11 Manipulation Tactics - Which ones fit your Personality?

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@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 5 жыл бұрын
*_With great manipulating skills comes great responsibility_*
@asandax6
@asandax6 5 жыл бұрын
I think that only applies to super powers. ;)
@rinisthegoat-3747
@rinisthegoat-3747 4 жыл бұрын
Asanda Ndimande manipulating skills ARE super powers ;)
@danielmarcos1465
@danielmarcos1465 4 жыл бұрын
I love the way scarlett kennedy manipulate or persuade people! Truly impressive!
@steffenarnolds5555
@steffenarnolds5555 4 жыл бұрын
@@danielmarcos1465 interesting, who is she anyway? Sounds familiar...
@thedivineofsin
@thedivineofsin 4 жыл бұрын
You’re only thinking about their will, but we live in a world were free will doesn’t exist
@spencerryan4359
@spencerryan4359 5 жыл бұрын
"I'll kick your dog"
@spencerryan4359
@spencerryan4359 5 жыл бұрын
@@bintangsena2249 lmfao By Girlfriend just drank Belle Delphines water And my dog is John Wick in a BDSM Dog Collar
@jimothyworldbuilding3664
@jimothyworldbuilding3664 4 жыл бұрын
Well shit someone actually used that threat on me once after I laughed at having a knife put to my throat (I have a mental disorder that basically results in my sense of fear towards physical threats being greatly reduced. Still can't work up the balls to ask girls out tho)... it was clear I wouldn't be able to stop them and I gave them all £7.20 I had on me at the time. Long story short people give about 100x more shits about their dog's pinky toe than their own lives. Unless they're a fucking psycho.
@christophermolina9231
@christophermolina9231 4 жыл бұрын
John wick wants to know your location
@mulhamalati2481
@mulhamalati2481 4 жыл бұрын
Dio Brando?
@fujiE33
@fujiE33 4 жыл бұрын
Bintang Sena ZAWAURDO
@anyariv
@anyariv Жыл бұрын
He missed "guilt tripping" - that should be like #1. Parents do this a lot to their kids. "go ahead, skip out on the family reunion, make your mother looks stupid, or make everyone wonder where you are..." or " don't you love me? have mercy on me, can't you see I'm sick?"
@voiceofvoid69
@voiceofvoid69 Жыл бұрын
Exactly that's the biggest thing missed in this video
@UnMisanthropeCynique
@UnMisanthropeCynique Жыл бұрын
Guilt tripping is considered a form of psychological coercion since you are forcing someone to do something by using psychological pressure.
@barkoictolugueneofbairtona2273
@barkoictolugueneofbairtona2273 Жыл бұрын
It's fucked up
@sastevideo931
@sastevideo931 3 ай бұрын
Bro 🗿
@kambe9713
@kambe9713 Ай бұрын
It is explained too fast. As a result, it is not easy to follow
@thomasconnors4338
@thomasconnors4338 2 жыл бұрын
Silence is a great one for haggling. I did some garage sale flipping a few years back- don’t argue against a lowball- just look at them for about 5 seconds- about half of people will make another offer to escape the tension.
@brothadrknes4760
@brothadrknes4760 2 жыл бұрын
This works almost perfectly if the person is purposely lowballin you. You’ll feel as if you’re onto them an may feel insulted. Thinkin your silence is you either bein courteous or holdin back your displeasure with their offer they’ll try to avoid losin you altogether by makin a more reasonable offer. Even if it’s still low at this point they’ll be more open to negotiation
@goldenboxen6430
@goldenboxen6430 Жыл бұрын
i thrive off quietness i don't like getting involved with people more out of annoyance then fear or it being awkward so i would be there thinking about if someone every ate a deep fried fruit and should i be the first to do that
@MrGuggisberg
@MrGuggisberg Жыл бұрын
I did this unintentionally in high school by buying a used yearbook with the name engraving rubbed out. I just silently looked down and got $10 off
@xynged
@xynged 7 ай бұрын
old sales adage: after an offer is on the table, the first person to talk loses the negotiation
@b.m.whindle9195
@b.m.whindle9195 6 ай бұрын
I work in Retentions. We use similar tactics, though guilt works best.
@prosperitymindset4394
@prosperitymindset4394 5 жыл бұрын
*Everyone manipulates to some degree* (even inconsciously).
@kisukeurahara5023
@kisukeurahara5023 4 жыл бұрын
Prosperity Mindset un
@lopc9791
@lopc9791 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@xavierrenegadeangel2955
@xavierrenegadeangel2955 4 жыл бұрын
Unconsciously*******
@gano9744
@gano9744 4 жыл бұрын
@@xavierrenegadeangel2955 Subconsciously*****
@spencerryan4359
@spencerryan4359 3 жыл бұрын
@@gano9744 Dead****
@MindNow
@MindNow 5 жыл бұрын
*I don’t really like the term manipulation. I’d rather use persuasion* 🙏
@Instawise
@Instawise 5 жыл бұрын
For Wrong Purpose : Manipulation For Right Purpose : Persuasion
@dataexpunged6969
@dataexpunged6969 5 жыл бұрын
Potato potahto
@Alexander-pm3zx
@Alexander-pm3zx 5 жыл бұрын
Thank u
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 5 жыл бұрын
agreed!
