhaps they are not thinking at all that they can put garbage in and get prestine out, and no matter what you say to them, nothing works. I guess it's true that we love our misery.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 2 ай бұрын
And misery loves company. I’ve been on both sides of it. Trash in and feeling like trash several times. This time I got my shit dialed in and I’m never going back. Thank you for your support! Thank you for sharing your time with me and giving a damn. I appreciate you and hope you have a wonderful day!
@JoeyM-z5x
@JoeyM-z5x 17 күн бұрын
Thank you for your video. As a 24 year old with no direction and constantly with anxiety and struggling to make friends this helps.. I definitely must focus on my nutrition, as well as everything else on the list lol.. Thank you for sharing!
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee 16 күн бұрын
Thank you!✌🏻
@kelvin_ruweta
@kelvin_ruweta Ай бұрын
Another thing I have learnt from the vid, always say hello. With a smile.
@ChadLisonbee
@ChadLisonbee Ай бұрын
100%. Pass those smiles on! They’re contagious! Thank you!✌🏻
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