@aerosmithgaming6173
@aerosmithgaming6173 5 жыл бұрын
I ve spotted a Machiavelli
@Nickilob2006
@Nickilob2006 Жыл бұрын
I use responsibility inovcation with my mother, and now I feel bad... But in my defense, she all the time promises things and never does them, so when I really want her to do something, I say that she promised to do it to make her feel bad, but it almost never works because either *I* feel bad for making her do it, or she is just like "no, I'm not 'feeling well'"
@isema1532
@isema1532 Жыл бұрын
You don’t know how much I relate to this
@PS4Pat
@PS4Pat Жыл бұрын
If you ask me, 'No, I'm not feeling well' is probably just an excuse to get out of it doing something she doesn't want to.
@Nickilob2006
@Nickilob2006 Жыл бұрын
@@PS4Pat nah, she actually has a lot of health issues and always takes meds, but that still doesn't excuse the fact that she is tired all the time for me
@PS4Pat
@PS4Pat Жыл бұрын
@@Nickilob2006 which is my point. You said that she all the time promises things and never does them. But also like you said, she has health issues and takes meds, but that still doesn't excuse it. So even though she has health issues, if she can actually do something for you but claims she doesn't feel well, at least some of those times, is probably just an excuse.
@kanyenorth2605
@kanyenorth2605 Жыл бұрын
Im in the same situation always have been I hope we meet sometime
@munibzain1966
@munibzain1966 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I'm definitely watching this video to notice when people manipulate me, and not at all to learn manipulation.
@aryades
@aryades 2 жыл бұрын
you just like me fr..
@N-Ice_
@N-Ice_ Жыл бұрын
I'm surely not already manipulative and wants to expend my abilities in manipulation
@malas.7276
@malas.7276 4 жыл бұрын
Where's '' playing the victim ''?
@pratham080x4
@pratham080x4 4 жыл бұрын
That's not manipulating that's being a Karen
@rockstardee
@rockstardee 4 жыл бұрын
ikr smh
@SR77736
@SR77736 4 жыл бұрын
@@pratham080x4 it is manipulation. Guomt tripping and trying to get sympathy.
@V_098
@V_098 3 жыл бұрын
I learnt that way of manipulation- no, persuasion- from my parents
@franurbanliker728
@franurbanliker728 3 жыл бұрын
its regression
@conordunne3831
@conordunne3831 5 жыл бұрын
When you realize that you have used multiple types of manipulation on yourself every day 😂
@arry.ext_is_working5901
@arry.ext_is_working5901 3 жыл бұрын
Dude this was the plot twist
@elisabethsun7059
@elisabethsun7059 2 жыл бұрын
Lol
@thewhitene9746
@thewhitene9746 Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@just_ise4418
@just_ise4418 Жыл бұрын
Yeah
@americ6njesus
@americ6njesus Жыл бұрын
😰😰😰
@Unkn4wN_TM
@Unkn4wN_TM 3 жыл бұрын
I believe everyone uses at least one of these tactics subconsciously, but that's not manipulation. The difference comes when you do it intentionally to control others. Watching this video i realised i often use one of the tactics, which is using logical reasoning to convince someone to do something. It doesn't always result in me winning, and i'm not using it intentionally to manipulate anyone, i just do it because i'm a logical person by nature. I use logical reasoning for many things, even things that help others instead of myself. I also realised that my ex girlfriend used a couple of these tactics, and i think some of them were intentional too, because i always had the feeling that she was manipulative... she always blamed stuff on me when things went wrong. Blaming me was her backup plan when other tactics didn't work.
@hopelfreyamikaelson9348
@hopelfreyamikaelson9348 2 жыл бұрын
Seriously watching this not so I can manipulate others but so I will know when I am getting manipulate
@Instawise
@Instawise 5 жыл бұрын
Summed Up : Charm try to be loving when I ask her to do it. Coercion yell at him until he does it. Silent treatment don't respond to her until she does it. Reason explain why I want him to do it. Regression whine until she does it. Self-abasement act submissive so that he will do it. Responsibility invocation get her to make a commitment to doing it. Hardball hit him so that he will do it. Pleasure induction show her how much fun it will be to do it. Social comparison tell him that everyone else is doing it. Monetary reward offer her money so that she will do it.
@HumansOfVR
@HumansOfVR 5 жыл бұрын
thanks!
@amritas2400
@amritas2400 5 жыл бұрын
😂😂 Excellent.
@Bratzmaniac29
@Bratzmaniac29 4 жыл бұрын
When I do all of these
@amilgg
@amilgg 4 жыл бұрын
Olivia Moore wow ur so manipulative and quirky
@Bratzmaniac29
@Bratzmaniac29 4 жыл бұрын
ItsAmil why are you assuming I’m proud of it? I have BPD so I do it without thinking about it & it’s scary. I didn’t even know these were considered manipulative until therapy tbh
@user-rl6ns8to4g
@user-rl6ns8to4g 4 жыл бұрын
Friend: help me Rob a bank Me:hell no rather get shot then helping u Friend: I'm kick your dog Me: adding last bullet to gun , let's go
@mathewcarlsardon4342
@mathewcarlsardon4342 3 жыл бұрын
That's more likely a threat
@MsMaryyjuana
@MsMaryyjuana 3 жыл бұрын
🤣
@taylorjennings8272
@taylorjennings8272 2 жыл бұрын
lol
@ronkus5126
@ronkus5126 2 жыл бұрын
jesus christ man go to school and learn how to write sentences what is this
@Eskiii
@Eskiii 2 жыл бұрын
@@ronkus5126 what the fuck man can you speak a word of Arabic for example. Judging that you're probably English you should be grateful that these foreign people are trying to speak english. You 100% got his point, what's the problem?
@Angel-sf4ct
@Angel-sf4ct 3 жыл бұрын
I’m not at all a manipulative person. I’m just very logical. I’m only watching this video to try and avoid using manipulation. But even I fit some of the ones on this list, 6 and 7 specifically, but I will only use that knowledge to improve on myself. I encourage all of you to do the same.
@user-vi7xo2dy1g
@user-vi7xo2dy1g 2 жыл бұрын
Logical my ass shut up you manipulate whether u want to or not its just that ur too dumb to see it cuz u look at things emotionally
@azizmayy8010
@azizmayy8010 2 жыл бұрын
Nice move .. You are really a manipulative person .
@trompette4485
@trompette4485 Жыл бұрын
Manipulation is not inheritly bad, that word just has a bad connotation.
@hediabidi950
@hediabidi950 Жыл бұрын
Yes sir
@hilycool_
@hilycool_ Жыл бұрын
FRR tho
@elysebrown3051
@elysebrown3051 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, there's something to think about. After the video, I realized some moments that I was being manipulated and even learned my methods 🙈 Great illustrations!
@stefanvanderlinde3384
@stefanvanderlinde3384 5 жыл бұрын
But what if a manipulator sees this and just learns how to hide his "persuasion" tactics even better than before
@Bratzmaniac29
@Bratzmaniac29 4 жыл бұрын
Every 4 year old does these .. honestly most of these are harmless manipulation imo
@cherrabenoussama3509
@cherrabenoussama3509 4 жыл бұрын
The video talks about literalily about group of my friends who have ghosted me
@graceandevarucinskiandrile1960
@graceandevarucinskiandrile1960 4 жыл бұрын
they’re not. I use almost all of these in my everyday life. that’s how I always get what I want
@alexis.flores
@alexis.flores 3 жыл бұрын
@@Bratzmaniac29 what if, hypothetically and not incredibly accurately, you're the 4 year old in the family?
@arry.ext_is_working5901
@arry.ext_is_working5901 3 жыл бұрын
Thats what i am doing
@BrainsApplied
@BrainsApplied 5 жыл бұрын
*How about not manipulating people?* I prefer "helping people to unconciously make better decisions".
@Instawise
@Instawise 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly..
@Rithmy
@Rithmy 5 жыл бұрын
Its the same. A friend of mine also prefers to say that he is borrowing stuff for indefinite time. But most people would say he steals it.
@Rithmy
@Rithmy 5 жыл бұрын
The people he lends from dont know him conciously. So its hard for them to ask it back. But when they do, he give it back.
@sweetiepie4328
@sweetiepie4328 4 жыл бұрын
Ok GOD
@muhammadtezar3942
@muhammadtezar3942 3 жыл бұрын
Spoken like a true manipulator
@su5pect_684
@su5pect_684 Жыл бұрын
If someone says no when I want something I simply can’t be bothered to try harder.
@MountainofInspiration
@MountainofInspiration 3 жыл бұрын
Always great to know their tricks and stand your ground.
@srensrensen6269
@srensrensen6269 5 жыл бұрын
I think it's important to understand that most forms of manipulations isn't necessarily unethical. A big part of managing people is getting them to do what you want and you have to determine what level of manipulation you deem ethical.
@elisabethsun7059
@elisabethsun7059 2 жыл бұрын
This is why I clicked on this video
@DoctorBeees
@DoctorBeees 2 жыл бұрын
Manipulation is ALWAYS unethical. Manipulation is goal driven "no matter the cost" kind of thinking, that is based on lies or fabricated stories. Persuasion however is done with good intent, and based on facts. Persuasion is good, manipulation is not. I have ZERO tolerance for manipulation.
@safwensnoussi9925
@safwensnoussi9925 2 жыл бұрын
That's why we need Religion!❤️
@srensrensen6269
@srensrensen6269 2 жыл бұрын
@@safwensnoussi9925 Religion is probably the greatest tool of mass manipulation that man has ever produced.
@richardmoore1952
@richardmoore1952 2 жыл бұрын
Bro when is manipulation ever ethical 🤔
@tatleman5314
@tatleman5314 5 жыл бұрын
Personal Summary: 1) Being charming 2) Somewhat threatening someone to get what you want 3) Silence treatment 4) Rational Reasoning 5) Whining about something (e.g. cry of a small child) 6) Being humble (e.g. "I'm so dumb") 7) Making other people feel responsible/guilty (e.g. "But you promised...") 8) Literally torturing people 9) Assuring the other one that it will be fun 10) Benchmarking (e.g. "Steve Jobs was doing this as well...") 11) Rewarding (e.g. "Would you commit a crime for $1 million dollar")
@thecrookedone1377
@thecrookedone1377 2 жыл бұрын
Imma leave a reply here for a bookmark
@sentinel_2551
@sentinel_2551 2 жыл бұрын
@@thecrookedone1377 me too
@TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic
@TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic 2 жыл бұрын
May thray
@akash7783
@akash7783 2 жыл бұрын
God he knows too much
@ss-ju3ew
@ss-ju3ew 2 жыл бұрын
Great
@HoshiroOtosuke
@HoshiroOtosuke Жыл бұрын
been watching a few videos on the subject tonight. this one feels far more educational than most and far less deceiving. subsribed and added before you even recommended it :) will need to watch again tho :D
@stefanoavramfrigo3336
@stefanoavramfrigo3336 2 жыл бұрын
The ending was genius!! Still watching the whole series though!!
@osse1n
@osse1n 5 жыл бұрын
*Tactics don’t harm people - people harm people* I don’t see why people get attached to wordings. Sometimes we have to circumvent people’s egos and lack of knowledge so that we can present the message in a way they are comfortable with.
@asandax6
@asandax6 5 жыл бұрын
That logic can be applied to anything like guns don't kill people-people kill people But I don't why the logic is used on bad situations mostly. I've never heard anyone say medicine don't cure people it's the people who make it that does.
@osse1n
@osse1n 5 жыл бұрын
@@asandax6 ​ @Asanda Ndimande I am with you on this one. Too many are sensitive. Especially in this day and age.
@berkhanoguz987
@berkhanoguz987 5 жыл бұрын
Hehehe. .. manipulative treats will control the world
@themo33
@themo33 5 жыл бұрын
"...we have to circumvent people's ego and lack of knowledge..." . Hmm, scary. I think you're manipulating yourself.
@GreenOrochi89
@GreenOrochi89 3 жыл бұрын
Tactics don't harm people - but it sure feels crushing when you overlooked them and blundered a piece / a mate.
@miwhale2614
@miwhale2614 4 жыл бұрын
I just realized I’ve been using these all my life
@pah7514
@pah7514 3 жыл бұрын
Congrats
@vengeance7731
@vengeance7731 3 жыл бұрын
Ikr💀
@smuglife64gaming21
@smuglife64gaming21 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@marnie1129
@marnie1129 3 жыл бұрын
Same someone just told me i been manipulating i didnt know that word
@yuukililith4178
@yuukililith4178 3 жыл бұрын
Nice you’re a natural talent.
@trip3402
@trip3402 3 жыл бұрын
The silent treatment works wonders because they don’t know what to expect and will fall to the pressure that’s really non existent
@mahdikhan5950
@mahdikhan5950 2 жыл бұрын
Wow this really includes my manipulative choices. I always use charm, rational reasoning rewarding and benchmarking. Never remember using others.
@studyme-selftaughtlife4958
@studyme-selftaughtlife4958 5 жыл бұрын
Win-Lose is *NOT* the only solution. Best case will *ALWAYS* be a Win-Win.
@Instawise
@Instawise 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly..
@arya-mi3yd
@arya-mi3yd 5 жыл бұрын
Then you're a naive fuckwit There's only one winner and one loser
@zsolt3871
@zsolt3871 5 жыл бұрын
@@arya-mi3yd Really?
@outra5810
@outra5810 4 жыл бұрын
zero sum game
@cookie856
@cookie856 3 жыл бұрын
When the other is an egocentric jerk, you have to make this person lost, at minima for others. (No doubt my twin will kill me a day... But, hey, at least, everybody see how he is really!) (And that I have lot if trust issue and hate poeple don't mean how I see this jerk is biased)
@glittersparkles1526
@glittersparkles1526 4 жыл бұрын
Ive been manipulating my self to do stuff with some of these
@sastevideo931
@sastevideo931 3 ай бұрын
The test was real great thing I ever did, thanks at last 🙆
@soilder_of_heaven
@soilder_of_heaven 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, this helped increase my skills
@Bluebarss
@Bluebarss 3 жыл бұрын
I used to be manipulative and from my experience the reasoning tactic works best hands down, but it won’t hurt to throw some emotions in the mix haha.
@christinaskevi7171
@christinaskevi7171 2 жыл бұрын
Period
@N-Ice_
@N-Ice_ Жыл бұрын
True. Emotions will just make it more effective
@Floatingfr
@Floatingfr 9 ай бұрын
Cringe
@silentnight3192
@silentnight3192 5 жыл бұрын
I am a machevelic kind of personality and is kinda ingrained to me to know how to manipulate people. I didn't though realize it until a friend of mine told me that I tend to be manipulative. I felt bad, I learned for the shadow theory and I use that part of my character only for emergency encounters like : trying to avoid people I don't like or get people to want to get to know me. You know just for that first step
@miketython1550
@miketython1550 3 жыл бұрын
good man , thats the ethical way of using your gifts
@stopit3869
@stopit3869 2 жыл бұрын
people who say that they are the machiavelic kind did not even read the book
@N-Ice_
@N-Ice_ Жыл бұрын
Well, I guess I'm in a way close to you but worse
@btsarmy-km9uo
@btsarmy-km9uo Жыл бұрын
@@N-Ice_ what does that mean you Hippopotamus 💀
@N-Ice_
@N-Ice_ Жыл бұрын
@@btsarmy-km9uo it somewhy made You twice
@jellpancake
@jellpancake Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I really need this
@meryamle6270
@meryamle6270 2 жыл бұрын
Great video 😍😍😍 Thank you so sooooo much 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@Gates_Writes
@Gates_Writes 4 жыл бұрын
I’m using this to help my writing
@keepermovin5906
@keepermovin5906 4 жыл бұрын
Good alibi
@too_s1mple705
@too_s1mple705 3 жыл бұрын
@@keepermovin5906 nice
@ermelindaciaramella5271
@ermelindaciaramella5271 3 жыл бұрын
Are you writing a book?
@ashlynndiaz8146
@ashlynndiaz8146 3 жыл бұрын
LMFAOOO ME TO
@iloveyourshoes9550
@iloveyourshoes9550 4 жыл бұрын
Someone told me that I’m manipulative today, they’ve only known me for a week, I’ve never been told that before, so naturally I felt that it was a very strong choice of words.
@MeganMarieMasters
@MeganMarieMasters Жыл бұрын
coming from someone who has manipulative tactics and is persuasive there probably tryning get into your head and inflict self doubt...if they do this it makes it easier for them to have leverage on you and get what they want. EXAMPLE: *I tell somebody there manipulative knowing there not* *Im aware they arn't, so obviously there going to think about what I told them and question there own behavior* now if you guys get in an argument or they don't get what they want they can easily bring that up again bc they have already installed that impression in your head that your manipulative..Ive done this to a couple people and it works so its pretty easy to recognize when other people do it.
@water-sv2ou
@water-sv2ou Жыл бұрын
@@MeganMarieMasters hey I know I'm late but can you teach me how to be excellent manipulator? I followed video but I need more I need to perfect my manipulation.
@joseabad2552
@joseabad2552 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this information have a awesome day ❤
@alexx7283
@alexx7283 3 жыл бұрын
U know what hurts?? The fact that I'm dumb and slow.
@Galaxia53
@Galaxia53 3 жыл бұрын
I'm compelled to forgive you
@n3gi_
@n3gi_ 4 жыл бұрын
10) Social comparison... Nani??? So, my parents were manipulating me since I was a lil kid. But I was so genius that I never got trapped in their manipulation and never tried to study or top in my class. Damn, I was so smart!!!!
@Milena-ix5mq
@Milena-ix5mq 3 жыл бұрын
They probably missed the chance of manipulating you by saying they'll kick your dog 😂 By the way, I love your humor
@safwensnoussi9925
@safwensnoussi9925 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes we wish we don't know a lot of things 😉
@Mike.3v2.4_YT
@Mike.3v2.4_YT 4 ай бұрын
Sounds like you might've manipulated yourself lol
@محمد_حبيب_الله
@محمد_حبيب_الله Ай бұрын
I hope you comment is joking
@anonkiddo
@anonkiddo 5 жыл бұрын
this is like looking at the ocean and saying i see blue - you're missing out so many details
@amatacook
@amatacook 4 жыл бұрын
anonkiddo How so?
@reemayman6933
@reemayman6933 4 жыл бұрын
Truee
@TheMrNugget
@TheMrNugget Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the tips!
@pharmclare
@pharmclare 2 жыл бұрын
Great insights. Thank you 😊
@dankromancytv2529
@dankromancytv2529 4 жыл бұрын
Anytime I answer a question and somebody remains silent, I take it as a free “out” of the conversation and will wonder off into imagination land long before you get more answers out of me 😂
@BJ-jk3ex
@BJ-jk3ex 4 жыл бұрын
Lol, now I get the feeling that everything I do or say is in a way manipulation😂
@pah7514
@pah7514 3 жыл бұрын
Technically it's kinda is
@Yusa_Beach
@Yusa_Beach 3 жыл бұрын
It is, that's what language is for
@LittleJohnnyBrown
@LittleJohnnyBrown 2 жыл бұрын
You really gave an illogical and unreasonable thing as an example of reason and logical argument as a manipulation tactic
@carinyo123
@carinyo123 5 ай бұрын
He has manipulated us into watching this video...
@reiiso5188
@reiiso5188 4 жыл бұрын
The silent treatment is the only thing i can do-
@carlbismar203
@carlbismar203 4 жыл бұрын
Lol I manipulate a lot
@moka_dotz3149
@moka_dotz3149 4 жыл бұрын
Is it bad that I do almost anything except the “I’ll kick ur dog” and the flirty one
@rileybx2236
@rileybx2236 3 жыл бұрын
I'm so good at this
@Yusa_Beach
@Yusa_Beach 3 жыл бұрын
I'm decent at charms, depends on my mood though.
@myusernameissolonglolimgon8700
@myusernameissolonglolimgon8700 2 жыл бұрын
I'm strangely good at charms (Depends on my mood though)
@purposevibe8693
@purposevibe8693 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for explaining these manipulation tactics!👍
@demonderpz7937
@demonderpz7937 11 ай бұрын
Thanks for giving me a useful checkbook for how to get what I want :3
@youneskasdi
@youneskasdi 2 жыл бұрын
I like to believe that in any human interaction you are either the manipulator or the one being manipulated
@sena4929
@sena4929 Жыл бұрын
Yeah everything is black or white.
@user-tn7fh7mz7v
@user-tn7fh7mz7v 5 жыл бұрын
im gonna use this for completely the wrong reasons
@asandax6
@asandax6 5 жыл бұрын
if no one get's hurt go for it.
@mrmonster6044
@mrmonster6044 4 жыл бұрын
Asanda Ndimande well obviously people would be hurt
@mishifishy
@mishifishy 4 жыл бұрын
me as well
@jejron8967
@jejron8967 4 жыл бұрын
Asanda Ndimande they said for the “wrong” reasons...
@aphradite321
@aphradite321 4 жыл бұрын
@@jejron8967 I think they read it right 👉
@YourNickIsTaken
@YourNickIsTaken 5 жыл бұрын
Missed: get sympathy by telling some lie... ppl who have something common could more easily be convinced. Using my own status / telling you are an expert eg: trust me i'm an engineer Telling just a bunch of positive features = it means it has even more positive features than we would reasonably suspect. (teleshop effect) Free lunch - If i get some i'll give some: Mutuality / reciprocity Playing with others emotions: = charm
@shadowofseattle1338
@shadowofseattle1338 2 жыл бұрын
5 and 6 so far are really hitting home
@everiax7097
@everiax7097 3 жыл бұрын
I love how i do some of these i didnt even know in doing this-
@trix3763
@trix3763 4 жыл бұрын
I act dumb, I let them think their in control, but they have no clue who’s truly pulling the strings, they hurt me, but that will not be allowed again.
@realbruh850
@realbruh850 4 ай бұрын
nigga thinks he is the mc
@taisnayy
@taisnayy 4 жыл бұрын
im here cause I need to write a manipulative character for a story and have no idea how lol. This helped me a lot!
@Azariy0
@Azariy0 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will use them.
@DreamChaserOne
@DreamChaserOne Жыл бұрын
It's an excellent video on manipulation I've ever watched on KZbin.
@user-gy7bg1rv6o
@user-gy7bg1rv6o 4 жыл бұрын
Love the ending statement 😆
@bushcatbandit2566
@bushcatbandit2566 2 жыл бұрын
I love how most of their videos are “how to to spot emotional manipulators” or “how to avoid emotional manipulation” and then they just post a literal fucking tutorial video on how to manipulate someone.
@Just4Knowledge0
@Just4Knowledge0 Жыл бұрын
That is a good start for me.
@realgray227
@realgray227 3 жыл бұрын
Yes I will definitely use this as a warning
@narla_nio5312
@narla_nio5312 Жыл бұрын
When I was younger a friend gave me the silent treatment. Our friendship ended because I didn’t give in. Oh also I don’t rlly manipulate-I know I do I just can’t tell which one or what I rlly do. 😀
@aztlanmerlin
@aztlanmerlin 5 жыл бұрын
If there are ethical manipulations and unethical manipulations, why do you lump them both together? If it is ethical and your video vilifies it under the blanket term "manipulation" are you not gaslighting healthy group motivation?
@amritas2400
@amritas2400 5 жыл бұрын
Joseph Avery I don't see much need to classify the types of manipulations into ethical and unethical. Because *ALL* of these manipulations can be used both ethically and unethically. Hence they aren't lumped together. Some manipulations just SEEM more unethical than others. For example, the "hardball" manipulation seem criminal if you're thinking just about something like a criminal causing physical harm to a person to manipulate them into doing something (unethical). *But* it's ethical, when a parent spanks their kid so that he/she won't steal others' things anymore! (It's for the her/his own good) In short, the ethic of manipulation depends on the situation.
@aztlanmerlin
@aztlanmerlin 5 жыл бұрын
@@amritas2400 I like the way you think, but the channel says they're all bad and lists them so we can protect ourselves. By said understanding, am I not supposed to protect myself from your reason? You make perfect sense to me, but it is a manipulation, according to practical psychology.
@amritas2400
@amritas2400 5 жыл бұрын
@@aztlanmerlin Oh yes, you're right.
@SoggySplinter491ButtAcid-lc7gi
@SoggySplinter491ButtAcid-lc7gi 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for the ideas pal
@secondhanddarviperau
@secondhanddarviperau Жыл бұрын
This help me get ungrounded
@BuickGirl1986
@BuickGirl1986 5 жыл бұрын
When 8 out of 11 is 1 person in yo life
@she_prays_she_slays_demons
@she_prays_she_slays_demons 3 жыл бұрын
I actually want to manipulate my classmates because I'm going to perform a speech about manipulation. So this is very useful for information! Thank you😊
@she_prays_she_slays_demons
@she_prays_she_slays_demons 3 жыл бұрын
@Yuziferry 🤣🤣 not in a bad bad way! I swear! I just wanna control the way they think and feel!....okay, yh that sounds bad😅
@water-sv2ou
@water-sv2ou Жыл бұрын
@@she_prays_she_slays_demons I actually think controlling class isn't actually bad thing
@btsarmy-km9uo
@btsarmy-km9uo Жыл бұрын
@@she_prays_she_slays_demons for a speech you are speechless hippo admit that 💀🕵‍♂️
@ServeraServera0
@ServeraServera0 Жыл бұрын
If I wanted to make a presentation about it I would start calling out a bunch people for examples
@nikereebokpuma3406
@nikereebokpuma3406 7 ай бұрын
If I was your brother, I do ALL of your chores and let you take all the credit so you get paid/praised for them. Id clean up ALL of your messes and if you have friends over...I would clean their mess also! When you do something wrong, I would take blame for it so you dont get in trouble! Id do all of your homework so you can do what you want to do! I would never argue with you! When we are both home....Id wait on you hand and foot....you would never have to lift a finger!
@user-tn2lz9qn5b
@user-tn2lz9qn5b 2 жыл бұрын
thanks is will use this a lot
@Wilqu6
@Wilqu6 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this tutorial
@HealthPoliticsAndProtein
@HealthPoliticsAndProtein 3 жыл бұрын
Can you point out some published research on the relationship between big five and patterns of manipulation?
@algoritimodeumamente
@algoritimodeumamente Жыл бұрын
Ps: manipulation can be ethic, as marketing, persuasion, context use
@tarugardiner4287
@tarugardiner4287 Жыл бұрын
Wow! So clever , who would of thought .
@badjoj015
@badjoj015 2 жыл бұрын
This tactics will bring out the Narcissism in a lot of people One of the narcissists i know used a lot of these tactics on me
@alexis.flores
@alexis.flores 3 жыл бұрын
I swear my mom watched this sometime in my childhood and reversed social comparison. Then confused me even more by using social comparison
@hashtagneko
@hashtagneko Жыл бұрын
I'm just so shocked to find that i do half of these on a daily basis
@JamesSessions-rn1qo
@JamesSessions-rn1qo Жыл бұрын
This is a very educational video thank you for sharing thus sho had helped me tremendously
@lekshmananV
@lekshmananV Жыл бұрын
Good Explanation Sir
@rddawton2220
@rddawton2220 3 жыл бұрын
great content, Thanks, any book on this subject would you recommend?
@NonConDon
@NonConDon 5 жыл бұрын
I don't see how charm is a harmful tactic. If i'm trying to get my friend to play a sport with me and I tell them they'll be good and it and I genuinely mean it, what's the harm?
@xxMpEGxx
@xxMpEGxx 4 жыл бұрын
It can be used harmfully. Some of the tactics are not harmful per se.
@hi-zg2wq
@hi-zg2wq 2 жыл бұрын
You could use charm to attract somebody to you, for you to later on use them and leave. That is one example.
@Gas_GAS.
@Gas_GAS. Жыл бұрын
Thanks for more tactics - Jonan
@hotmess3615
@hotmess3615 Жыл бұрын
Ayanokoji laughing in corner 😏
@solareclipse1468
@solareclipse1468 Жыл бұрын
I use the logic manipulation tactic. Not necessarily in a negative or bad way, I don’t like to manipulate but I can change the reason to someone’s ideas by using logic. A common example of this would be where I pursued/convince someone to take a little bit more work than me by convincing them that it is logical to make the work load more ‘even’, and if I do it right instead of doing 50% of the work I do about 30%-40% of the work and be lazy. I would never make someone do something completely for me because I like doing things myself, I have a very specific way of doing things and they might mess up in the long run which can make me look bad, or make things worse. Also their are very specific conditions that half to be met in order for me to feel alright using this form of manipulation, if it will hurt someone I won’t use it and if the person is obviously tired/stressed I won’t use it. Regrettably I myself am very easily manipulated because I easily feel bad about doing things. If all else fails you can always beg your way out of going places and make the person feel bad for you by giving a genuine or well thought out excuse.
@bob_the_brick
@bob_the_brick Ай бұрын
Thanks, gonna use this for "good" purposes :)
@notreallykeven86
@notreallykeven86 Жыл бұрын
Finally, a tutorial i need
@wintersoldier8474
@wintersoldier8474 2 жыл бұрын
I have an ex-best friend who manipulated me by raging at me until my friends and I complied with what he wanted. He also touched 3 of my female friends inappropriately and manipulated me into the thinking he stopped, when he didn’t, and actually started being more sneaky.
@naindebhainde4352
@naindebhainde4352 3 жыл бұрын
Him -"which one is your manipulation technique? " Silent treatment-exists Moms -is for me?😆
@taeeboogiee
@taeeboogiee 2 жыл бұрын
Using this vid to counter the manipulative people
@himanshurexwal5665
@himanshurexwal5665 5 жыл бұрын
I always gets manipulated through reasons.
@moka_dotz3149
@moka_dotz3149 4 жыл бұрын
The only person who has manipulated me was my dad but because of it now I can defend myself from those who try to manipulate me which is kinda nice
@himanshurexwal5665
@himanshurexwal5665 4 жыл бұрын
@@moka_dotz3149 yes you get used to it after some time. I also has gotten better at cross questioning since last 11 months when I commented.
@zoehayes8362
@zoehayes8362 3 жыл бұрын
"Me realising I do 10 out of 11 of these and most of them work:My genius, it scares me."
@exposingproxystalkingorgan4164
@exposingproxystalkingorgan4164 Жыл бұрын
Oh yes, this video is very educational.
@JCBM1234
@JCBM1234 Ай бұрын
As a person who likes manipulation and dark psychology, this will definitely improve my skills
@gogaandrei24
@gogaandrei24 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing wrong with being a manipulative person. It's what you do with your abilities. You can do good with being a manipulator.
@minakrinah8655
@minakrinah8655 3 жыл бұрын
I could agree with that.
@batmangothamcity1
@batmangothamcity1 3 жыл бұрын
And jet you only have 100 subscribers 🤔
@elisabethsun7059
@elisabethsun7059 2 жыл бұрын
Yep
@gogaandrei24
@gogaandrei24 2 жыл бұрын
@@sena4929 I've got no clue what you're on about
@Nagieditz_
@Nagieditz_ 11 ай бұрын
Very useful for school
@محمد_حبيب_الله
@محمد_حبيب_الله Ай бұрын
For school?
@lollol-vg8dk
@lollol-vg8dk 11 ай бұрын
Learning how to manipulate not to do it but prevent it by knowing what to counter with is by far the greatest dagger and shield one can have especially when manipulation became a thing for almost everyone, not just politicians
@mdrm3413
@mdrm3413 2 жыл бұрын
Came here to finally be able to write a character for my story. Thanks 🤣
@skeleton1765
@skeleton1765 Жыл бұрын
Im a little confused on #7. If someone makes a commitment to something and they don’t, how am I manipulating them? You said you would be there and you weren’t. I am upset with you. That is a perfectly healthy reaction. I can see that used against someone sexually, but that’s and obvious circumstance. That’s really more abuse than manipulation.
@eletraf
@eletraf Жыл бұрын
Situations can be abusive and have manipulation involved, manipulation is just getting what you want by psychologically pressing, confusing, tricking or getting submission
@lav9815
@lav9815 3 жыл бұрын
Watching this so I can write lore and make it seem real
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